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• My Teacher Said I Would Amount To Nothing | Legally Clueless Ep 380 31.05.2026 36min

  When Jeanette Soi was growing up, school became a place where she slowly began to question her worth. In this deeply relatable episode, Jeanette shares memories of being publicly shamed for her grades, experiencing favoritism from teachers, and carrying the painful belief that her academic performance determined her future.As teachers and classmates repeatedly reinforced the idea that she wasn't smart enough, she began to internalize those messages and doubt herself. But behind her was a family that never stopped believing in her. This is part one of Jeanette's story.Connect with us:Newsletter: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutubeShare your story: forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8#LegallyCluelessAfrica #LegallyCluelessPodcast #AfricanStories #MentalHealth #Healing #ChildhoodTrauma #Education #SelfWorth #KenyanPodcast #AfricanWomenStories
• The Women’s Health Conversation We Should’ve Had Years Ago | For Mannerless Women 28.05.2026 1j 14min

  What if the things women have been taught to “just endure” are actually signs that something is wrong?In this season finale of For Mannerless Women, Adelle Onyango is joined by Consultant Obstetrician & Gynecologist Dr Claire Kinuthia for one of the most important conversations we’ve had on the show.Together, they unpack menstrual cycles, PMS, PMDD, PCOS, fibroids, endometriosis, perimenopause and menopause, while also exploring the ways women’s pain has historically been minimized and dismissed in medicine.This episode is eye-opening, affirming and deeply necessary for every woman trying to better understand her body.Listen to Dr Claire’s podcast:Circling the Rabbit Hole Podcast https://www.instagram.com/ctrh_podcast/ Follow Dr Claire Kinuthia: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.clairekinuthia/Sign up for the Legally Clueless Africa newsletter:https://www.legallycluelessafrica.com/Follow Legally Clueless Africa:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutubeShare your story with us:https://forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8
• You’re Probably Resting Wrong. The 7 Types Of Rest We Actually Need | Mid Week Tease 27.05.2026 21min

  This week on The Mid Week Tease, Adelle Onyango unpacks the different kinds of rest and why sleep alone may not be fixing your exhaustion. So many of us are burnt out in ways we haven’t learned to name. We sleep, take breaks, scroll online, binge shows and still feel tired. Why? Because not all exhaustion is physical.In this episode, Adelle explores the 7 different types of rest, from emotional rest and sensory rest to creative, mental, social, physical, and spiritual rest, and how chronic overstimulation, emotional labor, burnout, and constant productivity culture are affecting our wellbeing.This episode is a reminder that rest is not laziness. It is restoration. Listen if you’ve been feeling:emotionally drainedmentally exhaustedoverstimulatedcreatively burnt outdisconnected from yourselftired no matter how much you sleep#TheMidWeekTease #LegallyCluelessAfrica #MentalWellnessSign up for the Legally Clueless Africa newsletter here:www.legallycluelessafrica.com/Follow Legally Clueless Africa:Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutubeShare your story here:forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8 
• I Married The Wrong Man At 17 PART 2 | Legally Clueless Ep 379 24.05.2026 49min

  In this episode of the Legally Clueless podcast, Annitah Rae shares the second part of her deeply personal story. She opens up about surviving domestic violence in her marriage, becoming a young mother, struggling with alcoholism, navigating fame and media success while battling depression and suicidal thoughts privately, and the long journey toward healing, accountability, and self-awareness.Annitah also reflects on the difficult but powerful process of no longer seeing herself only as a victim of her story, but learning how to confront the ways unresolved trauma shaped her choices, relationships, and sense of self. This episode is an honest conversation about survival, accountability, healing, addiction, self-worth, and choosing yourself.Connect With Annitah Rae:https://www.instagram.com/annitahraey/Connect with Legally Clueless Africa:Newsletter signup: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutubeShare your story anonymously: forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8Listen to the Legally Clueless podcast: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2HGOzQ4B9A0fcGJjJBgMWW Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ke/podcast/legally-clueless/id1449048944 Spreaker: https://www.spreaker.com/show/legally-clueless Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/cb0c8f7d-4c82-4f6d-9a5d-3c1f9e2c8c41/legally-clueless #LegallyCluelessAfrica #LegallyCluelessPodcast #AfricanStories #MentalHealthAwareness
• Finding Your Voice & Refusing To Shrink As A Woman | For Mannerless Women 20.05.2026 44min

  This week on For Mannerless Women, Adelle Onyango sits down with activist, civic creator and political commentator Tatiana Gicheru for a powerful conversation about courage, womanhood, activism and choosing yourself unapologetically.Tatiana opens up about:Standing up to authority from a young ageFinding her voice through blogging & storytellingPleasure, shame & reclaiming ownership of women’s bodiesThe 2024 Finance Bill protests & documenting injusticeFear, surveillance & continuing to speak up anywayInternet backlash, misogyny & online bullyingIntergenerational sisterhood & learning from older womenWhy women need to stop shrinking themselvesThis episode is a reminder that speaking up doesn’t mean you’re fearless,it means you choose your values anyway.Connect With Tatiana: https://www.instagram.com/tatianagicheru/Sign up for the Legally Clueless Africa newsletter here:https://www.legallycluelessafrica.com/Follow Legally Clueless Africa on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/Follow Legally Clueless Africa on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaWatch For Mannerless Women on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutubeShare your story with us:https://forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8
• The Relationship Was Emotionally Unsafe | Mid Week Tease 20.05.2026 22min

  This week on The Mid Week Tease, Adelle unpacks emotional abuse in romantic relationships what it is, how it manifests, why it’s often difficult to identify, and the long-term impact it can have on your nervous system, self-worth and sense of reality. Many people only recognize abuse when it becomes physical. But emotional abuse can be quieter, subtler and deeply destabilizing. It can look like gaslighting, emotional withdrawal, control disguised as love, walking on eggshells, chronic criticism, emotional unpredictability and constantly second-guessing yourself.In this episode, Adelle explores:What emotional abuse actually isThe psychology behind gaslighting and trauma bondsWhy emotionally abusive relationships are difficult to leaveHow emotional abuse impacts your nervous systemSigns a relationship may be emotionally unsafeRebuilding self-trust after emotional harmThe episode also references insights from therapists and trauma experts including Dr. Ramani Durvasula, Dr. Gabor Maté, Nedra Glover Tawwab and Lundy Bancroft.Sign up for our newsletter:https://www.legallycluelessafrica.com/Follow Legally Clueless Africa:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutubeShare your story here:https://forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8
• I Married The Wrong Man At 17 | Legally Clueless Ep 378 17.05.2026 40min

  In this episode of the Legally Clueless podcast, media personality, mental health advocate and GBV activist Annitah Rae shares the first part of her deeply personal story. She opens up about growing up feeling deeply loved by her father but struggling through a painful relationship with her mother, becoming rebellious as a teenager, substance use, running away from home, surviving life on the streets at 14, and the traumatic sexual assault that changed her life forever.This episode is an honest conversation about pain, survival, trauma, mental health, and the ways unresolved childhood wounds can shape a young person’s life.Connect With Annitah Rae:https://www.instagram.com/annitahraey/ Connect with Legally Clueless Africa:Newsletter signup: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutubeShare your story anonymously: forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8Listen to the Legally Clueless podcast: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2HGOzQ4B9A0fcGJjJBgMWW Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ke/podcast/legally-clueless/id1449048944 Spreaker: https://www.spreaker.com/show/legally-clueless Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/cb0c8f7d-4c82-4f6d-9a5d-3c1f9e2c8c41/legally-clueless#LegallyCluelessAfrica #LegallyCluelessPodcast #AfricanStories #MentalHealthAwareness
• Being Child-Free, Pleasure & Redefining Fulfillment | For Mannerless Women 14.05.2026 46min

  This week on For Mannerless Women, Adelle Onyango sits down with lawyer and entrepreneur Bev Munga, founder of Gspot Kenya and popularly known as “The Vibrating Lawyer.” In this bold and honest conversation, Bev opens up about:Building one of Kenya’s most talked-about pleasure brandsThe backlash she faced for centering women’s pleasureChoosing a child-free lifeSolo travel as self-careFulfillment outside motherhoodFreedom, autonomy, and redefining womanhood on her own termsConnect with Bev Munga:https://www.instagram.com/theevibratinglawyerFollow Gspot Kenya:https://www.instagram.com/gspotkenya_Join Bev's Childfree Community:We've had to pull down the link as the group has reached capacity.Follow Bev on instagram for more information.Subscribe to the Legally Clueless Africa newsletter:https://www.legallycluelessafrica.com/Follow Legally Clueless Africa:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutubeShare your story:https://forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8 #ForMannerlessWomen #LegallyCluelessAfrica #AfricanWomen
• The Discomfort Of No Longer People Pleasing | Mid Week Tease 12.05.2026 16min

  This week on The Mid Week Tease, Adelle unpacks the emotional discomfort that can come with finally standing up for yourself after years of people pleasing, weak boundaries, over-giving and self-abandonment. From romantic relationships to friendships, this episode explores what happens when you stop shrinking yourself to keep other people comfortable. Why does setting boundaries feel guilty?Why does speaking up sometimes feel physically uncomfortable?Why do some relationships become strained when you finally choose yourself?Adelle reflects on a recent personal trigger and unpacks the realization that changed everything:“The discomfort wasn’t coming from doing something wrong. The discomfort came from doing something different.”This episode dives into:People pleasing and the “fawn response”Why boundaries can trigger anxietyRomantic relationships built on self-sacrificeFriendship dynamics and emotional laborWhy healing can make others uncomfortableThe grief of outgrowing unhealthy dynamicsLearning to tolerate the discomfort of self-respectIf you’ve ever:struggled to say no,replayed conversations after asserting yourself,felt guilty for having needs,feared disappointing people,or confused self-sacrifice with love,this episode is for you.Newsletter signup:https://www.legallycluelessafrica.com/Follow Legally Clueless Africa:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutubeShare your story with us:https://forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8
• I Refused To Stay Silent PART 2 | Legally Clueless Ep 377 10.05.2026 36min

  In this episode of the Legally Clueless podcast, we continue with Part 2 of Dr. Kui Muraya’s story. After spending years learning to silence her voice, Kui shares what happened when she slowly began reconnecting with herself again.From moving abroad at a young age, to navigating academia, leadership, activism, workplace politics, burnout, and eventually choosing to step away from the working world altogether, this episode explores the cost of constantly pushing yourself and the healing that can come from finally choosing yourself. Kui also reflects on identity, purpose, spirituality, legacy, and what it has meant to stop seeing herself as a “black sheep” and fully embrace the woman she is becoming. This is a story about reclaiming your voice, redefining success, and creating a life that feels aligned, joyful, and true.In this episode, Kui speaks about:Moving to Australia after high schoolChanging career paths and choosing herselfFinding her voice again abroadNavigating leadership and workplace activismGender justice and speaking up in professional spacesBurnout and toxic work environmentsTaking an intentional break from workRedefining “joyful work”Spirituality, healing, and legacyListen to Part 1: If you haven’t yet, listen to Part 1 of Dr. Kui Muraya’s story in Episode 376. Connect With Kui:https://www.instagram.com/kuimuraya/https://www.instagram.com/konversationswithkui/Share Your Story: If you’d like to share your story, you can do so anonymously here:forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8Connect with Legally Clueless Africa:Newsletter: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutube
• Motherhood, Friendship Shifts & Choosing Yourself With Mama Olive | For Mannerless Women 07.05.2026 49min

  In this episode of For Mannerless Women, Adelle sits down with Mama Olive for a deeply honest conversation about motherhood, identity, friendship shifts, community, and choosing yourself.Mama Olive opens up about the realities of single motherhood, navigating postpartum rage, losing herself in relationships, and the emotional exhaustion that comes with raising children, especially without enough support or understanding.They also unpack:Why motherhood changes friendshipsThe pressure women face to “snap back”Mom guilt and learning to give yourself graceThe importance of apologizing to your kidsWhy community is essential for mothersLeaving relationships that force women to shrink themselvesThis is a vulnerable, grounding conversation about womanhood, healing, and protecting your peace.CONNECT WITH MAMA OLIVE:https://www.instagram.com/mamaolivek/https://www.threads.com/@mamaolivekPLUG INTO MOTHERHOOD UNPLUGGED:https://www.youtube.com/@MotherhoodUnpluggedkeCONNECT WITH US:Newsletter: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutubeShare your story: forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8
• You’re Not Lazy. Maybe You’re Self-Sabotaging | Mid Week Tease 06.05.2026 20min

  This week on The Mid Week Tease, Adelle Onyango unpacks self-sabotage, what it really is, where it comes from, and how it quietly shows up in your daily life. If you’ve ever called yourself lazy, inconsistent, or undisciplined, this episode invites you to look deeper. Self-sabotage isn’t random. It’s patterned, protective, and often rooted in early beliefs about who you are and what you deserve.In this episode, Adelle explores the psychology behind self-sabotage, why chaos can feel more comfortable than peace, and how fear of being seen might be keeping you stuck. Most importantly, she shares practical ways to begin shifting these patterns, without shame, and without becoming someone else. In this episode, we cover:What self-sabotage actually is (and why it’s not laziness)How childhood experiences shape your patterns (inspired by Alfred Adler)Why your nervous system chooses familiar pain over unfamiliar peaceThe subtle ways self-sabotage shows up (procrastination, perfectionism, overthinking)The fear of being seen and how it keeps you playing smallWhy it’s so hard to stop self-sabotagingSimple, realistic ways to start shifting your patternsListen to The Mid Week TeaseA Legally Clueless Africa show, new episodes out every Wednesday on our podcast channel everywhere you stream podcasts.Connect with us:Newsletter: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutubeShare your story: forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8
• I Refused To Stay Silent | Legally Clueless Ep 376 03.05.2026 34min

  In this episode of the Legally Clueless podcast, we begin Part 1 of Dr. Kui Muraya’s story. Kui takes us through her childhood growing up between Nairobi and Mombasa, being raised by multiple mother figures, and the powerful lineage of women who shaped her storytelling voice. She shares what it was like to grow up as a “different” child outspoken, curious, and deeply aware of injustice and how those traits both set her apart and got her into trouble.From being top of her class to being punished for speaking up in school, this episode explores the early experiences that shaped her relationship with her voice. It’s a story about identity, belonging, and the subtle ways the world teaches us to shrink ourselves.In this episode, Kui speaks about:Growing up between two cities and two homesBeing raised by strong maternal figuresThe lineage of storytelling in her familyBeing labeled “different” as a childSpeaking up against injustice in schoolBeing punished for using her voiceLearning to silence herself to survivePart 2 of Kui’s story will be available in the next episode, where she shares her journey into adulthood, career, activism, burnout, and redefining her life on her own terms.Connect With Kui Here:https://www.instagram.com/kuimuraya/Listen To Her Podcast Here:https://www.instagram.com/konversationswithkui/Share Your Story: If you’d like to share your story, you can do so here:forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8Connect with Legally Clueless Africa:Newsletter: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutube
• A Man Is Not Oxygen: Choosing Yourself Without Fear | For Mannerless Women 30.04.2026 44min

  This week on For Mannerless Women, we sit down with Ciku Cheru, author, journalist, storyteller, and explorer, for a conversation that will challenge everything you’ve been taught about womanhood. From her grandmother who refused marriage and still built a full, thriving life, to her own journey of solo travel across 60+ countries, this episode is a powerful reminder that there is no one way to live.We talk about:• Why marriage is often framed as a “must” for women and why it isn’t• The fear many women carry about being alone and how to unlearn it• Solo travel, independence, and building a life that feels like yours• Outgrowing your “pick me” era and embracing your full self• Why anything that makes you shrink is a red flagMannerless Message of the Week:Lovebomb yourself. Become the source of the life you’re waiting for.Stay connected with us:Newsletter signup: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutubeStory submission form: forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8Share this episode with a woman who needs this reminder#ForMannerlessWomen #LegallyCluelessAfrica #AfricanWomen
• Why You Always Assume The Worst | Mid Week Tease 29.04.2026 17min

  Have you ever had one small thing happen and within minutes your mind convinced you your whole life was about to fall apart? A delayed text becomes rejection. A difficult conversation becomes disaster. A money challenge becomes total collapse.This week on The Mid Week Tease, Adelle unpacks catastrophizing, the mental habit of assuming the worst-case scenario, and why so many of us confuse fear with intuition. In this episode:What catastrophizing actually is and why the mind does itHow anxiety can disguise itself as “being prepared”The hidden ways worst-case thinking steals peace and joySigns your thoughts may be spiraling into imagined disasterPsychology-backed ways to interrupt catastrophic thinkingHow to separate fear from fact and uncertainty from doomIf your mind often runs ahead of reality, this episode is for you.A reminder: An anxious thought is not a prophecy.Join our newsletter community:www.legallycluelessafrica.com/Follow us:Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutubeShare your story with us:forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8
• The Shame I Inherited As A Child PART 1 | Legally Clueless Ep 375 26.04.2026 38min

  What messages did you receive about yourself as a child and how have they shaped the way you love, trust and show up in the world today? In part one of this deeply moving two-part story, Wanjirah Kimani takes us back to her childhood in Murang’a, being raised by her grandmother, navigating parental absence, experiencing shame at home, and growing up believing love had to be earned through performance. This episode explores childhood wounds, worthiness, unlearning inherited shame, and the quiet ways early experiences shape us long into adulthood.In this episode, Wanjirah shares:Growing up raised by her grandmother in a loving but chaotic environmentHow shame entered her life through family dynamics and childhood experiencesLearning to perform for love and approvalThe impact of emotional wounds from parents and caregiversHow faith became an anchor through it allEntering adulthood carrying a deep hunger to be chosen and lovedThis is part one of Wanjirah’s story. Part two drops next week.Join our newsletter community:www.legallycluelessafrica.com/Follow us on Instagram:www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/TikTok:www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube:www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutube Share your story with us:forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8#LegallyCluelessAfrica #AfricanStories #HealingJourney #ChildhoodHealing
• Self-Love Is an Action. Here’s How to Rebuild It | For Mannerless Women 23.04.2026 44min

  In this episode of For Mannerless Women, Adelle sits down with Temina Semo for a deeply honest conversation on self-love, identity, and the journey back to yourself. Temina shares what it was like growing up confident and expressive only to find herself shrinking in environments that tried to silence her.From strict school systems to societal expectations, we explore how many women slowly disconnect from who they truly are and what it takes to rebuild. This episode is a powerful reminder that you didn’t lose yourself you adapted to survive. In this episode, we cover:How confidence gets conditioned out of young girlsThe impact of environments that censor self-expressionWhy self-love is an action, not a feelingRebuilding your identity after years of shrinkingDaily rituals that support self-love and confidenceSetting boundaries that protect who you areTemina’s Mannerless Message:Being yourself is your power, but loving yourself is your superpower.Connect With Us Here:Newsletter signup: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutubeShare your story: forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8If this episode resonated with you, share it with a woman who’s on the journey back to herself  #ForMannerlessWomen #LegallyClueless #AfricanWomen
• Boundaries Will Cost You Relationships And That’s Okay | Mid Week Tease 22.04.2026 19min

  Setting boundaries will change your relationships. Not because you’re doing something wrong,but because you’re no longer showing up in ways that require you to abandon yourself. In this episode of The Mid Week Tease, Adelle Onyango unpacks why boundaries feel so difficult, why people react when you start setting them, and how to begin choosing yourself, without guilt.If you’ve ever struggled with saying no, felt guilty for putting yourself first, or worried that setting boundaries might cost you relationshipsm this episode is for you.In this episode, Adelle explores:What boundaries actually are (and what they’re not)Why boundaries feel uncomfortable and hard to maintainDifferent types of boundaries: time, emotional, communication, energy, financial (including black tax), physical, and mentalWhy people may resist or react to your boundariesThe guilt and second-guessing that comes with choosing yourselfPractical ways to start setting and holding boundariesThis episode is grounded in psychology-backed insights like people-pleasing conditioning, attachment patterns, and cognitive dissonance, broken down in a way that’s relatable and easy to apply to your everyday life. If your life is shifting, your relationships feel different, or you’re learning to choose yourself for the first time, you’re not doing it wrong. You’re setting boundaries.Listen to The Mid Week TeaseA Legally Clueless Africa show, with new episodes out every Wednesday on our podcast channel—everywhere you stream podcasts.Stay connected with Legally Clueless Africa:Newsletter: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutubeShare your story: forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8
• Mama Fua: The Work That Raised Me Became My Business PART 2 | Legally Clueless Ep 374 19.04.2026 30min

  In this episode of the Legally Clueless Podcast, Loise Njeri shares part 2 of her journey as a mama fua and what it really took to turn a side hustle into a business. After starting out doing laundry from her home while working a bank job, Loise opens up about the moment she decided to take a leap of faith and fully commit to her business, even when she wasn’t sure it would work.From opening her first shop, to navigating fear, financial uncertainty, and judgment from people around her—this part of her story is about courage, consistency, and choosing your own path. This is a story about what it means to bet on yourself and keep going, even when the world doesn’t understand what you’re building.In Part 2, Loise shares:Expanding from home-based laundry to opening a physical shopThe decision to leave her bank job and pursue her business full-timeManaging fear, uncertainty, and financial pressure while buildingUsing social media and word-of-mouth to grow her client baseDealing with criticism, judgment, and being misunderstoodWhy your friends and family are not your customersGrowing beyond laundry into cleaning and caregiving servicesThe importance of trust, professionalism, and consistency in businessKey takeaway:Don’t be afraid to be misunderstood. The first step is always the hardest—but once you start, everything else begins to fall into place.Connect With Us:Newsletter: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutubeShare your story: forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8
• Therapy, Self-Worth & Choosing Yourself, Auntie Jemimah on Healing Out Loud | For Mannerless Women 16.04.2026 41min

  What happens when the person who makes everyone laugh, is struggling inside? This week on For Mannerless Women, Adelle Onyango sits down with comedian and content creator Auntie Jemimah for a deeply honest conversation about healing, self-worth, and choosing yourself, fully and unapologetically.Auntie Jemimah opens up about how cyberbullying pushed her into therapy, the childhood experiences that shaped her self-esteem, and the inner work it took to rebuild her sense of self. She also shares her perspective on relationships, unlearning overgiving, and designing a life that aligns with who she truly is.In this episode, we explore:How cyberbullying led her to therapyThe connection between childhood and self-worthWhat therapy really looks like (and why it’s work)Unlearning people-pleasing and overgivingChoosing yourself, even when it goes against societal expectationsRedefining womanhood on your own termsThis is a powerful reminder that healing is possible and that you are allowed to become the woman of your dreams.Connect With Auntie Jemimah here:https://www.instagram.com/auntie_jemimah/Connect With Her Podcast Herehttps://www.instagram.com/muratapod/Stay connected with Legally Clueless Africa:Newsletter: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutubeShare your story: forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8Share this episode If this conversation resonated with you, share it with a woman in your life who is on her healing journey.