Charisma on Command

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  The Masculine Move Most Men Are Too Afraid to Make 20.09.2026 16min

  Build the confidence to take direct action in conversations, dating, and real life: https://bit.ly/009-26-DDvsReacherMost men think attraction works like this: become successful, get in shape, build status, then wait for women to notice. But that fantasy keeps a lot of men stuck. In this video, you’ll learn the difference between indirect attraction and direct action, using Jack Reacher and Matt Murdock as examples.You’ll see the attraction signals most men miss, how to flirt without being awkward, and why what you want is usually on the other side of fear. This isn’t just about dating. It’s about the same pattern that keeps men from starting the business, writing the book, making the move, or going after the life they actually want.0:00 - Intro0:29 - The Fantasy Holding Men Back1:34 - Indirect Attraction vs Direct Action2:47 - The Signals Most Men Miss4:02 - The 12 Stages of Intimacy6:00 - Why Reacher Gets Stuck7:00 - The Right Way to Flirt10:25 - Build the confidence to take direct actionSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Stick To Your New Years Resolutions 20.09.2026 6min

  Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds: http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTDSo I made an early resolution that I hope you'll like: more YouTube videos!!Specifically I am going to create and release a video at least once a week. Let me know in the comments if there is something specifically you'd like me to cover.Happy 2016 - excited to make these videos a serious priority :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Be The Center Of Attention 20.09.2026 11min

  Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nSrMjPWhy People Love Will Smith (And Not Jaden)Will Smith is one of the most charismatic men alive. His son, Jaden, is not. In this interview with Graham Norton, we can break down exactly why. It's the difference between being an inclusive competent leader and struggling to keep up.In this interview you'll see how the leadership dynamic plays out in a group. Will Smith very quickly winds up as the de facto leader, while Jaden gets cut off and has trouble getting a word in. The good news is that it isn't impossible to move upwards from the position of being trampled over in conversation. Watch this video and learn how to be a leader in a way that makes people happy to have you around.Book: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Become An Effective Leader 20.09.2026 16min

  Link to confidence tip: https://goo.gl/DCY7nASteve Jobs Leadership Skills Breakdown - How To Motivate PeopleWhen Steve Jobs returned as the CEO of Apple in 1997, the company was on the verge of bankruptcy. Today, Apple is the most profitable company on the planet, thanks in huge part to Steve Jobs leadership. He was able to motivate employees, turn the company around, and preside over huge developments like the iMac, iPod, iPhone, and iPad. But Steve Jobs is unique in that despite clearly being an effective leader, he was not particularly likeable. Steve Jobs presentation and interview skills were legendary though. In this video we break down exactly what it was that made Steve Jobs such a powerful leader by examining his interviews and speeches. The goal is to use the lessons from his life to learn how to motivate employees and the people in our lives.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How Charles Manson Controlled His Followers (Toxic Partners Do This Too) 20.09.2026 16min

  The best way I know to quickly improve your confidence: https://bit.ly/CU-2525It’s a scary truth that the most powerful psychological tricks cult leaders use to brainwash their followers can just as effectively be used by toxic partners, manipulative friends, and predatory organizations against people like you and me.That’s why in this video, we’re breaking down each of those tricks - so hopefully you can spot the red flags and avoid falling victim to them too. 0:00 - Intro1:06 - They impersonate the family unit3:02 - They isolate you from your real family unit4:31 - They twist language to disguise what's happening5:52 - They demonize asking questions7:24 - They reward blind obedience9:21 - They use fake reciprocitySubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  4 Body Language Habits That Put You In The Top 1% 20.09.2026 9min

  The fastest way to level up your confidence and charisma: http://bit.ly/3J5ixuiWhen it comes to having attractive, captivating body language there’s only 4 things you need to know - and if you do them, these 4 will immediately take you into the top 1% of communicators. 0:00 - Intro0:11 - Reveal your vitals2:01 - Verbally own your experience 3:01 - Develop strong eye contact 4:55 - Practice charisma as an opportunity to feel good Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  The One Thing That Saved James Gunn’s Career 20.09.2026 9min

  Learn the social skills to build powerful connections: https://bit.ly/CU-2225When James Gunn lost his career overnight, he thought it was all over. But what happened next completely changed how he saw himself and the people around him. In this video, we break down his story and the simple lesson you can use to turn your worst moment into your strongest comeback.0:00 - Intro0:37 - James Gunn's Worst Moment1:48 - Wait a second...3:02 - The Buffer Against Feeling Loved4:03 - A Practical Takeaway5:48 - Learn To Build Powerful ConnectionsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  STOP DRINKING: Why alcohol kills self-improvement 20.09.2026 7min

  I get a lot of questions about the steps to take to be more charismatic. And this one always surprises people: STOP DRINKING! https://goo.gl/RyWH6VIt seems like improvement is something you do between the gym and work. But the truth is, every social interaction is a chance to learn something. Except when you're drunk, that goes out the window. Rather than dealing with social anxiety, we tend to numb it. Rather than learning how to "turn on" a raucous sense of humor, we rely on alcohol do free up spontaneity. We sacrifice self-improvement for the the quick fix of a drunk buzz.So I know it may seem unrelated, but stopping your habit of drinking is one of the fastest ways to boost your charisma. Plus there's a lot of other benefits of not drinking that you get to enjoy as well, like waking up without a splitting headache :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  If You Only Watch One Charisma Video, Make It This 19.09.2026 18min

  Click here to build your charisma with daily reps👉 https://bit.ly/010-26-7PrinciplesCharisma is not something you’re born with. It’s a set of social skills you can train, rep by rep, until confidence, connection, and self-expression become second nature. In this video, Charlie shares the 7 principles that helped him build his charisma from the ground up, and how you can start doing the same.0:00 - Intro0:36 - Charisma is a muscle2:44 - Charisma has 5 types4:55 - Confidence is "I'll be okay"6:05 - You are always broadcasting7:43 - Trying to be liked backfires9:22 - The leader humanizes first10:41 - Fear is the wallSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Indy FullstopEdited by Akash RajpurohitDirected by Andre Rinkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Show Up For Someone In A Rough Time 19.09.2026 16min

  The fastest way to build the confidence and charisma to make friends as an adult:https://bit.ly/002-26Most people want to help a friend who is struggling, but they get it wrong. They give advice too fast, push too hard, or try to carry emotional burdens that are not theirs to carry, which can actually hurt the friendship.In this video, you will learn how to support a friend in hard times, build deeper connections, and become someone people trust, using Samwise Gamgee as the example of what real friendship and support look like when life gets tough.0:00 - Intro0:47 - Offer help before they ask1:25 - Offer help without hooks4:37 - Honor their boundaries7:23 - Support them without this...8:55 - See them as mid-storySubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Take Control Of Any Conversation Without Trying 19.09.2026 11min

  How To Talk To People - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown (Part 2) Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2ENXozaLearning how to talk to people is a super important skill, but one we are never taught in school. In fact, sometimes we get so wrapped up trying to make small talk that we lose the opportunity to really connect with someone. Bruce Lee doesn't make that mistake in this interview. This video will show you how to talk to people and how to lead a conversation towards topics that make you more likely to make a lasting connection. There are lots of ways, but this is one that will present itself as soon as the other person starts asking questions. You'll be able to build rapport quickly and potentially walk away with a new friend.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Build Good Habits That Stick - Maneesh Sethi talks to Charisma on Command 19.09.2026 26min

  How To Build Good Habits That Stick - Maneesh Sethi talks to Charisma on CommandSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Persuade And Influence People 19.09.2026 16min

  Barack Obama Charisma Breakdown - How To Influence People https://goo.gl/SaV6sp Barack Obama's most important job is to influence people. As president, there is very little ha can do on his own. So his main job becomes to persuade people to see his views when it comes to political decisions.In the wake of the tragedy at Umpqua Community College in Oregon, Barack Obama demonstrated a 5 step process on how to influence in those situations where you absolutely must convince people to change their behavior. Obama is a powerful, charismatic speaker and this example is great for becoming more influential in the workplace.If you're interested in other videos that cover the topic of influence, but in a more social context, check out Ricky Martin on the Voice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dqragS38hCkSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  5 Lies About Being A Man You Probably Still Believe 19.09.2026 43min

  Get Joe's free transformation guide + $300 off his upcoming Connection Course. Just use the discount code CHARISMA at checkout. This only is available when the cohorts are about to launch: https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/course/the-connection-courseOr if checkout isn't open, join the email list to be notified of upcoming Connection course cohorts: http://s.artofaccomplishment.com/iVRQ3hMost men are taught a very narrow version of masculinity: be tough, be dominant, never show weakness, and always stay in control. But Joe Hudson argues that a lot of those ideas are actually keeping men disconnected, reactive, and less powerful than they could be. In this video, we break down 5 lies modern men believe about masculinity, and what real strength looks like instead.0:00 - Intro1:37 - Lie 18:12 - Lie 214:41 - Lie 321:09 - Lie 427:11 - Lie 5Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  It's actually pretty easy to flirt with women 19.09.2026 12min

  Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/VVVAjERussell Brand flirting with women is a sight to behold....As men, we're never really taught how to flirt with women. That's a problem. Because many men get caught in the trap of "creep flirting" where they come on too strong. Other's stick to the "goofball guy" and wind up in the friend zone.The style of interaction that Russell Brand and Craig Ferguson demonstrate in this video will actually teach you how to flirt with women. It's not the ONLY way, but it is a great way to show interest without creeping anyone out.So check out Russell Brand's special version of "push pull" and see if it matches your style of flirting. Also, pay close attention to the moments when the women start to fall for Russell. They will teach you a lot about flirting with women.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Quietly Take Control of a Room 19.09.2026 17min

  The fastest way I know to build your social confidence:https://bit.ly/003-26Dr K is about to win over this chaotic room in 13 minutes, going from the ignored outsider to the person everyone loves.He does it using five techniques most people get wrong, but anyone can learn.0:00 - Intro1:11 - Find out what people respond to1:58 - Join the chaos3:37 - Make the agreement explicit6:03 - Change HOW you talk about it8:12 - Take them somewhere new11:24 - The fastest way to build your social confidenceConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Visko MatichEdited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Public Speaking: How To Make An Audience Love You In 90 Seconds 19.09.2026 13min

  6 Public Speaking Tips To Hook Any AudiencePublic speaking is hard. We all know it. But if you master a few basic public speaking tips and techniques, you can absolutely hook any audience. https://goo.gl/IpBEnOIn this video you'll get the public speaking training to hook an audience n 30 seconds. The public speaking skills to tell stories that have people hanging on every word. And the techniques to nail a finale that moves people to action.Public speaking shakes a lot of people's confidence, but if you use these tips and techniques, you'll be on your way to giving presentations that TED would be proud of :-)You can watch the full speech here:https://youtu.be/Iqq1roF4C8sFor the written version: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=videodesc&utm_campaign=blogSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Compliment Anyone Without Sounding Fake 19.09.2026 12min

  The fastest way to improve your confidence and charisma:https://bit.ly/001-26If you want people to love being around you, there is almost nothing like delivering great compliments. But most people don’t realize there are 3 levels of compliments that lead to better and better connection. They stay stuck on the first level, and too many level 1 compliments can make people feel uncomfortable.0:00 - Intro0:28 - Level 1: Social Flow Compliments2:50 - Level 2: MC Compliments4:42 - Level 3: Heartfelt Compliments6:59 - The essential mindset7:36 - Try this challenge Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Instantly Get A More Attractive Smile 19.09.2026 9min

  Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nM4cpOHow To Smile Perfectly For MenWill Smith has one of the most winning smiles on the planet. How does he do it? And can you learn how to smile better? You can. There are 3 key tips that lead to people finding your smile more attractive and Will Smith demonstrates them all. Two of them are in your direct, immediate control. And the third comes from learning how to smile genuinely so that you activate the muscles under the eye, which signals that you are being real. When you've mastered all three, you'll be able to smile batter and smile perfectly.So whether you want to learn how to smile for pictures or you'd just like to have a good smile in your normal life, practice these tips. They'll make those pearly whites shine even more and help you come across as more genuine.Check out our book:http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  This Simple Trick Makes People Love Talking to You 19.09.2026 12min

  The fastest way I know to stop having boring conversations and become more magnetic:https://bit.ly/004-26Most people are stuck having the same boring conversations on repeat. They play it safe, ignore the obvious, and stay trapped in rigid social scripts that kill connection and charisma.In this video, you’ll learn the conversation techniques Ryan Gosling uses to instantly make interactions more fun, magnetic, and memorable, so you can stop running out of things to say, connect faster, and become someone people genuinely love talking to.0:00 - Intro0:21 - Why conversations feel repetitive1:10 - Escape the frame2:07 - Follow the shiny thing2:50 - Open the circle4:22 - Imply friendship fast4:46 - Acknowledge others emotions7:00 - The fastest way to become more charismaticConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Joe CordleEdited by Simba MahachiDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices