Long Game: a Heated Rivalry Podcast

Afleveringen

• 
  Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 9 - Rimmedgate 19.07.2026 49min

  Declan and Silvan break down the start of Shane and Ilya’s cottage escape in Part 9 of our Heated Rivary Book review. This week we are joined by Bri, who is a long-time listener of the podcast.Together, we explore why this chapter feels like such a turning point in their relationship, from the emotional significance of Shane inviting Ilya into his most personal space to the honesty, vulnerability and quiet intimacy that begin to replace years of secrecy. We also discuss Scott Hunter's impact on Shane and Ilya's future, the differences between Rachel Reid's novel and the TV adaptation, and why the later chapters of Heated Rivalry showcase some of Reid's strongest writing.As always, the conversation takes plenty of unexpected detours, including nostalgic pop culture references, discussions about Rachel Reid's brilliant blend of romance, humour and spice and one surprisingly passionate debate that inspired the title of the podcasrt episode. This has us questioning whether one particular scene in the book is actually believable.Vote for the podcast at the British Podcasting Awards - Listener’s choice here: https://www.britishpodcastawards.com/voting?fbclid=IwcGRvZgNmZGlkFlCkmoMrnAekl9q_Oiq5pW6ccq4aTDBleHRuA2FlbQEwAGFkaWQBqzYyDxIeMXNydGMGYXBwX2lkCjY2Mjg1NjgzNzkAAR6krBNj0vQ0HQJgGsYBmJQII6iHsj-9a3oWRYbYE6c90gTbrJOT84ROk3cl7g_aem_Iv3xITo7m3Dit1c_OhL32w&utm_medium=paid&utm_source=fb&utm_id=120249403576740433&utm_content=120249403588300433&utm_term=120249403577610433&utm_campaign=120249403576740433The next episode of the Long Game podcast will be released on Sunday 26th July 2026.Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: longgamepod2481@gmail.comFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to the Podcast on:Apple podcast: Spotify podcast: Amazon podcast: Watch it on youtube: Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697Chapters00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction01:31 Discussion of Chapter 23 Overview03:33 Character Development and Dialogue Analysis07:45 Exploring Relationship Dynamics11:11 Significance of Ilya's Commitment14:50 Self-Defense Mechanisms in Relationships18:17 Shane's Character and Hockey Obsession21:00 Contextualizing Scott and Kip's Relationship23:22 Ilya's Bravery and Public Persona26:33 Exploring Racy Scenes in the Chapter27:27 Evolving Relationships: Intimacy and Humor31:58 Exploring Sexual Dynamics in MM Romance41:10 Symbolism of the Cottage: A Reflection of Self45:50 Emotional Intimacy: The Journey of Connection
• 
  Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 8 - I’m coming to the Cottage 12.07.2026 56min

  Declan and Silvan dive into Part 8 of the Heated Rivalry book review.We explore how Rachel Reid uses crisis as the catalyst for emotional growth in Shane’s injury. We compare the novel with the TV adaptation, unpack why Shane and Ilya react so differently in each version, and discuss the psychology behind fear, avoidance, and the moment Ilya realises he cannot walk away.As always, we go off on a few tangents, like why third-act breakups frustrate us, whether redemption after cheating can ever work in romance, and how therapists naturally gravitate towards different characters. We also reflect on why finding the right therapist matters, how sensory memories shape our emotions, and why Shane's relationship with hockey changes as his life evolves.We finally reach one of the most iconic moments in the series, Scott and Kip's iconic kiss. We talk about why this scene carries so much emotional weight, what it means for Shane and Ilya's future, and why a single act of courage can create hope for everyone who follows.Vote for the podcast at the British Podcasting Awards - Listener’s choice here: https://www.britishpodcastawards.com/voting?fbclid=IwcGRvZgNmZGlkFlCkmoMrnAekl9q_Oiq5pW6ccq4aTDBleHRuA2FlbQEwAGFkaWQBqzYyDxIeMXNydGMGYXBwX2lkCjY2Mjg1NjgzNzkAAR6krBNj0vQ0HQJgGsYBmJQII6iHsj-9a3oWRYbYE6c90gTbrJOT84ROk3cl7g_aem_Iv3xITo7m3Dit1c_OhL32w&utm_medium=paid&utm_source=fb&utm_id=120249403576740433&utm_content=120249403588300433&utm_term=120249403577610433&utm_campaign=120249403576740433The next episode of the Long Game podcast will be released on Sunday 19th July 2026.Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: longgamepod2481@gmail.comFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to the Podcast on:Apple podcast: Spotify podcast: Amazon podcast: Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/gN7qrF8-by8Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697Chapters00:00 Introduction to Heated Rivalry Podcast01:44 Character Development and Emotional Conflicts06:47 Plot Devices in MM Romance10:43 The Impact of Cheating in Romance15:51 Shane's Injury: Book vs. TV Show18:41 Therapeutic Perspectives on Characters25:50 Concluding Thoughts on Relationships and Conflict26:16 The Complexity of Relationships30:44 Catalysts for Change34:38 Growth Through Time38:25 The Power of Touch46:12 Doubts and Fears54:26 Hope and Sacrifice
• 
  Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 7 - Shane’s glasses and the skype call 05.07.2026 59min

  Declan and Silvan go deeper into our Heated Rivalry deep dive in Part 7. We unpack one of the novel's most intimate and emotionally revealing chapters. What begins with a simple Skype call quickly becomes something far more significant, as Shane and Ilya move beyond physical attraction into a longing for domesticity, comfort, and a shared everyday life.We explore why Shane's glasses become such an unexpectedly powerful symbol, the psychology behind long-distance relationships, love languages, and the growing emotional vulnerability between two men who are trying desperately not to fall in love. We also compare Rachel Reid's novel with the TV adaptation, discussing Ilya's relationship with his father, complicated grief, and why the show adds new emotional layers to his character.We debate whether Shane's past experiences with other men strengthen or weaken the story, examine the subtle dom/sub dynamic developing between the pair, and ask what it really means to crave someone's presence more than their body.The conversation drifts into pop culture, internet boyfriends, glasses becoming unexpectedly attractive, and why being someone's weighted blanket might just be the ultimate love language.This is the quiet calm before everything changes.Request our meet up details on 19th July in Belfast here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfgNJIFlK10E3J7vjhrvgP6t6UFhcBfS0lqNVHyaTRFWL57XA/viewform?usp=publish-editorThe next episode of the Long Game podcast will be released on Sunday 12th July 2026.Listen to the Grief episode from Silvan’s Podcast he references: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495?i=1000611164149Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/57DNPWy7iSvLKeeWcmJrsdJoin our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: longgamepod2481@gmail.comFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to the Podcast on:Apple podcast: Spotify podcast: Amazon podcast: Watch it on youtube: Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697Chapters00:00 Introduction and Event Announcement01:01 Chapter 20: The Significance of Glasses10:54 Ilya's Family Obligations and Grief18:34 Intimacy and Vulnerability in Relationships28:06 Exploring Control and Trust in Relationships29:40 Navigating Long-Distance Relationships32:55 The Complexity of Emotional Connections35:10 Understanding Love Languages43:24 Character Backstories and Their Impact49:01 The Realities of Romance vs. Fiction54:13 The Sweetness of Longing and Love#podcast #podcastclips #heatedrivalryedit #silvates #connorstorrie #hudsonwilliams #shortsfeed #shortreels #silvates #mmromance #mlm #heatedrivalry  #gamechangernovel #heatedrivalrybook #bookclub
• 
  Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 6 - Coming out 28.06.2026 1u 15min

  Declan and Silvan unpack Part 6 of the Heated Rivalry novel. Here, Shane finally says the words he's spent years avoiding, and everything between him and Ilya begins to change. We examine one of the novel's biggest emotional turning points as Shane comes out to Ilya, leading to a conversation that's surprisingly understated and deeply significant. We explore why Rachel Reid's character writing feels so authentic, how the TV adaptation chooses what to keep (and what to reinvent), and why this moment marks a new stage in Shane and Ilya's relationship.We also dive into Ilya's devastating family story, discussing the quiet reveal of his mother's death, his father's Alzheimer's, and how grief, trauma and emotional masking shape the person he becomes. Along the way we compare the novel with the TV series, debate Jacob Tierney's adaptation choices, and explain why Connor Storrie's unforgettable Russian monologue may be one of the show's finest moments.Request our meet up details on 19th July in Belfast here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfgNJIFlK10E3J7vjhrvgP6t6UFhcBfS0lqNVHyaTRFWL57XA/viewform?usp=publish-editorThe next episode of the Long Game podcast will be released on Sunday 5th July 2026.Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: longgamepod2481@gmail.comFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/JadlJGRj9JQListen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697Chapters00:00 Introduction to Chapter 1701:40 Shane's Coming Out Moment09:24 Character Dynamics and Adaptation14:25 Exploring Emotional Responses24:18 The Impact of Grief and Loss39:18 Navigating Grief and Emotional Defense Mechanisms41:19 Shifting Tones: From Heavy to Light42:10 Exploring Intimacy and Vulnerability44:28 Understanding Complex Relationships47:11 Proactive Communication in Relationships49:35 The Complexity of Family Dynamics51:15 The Absence of Monologues: A Narrative Choice54:17 The Emotional Weight of Unexpressed Feelings58:51 Cultural Identity and Language Barriers01:02:42 The Struggle for Love and Acceptance01:04:33 Intimacy Through Shared Spaces01:08:37 The Obsession with Winning vs. Love01:11:43 The Fear of Losing Someone01:14:24 Taking Action in Relationships01:14:43 Missed Opportunities in Narrative
• 
  Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 5 - A Problem You Can Solve 21.06.2026 52min

  In Part 5 of our Heated Rivalry book club series, Silvan is joined by special guest Alicia, long-time listener and book club member. Together, we unpack Shane’s honest conversation with Rose and the realisation that the future he imagined for himself may not be the one he truly wants.Our discussion explores the differences between the book and the TV adaptation, from Rose’s role in Shane’s journey of self-discovery to the introduction of Svetlana and the ways both versions of the story handle friendship, family, and identity. Silvan and Alicia also dive into the subtle emotional beats of Ilya’s perspective, examining the heartbreak, longing, and misunderstandings that shape the reunion in Tampa.Along the way, Alicia brings a unique perspective as a Spanish reader who chose to read the novels in English, leading to a fascinating conversation about language, translation, immigration, and how cultural identity shapes both Shane and Ilya’s experiences. Find Alicia on instagram: mividaennaranja Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: longgamepod2481@gmail.comFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to the Podcast on:Apple podcast: Spotify podcast: Amazon podcast: Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/t9KnTDF_W0cListen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697Chapters00:00 Guest Introduction and Community Engagement01:36 Discovery of Heated Rivalry03:28 Discussion of Chapter 15 and Character Impressions07:13 Sexual Dynamics in the Story12:42 Character Development and Representation18:06 Women in Hockey and Their Knowledge22:57 Exploring Problem-Solving Perspectives24:46 Character Dynamics and Misunderstandings25:43 Inner Monologues and Relationship Realizations28:57 Coping Mechanisms and Emotional Repression32:06 Language and Cultural Adaptation39:01 Elia's Language Journey40:30 Cultural Displacement and Identity44:19 The Immigrant Experience47:44 Language and Emotional Expression50:39 Reflections on Representation in Media
• 
  Next Door Director Caroline Plyler on Queer Storytelling & Vertical Filmmaking 14.06.2026 1u 28min

  Declan and Silvan sit down with Caroline Plyler, director of the hit vertical romance Next Door, to discuss her journey from actor and script supervisor to first-time director. Caroline shares how her own experiences  shaped the story, why she wanted to create the "queer Disney Channel movie we never got," and what it has been like seeing audiences around the world connect with Kit and River's love story.We explore the rise of vertical filmmaking, how platforms like Candy Jar are changing the way stories are discovered, and why Caroline believes mobile-first storytelling is here to stay. She also gives us a behind-the-scenes look at directing Next Door, working with first-time leads, collaborating with cast and crew, and the realities of making a film for today's social-media generation.We discuss queer representation in media, the importance of joyful LGBTQ+ stories, Caroline's love of Sophia Coppola, the books she'd love to adapt, and her advice for aspiring filmmakers looking to break into the industry.Next Door is available now on Candy Jar.Fine Caroline on Instagram and Tiktok: carolinegrayplylerFind CandyJar on Instagram and Tiktok: watchcandyjarJoin our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: longgamepod2481@gmail.comFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to the Podcast on:Apple podcast: Spotify podcast: Amazon podcast: Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/NqD-jMfkq7gListen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697Chapters00:00 Introduction to Next Door and Its Impact02:41 Caroline's Directorial Debut and Personal Connection06:01 The Unique Appeal of Next Door10:20 Creating a Wholesome Queer Narrative12:03 The Importance of Diverse Queer Representation15:18 Audience Reactions and Surprises16:59 Caroline's Journey to Directing20:01 The Role of Script Supervision25:24 The Importance of Preparation in Filmmaking35:16 Preparation and Respect for the Crew36:06 Directorial Styles and Preferences38:06 Inspirations from Iconic Directors39:39 The Journey with Candy Jar Productions42:00 Resonating with the Story of Nextdoor46:28 Creating a Lighthearted Queer Romance48:52 Vertical Storytelling: A New Format54:27 The Impact of Second Screen Watching01:03:04 The Future of Vertical Storytelling01:04:32 Opportunities with Candy Jar Productions01:06:49 The Impact of Fan Creations01:09:08 Adapting Queer Stories01:16:01 Advice for Aspiring Filmmakers01:19:42 Quickfire Questions with Caroline01:24:30 The Heart of 'Next Door'
• 
  Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 4 - Rose 07.06.2026 50min

  Declan and Silvan dive into Part 4 of our Heated Rivalry book review series. This is one of the most important introductions in the entire story, Rose.We compare Rachel Reid's novel with the TV adaptation, and explore why Rose feels different on the page versus on screen. I’m e discuss how Sophie Nélisse's performance elevated the character and why Shane and Rose's relationship serves such an important purpose in Shane's journey toward self-acceptance.Along the way, we unpack the idea of "meeting the right woman," reflect on our own experiences of questioning identity, and discuss how both the book and show portray the pressure to follow a traditional path before embracing who you really are.We also spend time breaking down the club scene, from wardrobe choices and celebrity culture to the emotional tension between Shane and Ilya. Does Shane and Rose's whirlwind romance feel longer than it actually is? We dfiscuss if Rachel Reid missed an opportunity to explore Shane's perspective more deeply during one of the story's most pivotal moments.This episode is packed with character analysis, adaptation comparisons, personal reflections, and plenty of tangents about dancing, fashion, skinny jeans, and why Rose remains one of the most beloved characters in the Heated Rivalry universe.The next episode of the podcast will be published on Sunday 14th June.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Rose and Character Comparisons02:41 The Role of Rose in Shane's Journey05:50 Language and Feminist Commentary in Character Dialogue08:09 Shane's Internal Struggle with Identity11:17 The Dynamics of Shane and Rose's Relationship13:18 The Impact of Time on Relationships in the Story16:04 Celebrity Culture and Public Perception19:00 The Club Scene: Book vs. TV Show22:08 Fashion and Social Expectations in Club Culture29:00 Body Image and Insecurities31:56 Fashion and Identity35:51 Atmosphere in Storytelling39:21 Dancing Dynamics44:28 Sexual Tension and Character Development49:08 Missed Opportunities in NarrativeJoin our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: longgamepod2481@gmail.comFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to the Podcast on:Apple podcast: Spotify podcast: Amazon podcast: Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/hnlLC04hXjUListen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697
• 
  Heated Rivalry Fan fiction Part 2: Angst, Tropes & Emotional Damage 31.05.2026 1u 36min

  Declan and Silvan are joined by Jenn from the Book Refuge for Part 2 of our Fan fiction and AO3 episode. We go deeper into the world of AO3 and fancition. We cover tags such as hurt/comfort and soulmate Alternate Universess to secret marriages, social media disasters, and the infamous plane crash fic. Jenn guides us through the stories that have captured the Heated Rivalry fandom's imagination. We explore why readers are drawn to angst, whether suffering makes a love story more meaningful and how fanfiction allows us to revisit beloved characters in entirely new ways while keeping the original story intact.We also unpack the difference between canon, fanon, and headcanon, discuss why some fanfiction can successfully transition into traditionally published novels while others lose the very thing that made them special and debate what makes readers emotionally invest in a story in the first place.Jenn puts us to the test with a fanfiction recommendation game, where we rank a selection of Heated Rivalry fanfics based only on their summaries. Some are romantic, some are chaotic, some are surprisingly emotional and a few leave us wondering what exactly we've gotten ourselves into.This episode is a celebration of fandom creativity, storytelling, and the many ways readers keep Shane and Ilya's story alive long after the final page.The next episode of the podcast will be published on Sunday 7th June.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Fanfiction and AO301:46 Exploring Heated Rivalry Tropes07:22 The Community of Fanfiction Writers11:20 Understanding Gender Dynamics in Romance18:09 Recommendations for New Readers of Romance18:39 Exploring Romance Preferences20:56 Character Connection in Storytelling23:40 The Value of Emotional Stakes26:33 The Role of Antiheroes in Fan Fiction29:03 Transforming Villains into Heroes32:25 The Impact of Fan Fiction on Canon35:55 The Appeal of Catastrophe in Stories39:57 The Creative Process in Fan Fiction42:46 The Challenge of Traditional Publishing45:24 Understanding Canon vs. Fanon51:40 The Separation of Fan Fiction and Traditional Publishing01:08:00 The Fallout of Public Breakups01:11:01 Fan Fiction and Social Media Dynamics01:13:58 Exploring Alternate Universes in Fan Fiction01:19:36 The Complexity of Relationships in Fiction01:23:44 The Appeal of Fake Relationships01:28:42 The Intrigue of Cheating and Open RelationshipsJoin our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind Jenn:Instagram: thebookrefuge18Youtube: TheBookRefugeFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: longgamepod2481@gmail.comFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to the Podcast on:Apple podcast: Spotify podcast: Amazon podcast: Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/ua60zP9zahkListen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697Fic recommendations we spoke about in this episode:Mutually Assured Exposure: https://archiveofourown.org/works/77434821/chapters/202760196  Slipfast:  https://archiveofourown.org/works/73643456/chapters/191997696 The Game Plan: https://archiveofourown.org/works/42797457/chapters/107510184  Something You Can Fix: https://archiveofourown.org/works/76495636 Shane Hollander is dating a nice man from Montreal: https://archiveofourown.org/works/77871996/chapters/204023421 If This Is It: https://archiveofourown.org/works/80245286/chapters/210674496
• 
  Heated Rivalry, Fan Fiction & AO3: Part 1 24.05.2026 1u 23min

  Silvan is joined by special guest Jenn from The Book Refuge for a deep dive into the passionate world of Heated Rivalry fandom, fan fiction, and the phenomenon of AO3.Jenn shares her journey into fan fiction culture, including how Heated Rivalry became one of the biggest fandoms on AO3. We unpack why these characters inspire such devotion, what makes romance adaptations so emotionally powerful when done well and why fandom spaces can feel both deeply creative and deeply personal.Together we explore what AO3 actually is and how it works, why Heated Rivalry lends itself so perfectly to fan fiction, the blurred lines between authorship, creativity, and community and the legal and ethical complexities surrounding fan works.If you are a longtime AO3 reader or someone hearing the term for the first time, this episode is a fascinating exploration of why people become so attached to fictional characters why Shane and Ilya continue to resonate so deeply with fans around the world.The next episode of the podcast will be published on Sunday 31st May.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Setup00:40 Exploring Heated Rivalry and Fan Fiction03:41 Diving into the Fan Fiction World06:28 The Impact of Adaptations on Romance09:42 The Role of AO3 in Fan Fiction12:29 The Significance of Romance in Storytelling28:30 Exploring the World of Fan Fiction30:21 The Legal Landscape of Fan Fiction37:18 The Gift Economy of Fan Fiction42:11 The Allure of Heated Rivalry Fan Fiction46:35 Understanding Tags in Fan Fiction58:03 The Impact of Wolfbird and Opal Apparition01:00:33 The Popularity of Fan Fiction01:02:25 The Impact of Unfinished Works01:05:17 The Drama Surrounding Fan Fiction Authors01:07:02 Navigating Fandom and Parasocial Relationships01:11:03 The Role of Fiction in Understanding Diverse Experiences01:13:51 Creating a Safe Space in Online Communities01:14:00 Handling Criticism as a Content Creator01:15:37 Exploring Diverse Romance in Literature01:21:00 The Journey into MM RomanceJoin our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind Jenn:Instagram: thebookrefuge18Youtube: TheBookRefugeFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: longgamepod2481@gmail.comFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to the Podcast on:Apple podcast: Spotify podcast: Amazon podcast: Watch it on youtube: Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697References for material Jenn spoke about today:Series of YT videos by Jill Bearup: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLj4N-R1RQxAs2v9G09lNy4oyAnGBBUtW3&si=d1osuTsCvf_6ykw8 An Exhaustive Defense of Fan Fiction: https://youtu.be/wvP_BLMgYBg?si=NoOIu5jxUh3AtigJ Ao3’s Mission Statement: https://archiveofourown.org/about Ao3’s FAQ Page: https://archiveofourown.org/faq/about-the-archive?language_id=en#whatisao3 Slash Fiction (Wiki): https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slash_fiction#:~:text=It%20is%20commonly%20believed%20that,Spock%22)%20were%20used%20interchangeably Reddit Thread about Opal Apparition: https://www.reddit.com/r/heatedrivalryfanfics/comments/1sbnnuz/this_has_actually_made_me_feel_physically_sick/ 
• 
  Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 3- Tuna Melt 17.05.2026 1u 22min

  Declan and Silvan dive into Part 3 the Heated Rivalry book review. We finally reach one of the most emotionally charged turning points in Shane and Ilya’s relationship and we had a lot to say about it.From the aquarium scenes with Hayden and the subtle hints about Shane’s fears around family, to the infamous penthouse chapter, ginger ale, tuna melts, and one devastating use of first names, we unpack how Rachel Reid uses intimacy, domesticity, and even sex itself as storytelling devices. We explore how these chapters shift Shane and Ilya from “hookups” into something far more vulnerable, and why Shane’s panic feels so heartbreaking once you understand what’s really going on underneath it all.We also discuss queer identity, denial, internalised shame, reclaiming slurs, chosen futures, and how the TV adaptation changes and deepens the emotional beats from the book. Plus, Declan goes on an anti-pickle rant, we accidentally term the phrase “tuna spit,” and we somehow end up talking about Shakespeare in the middle of all of it.This episode covers chapters 12 onward and sets the stage for one of the most painful stretches of the book.The next episode of the podcast will be published on Sunday 24th May at 10am (GMT).Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Heated Rivalry Podcast00:28 Exploring Character Development in Chapters 12-1505:26 The Complexity of Family Dynamics09:28 The Pressure of Traditional Expectations12:35 Navigating Identity and Relationships16:44 The Impact of Language and Labels24:58 Shane's Sensitivity and Foreshadowing27:18 The Complexity of Parenthood and Relationships31:53 Navigating Long-Term Hookup Dynamics35:40 Sexual Dynamics and Power Play47:30 The Shift Towards Intimacy54:02 Confronting Domesticity and Vulnerability57:34 Conflicted Emotions and Inner Turmoil58:23 Denial and Acceptance in Relationships01:00:24 Character Depth: Ilya's Backstory01:03:50 Intimacy vs. Physicality in Relationships01:06:46 The Significance of Names in Connection01:10:18 Emotional Climax and Vulnerability01:14:04 Conflict and Pacing in Storytelling01:19:25 Building Intimacy Over TimeJoin our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: longgamepod2481@gmail.comFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to the Podcast on:Apple podcast: Spotify podcast: Amazon podcast: Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/tjtQNj3qXr8Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697
• 
  Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 2 - Vegas 10.05.2026 1u 17min

  In part two of our Heated Rivalry book review series, Declan and Silvan dive deeper into the emotional chaos, yearning, and tension that turns Shane and Ilya’s relationship from a physical rivalry into something far more dangerous. What started as criticism in part one quickly becomes obsession as the pair unpack chapters 9–11 of and realise this is where the story truly finds its rhythm.We discuss Ryan Price’s introduction and the early exploration of anxiety and mental health and Ilya’s protective instincts and the complicated relationship he has with his father. We explore why Ilya might be the most psychologically complex character in the series, how trauma and perfectionism shape his behaviour, and why the TV adaptation deepened certain emotional beats even further.Our conversation also unpacks the infamous Vegas scene, the shifting power dynamics between Shane and Ilya, and the subtle ways intimacy is portrayed differently in the books versus the TV show. Plus, we discuss Rachel Reid’s bonus Ilya POV chapter, why it completely changes the tone of the Vegas encounter, and how it reveals just how heartbreakingly in love Ilya already is.Along the way, there’s discussion of Hudson and Connor’s rising fame, future season predictions for the show, emotional communication failures, improvised TV moments that made fans lose their minds, and why the “we didn’t even kiss” text still hurts.The next episode of the podcast will be published on Sunday 17th May at 10am (GMT).Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: longgamepod2481@gmail.comFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697Listen to the Podcast on:Apple podcast: Spotify podcast: Amazon podcast: Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/Bm92FVXKCHIChapters00:00 Introduction to Part Two01:35 Character Development and Emotional Depth02:34 Introduction of Ryan Price04:17 Ilya's Protective Nature08:37 The Impact of Fame on Characters11:45 Predictions for Future Seasons14:35 Character Dynamics and Relationships17:34 The Evolution of Ilya's Character20:25 Realism in Character Roles22:39 Shane's Commitment and Actions25:33 Yuna's Role in the Story28:55 Sexual Tension and Writing Quality31:14 Comparing Book and Show Intimacy37:53 Pressure of the Olympics on Ilya39:08 The Weight of Leadership42:13 Family Dynamics and Personal Struggles47:32 The Complexity of Relationships48:59 The Pain of Separation56:36 The Power of Perspective59:01 Control and Power Dynamics01:06:17 The Significance of the Extra Chapter
• 
  Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 1 - First Impressions 03.05.2026 1u 14min

  In this episode of the podcast, Declan and Silvan dive into the Heated Rivalry book. Covering the first eight chapters, we begin a multi-part deep dive into how the original story compares to the TV adaptation, and whether the book lives up to the hype.Coming to the story from two very different perspectives, Declan as a longtime reader and Silvan as a first-time book reader shaped by the show, our conversation explores first impressions, biases, and the challenge of separating beloved on-screen portrayals from the source material. We unpack the book’s bold opening, its heavy focus on physical intimacy, and whether the pacing works when read as a standalone versus part of a larger duology. Along the way, we explore key differences in characterisationOur discussion also gets into adaptation choices: what the TV show adds, what it elevates, and what gets lost in translation. Expect thoughtful critique, a bit of gay panic analysis, and plenty of debate about writing choices, tropes, and what makes this story resonate so strongly with fans.The next episode of the podcast will be published on Sunday 10th May at 10am (GMT).Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: longgamepod2481@gmail.comFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697Listen to the Podcast on:Apple podcast: Spotify podcast: Amazon podcast: Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/YIKoVyKK7msChapters00:00 Introduction to Heated Rivalry03:08 Comparing Heated Rivalry and Game Changer05:46 Character Analysis: Ilya and Shane08:31 Differences in Character Portrayal11:23 Pacing and Emotional Depth14:47 Sexual Dynamics and Their Purpose16:53 Prologue and Story Structure20:13 Time Jumps and Character Development27:58 Realism in Relationships31:04 Sound and Storytelling in Adaptation34:24 Creative Adaptation and Elevation of Material37:38 Character Perspectives and Narration39:25 Main Character Dynamics42:49 Character Arcs and Stakes47:09 Tropes and Character Descriptions50:06 Easter Eggs and References51:18 Character Interactions and Humor53:31 Exploring Anxiety Through Visual Mediums54:34 The Dynamics of Sexual Encounters57:24 Power Dynamics in Relationships57:32 Navigating Gay Panic and Sexual Awakening59:53 Emotional Distance and Intimacy01:02:08 The Complexity of Sexual Experiences01:03:27 Character Development and Emotional Depth01:07:16 The Significance of Awards and Recognition01:11:20 Characterization and Emotional Context01:12:13 Comparative Analysis of Writing Styles
• 
  Masculinity and Sport in Heated Rivalry: Part 2 26.04.2026 1u

  Declan and Silvan are joined by Lizzy from the Self aware podcast in  Part 2 of this special discussion on masculinity and sport in Heated Rivalry. In this episode, we explore the emotional cost of elite athletic culture through the lens of Shane, Ilya and Scott.Building on last week’s episode, the conversation moves beyond performance and into identity, intimacy, and emotional survival. We question why physical closeness between male athletes encouraged, while emotional vulnerability feels almost impossible. We explore why can Shane and Ilya fight, joke, and touch each other with ease and yet struggle to actually say how they feel.Drawing on her experience coaching young male athletes, Lizzy breaks down how sport teaches men to process emotion through aggression, competition, and physicality, while often neglecting emotional awareness altogether. Together, we discuss everything from performance anxiety and coping strategies to toxic competitiveness, role models, therapy in sport, and the psychological differences between Shane’s controlled overthinking and Ilya’s instinct-driven intensity.The next episode of the podcast will be published on Sunday 3rd May at 10am (GMT).Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: longgamepod2481@gmail.comFind Lizzy:The shelf aware podcastInstagram: @ shelfawarepodcast and @ lizzyb_readsFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697Listen to the Podcast on:Apple podcast: Spotify podcast: Amazon podcast: Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/GcAc7RKrBSMChapters00:00 Introduction to Masculinity in Sport01:28 Physical vs. Emotional Connection in Athletes04:21 The Importance of Mental Health in Sports07:29 Role Models and Vulnerability in Athletics10:31 Coaching Responsibilities and Mental Health Support13:33 The Impact of Psychological Support on Performance16:37 Emotional States and Athletic Performance19:18 Coping Strategies for Athletes22:16 The Balance of Instinct and Preparation in Sports25:33 Aggression and Performance Expectations in Hockey38:51 The Nature of Competition in Sports44:00 Cultural Influences on Aggression in Sports48:51 The Balance of Winning and Team Dynamics54:00 The Role of Coaches and Mentorship in Sports58:58 The Impact of Role Models in Sports59:38 Reevaluating Success in Athletic Environments
• 
  Beyond the Game: Masculinity & Mental Health in Sport Part 1 19.04.2026 55min

  In this episode of the podcast, Silvan and Declan are joined by special guest Lizzy, who is a college athletics coach, former competitive thrower, and co-host of the Shelf aware Podcast, for a conversation about masculinity, sport, and emotional expression.Drawing on her lived experience as both an athlete and a coach working closely with young men in sport, Lizzy offers an insider perspective on the pressures, expectations, and unspoken rules that shape male athletes. We explore how environments like hockey and elite sport more broadly, rewarding emotional suppression, reinforce narrow definitions of masculinity and often leave little room for vulnerability.We also unpack the contrasting ways characters like Shane and Ilya navigate these pressures, linking their behaviours to real-world dynamics in coaching, team culture, and performance psychology. Our conversation moves between theory and lived experience, touching on concepts like anxiety and performance, the role of coaches as emotional role models and the long-term impact of treating athletes as commodities rather than people.Lizzie also reflects candidly on her experience as a woman coaching in a male-dominated space, highlighting the challenges and the unique opportunities to shift culture.This is part one of a two-part discussion, so be sure to tune in next week for part two for more analysis.The next episode of the podcast will be published on Sunday 26th April at 10am (GMT).Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: longgamepod2481@gmail.comFind Lizzy:The shelf aware podcastInstagram: @ shelfawarepodcast and @ lizzyb_readsFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/gufn8ixF5z0Chapters00:00 Welcome to the Podcast01:21 Exploring Masculinity in Sports03:08 Lizzie's Background in Sports and Coaching06:46 The Role of Coaches in Athlete Development08:35 Differences in College Sports: US vs UK12:40 NIL Deals and Athlete Compensation16:50 The Pressure of Being a Student-Athlete20:37 Behavioral Expectations in Sports24:53 Anxiety and Performance in Athletes30:33 Mental Health Awareness in Sports36:20 The Role of the Therapist in Psychodynamic Therapy37:26 Impact of External Factors on Athletic Performance38:25 The Need for Emotional Role Models in Sports39:52 Coaching Beyond the Game: Building Relationships41:19 The Evolution of Coaching Methodologies42:24 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence in Coaching45:28 Challenging Traditional Gender Roles in Coaching49:29 Empowerment Through Coaching: A New Perspective54:33 The Future of Coaching: Teaching Beyond the Sport
• 
  Book Club: Game Changers Part 2 - Conflicts and Consequences (Heated Rivalry) 12.04.2026 42min

  In Part 2 of our Game Changers book club series, we dive into the second half of the novel (Chapters 16 to the end). This is where the tension finally breaks, the relationship is tested, and the cracks we’ve been anticipating start to show.We unpack the long-awaited conflict between Scott and Kip and discuss if it was it worth the build-up, or did it fall flat? We talk about pacing issues and repetitive intimacy to the emotional payoff (or lack of it), we get honest about what worked and what didn’t. We also explore the deeper dynamics at play: Kip’s passivity, Scott’s emotional blind spots, and whether their resolution feels earnest or just rushed.There’s lot of debate, including whether a certain moment crosses the line into cheating, and why no one seems to be talking about it. We also reflect on themes of communication, agency, and what makes a relationship feel genuinely satisfying on the page.We highlight the moments that do land, such as Scott’s character growth to the epilogue that left us smiling  and discuss how this book sets the foundation for the wider series.We wrap up with our final ratings, thoughts on Rachel Reid’s writing at this stage in the series, and whether Game Changers is a strong starting point for the Heated Rivalry universe.Let us know, did you love Game changers?The next episode of the podcast will be published on Sunday 19th April at 10am (GMT).Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: longgamepod2481@gmail.comFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to Silvan's Podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/UKu0nyLKDS4Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Heated Rivalry Podcast00:30 General Thoughts on Game Changer02:29 Critique of Repetitive Content05:32 The Role of Conflict in Character Development08:25 Emotional Weight of the Big Fight09:49 Underwhelming Resolution of Conflict11:29 The Dynamics of Relationships14:16 Toxic Patterns in Love16:09 The Complexity of Breakups19:09 Cheating and Its Implications23:10 Kip's Passivity and Agency26:38 Character Growth and Pacing31:43 Coming Out for Yourself35:43 The Epilogue: A Safe Space
• 
  Book Club: Game Changer Part 1 - Our First Impressions (Heated Rivalry) 05.04.2026 1u 4min

  Welcome to the first episode of our book club. Declan and Silvan dive into the Game Changer, the book by Rachel Reid that started off the whole book Heated Rivalry series and introduced Scott and Kip.Coming to the story from a TV-first perspective, we explore what it feels like to read Game Changers with the show still fresh in mind. We talk about the challenge of separating the book versions of these characters from their on-screen counterparts, and how adaptation can both lose and elevate different parts of a story.We discuss our first impressions of book Scott and Kip, including how differently Scott comes across on the page, why aging him up in the show was such a smart creative decision, and how Kip feels especially relatable as a young man trying to figure out life after university. We also get into the pacing of the book, the portrayal of romance and intimacy, and whether the show strengthens certain characters and conflicts in ways that make the story feel more emotionally compelling.Along the way, we reflect on what works so well in the adaptation, what feels more effective in the book, and why comparing the two versions is so interesting when they are telling almost the same story in very different ways.This is part one of our Game Changers discussion, covering the first half of the book up to chapter 15. In part two, we’ll return to the second half and see whether our thoughts change once the full story unfolds. We also share more about our Fable book club, so if you’re reading along with us, this is the perfect place to jump in.The next episode of the podcast will be published on Sunday 12th April at 10am (GMT).Join the Long game book club on fable here: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: longgamepod2481@gmail.comFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/4y2MeHAAIi0Chapters00:00 Introduction to Game Changers02:59 Adaptation Challenges: Book vs. Show05:44 Character Comparisons: Scott and Kip11:46 Exploring Kip's Character17:45 Navigating Early Adulthood23:32 Family Dynamics and Backgrounds27:58 Love, Lust, and Relationship Dynamics35:00 Kip's Boundaries and Personal Growth39:15 Elena's Role: Book vs. TV Show45:01 The Role of Sex in Storytelling57:40 Comparing Book and Show: Strengths and Weaknesses01:01:49 Community Engagement and Future Discussions
• 
  How Trauma Shapes Heated Rivalry: Part 2 29.03.2026 1u 7min

  In part two of the trauma focused episode, Declan and Silvan continue their discussion with trauma therapist and comedian Eliza, going deeper into the emotional and psychological layers of Heated Rivalry.This episode explores how trauma shapes the way Shane and Ilya relate to each other, from minority stress and emotional suppression to dissociation, control, attachment wounds, and defence mechanisms. Together, we unpack the difference between intensity and intimacy, the role of trauma in sexual relationships, and why seemingly messy dynamics can still hold genuine care, trust, and emotional growth.We also talk about aftercare, power and control, how humour works as a release of tension, and the ways vulnerability and comedy are intertwined throughout the show. Along the way, the conversation expands into therapy, transference, emotional safety, and what each character might look like in the therapy room.It’s a thoughtful, funny, and nuanced deep dive into what Heated Rivalry gets so right about trauma, connection, and healing, and why the show continues to invite so much analysis from its audience.The next episode of the podcast will be published on Sunday 5th February at 10am (GMT).Join the Long game book club on fable here: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: longgamepod2481@gmail.comFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Find Eliza on Instagram and tiktok: elizaisntfunnyWatch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/WTOKU953F1wChapters00:00 Exploring Trauma in Relationships04:52 Understanding Big T and Little t Trauma08:26 The Dynamics of Control in Relationships11:13 Trauma and Sexual Relationships14:10 Transference and Countertransference in Therapy19:19 The Impact of Projections in Therapy22:32 Differentiating Trauma Bonding from Deep Connections29:41 Defense Mechanisms in Relationships32:27 Communication Styles and Vulnerability36:29 The Role of Humor in Vulnerability39:15 Understanding Ilya's Sincerity41:40 Language Barriers and Humor45:01 The Intersection of Comedy and Vulnerability47:20 Creating Comedy from Heated Rivalry54:08 Therapeutic Insights on Shane and Rose01:01:26 Dissociation and Trauma Representation in Media
• 
  Heated Rivalry Explained by a Trauma Therapist: Part 1 22.03.2026 1u 9min

  In part one of this special two-part episode of Long Game: A Heated Rivalry Podcast, Declan and Silvan are joined by trauma therapist and comedian Eliza to unpack why Heated Rivalry feels so emotionally intense. Together, we explore the obsession, attachment, longing, and emotional pull that has made the show so impossible to stop thinking about.From ADHD hyperfixation and dopamine hits, to yearning, restraint, masculinity, and queer joy, this episode digs into the psychology of why the story lands so deeply for so many people. Eliza brings both her therapist lens and her sharp sense of humour to the conversation. We reflect on the artistry of the adaptation, the emotional intelligence of the writing, and the way the show trusts its audience.We also get into attachment styles, emotional suppression, the role of hockey culture and toxic masculinity, and why Shane, Ilya, Scott, and Kip all resonate in such different ways. Plus, a brief detour into sad songs, gym motivation, and why sometimes a scene from Heated Rivalry works like emotional “charcuterie.”This is part one of the conversation. In part two, we go even deeper into trauma, defence mechanisms, and humour.The next episode of the podcast will be published on Sunday 29th March at 10am (GMT).Join the Long game book club on fable here: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: longgamepod2481@gmail.comFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Find Eliza on Instagram and tiktok: elizaisntfunnyWatch it on youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZHnYmpPeBsIChapters:00:00 Book Club Announcement01:18 Exploring the Intensity of Rivalry02:54 The Impact of Media on Emotions06:05 Cultural Representation in Romance08:58 Psychological Perspectives on Obsession12:40 The Role of Toxic Masculinity16:34 Emotional Suppression and Trauma20:22 Longing and Its Narrative Power24:19 Fantasy vs. Reality in Relationships28:10 Aspirational Love in Media38:08 The Podcasting Journey38:15 Yearning vs. Actualization in Relationships41:16 The Reality of Post-Honeymoon Relationships42:27 The Addictive Nature of Longing43:54 Dopamine and Emotional Connection through Media51:28 Attachment Styles and Their Impact on Relationships57:17 Emotional Maturity in Relationships01:03:35 Scott and Kip: A Study in Love Bombing and Emotional Availability
• 
  Heated Rivalry Episode 6 Part 3: The end of the secret 08.03.2026 49min

  Declan and Silvan reach the final part of our deep dive into Episode 6 of Heated Rivalry.After Shane’s Father discovers Shane and Ilya together, the episode shifts into one of the most emotionally powerful sequences of the series. We unpack Shane’s spiral, the quiet but powerful support Ilya provides, and the tense dinner that turns into something far more meaningful.At the centre of this episode is the heartbreaking and healing conversation between Shane and his mother. We talk about the weight of internalised shame, the experience of trying to be someone you’re not, and why Yuna’s apology is such a profound moment for so many queer viewers. For many people, this scene represents the conversation they wish they could have had, or still hope to have one day.We also explore the body language in the family dinner scene, the humour woven into tense moments, Ilya finally being welcomed into Shane’s family and the emotional significance of someone being able to pull Shane out of his panic spiral.Beyond the episode itself, we reflect on why representation like this matters, how queer characters have historically been portrayed in media, and why Heated Rivalry feels different.Finally, we wrap up our rewatch of Season 1 by reflecting on the journey of Shane and Ilya. We want to thank everyone who has joined us for the podcast so far.It’s definitely not the end of the podcast, because we are starting a book club, beginning with Game Changers. Please join our fable Book club for free so we can read Game Changers together. Here’s the link to join: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCThere will be no episode next Sunday, whilst we record more content. The next podcast episode will be published on Sunday 22nd March at 10am (GMT).Find us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: longgamepod2481@gmail.comFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/HGg2C3NhXBYChapters00:00 Artistic Choices and Relationship Growth00:32 Parental Observations and Anxieties02:15 Shane's Emotional Turmoil and Support04:18 The Impact of Apologies and Healing06:16 Childlike Innocence and Humor in Relationships08:15 Cultural Differences in Expressions of Love11:53 The Importance of Representation in Media23:54 The Healing Power of Parental Acknowledgment30:25 Exploring Queer Love Stories33:16 Emotional Dynamics in Relationships36:19 The Complexity of Coming Out38:58 Pacing and Storytelling in LGBTQ+ Narratives41:51 Satisfying Conclusions and Future Prospects44:30 Reflections on the Podcast Journey
• 
  Heated Rivalry Episode 6 Part 2: The Emotional Shift 01.03.2026 44min

  We are still at the cottage. Welcome back to Episode 6, part 2. In this episode, Declan and Silvan peel back the layers that make this story resonate for so many people craving authentic representation. We break down where Shane and Ilya’s playful banter turns into a heartfelt confession, showing how their love grows gradually. We analyse the subtle storytelling that creates emotional catharsis, like Shane’s panic attacks, Ilya’s opening up in Russian and the quiet scenes bathed in an art-house style. We also examine how the story balances intense emotional stakes with light humour, making the characters’ victories all the more powerful.The next podcast episode will be published on Sunday 8th March at 10am (GMT).Find us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Watch it on youtube: Chapters00:00 Exploring the Cottage Dynamics02:33 Video Games and Friendship04:41 The Playful Side of Ilya07:25 Pushing Boundaries in Relationships10:37 The Complexity of Love and Rejection13:23 The Weight of Expectations15:58 Navigating Communication Challenges19:07 The Theme of Retirement and Sacrifice21:55 The Power of Love and Acceptance24:57 The Emotional Catharsis27:45 The Struggle Between Love and Career30:48 The Aftermath of Love Confessions38:50 The Evolution of Intimacy40:06 Post-Sex Reflections and Relationship Dynamics42:20 Artistic Choices and Relationship Growth