Urdu Podcast with Wakas Mir

Episódios

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  #145 - Beti Hui Hai... Afsos Kyun? 20.09.2026 9min

  “Beti hui hai.” Sirf itni si khabar, lekin hamare culture ke kuch gharon mein mubarakbaad se pehle sawaal aa jaata hai: “Beta nahi hua?” Aur agar doosri beti ho jaye, toh maa ko mashware, doctors aur treatments bataye jaane lagte hain. Lekin jab faisla Allah ka hai, toh beti ki paidaish par afsos kis baat ka? Is episode mein baat us soch ki jo ek maa ko takleef deti hai aur ek beti ke dil mein bachpan se yeh sawaal daal sakti hai: “Kya main kaafi nahi thi?”
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  #144 - Bachpan Ki Ladai, Zindagi Bhar Ki Doori 19.09.2026 8min

  Ek hi ghar mein badhe hue. Ek hi maa baap, ek hi bachpan, aur hazaaron yaadein. Phir aisa kya hota hai ke woh bhai behen jo kabhi ek doosre ke baghair nahi rehte thay, badhe ho kar ajnabi ban jaate hain? Is episode mein baat sibling rivalry, maa baap ke comparison, bachpan ki chhupi hui takleef aur un zakhmon ki jo kabhi kabhi tees saal baad bhi rishton mein zinda rehte hain. Kyun ke kabhi ladai aaj ki nahi hoti. Sirf dard purana hota hai.
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  #143 - Rishta Khatam Hota Hai, Insaniyat Nahi 18.09.2026 6min

  Talaq kabhi sirf do logon ki judai nahi hoti. Iske saath yaadein, bachay, families, izzat aur bohat se adhoore sawal bhi jude hote hain.Islam ne talaq ki ijazat di hai, lekin talaq ke baad nafrat, badla, zaleel karna aur ek doosre ki zindagi mushkil banana nahi sikhaya.Is episode mein hum baat karenge ke jab nikah khatam ho jaye, to ek doosre ke huqooq, izzat aur boundaries kaise qaim rakhi jayein. Khaas taur par jab bachay darmiyan hon.Kyunke kabhi kabhi rishta khatam karna zaroori hota hai, lekin insaniyat khatam karna kabhi zaroori nahi hota.
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  #142 - One Call Too Late 18.09.2026 4min

  Kabhi kabhi rishtay kisi larai ki wajah se khatam nahi hote. Woh sirf is liye khatam ho jaate hain kyun ke dono taraf ek hi soch hoti hai:“Usay meri yaad hai toh woh khud phone kare.”Aur phir ek din phone karne ke liye insaan hota hai... magar doosri taraf jawab dene wala nahi hota.
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  #141 - Not Every Loss Is a Loss 09.09.2026 1min

  Sometimes we cry over doors that closed.People who left.Plans that failed.Things we prayed for but never received.But what if some of those disappointments were not punishments?What if they were protection?In this episode, we reflect on the possibility that not every loss is truly a loss, and that sometimes life removes what we would never have had the strength to leave ourselves.
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  #140 - How to let go (darguzar karna) 09.09.2026 4min

  Some battles are not worth carrying.Some words do not deserve a reply.Some people do not deserve permanent space in your mind.In this episode, we talk about darguzar — the strength to let go without becoming weak, to forgive without forgetting your self-respect, and to protect your peace without carrying bitterness.
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  #139 - Should You Stay in a Toxic Marriage for the Kids? 08.09.2026 7min

  One of the hardest questions in family life is this:Should two people stay together for the sake of the children, even when the marriage has become toxic?There is no simple answer.Sometimes a marriage can be repaired. Sometimes it needs serious intervention. And sometimes staying together can expose children to years of fear, conflict, humiliation, and emotional instability.In this episode, we reflect on what children actually need, what parents often misunderstand, and how to make this decision with wisdom instead of fear.
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  #138 - Stop Being Ashamed of Who You Are 08.09.2026 6min

  A lot of people spend years trying to become acceptable to everyone around them.They change the way they speak, hide parts of their personality, silence their opinions, and constantly compare themselves to others.Not because they are weak, but because somewhere along the way, they learned that being themselves was not enough.In this episode, we talk about shame, self-confidence, comparison, and how to stop shrinking yourself just to make other people comfortable.
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  #137 - When Parenting Becomes Pressure Instead of Guidance 08.09.2026 6min

  Most parents want the best for their children.But sometimes, love can slowly turn into control.Concern can become pressure.Discipline can become fear.And a child who is constantly corrected, compared, shouted at, or emotionally controlled may grow up learning how to survive a home, instead of feeling safe in it.In this episode, we talk about toxic parenting patterns, how they can affect children for years, and how parents can guide with strength without destroying confidence, trust, and emotional safety.
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  #136 - Apne aap ko muaf karna seekhein 08.09.2026 3min

  We forgive those who disappointed us, walked away from us, betrayed our trust, or failed to value us.With time, we somehow learn to say, “It’s okay. I’ve let it go.”But there is one person many of us struggle to forgive.Ourselves.In this episode, we reflect on the mistakes, decisions, regrets, and memories that may belong to the past, but somehow continue to live inside us.Because sometimes healing is not about forgiving someone else.Sometimes, the person waiting for forgiveness is you.
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  #135 - Deen aur dunya Mein balance - Urdu Podcast 09.06.2026 46min

  Is episode mein hum mashhoor scholar Maulana Saleem Alvi ke saath ek aham aur har daur ke insaan se mutaliq mauzu par guftagu karenge: "Deen aur Dunya ko saath le kar kaise chala ja sakta hai?" Aaj ke masroof aur challenge bhare daur mein bohat se log is sawal ka jawab dhoond rahe hain ke career, business, family aur dunya ki zimmedariyon ke darmiyan apne deen ko mazboot kaise rakha jaye. Kya kamyabi aur taqwa ek saath chal sakte hain?Aur ek Muslim apni rozmarrah zindagi mein kis tarah balance paida kar sakta hai? Is dilchasp aur fikr angez guftagu mein hum practical misalon, Qurani usoolon aur zindagi ke tajurbaat ki roshni mein is mawzu ko samajhne ki koshish karenge.
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  #134 - What can anyone do in volatile times? 22.03.2026 5min

  Let's talk about what we can do in a time when everything seems to go downhill.
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  #133 - Sharpasand logon se kaise Bacha Jaye? 09.03.2026 5min

  Iss episode mein baat hogi sharpasand logon ki.
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  #132 - How to remain calm when you are angry 09.03.2026 6min

  In this episode I talk about what destroys most of our relationships... Anger!
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  #131 - Virtues of Ramadan with guest Maulana Saleem Alvi 11.02.2026 29min
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  #130 - Your children are an amanah from Allah 08.02.2026 5min

  In this episode I talk about the very fact that our children are a gift and an amanah from the Almighty.
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  #129 - The reality of life is totally different 23.06.2025 4min

  In this episode I talk about how we should be more realistic towards life and experiences that make us live with a totally unrealistic mindset.
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  #128 - Talk to Your Son — Before the World Does 19.05.2025 5min

  In this powerful episode of Urdu Podcast, I speak directly to parents—especially of sons—about the urgency of being present, vocal, and wise in a time when digital voices compete for your child’s attention. If you don’t speak to your son, someone else will—and they may not care about his values, his soul, or his future. Learn practical, gentle ways to connect with your son without being forceful. From everyday conversations to deeper spiritual guidance, this episode reminds us that raising strong, faithful sons begins with love, trust, and timely words.
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  #127 - How to deal with people on social media? 17.05.2025 4min

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  #126 - Your child is not your therapist 14.05.2025 4min

  In this episode, I open up a deeply personal and important conversation about emotional boundaries in parenting. Why do some parents turn their children into emotional confidants? What happens when we burden young hearts with adult pain? And how can we create homes where children feel safe, not responsible? A gentle yet powerful reminder to let children be children — and to heal our own wounds without passing them on.