The Slumflower Hour
Chidera Eggerue
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Join Chidera Eggerue, aka The Slumflower, in her debut podcast where she offers advice for women navigating relationships with men. Each episode tackles topics like setting boundaries, trusting your instincts, and recognizing when a man is genuinely interested. The show aims to empower disobedient women who date men, providing a space for honest and sometimes provocative discussions. New episodes drop every Friday.
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GIRL, SLOW DOWN... 10.09.2026 40minDo you have a tendency to rush things with men? Do you find that things tend to start intensely then burn out fast? Does long distance really deserve the bad rep it gets? In this episode, Chidera recounts her experience being long distance with a guy she met on a dating reality show - and why distance in relationships helps women develop grounding, leverage and control if they're willing to pay attention. (Spoiler: I am not dating the man being discussed) Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices -
THE MALE EGO 03.09.2026 54minIn a world that is governed by men's weak egos, what steps are you taking to make the world a tougher place for them? In a world where men select women based on the praise and validation they'll receive from other men, what can you do to monopolise your power and benefit from this more? Join Chidera as she dissects the male ego and discusses tips and tools to use men's egos against them. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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TRAIN HIM! 27.08.2026 28minDid you know that men are a breed of dog? Did you also know that it's your responsibility to dictate how you deserve to be treated in a world where men already feel entitled to overriding your rules? In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses non-formulaic methods of teaching men how to treat you - because ultimately, your standards are yours to set! Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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DATING AS A MAN HATER? 20.08.2026 27minIs it possible to hate men and still date them? Yes, just like men are misogynists who still relentlessly chase the comfort, warmth and love of women! Sarcasm aside, in a world where women face brutal consequences for being so loving, kind and accommodating with men, what does dating life look like when women restrict men and reduce our kindness? In this episode, join Chidera as she recounts her experience going on a reality dating show - and how she allowed herself to like a man without letting her values go. Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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THE WOMAN WHO IS WILLING TO WALK 13.08.2026 43minHave you finally had enough? Have you finally developed the backbone to leave these men behind? Does your ability to walk away scare men? This episode is most certainly for YOU! Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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THE PERFORMATIVE MAN 06.08.2026 27minIs that man wearing allyship like a costume? Does he suddenly become a 'feminist' when the bill comes? Is he selective with your empowerment whilst being threatened by you feeling good about yourself? This episode is going to be a spicy one! Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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OPTIMISING YOUR DATING EXPERIENCE 30.07.2026 35minLet's talk about making dating work for you in an already terrible dating pool! Are you utilising the men in your life properly? Are you open to the idea of a roster and if so, are you diversifying these men's roles to their full potential? Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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THE ALPHA WOMAN 23.07.2026 42minDo you fear your own power? Do you 'naturally' feel inclined to defer to men? Does the idea of a powerful woman who makes men question themselves entice you or does it make you uncomfortable? In this episode, we talk all things power and fearlessness as The Slumflower talks about the importance of women not being scared to hold their power in the presence of the beings we birthed. Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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BECAUSE OF A MAN 16.07.2026 31minThe things women do for men...are they even worth it? Of course not but alas, here we are! In this episode, join Chidera as we talk about the sacrifices and leaps women take all because of men... Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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YOU ARE IN DENIAL 09.07.2026 32minHow long will you keep lying to yourself? Is it finally time to interfere with the story you've been telling yourself? Are there certain delusions keeping you bound to that man? In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the ways we all deny reality to protect our delusions. Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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MAINTAINING COMPOSURE 02.07.2026 36minHow do you manage when someone puts you on the spot and tries to bully you? Or if you're caught in a situation where you have to stand up for yourself without bursting into tears? In this episode, join The Slumflower as she shares her experiences of men attempting to bully her - as well as tips and tricks to hold your own when someone is trying to shake you out of character. Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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FEMALE RAGE 25.06.2026 36minDo you allow yourself to be angry or do you repress it? In a society where women's rage is stifled and suppressed, it's time we have a conversation about allowing ourselves to feel it all in full. In this episode, join Chidera as she talks about the importance of normalising our rage during the luteal phase - and why the world must learn to adjust to us. Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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MEN MAKE YOU SICK! 19.06.2026 1t 7min*TRIGGER WARNING*: R*pe is discussed in this episode where we talk about why men value leverage over us, how they siphon our souls and health through osmosis, and why it's important to start giving men PTSD back. Prepare yourself to hear some horrific stories from women who have survived developing life-changing illnesses and disabilities from being partnered with men. Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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MAINTAINING THE STANDARD WHEN THINGS ARE GOING WELL 12.06.2026 37minDo you feel inclined to self-sabotage in a healthy relationship? If so, what does that sabotage look like? How about balance? Would you consider yourself a secure skeptic? Or are you prepared to jump into love with both feet? In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses the importance of keeping the upper hand even when you're happy! Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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THE NEXT GIRL 05.06.2026 36minScared the next girl will get a better version of him? Worried that all your hard work sent building him will be enjoyed by another woman? Paranoid that the next girl will be so amazing that she will transform him? In this episode, join Chidera as she debunks the myth that 'the next girl' will have the best experience being with him! Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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BLACK CAT VS GOLDEN RETRIEVER 28.05.2026 45minIs your boyfriend a good boy? Should we train him? Or is it time for him to be handed to the dog home for someone else to take him on as a problem? In this episode, join Chidera as she talks about the importance of the black cat-golden retriever dynamic, and why women should consider leaning into ethical narcissism. Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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SO YOU HAVE A PAST... 21.05.2026 43minDo you feel self-conscious about having a sexual history? Have men tried to make you feel shame for having been 'ran thru'? Should we start judging men for their sexual pasts in the same way they judge us? In this episode, join Chidera as she talks about why your past has nothing to do with how worthy you are of love - and how you should be using your sexual past to shape the future you want with a man! Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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THE HOT GIRLFRIEND 14.05.2026 27minAre you the hot girlfriend? Do you find that men try to chip away at your confidence? Has a man ever tried to out-shine you? In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses the plight of the hot girl - and why we should never be afraid to turn up the heat some more! Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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THE PRIDEFUL MAN 07.05.2026 48minHave you been victimised by a prideful man? This episode may be for you! Join Chidera as she recounts her experiences with prideful men - and why we all need to guard and protect ourselves from men who are too weak to resist competing with women... Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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WIFEY MATERIAL? 30.04.2026 54minDoes the idea of 'dating to marry' resonate with you? Are men using 'wifey material' as a way to lure you in? What even is 'husband material'? In this episode, join Chidera as she disassembles this whole 'wife material' phrase and reminds us all of why we should be dubious of it! Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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