Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

Episod

• A New Model of Schooling 30.06.2026 16min

  What if the problem isn't your child... but the way school is designed? For many families, traditional schooling simply doesn't fit. Whether it's school refusal, elite sport, performing arts, health challenges, travel, or a child who just learns differently, parents are searching for better options. In this episode, Justin speaks with Joanna Baker, Head of Campus at Haileybury Pangea, Australia's pioneering private online school. Together they explore how technology, small class sizes, and personalised learning are creating an education model that challenges everything we thought school had to be. If you've ever wondered whether there might be another path, this conversation could completely change how you think about your child's education. Key Points Why traditional schooling isn't the right fit for every child. Which students thrive in an online learning environment. How today's online schools are dramatically different from COVID homeschooling. The surprising social benefits of well-designed online education. Why flexibility doesn't have to mean compromising academic quality. How personalised learning can help students feel challenged, supported and engaged. Quote of the Episode "School shouldn't be a one-size-fits-all model." Resources Mentioned Haileybury Pangea online school Happy Families Action Steps for Parents Consider whether your child's current school environment truly matches their learning needs. Think beyond traditional schooling if your family faces unique circumstances or challenges. Talk with your child about what helps them learn, engage and feel successful. Research alternative education models before assuming there are no other options. Remember that the best education is the one that helps your child thrive—not simply the most conventional one. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Help! I Called My Daughter the B Word! (A Listener Q&A) 29.06.2026 12min

  One rushed morning. One moment of frustration. One word you wish you could take back. If you've ever lost your temper with your teenager and spent the rest of the day drowning in guilt, this episode is for you. When one mum admits she called her 15-year-old daughter "the B word" during a stressful race to catch the school bus, Justin and Kylie unpack what was really happening beneath the conflict and share practical ways to stay calm when emotions run high. From stepping away from arguments to letting natural consequences do the teaching, this conversation offers hope for parents who are trying hard but sometimes get it wrong. Because good parents lose their cool sometimes too. What matters most is what happens next. KEY POINTS Why teenage behaviour can trigger our biggest emotional reactions. The hidden cost of rescuing teenagers from natural consequences. How asking "How can I help?" changes the entire conversation. Why parents don't have to attend every argument. The importance of preparation, sleep and self-care in emotional regulation. How perspective and grace can lower the temperature in difficult moments. A simple framework for repairing after conflict: Refrain, Reframe and Reconnect. QUOTE OF THE EPISODE "You don't have to attend every argument." RESOURCES MENTIONED The "Refrain, Reframe, Reconnect" framework. Happy Families podcast question submission page. Happy Families membership and parenting resources. ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS Replace instructions and criticism with one simple question: "How can I help?" Allow natural consequences to do some of the teaching. If emotions are escalating, stop talking and take a short break. Prepare the night before to reduce stressful mornings. Repair quickly after conflict with an apology and reconnection. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• You Don't Have to Attend Every Argument 28.06.2026 13min

  What if the fastest way to end an argument with your child is to refuse to join it? When emotions are running high, most parents instinctively step into the conflict, hoping to teach a lesson, fix the behaviour, or set things straight. But what if that's exactly the wrong move? In this episode, Justin and Kylie explore why children often invite us into arguments, why it's so tempting to accept, and how learning to pause can transform family relationships. Discover the simple mindset shift that helps parents stay calm, avoid power struggles, and create space for better conversations. Sometimes the most powerful parenting response is not responding at all. KEY POINTS Why children often bait parents into arguments The hidden cost of reacting in the heat of the moment How "high emotions = low intelligence" affects family conflict The power of self-regulation during challenging interactions A simple phrase that can instantly de-escalate tension Why many arguments don't need to be revisited later How calm, delayed conversations lead to better outcomes Teaching children emotional regulation by modelling it yourself QUOTE OF THE EPISODE "You don't have to attend every argument you're invited to." RESOURCES MENTIONED The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey The Happy Families approach to self-regulation and emotional coaching ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS The next time your child invites you into an argument, pause before responding. Use a calm phrase such as, "We'll talk about this later." Keep your tone soft and reassuring, even when emotions are high. Create space for everyone to cool down before revisiting the issue. Ask yourself whether the problem still needs solving once emotions have settled. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• A Concussion, A Wedding and What Matters Most 25.06.2026 10min

  One moment he was riding his bike. The next, he was unconscious on the side of the road with no memory of what had happened. This week on I'll Do Better Tomorrow, Justin shares the terrifying cycling accident that left him with a severe concussion, stitches, black eyes, and a completely missing memory of the crash itself. As the family prepares for their daughter's wedding day, the experience becomes a powerful reminder that life can change in an instant — and that the people we love need to know exactly how much they matter. It's a deeply personal conversation about mortality, gratitude, family, and the moments we so often assume we'll get again tomorrow. KEY POINTS:• Justin's near-fatal cycling accident and the frightening reality of memory loss after concussion.• The technology that helped Kylie locate him quickly after the crash.• Why families should always know where loved ones are and how to contact them.• The importance of treating ordinary moments as if they might be the last.• Navigating the emotional complexity of celebrating a wedding while processing trauma.• What parents learn when another child leaves home and starts a new chapter. QUOTE OF THE EPISODE:"Treat this moment like it might be the last time — the last hug, the last meal, the last ordinary day together." RESOURCES MENTIONED:• Garmin incident detection and emergency notifications.• The "Last Time Meditation" concept.• Happy Families podcast episodes on presence and family connection. ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS: Make sure your family knows where you're going and how to reach you in an emergency. Review emergency contacts and safety features on your devices. Be fully present during everyday family moments this week. Tell the people you love that you love them — explicitly and often. Spend time reflecting on what matters most and whether your priorities align with it. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Removing Screens From Childcare [with Anna Russell] 24.06.2026 12min

  A group of Victorian childcare centres recently conducted a "digital detox", removing screens, cameras, Spotify, YouTube, and other technology from classrooms. What happened next surprised even the educators involved. In this episode, Justin talks with early childhood expert Anna Russell about the remarkable changes they observed: calmer classrooms, more engaged children, increased language development, stronger relationships, and even better sleep routines. If you've ever wondered whether young children really need so much technology in their early years, this conversation offers a fascinating glimpse into what happens when educators return to the basics of connection, conversation, play, and presence. KEY POINTS Why one childcare organisation removed all classroom technology for two weeks The surprising fears educators had before the experiment began How children's behaviour, engagement, and communication changed Why teachers reported feeling more fulfilled despite being more tired The unexpected response from parents What families can do if they want less technology in their child's early learning environment Why relationships matter more than digital documentation QUOTE OF THE EPISODE "What I need from you is to send my child home happy, healthy, and knowing more than they did when they walked in this morning." — Anna Russell RESOURCES MENTIONED National Model Code for technology use in early childhood settings Happy Families Membership ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS Ask your childcare service how technology is used throughout the day. Focus on your child's wellbeing and learning rather than receiving constant photos and updates. Spend a few minutes connecting with educators at drop-off and pick-up. Encourage more face-to-face interaction, storytelling, reading, and singing in your child's daily routine. Advocate for connection-based learning experiences over screen-based activities. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Inside the App Helping Millions of Families Flourish [with Smiling Mind CEO Sarah La Roche] 23.06.2026 12min

  What if just a few minutes a day could help your child build resilience, confidence, emotional awareness, and stronger relationships? With children's mental health challenges rising earlier than ever, many parents feel unsure where to start. In this episode, Justin talks with Smiling Mind CEO Sarah La Roche about the simple, evidence-based habits that help children thrive—and the free app that millions of families are already using. You'll discover why mental fitness matters long before a crisis emerges, how mindfulness can help kids manage big emotions, and practical ways to strengthen wellbeing at home every day. KEY POINTS Why mental wellbeing support should start before problems appear The surprising age when mental health challenges often begin How mindfulness helps children regulate emotions and stay present Simple ways to build flexible thinking and resilience Why friendships and connection are critical for wellbeing The link between physical health, sleep, movement, and mental fitness How the free Smiling Mind app helps families develop lifelong wellbeing skills QUOTE OF THE EPISODE "You don't have to wait until your child is struggling. Mental fitness is something families can build every day." RESOURCES MENTIONED Smiling Mind app + sleep and mindfulness resources ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS Introduce one mindful moment into your family's daily routine. Try the "starfish breathing" exercise with your child. Use the phrase "I can't do it... yet" to encourage flexible thinking. Ask perspective-building questions such as, "What do you think they were feeling?" Prioritise sleep, movement, and meaningful connection as part of your family's wellbeing habits. Download the free Smiling Mind app and explore the resources together. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• When Grandparents Don't Get It [a listener Q&A] 22.06.2026 14min

  What happens when someone your child should be able to trust leaves them feeling judged, misunderstood, and unloved? In this heartfelt Q&A, we respond to a mother whose autistic and ADHD daughter was deeply hurt by a visit from her grandmother. Despite years of progress, one family visit triggered emotional setbacks, self-doubt, and the painful belief that "Nan doesn't love me because of who I am." We explore how parents can help children recover from criticism, reframe damaging messages, rebuild confidence, and move forward when family members simply don't understand neurodivergence. If you've ever struggled with relatives who undermine your parenting or your child's wellbeing, this conversation will give you practical guidance and hope. KEY POINTS Why criticism makes children feel unloved The hidden damage caused by judgmental family members How to help children reframe hurtful experiences The question that protects kids from unfair criticism Why empathy is the first step toward healing How progress and competence rebuild confidence Supporting neurodivergent children when others don't understand QUOTE OF THE EPISODE "Kids don't get better when you make them feel worse." RESOURCES MENTIONED Occupational Therapy (OT) Speech Therapy Submit a question for the podcast! Happy Families website ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS Validate your child's feelings before trying to solve the problem. Help them separate another person's misunderstanding from their own self-worth. Ask: "Would you seek advice from this person? If not, why listen to their criticism?" Reframe the story from "They don't love me" to "They don't understand me." Focus on progress by celebrating growth, strengths, and achievements. Set meaningful goals that build confidence and competence over time. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Babysitting Costs Blowout 21.06.2026 14min

  How much is a night out really costing parents in 2026? For many families, the answer is: far more than they can afford. With babysitting costs soaring and the cost of living biting hard, more parents are finding themselves trapped at home, missing out on the relationship time they desperately need. In this episode, Justin and Kylie unpack the surprising reality of modern babysitting costs, explore whether childcare work is undervalued, and share practical ways families are finding affordable time together without blowing the budget. If you've ever looked at the babysitting quote and decided date night wasn't worth it, this conversation is for you. KEY POINTS The average cost of a babysitter in Australia today Why some parents are paying hundreds of dollars for a night out The debate over what babysitters should be paid Creative alternatives to expensive babysitting How babysitting swaps can save families money The hidden value of grandparents and community support Why investing in your relationship still matters, even when money is tight QUOTE OF THE EPISODE "The most expensive person at dinner isn't even there." RESOURCES MENTIONED Happy Families Facebook community discussion on babysitting costs ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS Explore a babysitting swap with trusted friends. Reconsider whether grandparents or extended family can help. Plan lower-cost date nights that don't require big spending. Schedule regular couple time, even if it's at home after the kids are asleep. Remember that investing in your relationship is an investment in your family. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• The Message Our Boys Desperately Need Right Now 18.06.2026 13min

  It's another Friday, where Justin and Kylie look back at the week that was with another 'I'll Do Better Tomorrow' episode. This week, as Justin's new book Boys hit bestseller lists, a parent shared a confronting account of what they're seeing in schools: disrespect, entitlement, harmful behaviour, and a growing concern about the messages many boys are absorbing. In this powerful episode, Justin and Kylie explore why positive masculinity matters more than ever, and why raising boys who make others feel safer, stronger, and valued isn't just important for families—it's essential for society. They also share a heartwarming family story that proves one simple truth: traditions matter more than we realise. KEY POINTS The alarming behaviours some parents and schools are reporting among boys. Why good boys need strong role models and clear guidance. The simple definition of healthy masculinity every parent should know. How family traditions build belonging, resilience, and connection. Why showing up consistently matters more than perfection. QUOTE OF THE EPISODE "A healthy man helps the people around him feel safer and stronger." RESOURCES MENTIONED Boys: Building Strong Young Men from the Inside Out by Justin Coulson Happy Families resources and podcast ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS Create or protect one meaningful family tradition this week. Talk with your sons about what healthy masculinity looks like in everyday life. Highlight examples of men who show kindness, courage, integrity, and respect. Focus on raising boys who contribute, not consume; who give, not take. Make time for regular family connection, even when life gets busy. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Raising Boys Who Do the Right Thing [an excerpt from 'Boys'] 17.06.2026 12min

  What helps a boy do the right thing when everyone else is doing the wrong thing? In this episode, Justin shares one of the most important lessons from his new book, Boys: Building Strong Young Men from the Inside Out. He explores why character matters more than achievement, how resilience is built through challenge, and why choosing the hard path is often what shapes boys into trustworthy, courageous men. From peer pressure and moral courage to embracing life's "hills", this conversation offers practical guidance for parents who want to raise boys with strength, integrity, and the confidence to stand alone when it counts. KEY POINTS Why character is the foundation of trust. The difference between "resume virtues" and "eulogy virtues." How choosing difficult challenges builds resilience and confidence. Why boys need opportunities to struggle, fail, and grow. The importance of helping children reframe obstacles as opportunities. How supportive relationships help young people develop resilience. The powerful question every boy is asking: Do I have what it takes? QUOTE OF THE EPISODE "Rather than asking, 'How can I avoid this difficulty?', your son learns to ask, 'How can I grow through this difficulty?'" RESOURCES MENTIONED Boys: Building Strong Young Men from the Inside Out by Dr Justin Coulson The Road to Character by David Brooks ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS Resist the urge to solve every problem for your child. When your child is struggling, focus on understanding before advising. Encourage effort, persistence, and courage over comfort. Help your child reflect on what challenges are teaching them. Model a willingness to embrace difficult things in your own life. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• The Hidden Pressure Shaping Our Boys [an excerpt from 'Boys'] 16.06.2026 18min

  What if one of the biggest challenges facing boys today is something most parents never see? In this fascinating conversation, Dr Justin Coulson explores the concept of "precarious masculinity"—the idea that boys often feel they must continually prove they are "man enough". Drawing on research, real-life stories, and insights from his new book Boys: Building Strong Young Men from the Inside Out, Justin unpacks the invisible pressures shaping boys' behaviour, friendships, confidence, and sense of self. If you've ever wondered why boys take risks, hide their emotions, or care so deeply about what their mates think, this episode offers a powerful new perspective. KEY POINTS Why boys often define manhood by what it isn't. The surprising research behind "precarious masculinity". How boys learn to seek approval and status from their peers. Why masculinity is often viewed as something that must be earned. The difference between healthy masculinity and harmful stereotypes. What parents need to understand about the pressures boys face today. RESOURCES MENTIONED Boys: Building Strong Young Men from the Inside Out — Dr Justin Coulson Manhood in the Making — David Gilmore ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS Listen for how your son talks about being a boy or a man. Create opportunities for conversations about identity, belonging, and friendship. Celebrate courage, resilience, and kindness equally. Help boys understand their worth isn't based on proving themselves to others. Encourage healthy risk-taking while reinforcing emotional openness. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• "Boys" Book Release - Kylie Interviews Justin 15.06.2026 21min

  Boys are struggling—and many parents can feel it. In this special episode, Kylie Coulson turns the tables and interviews Dr Justin Coulson about his brand-new book, Boys: Building Strong Young Men From the Inside Out. From alarming statistics about boys' education and wellbeing to the growing influence of the manosphere, Justin shares what he discovered after years of research, countless conversations, and one deeply personal loss that changed the direction of the book forever. This is a hopeful, practical conversation about what boys need most, what healthy masculinity really looks like, and how parents can help raise boys who are strong, kind, capable, and connected. KEY POINTS Why Justin felt compelled to write a book about boys The heartbreaking family experience that reshaped the book The confronting statistics every parent should know Why boys are falling behind in education The dangers—and appeal—of online male influencers Why the conversation about "toxic masculinity" isn't helping boys The power of connection over correction How positive male role models can change a boy's future What healthy masculinity actually looks like Justin's definition of a good man QUOTE OF THE EPISODE "You cannot lecture a boy into becoming a good man. Instead of trying to lecture him into it, love him into it." RESOURCES MENTIONED Boys: Building Strong Young Men From the Inside Out by Justin Coulson Happy Families Michelle Mitchell ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS Prioritise connection before correction when your child is struggling. Look for opportunities to encourage your son's strengths rather than focusing only on mistakes. Be intentional about surrounding boys with positive male role models. Listen more than you lecture. Help boys develop a healthy understanding of what it means to be a good man. Remember that growth takes time—stay patient, present, and hopeful. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Boys: An Introduction 14.06.2026 19min

  After more than four years of research, writing, and reflection, Justin's new book, Boys: Building Strong Young Men from the Inside Out, is finally here. In this special launch-week episode, Justin reads from the opening pages of the book and shares the deeply personal experiences that shaped it. From the loss of a beloved nephew to the growing concerns parents have about raising boys today, this episode explores why the conversation about boys matters so much - and why hope matters even more. At the heart of the book is a simple but powerful idea: boys aren't the problem. With the right guidance, they can become men who make the people around them feel safer, stronger, and more supported. KEY POINTS:• Why Justin spent more than four years writing Boys• The personal dedication that made this book especially emotional• The challenges many parents are facing with boys today• Why boys need a positive vision of masculinity• The concept of "surplus value" and the transition from boyhood to manhood• How boys can learn to use their strength to serve rather than dominate QUOTE OF THE EPISODE:"Boys aren't the problem. I think boys are the solution." RESOURCES MENTIONED:• Boys: Building Strong Young Men from the Inside Out by Dr Justin Coulson• Misconnection by Dr Justin Coulson• The Making of Men by Dr Arne Rubinstein• Happy Families ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS:• Consider what messages your son is receiving about what it means to be a man.• Look for opportunities to encourage responsibility, contribution, and service.• Talk about using strength to help others feel safer and stronger.• Model accountability, ownership, and respect in everyday family life.• Celebrate character and contribution as much as achievement.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• What Our Kids Watch - and Why Women Need Each Other 11.06.2026 22min

  What happens when your child loves something you deeply dislike? In this honest Friday episode, Justin shares what happened when he finally sat down to watch The Amazing Digital Circus with their 12-year-old daughter after months of resistance. The result wasn’t a parenting victory or a dramatic ban…it was something far more powerful. Justin and Kylie unpack why staying curious instead of controlling can completely change the way our kids engage with media, trust us, and think critically about what they consume. Plus: Kylie shares the unexpected emotional impact of hosting a women-only book club night that reminded everyone in the room they were more than just mums, wives, or carers. This episode is about connection, intentionality, and the conversations that quietly shape our families. KEY POINTS: Why watching your child’s favourite show matters more than banning it The hidden emotional impact of “harmless” kids content How curiosity builds trust with tweens and teens Why shared viewing changes the way children process media The surprising power of women-only spaces and deep friendship How intentional connection helps combat loneliness and overwhelm The difference between building people up and tearing them down QUOTE OF THE EPISODE:“Your child stops passively consuming when they know you’re willing to sit beside them.” RESOURCES MENTIONED: The Book of Longings by Sue Monk Kidd Boys: Building Strong Young Men From the Inside Out by Dr Justin Coulson  ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS: Watch one episode of your child’s favourite show with genuine curiosity Ask what they love about it before sharing your concerns Create intentional spaces for connection in your own life Invite people over, even if it’s simple and imperfect Focus on building trust before trying to change behaviour See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Does Parenting Age You? 10.06.2026 13min

  Parenthood changes everything - including your body, brain, stress levels, and even how long you might live. In this fascinating episode, Justin and Kylie unpack the surprising science behind parenting and aging. From sleep deprivation and stress hormones to shrinking brains, telomeres, and longevity research, they explore what raising children is really doing to us behind the scenes. But it’s not all bad news. Research also shows parents may actually live longer — and the reason why might completely change the way you think about family life. KEY POINTS: How parenting physically changes your brain and body Why stress and sleep deprivation accelerate aging The surprising hormonal shifts that happen to mums and dads What telomeres are and why they matter for longevity Why parents may actually live longer than non-parents How grandchildren and adult children can improve wellbeing later in life The link between finances, family size, and long-term health What the latest research says about parenting and lifespan Matrescence and patrescence QUOTE OF THE EPISODE:“Every moment matters - and despite the stress, the exhaustion, and the chaos, family life is still one of life’s greatest joys.” RESOURCES MENTIONED: Research from Sweden on parenting and longevity University of Helsinki 2026 research on childbirth, aging, and lifespan Information on telomeres and biological aging ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS: Prioritise sleep and stress recovery wherever possible Protect your relationships during the intense parenting years Focus on building long-term family connection, not just daily survival Remember that parenting seasons change — and many parents find later family life deeply rewarding Give yourself permission to acknowledge both the joy and the exhaustion of raising children See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• The Secret to Raising Kids Who Love Reading [with author Samantha Summers] 09.06.2026 16min

  Finding genuinely good books for tweens can feel impossible. Too young feels childish. Too old feels uncomfortable. So when one book keeps kids reading under the blankets long after bedtime… parents notice. In this episode, Justin chats with author and coach Sam Summers about her new middle-grade fantasy novel The Lost Defenders — the fast-paced monster adventure kids are devouring in a single night. But this conversation goes deeper than books. Sam also opens up about rebuilding her life as a single mum, the pressure so many working mothers carry, and why “balance” might actually be making parents feel worse. If you’ve ever felt stretched too thin while trying to raise happy, confident kids, this episode will hit home. KEY POINTS: Why finding age-appropriate books for tweens is so difficult The secret to writing stories kids can’t put down How Sam tested her book on real kids before publishing Why reading together became an anchor during single motherhood The hidden pressure working mums carry every day Why “balance” is often an impossible goal The healthier mindset shift parents need instead What kids really learn from watching their parents QUOTE OF THE EPISODE:“What we want is for our children to see us happy, because one day they’ll copy the way we lived.” RESOURCES: The Lost Defenders by Sam Summers Top 48 Reads for Kids Aged 9-12  ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS: Find books that stretch your child without overwhelming them Create small reading rituals your kids will remember Stop chasing perfect balance and focus on what matters most right now Ask yourself: what version of adulthood am I modelling for my children? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Why Restricting Sugar Can Backfire (a Q&A About Sugar & ADHD) 08.06.2026 11min

  Cutting back sugar can help some ADHD kids feel calmer, happier, and more regulated… but how do you do it without accidentally creating food anxiety or body image struggles? In this episode, Justin and Kylie respond to a parent navigating the difficult balance between supporting an ADHD child’s wellbeing while protecting her relationship with food and her body. They unpack why the conversation should never be about weight, how parents can shift the focus toward wellbeing instead, and the powerful mindset change that helps children build healthier habits without shame or fear. KEY POINTS: Why reducing sugar should never be framed around weight The wellbeing-focused approach that changes everything How ADHD kids can learn to notice how food affects their bodies Why family culture matters more than strict food rules The danger of becoming too “fanatical” about healthy eating How small awareness moments create long-term change The connection between sleep, movement, nutrition, screens, and behaviour QUOTE OF THE EPISODE:“It’s not about weight. It’s not even about behaviour. It’s about wellbeing and how we want to feel.” RESOURCES: Misconnection by Justin Coulson Submit your tricky questions here Episode #957 Diet Free Families, with Dietician Meg McClintock [Podcast] ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS: Talk about energy, mood, focus, and wellbeing instead of weight Make healthy changes as a whole family, not just for one child Help children notice how different foods make them feel Avoid perfectionism or overly strict food rules Prioritise sleep, movement, nutritious food, and reduced screen time Focus on progress and awareness, not instant transformation See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• "That's Going to End Up On Your Hips" 07.06.2026 15min

  A stranger in a bakery made one comment about a young girl’s body — and it sparked a conversation every parent needs to hear. When should we speak up? When should we walk away? And how do we help our kids build confidence in a world where careless comments about appearance are still far too common? In this powerful episode, Justin and Kylie unpack the viral bakery confrontation that divided the internet, explore the lasting impact of body-shaming comments, and share practical ways parents can help children become resilient, self-aware, and emotionally strong. They also dive into healthy masculinity, raising respectful boys, and the simple lesson every child should learn about commenting on other people’s bodies. KEY POINTS: Why comments about kids’ bodies can leave lasting emotional scars The difference between reacting publicly and protecting your peace How to teach children resilience without dismissing their feelings The “30-second rule” for commenting on appearance What healthy masculinity really looks like How to help daughters identify respectful relationships and red flags Using difficult moments as powerful teaching opportunities QUOTE OF THE EPISODE:“Healthy men help the people around them feel safer and stronger.” RESOURCES MENTIONED: Boys: Building Strong Young Men From the Inside Out by Dr Justin Coulson Happy Families podcast News.com.au article discussed in the episode ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS: Teach children that other people’s opinions do not define their worth Model respectful language about bodies and appearance Use difficult social moments as teaching opportunities, not panic moments Encourage kids to notice how people make them feel: safer and stronger, or smaller and ashamed Remind children they never need to tolerate disrespect to be accepted See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Date Night and the Power of Showing Up 04.06.2026 18min

  One unexpected date night changed everything. What started with reluctance, exhaustion, and a pottery wheel in the middle of an industrial estate turned into one of the most immersive and connecting experiences we’ve had in years. In this heartfelt episode of I’ll Do Better Tomorrow, Justin and Kylie share why ordinary date nights often fall flat, how novelty can reignite connection, and the surprising activity that completely pulled Justin out of stress and into flow. Plus, Kylie shares a deeply emotional story about one conversation between two sisters that revealed what children really know about a parent’s love — even in the middle of slammed doors, teenage tension, and hard seasons. This episode is a beautiful reminder that the moments we think aren’t landing may matter more than we realise. KEY POINTS: Why routine date nights can lose their spark The power of novelty and shared experiences in relationships How stepping outside your comfort zone strengthens connection The surprising mental health benefits of immersive activities What teenagers really remember about love and safety Why parenting is more about meaning than happiness The hidden impact of simply continuing to show up for your kids RESOURCES MENTIONED: Miss-Connection: Why your teenage daughter “hates” you, expects the world, and needs to talk by Dr Justin Coulson  Preorder Boys: Building strong young men from the inside out by Dr Justin Coulson Claim your preorder bonuses for Boys Happy Families membership and resources ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS: Plan one date night this month that feels new, adventurous, or slightly uncomfortable Focus less on ‘getting quality time’ and more on shared experiences Keep showing up with love, even when your child pushes you away Look for quiet evidence that your influence is deeper than you think Take time to savour the small family moments that often pass too quickly See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Teaching Kids About Friendship 03.06.2026 16min

  Friendship drama is one of the biggest sources of stress for kids — and heartbreak for parents. In this episode, Justin and Kylie unpack the six powerful habits that create strong, lasting friendships and explain how parents can help children build healthier relationships from the very beginning. From loyalty and inclusion to emotional support and trust, these simple but profound friendship skills can shape your child’s confidence, wellbeing, and sense of belonging for years to come. If your child is struggling socially, feeling left out, or constantly caught in friendship ups and downs, this conversation will help you guide them with clarity and compassion. KEY POINTS: The six friendship habits linked to stronger relationships Why loyalty matters more than popularity How gossip quietly destroys trust The difference between emotional support and “fixing” Why belonging at school impacts lifelong wellbeing How small acts of kindness deepen friendships What parents can teach kids about inclusion and empathy QUOTE OF THE EPISODE:“Kids who understand that friendships require active care are far better equipped to keep them.” RESOURCES MENTIONED: Research by Michael Argyle and Monika Henderson on friendship Dr Kelly-Ann Allen’s work on school belonging ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS: Talk with your child about what loyalty looks like in friendship Encourage them to include others and notice who gets left out Teach them to pause before sharing hurtful information Model emotional support by listening without trying to fix everything Help them look for small ways to encourage and serve friends Remind them that good friendships need effort, kindness, and consistency See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.