Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

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• How To Heal Emotional Wounds Before They Harden 04.06.2026 28min

  Send us Fan Mail Hurt has a way of sneaking into every relationship, and if we don’t deal with it, it doesn’t just fade. It hardens. Ken and Tabitha Claytor get honest about how emotional wounds, unmet expectations, betrayal, and disappointment can quietly turn into bitterness that reshapes your personality, drains your joy, and poisons your marriage, friendships, and faith. We talk through what hurt really is, why “church hurt” is often just people hurt, and how maturity means learning to s...
• Spiritual Warfare 101 | How The Enemy Targets Believers And How To Fight Back 28.05.2026 41min

  Send us Fan Mail Some battles don’t start in your schedule, your bank account, or your relationships. They start as a thought you never challenge, a fear you keep feeding, or an offense you refuse to release. We talk about spiritual warfare with a steady head and a strong spine: not blaming the devil for every problem, but also not pretending the enemy isn’t real or organized. We walk through what spiritual warfare actually looks like for believers, why the mind is such a target, and how dec...
• Breaking Ungodly Soul Ties | How to Break Soul Ties & Be FREE! 21.05.2026 38min

  Send us Fan Mail We name the difference between healthy and unhealthy soul ties, then get honest about why certain relationships keep pulling us back even when they hurt. We walk through spiritual and practical steps to break ungodly connections and close with a renouncing prayer for healing and freedom. • defining soul ties as emotional, mental, and will-level bonding • healthy soul ties in marriage, family, mentorship, and godly friendship • unhealthy soul ties formed thr...
• David's Heart | Developing a Heart That God Promotes 14.05.2026 39min

  Send us Fan Mail We talk about why God promotes trustworthy people over simply gifted people, using David’s life to show what a heart after God actually looks like under pressure. We unpack honor, repentance, private integrity, and worship as the habits that keep your heart clean when influence grows. • David’s origin story as the overlooked shepherd anointed for leadership • why time with God shapes a worshipful heart • repentance as the key difference between David and Sau...
• How To Heal A Broken Marriage 07.05.2026 42min

  Send us Fan Mail A marriage can look “fine” on paper and still feel dead in the day to day. If you’re living in the same house but the air feels cold, the talks are short, trust is thin, and intimacy feels complicated, we want to give you real hope and real tools. We tell the truth about our own early years, including the season when Ken privately planned a divorce, the confusion and immaturity that made small issues feel unfixable, and how depression and anxiety impacted Tabitha’s ability t...
• Hypocrisy Is Keeping You Stuck (Here’s How to Break Free) | “God Wants The Real You” 30.04.2026 31min

  Send us Fan Mail We define hypocrisy as stage acting and name how it keeps us bound when our image matters more than our integrity. We connect the cost to marriage, family, and spiritual witness, then walk through clear steps and prayers that help us live honest and free. • Defining hypocrisy as pretending outwardly without inward growth • Freedom versus bondage through shame, guilt, insecurity, fear, and addiction • Separating real faith declarations from fake performance&...
• One of The Biggest Relationship Killers: Blame Shifting 23.04.2026 29min

  Send us Fan Mail We get real about how blame shifting turns a struggling marriage into a dead-end and why owning your part is the first move toward change. We connect Scripture, self-awareness, and practical habits so you can stop living as the victim in every story and start growing on purpose. • why every struggling relationship has blame shifting somewhere • what “own your part” looks like even when you feel 95% right • becoming the hero in the home instead of matching f...
• The Kind Of Love A Wife Deserves 16.04.2026 44min

  Send us Fan Mail A lot of men were never taught how to be a husband. You can be loyal, hardworking, and faithful, yet still leave your wife feeling alone in the same house. We get honest about the gap between providing and loving, and we talk about why isolation is one of the fastest ways a man loses his confidence, his clarity, and his ability to lead well. Ken and Tabitha Claytor unpack biblical marriage through a practical lens: headship is not dictatorship, it is responsibility. We expla...
• Why Am I Still Single? | What If Waiting Is God's Protection 09.04.2026 34min

  Send us Fan Mail “Why am I still single?” can feel like a question with teeth, especially when everyone else’s highlight reel is scrolling past your face. We get honest about the pressure, the loneliness, and the quiet fear that something must be wrong with you, then we confront the biggest lie head-on: you are not unworthy, undesirable, or behind. We believe your relationship status does not determine your value, and we want you grounded in that truth before you ever say yes to dating, engag...
• You Don’t Have To Settle For A Bad Sex Life | God's Design For Sex in Marriage 02.04.2026 43min

  Send us Fan Mail We challenge the quiet norm of “sucky sex” in marriage and lay out why God designs sex for intimacy, connection, and real enjoyment without shame. We share our own healing journey from trauma, body insecurity, and bad beliefs to a healthier sex life built on safety, communication, and mutual pleasure.\n\n• why many married couples settle for frustration and distance\n• God’s design for sex: procreation, intimacy and enjoyment\n• renewing the mind after sexual abuse, shame and...
• How To Get Promoted (What Bosses Look For) 26.03.2026 42min

  Send us Fan Mail The promotion you want might be carrying more than you think. We get honest about what “next level” really means, because promotion is not only a raise or a new title, it is pressure, visibility, responsibility, and accountability. If you’ve ever watched someone move up faster than you, felt stuck in your role, or wondered what leaders are actually looking for, this conversation is a clear, practical reset. We talk about promotable character and why trust beats talent ...
• How Unresolved Offense Destroys Love 19.03.2026 42min

  Send us Fan Mail People don’t wake up one morning and decide they don’t love their spouse. What we see far more often is something quieter and more dangerous: a hurt that never gets resolved, a story we keep replaying, and a wall that goes up brick by brick until the house feels cold. We’re naming that enemy directly, unresolved offense, and we’re telling the truth about what it does to marriage, intimacy, friendship, and even your relationship with God. We talk through how offense starts wi...
• What To Do When People Don’t Like You 12.03.2026 38min

  Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Doing Life with Ken & Tabatha, we talk about how to deal with rejection, criticism, and being misunderstood — especially when you’re trying to follow God and build something meaningful. If you’ve ever wondered: • Why don’t they like me? • Why do people talk about you when you’re doing good? • How do you keep your confidence when people criticize you? This conversation is for you. Pastor Ken and Tabatha unpack 10 real reasons people don’t like you, what ...
• 5 Reasons Christians Should Re-Think Alcohol 05.03.2026 43min

  Send us Fan Mail What if the line between “okay” and “too far” isn’t a line worth walking? We open up about our 24-year sober journey and the moment a mentor reframed the question from “Is it allowed?” to “Is it wise for a king?” From there, the conversation turns honest and practical—how alcohol blurred judgment, complicated leadership, and stole the very peace it promised. We dig into Scripture’s balanced view, the call to be sober-minded, and why “living beyond the gray” can protect marria...
• Submission & Faithfulness: God’s Path to Promotion 26.02.2026 37min

  Send us Fan Mail What if the real path to promotion looks nothing like hustle culture promises? We take on two charged words—submission and faithfulness—and show how they form a powerful, practical way of life that advances marriages, teams, and callings. This isn’t about losing your voice. It’s about choosing God’s order, serving with strength, and becoming the kind of person heaven can trust. We start by reframing submission as a voluntary, faith-filled posture that prioritizes mission ove...
• 7 Money Habits to End Marriage Stress 19.02.2026 41min

  Send us Fan Mail Money pressure has a way of sneaking into a marriage and turning simple conversations into fights. We open up about our early years—over $100k in debt, sleepless nights, and two very different backgrounds—and share the seven habits that helped us replace anxiety with unity. This is a practical, faith-filled roadmap: one shared plan, a zero-based budget, the 10-10-80 priority rule, and margin that lets you breathe. We talk through sinking funds for “predictable surprises,” why...
• The Danger of Casual Christianity 12.02.2026 35min

  Send us Fan Mail Lukewarm faith feels easy—until it costs you power, joy, and purpose. We get honest about casual Christianity, why it’s so common, and how to move from a Sunday habit to a life that actually carries the presence of God. Ken shares his past as a “Christian atheist”—believing in God but living like He didn’t exist—and how that exposed the gap between form and power. Together, we walk through the telltale signs of a casual believer, from private faith and convenience-based atten...
• Stop Wasting Your 20’s | 5 Dating Rules We Wish We Knew 05.02.2026 42min

  Send us Fan Mail Dating does not have to be confusing, exhausting, or expensive. We’re pulling back the curtain on five practical rules that protect your heart, save your time, and set you up for a marriage that can actually thrive. From defining non‑negotiables to reading red flags without second‑guessing yourself, we walk through the mindsets and habits that turn your twenties into a launchpad instead of a landfill. We start by reframing the goal: Christlikeness over a wedding date. Conten...
• Quit Porn For Good! A Faith Based Plan 29.01.2026 41min

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• Don’t Settle For An “OK” Marriage 22.01.2026 39min

  Send us Fan Mail Settling for “okay” feels safe, but it quietly shrinks your marriage. We dig into why cruise control robs connection and how a few intentional shifts can turn your relationship into a lifelong adventure. From writing a simple family mission to scheduling a 20-second hug, we share the small, repeatable habits that build warmth, trust, and momentum across every season. We get real about seasons and capacity: how wisdom can multiply what time no longer does, why pivoting your p...