Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage

Making Your Spouse Your Best Friend 01.06.2026 56min

Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley emphasize that a strong marriage rests on friendship! Author and speaker, Becky Harling discusses how a past breast cancer diagnosis reshaped her priorities toward intentional friendships. She highlights bringing fun and adventure back, expressing gratitude, avoiding complacency, practicing wise vulnerability, and setting boundaries to prevent over-functioning or controlling behavior, including tighter safeguards around opposite-sex friendships. Greg and Erin also encourage reminiscing and flirting. In a listener question, they advise a husband navigating his wife’s perimenopause to stay curious and educate himself.   Friend-Wise: Practical Ideas for Richer Relationships   Marriage Assessment   Understanding Menopause   Hope Restored   Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or Email   Contact the show!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

What To Pray For Your Spouse 24.05.2026 48min

Do you feel like your prayer life with your spouse could be better? Do you usually pray about circumstantial things? Mike and Melissa Kruger share about 5 Things to Pray for Your Spouse that will transform your marriage and draw you both closer to Christ.   5 Things To Pray For Your Spouse   Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or Email   Contact the show!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

The 5 S's of Conflict Resolution 18.05.2026 56min

How do you and your spouse handle conflict? Greg and Erin share insights from Dave and Ann Wilson today. They discuss common conflict styles (e.g., yielding, defending, resolving) and emphasize that conflict is often driven by deeper emotions and desires, requiring an open heart, slowing down, listening, and sometimes choosing to “solve or sleep” when exhausted. In the Q&A, they advise a listener to describe behaviors without labeling, using “I feel” statements. It's like a free counseling session when you listen to Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage!   The Vertical Marriage   Here's a Blank Bingo Card   Learn About The Reactive & Care Cycles   Check Out The Marriage Assessment   Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or Email   Contact the show!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

What I Wish My Spouse Knew 11.05.2026 34min

Greg and Erin talk about what each of us wish our spouse knew about our inner most secrets and desires in marriage. Sometimes it's hard to express our feelings. Greg and Erin share ideas on how to access our emotions, and share them with our spouse. This is a program that both wives and husbands need to hear! We also give you specific scripture to pray over various situations, and we are encouraged by a testimony from a listener.   Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage   Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or Email   Contact the show!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Celebrating The Beauty of Women For Mother's Day 04.05.2026 46min

Erin and Greg share their thoughts on the value of women and we hear excerpts from author and former CEO of Mothers Of Preschoolers (MOPS), Elisa Morgan. She shared how women should find their beauty by looking through God's eyes. We'll also talk about the upcoming Mother's Day podcast series from Focus On The Family called Legacy of Love.   Hello, Beauty Full   Listen to the Legacy of Love podcast series celebrating Mother's Day   Dealing With Inlaws   Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or Email   Contact the show!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Legacy of Love Mother's Day Sneak Peak 28.04.2026 16min

This special edition encourages moms on their journey of motherhood, and it's hosted by Whitney Lowe and Erin Smalley. We're covering why becoming a mom is a gift, finding your identity in Christ, hope for tired moms, and ways to celebrate Mother's Day!   Praying The Scriptures For Your Children: Discover How To Pray God's Purpose For Their Lives   Listen to the Legacy of Love podcast series celebrating Mother's Day   Want to get involved in our social media challenge for Mother's Day?   Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or Email   Contact the show!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Get Back Up Singers For Your Marriage - HC 27.04.2026 47min

Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley have a treat for you today! Get ready for a presentation from Pastor Ted Cunningham, highlighting humorous, scripture-based encouragement to revere marriage. Greg and Erin give a “Share and Compare” date-night exercise, an a Q&A, from a husband whose wife feels “touched out” after caring for five young kids. Share this show link with friends!   Use the Marriage Assessment Tool! It's free!   Check Out the Reactive Cycle Assessment Tool!   Marriage Champions   Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or Email   Contact the show!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Selfless Sex, Pt. 2 20.04.2026 51min

We're continuing our conversation on selfless sex with Pastor Doug Hanna, who shares his encouragement to pursue sexual satisfaction. He goes into how self-forgetful sex is a lifestyle, an attitude, its patient, and it seeks pleasure. Greg and Erin also have an exercise with foods around the world and date nights. We also answer a listener question about a spouse's lies and affairs.   Sex and Self-Forgetfulness   Use the Marriage Assessment Tool! It's free!   Check Out the Reactive Cycle Assessment Tool!   Look Into Hope Restored Marriage Intensive   Healing Separation Article   Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or Email   Contact the show!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Selfless Sex, Pt. 1 13.04.2026 47min

On this episode, we're talking about Christian married sex with Pastor Doug Hannah, author of Sex and Self Forgetfulness. Does your sex life reflect covenant love through self-forgetfulness rather than selfishness transactional “getting what I’m owed"? We'll talk about serving your spouse, sinning against conscience, and even losing one’s voice. Boundaries matter, and sex is designed by God to be mutually pleasurable and received with thanksgiving. Well also play “compliment ping pong” and answer an email about a manipulative husband.   Sex and Self-Forgetfulness   Use the Marriage Assessment Tool! It's free!   Check Out the Reactive Cycle Assessment Tool!   Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or Email   National Suicide Prevention Lifeline Number - 1-800-273-TALK (8255)   Contact the show!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Spouse-ing On Empty 06.04.2026 54min

Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley welcome guests Ashley Durand and Kristen Roush authors of Mothering on Empty. We'll talk about the pressures that can leave spouses depleted, and how joy, identity in Christ, and an eternal perspective anchor marriage without idolizing it. We'll give practical tips for husbands of exhausted wives: empathy over fixing, initiative without being asked, avoiding competitions over tiredness, setting social media boundaries, and addressing the “mental load” so no one feels alone.   Mothering On Empty   Use the Marriage Assessment Tool! It's free!   Check Out the Reactive Cycle Assessment Tool!   Here's Information on Hope Restored   Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or Email   National Suicide Prevention Lifeline Number - 1-800-273-TALK (8255)   Contact the show!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Research on Happy Marriages 30.03.2026 57min

What makes a successful marriage? Today, Greg and Erin feature a presentation by best-selling author Shaunti Feldhahn. She offers insights from research she's conducted on what makes for a happier, more fulfilling marriage. She also outlines practical ways to develop a more Christ-like relationship with your spouse. We'll challenge you to recreate your first date, and we'll answer a listener question about whether its Biblical to have joint bank accounts.   For Men/Women Only Bundle   Conversation Starters for Couples   Learn More About The Hope Restored Marriage Intensive   Take The Reactive Cycle Assessment Tool   Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or Email   Nurturing The Heart of Your Spouse Audio Collection   Contact the show!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Work on Yourself, Not Your Spouse Pt. 2 23.03.2026 35min

Pastor Dan Seaborn returns for more great conversation on reflection in marriage. When was the last time you asked yourself, "What caused me to do that?" when you responded to your spouse in a not-so-productive way? Greg and Erin also have an exercise to build connection that will open up your spouse's inner world, and we answer a listener question about how often to have sex in a healthy marriage.   The Necessary Nine   Take the Marriage Assessment Tool   Learn More About The Hope Restored Marriage Intensive   Take The Reactive Cycle Assessment Tool   Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or Email   Contact the show!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Work on Yourself, Not Your Spouse Pt. 1 16.03.2026 52min

Join Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley with their guest, Pastor Dan Seaborn as he describes how he and his wife transformed their marriage over the last three years. There's clinical wisdom for serious issues, but shared in casual and productive ways on this episode. We also share some questions to open up your spouse's inner world, as well as answer a listener's question on how often married couples should have sex.   The Necessary Nine   Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or Email   Call our Counseling Line   Here's insight on a Healing Separation   Contact the show!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Make Your Marriage A Fortress 09.03.2026 40min

Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley discuss the importance of making marriages strong enough to withstand life's challenges. We're bringing back one of our best friends, Dr. Gary Thomas, who talks about his book 'Making Your Marriage a Fortress.' The conversation covers how sin, temptations, and life trials can erode a relationship. We also discuss the significance of spiritual growth, community, and emotional safety in marriages. We'll also answer a listener's question about handling life after divorce and provide practical advice on creating a couples' vision board to achieve future goals together.   Making Your Marriage A Fortress   Hope Restored   Article: How To Overcome Unrealistic Expectations in Marriage   Take the FREE Reactive Cycle Assessment   Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or Email   Call our Counseling Line   Here's insight on a Healing Separation   Contact the show!   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Adventures in Odyssey - Journey Into the Impossible 03.03.2026 24min

There's something exciting happening and you could call it an Adventure In Odyssey! This is a special release to talk about the brand new animated feature film that will release in the Fall of 2026.   Listen to Adventures in Odyssey   Donate To The Making Of Journey Into the Impossible!   Contact the show!   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Question & Answer Session 02.03.2026 31min

We're doing a Question/Answer Show again because you are part of our community—addressing real questions, exploring fresh perspectives, and continuing the dialogue together! Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley share on a variety of marital challenges. From persuading a husband to give family trips another chance to discussing sensitive issues like pornography in marriage, emphasizing boundaries and seeking professional help. Keep sending your questions to us. It's our honor to help you in every way possible!   Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Book   Learn More About Pornography Help From Pure Desire   Resources to Help a Pornography Addiction   Check Out The Marriage Assessment Tool   Check Out The Reactive Cycle Assessment Tool   Contact the show!   Sign up for our FREE Marriage Newsletter   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   Suicide Prevention Hotline   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Building A Life Together 23.02.2026 54min

In this engaging conversation, Luke and Courtney Smallbone share the story of their 16-year marriage, reflecting on their love story that began with a chance meeting at a shoe store. (Luke and his brother Joel make up the band For King And Country.) Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley delve into the unexpected challenges and growth that marriage brings, sharing insights on leadership, conflict resolution, and maintaining a fun and fulfilling relationship. And as always, we answer a listener question.   Take The Date Night Challenge   Listen to the Song Ever & Ever Before   Contact the show!   Sign up for our FREE Marriage Newsletter   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   Suicide Prevention Hotline   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Sex and Intimacy in Marriage, Pt 2 16.02.2026 53min

We continue the conversation with Kait and JJ Tomlin, but we dive deeper into understanding ways to be more intimate with our spouse. Calling out our feelings, checking ourselves, and seeking God's truth as you walk through tough times. They delve into the surprises and challenges they faced and the importance of pre-engagement and premarital counseling. JJ shares his journey of overcoming resentment and selfishness, highlighting the impact of ownership and repentance on their marriage. The Tomlins speak candidly about their sex life, illustrating the importance of realistic expectations, too. We also address a listener's question about dealing with pain, mental health issues, and a perceived lack of support from her spouse.   Take The FREE Marriage Assessment   See Where You Are In The Reactive Cycle   Click Here For More Information About Marriage Resources   Contact the show!   Sign up for our FREE Marriage Newsletter   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   Suicide Prevention Hotline   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Sex and Intimacy in Marriage, Pt I 09.02.2026 52min

Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley talk with the founder of Heart of Dating, Kait Tomlin, with her husband JJ about our mindsets when we're dating before marriage, versus the reality of what we each bring into our married life. They emphasize the importance of being open to changes and the significance of individual growth and self-examination to maintain a healthy marriage. Our hurts, our issues, our expectations, all of it! We'll also give you a Valentine's Day activity, and we answer a question from a wife who knows that her relationship is stuck in the reactive cycle. The conversation provides practical advice on managing relationship conflicts and stresses the value of a teachable spirit and open heart in fostering marital growth.   The Language of Sex   Check Out The Reactive Cycle Assessment Tool   Article: Flirt Your Way To A Better Marriage   Article: Maximize The Mundane   Check Out the Marriage Assessment Tool   Hope Restored Marriage Intensive   Contact the show!   Sign up for our FREE Marriage Newsletter   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   Suicide Prevention Hotline   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Forgiveness in Marriage 02.02.2026 1j 3min

Get ready for a GREAT conversation with Micah E. Davis, author of the book Three Strikes, You're Forgiven! He delves into the profound concept of forgiveness, emphasizing it as a deliberate decision rather than merely a feeling. Greg and Erin share strategies for beginning the forgiveness process, as well as God's grace in the journey as they share the story of someone close to their family that they had to forgive, too.   Three Strikes, You're Forgiven   Forgiveness In The Family Article   Hope Restored   Take Our Free Marriage Assessment Tool   Article: Dealing With Your Child's Divorce   Contact the show!   Sign up for our FREE Marriage Newsletter   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   Suicide Prevention Hotline   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.