Made for More with Susan Deborahs

21: Why Avoiding Conflict Is Quietly Destroying Your Friendships with Courtney Daniella 14.06.2026 1h

Friendship isn’t always easy and conflict doesn’t automatically mean a relationship is toxic.In this episode, we explore how to tell the difference between healthy conflict and unhealthy patterns, when a friendship is worth fighting for, and the signs it may be time to let go. Too often, conversations about friendship become extremes: either tolerate everything or cut people off. But healthy relationships require wisdom, communication, and discernment.Whether you're navigating conflict, grieving a friendship, rebuilding trust, or learning how to steward your relationships well, this conversation will encourage you to approach friendship with both grace and wisdom. ✨MADE FOR MORE LIVE EVENT✨ Join me for a panel conversation on 'How the Right Relationships Can Help You Level Up.' Get your tickets here: madeformorelive.eventbrite.co.uk✨WORK WITH ME✨ If this episode resonated and you’re ready to move from overthinking into consistent action, you can explore working with me 1:1 for clarity, structure, and support here: https://calendly.com/susandeborahs/fo... ✨GET MY BOOK✨If you desire to get closer to God and grow in prayer and the word. Then get my book, Connecting with God: A Guide to Authentic Relationship with Him here: https://amzn.eu/d/008oRhQE✨ Visit here to shop my recommended reads and inspirational books: https://amzn.to/4801VhF

20: If You Can't Afford Therapy, Read These Books! 08.06.2026 26min

God desires to heal you — and healing builds the capacity to win. Whether you're waiting on therapy or looking for something to complement it, these 3 books have personally helped me and I believe they can help you too.📚 It's Not Always Depression – Hilary Jacobs Hendel - https://amzn.to/4xb7ZOs📚 Adamant – Lisa Bevere - https://amzn.to/3PGocuo📚 Joyful Journey – Dr. E. Wilder - https://amzn.to/3RTvTxS📚 Back to life: a 21 day devotional - https://amzn.to/43ByE9T✨ Visit here to shop my recommended reads and inspirational books: https://amzn.to/4801VhF

19: The Hidden Beliefs Behind Your Words 31.05.2026 28min

What if the very words you keep speaking are revealing the beliefs that are keeping you stuck?In this episode, I'm unpacking 4 common phrases that often reveal limiting beliefs about ourselves, God, failure, worth, and what's possible. Sometimes our speech exposes the very mindsets that are causing stagnancy in our lives.Together, we'll challenge the beliefs behind these statements and discuss how taking action creates new evidence, which helps build new beliefs.If you've ever felt stuck, held back by fear, overthinking, self-doubt, or limiting beliefs, this episode is for you.✨WORK WITH ME✨ If this episode resonated and you’re ready to move from overthinking into consistent action, you can explore working with me 1:1 for clarity, structure, and support here: https://calendly.com/susandeborahs/followthroughsession✨GET MY BOOK✨If you desire to get closer to God and grow in prayer and the word. Then get my book, Connecting with God: A Guide to Authentic Relationship with Him here: https://amzn.eu/d/09wb2fFlScriptures referenced:• Ecclesiastes 11:4• Ephesians 5:16• 1 Corinthians 2:12

18: How To Rebuild Your Life After Divorce with Stacy Gacheru 24.05.2026 50min

Have you been holding on to something or someone that is slowly destroying you?In this episode, I sit down with Stacy Gacheru. Theological Therapist, Speaker and Founder of Therapy for Church Girls for one of the most honest and necessary conversations we've had on this podcast. Stacy opens up about her own journey of letting go, from navigating a painful divorce and the shame that came with it, to rebuilding her life as a young single mum and finding the courage to want more for her life.✨GET MY BOOK✨If you desire to get closer to God and grow in prayer and the word. Then get my book, Connecting with God: A Guide to Authentic Relationship with Him here: https://amzn.eu/d/008oRhQE✨WORK WITH ME✨ If this episode resonated and you’re ready to move from overthinking into consistent action, you can explore working with me 1:1 for clarity, structure, and support here: https://calendly.com/susandeborahs/followthroughsession✨ Visit here to shop my recommended reads and inspirational books: https://amzn.to/4801VhF 🔔𝐃𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐮𝐛𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐲 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐥 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐮𝐩𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬. 🔗 Stay Connected With Me.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susandeborahs/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bysusandeborahs 📩 For business inquiries: hello@susandeborahs.com

17: You’re Not Lazy... Here’s What’s Really Happening 18.05.2026 26min

You know what you want to do, but you still haven’t started. Why?In today’s episode, we’re unpacking the real reasons you feel stuck, from overthinking and lack of structure to healing and self-doubt and the practical steps that can help you finally move forward.If you’ve been struggling to take action in any area of your life, this episode is for you.“Let us strip off every weight that slows us down…” — Hebrews 12:1✨WORK WITH ME✨ If this episode resonated and you’re ready to move from overthinking into consistent action, you can explore working with me 1:1 for clarity, structure, and support here: ✨GET MY BOOK✨If you desire to get closer to God and grow in prayer and the word. Then get my book, Connecting with God: A Guide to Authentic Relationship with Him here: ✨ Visit here to shop my recommended reads and inspirational books: https://amzn.to/4801VhF

16: What You Say About Yourself Is Rewiring Your Brain (And Your Life) With Celine Erorh 10.05.2026 35min

In today’s conversation, I sit down with Celine, a stress management coach and personal development expert. We explore how overthinking, analysis paralysis, and stress can quietly keep you stuck, even when you’re ready for more in your life.✨WORK WITH ME✨ If this episode resonated and you’re ready to move from overthinking into consistent action, you can explore working with me 1:1 for clarity, structure, and support here: https://calendly.com/susandeborahs/fo...✨GET MY BOOK✨If you desire to get closer to God and grow in prayer and the word. Then get my book, Connecting with God: A Guide to Authentic Relationship with Him here: https://amzn.eu/d/008oRhQEIf you’ve been feeling stuck, second-guessing yourself, or unable to take action on what you know you need to do, this conversation will help you understand what’s really going on and how to start moving forward.✨ Visit here to shop my recommended reads and inspirational books: https://amzn.to/4801VhF

15: Your Life Isn’t Falling Apart… It’s Being Redirected 04.05.2026 28min

In today's episode, I share how to navigate life disruptions and recognise God's hand in the midst of it. Whether you’re experiencing heartbreak, loss, a career shift, or uncertainty about what’s next, this message will help you reframe what you’re going through and respond with intention instead of fear. A disruption isn’t just something that interrupts your life, it often reveals what needs to be rebuilt.God uses unexpected moments to shift your direction, draw you closer to Him, and reveal your next assignment. Through the story of Moses in Exodus 3, you’ll see how one moment of interruption can change the entire trajectory of your life, if you’re willing to pay attention.✨ Visit here to shop my recommended reads and inspirational books: https://amzn.to/4801VhF

14: This Is Why You’ve Lost Momentum (You’re Misaligned) 20.04.2026 22min

If you’ve felt like you’ve lost your spark and momentum, I want to help you get back on track and realign with your vision for 2026.In this episode, I break down how to stay aligned, rebuild consistency, and keep moving forward even when things feel discouraging. From revisiting your vision to seeking mentorship and strengthening your prayer life, this is your practical reset for getting back on track.If you’re ready to refocus and finish the year strong, this episode is for you.✨ Visit here to shop my recommended reads and inspirational books: https://amzn.to/4801VhF

13: Why Rest Feels So Hard for Ambitious Women with Tiwalola Adebayo 22.03.2026 47min

In this episode, I sit down with confidence coach, author, and entrepreneur Tiwalola Adebayo ‪@confidentandkillingit‬ to unpack the tension between ambition and rest. We explore why rest feels so difficult, how productivity has become tied to our worth, and whether you can be doing what God has called you to do and still feel burned out.✨ Get my book 'Connecting with God: A guide to cultivating authentic relationship with Him': https://amzn.to/4uID62zWe also dive into how to release the guilt around rest, redefine what true rest looks like, and pursue your dreams from a place of ease, not exhaustion.If you’ve ever struggled to slow down, felt guilty for resting, or wondered how to thrive without burnout, this episode will shift your perspective.✨ Visit here to shop my recommended reads and inspirational books: https://amzn.to/4801VhF

12: Self-Doubt Is Making You Play Small — Here’s How to Break Free 12.03.2026 37min

If you’ve been doubting yourself, shrinking in rooms you’re called to lead in, or questioning whether you’re capable — this episode is for you.Self-doubt can keep you undercharging, avoiding visibility, and postponing the very things you feel called to do. In today’s episode, I’m sharing practical and spiritual strategies to help you build confidence, gather evidence that you’re capable, and stop playing small. This is more than just positive thinking. We'll talk about:✨ Why self-doubt keeps you playing small✨ How to build “proof of concept” so you stop questioning yourself✨ The power of internal dialogue and conversations✨ Aligning your confidence with God’s thoughts about youIt’s time to align your mindset with truth and step fully into who you’re becoming.✨ Visit here to shop my recommended reads and inspirational books: https://amzn.to/4801VhF 🔔𝐃𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐮𝐛𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐲 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐥 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐮𝐩𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬. / @susandeborahs 🔗 Stay Connected With Me.Instagram: / susandeborahs TikTok: / bysusandeborahs 📩 For business inquiries: hello@susandeborahs.com

11: How to Master Your Emotions, Overcome Setbacks & Balance Motherhood 22.02.2026 1h 20min

In this episode, I sit down with Pastor DDK (Debola Deji-Kurunmi) to discuss mastering your emotions, embracing your limitations, navigating seasons of being misunderstood, and cultivating Kingdom-centered friendships.✨ Visit here to shop my recommended reads and inspirational books: https://amzn.to/4801VhF If you’ve been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of your next steps, this conversation will inspire you to live with intention, grow in faith, and move forward with confidence and authenticity.Topics covered in this episode:How to master your emotions in challenging seasonsEmbracing your God-given limitationsHandling times of being misunderstoodNavigating motherhood and callingBuilding meaningful, Kingdom-focused friendships🔔𝐃𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐮𝐛𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐲 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐥 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐮𝐩𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬.https://www.youtube.com/@susandeborahs/?sub_confirmation=1 🔗 Stay Connected With Me.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susandeborahs/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bysusandeborahs 📩 For business inquiries: hello@susandeborahs.com =============================🎬Suggested videos for you:▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UZVCme9C_eo ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8yDNF-dc8Mw ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vbsg0tIE1dE▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZcPk_nIXYo ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I7OFjw1RXGY ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J5vjQimTTNM ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O0fYnBBYFhw ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0JXrSPpQEnc =================================✨ Timestamps 00:00 - Introduction05:38 - Icebreaker07:53 - Managing the soul20:47 - Navigating friendships 29:05 - Having hard conversations32:28 - Being misunderstood43:24 - Ambition and ego 53:02 - Prophetic Latitude1:08:16 - motherhood and overwhelm1:20:23 - Prayer & worship

10: How I Healed and Found Purpose! (You Can Be Happy Again After Grief and Abuse) 19.02.2026 54min

In this video, I share my story, losing both of my parents, becoming an orphan, experiencing abuse, bullying, homelessness, and life in care. I open up about the loneliness and grief, but also the healing that followed.This is not just about what I survived. It’s about how I healed, found purpose, and discovered that there is more on the other side of pain.If you’re struggling right now, please don’t give up. You are made for more — and you will be happy again.✨ Visit here to shop my recommended reads and inspirational books: https://amzn.to/4801VhF 🔗 Stay Connected With Me.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susandeborahs/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bysusandeborahs 📩 For business inquiries: hello@susandeborahs.com #findyourpurpose #godsplan #healingjourney #lifepurpose #overcomingchallenges

09: How to STOP Starting and Stopping if You Want to Reach Your GOALS 09.02.2026 30min

Become Consistent and Reach Your Goals with Simple This episode teaches how to stay consistent and see real results from your goals. Visit here to shop my recommended reads and inspirational books: https://amzn.to/4801VhF Susan explains why many people fail to follow through, like relying on emotion, wanting instant results, or having no clear system. She shares four keys to consistency. First, understand yourself and avoid copying others. Second, master the habit of showing up with small steps. Third, plan your actions in your week. Fourth, assess if you have the capacity to sustain what you choose. This guide helps you build discipline, structure systems, and keep moving toward your goals. Regular effort creates progress and strong habits.✨ Grab the worksheet to reflect and pray: https://payhip.com/b/lEYGP 🔔Don’t forget to subscribe for more guidance on purpose, mindset, and life change.https://www.youtube.com/@susandeborahs/?sub_confirmation=1 🔗 Stay Connected With Me.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susandeborahs/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bysusandeborahs 📩 For business inquiries: hello@susandeborahs.com#consistencyhabits #goalachievement #builddiscipline #stayconsistent #personalgrowthtips #selfimprovementSTOP Starting and Stopping if You Want to Reach Your GOALS [Here’s How]

08: How To Reinvent Your Life in 2026 With 3 Questions? The Ultimate Guide. 25.01.2026 23min

Feeling stuck, like you are just surviving instead of really living? This video gives you 3 simple but powerful questions that help you think deeper about who you want to become, what is stopping you, and what you need to do to change your life in 2026.✨✨ Grab the worksheet to reflect and pray: https://payhip.com/b/lEYGP This is not about quick fixes. It’s about understanding yourself better, facing internal blocks, and building habits, relationships, and support that help you grow. Use the workbook to write out your answers, set dates, and stick to the plan. If you want to take control of your life, renew your mindset, and step into the person you believe God intended you to be, this video is for you.

07: The Truth About Adult Friendships: Conflict, Healing & Godly Connection Feat Courtney Daniella 05.11.2025 53min

The Truth About Adult Friendships: Conflict, Healing & Godly Connection #adultfriendship #cutoffculture #friendshiphealing What does it really take to build and keep strong friendships in 2025? In this episode, Susan Deborahs sits down with Courtney Daniella to talk honestly about conflict, cut-off culture, and how past wounds affect our friendships.✨ Visit here to shop my recommended reads and inspirational books: https://amzn.to/4801VhF We discuss real-life situations, from learning how to have hard conversations, to setting healthy boundaries, to how faith and community help us heal. Whether you're feeling lonely, struggling to forgive a friend, or trying to grow closer to your people, this episode is for you.✨ Visit here to get my book “Connecting with God”, your step-by-step guide to a deeper spiritual life: https://amzn.to/3KwmVmkIf you're searching for faith-based relationship advice, friendship podcasts, or help with adult friendship struggles, this conversation will help you feel seen.

05: How To Discover Your Purpose: Finding God's Plan For Your Life 05.10.2025 27min

How To Discover Your Purpose: Finding God's Plan For Your Life #findyourpurpose #godsplan #spiritualjourneyAre you struggling to understand your purpose in life? Wondering what God's plan is for you? You're not alone. In this video, I share practical steps to help you find clarity and discover God's will for your life, even when life feels overwhelming.If you’ve ever asked, "What is my purpose?" or "How can I live a meaningful life?" this video will guide you through the process of aligning your life with God's plan. Together, we’ll explore how to seek purpose through faith and find the path that truly fulfills you.✨ Visit here to get my book “Connecting with God”, your step-by-step guide to a deeper spiritual life: https://amzn.to/3KwmVmk

06: How To Build A Strong Relationship With God | Daily Faith Practices 05.10.2025 18min

How to Get Closer to God Every Day #closertogod #dailyfaithhabits #spendingtimewithgodDo you want to get closer to God but feel too busy or stuck? In this video, I share practical ways to spend time with God daily so you can grow stronger in your faith and build a deeper relationship with Him. You’ll learn how to create a daily routine that includes prayer, Bible reading, and journaling. I also share a simple 1-hour framework (20 minutes journaling, 20 minutes reading, 20 minutes prayer) to help you stay consistent and hear God’s voice more clearly.✨ Visit here to get my book “Connecting with God”, your step-by-step guide to a deeper spiritual life: https://amzn.to/3KwmVmkWhether you’re new in your faith or have been walking with God for years, these daily habits can strengthen your spiritual life and give you peace, clarity, and direction.📖 Scriptures in this video: Luke 5:15-16, John 5:19, 1 Peter 5:7, Psalm 62:8, Philippians 4:8, Mark 1:35

04: How to Stop Negative Thoughts, Renew Your Mind & Find Peace 18.08.2025 17min

If you’re tired of being overwhelmed by negative thoughts and want to change the way you think and find peace—this episode is for you. In today’s conversation, discover scripture-based strategies to transform your mind and reclaim peace. If you value self care, mental clarity, and stress relief practices rooted in scripture. You'll learn how to challenge lies, anchor truth in God’s Word, and speak life into your mind. Perfect for anyone craving mental rest, positive thinking, and spiritual grounding. ✨ Subscribe to my mailing list for inspiration and encouragement here https://susandeborahs.myflodesk.com/paz9x8509q

03: How to Deepen Friendships and Finally Find Your People 03.08.2025 17min

Are you feeling lonely or disconnected from your current circle? Maybe you're craving friendships that align with who you are now and where you're heading.In today’s episode, I talk about how to overcome loneliness, reconnect with yourself, make new friends and start building deeper, more meaningful friendships. Whether you're navigating a season of isolation or simply ready for more aligned connections, this is for you. Adult friendship doesn't need to be so hard. ✨Subscribe to my mailing list for inspiration and encouragement here: https://susandeborahs.myflodesk.com/paz9x8509q

02: How to Make Better Decisions and Overcome Overwhelm 20.07.2025 15min

How do I know what decision God wants me to make? How do I know if I'm in Gods will? If you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or paralysed by too many decisions? You're not alone. Decision anxiety can be paralysing. In this episode, I share practical keys to help you gain clarity, reduce decision fatigue, and become more confident and decisive. Yes—prayer is powerful, but there are also practical tools that can work alongside your faith to guide you toward the right choices. Whether you're facing a major life decision or just trying to move forward with clarity, this episode is for you.✨ Subscribe to my mailing list for inspiration and encouragement here: https://susandeborahs.myflodesk.com/paz9x8509q