SAY GRACE | Forever Weight Loss for Overwhelmed Women, Consistency, Realistic, Mindset Motivation, No Restrictions
Losing weight while juggling 100 other things in your life can feel overwhelming and impossible. While weight loss is totally worth it once you get there, the in-between can feel kind of blurry.
Lasting weight loss happens for those who will accept that life isn’t going to look perfect, but still try their best anyway.
In this weekly show, Constance Shelby, a mom, wife, registered dietitian, and weight loss expert brings real-life talk about the things that hinder and help your weight loss journey. From food to faith to family and anything in between, she answers questions on weight loss and teaches you how to Say Grace through the tough stuff.
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Why you keep self-sabotaging: a conversation about trauma, healing and freedom with Carrie Watts 02.06.2026 50minThis conversation is so good. I sat down with Carrie Watts, author, speaker, writing coach, and host of the Saved and Strong podcast and what started as a conversation about healing turned into one of the most important things I think you'll hear all year. Here's what I know from working with women: So many of you are doing the work. You're tracking, you're trying, you're showing up. And yet something keeps pulling you back. The self-sabotage. The cycle. The feeling like you just can't get out of your own way. What if it's not about the food at all? In this episode, Carrie and I talk about how unhealed trauma shows up in your body, your relationships, and yes, your weight loss journey in ways you might not even recognize. We talk about the low-buzz anxiety that never goes away, the anger that comes out of nowhere, the disconnection, and the self-destructive patterns that keep so many women stuck. But more than that, we talk about what healing actually looks like. And how it is never too late to start. This episode is for the woman who has tried everything and still feels stuck. There may be a root you haven't looked at yet and this episode is your gentle nudge to turn around and face it! . . Find more from Carrie 👇 www.carriewatts.com instagram: @carriewattswrites FB: https://www.facebook.com/CarrieOnwithChrist Substack @carriewattswrites Free Resource for those considering writing: https://www.stan.store/carriewattswrites
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Why you keep starting over in your weight loss and how to fix it 26.05.2026 35minI know this dance.Every Monday you start fresh. Motivated, planned, ready. And by Friday you are back in the same patterns, telling yourself you will just start again next week. I need you to hear this today- nothing is wrong with you. It is not a willpower problem.It is a brain problem. We all have it, but to fix it, you have to fully understand what is going on so that you stop blaming yourself. In this episode, we are diving into the neuroscience behind why change feels so hard and why starting over from scratch every Monday is literally working against you. Plus, I am sharing ways to actually fix it so that you stay consistent and finally see success! ‼️This episode is a MUST for someone who feels like she’s always on again-off again in her health efforts. Because by the end of this one you are going to understand yourself in a way you never have before… and that will change everything.
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Quick meals I am making for my busy season 19.05.2026 35minTired of dinnertime feeling like the biggest chore of your life? I know, sis. We are all running 100mph, so a healthy dinnertime routine can feel so heavy! I am about to have a newborn, so now more than ever, there is no time for dinner to consume my thoughts or my days- I know all my busy ladies out there feel this! So today I am sharing three practical tips for how to make dinnertime quick, easy, and weight-loss friendly ✨PLUS✨ I am sharing my list of go-to quick family meals that I am planning for once baby Shelby arrives! And as my gift to you, I am giving you over 25 free PFN exclusive recipes that are quick, family-approved, and weight loss friendly so that you can see how easy it can be to do dinner in a way that is enjoyable and helps you reach your goals! 🔗 Grab them free at perfectfitnutrition.com/free-recipes/
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The weight loss breakthrough you've been waiting for 12.05.2026 29minYou have tried to build healthy habits before. And you started strong. And then life happened and it fell apart… again. And now you are starting to wonder if weight loss consistency is some kind of skill that other people have and you don't. It is not. But there IS a reason you keep ending up in the same place. Today we are getting into why losing weight and maintaining your habits feels so hard (ps-it goes deeper than meal prep and motivation tips.) We are talking about what is actually driving the chaos, and 3 simple places to start building order without it feeling like your health habits have to take over your life. A true lifestyle change gives you so much more than weight loss. It gives you calm. It gives you pride. It loosens the grip that food and body image have had on you for years. And it is more available to you than you think. If you want tactical help making your weight loss actually stick, grab my Consistency over Chaos Week: a guided experience to help you drown out the noise and stay grounded all week long. Grab it here: perfectfitnutrition.com/coc-week-sp
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You've tried everything to lose weight and nothing works- Here's what's really going on 05.05.2026 30minIf you have ever said "I have tried everything, and nothing works,” this episode is for you. We are seeing more and more women getting so desperate that they are grabbing whatever is next: the shot they didn't really want, some random supplement from their timeline, an insane cleanse… just to see if SOMETHING will finally move the needle. But here is the truth: You are searching for an answer without knowing the real problem. Today on Say Grace we are diving in on how to get to your real problem so that you can actually fix the root instead of putting on another bandaid! I am walking through the most common reasons women feel stuck in their weight loss and exposing some things that could be working against everything you are doing. You are not broken. You just don’t know what you don’t know! Let’s fix that with this episode! 🔗To apply for our one-on-one coaching program so that we can help you pinpoint exactly where the disconnect is click here https://www.perfectfitnutrition.com/ready-to-apply/
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How to STOP hating pictures of yourself 28.04.2026 25minWhat if we could walk into swimsuit season feeling confident in photos, even if our goal weight is not yet met? It is possible, and today I am sharing my tips for how. This episode is for the woman who is tired of hiding from her reflection. At 35 weeks pregnant and heading straight into swimsuit season, you can trust that I fully understand being uncomfortable with photos or a mirror right now. But my kids are making memories. And I want to be in them. If you are dreading pool parties, beach trips, or just someone pulling out their phone, this one is for you. On today’s episode of Say Grace, I am sharing 5 practical tips for navigating photos when you are not fully satisfied with what you see. You are not alone in this… and you do not have to wait until you hit your goal to show up feeling good in your own life! Ready to get serious about putting in consistent weight loss habits with a coach holding you accountable daily? Finally learn how to balance health habits with your daily lifestyle while cutting through the chaos of your life! 🔗Apply for PFN+ here! https://www.perfectfitnutrition.com/pfn-plus-program/
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Should you fear grey-market peptides? (yes.) 14.04.2026 44minEveryone is talking about peptides right now. Your feed, friends, and gyms...are all flooded with the peptide hype. They are being marketed as quick solutions for fat loss, recovery, and health improvement. If you aren't careful, you can convince yourself that because they are everywhere, they must be worth it. But behind the claimed "incredible biohacking benefits" we are hearing about everywhere, there’s a much more complicated peptide reality to be discussed. And as a woman who deeply understands the desire to feel better in your body, but also understands science and health, I want to give you some insight on these peptides that you definitely won't hear from your friends and co-workers selling them. On today's episode i am talking about: What safe peptides actually are (and what they are not) Why what is going on is not even close to “biohacking” The difference between FDA-approved medications and grey-market products Real concerns around purity, dosing, and regulation And how to truly discern safety standards This is not about judgment. It’s about making sure that you are informed about the decisions you may be feeling influenced to make about your health. Listen to this episode for clarity around peptide use so that you feel 100% confident in your health decisions! . . To learn more about how to get healthier and lose weight in a way that is not only 100% safe, but with a program that helps you identify fad vs facts in wellness, check out our programs at https://www.perfectfitnutrition.com/
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When the sugar cravings are strong in your weight loss 07.04.2026 27minSugar cravings feel impossible to control? You’re not alone... and nothing is wrong with you! In this episode, I’m sharing 5 realistic ways to handle sugar cravings when you love sweets and want to lose weight (without cutting it out completely). From breaking the craving cycle to simple strategies that actually work in real life, this will help you feel more in control, without the all-or-nothing mindset. If sugar feels like a constant battle for you, this is your episode!
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How she lost 130 pounds NATURALLY (and kept it off) 24.03.2026 49minSis... you are in for a real treat with this episode… If you’ve ever felt like losing a significant amount of weight is impossible for you, this conversation is going to change that. Today, I’m sitting down with Beverly Sykes, who has lost 130 pounds naturally and kept it off for years with Perfect Fit Nutrition. But what makes Beverly’s story so powerful isn’t just the transformation… it’s how she did it. No extremes.No cutting out the foods she loves.No putting her life on hold. In this episode, she shares the simple, sustainable shifts that helped her lose weight in a way that actually fit into her real life, so that she could stay consistent and keep losing to reach her goal. We also talk about: How she stayed on track long-term (even when motivation wasn’t there) The mindset shifts that made everything finally “click” The surprising habits that made the biggest difference If you’ve been stuck in the cycle of starting over, or you feel like your goal is just too far away, the encouragement in this episode is for you! . . Enrollment is open for our next weight loss challenge! Click here to join Beverly in losing weight and actually keeping it off! https://www.perfectfitnutrition.com/pfn-weight-loss-doors-open/
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The ONE thing you need for successful weight loss 17.03.2026 31minSo many women are searching for the one thing that will finally make weight loss work. A better plan.A new program.The right foods.The perfect routine. And right now, with pills and shots being the loudest answers out there, it’s easy to believe the solution must be something outside of you. But in this episode, I’m sharing the one thing you actually need for successful weight loss, and why constantly seeking more information might be the very thing keeping you stuck. We’ll talk about why going “all in” often backfires, how the constant noise around weight loss creates overwhelm, and why the starting point for real progress has to come from within. If you’ve been feeling stuck, confused, or overwhelmed by all the weight loss advice out there, this episode will help you slow down, clear the chaos, and find the next right step. . . Ready to STOP the weight loss noise and stay consistent in your weight loss? Join Consistency over Chaos Week- a free week dedicated to cutting the noise and taking control of your weight loss. Finally lose weight in a lasting way that feels manageable and peaceful alongside! 🔗sign up for free now- https://www.perfectfitnutrition.com/coverc/
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Why stress is making weight loss so much harder right now 10.03.2026 39minDo you feel like you are doing everything “right,” but weight loss still feels harder than it should? I am seeing this more and more by the day... and chronic stress and anxiety may be the problem. In this episode, I am diving in on how living in constant fight-or-flight affects: your body, your hunger hormones, your cravings, and your ability to stay consistent with weight loss. You’ll learn why cortisol, poor sleep, and mental overload can make even simple choices feel exhausting! Plus I share my top 5 things to try instead, so that you lower your stress and start seeing the fat loss! . . Ready to STOP the weight loss noise and stay consistent in your weight loss? Join Consistency over Chaos Week- a free week dedicated to cutting the noise and taking control of your weight loss. Finally lose weight in a lasting way that feels manageable and peaceful alongside! 🔗sign up for free now- https://www.perfectfitnutrition.com/coverc/ Referenced episode: Ep 52: Circadian Rhythm + Weight Loss
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Mental Clutter- 3 things that are helping me 03.03.2026 38minMental clutter is so widespread in today’s culture, and I am watching it constantly consume and distract women from doing the things they desire most. I am a victim of this just the same! On this episode, I am sharing the top 3 things that are helping me to cut the noise and remove the mental clutter in my day to day so that I can focus on what matters most. Listen in to hear how I am: Starting the day intentional and aligned, Carving out pockets throughout the day, And consciously shutting it down at night so that I am able to stay more present and less cluttered!
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You overate, now what? 24.02.2026 28minIt happens to everyone, but sometimes it can feel like it’s just you. The shame of overeating can feel so heavy and overwhelming that it makes you feel hopeless for even trying. But you have to know that you are not alone. What happens after the overeat is usually the worst part and on today's episode I give you all the steps for what to do after an overeat so that you STOP the spiral1
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How we love each other, with my husband, Jess (pt 2) 17.02.2026 1t 4minWe are back with Part 2 of our love chat with my husband, Jess! On Part 1, we shared the behind-the-scenes of our relationship and details on how we have grown since then. But today, we are diving in deeper on the specifics of different areas of our marriage that we feel are important for loving each other well. We talk through our non-negotiables, how intentional time together has shifted over the years, and why communication, presence, and flexibility are super important. We also dive in deep on the mental load so many women carry, and how resentment can quietly build when expectations aren’t talked about. Plus, we share some of our communication tools, acts of service, and simple tips to keep love alive through changing seasons. We truly are just a normal couple trying to navigate our lives and relationship well, so tune in to this episode for a relatable conversation on the changes that have made our relationship stronger, healthier, and far more connected than it’s ever been.
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How we love each other, with my husband, Jess (pt 1) 10.02.2026 43minIn honor of Love month, I brought my husband back on the pod to talk about all things LOVE! Reaching health and weight loss goals is nearly impossible when you feel like your relationships are broken, so this topic is just as important as any other here at Say Grace! I often get asked about Jess and my story, as well as how we do things in our relationship. So, in this two-part episode, we are sharing all the details! On Part One, we share the behind-the-scenes of our relationship, including how we met, college breakups, early marriage struggles, money stress, and learning how to communicate before and after saying “I do.” We share our honest look at how much growth, humility, grace, and effort it has taken to build the marriage we have today. And don't forget to come back next week, when we dive deeper into specific areas of our relationship now, like communication, intimacy, fun, and a whole lot more!
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Building meals that don't feel like dieting 03.02.2026 39minIf weight loss food starts to feel boring or gross, we will quickly avoid it like the plague. So on today's episode, I am sharing seven practical ways to build meals that keep you full, taste great, and support sustainable weight loss. From food suggestions to mindset techniques to how to keep your favorite treats, tune in to this episode for tons of ideas and strategies to keep your weight loss food fun and delicious while also staying full!
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Sisters + scale talk: pregnancy weight gain with my sister, Christa 27.01.2026 1t 22minOn today's episode of Say Grace, I sat down with my sister Christa, and we talked allll things pregnancy and weight gain! While pregnancy is such a blessing, the toll it takes on our bodies and minds is often overlooked. From being uncomfortable, to social media pressures, to postpartum body issues, to preparing for the life change in it's entirety, we dive in deep on all the struggles that come with pregnancy and the approaches we have taken to navigate them. Not only do we discuss weight gain during pregnancy, we dive deep into Christa's infertility journey that led to her sweet miracle baby! This episode is such a real and raw one and even if you aren't pregnant right now I know you can relate to conversation.
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From healing to alignment: what I am leaning into in 2026 20.01.2026 33min2025 was a wild year. And while I was not prepared for what to expect, I am so thankful it happened. After spending so much time focused on regulation and how to lower my anxiety, I finally feel renewed and ready to take on life again! Instead of focusing on "fixing" like I did in most of 2025, I feel like 2026 is a time for growing! With so much change ahead, I must be intentional about how I approach this year and on this episode I share with you how I plan to do it! Some of my words of focus for 2026 are: growth slowing fuel discipline alignment and contentment. And on today's episode I am diving deep on each of these and how I plan to lean in on them.
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How to make a lifestyle change in 2026 13.01.2026 26minWeight loss is always a goal at the beginning of the year, but I want you to make 2026 the year that you actually keep it off. To lose weight without the regain, you have to create habits that you can actually keep- it has to be a lifestyle change. And on today's episode I am sharing my top 4 ways to make a change that sticks in 2026! Listen in for 4 powerful focuses that will not only help you lose the weight this year, but keep it off for good!
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Making 2026 the best year yet- my top 5 tips that actually work 30.12.2025 33minThe New Year is upon us and I want to see you succeed in 2026! In this episode I am sharing my top 5 tips to ensure that you start your New Year goals off right, so that they actually stick this time! You are done with setting goals that you never actually achieve- let's make 2026 your best year yet! . . For more help losing weight realistically, join me for my FREE upcoming class on how to Shed fat for good in 2026! Sign up here! https://www.perfectfitnutrition.com/sf-webinar/ . . Have you gotten your Fruitful goal journal? It is designed to help you not only reach your goals this year, but stay aligned with the Lord in the process! Grab it here👇 https://www.perfectfitnutrition.com/product/fruitful-goal-journal/
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