Surrender to Heal: Biblical Healing|Trauma Recovery| Nervous System Regulation| Faith| Mental Health

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  Ep. 215: Why You Don’t Feel Safe (Even When You Are) 29.07.2026 17min

  Hey friend, welcome back to the podcast! I’m so glad you’re here. Have you ever noticed that life can finally be calm, but your body still feels anxious, on edge, or like you’re waiting for something bad to happen? In this episode, we’re talking about why feeling safe isn’t just about your circumstances—it’s also about your nervous system. If you’ve lived through trauma, chronic stress, disappointment, or emotional pain, your body may still be operating from survival mode even though the danger has passed. Together, we’ll explore how God gently leads us from fear into His peace and what it looks like to teach your body that it’s safe again. In This Episode, We Discuss: * Why your nervous system can stay on high alert after difficult seasons * How hypervigilance and chronic stress keep you stuck in survival mode * Why peace can actually feel uncomfortable at first * What Psalm 23 teaches us about God’s invitation to rest * Five practical ways to help your mind and body begin experiencing safety again Scripture: Isaiah 26:3 – “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in You.” Psalm 23 – “He makes me lie down in green pastures… He restores my soul.” Just because your body doesn’t feel safe today doesn’t mean it can’t learn to experience God’s peace. Your Healing Step This Week: When you notice yourself feeling anxious or on high alert, pause. Take a slow, deep breath, place your hand over your heart, and simply pray, “Jesus, remind my body that I’m safe with You.” Practice this throughout the week as you begin teaching your nervous system to rest in God’s presence. Ready to Go Deeper? If you’re tired of living on high alert and you’re ready to move from survival mode into lasting peace, I’d love to walk alongside you inside Surrender to Heal Academy. Inside the Academy, you’ll learn how to regulate your nervous system, renew your mind with biblical truth, process emotional wounds, and experience the peace God created you to live in—all within a supportive community and with personal coaching along the way. ✨ Save $100 this month: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfLcT3gcPlXXeqJLE8A2Dcj2YH9yTQ_lwknEYNyBTp-Vw8zZA/viewform 🤍 Remember: Healing happens one surrendered step at a time. Until next time… let’s surrender and heal together. 
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  Ep. 214: When Your Body Remembers What Your Mind Has Forgotten 18.07.2026 32min

  Hey friend, welcome back to the podcast! I’m so glad you’re here. Have you ever wondered why you still feel anxious, triggered, or on edge—even though the painful season is over? Sometimes your mind knows you’re safe, but your body is still responding from old stress, wounds, and survival patterns. In today’s episode of Surrender to Heal, we’re talking about the connection between your nervous system, old wounds, and faith—and why healing isn’t just about changing your thoughts. It’s also about learning how to help your body feel safe again. In this episode, we’ll talk about: ✨ How your nervous system is designed to protect you ✨ Fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses ✨ Signs your body may still be stuck in survival mode ✨ Why certain situations can trigger old wounds ✨ What we can learn from Elijah’s exhaustion in 1 Kings 19 ✨ How God cares about your physical, emotional, and spiritual healing ✨ Simple ways to begin regulating your nervous system and inviting God into the healing process Your body isn’t working against you. It may simply be responding to what it learned it needed to do to survive. Healing begins when we stop judging our reactions and start getting curious about what’s underneath them. 💛 Ready to go deeper? If you’re tired of feeling controlled by triggers, anxiety, overwhelm, and survival mode, I invite you to join me inside Surrender to Heal Academy. Inside, you’ll learn how to identify triggers, regulate your nervous system, break free from survival mode, and heal at the root. ✨ Save $100 this month: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfLcT3gcPlXXeqJLE8A2Dcj2YH9yTQ_lwknEYNyBTp-Vw8zZA/viewform You don’t have to figure out your healing journey alone. One step, one layer, and one surrender at a time. 🤍 
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  Ep. 213: Why You Can’t Let Go (Even When You Want To) 09.07.2026 25min

  Have you ever told God, “I surrender this,” only to find yourself overthinking, worrying, or trying to control the outcome again? In this episode of Surrender to Heal, we explore why letting go is often harder than it sounds and how survival mode can create a deep need for control. You’ll learn how your nervous system may be trying to protect you, why overthinking can feel safe, and how true surrender involves both faith and healing! In This Episode: ●Why letting go feels so difficult ●How survival mode fuels control and anxiety ●The connection between nervous system regulation and faith ●The difference between spiritual surrender and emotional surrender ●A simple daily practice to help you release what you’re carrying We’ll also dive into Proverbs 3:5-6 and what trusting God looks like in everyday life. Ready to Go Deeper? ⬇️ Inside Surrender to Heal Academy, you’ll learn how to identify triggers, regulate your nervous system, break free from survival mode, and heal at the root. ✨ Save $100 this month: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfLcT3gcPlXXeqJLE8A2Dcj2YH9yTQ_lwknEYNyBTp-Vw8zZA/viewform 
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 Resources & Links ⬇️ 💛 Free 7-Day Nervous System Reset Guide: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem 💛 Book a Nervous System Reset Session: https://square.link/u/aaFrw3ka?src=sheet
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  Ep. 212: Why You Keep Getting Triggered By The Same Things 01.07.2026 28min

  Welcome back beautiful friend! In this episode, we talk about something so many women silently struggle with—repeating emotional reactions that feel out of your control. You’ll learn: * What a trigger actually is (and what it is NOT) * Why the same situations keep affecting you so deeply * How old wounds shape your emotional responses * Why your nervous system reacts before your mind can catch up * A simple reflection practice to start identifying your triggers We also bring in biblical truth around healing and how God responds to our broken places with compassion, not shame. ✨ Key takeaway: Your triggers are not proof you’re failing—they are signals pointing to what still needs healing. 💛 If this episode resonated with you: This is the exact work we go deeper into inside Surrender to Heal Academy. You’ll learn how to identify triggers, regulate your nervous system, and begin healing at the root instead of just managing symptoms. Grab your spot now and SAVE $100 all month long: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfLcT3gcPlXXeqJLE8A2Dcj2YH9yTQ_lwknEYNyBTp-Vw8zZA/viewform Book your Nervous System Reset Session here: https://square.link/u/aaFrw3ka?src=sheet You are so loved, seen, and valued more than you can imagine! XO, Melanie ✨To celebrate the podcast, I’m doing a special giveaway for my listeners every month! To enter, simply leave a review on Apple Podcasts, take a screenshot, and share it inside our Regulate and Restore community, share the podcast on social media and tag me, or share your favorite takeaway from an episode inside of our community! Every step helps spread this message of healing—and gives you a chance to WIN an Amazon gift card as a thank-you for being part of this journey! Share inside the community here to win ⬇️ https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Come join our SKOOL Community: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nervoussystemhealingcoach?igsh=MXZodWMyNW42azlwdQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr *Music from #Uppbeat https://uppbeat.io/t/mark-july/your-way License code: HXKOJUBYDRFY0TJN *Music from #Uppbeat https://uppbeat.io/t/ra/warm-adventure License code: C029UXGKZPL6QH49 ** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own. *** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist. Always talk to your health care provider first.
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  Ep. 211: Still Seeing Life Through Old Wounds? How to Heal, Surrender, and See Through God’s Truth 24.06.2026 26min

  Welcome back beautiful friend! Have you ever felt like you’re overreacting, struggling to trust, or constantly expecting disappointment? 😩 What if you’re not responding to what’s happening today—but to wounds from your past? In this episode, we’re talking about how rejection, abandonment, betrayal, and disappointment can become the lens through which we see our relationships, ourselves, and even God. You’ll learn how old wounds impact your nervous system, why they keep you stuck in survival mode, and how Jesus invites us into deeper healing through surrender. In This Episode: * How old wounds shape your thoughts and reactions * Why your nervous system stays on high alert * The connection between past pain and present relationships * How wounds can affect your relationship with God * Practical steps to begin healing and seeing through God’s truth Scriptures: * Romans 12:2 * Proverbs 4:23 * Psalm 34:18 * 1 Peter 5:7 Ready to Go Deeper? Join my free workshop, From Survival Mode to Peace, and learn how to regulate your nervous system, surrender your fears to God, and experience greater peace. Grab your seat here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/survivaltopeace Or book a Nervous System Reset Session for personalized support on your healing journey. You can do that here: https://square.link/u/aaFrw3ka?src=sheet You are so loved, seen, and valued more than you can imagine! XO, Melanie Download the Nervous System Reset Guide and begin your healing journey today : https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem If you have been blessed by the podcast please consider supporting us by buying me a coffee! You can do that here: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn Email me: hello@surrendertoheal.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d *Music from #Uppbeat https://uppbeat.io/t/mark-july/your-way License code: HXKOJUBYDRFY0TJN *Music from #Uppbeat https://uppbeat.io/t/ra/warm-adventure License code: C029UXGKZPL6QH49 ** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own. *** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist. Always talk to your health care provider first.
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  Ep. 210: Spiritual Warfare & Healing: Why the Enemy Attacks Your Breakthrough 16.06.2026 37min

  Welcome back beautiful friend! Have you ever noticed that the moment you decide to heal, pursue God more deeply, or break unhealthy patterns, life seems to get harder? The anxiety gets louder. Old triggers resurface. Discouragement creeps in. You start questioning whether healing is even possible. In this episode, we’re talking about the connection between spiritual warfare and healing. You’ll learn why the enemy often targets women who are pursuing emotional healing, nervous system regulation, and deeper intimacy with God—and how to stay grounded in truth when the battle intensifies. If you’ve been feeling discouraged, overwhelmed, or under attack during your healing journey, this episode will encourage you to keep moving forward and remind you that God is with you every step of the way. In This Episode You’ll Learn: ✨ Why healing is a threat to the enemy ✨ Common signs of spiritual warfare during emotional healing ✨ The difference between spiritual attack and nervous system dysregulation ✨ How the enemy uses fear, discouragement, isolation, and lies ✨ Practical ways to stay grounded in God’s peace ✨ Powerful scriptures to pray during spiritual warfare ✨ How surrender becomes one of your greatest spiritual weapons ✨ A simple prayer strategy for difficult seasons If this episode encouraged you, take a moment to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend. Your support helps more women discover hope, healing, and freedom through Christ. Remember, friend: your past may explain your struggles, but it does not determine your future. God is capable of bringing healing, safety, and restoration to even the deepest attachment wounds. ❤️ You are so loved, seen, and valued more than you can imagine! XO, Melanie Register for my FREE Workshop, From Survival Mode to Peace —-> https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/survivaltopeace The 3 Ways to Work With Me: 1. Rest & Restore Membership: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfh-Lv5s7oryOh9pOzKpKbtH3kzE9_eDbKRZecYmN_o_7Xc8Q/viewform?usp=send_form 2. Surrender to Heal Academy: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfLcT3gcPlXXeqJLE8A2Dcj2YH9yTQ_lwknEYNyBTp-Vw8zZA/viewform 3. 1:1 Coaching (High-Level Support): https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe8_XG262EIK4GXM2M9y04v9eEOCg2nqyGJNbmAdvge-W2HWg/viewform Download the Nervous System Reset Guide and begin your healing journey today : https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem Grab a Nervous System Reset Session - a Private, 60 min. Nervous System Reset Session- learn about the nervous system, practical tools when you feel triggered, personalized 7 day reset plan to calm your body, and more! https://square.link/u/aaFrw3ka?src=sheet If you have been blessed by the podcast please consider supporting us by buying me a coffee! You can do that here: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d *Music from #Uppbeat https://uppbeat.io/t/mark-july/your-way License code: HXKOJUBYDRFY0TJN *Music from #Uppbeat https://uppbeat.io/t/ra/warm-adventure License code: C029UXGKZPL6QH49 ** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own. *** Disclaimer: This channel &
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  Ep. 209: When You Crave Love but Fear It | Disorganized Attachment, Trauma & Healing with God 31.05.2026 26min

  Welcome back beautiful friend! Do you find yourself craving love and connection while simultaneously fearing intimacy and vulnerability? Do relationships feel emotionally exhausting, confusing, or unpredictable? In this episode, we’re diving deep into disorganized attachment—also known as fearful-avoidant attachment—and how unresolved trauma can impact the way we connect with others, ourselves, and God. Disorganized attachment often develops when the people who were supposed to provide safety and comfort were also a source of fear, inconsistency, neglect, or emotional pain. As a result, the nervous system learns to associate connection with danger, creating a painful cycle of longing for love while simultaneously fearing it. Together we’ll explore how trauma affects the nervous system, why survival responses show up in relationships, and how God can begin healing deep attachment wounds. You’ll learn practical tools for emotional regulation, renewing your mind with Scripture, and creating safety in both your body and your relationships. Most importantly, you’ll discover that your attachment wounds do not define you. Through Christ, healing is possible, peace is possible, and secure connection is possible. 📖 1 Corinthians 14:33 “For God is not a God of confusion but of peace.” 📖 Romans 8:38-39 “Nothing can separate us from the love of God.” 📖 Psalm 46:1 “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.” 📖 Isaiah 41:10 “Fear not, for I am with you.” If this episode encouraged you, take a moment to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend. Your support helps more women discover hope, healing, and freedom through Christ. Remember, friend: your past may explain your struggles, but it does not determine your future. God is capable of bringing healing, safety, and restoration to even the deepest attachment wounds. ❤️ You are so loved, seen, and valued more than you can imagine! XO, Melanie Register for my FREE Workshop, From Survival Mode to Peace —-> https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/survivaltopeace The 3 Ways to Work With Me: 1. Rest & Restore Membership: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfh-Lv5s7oryOh9pOzKpKbtH3kzE9_eDbKRZecYmN_o_7Xc8Q/viewform?usp=send_form 2. Surrender to Heal Academy: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfLcT3gcPlXXeqJLE8A2Dcj2YH9yTQ_lwknEYNyBTp-Vw8zZA/viewform 3. 1:1 Coaching (High-Level Support): https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe8_XG262EIK4GXM2M9y04v9eEOCg2nqyGJNbmAdvge-W2HWg/viewform Download the Nervous System Reset Guide and begin your healing journey today : https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem Grab a Nervous System Reset Session spot- only 5 available! Private, 60 min. Nervous System Reset Session- learn about the nervous system, practical tools when you feel triggered, personalized 7 day reset plan to calm your body, and more! https://square.link/u/aaFrw3ka?src=sheet If you have been blessed by the podcast please consider supporting us by buying me a coffee! You can do that here: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d * Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/iros-young/a-perfect-day License code: AXTAJ6GP05MYQKZ1 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code:
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  Ep. 208: Why You Shut Down Emotionally | Avoidant Attachment & Letting God In 18.05.2026 25min

  Welcome back beautiful friend! Have you ever struggled to open up emotionally, pull away when relationships become too close, or feel safer handling everything on your own? In this deeply honest episode,we’re talking about avoidant attachment, emotional shutdown, trauma responses, and how God gently heals the fear of vulnerability and connection. Many women with avoidant attachment don’t realize they’re operating in survival mode because emotional independence has become normal. You may look strong on the outside while internally struggling with trust, emotional intimacy, communication, and feeling emotionally safe with others. But friend, God did not create you to live emotionally numb, isolated, or disconnected. Healing begins when you stop surviving alone and start allowing God into the guarded places of your heart. Psalm 34:18 reminds us: “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” God is not emotionally distant. He is steady. Safe. Present. Gentle. If you’ve struggled with: * Emotional unavailability * Avoiding vulnerability * Difficulty trusting others * Fear of needing people * Pulling away during conflict * Numbing emotions * Staying constantly busy to avoid feelings * Feeling overwhelmed by intimacy This episode will help you understand the root behind these patterns while offering practical and biblical tools to begin healing attachment wounds with Jesus. You are not too guarded to heal. You are not too shut down for God to reach. And you do not have to carry everything alone anymore. You are so loved, seen, and valued more than you can imagine! XO, Melanie The 3 Ways You Can Work With Me: 1. Rest & Restore Membership: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfh-Lv5s7oryOh9pOzKpKbtH3kzE9_eDbKRZecYmN_o_7Xc8Q/viewform?usp=send_form 2. Surrender to Heal Academy: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfLcT3gcPlXXeqJLE8A2Dcj2YH9yTQ_lwknEYNyBTp-Vw8zZA/viewform 3. 1:1 Coaching (High-Level Support): https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe8_XG262EIK4GXM2M9y04v9eEOCg2nqyGJNbmAdvge-W2HWg/viewform Download the Nervous System Reset Guide and begin your healing journey today : https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem Grab a Nervous System Reset Session spot- only 5 available! Private, 60 min. Nervous System Reset Session- learn about the nervous system, practical tools when you feel triggered, personalized 7 day reset plan to calm your body, and more! https://square.link/u/aaFrw3ka?src=sheet If you have been blessed by the podcast please consider supporting us by buying me a coffee! You can do that here: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d * Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/iros-young/a-perfect-day License code: AXTAJ6GP05MYQKZ1 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: 3TUZ76SCPAWKFBWA ** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own. *** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist.
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  Ep 207: Why You Feel So Afraid to Lose People (Anxious Attachment & Healing with God) 10.05.2026 28min

  Welcome back to Surrender to Heal! I’m so honored you are joining me today. Do you constantly fear abandonment, overthink relationships, or feel emotionally anxious when someone pulls away? In this episode, we’re talking about anxious attachment, how trauma impacts the nervous system, and how God can begin healing your fear of rejection and emotional insecurity. If you’ve ever struggled with people pleasing, needing reassurance, emotional overwhelm, or feeling unsafe in relationships, this episode will help you understand where these patterns come from and how to start healing attachment wounds with Jesus. You’ll learn: * What anxious attachment is *Signs of anxious attachment in relationships * How trauma impacts the nervous system   * Why you fear abandonment *Scripture for anxiety and emotional healing * Practical ways to heal anxious attachment with God * How to feel emotionally safe and secure in Christ Healing is possible. You do not have to live in survival mode forever. Scriptures Mentioned: * Isaiah 26:3 * Deuteronomy 31:6   You are so loved, seen, and valued more than you can imagine! XO, Melanie   The 3 Ways You Can Work With Me: 1. Rest & Restore Membership: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfh-Lv5s7oryOh9pOzKpKbtH3kzE9_eDbKRZecYmN_o_7Xc8Q/viewform?usp=send_form 2. Surrender to Heal Academy: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfLcT3gcPlXXeqJLE8A2Dcj2YH9yTQ_lwknEYNyBTp-Vw8zZA/viewform 3. 1:1 Coaching (High-Level Support): https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe8_XG262EIK4GXM2M9y04v9eEOCg2nqyGJNbmAdvge-W2HWg/viewform Download the Nervous System Reset Guide and begin your healing journey today : https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem Grab a Nervous System Reset Session spot- only 5 available! Private, 60 min. Nervous System Reset Session- learn about the nervous system, practical tools when you feel triggered, personalized 7 day reset plan to calm your body, and more! https://square.link/u/aaFrw3ka?src=sheet If you have been blessed by the podcast please consider supporting us by buying me a coffee! You can do that here: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d *Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/iros-young/a-perfect-day License code: AXTAJ6GP05MYQKZ1 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: 3TUZ76SCPAWKFBWA * **Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own. *** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist. Always talk to your health care provider first.
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  Ep. 206: Letting Go of Control: Trusting God to Heal Your Mind, Body & Nervous System 25.04.2026 20min

  Hi beautiful friend, welcome back! In this episode, we’re having a real and honest conversation about control—why we hold onto it, how it’s connected to our nervous system, and what it actually looks like to surrender it to God. If you’ve been stuck in anxiety, overthinking, or constantly trying to manage every outcome… this episode will meet you right there. So many of us have learned to hold everything together as a way to feel safe. But the truth is, control often keeps our bodies in survival mode and blocks the deep healing God is inviting us into. I break down how your nervous system plays a role in this—how your body holds onto fear, trauma, and the need to stay in control—and why surrendering isn’t just a spiritual concept, it’s also something your body has to learn. Healing isn’t just renewing your mind… it’s allowing your body to experience safety again in God’s presence. We’ll talk about what it means to truly trust God in the healing process, especially when it feels uncomfortable, uncertain, or slow. And I’ll share practical ways to begin releasing control daily—through stillness, awareness, and inviting God into the places you’ve been gripping tightly. You don’t have to carry everything. You don’t have to figure it all out. God is safe to trust—even here. You are so loved, seen, and valued more than you can imagine! XO, Melanie Save your seat for my FREE Workshop happening April 30th, From Survival Mode to Peace: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/survivaltopeace The 3 Ways You Can Work With Me: 1. Rest & Restore Membership: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfh-Lv5s7oryOh9pOzKpKbtH3kzE9_eDbKRZecYmN_o_7Xc8Q/viewform?usp=send_form 2. Surrender to Heal Academy: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfLcT3gcPlXXeqJLE8A2Dcj2YH9yTQ_lwknEYNyBTp-Vw8zZA/viewform 3. 1:1 Coaching (High-Level Support): https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe8_XG262EIK4GXM2M9y04v9eEOCg2nqyGJNbmAdvge-W2HWg/viewform Download the Nervous System Reset Guide and begin your healing journey today : https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem Grab a Nervous System Reset Session spot- only 5 available! Private, 60 min. Nervous System Reset Session- learn about the nervous system, practical tools when you feel triggered, personalized 7 day reset plan to calm your body, and more! https://square.link/u/aaFrw3ka?src=sheet If you have been blessed by the podcast please consider supporting us by buying me a coffee! You can do that here: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d * Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/iros-young/a-perfect-day License code: AXTAJ6GP05MYQKZ1 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: 3TUZ76SCPAWKFBWA ** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own. *** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist. Always talk to your health care provider first.
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  Ep. 205: Learning to Surrender My Marriage to God (Even When It Hurts) 12.04.2026 28min

  Hi beautiful friend, welcome back! In this episode, I’m opening up about where I’m at in this season—walking through pain, uncertainty, and learning to truly surrender my marriage to God. This isn’t a step-by-step teaching. It’s real, honest, and vulnerable. I share the struggle with control, the anxiety that comes with the unknown, and how God has been teaching me that surrender isn’t giving up—it’s trusting Him, even when I don’t understand. If you’re in a season where you’re holding on tightly, overthinking, or feeling overwhelmed… this episode is for you. You’re not alone. God is still working—even here. Scripture: Proverbs 3:5 You are so loved! XO, Melanie The 3 Ways You Can Work With Me: 1. Rest & Restore Membership: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfh-Lv5s7oryOh9pOzKpKbtH3kzE9_eDbKRZecYmN_o_7Xc8Q/viewform?usp=send_form 2. Surrender to Heal Academy: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfLcT3gcPlXXeqJLE8A2Dcj2YH9yTQ_lwknEYNyBTp-Vw8zZA/viewform 3. 1:1 Coaching (High-Level Support): https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe8_XG262EIK4GXM2M9y04v9eEOCg2nqyGJNbmAdvge-W2HWg/viewform Download the Nervous System Reset Guide and begin your healing journey today : https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem Join my FREE Workshop happening April 17th, From Survival Mode to Peace. Register today and save your seat: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/survivaltopeace Grab a Nervous System Reset Session spot- only 5 available! Private, 60 min. Nervous System Reset Session- learn about the nervous system, practical tools when you feel triggered, personalized 7 day reset plan to calm your body, and more! https://square.link/u/aaFrw3ka?src=sheet If you have been blessed by the podcast please consider supporting us by buying me a coffee! You can do that here: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d * Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/iros-young/a-perfect-day License code: AXTAJ6GP05MYQKZ1 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: 3TUZ76SCPAWKFBWA ** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my
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  Ep. 204: 3 Supportive Ways to Heal as a Christian Woman (Membership, Coaching, & Faith-Based Support Explained) 31.03.2026 25min

  Welcome back to the podcast, sweet friend! If you’ve been listening to the podcast and thinking… “I know I need deeper healing… but I don’t know where to start” — this episode is for you. In today’s conversation, I’m walking you through the three different ways you can work with me, so you can confidently choose the level of support that fits where you are in your healing journey. Because here’s the truth… Healing isn’t one-size-fits-all. And you don’t have to stay stuck trying to figure it out alone. I’ve created these spaces intentionally—for the woman who is ready to move out of survival mode, regulate her nervous system, renew her mind, and truly surrender her healing to God. Inside This Episode, We Talk About: • Why healing often feels confusing and overwhelming • The difference between self-paced healing vs. guided support • How to know what level of support your nervous system actually needs • The role of community, coaching, and structure in your healing journey • Why surrender—not striving—is the key to real transformation The 3 Ways You Can Work With Me: 1. Rest & Restore Membership: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfh-Lv5s7oryOh9pOzKpKbtH3kzE9_eDbKRZecYmN_o_7Xc8Q/viewform?usp=send_form 2. Surrender to Heal Academy: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfLcT3gcPlXXeqJLE8A2Dcj2YH9yTQ_lwknEYNyBTp-Vw8zZA/viewform 3. 1:1 Coaching (High-Level Support): https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe8_XG262EIK4GXM2M9y04v9eEOCg2nqyGJNbmAdvge-W2HWg/viewform Download the Nervous System Reset Guide and begin your healing journey today : https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem Join my FREE Workshop happening April 17th, From Survival Mode to Peace. Register today and save your seat: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/survivaltopeace Grab a Nervous System Reset Session spot- only 5 available! Private, 60 min. Nervous System Reset Session- learn about the nervous system, practical tools when you feel triggered, personalized 7 day reset plan to calm your body, and more! https://square.link/u/aaFrw3ka?src=sheet If you have been blessed by the podcast please consider supporting us by buying me a coffee! You can do that here: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d * Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/iros-young/a-perfect-day License code: AXTAJ6GP05MYQKZ1 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: 3TUZ76SCPAWKFBWA ** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own. *** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist. Always talk to your health care provider first. EZoVYq4l0k3Rl7uXjdJr
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  Ep. 203: The Power of Your Words/ Breaking Toxic Thought Patterns & Rewiring Your Brain Through Scripture 18.03.2026 33min

  Welcome back to the podcast, sweet friend! Today we are talking all about the power of our words! Words have power—and they’re shaping your healing more than you realize. If you’ve been struggling with anxiety, overthinking, or negative self-talk, this episode will show you how your inner dialogue is impacting your nervous system, emotional health, and spiritual growth. We’re diving into what the Bible says about the power of your words and how to renew your mind, speak life, and align your thoughts with God’s truth so you can experience real peace. You’ll learn simple, practical ways to break free from toxic thought patterns and start calming your mind—God’s way. ✨ Ready to take the next step? Download the Nervous System Reset Guide and begin your healing journey today : https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem 🤍 Ready to Go Deeper? Join Surrender to Heal Academy, a 12-week faith-based healing experience for Christian women learning to regulate their nervous system, heal trauma, and walk in true surrender with God. APPLY NOW ⬇️ https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe0usSzn7jsn3gzyVoEPhtxdwUy0LSDBkn1lhE5yK3GEcFFqw/viewform Grab a Nervous System Reset Session spot- only 5 available! Private, 60 min. Nervous System Reset Session- learn about the nervous system, practical tools when you feel triggered, personalized 7 day reset plan to calm your body, and more! https://checkout.square.site/merchant/ML5J1P6X4YENF/checkout/KLEAGOQV4UR4E5WOFXX6GS5O?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPNDM3NjI2MzE2OTczNzg4AAEebPXo__DVS9drl-TEQvgxhHp63DQbokaCNZO_9jI7nVEWR-1jfjPdPrQ-zTo_aem_yt60g8TSA2EgVRUUgLYZ-Q Enter the 200th Episode/ 5 Year GIVEAWAY HERE: CLOSING MARCH 30! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdZ4fBb5uoLFD1vQoHtCGiGtvpFfy71EqNd7sOhEZz6eQXCwA/viewform?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPNDM3NjI2MzE2OTczNzg4AAEebK_9PQTzCqyD1Zxw5Vxy65Kt7t6jaFReOokJk655Dv6DhnR7SQQQD5y1BRk_aem_LfwjgwcPZ3PZuJ8vIDEMAg If you have been blessed by the podcast please consider supporting us by buying me a coffee! You can do that here: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d * Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/iros-young/a-perfect-day License code: AXTAJ6GP05MYQKZ1 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: 3TUZ76SCPAWKFBWA ** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own. *** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist. Always talk to your health care provider first.
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  Ep. 202: When Your Emotions Are Loud: Learning to Take Your Thoughts Captive 11.03.2026 36min

  Welcome back to the podcast, sweet friend! Have you ever had a day where your emotions felt overwhelming and suddenly your thoughts started spiraling into anxiety, fear, or discouragement? In this episode, we’re talking about something so many Christian women struggle with: letting emotions control our thoughts. While emotions are real and valid, they are not always reliable. When we allow feelings to determine what we believe, we can easily start believing lies instead of the truth of God’s Word. In this honest and encouraging conversation, I share a personal moment where I realized I had been letting my emotions lead my thinking — and how God reminded me of the power of taking every thought captive. You’ll learn how trauma and stress can make emotional thinking stronger, why the enemy often uses our emotions to plant lies, and how we can begin renewing our minds with truth instead. This episode will give you simple, practical ways to start your day grounded in truth so your emotions don’t take over your thoughts. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or emotionally drained lately, this conversation will encourage you and remind you that God’s truth is stronger than the lies in your mind. In This Episode We Talk About: • Why emotions are real but not always trustworthy • How trauma can intensify emotional thinking • The biblical meaning of taking thoughts captive • Recognizing lies the enemy plants in our mind • Practical steps to start your day with truth instead of fear • Learning to lead your emotions with God’s Word Scripture Mentioned 2 Corinthians 10:5 — “We take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” Philippians 4:13 — “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” Romans 8:28 — “God works all things together for good.” John 8:32 — “You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” 🤍 Ready to Go Deeper? Join Surrender to Heal Academy, a 12-week faith-based healing experience for Christian women learning to regulate their nervous system, heal trauma, and walk in true surrender with God. APPLY NOW ⬇️ https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe0usSzn7jsn3gzyVoEPhtxdwUy0LSDBkn1lhE5yK3GEcFFqw/viewform Grab a Nervous System Reset Session spot- only 5 available! Private, 60 min. Nervous System Reset Session- learn about the nervous system, practical tools when you feel triggered, personalized 7 day reset plan to calm your body, and more! https://checkout.square.site/merchant/ML5J1P6X4YENF/checkout/KLEAGOQV4UR4E5WOFXX6GS5O?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPNDM3NjI2MzE2OTczNzg4AAEebPXo__DVS9drl-TEQvgxhHp63DQbokaCNZO_9jI7nVEWR-1jfjPdPrQ-zTo_aem_yt60g8TSA2EgVRUUgLYZ-Q Enter the 200th Episode/ 5 Year GIVEAWAY HERE: CLOSING MARCH 30! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdZ4fBb5uoLFD1vQoHtCGiGtvpFfy71EqNd7sOhEZz6eQXCwA/viewform?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPNDM3NjI2MzE2OTczNzg4AAEebK_9PQTzCqyD1Zxw5Vxy65Kt7t6jaFReOokJk655Dv6DhnR7SQQQD5y1BRk_aem_LfwjgwcPZ3PZuJ8vIDEMAg Grab my NEW, FREE Nervous System Reset Guide: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem If you have been blessed by the podcast please consider supporting us by buying me a coffee! You can do that here: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our NEW Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/christian_women_healing?igsh=MXZodWMyNW42azlwdQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared
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  Ep. 201: When You Love God But Still Feel Anxious 23.02.2026 19min

  Welcome back to the podcast, sweet friend! Today’s episode is for the woman who feels confused and discouraged by her anxiety. You love God. You trust Him. You believe His promises. And yet—your heart races, your stomach tightens, your thoughts spiral, and peace feels fragile. You may have asked yourself, “If I really trusted God, wouldn’t I feel calm?” Or maybe you’ve felt guilt or shame for still struggling with anxiety. If that’s you, I want to say this gently and clearly right now: Your anxiety is not proof of weak faith. Today we’re going to talk about why anxiety can exist alongside genuine trust in God, what’s actually happening in your body, and how God invites you into peace without pressure. 🤍 Ready to Go Deeper? Join Surrender to Heal Academy, a 12-week faith-based healing experience for Christian women learning to regulate their nervous system, heal trauma, and walk in true surrender with God. APPLY NOW ⬇️ https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe0usSzn7jsn3gzyVoEPhtxdwUy0LSDBkn1lhE5yK3GEcFFqw/viewform Enter the 200 Episode/ 5 Year GIVEAWAY HERE: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdZ4fBb5uoLFD1vQoHtCGiGtvpFfy71EqNd7sOhEZz6eQXCwA/viewform?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPNDM3NjI2MzE2OTczNzg4AAEebK_9PQTzCqyD1Zxw5Vxy65Kt7t6jaFReOokJk655Dv6DhnR7SQQQD5y1BRk_aem_LfwjgwcPZ3PZuJ8vIDEMAg Grab my NEW, FREE Nervous System Reset Guide: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem If you have been blessed by the podcast please consider supporting us by buying me a coffee! You can do that here: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our NEW Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/christian_women_healing?igsh=MXZodWMyNW42azlwdQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d * Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/iros-young/a-perfect-day License code: AXTAJ6GP05MYQKZ1 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: 3TUZ76SCPAWKFBWA ** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own. *** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist. Always talk to your health care provider first.
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  Ep. 200: Negative Self-Talk and the Trauma-Wired Inner Critic 10.02.2026 33min

  In this episode of Surrender to Heal, we talk about Negative Self Talk and how it connects to faith-based healing, nervous system regulation, emotional healing, and trusting God. For most of us, the view we have of ourselves, was shaped in childhood and continued to be molded through all of our life experiences. If you’re a Christian woman struggling with negative self talk or negative views of yourself, this episode will help you understand how God sees you and begin healing through surrender, safety, and God’s truth. I hope this episode blesses you! If you would be so kind and leave a written review on Apple Podcast, that would mean the world to me! 🤍 Ready to Go Deeper? Join Surrender to Heal Academy, a 12-week faith-based healing experience for Christian women learning to regulate their nervous system, heal trauma, and walk in true surrender with God. APPLY NOW ⬇️ https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe0usSzn7jsn3gzyVoEPhtxdwUy0LSDBkn1lhE5yK3GEcFFqw/viewform Enter the 200 Episode/ 5 Year GIVEAWAY HERE: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdZ4fBb5uoLFD1vQoHtCGiGtvpFfy71EqNd7sOhEZz6eQXCwA/viewform?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPNDM3NjI2MzE2OTczNzg4AAEebK_9PQTzCqyD1Zxw5Vxy65Kt7t6jaFReOokJk655Dv6DhnR7SQQQD5y1BRk_aem_LfwjgwcPZ3PZuJ8vIDEMAg Grab my NEW, FREE Nervous System Reset Guide: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem If you have been blessed by the podcast please consider supporting us by buying me a coffee! You can do that here: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our NEW Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/christian_women_healing?igsh=MXZodWMyNW42azlwdQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d * Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/iros-young/a-perfect-day License code: AXTAJ6GP05MYQKZ1 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: 3TUZ76SCPAWKFBWA ** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own. *** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist. Always talk to your health care provider first.
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  Ep. 199: Renewing Your Mind When Trauma Won’t Let You Think Clearly 27.01.2026 18min

  Hi Beautiful friend! Welcome back to the podcast. Today we’re talking about something so many Christian women silently struggle with—and often feel ashamed about. You know the truth. You know what Scripture says. You know God is good. But your thoughts feel loud. Negative. Spiraling. Critical. Fear-based. And sometimes you wonder, “Why can’t I think differently when I know better?” If that question has ever crossed your mind, I want you to take a deep breath with me right now. Because this episode is not about trying harder to think positive. It’s about understanding why trauma makes renewing your mind feel so difficult—and how God gently restores your thoughts when safety comes first. Thank you so much for taking time out of your day to hang out with me! I hope this episode blessed you! If it did, please consider sharing it with a friend and leaving a review on Apple podcasts! Your reviews help other women, just like you, to find the show and get the support they need. I appreciate your reviews so much! If you have been blessed by the podcast, please consider supporting my ministry by buying me a coffee: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn Surrender to Heal Is now a monthly membership! Join now for a low monthly cost (no long term commitments- cancel anytime). We also have 3, 6, and 12 month pay in full options available! Learn more and grab your founding member pricing here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe0usSzn7jsn3gzyVoEPhtxdwUy0LSDBkn1lhE5yK3GEcFFqw/viewform Book a call with me here to see if it’s a good fit: https://calendly.com/christianwomenhealingtrauma/discovery-call Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our NEW Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/christian_women_healing?igsh=MXZodWMyNW42azlwdQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d * Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/iros-young/a-perfect-day License code: AXTAJ6GP05MYQKZ1 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: 3TUZ76SCPAWKFBWA ** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own. *** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist. Always talk to your health care provider first.
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  Ep. 198: How Trauma Affects Your Nervous System (And Why You Still Feel Stuck) 19.01.2026 17min

  Hi Beautiful friend!Have you ever wondered why you know the truth, but your body still feels anxious? Why you trust God, but panic still shows up? Your nervous system has two main modes: safety and survival. Trauma teaches your body that danger is always nearby—even when it’s not! This is why you may feel on edge, exhausted, emotionally numb, or overwhelmed. It’s not because you’re failing. It’s because your body hasn’t learned safety yet. In this episode we are talking all about this!2 Timothy 1:7 says God did not give us a spirit of fear—but fear can still live in the nervous system until it’s gently healed.Thank you so much for taking time out of your day to hang out with me! I hope this episode blessed you!    If it did, please consider sharing it with a friend and leaving a review on Apple podcasts! Your reviews help other women, just like you, to find the show and get the support they need! I appreciate your reviews so much.  If you have been blessed by the podcast, please consider supporting my ministry by buying me a coffee: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxnSurrender to Heal Academy is launching soon—and enrollment will be limited! If you’re ready to stop living in survival mode, heal at the root, and walk in emotional, spiritual, and physical restoration with God, this is your next step! SIGN UP BEFORE JANUARY 25, 2026 TO SAVE $400 & GRAB 5 EXCLUSIVE BONUSES!!!!   Apply now:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe0usSzn7jsn3gzyVoEPhtxdwUy0LSDBkn1lhE5yK3GEcFFqw/viewformBook a call with me here to see if it’s a good fit: https://calendly.com/christianwomenhealingtrauma/discovery-callGrab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavezEmail me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.comCome join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505Join our NEW Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfrFollow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/christian_women_healing?igsh=MXZodWMyNW42azlwdQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qrFollow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalpromptsGrab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d* Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/iros-young/a-perfect-day License code: AXTAJ6GP05MYQKZ1Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: 3TUZ76SCPAWKFBWA** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own.*** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist. Always talk to your health care provider first.
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  Ep. 197: Why Your Body Matters in Emotional Healing 09.01.2026 24min

  Hi Beautiful friend! Today I want to talk all about healing trauma God’s way and why your body matters! Trauma is not a lack of faith. Trauma is the nervous system learning how to survive. God created your body with wisdom. Psalm 139 tells us we are fearfully and wonderfully made, and that includes your nervous system. You are not broken. Your body is responding exactly how it learned to survive. And that’s what it’s supposed to do! Thank you so much for taking time out of your day to hang out with me! I hope this episode blessed you! If it did, please consider sharing it with a friend and leaving a review on Apple podcasts! Your reviews help other women, just like you, to find the show and get the support they need! I appreciate your reviews so much 💖 If you have been blessed by the podcast, please consider supporting my ministry by buying me a coffee: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn 🔥 Surrender to Heal Academy is launching soon—and enrollment will be limited! If you’re ready to stop living in survival mode, heal at the root, and walk in emotional, spiritual, and physical restoration with God, this is your next step! SIGN UP BEFORE JANUARY 25, 2026 TO SAVE $400 & GRAB 5 EXCLUSIVE BONUSES!!!! Apply now: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe0usSzn7jsn3gzyVoEPhtxdwUy0LSDBkn1lhE5yK3GEcFFqw/viewform Book a call with me here to see if it’s a good fit: https://calendly.com/christianwomenhealingtrauma/discovery-call Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our NEW Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/christian_women_healing?igsh=MXZodWMyNW42azlwdQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d * Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/iros-young/a-perfect-day License code: AXTAJ6GP05MYQKZ1 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: 3TUZ76SCPAWKFBWA ** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own. *** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist. Always talk to your health care provider first.
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  Ep. 196: Body First Healing Series- Caring for the Body God gave you 28.12.2025 31min

  Hi Beautiful friend! Today we are continuing with our last episode in the body first healing series- we explore how nutrition and hydration support healing the body, mind, and nervous system—especially for Christian women healing from trauma, anxiety, and chronic stress. You’ll learn why drinking enough water, eating whole foods, and caring for your body are essential parts of mental health and faith-based healing. Nourishing your body is an act of stewardship and surrender, inviting God into deeper restoration. If you have been blessed by the podcast, please consider supporting my ministry by buying me a coffee: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn   🔥 The Surrender to Heal Academy is relaunching soon—and enrollment will be limited! If you’re ready to stop living in survival mode, heal at the root, and walk in emotional, spiritual, and physical restoration with God, this is your next step.   SIGN UP BEFORE JANUARY 25th TO SAVE $400 & GRAB 5 EXCLUSIVE BONUSES!!!! Apply now: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe0usSzn7jsn3gzyVoEPhtxdwUy0LSDBkn1lhE5yK3GEcFFqw/viewform   Book a call with me here to see if it’s a good fit: https://calendly.com/christianwomenhealingtrauma/discovery-call   Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talked about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez   Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our NEW Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/christian_women_healing?igsh=MXZodWMyNW42azlwdQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast for a HUGE DISCOUNT: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d If you liked this episode and it brought value to you, please share with a friend and leave a review on Apple Podcasts.   * Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/iros-young/a-perfect-day License code: AXTAJ6GP05MYQKZ1 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: 3TUZ76SCPAWKFBWA   ** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own. *** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist. Always talk to your health care provider first.