Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend

Episódios

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  Code-Switching, Internalised Homophobia & Black Queer Identity: Laquarn Lewis 15.09.2026 35min

  In this episode, we’re joined by actor Laquarn Lewis, known for *What It Feels Like for a Girl* and *Jamie Johnson*, for an honest conversation about growing up Black and gay, code-switching, masculinity and finding your place in a queer community that doesn’t always reflect your own experiences. Laquarn opens up about the reality of being a Black queer actor and why opportunities can still feel limited for people who don’t fit what the industry is looking for. We get into playing Lady Die i...
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  Sexual Shame, Queer Therapy & The Gay Loneliness Epidemic: Dhiren Doshi-Smith 08.09.2026 46min

  In this episode, we’re joined by therapist Dhiren Doshi-Smith for an honest conversation about therapy, queer identity, race, culture, sex and the shame so many gay men carry without even realising it. Dhiren specialises in working with queer, neurodiverse people of colour and explains why traditional approaches to therapy don’t always account for people whose identities are shaped by family, religion, culture and community. We get into the idea of decolonising therapy, why setting boundarie...
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  Closeted Men, Bacha Bazi & Queer South Asians: Saad Zain 01.09.2026 41min

  In this episode, we’re joined by Saad Zain for an honest and at times provocative conversation about growing up gay across Pakistan, Kazakhstan, Dubai and London and what queer life can really look like in cultures where sexuality is rarely spoken about openly. Saad opens up about knowing he was gay from an early age, growing up surrounded by shame around his sexuality and why he believes there’s a huge difference between what happens behind closed doors and what people are willing to accept...
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  Pretty Boys, Modelling & Coming out: Tyrell Trey 25.08.2026 51min

  In this episode, we’re joined by Tyrell Trey for an honest conversation about modelling, sexuality, mixed-race identity, music, dating and the long process of figuring out who you actually are when you’ve spent years becoming what other people expect from you. Tyrell opens up about entering the modelling industry at just 16, going from feeling like the “ugly” kid growing up in a predominantly white area to being signed, modelling in Milan and suddenly having his appearance become his career....
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  Black Masculinity, Hookup Culture & The Gay Blueprint: Andrew Akuruka 18.08.2026 51min

  In this episode, we're joined by Andrew Akuruka, author of The Gay Blueprint, for an honest and at times challenging conversation about gay identity, masculinity, race, sex and the expectations we place on ourselves and each other. Andrew opens up about knowing he was gay from a young age, but only coming out to his Nigerian mum decades later. He reflects on growing up around religion, fearing that his mum’s love might be conditional and the unexpectedly emotional moment that followed when h...
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  A*POP, Top Shortage & Heartstopper 28.07.2026 33min

  After months of back-to-back guests, we're finally back with a solo episode... and there's a lot to catch up on. From sneaking into Tyla's exclusive A*POP listening party in London and sharing our first impressions of her new album, to debating Beyoncé, Jay-Z and celebrity culture. We also dive into one of the biggest debates in the LGBTQ+ community: is there really a "top shortage", or are gay men simply conditioned to associate masculinity with attraction? We unpack why DL men are so desi...
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  Queer Africans, Masculinity & IKAG: Blessing Kingsley 20.07.2026 40min

  In this exclusive episode, we're joined by I Kissed A Girl season two's Blessing, one of the breakout personalities from the series. Known for her confidence, warmth and unapologetic masculinity, Blessing opens up about her journey on the show, finding community with other masc lesbians and why I Kissed A Girl became far more than just a dating experience. From navigating life inside the Masseria and challenging stereotypes around masculine-presenting lesbians, to reflecting on the support s...
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  Secret Relationships, Indian Identity & The Messy Masseria: Nikita Bharath 15.07.2026 42min

  In this exclusive episode, we're joined by I Kissed A Girl season two's Nikita Bharath for her first ever podcast appearance. As the only contestant from the series still in a relationship, Nikita finally opens up about finding love with Pippa, keeping their relationship secret for almost a year and what really happened after the cameras stopped rolling. From navigating multiple connections, love triangles and the final kiss-off, to building a relationship away from the cameras, Nikita refle...
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  Heartbreak, OCD & Kissing Girls: Faye Mcgrath 12.07.2026 52min

  Faye McGrath first captured the nation's hearts on BBC's I Kissed A Girl, where her warmth, humour and vulnerability made her one of the standout personalities of the series. In this episode, Faye joins us to reflect on her experience on the show, navigating rejection in front of the nation and the deeper emotional journey that shaped her long before reality TV. From falling for Elise, feeling like she was "too nice" for reality TV and unpacking the lessons she took from I Kissed ...
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  Cults, Santería & Reclaiming KFC: Cain Culto 07.07.2026 46min

  Cain Culto is a queer artist, musician and creative whose work explores religion, spirituality, masculinity and identity. In this episode, we sit down with Cain to discuss growing up gay in the evangelical church, religious trauma, coming out, deconstructing Christianity and how he transformed years of shame into powerful music and art. From leading worship as a young church leader and preaching against homosexuality, to experiencing psychosis, being hospitalised and undergoing an attempted ...
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  Femphobia, Topping & Gay Pop Idols: JORDY 01.07.2026 58min

  JORDY first caught the internet's attention with viral pop hits like Nice Things and Story of a Boy, but behind the infectious hooks is an artist navigating identity, masculinity and what it really means to be seen. In this episode, we're joined by singer-songwriter JORDY to talk about life as an openly gay artist, making music without compromise, and the journey behind his new album. From writing songs inspired by dating disasters and toxic relationships, to going viral on TikTok, signing r...
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  Turning Green, Mixed Race Identity & Kissing Boys: Ruben Bø Dower 23.06.2026 52min

  Ruben Bø Dower first caught the attention of audiences on I Kissed A Boy, but behind the iconic green looks and unforgettable fashion is a thoughtful conversation about identity, creativity and belonging. In this episode, we're joined by artist, designer and creator Ruben Bø Dower to talk about life after reality TV, finding confidence in who you are, and the journey towards self-acceptance. From his experience on I Kissed A Boy and the show's impact on queer representation, to navigating pu...
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  Party Culture, Skins & The Sober Gay: Siôn Meirion 16.06.2026 32min

  The Sober Gay has built a thriving online and real-life community for LGBTQ+ people exploring sobriety, and in this episode, we're joined by Welsh creator and community organiser Sion Meirion to talk about his journey away from alcohol and drugs, the realities of queer social culture, and why he created a space where sober and sober-curious people can connect. From documenting his first 100 days sober on TikTok to launching The Sober Gay Socials, Sion shares how a personal challenge un...
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  The Buzz, Ireland & The Kinkiest Boots: Liam McEvoy 09.06.2026 37min

  Fresh from the West End production of Kinky Boots, we’re joined by performer, dancer and content creator Liam McEvoy for a conversation about queer joy, chosen family, musical theatre and finding “the buzz” in life. From landing his dream role in Kinky Boots and performing across the UK, Europe and the West End, to becoming Bruiser the dog in Legally Blonde, Liam shares the journey from growing up in Ireland to building a career on stage. Along the way, he reflects on the realities of tourin...
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  Sinners, Orisha’s & The Demonisation of Africa: Adwoa & Solomon 03.06.2026 1h

  We’re joined by artists, storytellers and creators Adwoa and Solomon for a fascinating conversation exploring African mythology, folklore, spirituality and the stories that colonialism tried to erase. From how they met at university and built a creative partnership together, to using art as a way to reconnect with their Ghanaian and Nigerian heritage, Adwoa and Solomon share how a passion project grew into a platform educating thousands about African history, culture and traditional beliefs. ...
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  Mighty Hoopla, Chosen Family & The Gay Poodle Algorithm: Glyn Fussell 26.05.2026 50min

  We’re joined by Glyn Fussell, creator of Mighty Hoopla and co-founder of Sink The Pink, for a hilarious, emotional and deeply honest conversation about queer culture, identity and building spaces where people truly feel like they belong. From creating one of the UK’s biggest and most loved queer festivals to taking Mighty Hoopla around the world, Glyn shares the journey behind building something that became much bigger than just a festival. He opens up about why representation and community m...
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  Smoggie Queens, Gay Brothers & The Stolen Parcel: Phil Dunning & Elijah Young 19.05.2026 45min

  Smoggie Queens is the chaotic, camp and heartfelt BBC comedy following a group of queer friends navigating life, love and absolute mayhem in Middlesbrough and in this episode, we’re joined by creator and star Phil Dunning alongside actor Elijah Young to talk all about it. From the inspiration behind the show and how the characters came to life, to filming inside real queer spaces in the North East, the pair share the journey of turning a lockdown script into one of the BBC’s funniest new sit...
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  Breaking Patterns, Masculinity & Little Mix: Claudimar Neto 12.05.2026 57min

  We’re joined by choreographer and creative director Claud for a deeply honest conversation about identity, healing, relationships and what it means to truly come home to yourself. From growing up in Angola and moving to the UK at a young age, to navigating queerness, family expectations and life in the spotlight, Claud reflects on the experiences that shaped him into the person he is today. In this episode, he opens up about the emotional impact of therapy, the patterns he uncovered wit...
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  Transitioning, Masculinity & Gender Euphoria: Zelah Glasson 05.05.2026 55min

  We’re joined by Zelah, a Trans man, content creator and online coach, for an open and honest conversation about transitioning, identity and what it really means to navigate masculinity in today’s world. In this episode, Zelah shares his journey from growing up as a queer woman to transitioning later in life, reflecting on how identity can evolve over time rather than arriving as a single defining moment. From navigating family dynamics and cultural expectations to unpacking internalised ideas...
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  The Arab World, Breaking Taboos & Comedy: Shaden Fakih 27.04.2026 59min

  We’re joined by Shaden, a fearless Arab comedian and outspoken voice on identity, politics and freedom of expression, for a raw and unfiltered conversation about queerness, culture and resistance. In this episode, Shaden opens up about growing up in the Arab world and navigating the tension between cultural identity and personal freedom. From challenging taboos around sex, religion and language to confronting censorship and societal expectations, she shares what it really means to speak openl...