Hope Reclaimed

146 – Life Update: Is Hope Reclaimed Dead? Grief, Life and A Birth Story 20.06.2024

And…. We’re back!! After a two year (and some months) hiatus, the podcast is back. Sort of. In this episode, Ellie Collins and her husband Austin Collins share a life update on where they have been in the last two years and why the groups and basically everything else came to an abrupt stop. Ellie shares how she felt God was inviting her to lay down Hope Reclaimed and the internal wrestle that came as a result. In the middle of grieving her ministry and preparing for the birth of her second child, Ellie received the tragic news that her sister had died. Heartbroken and vulnerable, Ellie knew she needed to surrender and release expectations, desires and her own plan for the joy of a new life – in more ways than one! If you’re facing unmet expectations, an undesirable prompting from God, or experiencing grief, this podcast is for you! You’re not alone!   hopereclaimedministries.com Instagram // @hope_reclaimed

145 – Building Healthy Attachment – Motherhood Series (Part 13) – With Phillipa Nixon-James 18.03.2022

Why do we put so much pressure on ourselves as moms? What if we went into parenting by simply relaxing and focusing on a healthy attachment at the start? In this latest episode of Hope Reclaimed, Ellie Collins is interviewing Phillipa Nixon-James, or @theupbeatmama on Instagram. In this episode you’ll learn: An overview on healthy attachment Simple ways to promote healthy attachment in our children How to be a “good enough” mom God’s redemption for attachment issues Receiving God’s grace in parenting Empowering our children Rejecting Shame and guilt in parenting Phillipa’s Bio Phillipa, the founder of the new instagram account @theupbeatmama, and her husband have a 16 month old son. The are pastors in the city of Durban, South Africa. Phillipa has a background in Speech Therapy, education and holds a Masters Degree in Child Development and Developmental psychology. Phillipa is involved in establishing a therapy centre focussed on the holistic health of families. The centre offers parenting services, the Circle of Security parenting program, specialist counselling focussing on trauma and anxiety, art and play therapy. She is passionate about the link between attachment, emotional connection and language. Hope Reclaimed Give // patreon.com/hopereclaimed Reclaimed Gathering // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com/gatherings Website // hopereclaimedministries.com Online Course // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com Instagram // @hope_reclaimed Facebook // facebook.com/hopereclaimed Email // hopereclaimedministries@gmail.com

144: For the Babies We Never Held – Stories of Miscarriage and Pregnancy Loss – Motherhood Series (Part 12) 10.03.2022

They say 1 in 4 pregnancies end in miscarriage. In this latest episode of Hope Reclaimed, you will hear four women’s experiences of losing their child or children to miscarriage and pregnancy loss. Hear Ellie Collins interview her mother, Jill Herringshaw, about her story of losing two babies. In the midst of the interview, you will hear three other women’s stories. Taylor, Jess and Carissa share how they lost their child or children in early pregnancy and how they navigated motherhood after that loss. In the end of the episode, you will hear Jill’s tribute to a baby she lost 25 years ago. In this episode, you’ll learn: The importance of community Ways to remember your child How to hold onto hope What to say (and not to say) to someone experiencing loss Why miscarriage/pregnancy loss can feel so devastating Hope Reclaimed Give // patreon.com/hopereclaimed Reclaimed Gathering // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com/gatherings Website // hopereclaimedministries.com Online Course // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com Instagram // @hope_reclaimed Facebook // facebook.com/hopereclaimed Email // hopereclaimedministries@gmail.com

143: Pain-Free Childbirth – Motherhood Series (Part 11) – With Megan Fraboni 24.02.2022

Childbirth is supposed to be the worst, most intense pain anyone experiences. And that’s normal, right? Well, what if I told you that’s not how God designed it? What if God actually wants us to NOT have pain in childbirth? Well, in this episode, we hear from Megan Fraboni. Megan shares how she believed for a completely pain-free labor and delivery and actually experienced it! Whether you’re pregnant or not, you will love this episode! The goal should never be a pain-free delivery, but the goal should be to experience the heart of the Lord in every aspect of our life! In this episode you’ll learn: What the Bible says about childbirth Our redemption from the “pain-in-childbirth” curse Activating our faith in pregnancy Preparing our bodies and minds for labor Eliminating negative voices Dealing with fear around birth Book: “Supernatural Childbirth” by Jackie Mize Hope Reclaimed Give // patreon.com/hopereclaimed Reclaimed Gathering // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com/gatherings Website // hopereclaimedministries.com Online Course // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com Instagram // @hope_reclaimed Facebook // facebook.com/hopereclaimed Email // hopereclaimedministries@gmail.com

142: Renewing my Mind and Body as a New Mom – Motherhood Series (Part 10) 17.02.2022

News Flash: Motherhood is HARD! In this latest episode of Hope Reclaimed, Ellie Collins shares how the Lord is calling her to renew her mind and body in this season of postpartum. Disappointment, anxiety and depression have crept in. But, when Ellie has chosen to focus on gratitude and worship, it’s made a huge difference! Scripture mentioned: Romans 12:1-2 3 John 2 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 Philippians 4:5-9 Isaiah 26:3 Hope Reclaimed Give // patreon.com/hopereclaimed Reclaimed Gathering // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com/gatherings Website // hopereclaimedministries.com Online Course // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com Instagram // @hope_reclaimed Facebook // facebook.com/hopereclaimed Email // hopereclaimedministries@gmail.com

141: My Birth Story – Unexpected C-Section and Postpartum Struggles – Motherhood Series (Part 9) 04.02.2022

In this latest episode of Hope Reclaimed, Ellie Collins shares her raw and real birth story and the disappointment surrounding it. At times, the birth was traumatic but Ellie shares how the Lord is meeting her in the healing of that story. Ellie also shares about her struggles with the postpartum period, including breastfeeding. And through it all, the Lord has continued to reveal himself as the provider for Ellie and her daughter Jona. Follow @WellWomenCo on instagram Episodes with Austin: 65: Dating After Divorce – Part 5: Ellie and Austin Experience (Featuring Austin Collins) 93: Ellie and Austin – Part 1: Freedom From Comparison 94: Ellie and Austin – Part 2: True Restoration is NOT Remarriage 95: Ellie and Austin – Part 3: Wedding Planning in a Pandemic 97: Ellie and Austin – Part 5: How did you know he was “The One” Hope Reclaimed Give // patreon.com/hopereclaimed Reclaimed Gathering // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com/gatherings Website // hopereclaimedministries.com Online Course // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com Instagram // @hope_reclaimed Facebook // facebook.com/hopereclaimed Email // hopereclaimedministries@gmail.com

140: Family Support in Grief – Motherhood Series (Part 8) – With Natalie Anderson 28.01.2022

Did you listen to last week’s episode? In this latest episode of Hope Reclaimed, Ellie Collins interviews Natalie Anderson. Natalie’s sister was on the podcast last week sharing the story of her son Owen’s death. In this episode, Natalie shares her perspective. Natalie shares about how to support someone experiencing grief and loss while also grieving yourself. To honor her nephew’s life, Natalie published a book. “My First Memories with Mom and Dad” can be found on Amazon. Follow Natalie Anderson on instagram: @nkraemene Buy the book: https://www.amazon.com/First-Memories-Mom-encouragement-heartbreaking-ebook/dp/B09CLL4C59 Previous episode with Natalie Hope Reclaimed Give // patreon.com/hopereclaimed Website // hopereclaimedministries.com Online Course // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com Instagram // @hope_reclaimed Facebook // facebook.com/hopereclaimed Email // hopereclaimedministries@gmail.com  

139: Stillbirth and Motherhood – Motherhood Series (Part 7) – With Lydia Holmes 21.01.2022

In this latest episode of Hope Reclaimed, Ellie Collins interviews Lydia. Lydia shares her story of her son Owen who, at full term, was stillborn. Recounting the painful and beautiful the birth story, Lydia gives Hope Reclaimed a truly vulnerable and precious gift. Not only did the Lord meet Lydia and her husband Matt in the middle of their pain, they are also seeing God’s hand in their healing as well. Matt and Lydia Holmes have set up a fund in Owen’s memory. For those looking for help after Stillbirth and loss, please email Hope Reclaimed for more information Hopereclaimedministries@gmail.com. Hope Reclaimed Give // patreon.com/hopereclaimed Website // hopereclaimedministries.com Online Course // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com Instagram // @hope_reclaimed Facebook // facebook.com/hopereclaimed Email // hopereclaimedministries@gmail.com

138: Walking Through Infertility and IVF – Motherhood Series (Part 6) – With Stacey Klein 13.01.2022

Experiencing infertility can be one of the greatest disappointments for some. In this latest episode of Hope Reclaimed, Ellie Collins interviews Stacey Klein. Stacy shares all about her experience trying to conceive naturally and making the decision to pursue fertility treatments. Stacey’s Bio Stacey is a wife to husband TJ for 4 years, and the mother of 5 month old twin boys. These are miracle babies after 2 years of infertility and IVF. She’s a photographer and designer and she loves discovering and creating beauty in everyday life. After going through infertility, Stacey is passionate about instilling hope in individuals going through similar journey. You are not alone. You can experience Jesus’ comfort, and hold on to hope! Follow Stacey on instagram // @staceyklein.co Hope Reclaimed Give // patreon.com/hopereclaimed Website // hopereclaimedministries.com Online Course // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com Instagram // @hope_reclaimed Facebook // facebook.com/hopereclaimed Email // hopereclaimedministries@gmail.com

137: Thriving in the Postpartum Season – Motherhood Series (Part 5) – With Ashley Pullar 06.01.2022

The season of postpartum can be a lot for new moms. Sleep deprivation, healing from the delivery and not to mention your hormones completely changing! Nothing is the same! In this latest episode of Hope Reclaimed, in this series on Motherhood, Ellie Collins interviews Ashley Pullar, a postpartum nurse all about this challenging and beautiful season of life. What we cover in this episode: The upside of baby-brain The importance of the hormone oxytocin Combatting anxiety Breastfeeding hurdles And more! Ashley Pullar’s Bio Ashley Pullar is a wife and mother of 3 children aged 5 and under. She has spent her career as a nurse in the postpartum and pediatric fields but has recently taken time off to be at home. Ashley is currently leading a community at church for women entering into and living in the stage of postpartum adjustment. Her desire is to empower women with the knowledge needed to care for themselves and fall in love with their babies as they embrace all of the opportunities that season holds. She is also a pro life advocate and intercessor seeking ways to support women in crisis pregnancies throughout their births and child rearing. Hope Reclaimed Give // patreon.com/hopereclaimed Website // hopereclaimedministries.com Online Course // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com Instagram // @hope_reclaimed Facebook // facebook.com/hopereclaimed Email // hopereclaimedministries@gmail.com  

136: Let’s Talk about MOM GUILT – Motherhood Series (Part 4) – With Jill Herringshaw 30.12.2021

It’s time that we talk about Mom guilt! What is it and what are the biblical remedies for it? In this episode of Hope Reclaimed, Ellie Collins interviews her mother, Jill Herringshaw about her experience with “Mom Guilt.” In this episode you’ll hear… The difference between guilt, condemnation and conviction The “Motherhood” love needs to be redeemed We are not called to be our children’s provider Time management tips Mentioned in this episode The Four Loves by C.S. Lewis Romans 8:28 – “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” Psalm 139 Proverbs 12:20b – “but those who plan for peace have joy.” Hope Reclaimed Give // patreon.com/hopereclaimed Website // hopereclaimedministries.com Online Course // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com Instagram // @hope_reclaimed Facebook // facebook.com/hopereclaimed Email // hopereclaimedministries@gmail.com

135: Infertility, Adoption and Healing from Grief – Motherhood Series (Part 3) – With Anna Braasch 08.12.2021

In this latest episode of Hope Reclaimed, Ellie Collins interviews Anna Braasch. After struggling with infertility, Anna and her husband decided to take steps to adopt. However, Anna soon discovered that she never really processed the grief and disappointment of infertility. After doing deep heart work, Anna is able to continue to give that grief to the Lord and parent her children well. Anna’s Bio Anna Braasch is passionate about encouraging parents who are struggling in their parenting journey. She brings her “in the trenches” personal experience to her speaking: infertility, adoption, attachment and parenting struggles, and loads of grace and healing. Anna has been married to her best friend, Grant, for almost 25 years. They have two beautiful children (Alex – 16, and Almaz – 15) and a goldendoodle named Fozzie. At Connected Families, Anna serves as Executive Director. At home, she serves as cook, cleaner, driver, and cuddler. Links From the Episode Connected Families Mothering Online Course Hope Reclaimed Give // patreon.com/hopereclaimed Website // hopereclaimedministries.com Online Course // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com Instagram // @hope_reclaimed Facebook // facebook.com/hopereclaimed Email // hopereclaimedministries@gmail.com  

134: Honest Talk About Stillbirth and Pregnancy Loss – Motherhood Series (Part 2) – With Haley Phillips 26.11.2021

No one expects the loss of a child, especially in the later stages of pregnancy. That’s exactly what Haley Phillips faced in her second pregnancy with her son Fletcher. In this episode of Hope Reclaimed, Haley talks openly about her healing process after losing her son, as well as how she and her husband began The Fletcher Foundation, a non-profit designed to support families experiencing stillbirth and pregnancy loss.⁠ In this episode, you’ll hear about… ⁠ – Supporting someone experiencing loss⁠ – Prioritizing marriage while grieving⁠ – Subsequent pregnancies after loss⁠ – Changing your doctor during pregnancy – Dad’s needs during pregnancy and loss Haley Phillips Haley Phillips, lives in Ankeny, Iowa with her husband, Matthew, and 3 earthly children, Hudson, Quinn and Sutton. She works for a financial planning company and is the co-founder of The Fletcher Foundation. You can find her drinking coffee, rocking their newborn or driving to preschool these days. The Fletcher Foundation Website // https://thefletcherfoundation.org/ Hope Reclaimed Give // patreon.com/hopereclaimed Website // hopereclaimedministries.com Online Course // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com Instagram // @hope_reclaimed Facebook // facebook.com/hopereclaimed Email // hopereclaimedministries@gmail.com

133: Motherhood Chat With My Mom – Motherhood Series (Part 1) – With Jill Herringshaw 18.11.2021

Have you ever sat down to talk to your mom about what it’s like to be a mother? Well, in this latest version of Hope Reclaimed, Ellie Collins does just that! Being a new mom, Ellie asks honest and meaningful questions to her mother, Jill Herringshaw about biblical motherhood as well as the joys and struggles she faced in the early years of parenthood. Hope Reclaimed Give // patreon.com/hopereclaimed Website // hopereclaimedministries.com Online Course // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com Instagram // @hope_reclaimed Facebook // facebook.com/hopereclaimed Email // hopereclaimedministries@gmail.com

132: Community for Single Mom’s (Dawn’s Story) 23.09.2021

Why is it so challenging for single parents to find support and encouragement while going through a divorce? In this latest episode of Hope Reclaimed, Ellie Collins interviews Dawn about experience of finding support and encouragement while stepping into the role of being a single mom. If you’re a single parent and struggling to find your community, you’re not alone and you need to listen to this latest episode! Follow Dawn Lausche Dawn is a writer, speaker, and homeschooling mom who craves Jesus, healing, and genuine relationship. Always up for adventure, nature, good food, and deep conversation, Dawn loves to discover life lessons in the ordinary. Her passion is to pursue healing, and to empower others in their own healing journey. She believes we help each other best when we are vulnerable and loved, and open to receiving all the possibilities of healing in Jesus’ care and grace. Instagram // @DawnMWrites Facebook // facebook.com/AuthorDawnMarie Website // dawnlausche.com Hope Reclaimed Give // patreon.com/hopereclaimed Website // hopereclaimedministries.com Online Community // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com Instagram // @hope_reclaimed Facebook // facebook.com/hopereclaimed Email // hopereclaimedministries@gmail.com

131: Finding Community and Hope During a Divorce (Dylan’s Story) 16.09.2021

Have you felt alone going through a tough season? Dylan did! In this episode of Hope Reclaimed, Ellie Collins interviews Dylan about his divorce story and how he found God again while going through a challenging and unwanted divorce. Dylan also explains how finding a solid church community was pivotal for his newfound spiritual walk. Follow Dylan on Instagram: @God_Bless_This_Divorce Hope Reclaimed Give // patreon.com/hopereclaimed Website // hopereclaimedministries.com Online Community // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com Instagram // @hope_reclaimed Facebook // facebook.com/hopereclaimed Email // hopereclaimedministries@gmail.com

130: The Importance of Community 09.09.2021

Why is community so important? In the latest episode of Hope Reclaimed, Ellie Collins talks with Annie Davis about community and how to find it while going through a divorce. Find out: Why community can be so hard to find How any community may not be the right community How to balance trust issues with your community Register for the September 21st Reclaimed Community Gathering here: https://hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com/gatherings Hope Reclaimed Give // patreon.com/hopereclaimed Website // hopereclaimedministries.com Online Community // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com Instagram // @hope_reclaimed Facebook // facebook.com/hopereclaimed Email // hopereclaimedministries@gmail.com

129: How to Navigate the Complicated Divorce Legal System 25.03.2021

When you get married, you never imagine that you would be entering the crazy and complicated world of the divorce legal system! That’s what happened for Heidi Carlson. After a sudden and terrifying event in her marriage, she immediately stepped into the legal system. If you suddenly find yourself in the middle of a messy divorce, you are not alone! Heidi Carlson Heidi Carlson is a Domestic Violence Coach.  She has been in Family Court litigation over the past 11 years, she has spent over $140k and experienced over 70 motion hearings fighting for custody of her twin daughters. Now she helps Professional Women get a divorce faster and reduce their legal fees by arming them with knowledge and wisdom to be the leader in their legal matters and get to a state of being FREE from their abuser.  Website // HeidiCarlsonCoaching.com Hope Reclaimed Give // patreon.com/hopereclaimed Website // hopereclaimedministries.com Online Community // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com Instagram // @hope_reclaimed Facebook // facebook.com/hopereclaimed Email // hopereclaimedministries@gmail.com

128: Live Unmasked – Finding Freedom from Drugs, Abuse and Unforgiveness 18.03.2021

Do you ever feel like you’re putting on a mask for everyone around you… including yourself? That’s how it was for Diane Spicer for years! In this episode of Hope Reclaimed, Diane Shares her testimony of discovering that she was hiding her authentic self. Through substance abuse, the pain of sexual abuse as a child and unforgiveness, Diane was hiding. But it wasn’t until she fully surrendered to God that she began to live completely Unmasked! Scripture mentioned: James 5:16 – “Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed.” John 4:1-26 – The story of Jesus and the Samaritan woman. Diane Spicer Diane Spicer is a dynamic Italian American New Yorker whose life did a complete 180. In 2004, she left Long Island and now embraces Australia as home. She is the mother of two amazing adult children, a doting grandmother, and a tenacious trailblazer passionately living as God’s Ambassador. Diane is a creative Coach, Mentor, and Consultant, a Chief Visionary Officer always looking for ways that the Church can transform a city. She’s foremost a passionate lover of God, life, and people. Her real-life stories from the heights of Corporate New York City, to the depths of Australian maximum-security prisons, will inspire, encourage, and challenge all those fortunate to encounter them. Website // https://www.dianespicer.com/ Purchase the Book UnMasked // https://www.amazon.com/dp/0645014605 Hope Reclaimed Give // patreon.com/hopereclaimed Website // hopereclaimedministries.com Online Community // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com Instagram // @hope_reclaimed Facebook // facebook.com/hopereclaimed Email // hopereclaimedministries@gmail.com

127: Reject Shame and Begin to Live With Transparency NOW! 11.03.2021

It’s time to get transparent! In this latest episode of Hope Reclaimed, we are airing a sermon by Ellie Collins and her husband, Austin Collins from Spirit Life Church in Alexandria, MN. This episode is full of scripture, personal stories as well as practicals for you to apply to your own experience! It’s time to share your struggles with people you trust. Freedom is possible. We believe God is calling us to be real with each other. To openly abandon those things hidden because of shame. And to declare, “I need the Gospel; I need jesus!” It’s time to be transparent. Join the Reclaimed Intensive // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com/intensive In this episode learn more about… Ellie and Austin’s story of divorce and shame Shame is an obstacle to transparency The cross took away sin and shame forever Why am I still sinning? Being a safe person to receive someone in their transparency Stepping out to be transparent is declaring the gospel Scripture Mentioned: 2 Corinthians 4:1-6 2 Corinthians 5:17 Galatians 2:20 2 Corinthians 5:21 Romans 6:6,7 Hope Reclaimed Give // patreon.com/hopereclaimed Website // hopereclaimedministries.com Online Community // hopereclaimed.mykajabi.com Instagram // @hope_reclaimed Facebook // facebook.com/hopereclaimed Email // hopereclaimedministries@gmail.com  