Insights With PT

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  Putting God at the Center: How Husbands Can Lead and Elevate Their Wives 25.09.2026 11min

  Temi and Pastor T explore how placing God at the center strengthens marriage, focusing on a husband’s role to spiritually lead, challenge, and gently uplift his wife. The episode covers communication, emotional engagement, practical steps like shared fasting and scripture conversations, and encourages patience, gentleness, and growth through faith.
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  When Best Friends Cross the Line: Emotional Affairs, Boundaries & Trust 18.09.2026 16min

  Hosts Temi and PT dive into real marriage challenges through a faith-based lens. They discuss opposite-sex friendships and emotional affairs, how to rebuild trust after betrayal, and how same-sex friendships and single friends can affect a marriage. The episode also tackles practical conflicts, like choosing to work or stay home after children—while urging couples to keep God at the center and use scripture to guide boundaries, forgiveness, and shared priorities.
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  When Grief Touches Marriage: Reconnecting After Loss 11.09.2026 15min

  Welcome back to Insights with P.T. Temi and P.T. tackle tough marriage issues: dealing with pregnancy loss and postpartum depression, differing desires about having more children after a traumatic birth, how to support each other through grief, whether to involve parents in marital problems, and balancing family traditions with creating your own. P.T. emphasizes counseling, church/fellowship support, open communication, trust in God, and finding mutually agreed mentors to help couples stay united.
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  Unity vs Uniformity: Protecting Your Marriage from Resentment and In‑Laws 04.09.2026 18min

  This episode unpacks Matthew 19:3–10, exploring Jesus’ teaching on divorce, the exception of sexual immorality, and how hardness of heart leads to resentment and spiritual immaturity. The speaker urges listeners to seek God’s guidance directly and emphasizes God’s provision for forgiveness.Practical guidance is given on cleaving to your spouse, handling in‑laws, financial unity versus uniformity, and the importance of true unity in marriage. The episode closes with encouragement that a healthy, united marriage is possible through grace and mutual understanding.
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  Wisdom That Brings Peace: Healing Your Marriage with Gentle Answers 28.08.2026 16min

  This episode teaches biblical principles for healthy marriages: seeking wisdom from above, answering gently to defuse anger, and tending to your spouse with care and attention.It warns against persistent anger, secrecy, and infidelity, and encourages honesty, apology for mistakes, and honoring your partner so relationships can grow and find peace.
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  Submission: Power Under Control — A Biblical Guide to Marriage 21.08.2026 15min

  This episode lays a scriptural foundation for Christian marriage, focusing on submission as responsible leadership, humility modeled by Christ, and the need for mutual honor.It emphasizes understanding your spouse, choosing your battles, seeking godly wisdom, and rejecting worldly approaches so marriages can endure and flourish.
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  From Control to Care: Reclaiming Marriage by Scripture 14.08.2026 14min

  In this episode PT presents a scriptural foundation for Christian marriage, drawing on Ephesians and 1 Corinthians. He urges husbands to love their wives sacrificially as Christ loved the church and calls wives to submit unto the Lord. The message warns against using headship as control, emphasizes spiritual leadership and cleansing by the Word, and encourages couples to pursue unconditional, patient, and selfless love in their homes.
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  Masculinity, Money and Intimacy: Communication Over Pride 07.08.2026 12min

  This episode offers down-to-earth advice for couples on managing money and preserving their relationship: agree on a budget, create a joint account for shared expenses funded proportionally, and let the partner who is best at money management handle payments while keeping transparency.It also covers emotional connection and intimacy—how daily attention matters, why sex and romance require communication, and why masculinity should not be tied to income. Practical tips include planning so one income can cover expenses during hard times and keeping roles flexible to avoid conflict.
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  Stop Repeating Yourself: Communicate Without Controlling 31.07.2026 13min

  This episode explores practical marriage guidance about repeated conversations—how to understand your partner's rhythm, ask for grace, and avoid trying to overrun or dominate them. Speakers discuss respecting differences, trusting intuition about children, and resolving parenting disagreements.It also covers balancing ministry and fatherhood, time management strategies, and honest talk about finances and shared responsibilities, encouraging young couples to set priorities and work together toward common goals.
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  Don't Be a Fool — How Couples Navigate Conflict and Forgiveness 24.07.2026 12min

  This episode explores how culture and word choice shape communication in marriage, showing how phrases like "don't be a fool" can be heard very differently depending on background.Guests discuss distinguishing surface arguments from deeper unresolved issues, practical steps to deescalate conflict (backing off, revisiting issues calmly), and deciding whether something is worth fighting over.Through personal stories from a long marriage, the episode emphasizes forgiveness, shared responsibility, and prioritizing the relationship over winning arguments.
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  Marry the One Who Fears God: Straight Talk on Choosing a Spouse 17.07.2026 12min

  This episode offers blunt, practical advice on choosing a partner, emphasizing that the fear of God matters most as it shapes respect, fidelity, and character. It also covers conflict resolution and communication techniques for couples: knowing when to let go, avoiding public interference, using written notes to de-escalate, and understanding how men and women communicate differently.
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  Friendship Over Romance: The Real Glue in Marriage 10.07.2026 14min

  This episode offers practical marriage advice, emphasizing friendship and commitment as the foundation that outlasts romantic feelings. The speaker stresses the importance of mutual respect, choosing your battles, and avoiding rigid "red lines" that can damage a relationship. Through personal anecdotes and simple rules—don't insist on always being right, prioritize partnership over pride, and focus on the person's heart rather than changing appearances—the episode encourages couples to work together and stay committed for the long term.
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  Insights With PT Roadshow: Why Marriage? 03.07.2026 15min

  This episode explains why marriage matters from a biblical perspective: God created marriage for companionship, mutual strength, and as a template to shape families and society. It emphasizes the spiritual mystery of becoming one, and the power that two people bring when they unite.It also contrasts the spiritual and cultural aspects of marriage, highlighting the importance of shared values, counseling, and growing together rather than being unequally yoked. The talk stresses equality between spouses and the need to understand and adapt to different family cultures to avoid conflict.
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  Insights with PT Roadshow: Respect, Peace of Mind, and Intentional Love 26.06.2026 17min

  This episode explores whether to remarry, urging listeners to seek God’s guidance and learn from past mistakes rather than follow quick advice. Pastors Tola and Kofo discuss the changing phases of marriage, the need for respect, peace of mind, financial and emotional balance, and the importance of being intentional about intimacy and communication. The message encourages personal conviction, prayerful decision-making, and practical wisdom for anyone considering remarriage or trying to sustain a long-term marriage.
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  Insights with PT Roadshow: Unpacking Past Baggage 19.06.2026 13min

  This episode explores common marriage struggles: when efforts to show affection don’t land, dealing with postpartum depression and body image, and how unresolved past relationships can affect current partners. Pastors Tola and Kofo offer practical advice: improve communication, seek medical or pastoral help when needed, join your partner in solutions, avoid body-shaming, and address past trauma honestly to protect your current relationship.
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  Insights with PT Roadshow: When 'What Do You Bring?' Breaks a Marriage 05.06.2026 20min

  Insights with PT collabs with Jesus House Baltimore Marriage Course as Pastor T and Pastor Kofo tackle tough marriage issues: physical boundaries and abuse, expectations around provision, mutual submission, and the pain of feeling dismissed. The episode blends scripture-based guidance with real-life scenarios—job loss, changing roles, communication breakdowns—and practical advice for couples seeking healthier, respectful relationships. Listeners are encouraged to value open communication, biblical principles, and to seek professional counseling when needed.
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  Insights with PT Roadshow: When Intimacy Fades, Keeping Love Alive 29.05.2026 25min

  Insights with PT teams up with JHB's Marriage Course for an honest, scripture-based conversation about marriage. Hosts and pastors Tola and Kofo discuss intimacy after long marriages, the role of communication, and practical reasons why physical desire changes over time. The episode also covers forgiveness, finding joy beyond feelings, handling unhappiness without abuse, and how believers can seek God’s guidance when dating and deciding to marry.
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  Insights with PT Roadshow: Sleep, Speak, or Split? 22.05.2026 17min

  In this Special Episode of Insights with PT, Pastor Tola and Pastor Kofo from the Jesus House Baltimore Marriage Course discuss real relationship questions about arguing, communication, and keeping romance alive. They offer scripture-based, practical advice on resolving conflict, handling high emotions, deciding whether to 'go to bed angry,' recognizing deal-breakers before marriage, and sustaining connection through friendship and intentional communication. The episode encourages couples to be intentional, assess red flags, and seek professional counseling when needed.
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  Relationships & Marriage: Faith Over Fallout 15.05.2026 19min

  In this episode of Insights with P.T., Temi and Pastor P.T. tackle real relationship issues from a Christian counseling perspective — divorce, forgiveness, and the dangers of hardened hearts. They discuss why divorce shouldn’t be the default, how premarital counseling helps (but doesn’t guarantee) a strong marriage, and the risks of cohabitation before marriage. The hosts also break down money matters, rejecting a strict 50/50 rule in favor of shared budgeting and priorities, and reflect on how COVID revealed the true dynamics of many relationships. The episode closes by welcoming Pastor Kofo for future female perspectives.
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  Relationships & Marriage: Silent Treatment, Forgiveness & Healthy Dating Habits 08.05.2026 11min

  Hosts Temi and PT dive into Christian-based counseling on relationships, covering how clear communication and tone can prevent fights, understanding controlling behavior and marital roles, and handling silent treatment. PT offer practical, scripture-informed advice on forgiving, moving on, and daily habits for singles and couples to build healthier, more secure relationships.