Don't Listen To Us with Mandy Patinkin and Kathryn Grody

Job Loss, Identity, and Our Loudest Rants 12.08.2026 44мин

What happens when the job you've built your identity around suddenly disappears? A live guest asks Mandy Patinkin and Kathryn Grody how to navigate the emotional fallout of losing a job—and how to rediscover who you are when your work no longer defines you. Also: a listener sends a rant so the family responds with their own pet peeves (airports and noisy restaurants). Plus: a home repair dilemma, and public domain karaoke.  Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. 👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode every week! 🎧 Listen to the podcast on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT  📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia  #MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs Chapters: 00:00 Public Domain Singalong 00:56 Podcast Returns and Introductions 01:38 Nicest Thing Anyone Has Ever Done For You 03:16 We Won a Webby Award! (Actually 2)  04:13 “I’ve Had It!”: A Listener Rant  06:57 What’s a Queertriot?  07:46 Petty Grievances Game 08:53 The Problem With Loud Restaurants 10:10 Lyrics You Cannot Hear 11:30 A Rant About Airports 12:50 Holiday Rants and Jell O Fish 14:30 A Gefilte Fish in Jello Story 16:01 Separating Worth From Work 17:05 Should You Take a Break After Being Fired? 18:25 How Actors Protect Their Self-Worth Between Jobs 19:42 Passion vs Paycheck 21:24 Handling Creative Dry Spells 23:48 Kindness in Hard Times 25:28 Your Identity Beyond Work 28:43 Home Repairs and Procrastination 33:40 Pool Privilege  35:44 Public Domain Sing Along! 40:11 The Unexpected Third Show Dates and Tickets Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What Happens to Pets After They Die? 05.08.2026 44мин

Do pets go to heaven? How do you talk to kids about sex? And, would Mandy Patinkin and Kathryn Grody trade their son, Gideon, for world peace?  We bring back our most talked about guest - pet psychic Danielle MacKinnon. She shares what she believes happens to pets after they die. Mandy Patinkin, Kathryn Grody and their son, Gideon, share their takes on how to talk to kids about sex. Childhood memories ensue, equal parts hilarious and traumatizing. Plus, a major easter egg is revealed! Did you catch it?  Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. 👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode every week! 🎧 Listen to the podcast on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT  📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia  #MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs Chapters: 00:00 Coming up, Pet Psychic Danielle MacKinnon returns.  00:52 The Easter egg you've been waiting for - finally explained.  03:30 Mandy Patinkin reveals one of his biggest secrets.  05:08 Listener question: What happens to our pets after they die? 08:11 Mandy on what pets give us. 10:45 Pet psychic Danielle MacKinnon. 11:20 Do pets have an afterlife? Danielle explains.  12:10 Mandy and Gideon reconnect with beloved pets.  14:37 Mandy remembers Sebastian—and asks one last question about a beloved memory.  17:30 Gideon asks about his childhood pet rabbit.  19:51 How do you talk to kids about sex? 20:34 Mandy remembers his unforgettable "sex talk.” 24:59 Kathryn Grody on why America gets the conversation wrong.  26:28 Kathryn's memories about the "sex talk.” 27:27 Kathryn's "vagina circles" story. 30:14 What it takes to build trust before difficult conversations with kids.  35:00 Hang Time: Would You Trade? 36:02 Would Mandy and Kathryn trade Gideon for world peace? 38:30 Goodbye...and a surprise song - of course! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mandy Patinkin Wants to Be Composted (Yes, Really) 29.07.2026 43мин

Mandy, Kathryn and Gideon Grody-Patinkin kick things off with a spirited round of Would You Rather? They settle an important debate: should you get a pet T-Rex? Then, listener Robyn asks a deeply personal question: what's the best way to honor her late husband? And Mandy is passionately all-in on human composting, leading to an emotional discussion about death, memorials, and why it's so important to tell your loved ones exactly what you want done with your remains. Finally, the tables turn as Mandy and Kathryn get to ask Gideon the questions for a change. Naturally, a rant about the state of the world ensues.  Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. 👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode every week! 🎧 Listen to the podcast on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT  📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia  #MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs  3 Million Butts Love TUSHY. Get 10% off TUSHY with the code DONTLISTEN at https://hellotushy.com/DONTLISTEN  Go to quince.com/dontlisten for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.  Chapters: 00:00 Mandy, Kathryn & Gideon Intro 00:30 Would You Rather? Game 03:01 Would You Keep a Pet Dinosaur? 04:28 Can You Train a T. Rex? 09:36 Listener Robyn's ALS Story 11:12 How Should You Honor a Loved One? 13:03 Human Composting Explained 18:02 Choosing Natural Organic Reduction 21:57 Green Burial & Human Composting in New York 22:16 Shroud Burials and Saying Goodbye 23:14 How Human Composting Actually Works 23:41 Why Touch Matters in Grief 24:09 Talking to Your Family About Death 27:58 Mandy Patinkin Wants to Be Composted 30:02 Gravestones, Memorials & Legacy 32:15 Making Peace with Death 34:58 Why You Should Share Your Final Wishes 36:43 Mandy & Kathryn Ask Gideon Anything 38:42 Finding Joy in an Anxious World 41:20 Listener Questions & Closing Thoughts 42:18 Credits & Where to Watch Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How AI is Scaring Hollywood 22.07.2026 51мин

Will AI replace actors? Could it take away the jobs that launch creative careers? And how will we know what's real online? If you've wondered what AI means for actors, writers, musicians, filmmakers—or anyone whose work depends on creativity—this conversation is for you. This week, Mandy Patinkin, Kathryn Grody and Gideon are joined by Tony Award-winning sound designer Mikaal Sulaiman for a fascinating conversation about AI, Hollywood, creativity and what should stay unmistakably human. They debate whether AI is inevitable, whether your face and voice should belong to you, and why the biggest impact may be on the next generation trying to break into film, TV and music. Plus, Mandy’s alter ego and Gideon surprises his parents with an unexpected hobby list that includes burlesque, pickleball and bodybuilding. Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. 👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode every week! 🎧 Listen to the podcast on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT  📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia  #MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs Thanks to Article for sponsoring this podcast! Article is offering our listeners $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more. To claim, visit https://www.article.com/dontlisten and the discount will be automatically applied at checkout.  Chapters: 00:00 Mandy Patinkin and Kathryn Grody sing the national anthem (kind of).  00:39 Remembering Zohran Mamdani’s inauguration and Somewhere Over the Rainbow.  02:19 Meet Mandy's underground alter ego - born in the crust of the earth.  07:16 Can Mandy & Kathryn guess today's mystery guest? 09:40 Meet our guest: Mikaal Sulaiman, Tony Award-winning sound designer for Death of a Salesman with Nathan Lane.  14:55 Will anyone get their first acting job anymore? 19:22 Kathryn pushes back: AI isn't inevitable. 23:05 How do we prove we're human online? 25:29 Can you still tell what's AI and what's human? 27:38 Is AI helping creativity—or replacing it? 30:49 Can AI own your face? 32:55 Is AI killing entry-level jobs in creative industries? 36:54 Would Mandy Patinkin let AI replace him? 42:51 Gideon gives Mandy & Kathryn the world's strangest hobby quiz.  45:40 Bodybuilding vs. strength training, what's the difference?  46:13 Never give up on hotness.  47:48 Kathryn's surprise trumpet performance.  48:02 Goodbye! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

New Relationship Anxiety: Bodily Functions & Being Human 15.07.2026 46мин

We will be back next week. This episode is for the theatre nerds. We see you! It’s also for anyone who has ever wondered how to navigate bodily functions in a new relationship. So, everyone. Plus, a moving segment on being your own cheerleader. Oh, and Kathryn brings back the word ‘respair.’ Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. 👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode every week! 🎧 Listen to the podcast on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT  📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia  #MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Try This: Tenants Are Fighting for Their Right to Clean Air 08.07.2026 34мин

Enjoy this episode of Good Things, a Lemonada show that amplifies the good work being done by activists and organizers all over the country. Most people think of pollution as something outside, like smog and exhaust. But gas stoves, ovens, furnaces, and water heaters can actually release nitrogen dioxide directly into your home. For renters, that's a problem without easy solutions: unlike homeowners, they can't simply swap in safer, cleaner energy sources, and landlords and policymakers have been slow to act. In this episode, host Gloria Riviera speaks with Adama Moussa Harouna and Tanushree Dutta Isaacman, organizers at Action in Montgomery, about their work pushing for safer living conditions, lower toxic emissions, and a more sustainable energy future for renters. This episode was made in partnership with Action in Montgomery. To learn more about their work, visit actioninmontgomery.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do Your Friends Have to Share Your Values? 01.07.2026 51мин

Should you tell a friend you think their job is unethical? Mandy and Kathryn disagree. A listener asks about using AI as a creative. Mandy and Kathryn play the role of their lives - AI bots. Find out what prompts they used. Oh, and Gene Kelly’s wife calls to chat about the famous dancer and actor’s final years and his advice to Mandy. This episode originally aired on 11/19/2025. Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. 👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode every week! 🎧 Listen to the podcast on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT 📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia #MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Chapters: 00:00 - How we’re feeling today. 01:02 - Mandy's favourite vs Gideon’s favourite joke. 03:09 - Would you tell a friend to quit a job you think is unethical? Mandy and Kathryn disagree. 15:01 - What are the boundaries of using AI in the creative space? 18:40 - Becky gets up! Did you see her? 19:09 - Kathryn’s fear of AI and how Mandy uses it in his concerts. 23:45 - Mandy and Kathryn try their hand at playing an AI bot. Find out what prompts they gave. 25:46 - Iconic dancer Gene Kelly’s widow - Patricia Kelly - asks a question! 27:23 - Gene Kelly’s advice to a young Mandy. 32:27 - How Gene Kelly and Patricia met and other memories. 38:21 - Gene Kelly’s later years and lessons in aging. 45:02 - Singing in the Rain is public domain…so the family sings! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Does Wisdom Come With Age? Starting Over After a Move 24.06.2026 37мин

A surprise Off-Off-Broadway debut. The most unforgettable compliment Kathryn Grody and Mandy Patinkin have ever received. One of them left us speechless. Does wisdom always come with age? Or, is that just something older people tell us? And, a question many listeners can relate to: how do you rebuild your life after a major move and start over in a new place? Plus, Kathryn tries her hand at K-Pop - generational culture divides be damned. Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. 👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode every week! 🎧 Listen to the podcast on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT 📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia #MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs Chapters: 00:00 Becky’s musical debut. In case you missed it! 01:50 Welcome to Don’t Listen to Us! We’re all about the compliments. 02:00 The best compliment Kathryn Grody has ever received. 02:45 A generational culture feud. Gena Rowlands, anyone? John Cassavetes? Joe and Gail Papp? Slam Dance Butterfingers? ;) 04:55 Mandy Patinkin’s most memorable “compliment.” Gideon’s response? “Wow.” 07:44 The best compliment Mandy Patinkin and Kathryn Grody ever gave each other. 08:19 Does wisdom always come with age? And, when have you felt the wisest? 09:50 Mandy Patinkin “thinks too much.” 11:04 Kathryn Grody’s thoughts on what keeps you wise. 11:55 Kathryn Grody’s impression of K-Pop. 13:27 The one tip that will help you become wise. 14:10 Dog treat taste test… Again? 14:25 Family’s old dog, Nondo, and the disputed energy bar story. 16:03 A family friend joins us. He shares his story of fleeing Afghanistan and what it was like to start from scratch and settle in America. 20:18 Community, social life and neighbourly connections. What our family friend misses most about Afghanistan. 21:55 Listener question: How do you adjust to a new life and start over? 27:05 How do you remember who you are when everything and everyone around you is new? 31:00 Goodbyes. Send us your questions. Credits. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have You Ever Encountered a Ghost? 17.06.2026 41мин

A listener asks Mandy and Kathryn whether they've ever encountered a ghost. Stories about the paranormal, being present at a birth and a death, and the surprise career turning points that shape a life. Also, a conversation about how theater should be more welcoming to audiences with diverse needs, and the raucous return of the Dating Game. Do Mandy Patinkin and Kathryn Grody know each other’s favorite movie? Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. Check out Touretteshero.com! Their mission is to create an inclusive and socially just world for disabled and non-disabled people through cultural practice. Watch on Spotify. Spotify Premium users get no commercial breaks on our show. 👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode every week! 🎧 Listen to the podcast on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT 📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia #MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs Chapters: 00:00 Tech Troubles and Home on the Range 00:25 Morning Check-In With Mandy Patinkin and Kathryn Grody 01:33 Breathing Exercise for Stress Relief 02:19 Collagen Coffee and Wellness Trends 03:22 Listener Question: Do You Believe in Ghosts? 03:47 Ghost Stories and Theater Hauntings 06:45 Mandy's Paranormal Experience of Death 09:16 How Small Moments Shape Our Lives 09:53 The Paper Bag Memory That Changed Everything 12:18 Rewriting Your Life Story 13:15 Kathryn's Unexpected Broadway Break 14:12 Auditions, Connection, and Being Seen 14:59 The Power of Giving Birth 16:18 Listener Question from a Neurodivergent Theater Lover 18:33 Making Theater Welcoming for Everyone 19:04 Relaxed Performances and Autism-Friendly Theater 23:45 Accessibility, Inclusion, and Advocacy in the Arts 27:18 Tourette Syndrome at the Edinburgh Fringe 31:58 Dating Game! 33:46 Do Mandy and Kathryn Know Each Other’s Favorite Movie? 36:29 Credits, Subscribe, and Listener Questions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Dating App Episode (Plus a Rare Sondheim Story) 10.06.2026 41мин

What would happen if Mandy Patinkin and Kathryn Grody joined a dating app? In this episode, they imagine their dating profiles, invent wildly different dating apps of their own, and reveal what they're really looking for in human connection. Plus, a listener question about navigating a younger, condescending boss at work. And Mandy tells the unforgettable story of the first time Stephen Sondheim played him "Finishing the Hat" during rehearsal for Sunday in the Park with George—and why, decades later, he still rarely sings the song outside the show. Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. 👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode every week! 🎧 Listen to the podcast on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT 📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia #MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Chapters: 00:00 Home on the Range! 01:30 Mandy and Kathryn Catch Up 02:58 What If Mandy and Kathryn Joined Dating Apps? 04:04 Dating Apps Explained (and Misunderstood) 05:26 The Weirdest Niche Dating Apps 06:50 Dating App Dealbreakers 07:46 The Hugging App: Would It Work? 11:09 Building Mandy and Kathryn's Dating Profiles 14:59 Inventing Our Own Dating Apps 15:59 What is a Cultural Touchstone That Changed You? 17:17 Empathy Across Generations 18:22 Learning Empathy and Perspective 20:25 Why Kathryn Changed Her Mind About Musicals 21:21 Mandy Patinkin on the Origins of "Finishing the Hat" 23:19 The First Time Stephen Sondheim Shared "Finishing the Hat" 26:42 How Mandy Felt When He First Sang “Finishing the Hat” 29:13 Workplace Advice: Dealing With a Younger Boss 35:38 Giving Creative Notes Across Generations 37:52 Final Thoughts and Credits Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why We’re All Addicted to Our Phones 03.06.2026 39мин

A teen asks the question we’re all struggling with: how do you protect your mental health when your phone, social media, and the news cycle never stop? We talk doomscrolling, screen time and the pressure to always be “plugged in.” And, what’s the best excuse to get out of a social obligation? We debate the most believable exits to cancel plans and the guilt of saying no. Plus, can Kathryn survive a pop culture quiz? Does she know who Taylor Swift is dating? Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. 👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode every week! 🎧 Listen to the podcast on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT 📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia #MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs #PhoneAddiction #Doomscrolling #DigitalDetox #ScreenTime #GenZ #GenZCulture #InternetCulture #MentalHealth Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Chapters: 00:00 - Gideon Grody-Patinkin finally comes out from behind the camera! 00:28 - Kathryn Grody takes a pop culture quiz. Who’s Taylor Swift dating? What’s main character syndrome? And what are girl dinners? 03:51 - A teen listener asks about phone addiction and how to maintain your mental health. 05:15 - How to combat doomscrolling with joy and hope. 11:57 - Family guest Ivan Cash suggests phone boundaries that can help with phone addiction. 12:54 - Nightly doomscrolling before bed. Are alarm clocks the solution? 16:39 - A phone meditation you can do too. 22:50 - How do you work with family without ruining the relationship? Gideon asks for a friend. 25:30 - What’s the best excuse to get out of a social obligation? 26:47 - We debate the best and most believable injuries to cancel plans. 33:21 - Can we be honest about not wanting to go? The guilt of saying no to social obligations. 34:00 - Goodbyes. Credits. Thank yous! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

TOMS Founder Blake Mycoskie Tells Michael Pollan How Success Broke Him 27.05.2026 1ч 4мин

New series sneak peek! No Magic Pill is hosted by TOMS Shoes founder Blake Mycoskie, who fell apart after building and selling one of the most recognized brands on the planet. After a years-long journey through every therapy and treatment imaginable, Blake is finally talking honestly about the dark side of success and the reality of mental health. In No Magic Pill, Blake travels the country to sit down with survivors, experts, and cultural icons who have looked into the darkness and found a way out. These aren’t stories of quick fixes; they are honest conversations about the daily choices, big and small, that create a path forward. When Blake was at the lowest point in his life, a small dose of a psychoactive cacti called San Pedro showed him the truth underneath everything. He recorded the session and in this episode he shares certain moments with journalist Michael Pollan (author of How to Change Your Mind) to break down what happened. They discuss the power of pairing psychedelics with meditation, the breakthroughs that can come with ego disillusion, and the misguided assumption that’s driving the belief that AI can become conscious. Plus, how Michael’s experiencing gardening while on mushrooms inspired the opening chapter of his new book, A World Appears. In this conversation you’ll learn: Why psychedelics are unlike any other drug The importance of set and setting when taking plant medicine Why light doses are often more effective than heavier doses How to break the pattern of ruminating thoughts The critical period after a psychedelic experience The opportunities and dangers of AI therapy Enough Foundation's mission is to spread reminders in every form — bracelets, messages, actions, community — until feeling ENOUGH becomes the cultural default. To learn more, visit weareenough.co. Stay up to date with Lemonada on X, Facebook, and Instagram. For a list of current sponsors and discount codes for this and every other Lemonada show, go to lemonadamedia.com/sponsors. Joining Lemonada Premium is a great way to support our show and get bonus content. Subscribe today at lemonadapremium.com. Disclaimer: This episode is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical questions or concerns you may have Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Death Doula Answers What Happens When We Die 20.05.2026 46мин

Are you ready for a sharp turn? One minute we’re debating love languages, pickleball etiquette, and loyalty to your barber. Next, we sit down with a death doula/soul midwife who shares what dying feels like in the room, how to navigate grief, and the emotional realities of end-of-life care. She helps Mandy with a pressing question and a listener who asks how to support a friend with a terminal illness. There’s laughter, awkwardness, surprising honesty, and a reminder that joy can still exist even in life’s hardest moments. Correction: The quote, "We're all here to walk each other home" is misattributed in our podcast. It’s by American spiritual teacher and author Ram Dass. Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. 👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode every week! 🎧 Listen to the podcast on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT 📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia #MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Chapters: 00:00 - Coming Up: Pickleball drama, love languages & talking about death. 00:44 - One of us is hyper. It’s Mandy Patinkin. Plus, O Susanna with spoons. 01:26 - What are the 5 love languages? 04:19 - Should you switch barbers or hairdressers? Where does loyalty come in? 09:55 - What are relationship pickleball rules when playing with your partner or spouse? 14:03 - One of Kathryn Grody’s favourite childhood memories about Gideon. 14:16 - Mind Bowling LIVE! 16:16 - What does a death doula do? 18:53 - How Elisabeth Kübler-Ross changed our thinking about dying and the stages of grief. 20:28 - Why we avoid talking about death — and why we shouldn’t. 22:05 - What are the biggest surprises about dying and end-of-life care? 23:29 - A difficult end-of-life decision Mandy struggles with. What should I do with my body? 29:17 - How can I support a friend with a terminal diagnosis? 33:33 - Why this conversation meant so much to Mandy. 35:18 - How does joy & humour play a role in death and end-of-life care? A moving story. 39:55 - What is NEDA? The National End-of-Life Doula Alliance explained. 43:30 - Send us your questions. Goodbye. Credits. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Time Slipping? Mandy Patinkin & Kathryn Grody on Aging 13.05.2026 45мин

A totally original, absolutely unhinged birthday song. Danielle writes in with a big question about feeling like time is moving too fast. And a round of Scary Not Scary tackles the burning question: what would you do if a baby bear showed up in your sink? Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. 👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode every week! 🎧 Listen to the podcast on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT 📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia #MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs #LifeAdvice #Aging #BirthdaySong #TimeIsFlying Go to quince.com/dontlisten for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Chapters: 00:00 Anxiety About Time Moving Fast 00:45 Original Birthday Song! 00:59 New Toy Chaos 02:02 Fashion Tips (Not Really!) 03:30 Speaking Out in Dark Times 06:25 Encouraged by Community Activism 7:43 Why Mandy Uses His Voice 09:43 Quince Ad Break 11:43 Booking.com Sponsor 13:54 Listener Question Setup 14:12 Is Age a Barrier? 17:07 Age Is Just Number 20:55 Live Caller: Danielle 23:14 Why Does It Feel Like Time is Speeding Up? 26:19 Physics and Play 28:07 What the Pandemic Did to Time 29:56 Why Time Feels Faster with Age 30:57 Loss and Life Lessons 33:23 Slow Down to Live 36:07 Birthday Plans and Video Games 37:44 Happy Birthday Serenade 40:23 Scary Not Scary Game 41:31 Bear in the Sink? Now What? 44:36 Credits and Premium Plug Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How Do You Forgive Yourself? 06.05.2026 38мин

A listener asks about addiction and self-forgiveness. A family friend drops by for a moving discussion about sobriety, relapse, and learning to move forward. Plus, Kathryn judges Gideon’s beard rather harshly, and a story about a first kiss that changed everything. Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. 👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode every week! 🎧 Listen to the podcast on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT 📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia #MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Chapters: 00:00 Intro: Beards, Friendship & Forgiveness 01:16 Who Loves a Beard? 04:05 Boundaries & Emotional Limits 04:44 Surprise Guest Drops By! 07:49 Meet Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner Maureen Laffey 08:25 How We Met Good Friend Maureen 10:32 First Kiss Stories 11:32 The Secret to Long Friendships 12:39 Jack Hofsiss’ Story: Caregiving and Illness 14:07 The Ann-Margret Elevator Story 15:32 A Relationship Beyond Caregiver and Patient 16:56 Michael’s Voice Note About Addiction Struggles 18:18 Learning Self-Forgiveness 23:04 Letting Go of the “God Complex” 26:53 Different Paths to Sobriety 29:36 Medication and Recovery 32:24 One-Word Tributes to Old Friends 34:17 Saying Goodbye 35:37 Credits & Subscribe Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

True NYC Stories We’ve Never Told (Until Now) 29.04.2026 41мин

Roaches. Drug heists. Burglaries. Sandwiches. Welcome to New York. In this anything-goes episode, we pause your questions and dive into our unbelievable and sometimes oddly hilarious stories about life in NYC, including when we were young, struggling actors. Plus, a tale about Martin Sheen that goes nowhere. Oh, and an easter egg revealed that you haven’t noticed yet. Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. 👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode every week! 🎧 Listen to the podcast on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT 📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia #MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Chapters: 00:00 This week on our podcast… 01:07 An enthused hello. Plus, Gideon’s first love(s). 02:32 The easter egg reveal. Did you catch it? 03:30 Travel, Venice and rats. 07:04 City living, nudity and bathroom windows. 13:51 Biking in New York City. Mandy confronts Gideon on not sharing stories about his life. 17:26 The legend of Peanuts. 20:48 Our first reference in this episode to the Martin Sheen story that goes nowhere. 21:26 Mandy reminisces on his early days as a struggling actor in NY and shares a wild story involving his mom. 28:38 Kathryn’s first cookie drug deal and her maybe, kind of close encounter with a drug heist. 33:09 When Kathrny’s dad visited her during her early days in NY. 35:10 Gideon tries to explain the sexual practice of sounding to his parents. 37:25 Becky serenades us! 38:05 Byebyes. Credits. Send us your questions. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A 93-Year-Old Shares Secrets to a Creative Life 22.04.2026 43мин

What can a 93-year-old teach us about life, creativity, and happiness? Mandy Patinkin and Kathryn Grody sit down with a 93-year-old artist to talk about aging, staying creative, and finding joy at every stage of life. They also answer a listener question about how to raise hopeful kids in difficult times, and a game of Would You Rather? takes an unexpected (and hilarious) turn. Have a question, story, or unspeakable thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or email askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. 👉 Subscribe, so you don’t miss a new episode every week! 🎧 Listen on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT 📱 Follow: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia #MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs #LifeAdvice #Creativity #Parenting Chapters: 00:00 Coming Up: Life Advice From a 93-Year-Old 00:51 Mandy Gets Swallowed by a Whale 02:18 Listener Question: Parenting Kids in Dark Times 04:13 How to Raise Hopeful Kids Today 07:12 Why Activism and Community Matter 11:05 Using History to Stay Hopeful 14:30 Meet Doris Peltzman, Age 93 15:51 How Gideon Met Doris 20:33 How to Protect Your Creative Spark 22:19 Choosing Joy Every Day 23:15 How Creativity Changes With Age 24:19 Creativity Is Being Alive 26:05 Why Comparing Your Work Can Hurt Creativity 27:07 What Life Is Like in Your Nineties 28:54 Unexpected Kindness From Strangers 32:19 Advice From a 93-Year-Old: Keep Growing 34:38 Would You Rather? Game 38:19 Send Us Your Art! 38:50 Outro & Credits Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Listener Favorite: Why Don’t I Feel Like the Age I Am? 15.04.2026 51мин

This episode originally aired on October 22, 2025. How to feel young when the body gets old, why joy is resistance, and a call from Brit about blowing up her professional life. Also, Gideon shocks Mandy and Kathryn with a family secret. Have a question, story, or weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Advice for Aspiring Actors (Broadway Isn’t Key) 08.04.2026 42мин

Why do we discourage people from a career in the arts? A young person talks to Mandy & Kathryn about how to make it in musical theatre. Hint: Broadway shouldn’t be the goal. Plus, a peak inside Gideon’s brain - as a kid doing performance art about his neighbours. Oh, and the Road Runner makes an appearance. Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Should You Stay or Leave When You Hate Where You Live? 01.04.2026 39мин

If you move somewhere new and hate it… do you stick it out or start over? Mandy and Kathryn have very different answers. In this episode, they get into moving regret, how to decide whether to stay or leave, and the emotional reality of starting over in a new place. Also: creative and surprising ways to cope with grief, the rituals that keep people we’ve lost close, and Kathryn reveals her secret, longstanding hatred of jokes. Mandy and Kathryn’s guest is Carla Fernandez, author of Renegade Grief: A Guide to the Wild Ride of Life After Loss. Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices