Gentlemen’ s Guide to Excellence

Episod

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  126 - Dealing with Jealousy and Haters 11.08.2026 22min

  The world can be a strange place.  People can behave oddly and in ways not aligned with our principles and beliefs from the book.  Not everyone will be happy with your success.  Not everyone wants to see you stack wins every day. Not everyone wants to see your continuous improvement, and your steady progress toward achieving your goals.  Not everyone wants to see how at ease you are with women, and how much fun they have with you and how women generally like your whole approach and vibe.  In this episode, we dig into the subject of high-quality ways to deal with the jealousy and haters that might arise as you progress in life.  My goal in taking you through that is maybe how I think about handling these various situations might save you trouble and aggravation in your own lives.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   
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  127 - Audacity 04.08.2026 12min

  How do you work up the nerve to meet someone new? Being a gentlemen doesn’t mean you have to be one of those last place-finishing nice guys.  You can be bold.  You can be cocky.  You can be audacious even.  In this week’s episode, we looking finding the balance between being bold, and being respectful and honest in meeting new, interesting women.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   
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  128 - Introverted Women 28.07.2026 10min

  While I recommend men act in predictably consistent and high-quality ways in all ways and at all times based on the principles and standards from the book, you’ll do better in the dating process if you tailor your approach to each lady based on her likes and personality. That is a wide-ranging topic, but today I want to dig into one specific area you will certainly encounter, dealing with and taking care of more introverted women.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  
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  129 - What She Hopes You Are 21.07.2026 10min

  This week’s episode is a gift from me to all of humanity.  For this week’s work, people are going to erect statues of me in town squares worldwide.  They are going to name schools after me.  I might get a Nobel Prize for this breakthrough in human culture and understanding.  Why might I receive those accolades? I am going to help you read her mind.  Yes, I am going to help you read the minds of the women you want to date, are dating, or perhaps are already with. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ 
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  130 - Our Survey Results 14.07.2026 19min

  I have conducted the greatest survey of all time on the subject of flirting with and approaching women.  Never before in world history has such an impactful and societally-beneficial survey been done.  Today, I share the results with you.   Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   
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  131 - Time 07.07.2026 14min

  Time.  We are all on this planet for a finite amount of time.  You don’t want to get to the end of your time here with regrets.   You also don’t want to waste the limited time you have, nor allow others to waste it for you.  In this week’s episode, I want to talk about making effective use of time, and in some cases, being protective of your time.    Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  
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  132 - Cheating and Jealousy 30.06.2026 24min

  Today I share my views on the general topic of jealousy as it relates to dating and relationships.  I’ll start with a true story involving someone I used to know that is an example of the worst possible way events can unfold for someone consumed with jealousy.  Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  
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  133 - Bold Yet Respectful 23.06.2026 16min

  How can you meet a great lady without being creepy or inappropriate in the modern MeToo world?   Opportunities in life to connect with that great lady might pass you by if you are too afraid to act or let the world know you are there, or even exist.  Being afraid to speak up will likely get you nowhere.  Is there a balance that can be struck for well-intentioned guys, for guys with unrivaled integrity?  I say yes, and that is central to our approach in the Gentlemen’s Guide to Flirting book.  The book shows you how to be bold yet respectful.  It shows you how to be playful yet impeccably well-behaved throughout the process.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  
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  056 - Credibility 16.06.2026 10min

  Credibility.  Your credibility is your stock in trade in many ways in life: at work, in business, and with your family and friends.  In some arenas, if you have lost credibility, you are done.  In this episode, we take a thorough look at the subject of a person’s credibility - what it is and how to manage and protect it.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  
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  058 - Finding Your Passion 09.06.2026 15min

  Are any of these questions keeping you up at night:  What am I supposed to do with my life? What should my life’s meaning and purpose be?  What am I passionate about?  How can I be more happy and satisfied with how my life is going regarding work, family, and my personal life?  In this week’s episode, we look at the topic of finding your passion, and attempt to set everyone on a path in that direction regardless of how good or challenging your life’s circumstances are right now.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  
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  060 - Did She Make the Right Choice? 02.06.2026 8min

  I spend a lot of time talking about if a prospective lady, or the one you are already involved with, is good enough for you.  Today I want to look at that from a different angle: Did she make the right choice choosing to be with you. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  
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  061 - Who is the Better Man? 26.05.2026 15min

  Who is the better man?  That is our question for today.  What’s the right way to measure?  Can you tell by just looking at someone.  Can you tell by the contents of their wallet or bank accounts?  We dig into this question in this week’s episode.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB 
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  078 - Strong Women 19.05.2026 14min

  Strong women.  How would you feel about your lady being a strong woman?  What if she is more successful than you?  What if she makes more money?  What if she is more charismatic and well-liked?  Are you okay with that?  How would you feel if your partner outdid you in traditional male breadwinner or success roles?Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidesYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB 
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  067 - Reactions to Your Positivity 12.05.2026 9min

  Positivity.  Today I want to talk about how not everyone is going to react well to your positivity.  Not everyone will be supportive of you.  Some people might hate or resent your continuous improvement,  either openly to your face or secretly - behind your back .  They might hate or resent your attempts to better yourself.   They might hate or resent your success.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidesYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  
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  079 - Where to Meet Women 05.05.2026 22min

  This week I share a closely held secret.  Many souls have been lost in the quest.   It is time that this sacred knowledge be revealed.  This week I tell you where you can meet available women.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidesYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  
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  074 - Self Talk 28.04.2026 17min

  Self talk.  What is running through your head every day as you progress through your day?  Is your self talk helping you or hurting you?  Today I share the top 10 things that run through my head in the course of a normal day to help get me past problems, and motivate myself to do what I have to do and handle what I have to handle.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidesYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  
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  081 - Career Advice, Gentlemen’s Guides Style 21.04.2026 18min

  Career advice.  When I talk to young men graduating college, or men of any age who are trying to change jobs or apply for employment, I am hearing too much entitlement.  I am hearing too little confidence and not enough of a grasp of reality when it comes to what it takes to make someone want to hire you, to see your value.  “Give me a job" is what I am hearing, especially from younger guys out there.  You shouldn’t be thinking “I hope someone will give me a job”.  You should approach a job search with the mindset that you need to earn the job.  In figuring out your career, or applying for a job, or competing in business, you need show your value.  I am going to talk about how to do all of that today.  I want to talk about career advice, Gentlemen’s Guides style. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  
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  070 - Nice Guys Finish Last 14.04.2026 9min

  This week I want to talk about the notion of nice guys finishing last.  Nice guys finish last?  Is that really true?  If it is, or isn’t, what guys get to win?Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidesYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB 
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  072 - Fake Confidence 07.04.2026 8min

  Confidence.  Be confident. That’s what many people will advise you to do you without telling you HOW.  That, and women will simply flock to you if you are confident.  That sort of advice is everywhere, in every self-help book and from every dating and matchmaking guru.  But if you aren’t naturally confident person, how do you get on a path to being so?Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidesYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  
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  073 - Bad Boys 31.03.2026 13min

  Bad boys.  Do women really prefer so-called bad boys?  What is a bad boy exactly, and is there anything truly good about being considered one, or being one?Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidesYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB