F*ck Saving Face

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  Episode 146: Breaking Taboos: The Power of Vulnerability with Susan Lieu 05.05.2025 40min

  In this episode, Susan Lieu shares her journey as a Vietnamese American storyteller focused on intergenerational healing. She discusses her memoir, 'The Manicurist's Daughter,' which explores her mother's tragic death and the impact of trauma on family dynamics. The conversation delves into the complexities of cultural identity, the role of art in healing, and the challenges of navigating family expectations. Susan emphasizes the importance of vulnerability, emotional intimacy, and the need t...
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  Episode 145: Curiosity & Creativity as the Foundation for Success with Van Lai-DuMone 28.04.2025 31min

  In this episode of the F*ck Saving Face podcast, host Judy Tsuei interviews Van Lai-DuMone, the founder of WorkSmart Advantage, who shares her journey from a traditional Asian upbringing to embracing creativity and curiosity in the workplace. Vaughn discusses her book, 'What If Pigs Can Fly?', and emphasizes the importance of following one's intuition and passions. The conversation explores themes of empowerment, the challenges of balancing motherhood and entrepreneurship, and the significanc...
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  Episode 144: From Survival to Significance: Mental Health, Marriage & Meaning with Angela Cheng-Cimini 21.04.2025 36min

  In this episode of the F*ck Saving Face podcast, host Judy Tsuei engages in a heartfelt conversation with Angela Cheng-Cimini, a seasoned HR professional, about the complexities of mental health, relationships, and personal growth, particularly within the context of Asian American culture. They explore the importance of self-advocacy, the evolution of workplace humanity, and the significance of nurturing long-term relationships. Angela shares her journey of navigating her marriage, parenting,...
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  Episode 143: F*ck the Checklist: Redefining Success for Voices of Color 14.04.2025 12min

  In this episode of the F*ck Saving Face podcast, Judy shares personal experiences and insights on mental and emotional health, particularly for Asian Americans and voices of color. The conversation explores themes of empowerment, healing, and the importance of embracing imperfection. The host reflects on transformative life experiences, including travels and personal growth, while encouraging listeners to live authentically and free from societal pressures. Resources & Next Steps: Want to...
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  Episode 142: Personal Growth in the Age of AI: Identity, Transformation & Awakening with Adele Wang 18.03.2025 31min

  In this conversation, Judy Tsuei and Adele Wang explore the complexities of personal development, cultural identity, and the impact of AI on our lives. They discuss shared experiences within diverse communities, the challenges of navigating personal growth amidst societal chaos, and the importance of embracing complexity in understanding one's identity. Adele shares insights on the awakening process many individuals experience in their late 20s and late 40s, and how these moments can lead to ...
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  Episode 141: The Art of Storytelling & Selling with Kendall Cherry 11.03.2025 36min

  In this episode of the F*ck Saving Face podcast, host Judy Tsuei engages in a candid conversation with Kendall Cherry, founder of the Candid Collective. They explore themes of mental health, storytelling, and the challenges faced by Asian Americans and voices of color. Kendall shares her journey as a ghostwriter, the importance of challenging traditional narratives around money and success, and the need for representation in wealth-building discussions. The conversation emphasizes the value o...
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  Episode 140: [Step 10] Your Money, Your Energy: The Hidden Connection to Success 24.02.2025 25min

  What if your relationship with money was a direct reflection of your self-worth? In this episode of F*ck Saving Face, Judy Tsuei explores the powerful connection between money, energy, and personal growth. She shares her journey of healing financial trauma, shifting her money mindset, and learning to charge what she’s truly worth. Discover how money is more than just numbers—it’s an extension of how you feel about yourself. Learn why raising your rates isn’t just about business, b...
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  Episode 139: How to Break Free from the 'Shoulds' and Build a Life You Truly Own with Amy Yip 17.02.2025 30min

  What happens when you realize your mindset is the key to unlocking a new chapter of your life? In this empowering episode, Judy Tsuei sits down with Amy Yip, a mental fitness coach and author, to explore how cultivating mental fitness can transform your life. Amy shares her journey from corporate America to coaching and how she helps women of color break free from generational cycles of trauma. They dive into the challenges of navigating cultural expectations and the importance of vulnerabili...
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  Episode 138: [Step 9] How I Rewired My Relationship with My Parents in Just 15 Minutes 11.02.2025 17min

  What happens when you return to the country your parents fled — only to find a version of home you never expected? In this deeply personal episode, Judy Tsuei shares her journey of moving back to Taiwan, the land her parents left to build a new life. She talks about what it was like to live in a place they considered unsafe, yet where she felt seen, supported, and embraced. And she dives into the shocking truths she uncovered about her family’s past: stories of survival, loss, and resilience ...
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  Episode 137: Ayahuasca, Ancestral Wisdom, and Finding Your True Self with Mimi Chau 03.02.2025 40min

  In today’s episode of F*ck Saving Face, Judy Tsuei sits down with Mimi Chau, a consciousness exploration mentor and the founder of The Goddess Playground, to dive deep into topics of spiritual growth, mental health, and breaking cultural taboos. Mimi shares her transformative journey — from her upbringing as an immigrant in Vietnam to leading a successful juice business, and ultimately discovering the power of holistic healing practices like ayahuasca. Together, they explore the interse...
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  Episode 136: [Step 8] Unlocking the Power of Spirit Medicine 28.01.2025 18min

  In this episode, Judy Tsuei dives into Step 8 of her book, How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American Guide all about expansive spirit medicine experiences. Judy shares personal insights and transformative stories about exploring altered states of consciousness through spirit medicine, breathwork, and unconventional healing modalities. She also discusses: • The importance of finding trustworthy practitioners and creating safe environments for exploration. • ...
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  Episode 135: When Enough is Enough: Navigating Perfectionism as a Leader and Mom with Jocelyn Auyeung 13.01.2025 44min

  In this insightful episode, Judy Tsuei sits down with Jocelyn Auyeung, an inspiring leader and mom, to explore a question many of us face but rarely ask: When is enough, enough? Jocelyn’s journey as a former educator, coach, and founder of Nurture ED Solutions offers a fresh perspective on how perfectionism and societal expectations shape us — especially as Asian American women balancing leadership, motherhood, and personal growth. Jocelyn shares her personal experiences with burnout in educa...
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  Episode 134: [Step 7] Grades Don’t Equal Brilliance — Rewriting Success as an Asian American Mom & Coach 06.01.2025 21min

  In this heart-opening episode, Judy Tsuei dives deep into the journey of embracing her neurodivergence, parenting with purpose, and breaking free from the perfection-driven mindset ingrained in many Asian American households. From learning to celebrate milestones (big and small) to redefining success beyond traditional metrics like grades and degrees, Judy shares powerful insights on raising a resourceful, self-aware child while healing her inner world. Listen in as Judy reflects on: H...
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  Episode 133: How to Live Boldly (and Embrace Fear) with Adoptee Le Anne Harper 30.12.2024 45min

  In this heartfelt and empowering episode, I sit down with Le Anne Harper, co-founder of Unlock, a company dedicated to expanding human potential through connection. Leanne shares her incredible journey as the eldest of five adopted children in a multiracial family, navigating identity, overcoming intergenerational trauma, and embracing life on her own terms. From her childhood as a transracial adoptee to her transformative experiences—like swimming with sharks and solo travel—Leanne reflects ...
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  Episode 132: [Step 6] Breaking the Rules to Rewrite Your Life 23.12.2024 12min

  In this episode of the F*ck Saving Face podcast, Judy Tsuei dives into the courage it takes to rewrite your own life script. Sharing her personal journey, she opens up about breaking societal and cultural norms, navigating divorce, and redefining what success in relationships truly means. Judy reflects on the challenges of unconventional choices, from getting pregnant before marriage to living in a camper van, and the lessons she’s learned about self-love, authenticity, and emotional growth. ...
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  Episode 131: Redefining Asian Matchmaking (and Pleasure) with Cassindy Chao 16.12.2024 17min

  In this candid and eye-opening episode of F*ck Saving Face, Judy Tsuei sits down with Asian matchmaker Cassindy Chao to explore the complexities of love, relationships, and intimacy within the Asian American community. Cassindy shares her journey from a high-powered career in finance to a purpose-driven path as a matchmaker, helping people unlearn cultural conditioning and find authentic love. They discuss the blind spots many Asian clients face, from people-pleasing tendencies to ster...
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  Episode 130: [Step 5] Embracing Pleasure Without Guilt 02.12.2024 14min

  In this powerful episode of F*ck Saving Face, Judy Tsuei dives deep into Step 5 of her upcoming book, How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American Guide. This chapter challenges cultural taboos around sexuality, self-care, and pleasure, offering a raw, vulnerable exploration of how these topics intersect with personal identity and family dynamics. Judy opens up about her own experiences, reflecting on how intergenerational trauma shapes our understanding of se...
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  Episode 129: Breaking the Stigma of Mental Health in Marginalized Communities with Dr. Nina Kaiser 18.11.2024 37min

  In this episode of the F*ck Saving Face podcast, Judy Tsuei speaks with Dr. Nina Kaiser, a licensed psychologist and founder of Practice San Francisco. They discuss the importance of mental health for marginalized communities, the stigma surrounding mental health treatment, and the need for early intervention. Dr. Kaiser emphasizes the significance of community support and the role of parents in fostering their children's emotional well-being. The conversation also touches on coping wit...
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  Episode 128: [Step 4] Breaking the Silence on Mental Health 12.11.2024 12min

  In this episode, Judy shares her deeply personal journey through the challenges of mental health and the transformative power of therapy. Tackling taboo topics within Asian American and communities of color, she unpacks her experiences with eating disorders and the ways therapy helped her uncover the root causes, find healing, and advocate for mental health. Key Moments: The Start of the Journey: Judy reflects on the beginnings of her eating disorder, her struggles to find help, and how cultu...
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  Episode 127: Embracing Imperfections: Self-Discovery & Cultural Identity with Betty Chan 04.11.2024 32min

  In this episode of the F*ck Saving Face podcast, Judy Tsuei interviews authenticity life coach Betty Chan, exploring themes of mental health, cultural identity, and the impact of authoritarian parenting. They discuss the concept of code switching, the importance of finding safety and authenticity, and the Japanese art of kintsugi as a metaphor for embracing imperfections. The conversation delves into managing emotions, particularly anger, and the coaching process as a journey of self-discover...