We Were Fighting Before This

The worst brand we’ve ever worked with | EP 50 | We Were Fighting Before This 18.06.2026 1godz 5min

To celebrate 50 episodes of WWFBT, we're eating the spiciest chip in the world while answering the spicy questionable questions Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:22 Yvonne’s million dollar idea 2:21 is “nerd” derogatory? 4:18 Chelsea plays League… 5:37 Present for Toast! 7:16 Knicks in 5! 12:43 Spending for sports teams 14:30 Sports betting and morals… 16:22 Toast at the Richmond night market 18:56 Toast really wants to be mayor 23:10 Online vs Offline filming 29:05 SPICY CHIP CHALLENGE QUESTION GAME 51:31 the FAKER QUESTION… 54:55 Chelsea crashes out again Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Responding to our haters... | EP 49 | We Were Fighting Before This 11.06.2026 1godz 5min

We're mad and we all have something to say! Timestamps:00:00:00 Intro00:00:30 The Pickleball Problem00:04:15 Why Pickleball Took Over00:05:18 Is Pickleball Actually Hard?00:06:43 When the New Thing Replaces the Old Thing00:09:30 Chelsea Tries Pickleball00:12:04 Men vs. Women: Who Has It Worse?00:13:00 Is It Easier to Be a Woman Content Creator?00:14:40 The DEI Conversation00:16:15 The Reality of Being a Woman00:17:35 How Do You Support Your Partner on Their Period?00:19:15 Why Couples Rage Bait Each Other00:21:30 Do Women Start Arguments on Purpose?00:24:13 How Much Fighting Is Normal?00:26:00 Is Checking Your Partner's Instagram Toxic?00:28:08 50 Episodes Later...00:29:16 Why Everyone Thinks We're Fence Sitters00:32:48 People Pleaser or Just Nice?00:37:32 Toast Explains His Face Reveal00:40:16 The Insecurity Toast Can't Shake00:43:18 Learning Confidence the Hard Way00:44:59 We Need to Leave Our Comfort Zone00:46:15 Toast's 100-Day Streaming Challenge00:47:38 Why Being Real Beats Being Negative00:49:15 Why Outdoor Boys Wins Every Time00:52:42 We Wouldn't Last a Week in Alaska Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

we made our producer CRASH OUT 👀 | EP 48 | We Were Fighting Before This 04.06.2026 1godz 25min

Toast gets 2v1'd again? Chelsea's back and she breaks down. timestamps: 00:00 Chelsea's Return & The "2v1" Dynamic 03:05 Reflecting on the past episodes 04:28 Chelsea breaks down 11:43 Asian Canadian Identity 12:55 Thoughts on FOB’s 16:40 Toast and Yvonne road trip 22:06 Empathy & Podcast Dynamics 34:08 The Reality TV "Male vs. Female Gaze" 38:16 The "Club Comment" Incident 40:48 Flight Reimbursement 45:21 Road trip to vancouver 46:27 Vegas trip 51:23 OTV "PR Training" Tier List 54:49 Gambling Sponsorship Ethics 1:05:00 Online Thirst Traps 1:09:20 Ethics of Leaking Information 1:12:03 Yvonne's Gaming Performance 1:18:23 Forced Compliments & Outro Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Being annoying is an art, and we've mastered it | EP 47 | We Were Fighting Before This 28.05.2026 1godz 27min

Are war movies sexy? And how did Toast trick Yvonne to be her sidekick...? Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:51 Nate’s last thoughts on Yvonne 3:03 Toast questions Yvonne 4:41 Yvonne’s behavior gets her into trouble 7:02 Bid for attention? 9:05 War movies 12:50 Doing it during war movies… 13:35 Toast blames Yvonne on deflecting 17:38 “I’m Ugly” 22:24 Yvonne believed she was ugly 28:01 Toast’s POV on being unattractive 29:55 When Toast locks in 36:02 Dream physique 38:38 Pivoting lifestyles 42:44 Is Yvonne a supporting character? 44:42 Thoughts on OTV 50:25 Being consistent 54:04 How willing are you to clip farm 56:24 How do you have a friendship with an EX 1:00:42 Who’s the better league player 1:10:00 Still fighting over league…. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The Perfect Relationship Doesn't Exist | EP 46 | We Were Fighting Before This 21.05.2026 59min

Dating is HARD. It's even harder when you're oldge Start your business today with the industry’s best business partner, Shopify. Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at https://SHOPIFY.COM/beforethis Timestamps: 00:00:00 Intro 00:00:34 Toast is late..? 00:02:03 Coconut 00:02:27 We read the incel comments 00:05:14 Reading comments as a streamer 00:08:39 Toast looked for these comments 00:09:59 Unbiased Nate pt 2 00:10:48 Clocking each other’s tea 00:12:26 Nate does the intro jingle 00:13:35 Yvonne’s dating update 00:15:29 Would Yvonne date any of her peers? 00:17:33 Should Yvonne lower her standards? 00:18:49 When ur partner isn’t that self-aware 00:22:00 The 90/10 rule 00:23:04 What have we learned from each other? 00:24:42 What we thought when starting this pod 00:27:24 Toast strat of finding topics 00:28:24 Perfect relationships don’t exist 00:32:05 Yvonne’s vibecheck 00:34:02 Nate’s dating life 00:35:57 Dating when you’re getting older 00:39:09 James Charles tea 00:41:22 Fans asking for money 00:42:35 Celebrities not getting cancelled 00:44:06 Kick streamers going to jail 00:46:47 Prank era of YouTube 00:47:44 How to get attention on social media 00:49:47 Streamer fatigue 00:53:05 Unlimited guests on the pod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This Podcast Broke our Friendship | EP45 | We Were Fighting Before This 14.05.2026 1godz 32min

What are actual good compliments, why you should lie to your friends, and did this podcast actually make or break Toast and Yvonne's friendship? Timestamps:00:00:00 We Were Really Fighting Before This00:00:24 NATE IS HERE00:04:05 Yvonne is a Labubu00:06:14 Chelsea’s projecting questions00:07:39 Receiving compliments00:09:32 Totally unbiased moderator00:11:23 S Tier compliments00:15:17 Repeating Questions to a Stranger00:16:40 Lucky Girl Syndrome00:20:08 How Guys Become Friends00:23:40 Describing their relationship to an outsider00:25:26 Did the pod improve their relationship 00:30:22 Acknowledging feelings00:32:01 Liking other girls’ photos..00:34:57 What even is a good guy00:37:36 How to tank your attractiveness00:41:15 The Male Heroic Fantasy00:43:22 Giving your life for someone else00:45:48 Raising a child is hard00:47:08 Toast’s existential hospital encounter00:49:30 The Amazing traits of Disguised Toast00:52:00 Receiving Compliments & Self-sabotage00:55:19 Reading Comments as a Streamer00:56:59 Food Vloggers are FAKE00:58:32 Lie to your friends 01:01:13 People think Toast is mean01:03:46 What is Misandry?01:08:59 Toast’s Deleted Sykkuno Tweet01:13:05 Things clipped out of context01:14:26 Taking the Centrist POV01:18:12 The incels are not gonna like this one01:19:28 How Internet Drama evolves01:21:50 Hello Millenials01:23:00 Creator Labels01:25:00 Toast is scaring away the Patreon members Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Nice guys finish last, and Toast is here to prove it | EP 44 | We Were Fighting Before This 07.05.2026 1godz

Toast reveals his ultimate revenge plan against his friend group while Yvonne and Chelsea are tricked into Toast's mind games. 00:00 Intro 1:05 Tomodachi Life 2:25 Is being nice an advantage or disadvantage? 6:50 Toast is a hater of the word NICE 8:51 Guys don’t want to be called nice 11:45 Would you rather be nice or funny 13:05 Respecting mean individuals? 15:20 Showing your mean side to your SO 17:00 Yvonne’s patience in a relationship 18:55 Yvonne pisses Toast off… 21:20 Toast wants Yvonne to admit when she was mean 24:32 Do we forgive easily or HOLD ON to things 26:07 Seeking revenge 28:00 Toast’s evil plan of vengeance 30:02 Toast’s plays mind games with us… 34:28 Is Toast a feminist? 37:44 Tost’s confession 38:48 Rapid fire questions 42:36 What we do before we sleep 45:00 Toast loses sponsorships 48:50 America’s Next Top Model and documentaries 53:32 50cent a #1 hater Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Let's talk about Sykkuno | EP 43 | We Were Fighting Before This 30.04.2026 1godz 1min

We found out the same way you did… Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:50 Toast wants updates on Yvonne 1:07 Sykkuno drama 31:52 Growing together 38:02 Reflection 41:17 Life / Dating / Work Advice Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Lilypichu PROMISED Yvonne she wouldn't do this... | EP 42 | We Were Fighting Before This 23.04.2026 1godz 4min

Our girl Lilypichu is back on the pod and this time she is making Yvonne uncomfortable for an hour straight.... Timestamps: 00:00 Lilypichu Intro 1:01 What Lily would do for Yvonne 2:23 Self sabotage 6:00 Love languages 8:38 Michael Reeves learning Chinese 11:22 Learning another language 13:20 Lily wants to IMPROV… 19:20 Lily and Yvonne FIGHT 21:43 Lily continues to make Yvonne uncomfortable… 23:55 Lily reflects on her fight with Toast…. 23:41 How Lily feels about OTV 27:30 Lily got her drivers license 31:54 Lily’s perspective on improv 32:57 Picking our Mt. Rushmore 38:20 How Lily become friends with Toast 39:55 Writing letters to our future self 42:20 Lilys present vocaloids in college 43:50 Lily makes Yvonne uncomfy again 46:30 Memories in the old OTV house 47:40 Mi fan the cat 49:45 KISS MARRY KILL YVONNE EDITION 59:17 Coachella FOMO Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We got SWATTED and it didn't end well... | EP 41 | We Were Fighting Before This 16.04.2026 58min

Today we're revealing our secret reddit accounts and sharing the times OTV got swatted... Timestamps: 00:00 intro 00:30 Chappell Roan drama… 5:09 Production on P**N shoots 6:44 Choosing a career of fame 9:01 Feeling bad about fan interactions 12:21 Genz phrases 15:50 Yvonnes stays over at Toast’s place 18:28 Do we have an ALT account 19:51 The dark side of clip farming 21:38 Toast and car accidents 23:45 Yvonne’s car accident 25:30 If you get hit by a WAYMO 28:18 Chelsea’s car accident 32:03 Do women have it easier on the road 33:55 Toast’s sisters accident 35:28 Is pretty privilege real? 36:37 We got SWATTED 39:52 Do guys get “pretty privilege”? 43:57 Is EVERYONE pretty? 45:47 Age of attraction 48:43 Toast has advice from his relationship 51:46 Are we settling? 54:33 Yvonne will give us updates! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Why Toast Left LA | EP 40 | We Were Fighting Before This 09.04.2026 1godz 7min

Toast opens up about leaving his friendships in LA, Yvonne reconnects with an ex, and we tackle the hard question of if we could actually be sugar babies or OnlyFans creators? Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:30 Saddest time in Yvonne’s life 5:15 Toast breaks down 9:18 Toast on leaving his friends 12:06 Yvonne on reconnecting with her ex 15:05 Putting in effort in friendships 16:20 Does Chelsea understand Toast 17:05 Toast’s shows effort for others 21:41 Does Yvonne honored? 23:10 People think Toast hates them 26:21 AMOG of OTV 30:24 How females perceived online 34:17 Switching genders 36:00 Upsides of being a woman 38:15 Toast’s niece 39:20 Trad wives & girl boss 46:00 Could Toast be a “trad wife” 49:38 When your SO doesn't help you 51:21 Could we be sugar babies 56:45 If your SO is on OF 1:01:36 How much would you pay for our OF Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Setting up Scarra with his DREAM girl | EP 39 | We Were Fighting Before This 02.04.2026 1godz 12min

The Don returns! Scarra is back on the pod and this time we're on a mission to find his DREAM girl ✨ Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:45 Scarra started this podcast 5:53 Toast doesn’t consume Asian media 6:28 Internal racism 7:25 Hard love on kids 11:30 Spoiled kids 13:45 When does Scarra want kids 15:55 Chelsea’s friends for Scarra 20:10 Tennis date for Scarra 21:45 Rejection therapy 22:23 Yvonne and Leslie’s double date 23:18 Apps are a humiliation ritual 24:48 Breaking norms 27:05 Polycules / 3 sums 29:58 Kiss, Mary, Kill !!! 47:00 Scarra on being judged 49:32 First dates and ending it 54:02 Cannot stay friends 54:55 Scarra’s price as a Sugar baby 59:03 More expensive to have a GF or a sugar baby? 1:00:02 Sugar baby experiences 1:02:27 Sexy clubs 1:05:27 Falling in love with a stripper 1:06:42 The setup… 1:07:40 Helping Yvonne out Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How to get cancelled PROPERLY | EP 38 | We Were Fighting Before This 26.03.2026 1godz 18min

We're back and we moved to a new studio! This week we're seeing which one of us has the potential to get cancelled and if Yvonne would box Toast for $1 Million... Timestamps: 00:00 Yvonne is hungover 2:11 Do we accept lateness 5:40 New studio ! 7:50 The wrong Among Us plushie… 9:50 Looks maxing 14:25 Clavicular mindset 16:55 How does Yvonne looks max 18:20 Yvonne’s YOUNG new date? 23:42 Chelsea’s reads hate comments 27:55 Double down on being cancelled 28:35 Taylor Frankie Paul 31:08 The internet downfall and morals 33:35 Boxing each other for $1M 35:30 Losing your big toe for $1M 36:44 Which streamer would we let date our sister 38:12 No streamer is getting married 39:07 Hotpot saga… 42:41 Pokopia 44:21 Leslie and her pokemon journey 48:10 Toast preys on his friends downfall.. 49:30 Dating a successful girl dynamic 53:38 Toast’s situation with his girlfriend 55:10 Yvonne’s thoughts on power dynamics 57:42 Insecurities 1:00:31 If we gained some weight… 1:06:21 Relationship weight Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

XPOT owner FIRES BACK after our $30K meal | EP 37 | We Were Fighting Before This 12.03.2026 1godz 11min

Hotpot owner claps at us and things got worse… Timestamps 00:00 Intro 1:35 Xpot owner RESPONDS 8:30 Toast’s thoughts 10:55 Mr.Charlies and Wayne Dang 12:43 Over charging 13:00 5v5? 15:30 What would old Disguised Toast 17:04 Being recognized in public 19:14 Yvonne’s boyfriend inquires 21:25 Craziest celebrity DM 24:00 Bella Poarch drama 28:41 Toast is the Jeremy Lin of Taiwan… 31:30 Do Waisan kids have it better? 34:35 Being compared to others 36:40 Yvonne tries to compliment Toast 38:55 Team Alyssa Liu or Eileen Gu 42:25 Which country would we represent? 47:02 Toast on the prettiest woman in the world 50:03 Biggest lie women tell men 52:30 Yvonne’s lying to herself 55:22 “I’m Fine.” 56:52 Is it ok to use AI in your relationship 1:00:03 Speaking at colleges 1:04:10 We need to film in Canada… Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Why Lesbians Love Toast | EP 36 | We Were Fighting Before This 05.03.2026 1godz 9min

To be loved or feared? We're ranking the funniest OTV&Friends and playing would you rather. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:35 Does Toast look like a lesbian 3:32 Toast believes he’s funny 6:55 Reliving Toast’s best moments 9:35 Does Toast feel bad 10:27 Funniest member of OTV&friends 14:20 Studying humor 19:00 Being the butt of the joke 20:05 Making jabs at Toast 20:55 Favorite comedy duo 26:30 Toast’s creative juices 29:15 What opened the gates to humor 32:05 Twitter era 34:10 Uncle Roger 37:30 Playing Would You Rather 42:25 Rich and Evil or Poor and good 53:48 To be loved or feared 58:10 Feminist or Mens right activist Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The WORST place we've done it 👀| EP 35 | We Were Fighting Before This 26.02.2026 56min

Just because you can doesn't mean you should... This week we're seeing how fragile the male ego really is and dissecting asian dating cultures. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 01:00 Worst place to do it 2:39 Best place to do it 5:18 Doing it on the beach / parks 6:20 Other public areas 7:45 What are men too defensive about 11:05 Does size matter? 15:35 Using Viagra 18:20 East coast vs West Coast guys 18:54 Fastest way to hurt a guys ego 20:06 Singing in front of someone 24:30 Bro code 26:12 Leslie and Yvonne fighting over the same guy 30:48 How does Yvonne chase after a guy 36:55 Toast explains bro code 37:20 Scarra dating Yvonne……. 40:18 Men talking about their feelings 42:53 Ranking toxic Asian women 46:50 Is Korea toxic? 47:28 Ranking toxic Asian men 49:18 Scarra ranks toxic asian women 51:18 Toast is Korean? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Yvonne LOSES Toast A LOT of money | EP 34 | We Were Fighting Before This 19.02.2026 1godz 8min

Yvonne has some explaining to do this episode, while Toast explains why he paid 5 figures for the same dinner, TWICE. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:30 How Yvonne lost Toast $$$ 8:40 Toast proceeds to insult Yvonne 11:12 Toast saves the day? 13:20 Working on Toast’s execution 16:00 Yvonne’s perspective of negotiating 17:44 Raising kids with the same standards 21:03 Yvonne’s thoughts on having kids 23:44 Toast’s thoughts on having kids 27:00 CNY / Lunar New Year! 30:41 Chinese zodiac signs story 33:28 Reading our zodiac predictions 37:25 Companies capitalizing off of CNY 39:40 Giving red envelopes 42:21 Are Toast’s kids sitting in business? 45:26 Picking up the bill 47:46 CNY new year foods 51:00 Chinese medicine 52:28 What to bring to the Chinese cookout 53:30 Chinese games 55:55 Toast HATES vegas 56:55 Toast’s EXPENSIVE dinners 1:00:38 Pokimane and Toast gambling 1:02:00 Toast swears off Vegas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Toast tries to help Yvonne find a Valentine 👀💌 | EP 33 | We Were Fighting Before This 12.02.2026 1godz 1min

Love is in the air? Or so we'll find out 👀 This week we're unpacking what Toast said that made Yvonne almost CRY, and discussing what makes Valentine's day so special and how much money should we ACTUALLY spend on our dates... Head to https://factormeals.com/fighting50off and use code fighting50off to get 50 percent off and free breakfast for a year. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:30 Love is in the air? 2:30 Defensive over Valentine’s day 3:25 Toast wants Yvonne to speak about the positives 5:40 Welcome back Toast 6:45 Confronting Toast with the “species” comment 8:55 Yvonne goes non-verbal 11:52 Toast thought about apologizing 14:43 Toast almost made Yvonne cry 17:20 Scarra wonders if he made Yvonne feel bad 20:11 Everything stacking up 20:55 Is Valentine’s Day commercial? 21:30 Yvonne’s ideal Valentine’s day 24:08 Guessing Chelsea’s Valentine’s day plans 27:05 Should you lump together a birthday and a holiday? 28:40 Do not propose on a holiday 29:18 Toast tries to read Chelsea 31:38 Do you need to ask your girl to be your Valentine 32:10 How much do we spend on our Valentine? 36:20 What if the partner doesn’t give you a present… 37:44 Toast’s Valentine’s day story 39:05 Valentine’s day is on the Super Bowl day 41:50 Chelsea’s passionate about the Seahawks 44:55 How to choose a restaurant on Valentine’s day 48:30 Should you ask a girl out before Valentine’s day 51:45 Advice for single guys 54:30 Yvonne’s & Toast’s advice for the everyone Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Chelsea speaks her truth | EP 32 | We Were Fighting Before This 05.02.2026 1godz 1min

The long awaited Chelsea episode is finally here! She's speaking up for herself and exposing her friendship with Toast... 00:00 Intro 00:35 Chelsea’s background 3:25 How Chelsea met Yvonne 5:10 Chelsea POV of meeting Yvonne 6:30 How Chelsea came to work with Toast and Yvonne 8:24 Chelsea’s first interaction with Toast 10:18 Chelsea’s first episode of WWFBT… 13:10 Toast’s humor and intention 15:41 Chelsea is concerned 16:48 What impresses Chelsea the most about Toast 18:20 Chelsea feels like the divorced kid 21:09 Toast is like a brother 24:00 Toast flaming Chelsea… 25:20 Yvonne and Scarra?? 26:21 Chelsea is evolving 28:51 Brawl stars and mobile games 32:26 Online relationships 35:30 Changing cities to find your soulmate 39:25 Patreon Questions 39:50 How Chelsea met her fiance 44:24 Chelsea’s bad dates… 50:45 Dating apps have evolved 51:55 Who does Chelsea usually side with 52:36 Chelsea’s life lessons 54:24 Ranking in Brawl Stars? 55:10 Chelsea’s fashion brand 55:40 Chelsea on an HBO show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Talking trash behind Toast's back ft. FUSLIE | EP 31 | We Were Fighting Before This 29.01.2026 1godz 25min

We replaced Toast this week with the one and only, FUSLIE! We're having a girly pop episode this week, we're talking all things girl code, cool girls, and of course MEN. Stop putting off those doctors appointments and go to https://Zocdoc.com/FIGHTING to find and instantly book a doctor you love today. 00:00 Intro 1:00 Fuslie intro! 4:00 PMSing 9:52 Leslie’s relationship with Toast 14:13 Leslie’s POV of Yvonne and Toast 16:05 Girl code 18:42 Pick me girls 21:55 Men will come and go 23:12 Leslie and Yvonne’s favorite memories 28:35 Going to the strip club together 30:20 Strip club bachelor party scenario 34:05 Why men are confusing 35:30 Setting boundaries 37:05 Moving on from a relationship 39:30 Following your girlfriends crush on IG 44:15 Leslie’s first Ex 53:35 Yvonne’s encounter in Vegas 55:10 Being a cool girl 1:01:00 Leslie made excuses for her ex 1:05:00 Micro cheating and boundaries 1:10:00 After Leslie and Edison broke up 1:11:50 Questionable choices 13:30 Boring and stable or exciting and unreliable? 1:16:35 He’s not good in bed… 1:19:00 Don’t poke people Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices