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• 21.0 CONFLICT RESOLUTION & THE CHURCH (part 2): GOSSIP, DIVISION & CONFLICT AVOIDANCE 11.06.2026 30min

  How should the Church handle conflict in a way that honours Christ? In Part 2 of this conversation with Rene McIntyre, Senior Pastor and Apostolic Overseer of Trumpet of Truth Ministries, we explore the importance of conflict resolution, biblical peacemaking, and church unity. We discuss how gossip, unresolved offences, and misunderstandings about Grace can create division within the Body of Christ and weaken the Church's witness. Discover practical ways to build a culture of healthy communication, reconciliation, and Christian conflict resolution while reflecting the love and character of Jesus. As believers, we are called to be a visible demonstration of God's Kingdom and to communicate truth in love. Topics Covered:• Conflict Resolution in the Church• Biblical Peacemaking• Gossip and Church Division• Respectful Communication• Biblical Unity Healthy conflict resolution is not merely a leadership skill—it is a Kingdom responsibility and a powerful witness to the transforming work of Christ. If the world will know us by our love for one another, then learning to navigate conflict God's way is essential to our witness. Contact us:  Email: info@peacemakingonpurpose.com Website: www.peacemakingonpurpose.com  
• 20.0 CONFLICT RESOLUTION AND THE CHURCH (Part1): WHY LEADERS AVOID CONFLICT 04.06.2026 24min

  What is God’s heart for conflict resolution in the Church?And why are so many Pastors and Christian leaders avoiding Difficult Conversations in the name of “Unity”? In this powerful episode of PeaceMaking on Purpose, conflict resolution specialist Michelle Pexa is joined by Rene McIntyre, Apostolic Founder and leader of Trumpet of Truth Christian Ministries, for an honest and biblically grounded conversation on leadership and Conflict Resolution in the Church. Together they explore why many pastors and church leaders struggle to address offense, confrontation, and unhealthy behavior with other Christian leaders and within their own churches. From fear of rejection and retaliation to misunderstandings about grace, kindness, and biblical unity, this episode exposes the hidden dangers of conflict avoidance in Christian leadership. Michelle and Rene discuss: Biblical conflict resolution for pastors and church leaders God’s design for unity in the Church Why Avoiding Conflict is not true peace The difference between PeaceKeeping and PeaceMaking Passive-aggressive leadership in ministry Fear of confrontation and rejection in church leadership Why offense itself is not wrong — but staying offended is How unresolved hurt and offense damage the Body of Christ Why true Unity requires Honesty, Truth, and healing conversations Healthy Christian Communication and Reconciliation strategies The Church is called to model the Kingdom of God to the world — not by pretending conflict does not exist, but by learning how to walk through differences in love, truth, Humility, and Restoration. If you are a pastor, ministry leader, church staff member, or Christian seeking healthier relationships and stronger biblical leadership, this episode will challenge and equip you. Michelle Pexa a ministry leader herself,  has specialized in conflict resolution for over 25 years and offers coaching, training, and mentoring for pastors and Christian leaders in the area of Conflict Resolution, Communication, and Reconciliation. For coaching or training inquiries:Email: info@peacemakingonpurpose.com Coming Next Week in Part 2:Michelle and Rene discuss conflict among congregation members, church culture, education strategies, and practical tools to help churches navigate conflict in healthy and biblical ways.    
• 19.0 CONFLICT RESOLUTION FOR WOMEN: DEALING WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE TYPES 28.05.2026 20min

  In this powerful episode of PeaceMaking on Purpose, conflict resolution specialist Michelle Pexa unpacks a practical and eye-opening framework for understanding people types and difficult personalities in everyday life. Whether in your family, workplace, friendships, or leadership roles, conflict often arises not just from disagreement—but from misunderstanding how people are wired differently. This episode breaks down four key people types that influence communication, behavior, and relational tension You’ll learn how each type shows up in both family systems and workplace environments, why certain behaviors trigger conflict, and how to respond with wisdom instead of frustration and anger. This episode also clarifies an important distinction between people types vs. conflict styles, helping you understand that while conflict styles describe how people handle disagreement, people types reveal how they operate in everyday life. Inside this episode, you’ll discover: Why some personalities feel “difficult” in relationships How to reduce emotional reactivity in conflict How to communicate more effectively across different personality types Why misunderstanding behavior creates unnecessary stress Practical tools for navigating difference with peace and clarity If you’ve ever struggled with communication breakdowns in your home or workplace, this episode will give you insight, language, and practical wisdom to respond better—not react faster. Because peace is not about controlling people. It’s about understanding them well enough to respond wisely. Needs some extra help? We’d be happy to connect. Please reach out to Michelle at info@peacemakingonpurpose.com
• 18.0 CONFLICT RESOLUTION FOR WOMEN: HEALING COMMUNICATION WITH ESTRANGED ADULT CHILDREN (Part 2) 21.05.2026 24min

  In Part 2 of this powerful conversation with Sarah Wall on family estrangement, conflict resolution, and healing broken relationships, we discuss one of the most painful experiences a mother can face: hearing an estranged or prodigal adult child say, “You hurt me” or “You were a bad parent.” How do you respond without becoming defensive, overwhelmed with guilt, or trapped in shame? How do you use active listening, empathy, emotional intelligence, and healthy communication skills during painful conversations with an estranged child? In this episode of PeaceMaking on Purpose, we explore practical conflict resolution tools for moms navigating estrangement, family conflict, emotional healing, reconciliation, and difficult communication with adult children. You’ll learn: How to listen to your adult child’s perspective without defensiveness Why validating your child’s feelings can help rebuild trust and emotional safety How empathy and active listening support healing and reconciliation Why acknowledging your child’s experience does not mean living under condemnation or shame How unresolved hurt impacts parent-child relationships and family dynamics Why emotional maturity and self-awareness are essential in conflict resolution How moms can process grief, guilt, rejection, and heartbreak in healthy ways The importance of separating your emotional processing from conversations with your child How humility, empathy, and peacemaking create opportunities for restored relationships Why imperfect parenting does not make you a failure This episode is filled with biblical encouragement, relationship wisdom, communication strategies, and practical peacemaking tools for women seeking healing with estranged adult children, prodigal children, and fractured family relationships. If you are searching for guidance on conflict resolution for women, family reconciliation, healing family relationships, Christian parenting, active listening skills, emotional healing, or communication with estranged adult children, this conversation will encourage you with hope, wisdom, and practical next steps toward peace and restoration. Sign up for our Insider's list at: www.peacemakingonpurpose.com Contact Us at info@peacemakingonpurpose.com Sarah Wall Podcast Host of Praying Mom’s of Estranged Children  
• 17.0 CONFLICT RESOLUTION FOR WOMEN: HOW TO RESTORE RELATIONSHIP WITH AN ESTRANGED OR PRODIGAL CHILD 14.05.2026 19min

  What happens when your child becomes distant—and every conversation feels like conflict, misunderstanding, stress, or even silence? In this powerful episode of PeaceMaking on Purpose, we explore one of the most painful and complex relationship challenges women face: estrangement from a child. Joined by Sarah Wall, Podcast host of Praying Moms of Estranged Children, we talk about how conflict resolution for women takes on a different depth when relationships are strained, communication is broken, and emotions like hurt, guilt, shame, and frustration are present. If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, falsely accused, or overwhelmed by the desire to defend yourself and set the record straight, you’re not alone. But what if relationship restoration doesn’t begin there? In Part 1, you’ll discover how to: Shift from defensiveness to understanding using conflict resolution and emotional intelligence Navigate the deep pain of family conflict and estrangement without losing yourself Practice active listening and empathy to better understand your child’s perspective Learn how to hear your child’s heart—even when you don’t agree Use empathy in difficult conversations without compromising your values Release the pressure to have your emotional needs met by your child Seek healthy, safe support and build emotional resilience Bring what you hear into prayer and faith-based healing, trusting God with the process This conversation offers practical peacemaking tools, relationship skills, and conflict resolution strategies for women who long for healing, peace, and restored connection. Whether your child is distant, estranged, or communication feels strained, this episode will equip you with a new mindset rooted in understanding, emotional awareness, and hope. Because restoring relationships isn’t about winning the argument—it’s about rebuilding connection through intentional peacemaking.    
• 16.0 CONFLICT RESOLUTION FOR WOMEN: LISTENING SKILLS THAT TURN CONFLICT INTO CONNECTION (part 2) 07.05.2026 16min

  Do your conversations ever leave you feeling confused or stuck in conflict?  In Part Two of this active listening series, we move beyond simply being present and teach you the practical skills that create real resolution and connection. In this episode, you’ll learn two powerful tools for conflict resolution: ✨ Reflecting – showing others you truly heard what they said✨ Reframing – uncovering what really matters beneath the surface Through real-life parenting and workplace examples, you’ll discover how to: De-escalate emotional conversations Improve communication in relationships, marriage, and parenting Reduce stress and miscommunication Build empathy and emotional intelligence Move from defensiveness to understanding and win/win outcomes You’ll also learn a simple shift to use in real time:👉 What do they really want? What matters most? What’s at stake? Because most conflict isn’t about the issue—it’s about feeling heard, respected, and valued. If you’re ready to grow in peacemaking, communication skills, and difficult conversations, this episode gives you practical tools you can start using today. 💡 READY to practice these skills? Join the 3-Day Conflict Resolution Bootcamp for Women👉 www.peacemakingonpurpose.com/bootcamp  
• 15.0 CONFLICT RESOLUTION FOR WOMEN: LISTENING SKILLS THAT TRANSFORM DIFFICULT CONVERSATIONS 30.04.2026 14min

  Have you had conversations break down before they ever got resolved? In this episode of PeaceMaking on Purpose, we focus on two powerful, practical communication skills that can completely change the direction of conflict: attending skills and open-ended questions. If you’ve ever been told “you’re not listening”—or you’ve walked away from a conversation feeling frustrated, or shut down—this episode will help you develop the kind of listening that builds trust and creates real connection. You’ll learn: What attending skills are and how they communicate presence, safety, and respect How body language, eye contact, and removing distractions impact difficult conversations Why people can feel when you’re physically present but mentally absent The difference between closed questions vs. open-ended questions How to ask better questions that invite clarity instead of defensiveness We also unpack an important insight from communication research and neuro science: The words we use to ask questions will activate parts of the brain that will either facilitate open discussion or shut it down with defensiveness. This small shift in language can have a powerful impact on how your conversations unfold—especially in moments of tension. Whether you're navigating marriage conflict, workplace tension, or strained relationships, these tools will help you move from reactive communication to intentional peacemaking and emotional intelligence. Because when you learn to be fully present—and ask the right questions—you don’t just manage conflict…you create space for understanding, connection, and lasting change.  
• 14.0. CONFLICT RESOLUTION FOR CHRISTIAN WOMEN: FREEDOM FROM SHAME, GUILT & UNRESOLVED CONFLICT 23.04.2026 22min

  Struggling with shame after conflict? Feeling stuck in stress, guilt, or emotional frustration after a difficult conversation—or even a relationship that remains strained or unresolved? In this episode, we explore how women experience conflict resolution, emotional stress, and relational tension when shame and self-condemnation enter the picture. Conflict doesn’t always end in clarity or restoration. Sometimes, despite your best efforts, relationships remain broken, conversations are refused, or forgiveness is not offered by the other person. And in that space, many women quietly carry a heavy burden of guilt—questioning whether they did enough, said enough, or should have been able to fix what is now an estranged or unresolved relationship. We unpack: Why women often hide or avoid conflict and carry internal emotional stress How shame distorts your role in conflict and fuels guilt, frustration, and self-blame What happens when you’ve pursued peace—but the other person remains unwilling or unforgiving Why unresolved or estranged relationships do not always equal personal failure The difference between healthy conviction and destructive condemnation How to release emotional pressure when restoration is not currently possible This episode brings a grounded, freeing perspective on what it means to live with integrity in relationships—even when outcomes are not mutual. Rooted in Scripture—including Romans 8:1–2, Romans 8:31, Romans 8:33–34, and Colossians 2:11–14—you’ll be reminded that there is no condemnation for those in Christ, and no accusation that overrides God’s declaration over your life. Even in situations of unresolved conflict or relational estrangement, you are not defined by another person’s unwillingness to reconcile. You are not responsible for controlling another person’s response. And you are not meant to carry lifelong guilt for what was outside your authority to fix. Instead, you are invited into freedom from shame, emotional clarity, and healthy peacemaking—learning how to release what is not yours to carry, while still walking in wisdom, love, and emotional maturity. If you’ve ever felt: Stuck in guilt over a broken or strained relationship Emotionally exhausted from unresolved conflict Frustrated by lack of reconciliation or forgiveness from someone else Pressured to “fix” something you cannot control Or weighed down by shame after difficult conversations This episode will help you release condemnation and step into peace, clarity, and emotional freedom. You are not defined by unresolved relationships. You are not disqualified by estrangement. And you are not alone in learning how to walk through conflict with both wisdom and grace. There is freedom ahead.  
• 13.0 CONFLICT STYLES EXPLAINED FOR WOMEN: WHY DIFFICULT CONVERSATIONS GO WRONG (And How to Handle Them Better) 16.04.2026 21min

  Have you ever walked away from a conversation feeling frustrated… wondering why it went wrong? For many women, conflict can trigger anger, stress, or withdrawal—and without realizing it, we fall into patterns that keep us stuck. In this episode, we’re reviewing the 5 conflict styles—Competitors, Collaborators, Compromisers, Accommodators, and Avoiders—and how they shape the way you show up in difficult conversations. But more importantly, you’ll learn how to move beyond just understanding your style… and start leading conversations toward win/win outcomes. Because here’s the truth:Most conflict doesn’t break down because of the issue—it breaks down because the process isn’t working for the people involved. If you’ve ever struggled with: Managing anger in the moment Feeling overwhelmed by stress during conflict Avoiding hard conversations—or overreacting in them Wanting to be a peacemaker but not knowing how This episode will give you practical, real-life tools to navigate conflict resolution with clarity, confidence, and emotional intelligence. You’ll learn how to:✔ Understand your default conflict style (and others’)✔ Create emotional safety in difficult conversations✔ Communicate in a way that helps people feel heard and respected✔ Move from tension to peacemaking and connection✔ Lead conversations toward healthy, sustainable win/win outcomes Healthy conflict isn’t about winning—it’s about creating a process where people feel safe, heard, and valued. And when you learn how to do that…you don’t just resolve conflict—you strengthen relationships.
• 12.0 CONFLICT RESOLUTION FOR WOMEN:EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE & WHY YOU FIGHT THE WAY YOU DO 09.04.2026 23min

  In this episode of Peace Making on Purpose, we’re diving into a powerful question for Women:Why do you react the way you do in conflict? If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation wondering, “Why did I shut down… give in… or push so hard?”—you’re not alone.  The truth is, your conflict style is not random—it’s learned. If you struggle with communication in conflict resolution, people-pleasing, avoidance, anger, or repeating the same arguments, this episode will help you understand the patterns behind your reactions. In this episode, you’ll discover the 5 conflict styles—avoiding, accommodating, competing, compromising, and collaborating—and how each one shows up in difficult conversations. More importantly, you’ll learn the strengths, weaknesses, and deeper emotional needs behind each style so you can begin to respond with greater awareness and emotional intelligence. We’ll explore how patterns formed through upbringing, relationships, and personality shape the way you handle tension—and why many conflicts repeat themselves when those patterns go unrecognized. You’ll gain practical insight to help you:• Recognize your default conflict style• Understand what drives your reactions• Communicate more effectively under pressure• Break unhealthy patterns that lead to repeated conflict• Move toward healthier, peacemaking outcomes Because real peace doesn’t come from reacting to conflict—it comes from understanding it. If you’re ready to grow in emotional intelligence, strengthen your communication skills, and experience more clarity and confidence in difficult conversations, this episode is for you.    
• 11.0 CONFLICT RESOLUTION FOR WOMEN: WHY WINNING ARGUMENTS IS COSTING YOU RELATIONSHIPS 02.04.2026 20min

  Have you ever walked away from a conversation replaying it in your mind…wondering why, even though you said what needed to be said, something still feels off? Or maybe you stayed quiet to keep the peace…but inside, you felt overlooked, frustrated… even resentful. This is the tension so many Christian women carry.The desire to be truthful… but still loving.To stand firm… but not cause harm.To be heard… without losing the relationship. In this episode of Peace Making on Purpose, we uncover what’s really happening beneath the surface of conflict—and why it often leaves one person feeling like they “won”… while the relationship quietly loses. Through a biblical lens, we explore the three outcomes of conflict—win-win, win-lose, and lose-lose—and how each one impacts trust, connection, and long-term relationship health. You’ll discover why win-lose approaches create distance, defensiveness, anger, and unresolved tension—and how choosing a win-win path reflects the heart of Christ: full of both grace and truth. This episode will walk you through:• The hidden cost of needing to be right• How to shift from “me vs you” to “us vs the problem”• Practical, faith-based communication skills for real-life conversations• Simple techniques to help you stay grounded, listen well, and respond with wisdom• How to pursue peace without losing your voice If you’ve ever felt torn between speaking up and keeping the peace, this conversation will give you a new way forward—one that strengthens relationships instead of slowly breaking them down. Because as women of faith, we are called higher.Not just to win…but to restore. Let’s be tough on the issue and soft on the person    
• 10.0 CONFLICT RESOLUTION FOR WOMEN: STOP ARGUING & START LISTENING 26.03.2026 20min

  Why do so many conversations turn into arguing instead of understanding?Many conflicts escalate not because people disagree, but because someone feels unheard. In this episode of Peace Making on Purpose, we explore how better communication skills—especially the skill of listening—can completely transform difficult conversations and lead to effective Conflict Resolution and Peace. You’ll learn why listening becomes so difficult during conflict and how common barriers like assumptions, expectations, distractions, and planned responses prevent us from truly hearing what the other person is trying to communicate. When these listening barriers take over, small disagreements can quickly turn into frustrating arguments. This episode introduces a powerful principle for peace making in conflict: before asserting your own position, first listen with the intention to both hear and understand. When practiced well, listening can clarify the real issues, reveal the motivations behind someone’s position, diffuse emotional tension, and build the trust needed for productive conflict resolution. You’ll also learn practical communication skills that help move conversations away from arguing and toward understanding, including how to reflect what someone is saying, acknowledge emotions, and reframe interests so solutions become easier to find. If you are a woman who wants to improve your conflict resolution skills, strengthen your relationships, and move from arguing toward peace making, this episode will give you simple listening strategies you can begin using immediately.
• 9.0 CONFLICT RESOLUTION FOR WOMEN: STOP AVOIDING, MAKE PEACE & REDUCE STRESS 19.03.2026 23min

  Do you Avoid Conflict because it feels easier in the moment? For many women, Conflict Avoidance feels like the safest option — In the moment it reduces tension—but over time it often leads to more stress, growing frustration, unresolved anger, and strained relationships. In this episode, you will learn how to move from Conflict Avoidance to confident Peace Making. We explore why so many women avoid conflict and the hidden costs of staying silent. You’ll discover how avoidance can quietly shape your relationships and why learning healthy conflict resolution is one of the most powerful steps you can take toward peace making and emotional freedom. You’ll learn:• Why conflict avoidance is often connected to your natural conflict style• Common reasons women stay silent during difficult conversations• How unresolved conflict increases stress and emotional pressure• Practical ways to prepare for challenging conversations with confidence• Simple strategies to reduce stress by creating safer, more productive conversations that lead to       peace instead of anger If you’re ready to stop carrying the weight of unresolved conflict and start practicing clear, peaceful, and purposeful communication, this episode will give you the tools to begin. Because true peace isn’t found in avoiding conflict—it’s found in learning how to navigate it well. ✨
• 8.0 COMMUNICATION SKILLS FOR WOMEN: HOW TO MANAGE ASSUMPTIONS, RESOLVE CONFLICT & REDUCE ANGER 12.03.2026 23min

  You haven’t even started the conversation… but you’re already preparing for conflict. You expect defensiveness. Anger. Misunderstanding. And before a word is spoken, your body is already reacting to stress. But what if the conflict didn’t start with them? What if it started with an Assumption? In this episode, we explore how assumptions shape Communication, fuel anger, and create unnecessary Stress in relationships. You’ll learn how the conclusions you bring into a conversation can quietly trigger tension, defensiveness, and emotional conflict—especially for women navigating family, leadership, and personal relationships. You’ll discover:• The five ways assumptions are formed through experience, past conflict, patterns, stereotypes, and outside influence• How assumptions activate your stress response and non-verbal communication• A simple 4-step conflict resolution method to clarify your thinking without blaming or escalating anger• The spiritual perspective on assumptions and how awareness can transform communication If you want healthier conversations, less emotional stress, and stronger conflict resolution skills, this episode will help you shift from reacting to assumptions to communicating with clarity. Because… Misunderstanding Matters!
• 7.0 CONFLICT, BITTERNESS, & ANGER: THE COST OF UNMET EXPECTATIONS FOR WOMEN 05.03.2026 22min

  Bitterness rarely begins with hatred. It begins with a silent, unmet expectation. In this episode, we dive deep into Conflict Resolution for Women by unpacking what expectations really are — the unspoken rules we place on others — and how, when they aren’t fulfilled, they quietly shape the narratives in our minds. What starts as disappointment can slowly harden into resentment, and if left unchecked, resentment can grow into bitterness, destructive attitudes and actions. Through the sobering biblical account of Absalom, son of King David, we see how unmet expectations led to bitterness, fractured trust, and ultimately rebellion. After his sister Tamar was violated by Amnon, Absalom expected justice. When it didn’t come, a story formed in the silence — and that story reshaped his heart. While most of us won’t overthrow a kingdom, many of us have rewritten someone’s character internally because they failed to meet our expectations. In this episode, you’ll discover: How unspoken expectations create internal narratives How disappointment turns into anger and resentment How bitterness contaminates relationships and influences others Why unresolved offense is more spiritually serious than we often realize Practical steps for women to manage anger, embrace forgiveness, and move toward healing But we don’t stop at awareness — we move toward freedom. If bitterness has already taken root… if there’s “water under the bridge”… if you’ve tried to forgive but still feel like the emotional account is unpaid — this episode offers a practical path forward. Using the powerful picture Jesus gives of debts and accounts, we explore practical forgiveness not as suppression, but as a conscious decision to release the debt and stop keeping score. Because the true cost of unmet expectations isn’t just relational. It’s the condition of your heart — and freedom is possible.
• 6.0 EXPECTATIONS AND CONFLICT RESOLUTION: WHY WE'RE REALLY ARGUING 26.02.2026 19min

  Why do small disagreements turn into big fights? Most conflict doesn’t start with bad intentions. It starts with unspoken expectations. In this episode, we unpack the invisible “contracts” operating inside every relationship — romantic, professional, friendships, and family. When expectations stay silent, they quietly turn into disappointment, stories, resentment, and eventually emotional explosions. You’ll learn: Why the belief “If they cared, they would know” damages connection How assumptions create emotional narratives that escalate conflict The 3 types of conflict (task, relationship, and value) — and why identifying them changes everything A practical 4-step framework to reset tension in real time The critical difference between expectations and standards This episode will help you move from blame to clarity, from defensiveness to understanding, and from repeated arguments to intentional alignment. Because healthy relationships aren’t built on mind-reading. They’re built on clear communication. If you’re ready to handle conflict in a way that strengthens connection instead of eroding it, this conversation is for you.
• 5.0 CONFLICT, POWER, AND RECONCILIATION: WHAT DOES THE BIBLE REALLY SAY? 19.02.2026 21min

  Conflict is rarely equal. Sometimes one person holds more influence, authority, or power — and that changes everything. So what does Matthew 18 really say about process? In this episode, we take a closer look at Jesus’ words in Gospel of Matthew 18 and unpack the biblical steps of private conversation, bringing witnesses, and involving the community — while asking the hard questions about power imbalances. What if the person causing offence is in leadership or a place of authority?What if going privately doesn’t feel safe? Perhaps the offending party’s personality is too forceful. Jesus’ teaching wasn’t about protecting hierarchy — it was about restoration, accountability, and truth. Let’s talk about power, process, and what Matthew 18 really says.
• 4.0 HATE CONFLICT? HERE ARE 7 REASONS YOU SHOULDN’T AVOID IT 12.02.2026 17min

  “I just don’t have time for conflict.” The drama. The stress. The emotional energy it takes — with no guarantee of resolution. Sound familiar? Most of us avoid conflict at all costs… or we engage only when we’re cornered. Either way, we treat conflict as uncomfortable, draining, and expensive. And yet, the elephant in the room isn’t going anywhere — it’s just getting smellier. So why engage at all? In this episode, we challenge a deeply held assumption: that conflict only costs us. What if that belief is wrong? What if conflict actually creates value? I break down 7 unexpected benefits of conflict resolution — emotional, relational, and practical — and invite you to decide for yourself whether conflict resolution has value - real value.  🎧 Listen in if you’re tired of tension, stuck conversations, or unresolved issues — and ready to see conflict in a completely different light.  
• 3.0 IS ANGER A FRIEND OR A FOE? RE-THINKING THE POWER OF EMOTIONS AND THEIR ROLE IN CONFLICT RESOLUTION 05.02.2026 16min

  We’ve been taught not to trust our emotions. They’re “too much.”They’re not logical.And for women especially, they’re often treated like a problem to fix. So, when emotions show up in a hard conversation, we do what we’ve learned to do—we shut them down, apologize for them, or pretend they aren’t there. But what if that’s the real problem? What if your emotions aren’t sabotaging the conversation…What if they’re trying to tell you something? In this episode, we’re challenging the idea that emotions don’t belong in conflict. We’re talking about how emotions are released, the messages they carry, and why God designed them to play a powerful role in healing and resolution. We’re also taking a deep dive into anger—what it’s really communicating, how it impacts your ability to think and decide clearly, and what happens when it goes unchecked. And finally, we’re getting honest about the truth: God didn’t make a mistake when He gave you emotions. They are not your enemy. They are intentional, purposeful, and meant to guide you—not control you. If you’ve ever struggled with anger or felt vulnerable emotionally in Conflict situations, this episode is for you.  
• 2.0 HOW TO MANAGE STRESS IN CONFLICT: WAYS TO STOP OVERREACTING AND REGAIN CONTROL 29.01.2026 14min

  Your hands are sweating. Your heart is racing. Your throat tightens as you try to hold back tears.Not exactly what being “in control” looks like—especially in the middle of a difficult conversation. Sound familiar? You’re not alone. And here’s the truth: what you’re experiencing is completely normal.Uncomfortable? Yes.Embarrassing? Maybe.But normal. You are in a stress response—and when your body sounds the alarm, it becomes nearly impossible to think clearly, stay present, or communicate effectively. Yet, in these moments, the stakes are often high. The more you try to push through, the more out of control you can feel. In this episode, we explore: What actually happens in your brain and body when you become triggered How stress responses begin—and what causes them Why your body reacts the way it does And most importantly, how you canregain control If you’ve ever felt hijacked by a stress response during a hard conversation, this episode is for you.