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• Q&A! "If He Wanted To, He Would": Timeless Or Outdated? - Ep 472 19.06.2026 1h 3min

  It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Several friends never respond to your texts—Is this the new social norm, or are you doing something wrong? If you put your foot in your mouth on an early date, is there any recovering? The guy you like *seems* interested but never makes a move—does Shandy still stand by the old adage "If He Wanted To, He Would"? And if you love your fiancé but his flatulence is a damper on the romance, what to do?? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.A special thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:24 - Q1: Our Texts To Friends Are Going Unanswered—Is This Normal? 21:34 - Q2: I Put My Foot In My Mouth On The Second Date—Can I Recover From This?26:05 - Q3: I Like The Guy But Nothing’s Happening—Do You Still Believe “If He Wanted To, He Would”?46:06 - Q4: His Bathroom Issues Give Me the Ick—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
• Love Island S8: Week 2 Recap & Review - Ep 471 18.06.2026 1h 38min

  Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 2 of Season 8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://poshmark.com/SHANDY to get $10 off your first purchase!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsors!- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code shandy for 70% off your Welcome Kit!- Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your $75+ purchase!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:49 - Episode 811:54 - Episode 935:25 - Episode 1153:57 - Episode 121:09:56 - Episode 131:21:14 - Predictions1:22:29 - Shandy Word Watch1:25:45 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
• Love Island S8: Week 1 Recap & Review - Ep 470 11.06.2026 1h 37min

  Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 1 of Season 8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://zazzle.com for 25% off your first order!- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code shandy for 70% off your Welcome Kit!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsor!- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code shandy for 70% off your Welcome Kit!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:51 - Episode 122:35 - Episode 231:32 - Episode 339:55 - Episode 458:27 - Episode 51:09:37 - Episode 61:18:22 - Episode 71:29:20 - Predictions1:31:29 - Shandy Word Watch1:35:09 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
• Q&A! Dating For The $$$ Lifestyle & His Secret Deepfake Stash - Ep 469 05.06.2026 1h 13min

  It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you loathe your brother's girlfriend's "Influencer" Instagram, are you just being judgy or should you warn him of red flags? If your friend's financial situation has gotten difficult, is it wise to loan her money? If you found your husband's top secret stash, starring a surprising main character, what should you do? And if your boyfriend is loyal and loving but you have a secret fantasy, is it worth it to risk it all for the Unknown? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.A special thank you to our sponsors...- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/shandy!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping6:20 - Q1: My Brother Is Dating A Superficial Influencer Wannabe—Help!24:25 - Q2: My Friend Is Having A Difficult Time Financially—Should I Lend Her The Funds?36:46 - Q3: I Found My Husband’s Secret Stash Of Deepfakes He Created Of Me—Help!52:20 - Q4: I Have A Loyal Boyfriend But A Secret Fantasy—Do I Take The Leap?If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
• Confessions With 'Perfect Match''s Dave Hand - Ep 468 04.06.2026 41min

  Today Shandy is delighted to welcome the (co-)WINNER of Netflix's Perfect Match Season 4, the one and only Dave Hand! We watched Dave leave the show hand-in-hand with Sophie... so what *really* happened? Today Dave explains the truth behind the breakup, who from the cast is the most misunderstood, and how his life has changed in the aftermath of TWO reality shows. Most importantly, Shandy learns the thought process that goes into getting a neck tattoo! We enjoyed this conversation and think you will, too! #netflix #perfectmatchThanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!More Dave:- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dth_9- TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@davethomas9Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Dave Hand!3:20 - What Happened With Sophie9:08 - Who From Perfect Match Is Most Misunderstood?15:36 - Did He Feel A Cultural Difference On The Show?21:09 - Life After TV24:46 - What Is The Thought Process That Goes Into Getting A Neck Tattoo?29:37 - Ranking Cast Members30:04 - Is His Favorite Movie Really ‘The Notebook’?31:16 - Rapid Fire38:00 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
• Perfect Match S4: FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 467 27.05.2026 54min

  Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, and today they're breaking down the grand FINALE!Thanks to our sponsors...- Go to https://poshmark.com/shandy to get $10 off your first purchase!- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://goodwipes.com/SHANDY to snag a free pack of goodwipes at Walmart!- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother!- Go to https://curehydration.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:45 - Finale Kick Off25:00 - “Perfect Match” Crowning Ceremony44:19 - Surprise Couple47:15 - Final Thoughts & Predictions49:44 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
• Q&A! Demystifying The Moody Husband & Is Timing *Really* Everything? - Ep 466 21.05.2026 1h 8min

  It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you and your longtime platonic friend have been secretly crushing on each other, is it now or never to make a move, even if he's started dating someone new? (Speak now or forever hold your peace?) If your friend has volunteered YOU to help her move, can you worm your way out of it, or is it best to roll up your sleeves and help? And what can be done if your partner of 16 years has become a moody grump? Can people actually change, or must you grin and bear it? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.Thanks to our lovely sponsors...- Go to https://quince.com/shsandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://dupe.com and tell it what you’re looking to buy!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:14 - Q1: My Longtime Friend And I Are Secretly Crushing But Timing Isn’t Our Friend—Help!16:54 - Q2: My “Friend” Has Assumed I’ll Help Her Move Homes—Can I Get Out Of This?26:03 - Q3: My Boyfriend & I Are Finally Moving In Together But I Fear Compromising On This One Thing—Help!34:12 - Q4: I’m An Adult But These Former Colleagues Make Me Feel Like I’m In Junior High—Help!44:58 - Q5: My Husband Is Moody And It’s Driving Me Nuts!If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
• Perfect Match S4: Episodes 6-7 Recap & Review - Ep 465 20.05.2026 1h 16min

  Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 6-7! Thanks to our wonderful sponsors...- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:06 - Episode 633:53 - Episode 71:12:15 - Shandy's Predictions1:14:44 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
• Perfect Match S4: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 464 14.05.2026 1h 22min

  Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-5! Thanks to our wonderful sponsors...- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Buy 1 pair of prescription glasses and get 20% off any additional prescription pairs at https://warbyparker.com/SHANDY- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:16 - Episode 126:10 - Episode 235:32 - Episode 356:14 - Episode 41:07:53 - Episode 51:19:11 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
• U Up? x Dear Shandy: Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham Unpack Modern Romance - Ep 463 07.05.2026 52min

  Today Shandy is joined by fellow podcasters and dating advice givers, Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham from the U Up? Podcast! They chat the most common themes they see in the questions they receive, whether or not dating today is *actually* worse (or if we're just talking about it more), and what it's like to date when you're famous! Watch on for two relationship podcasts' (sometimes very different!) perspectives on apps and modern romance.Thanks to our sponsors:- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard!- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!More Jordana & Jared:- The U Up? Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/u.up.podcast- Jordana: https://www.instagram.com/jordanaabraham- Jared: https://www.instagram.com/jaredfreidTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Jordana Abraham & Jared Freid of U Up? Podcast!0:47 - What Are The Most Common Themes They See In Their Relationship Qs?9:34 - Is Dating Today Actually Worse Or Are We Just Talking About It More?11:51 - Number One Piece Of Dating Advice21:43 - Dating When You’re Famous25:22 - Leaving The House31:57 - Advice They Give That They Struggle To Follow39:06 - Would You RatherIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
• Q&A! Your Boyfriend Steals Your Jokes & The Setup From Hell - Ep 462 30.04.2026 1h 8min

  It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your best friend puts zero thought into setting you up with her husband's friend, is that a slight or are you just sensitive? If your boyfriend's new hobby involves regularly "borrowing" your ideas, is it weird to be annoyed or is just a case of "sharing is caring"? At what age is OK to stop sending your nieces and nephews money? And if a family member is addicted to making AI-generated photos of your family, is it worth the awkwardness of saying something? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother!- Go to https://Ollie.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 60% off your Welcome Kit today!- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY- Go to https://goodwipes.com/SHANDY to snag a free pack of goodwipes at Walmart!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:54 - Q1: At What Age Can I Stop Sending My Nephews Money?17:08 - Q2: My Friend Put No Thought Into Setting Me Up—Am I Being Too Sensitive?33:00 - Q3: My Boyfriend Loves Doing Standup But Keeps Stealing My Jokes—Help!50:30 - Q4: My Mother-In-Law Is Addicted To Making AI-Generated Photos Of Our Family—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
• Rewire Your Brain & Get "Unsingle" With Amy Chan - 461 23.04.2026 1h 1min

  *Special Announcement*Dear Shandy will be moderating Amy's Book Launch Event in NYC on May 5th, 2026! For more info visit: https://luma.com/unsingleIt's not every day we bring back a Hot Topic guest, but when Amy Chan writes a new book, YOU BRING HER BACK. Dubbed the “scientific Carrie Bradshaw” by The Observer, Amy is a relationship expert, author, and founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp and Dating Bootcamp, retreats that apply a scientific, psychological approach to healing heartbreak and rewiring dating patterns. It has been 4.5 years since we first had Amy on, and now with her new book, "Unsingle: How to Date Smarter and Create Love That Lasts" (April 28, 2026), she shares the science of rewiring your brain to actually find success in your love life. Today Amy chats your unconscious patterns, how being otherwise "high-achieving" is working against you, and at what leg in the "Dating Funnel" you're getting stuck. We promise you'll never see dating the same way again after hearing Amy's insights. Watch on to get "Unsingle"!Our first episode with Amy: https://youtu.be/FRXrV7AXHwY?si=NRMBdTNNAKy1PwEgThanks to our sponsors:- Go to https://curehydration.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!More Amy:The Book, 'Unsingle': ⁠https://missamychan.com/unsingleInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/missamychanTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome (Back) Amy Chan!3:30 - Unconscious Patterns6:44 - Does Being Otherwise “High-Achieving” Work Against You In Dating?11:00 - The Dating Funnel16:16 - Expanding Horizons25:34 - The Experiment27:37 - Age Gaps29:13 - Over-Icking33:15 - Chemistry49:14 - Situationships51:29 - People Pleasing54:18 - The Grass Is Always Greener56:39 - What You Can Do Now To Rewire Your Brain58:52 - Final TakeawaysIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
• Q&A! Blinded By Breadcrumbs & Does His Bad Taste Mean Bad Compatibility? - Ep 460 16.04.2026 1h 8min

  It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you love your husband but find his career boring AF, should you feign interest to spare his feelings, or be 100% honest about your disinterest? Is it acceptable to become close friends with your best friend's partner, even if your best friend doesn't approve? Has Shandy ever dated anyone who brought out the worst in them, and what are their thoughts on "breadcrumbing" in dating? Finally, if your date regularly brings you the ugliest flowers you've ever seen, does that speak to a deeper compatibility and "taste" issue? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://masterclass.com/SHANDY for 15% off!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:17 - Q1: I’m Bored To Tears When My Husband Talks About His Job—AITA?21:16 - Q2: Can I Be Best Friends With My Best Friend’s Wife?30:27 - Q3: I’m Still Hung Up On A Girl Who Brought Out The Worst In Me—Help!43:42 - Q4: My New Flame Is Great But His Taste Is Not—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
• Temptation Island S2: Episodes 6-9 Recap & Review - Ep 459 13.04.2026 1h 27min

  Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering Temptation Island, Season 10 (or Season 2 in the Netflix era)! Today Shandy breaks down the second half of the season, episodes 6-9! #temptationisland #netflix #temptationislandnetflixThank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health!- Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of prescription glasses and get 20% off any additional prescription pairs!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:02 - Episode 635:28 - Episode 748:33 - Episode 81:01:15 - Episode 91:23:46 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
• Temptation Island S2: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 458 10.04.2026 1h 32min

  Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering Temptation Island, Season 10 (or Season 2 in the Netflix era)! Today Shandy breaks down the first half of the season, episodes 1-5! #temptationisland #netflix #temptationislandnetflixThank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://monos.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for the latest offer!- Go to https://poshmark.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY for $10 off your first purchase!- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:22 - Episode 120:29 - Episode 232:09 - Episode 346:55 - Episode 41:13:56 - Episode 51:29:41 - Predictions1:30:46 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
• Age Of Attraction: REUNION Recap & Review - Ep 457 03.04.2026 48min

  Ask and you shall receive! (And better late than never?) By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering Netflix's Age Of Attraction! Today Shandy breaks down the REUNION!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother!- Go to https://oliveandjune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first system!- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:49 - Libby & Andrew8:27 - Vanelle & Jorge14:59 - Pfeifer & Derrick17:02 - Theresa & John34:09 - Leah & Chris42:06 - Vanessa & Logan46:15 - Best Dressed46:36 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
• Age Of Attraction: Episodes 6, 7 & FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 456 30.03.2026 1h 26min

  Ask and you shall receive! (And better late than never?) By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering Netflix's Age Of Attraction! Today Shandy breaks down the second batch, episodes 6 & 7, as well as the FINALE! Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/shandy!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:07 - Theresa & John35:14 - Pfeifer & Derrick47:54 - Leah & Chris51:17 - Libby & Andrew1:04:15 - Vanessa & Logan1:22:10 - Overall ThoughtsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
• Age Of Attraction: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 455 26.03.2026 1h 19min

  Ask and you shall receive! (And better late than never?) By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering Netflix's Age Of Attraction! Today Shandy breaks down the first batch, episodes 1-5! Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to buy any two cans of Olipop in-store and get paid back for one!- Go to https://goodwipes.com/SHANDY to snag a free pack of Goodwipes at Walmart!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping & Introduction7:22 - Theresa & John20:49 - Libby & Andrew34:39 - Vanelle & Jorge & Justin59:00 - Pfeifer & Derrik1:02:23 - Joleen & West1:02:36 - Leah & Chris1:06:06 - Vanessa & Logan1:18:24 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
• 'The Bachelorette' With Taylor Frankie Paul Is CANCELLED—Shandy Weighs In - Ep 454 23.03.2026 1h 18min

  Just 3 days before its scheduled premiere, The Bachelorette Season 22 starring Taylor Frankie Paul was abruptly cancelled. Many of you wanted to hear Shandy's take on the news and the shocking reason why. So today, in lieu of the Bachelorette Premiere recap that was meant to drop today, they're answering your burning questions Q&A style.Thanks to our sponsors!- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://Ollie.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 60% off your first box today!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:23 - Shandy’s Honest Thoughts When Taylor Was Announced As Bachelorette12:15 - How Did ABC Rationalize Casting Taylor?19:10 - Did You See This Coming?19:38 - Were You Looking Forward To Recapping Taylor’s Season?20:07 - Thoughts On Whether Or Not Dakota “Instigated” And Strategized The Video Release21:16 - Could Taylor’s Behavior Be “Reactive Abuse”?24:32 - Do You Think Dakota Got Paid For The Video?27:26 - How Much Do You Hold Jesse Palmer Responsible For His Complicity?29:58 - How Do You Think This Situation Would Be Treated Differently If Taylor Were A Man?31:27 - Do You Think The Show Owes The Men An Apology?34:46 - Do You Think The Season Will Air At A Later Date?38:40 - Did Shandy See The Premiere Screener And If So, Thoughts?51:40 - How Do You Think The Men Feel?55:07 - Who *Should* The Show Have Chosen?56:51 - “How Bad Of A Person Does It Make Me That I Still Want To Watch The Season?”57:21 - Do You Think All Of This Was A Ploy?59:43 - Can The Franchise Recover From This? 1:05:09 - Has Modern Dating Culture Outgrown ‘The Bachelor’?1:05:47 - How Does A Sudden Pivot Like This Affect Dear Shandy/Podcasts?1:07:46 - “Do You Feel This Is Good, To Not Give Trash Humans A Platform?”1:11:34 - Overall Thoughts On Taylor Frankie Paul1:14:50 - Deep Down Is Shandy Relieved?1:15:41 - Was Casting Taylor Frankie Paul A Mistake?1:15:50 - What Show Is Shandy Recapping Instead?1:17:13 - Would You Recap Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives?If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
• Q&A! Your Boyfriend Isn't "Obsessed" With You & Your Dad Has 2 Girlfriends - Ep 453 19.03.2026 56min

  It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your elderly dad is juggling two girlfriends, is it acceptable to refuse to meet them? When your stepmom "forgets" your rule around holiday travel, is it better to hold firm or just keep the peace? Your boyfriend tells you you're perfect but also says he isn't "obsessed"—what's your next move? Finally, if you did a sizable favor for a friend and she never even bought you a meal as thanks, does confronting her make *you* the A-hole?? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.Thanks to our sponsors!- Text SHANDY to 64000 to get a Pocket Hose's FREE pocket pivot and 10-pattern sprayer with the purchase of ANY size Copper Head hose!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 50% off your night guard!- Buy any two cans of Olipop in store and we’ll pay you back for one. Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY !- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off!- Go to https://masterclass.com/SHANDY for 15% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:45 - Q1: My Elderly Dad Is Juggling Two “Girlfriends”—Help!9:47 - Q2: My Stepmom Is Ignoring My Holiday Travel Boundaries—Help!18:03 - Q3: My Boyfriend Tells Me I’m Perfect But Also Says He Isn’t “Obsessed” With Me34:34 - Q4: My Longtime Friend Did Nothing To Acknowledge The Favor Gave Her—AITA For Confronting Her?If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.