The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
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The Mental Healness Podcast is hosted by Lee Hammock, who has Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and has been in therapy for eight years. Initially offering a rare perspective from a diagnosed narcissist, the show now also features interviews with others sharing their mental health journeys and experiences with toxic relationships. The podcast aims to provide insight and support for those dealing with similar issues.
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1. Surviving July 4th With a Narcissist: Don’t Let Them Ruin Your Day 04.07.2026 11minJuly 4th is supposed to be about freedom, but if you’re stuck with a toxic or narcissistic partner, you probably feel more trapped than ever—and that’s exactly what we’re talking about in this video. As a clinically diagnosed narcissist, I break down why narcissistic people ruin holidays like Independence Day, how their mood and energy when they wake up sets the tone, and why you keep getting the silent treatment, bad juju, and “attitude” every time you try to celebrate with family or friends. We’ll talk about why you’re damned if you do and damned if you don’t, how they use control and attention‑seeking to strip you of your power, and why you don’t have to bring them along just so they can make everyone miserable. I’ll show you how to choose the “damned” you can live with, protect your peace, enjoy your plans and your kids, and stop giving them the narcissistic supply they’re craving. If this video empowers you to make a different choice today, share it with someone else stuck in a holiday with a narcissist so they don’t have to spend Independence Day feeling controlled and alone.Book a Coaching Session: [https://link.me/mentalhealness]🔥 My Books: [https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ]🎙 Listen to the Mental Healness Podcast: [https://youtube.com/@mentalhealnesspodcast?si=AVcJfHa16HZReqHL]
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How Violating Your Boundaries Secretly Manifests As Physical Illness 03.07.2026 1h 11minCan suppressing your emotions and constantly pleasing others actually cause your physical body to break down? In this powerful and eye-opening episode, host Lee Hammock sits down with nervous system and trauma specialist Dr. Nima Rahmany to uncover the deep somatic connection between emotional boundary violations and chronic illness. Dr. Nima breaks down the reality of somatic healing, explaining why traditional talk therapies often fail to reach the deep-seated emotional charges trapped inside the physical body. Together, they explore the hidden paradox of self-improvement, revealing how mainstream personal development can frequently stem from a place of self-hate rather than authentic self-acceptance. Dr. Nima maps out how a childhood history of not feeling seen forces individuals into protective habits like extreme codependency or defensive grandiosity. You will learn how swallowing your truth to maintain relationships creates internal inflammation, directly triggering autoimmune issues and physical exhaustion. Dr. Nima shares actionable insights from his Trigger Proof methodology, demonstrating how to transition your relationship with core shame from a state of constant warfare into an elegant dance of self-compassion. Whether you are looking to break free from chronic physical tension, heal attachment wounds, or master the art of relationship repair, this conversation provides a necessary guide to becoming your own medicine. Connect With Dr. Nima https://www.facebook.com/drnimarahmany/https://www.instagram.com/drnima/?hl=enhttps://www.youtube.com/c/drnimarahmany
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Trauma Bonds Destroy Everyone Around Them! 02.07.2026 25minTrauma Bonds Destroy any and Everyone Around Them, not just the person going through them. They cause division, toxicity and even more isolation for the people going through them. The person going through the trauma bond with the narcissist is in it but everyone else is going through it with them. Book a Coaching Session: [https://link.me/mentalhealness]🔥 My Books: [https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ]🎙 Listen to the Mental Healness Podcast: [https://youtube.com/@mentalhealnesspodcast?si=AVcJfHa16HZReqHL]
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The Most Overlooked Sign Your Abuser Will Escalate to M*rder 01.07.2026 12minStrangulation is the single strongest predictor that domestic violence will escalate to homicide, yet it is still one of the most minimized and misunderstood forms of abuse. In this video, we break down what strangulation actually does to the body and brain, why it can cause serious or even fatal injury hours or days later, and why survivors often walk away with little or no visible marks. From a power‑and‑control perspective, we will talk about how non‑fatal strangulation is almost never “just a moment of anger,” but a deliberate test of power and a major red flag that your abuser is willing to cross into lethal territory. You’ll also learn how the presence of firearms and a history of strangulation together can send your homicide risk through the roof, why so many survivors blame themselves or downplay what happened, and why that self‑blame is part of the danger. We’ll walk through practical safety‑planning steps, hotline options, and resources so you can take this seriously, trust your instincts, and get support even if you’re not sure what to do next. If someone has ever put their hands around your neck, this is not overreacting—this is about survival, and you deserve help and protection.Book a Coaching Session: [https://link.me/mentalhealness]🔥 My Books: [https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ]🎙 Listen to the Mental Healness Podcast: [https://youtube.com/@mentalhealnesspodcast?si=AVcJfHa16HZReqHL]
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14 Years. 5 Kids. And He Left Her Blind And Homeless 30.06.2026 24minReal story from a viewer who has been through 14 years of narcissistic abuse.Book a Coaching Session: [https://link.me/mentalhealness]🔥 My Books: [https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ]🎙 Listen to the Mental Healness Podcast: [https://youtube.com/@mentalhealnesspodcast?si=AVcJfHa16HZReqHL]
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My Mom Had 2 Months to Live, My Best Friend Took His Own Life, Then This Happened 28.06.2026 50minWhat happens when your body nearly kills you, your mom is given 2 months to live, and your best friend takes his own life? For James Benefico, founder and CEO of Organic Muscle, those three tragedies became the fuel for one of the most powerful wellness movements in the country.In this episode of the Mental Healness Podcast, I sit down with James Benefico — founder of Organic Muscle, the #1 USDA certified organic pre-workout in the country, and co-host of The Jesus Way Podcast. James opens up about the near-death experience that launched his company, the hospital room that changed his view of the medical system forever, and the spiritual journey that brought him back from the brink.We talk about:The pre-workout that nearly killed him and launched a companyThe hospital room conversation that exposed the gap between medicine and nutritionHow grief and tragedy became the foundation for his purposeWhat real faith looks like vs. what mainstream religion teachesHow grief, grief work, and grief processing lead to compassionHow to build positive momentum in your life, one small win at a timeHow to treat your body as a temple, not a trophyIf you're working on your mental health, your physical health, or your spiritual health — this conversation is for you.RESOURCES & SUPPORT:All My Links (Coaching, Courses, Merch): https://link.me/mentalhealnessOrganic Muscle: https://www.organicmuscle.comThe Jesus Way Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHFbm5evOciDLczBB1FNKpAFollow James on Instagram: @jamesBenefico
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Why Do Narcissists HATE Being Ignored!? 27.06.2026 21minWhat happens inside the mind of an abuser or a controlling person when you stop responding to them? In this video, Lee Hammock exposes the psychological panic that occurs when you ignore a toxic individual. You’ll learn how silence starves their ego, why a complete lack of reaction strips an abusive person of their perceived power, and why your indifference is treated as an existential threat to their identity. We dive deep into the mechanics of why they would rather have you scream at them than ignore them, how your silence forces them to face their own internal emptiness, and what to expect when they launch a chaotic "extinction burst" to force you back into the ring. If you are ready to use the most powerful boundary in existence, this breakdown will give you the psychological leverage to hold your ground and protect your sanity.Book a Coaching Session: [https://link.me/mentalhealness]🔥 My Books: [https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ]🎙 Listen to the Mental Healness Podcast: [https://youtube.com/@mentalhealnesspodcast?si=AVcJfHa16HZReqHL]
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What is Cognitive Dissonance and How Does It Work In a Toxic Relationship 26.06.2026 14minWhy do you stay with someone who treats you terribly, while simultaneously believing they are your soulmate? In this video, Lee Hammock breaks down the exhausting psychological reality of cognitive dissonance in toxic relationships.Cognitive dissonance occurs when your brain is forced to hold two completely conflicting beliefs at the exact same time: "they love me" versus "they hurt me."We expose how an abuser or controlling person intentionally manufactures this mental fog through a calculated push-pull dynamic of intense love bombing followed by sudden cruelty. This isn't an accident—it's a design. We walk through the mechanics of the intermittent reinforcement cycle, the strongest form of behavioral conditioning known to psychology and explain the neurological basis of why you can't just walk away. Unpredictable dopamine hits from the rare "good moments" keep your brain chemically hooked, forcing you to hold onto a fantasy version of the abuser rather than the reality of who they are.Doubting your own memory and constantly questioning your reality.Justifying their toxic behavior to your friends, family, and yourself.Constant apologizing for things you didn’t even do just to keep the peace.Total paralysis in decision-making because you no longer trust your own judgment.This intense mental friction traps you in a loop that literally makes you feel like you are going crazy. If you are ready to pull back the curtain on this emotional manipulation, stop the self-doubt, and reclaim your mental health, this deep dive is for you. Remember: naming it is your first step toward breaking it.Common Signs You Are Experiencing Cognitive Dissonance:Book a Coaching Session: [https://link.me/mentalhealness]🔥 My Books: [https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ]🎙 Listen to the Mental Healness Podcast: [https://youtube.com/@mentalhealnesspodcast?si=AVcJfHa16HZReqHL]
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The One Question Every Narcissist Asks Before They Do Anything 24.06.2026 13minEvery narcissist quietly asks themselves one core question before they do anything for you: “How does this benefit me?” In this episode, clinically diagnosed narcissist Lee Hammock breaks down the selfish, calculated mindset behind narcissistic behavior, emotional abuse, hoovering, and why everything seems to come back to supply. You’ll learn how a narcissist’s lack of genuine empathy gets replaced with cold calculation, why both their “kindness” and their cruelty often have hidden motives, and how this shows up in real‑life relationships. Lee also shares practical scripts for communicating with a narcissist, framing requests so they see a benefit, and protecting your energy so you don’t get stuck trying to “understand” them into changing. If you’re dealing with a toxic partner and wondering why they do what they do, this video will help you see the pattern clearly and stop taking their behavior so personallyBook a Coaching Session: [https://link.me/mentalhealness]🔥 My Books: [https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ]🎙 Listen to the Mental Healness Podcast: [https://youtube.com/@mentalhealnesspodcast?si=AVcJfHa16HZReqHL]
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He's A Convicted K*ller and Making excuses for his behavior! Sean Gathright is going to Jail for Life. 23.06.2026 9minSean Gathright is going to Jail for Life and listen to him making excuses for why he did what he did. He got sentenced to life in prison without parole for k*lling Julio Foolio over a beef that he wasn't even a part of. Book a Coaching Session: [https://link.me/mentalhealness]🔥 My Books: [https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ]🎙 Listen to the Mental Healness Podcast: [https://youtube.com/@mentalhealnesspodcast?si=AVcJfHa16HZReqHL]
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When a Toxic Person Realizes They Can’t Control You Anymore 22.06.2026 16minWhat actually happens inside a narcissistic or toxic person when they realize they can’t control you anymore? In this video, from the perspective of a diagnosed narcissist, I break down the moment their manipulation and gaslighting stop working, how they react when you stop responding the way you used to, and what that means for you as a survivor or thriver.We’ll talk about the first red flags that their control is slipping, the internal “ego death” and narcissistic injury they experience, why they briefly question themselves and then flip it back on you with blame, accusations, and new tactics, and how you can stay safe and grounded as you stand up for yourself, stop reacting, and break out of the cycle of abuse. If you’re dealing with a narcissistic, toxic, or emotionally abusive partner, this video will help you understand their mindset when they lose control and why your new boundaries matter.Book a Coaching Session: [https://link.me/mentalhealness]🔥 My Books: [https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ]🎙 Listen to the Mental Healness Podcast: [https://youtube.com/@mentalhealnesspodcast?si=AVcJfHa16HZReqHL]
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What Your Silence Does To a Toxic Person 21.06.2026 39minWhat does your silence really do to a toxic person? In this video, we break down what happens inside a narcissistic or toxic person when you stop reacting, stop explaining, and go silent through no contact or low contact. We’ll talk about why your silence feels like a loss of control to them, how it can trigger rage, smear campaigns, hoovering and love bombing, and why staying quiet can be a powerful step in breaking trauma bonds and reclaiming your peace.You’ll learn the difference between abusive silent treatment they use to punish you vs. protective silence you use to heal, what to expect when you go no contact with a narcissist or toxic ex, and how to handle the anxiety, cravings, and guilt that come up when you stop responding. If you’re recovering from emotional abuse, coercive control, or narcissistic abuse, this video will help you understand why your silence is not weakness it’s often the beginning of your freedom.Book a Coaching Session: [https://link.me/mentalhealness]🔥 My Books: [https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ]🎙 Listen to the Mental Healness Podcast: [https://youtube.com/@mentalhealnesspodcast?si=AVcJfHa16HZReqHL]
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I’m a Diagnosed Narcissist, Here’s Why I Use My Story to Help 20.06.2026 12minIn this video, I open up about why I chose to use my narcissistic personality disorder diagnosis to help people instead of hiding it. I talk about suffering in silence with my own mental health, how I went from a covert, emotionally abusive narcissist to sitting in therapy for years, and why I decided to start speaking publicly about narcissism on social media.Book a Coaching Session: [https://link.me/mentalhealness]🔥 My Books: [https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ]🎙 Listen to the Mental Healness Podcast: [https://youtube.com/@mentalhealnesspodcast?si=AVcJfHa16HZReqHL]
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I Was Tired of Being Pissed Off So I Did THIS 19.06.2026 44minYour anger after a toxic relationship, narcissistic abuse, or a devastating divorce isn't a weakness — it can be your biggest catalyst for change.In this full podcast episode, I sit down with Stacie Shifflett — a 68-year-old author, entrepreneur, and founder of Modern Consciousness. After her 28-year marriage imploded, Stacie did everything "right" — new home, new routines, new social life. But inside, nothing felt like her. That's when she walked into a coach's office and said three words that changed everything: "I'm tired of being angry."What followed was one of the most powerful reinvention stories I've ever heard — from working with Les Brown and Tony Robbins, to acquiring a $50M software company with zero upfront capital, to becoming a bestselling author. Her story proves it's never too late to rebuild your life.📖 Get Stacie's book "Treasure Map to Joy" on Amazon: [insert Amazon link]🌐 Visit Stacie's site: https://modernconsciousness.com/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ModernConsciousness📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/modernconsciousness/💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stacie-shifflett-7b5a8922/🆓 Free Emotional Triggers Workbook: https://modernconsciousness.com/In this episode, we cover:→ How Stacie used her anger as a catalyst instead of letting it destroy her→ Why doing all the "right things" after divorce still left her feeling empty→ The turning point: walking into a stranger's office and admitting she was tired of being pissed off→ Her journey from rock bottom to working with Les Brown & Tony Robbins→ How she acquired a $50M company with $0 and no experience→ Why emotional triggers give your power away — and how to take it back→ Breaking the patterns that keep you stuck in the same reactions for decades→ Fear vs. fearlessness — and why walking away is sometimes the most powerful move→ Finding joy that's unique to YOU, not what society says it should be→ Gratitude through hurricanes, floods, and the loss of her first child→ The #1 thing that keeps people from taking their first step forwardWhether you're healing from a narcissistic relationship, navigating divorce, or feeling stuck in anger and resentment, Stacie's story will remind you that clarity is the start of everything.
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You DON'T Love Your Abusive Ex! Here's Why 18.06.2026 25minWatch This Video When You Miss Your Abusive, narcissistic ex and before you reach out to them. I'm a diagnosed narcissist and I go into detail about why you don't really miss the narcissist, you're trauma bonded to them and coming off of that addiction is tough. You don't love them!Your brain is lying to you about love. What you're feeling isn't love — it's a trauma bond. And until you understand the difference, you'll keep going back to the same people who destroy you.In this video, I break down the psychology behind why you can't seem to move on from a narcissist or abusive ex, and the neurological reality that explains everything.💬 Book a Coaching Session: [https://link.me/mentalhealness]🔥 My Books: [https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ]🎙 Listen to the Mental Healness Podcast: [https://youtube.com/@mentalhealnesspodcast?si=AVcJfHa16HZReqHL]
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She Finally Escaped Her Abusive Relationship! 17.06.2026 9min"Leaving my child's father was the hardest decision I have ever made. Today marks day one of starting over as a single mom."This video documents the raw reality of leaving her baby daddy for good. After multiple failed attempts at separation, She finally taking the necessary steps toward independence and a healthier future for both herself and her child. This footage captures the emotional weight of her decision and the quiet moments of clarity that come with choosing to walk away from a relationship that no longer works.
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Why Peace Feels Boring After a Toxic Relationship 15.06.2026 18minWhy does life feel boring after you leave a toxic or narcissistic relationship? In this video, I break down why peace can feel unsettling, empty, or even wrong after years of living in chaos. If you've escaped a narcissist but find yourself craving drama, missing the highs and lows, or feeling like something is missing, this is for you.I explain the psychology behind why your nervous system got wired for chaos, how trauma bonding rewires what feels "normal," and why quiet moments can feel uncomfortable instead of peaceful. More importantly, I share practical steps to rewire your brain so silence starts to feel like freedom, not emptiness.This is part of the healing journey that nobody talks about, the stage where you're out, but you don't feel all the way free yet. Let's change that.All my links - https://link.me/mentalhealness
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Why Toxic Exes Pop Back Up When You Finally Heal 14.06.2026 15minWhy do toxic exes, narcissists, and high-conflict people always come back right when you're finally healing? In this video, I break down the psychology behind the "hoover" — the manipulation tactic narcissists use to pull you back into the abuse cycle — and explain exactly why your healing process is what triggers them the most.When you start to heal, your energy shifts. You stop reacting the way they expect. You stop feeding them the emotional supply they rely on. You start building boundaries. And that terrifies them. So they come back — not because they love you, but because they've lost control.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesss
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Narcissists Don't Just Leave, They Rewrite the Whole Story 13.06.2026 25minWhy do high-conflict people completely rewrite the story after you leave the relationship? In this video, I break down exactly what happens when you walk away from someone with narcissistic or high-conflict traits — and why they feel the need to distort the truth, launch smear campaigns, and turn everyone against you.After you leave, they don't just miss you — they panic. Without you to blame, they have to create a whole new version of reality where they're the hero and you're the villain. This isn't about truth. It's about control, ego, and avoiding accountability at all costs.In this video, you'll learn:→ Why high-conflict people rewrite history after you leave→ The psychology behind smear campaigns and "flying monkeys"→ How narcissists use gaslighting to make you question your own reality→ What happens when they lose control of the narrative→ How to protect yourself while they spread lies about you→ Why staying silent and documenting everything is your best defense→ When and how to walk away for good — without looking backWhether you're dealing with a narcissistic ex, a high-conflict co-parent, or someone with borderline or antisocial traits, this video will give you the clarity you need to understand what's really happening — and how to stay strong through it.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesss
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Can Narcissists Really Change? A Clinical Psychologist Explains w/ Dr. David Hawkins 12.06.2026 1h 14minIn this episode of The Mental Healness Podcast, we tackle one of the most controversial questions online: Can narcissists actually change, or should you always run?I’m joined by Dr. David Hawkins, Founder and Director of the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, a clinical psychologist with over 40 years of experience working with high‑conflict couples, narcissism, and emotional abuse. He’s authored more than 30 books on marriage and relationships and created The Comprehensive Core, a year‑long program for men on the narcissistic spectrum who want to do the workDr. Hawkins Information - www.facebook.com/marriagerecoverycenter instagram.com/marriagerecoverycenterwww.youtube.com/@drdavidbhawkins
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