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Submission vs. Surrender: What’s the Difference? 03.07.2026 1t 28min

Some kinksters talk about submission and surrender as separate concepts – which is not something we’ve thought about before – so let’s talk about it. In this episode: Register for the FREE online Jumpstart... The post Submission vs. Surrender: What’s the Difference? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

BDSM in the News 26.06.2026 1t 15min

This week, we’re talking about recent articles and news stories about BDSM and sharing our opinion on the situation. In this episode: June 26 is the last day of a sale at the Kinkery!... The post BDSM in the News appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kink Terms Evolve 19.06.2026 1t 26min

For better or worse, language changes over time — including the terms we use in kink. These are our chaotic, messy thoughts on those changes. In this episode: We’re no longer live streaming the... The post Kink Terms Evolve appeared first on Loving BDSM.

No Topic, Just Chaos 12.06.2026 1t 34min

We definitely talk about kink and sex in this episode, but it’s more of a bonus section kind of episode, so of course it’s chaotic AF. In this episode: We talked about a few... The post No Topic, Just Chaos appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kinky Q&A 05.06.2026 1t 20min

This week, we answer your kinky questions! In this episode: Diabolical sticks are available at the Kinkery! We added a new workbook to the Etsy shop: Communication in Power Exchange We asked for questions... The post Kinky Q&A appeared first on Loving BDSM.

BDSM Reddit Response 29.05.2026 1t 38min

This week, we’re responding to questions asked on the kinky side of Reddit. In this episode: Is it okay to not like the degrading messages I received? I keep meeting “Doms” that are just... The post BDSM Reddit Response appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Learning Lessons and Avoiding Future Conflict | Dealing With Conflict Series 22.05.2026 1t 31min

In the final installment of our conflict in D/s series, we’re talking about what do to after you’ve resolved this conflict to learn from it and (hopefully) avoid future conflict. In this episode: Fundraiser... The post Learning Lessons and Avoiding Future Conflict | Dealing With Conflict Series appeared first on Loving BDSM.

What to Do When Conflict Happens | Dealing with Conflict Series 08.05.2026 1t 24min

In this week’s episode, we’re continuing our series on conflict on D/s and answering the question, “What do we do about it when it happens?” In this episode: No episode next week Friday night... The post What to Do When Conflict Happens | Dealing with Conflict Series appeared first on Loving BDSM.

What Causes Conflict in D/s | Dealing with Conflict Series 01.05.2026 1t 38min

This week’s episode is the first in a series on dealing with conflict in your power exchange, and we’re talking about what can cause conflict. In this episode: New live stream time starts NEXT... The post What Causes Conflict in D/s | Dealing with Conflict Series appeared first on Loving BDSM.

When a Dom Says No 24.04.2026 1t 14min

Note: If you need to skip the part with a content warning, fast forward by about 7 minutes. In this week’s episode, we discuss the fact that Dominant’s may use their authority and control... The post When a Dom Says No appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kinky Pet Peeves 17.04.2026 1t 28min

NOTE: The audio quality wasn’t so great for this one, but we figured out the problem and fixed it for next week! This week, we share some of our own kinky pet peeves and... The post Kinky Pet Peeves appeared first on Loving BDSM.

BDSM Reddit Response 03.04.2026 1t 49min

This week, we’re responding to questions asked on the kinky side of Reddit. In this episode: Where we were last week Dom pushing too far Toy vs sub Punishment or play One-sided dynamic Fairness... The post BDSM Reddit Response appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Can You Be Spontaneous in a Kink Relationship? 20.03.2026 1t 12min

There’s no single right answer. This is a wide-ranging conversation where we try to figure out what we think about the idea of being spontaneous. Spoiler alert: Kayla does not have a spontaneous bone... The post Can You Be Spontaneous in a Kink Relationship? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Feeling Disconnected in D/s 13.03.2026 1t 23min

Let’s talk about what might make you feel disconnected from your partner in your D/s relationship – and how to reconnect again. In this episode: Get your FREE ticket to the 2026 Dom/sub Dynamics... The post Feeling Disconnected in D/s appeared first on Loving BDSM.

BDSM Q&A 06.03.2026 1t 28min

This week, we asked for your kinky questions over on Instagram and YouTube! In this episode: Final donation totals to the Campaign for Southern Equality Questions: I’m a soft dom and my wife wants... The post BDSM Q&A appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Reconnecting with Silly Relationship Questions 27.02.2026 1t 1min

After a couple of stressful weeks where we’re both exhausted, we recognize that we’re disconnected. Part of reconnecting is answering (mostly) ridiculous relationship questions, lol. In this episode: Our 2026 Patreon Membership Drive ends... The post Reconnecting with Silly Relationship Questions appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Emotional Intelligence and Power Exchange 20.02.2026 1t 44min

Emotional intelligence and emotional regulation is extremely important for communication and happy, healthy power exchange relationships. In this episode: Join our Patreon during the 2026 Membership Drive What is emotional intelligence? From HelpGuide.org: “your... The post Emotional Intelligence and Power Exchange appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Bonus Section Episode 13.02.2026 1t 12min

This week was a tough one personally but we wanted to show up, so we went with a chatty bonus section-like episode, but we also answered kinky questions from YouTube Live Chat. In this... The post Bonus Section Episode appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Q&A: How Can We Have a Power Exchange as Parents? 10.02.2026 28min

This is a question we get asked a lot – in this case, it’s more about not seeming “obvious” to your children. Here’s the question: I grew up in a religious family and while... The post Q&A: How Can We Have a Power Exchange as Parents? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

BDSM Reddit Response 06.02.2026 1t 31min

Yes, we just did this a few weeks ago, but we all probably need a good rant or two. In this episode: Join our Patreon during the 2026 Membership Drive I don’t want to... The post BDSM Reddit Response appeared first on Loving BDSM.