Unbothered

Unbothered

Chloe Madison
Država Združene države Amerike
Jezik EN
Epizode 57
Zadnja 11.08.2026

Hosted by Chloe Madison, Unbothered is part big sister advice, part group chat, and part emotional support podcast. The rules of modern womanhood keep changing, and we're all improvising. From self-worth and boundaries to heartbreak, burnout, and starting over, each episode invites you to question old narratives, choose yourself, and laugh through the chaos with the occasional martini in hand.

Epizode

  • The "chill girl" is a lie 11.08.2026 40min
    Today I’m giving you my full dissertation on the chill girl because I have THOUGHTS. She’s low-maintenance, easygoing, never needy, never difficult. But how much of being “chill” is actually confidence, and how much is abandoning your own needs before someone else gets the chance to reject them?Let’s get into where the chill girl came from, why women are so afraid of being “difficult,” and what it actually looks like to retire her for good.Articles: Nice girls don't ask Sometimes it does hurt to askFollow the pod on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Chloe on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠
  • The questions that changed our lives ft. Koreen of We’re Not Really Strangers 05.08.2026 46min
    Koreen built a career and sold millions of games by asking people questions they weren’t prepared to answer. This week, my longtime friend and founder of We’re Not Really Strangers sits down with me to trade the questions that changed our lives.Somewhere between love, ambition, self-betrayal, and the kind of honesty usually reserved for three martinis in, we get to the answers we’ve been avoiding. Come prepared to ask yourself the hard questions, add a few to your conversational arsenal, and leave knowing yourself a little better.Follow the pod on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Chloe on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠
  • If you only listen to one dating episode, make it this one 21.07.2026 26min
    I went back through some of my favorite conversations to bring you the best dating and relationship advice, all in one episode. From heartbreak and attachment styles to boundaries, self-worth, communication, and building healthier relationships, these are the lessons everyone needs to hear. I wish this episode had existed when I was in my early 20s...it could’ve saved me years of therapy, lol.Listen to each full episode:Amy Chan — bestselling author of Breakup Bootcamp and UnsingleSabrina Zohar — relationship coach and host of The Sabrina Zohar ShowKati Morton, LMFT — licensed marriage and family therapist, author of Are u ok? and Why Do I Keep Doing This?, and host of Ask Kati AnythingJaci Marie Smith — co-host of the What We Said podcastJessica Baum, LMHC — psychotherapist and author of Anxiously Attached and SAFEFollow the pod on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Chloe on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠
  • Uh oh, I'm falling in love 16.07.2026 27min
    Nobody tells you that falling in love with the right person can unlock a whole new set of fears. This week, we're talking about healthy love, unlearning old relationship patterns, the fear of losing control, and why anxiety doesn't always mean something is wrong.Follow the pod on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Chloe on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠
  • Walking red flag (w/ Jared Freid) 23.06.2026 54min
    Ever wish you could ask the person you're dating what they actually mean? We brought in comedian, podcast host, and author Jared Freid to help decode the behavior driving you and your group chat insane. From mixed signals and situationships to commitment, labels, and all the phrases people use instead of saying what they really mean, we're asking the questions you're too afraid to ask and getting some honest answers.Check out Jared's new book, Walking Red FlagFollow the pod on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Chloe on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Follow Jared on IG and TikTok  and listen to The JTrain Podcast and U Up?
  • Men are like dessert 16.06.2026 30min
    Dessert is delicious. But if it's the only thing on your plate, eventually you're going to get sick. Somewhere along the way, we started treating relationships like the main event. Like life begins when you get the boyfriend, the ring, the wedding, the happy ending. Meanwhile, we're hurtling through space on a floating rock with entire lives to build, people to meet, places to see, and stories to collect.Love is beautiful. Love is worth wanting. But life is happening now, not after you find it.Follow the pod on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Chloe on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠
  • You don’t get the life you don’t show up for 06.05.2026 15min
    Ever heard of the butterfly effect? It’s never the big, obvious moment that changes your life. It’s the random night you almost cancel. You say yes instead of “another time,” and it turns into a relationship, an opportunity, a new best friend… or something that changes everything.This episode is about how the moments you almost talk yourself out of are usually the ones you need the most.Try out my favorite prompt on Hinge and lmk how it goes! #HingePartner: http://hin.ge/unbotheredclubFollow the pod on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Chloe on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠
  • What doesn't kill you calls you six months later 14.04.2026 31min
    The more you want something, the further it seems to get. The second you let go, it shows up. Law of detachment, baby. If your mood is riding on one outcome, this is your reset. Let me help you stop spiraling and start trusting what’s meant for you, and show you how to actually detach when you feel like you can’t. Follow the pod on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Chloe on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠
  • Stories that sound fake but unfortunately aren’t (w/ Emon Abdullah) 26.03.2026 56min
    You asked and Emon is back. We’re telling stories — the time her best friend catfished her ex-boyfriend and got arrested for extortion, the roommate situation that slowly turned into a horror story, getting stuck in an elevator with Larry David while Chloe argued with him over a box, and several stories that still don’t feel real. Buckle up.Follow the pod on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Chloe on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Follow Emon
  • You Can't Fix Him (w/ Kate Speights) 17.03.2026 41min
    He had potential. You had patience. And now you're realizing love can't turn someone into who they're not. Kate Speights joins me to talk about why you simply cannot build a man. We get into staying too long, having the same conversation 500 times, and realizing you can't love someone into being the one. If you feel like you have to raise him, it's time to get a new one. Follow the pod on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Chloe on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Follow Kate on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠
  • How to get your spark back immediately 10.03.2026 26min
    Lost your spark and not sure how to get it back? I have answers. I’ve lost mine more times than I can count over the last few years, which means I’ve also gotten pretty good at getting it back fast. In this episode I get into what actually kills your spark and what genuinely brings it back. Not the Pinterest advice, the real stuff that actually works when you feel like a dim version of yourself.Fair warning: I took a shot of tequila before recording because talking to a camera alone for an hour still feels slightly insane to me, and apparently, I’m a lightweight now. So this is a very honest, slightly chaotic, unfiltered solo Chloe episode. But by the end of it, you’ll have a game plan and ideally be ready to wake up tomorrow and say the 3 magic words. We're so back.Follow the pod on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Chloe on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠
  • The Start vs. The End of Your 20s (w/ Trin Blair) 03.03.2026 39min
    Your 20s are chaotic and messy, but that’s the point. Trinity Blair joins me for a big sister/little sister moment that honestly healed something in both of us. She asks what it’s actually like to be 29, and I share what 21-year-old me misunderstood about love, ambition, and growing up. If you’ve felt behind, too intense, or mildly convinced everyone else has it figured out...they don’t. And this one’s for you.Follow the pod on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Chloe on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Listen to ⁠⁠Trin's pod⁠⁠ and follow her on ⁠⁠IG⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠TikTok
  • Unfiltered Advice Hour (w/ Jaci Marie Smith) 24.02.2026 1h 8min
    We’re talking about dating a man with potential instead of proof, living with a friend who might secretly want your life, the boyfriend who’s “private” but somehow still posts everything but you, when generosity starts sounding like leverage, why chaos feels hotter than calm, and what to do when the people closest to you slowly drain your peace.Follow the pod on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Chloe on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Listen to ⁠Jaci's pod⁠ and follow her on ⁠IG⁠ and ⁠TikTok
  • Your Type Is Your Trauma (w/ Amy Chan) 17.02.2026 50min
    You’re not unlucky in love. You’re just repeating a loop. Best selling author Amy Chan explains why your “type” might be your trauma  and how to recalibrate your picker for good. We get into breadcrumb addiction, instant chemistry vs. anxiety, the dating funnel, and why stability shouldn’t feel boring.Preorder Unsingle check out Breakup Bootcamp ⁠here⁠!Follow the pod on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠.⁠⁠⁠Follow Chloe on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Follow Amy on ⁠⁠IG⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠TikTok⁠
  • Slow Dating vs. Breadcrumbing (W/ Sabrina Zohar) 10.02.2026 52min
    Rushing feels exciting… until you’re anxious, overanalyzing, and disconnected from yourself. Sabrina Zohar joins me to talk slow dating, nervous system regulation, and how to stay grounded while getting to know someone. This is my fave episode to date, I hope you guys love it ♡Follow the pod on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Chloe on ⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Listen to Sabrina's pod and follow her on IG and TikTok
  • Red Flag Rapid Fire 27.01.2026 41min
    Casiah West is back, the wine is flowing, and we’re doing what needed to be done: a very tipsy, very honest red flag audit of men. From two chargers on the nightstand to vaping, strip clubs, gym selfies, knowing his big three, and watching your story without texting you back.Consider this a drinking game, a cautionary tale, and free therapy all at once.Follow the pod on ⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠.⁠⁠⁠Follow Chloe on ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Follow ⁠Casiah⁠ and her ⁠pod⁠
  • Self-Doubt Sells 20.01.2026 31min
    I took a beat, and I’m back. Happy 2026 🤍 In this solo episode, I discuss confidence, insecurity, and how beauty culture and social media subtly influence our self-worth. Why is feeling “almost enough” so common?? Maybe it’s less personal than we think and more about the systems and industries that profit from our self-doubt. Let's get into it. Follow the pod on ⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠.⁠⁠⁠Follow Chloe on ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠.⁠⁠YT video referenced.
  • Leave that man, don't settle 30.12.2025 35min
    Been holding on to this one since October, and the time has come. Talking yourself into staying? Ignoring the voice telling you it’s time to go? That heaviness in your gut is the answer. You're settling because it feels safer than facing the unknown, but it's costing you more than you realize. Ready to wake up? Casiah West and I are here to shake you out of it.Follow the pod on ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠.⁠⁠Follow Chloe on ⁠⁠IG⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠ ⁠Follow Casiah and her pod
  • Why do I keep doing this? 24.12.2025 53min
    Therapist and bestselling author Kati Morton joins me to unpack why we keep repeating patterns we know aren’t good for us. From people-pleasing and fawning to control and why awareness alone doesn’t create change, this episode is about getting honest with yourself and learning how to actually get unstuck.Kati Morton:Book: ⁠Why Do I Keep Doing This?Instagram & TikTokPodcast: Ask Katie AnythingFollow the show:Unbothered: Instagram & TikTokChloe: Instagram⁠ & ⁠TikTok
  • Please Advise: dysfunctional families, love bombing, situationships & cheaters 17.12.2025 26min
    Please Advise is Chloe’s recurring advice segment for life, dating, and when your group chat isn’t enough.This week’s inbox is a lot. We’re talking dysfunctional families, situationships that refuse to define themselves, love bombing, and men who say all the right things but do none of the right actions. From stolen baby Jesus incidents and holiday family chaos to red flags, gut instincts, and why “closure” is usually a myth. Follow the pod on ⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠Follow Chloe on ⁠IG⁠ and ⁠TikTok⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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