That's Orgasmic with Sexologist Emily Duncan

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  186 What makes someone good at sex? (It's not experience) 05.08.2026 17min

  Think being good at sex comes from having lots of experience? Think again. In this episode, I'm breaking down one of the biggest myths about sex: that the more sex you have had, the better you'll be in bed. The truth is, great sex has everything to do with communication, curiosity, connection, and a willingness to learn. We'll explore:• Why sexual experience doesn't automatically make someone a better lover• The qualities that actually make someone a great sexual partner• How communication can transform your sex life• Why slowing down often leads to more pleasure• The importance of connection and aftercare• Why porn isn't sex education• Evidence-based resources to help you learn about pleasure, even if you've never had sex before   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  185 Why do I like my sex toy more than partnered sex? 22.07.2026 18min

  This episode explores the listener question, "I bought a toy and I'm honestly a little embarrassed about how much I like it more than partnered sex. Does that mean something's wrong?" Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  184 Stop approaching women like this 15.07.2026 22min

  In this episode, Emily discusses a recent scary experience of a man asking for her number in public. Emily also discusses the different ways men have approached her in public, from the ok to the bad.   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  How to eat pussy - Queer edition with Jordana Ezra [REVISIT] 08.07.2026 43min

  There is no new episode this week, instead, enjoy this revisit to episode 134 How to eat pussy.  In this episode, I am joined by Jordana Ezra, a somatic sexologist specialising in LGBTIA+ sex. She is a bisexual lesbian, host of MOIST a sell-out queer speed dating event and founder of the pussy frequency a method devoted to women and non-binary coming out later in life.  Emily and Jordana discuss: Performance anxiety to eat pussy How to eat pussy How to practice pussy worshipping How to get to know your pussy Getting out of your head and into your body FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast To book a session with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre follow the link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com JORDY'S INSTAGRAM  FREE PLEASURE MAPPING SESSION WITH JORDYSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  182 How to have a terrible sex life 01.07.2026 26min

  Emily a sex and relationship therapist, discusses the most common behaviours that contribute to a bad sex life...they're more common than you'd think. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  181 UPDATED - How to spice up masturbation: A Sex Therapist's top tips- Part Two 29.06.2026 10min

  Apologies for the error in uploading the same episode for both part one and two of 'how to spice up masturbation: A Sex Therapist's top tips. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  180 How to spice up masturbation: A Sex Therapist's top tips- Part one 24.06.2026 9min

  This episode is part one of two episodes - How to spice up masturbation: A Sex Therapist's top tips   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  179 Daily practices to reconnect to your sexuality 17.06.2026 24min

  Low desire? Disconnected from your body? Struggle to experience pleasure? This practical episode explores daily practices to connect to your sexuality.  Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  178 Why touch can disappear in relationships 10.06.2026 15min

  This episode explores demand and non-demand intimacy. Emily explains what is happening when not only sex has decreased, but physical touch and intimacy have decreased too. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code: thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  177 How to initiate sex 03.06.2026 17min

  Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Ebook Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Workbook Get your copy of The Art of Initiation bundle Ebook + Workbook Emotional Bank Account Podcast episode FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  176 Is your relationship is running on empty? 27.05.2026 14min

  This episode explores the emotional bank account. A concept often discussed in therapy to determine the health of your relationship and how you can improve it. Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Ebook   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  175 Why you are experiencing erectile difficulties 20.05.2026 16min

  Overcome your erectile difficulties with my online self-paced course  Overcoming Erectile Difficulties Program: How to obtain and maintain an erection Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Ebook (How to initiate sex) FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre Discount code for course: THATSORGASMIC   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast If you want to track your erectile health use the link below to access the FirmTech Ring. A penile device that tracks your erections and can also be used as a cockring. https://myfirmtech.com/emilyduncan Use the code: ThatsOrgasmic for 15% off.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  174 Five things I repeat as a Sex Therapist that you probably need to hear too 13.05.2026 16min

  This episode explores 5 things Emily always says as a sex therapist to her clients during their therapy sessions. Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Ebook FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  173 Exploring Kink and BDSM with Coby Baker 29.10.2025 42min

  This episode features Coby Baker, a sexologist and devoted artist. Emily and Coby discussed: What is Kink and BDSM Development of kinks Common practices Difference between a kink and a fetish How to explore kink and BDSM safely Communication How to talk to your partner about a kink you want to explore Aftercare FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre, follow the link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Sexual Wellness Centre. Coby’s website Coby’s InstagramSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  172 How to overcome purity culture and sexual shame with Lauren Elise Rogers 31.07.2025 54min

  This episode features Lauren Elise Rogers who is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach, celebrated for her warm and approachable style. Her holistic and embodied approach to education and coaching is deeply rooted in her own pain-to-purpose journey. Lauren brings an empathetic and non-judgmental approach, offering practical tools that empower her clients to take ownership of their pleasure and grow in confidence and connection. She is known for creating shame-free spaces, where she invites individuals and couples to navigate complex topics like long-term partnerships, consensual non-monogamy, life transitions, purity culture and LGBTQIA+ issues. We discuss: What is purity culture How to overcome purity culture frameworks and sexual shame Why talking about sex is important What if your partner also contributed to your experience of purity culture FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Website: www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@sexedforyou Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  171 Why people cheat and how to repair your relationship after an affair with Tarah and Ej Kerwin 28.05.2025 54min

  This episode features Tarah and EJ Kerwin who are dedicated to transforming couples’ lives through meaningful connection and support. They’re a married couple who co-founded the Relationship Renovation Counseling Centre. Their goal is to provide real tools for couples to thrive, no matter where they are.   We discuss: What is cheating Why do people cheat? Is an affair the symptom of a troubled relationship or an individual problem? Can a relationship survive an affair? How couples can rebuild trust through couples therapy Misconceptions about affairs  YOUTUBE VIDEO FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   Tarah and EJ's WebsiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  170 The bedroom gap, Labiaplasty and Menopause with Dr Maria Sophocles 16.04.2025 52min

  This podcast episode features Dr. Maria Sophocles, who has been a practicing gynecologist for 29 years and is an internationally respected expert in menopause and female sexual function. She is the founder of Women's Healthcare of Princeton, a progressive gynecology practice serving over 30,000 women in the U.S. Emily and Maria discuss: Menopause and why everyone needs to learn about it How Menopause can affect sex The bedroom gap Labiaplasty Expanding your experience of sex     FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/  Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   Website: https://mariasophoclesmd.com/patient-care/ Instagram: @mariasophoclesmd  TED Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=alYBnyxMuPk Erika Lust / TED Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z9LaQtfpP_8See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  169 ADHD and relationships with Niamh Mannion 03.04.2025 41min

  This episode features Niamh Mannion the founder of My Friend In Sex Ed.  Emily and Niamh discuss: ADHD How ADHD can have positive impacts on relationships Other ways ADHD could impact relationships Rejection sensitivity Oversharing How a neurotypical or non-ADHDer can support an ADHD partner FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   Niamh's website Niamh's InstagramSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  168 How dating rules are changing and is your ‘type’ right for you? with Nicole Colantoni 27.03.2025 41min

  How dating rules are changing and is your ‘type’ right for you? with Nicole Colantoni   This episode features Nicole Colantoni who is a dating coach, ehrmony Australia’s dating expert and podcast host of Love uncensored: the modern guide to dating and relationships.     Emily and Nicole discussed: Dating rules How dating rules differ between generations Dating advice Is your type really right for you?   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Nicole’s website Nicole’s InstagramSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  167 Discover your erotic blueprint for better sex with Laurie Love 19.03.2025 43min

  This episode features Laurie Love who is a Certified Erotic Blueprint™ and Intimacy Coach. She empowers individuals and couples to navigate the intricacies of intimacy through the 5 Erotic Blueprint™ types framework which helps us understand how we are wired for pleasure. Emily and Laurie discuss: Laurie's journey to become an intimacy coach What is the erotic blueprint? How do we discover what our erotic blueprint is? Why is this helpful and how can we use it? What to do if your partner has a different erotic blueprint FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Laurie's websiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.