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  Are You Actually Living Islam Correctly? | Dr. Hammad Lakhvi Ep. 39 21.09.2026 54min

  In this episode of The Path We Choose, Umer Farooquee sits down with Dr. Hammad Lakhvi for a conversation about purpose, effort, Islamic knowledge, personal responsibility, and what it actually means to live as a Muslim.Dr. Hammad reflects on the unexpected direction of his own life and explains why our path may not always look the way we planned it. Rather than constantly comparing ourselves with others, he argues that every person has been given different abilities, circumstances, and responsibilities. Our job is to give our best effort and place our trust in Allah.The conversation then explores a question many Muslims struggle with today: How do we actually know what is right?With so many opinions, scholars, traditions, and interpretations available, Dr. Hammad discusses the importance of returning to authentic sources of knowledge. He explores the relationship between the Qur'an, the teachings of the Prophet ﷺ, seeking knowledge for yourself, trusting qualified teachers, and asking for evidence rather than following opinions blindly.In this episode, we discuss:Why everyone's test is differentHard work, effort, and trusting AllahWhy comparing yourself to others is dangerousHow to know if you're on the right pathWhere Muslims should seek authentic knowledgeQur'an, Hadith, and the Prophetic exampleHow much Islamic knowledge every Muslim needsIslam in business and everyday lifeKeeping the Hereafter as your real destinationWhy character can be the strongest form of dawahUltimately, the conversation asks us to reconsider what success really means.You may not control where life takes you or what results come from your effort. But you can control whether you sincerely use what Allah has given you, seek the truth, and live according to it.Follow Dr. Hammad Lakhvi:Website: https://hammadlakhvi.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drhammadlakhvi/?hl=enLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-muhammad-hammad-lakhvi-870b6263/Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose:Website: https://thepathwechoose.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/Subscribe to The Path We Choose for real conversations on faith, identity, purpose, responsibility, and the path we choose.
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  What Muslim Parents Must Understand About Raising Children | Ep. 38 18.09.2026 14min

  In this episode of The Path We Choose, Umer Farooque explores one of the most critical responsibilities in Islam: raising children with strong values, respect, and character in a world that constantly challenges those principles.The conversation addresses the stages of parenting and what parents must understand at each phase of their child's development. It begins with a fundamental truth: children learn more from what they see than from what they are told. Before parents can expect their children to embody respect, discipline, and faith, they must first look at the example they are setting themselves.The discussion emphasizes the importance of the relationship between husband and wife and how it shapes a child's entire worldview. When parents argue, fight, or disrespect each other in front of their children, they break something fundamental in the child's understanding of stability, trust, and relationships. For a child, their mother and father represent security and ideals. When that foundation is shattered by constant conflict, the effects carry into adulthood, influencing how they view marriage, family, and emotional security.As children grow older and enter their teenage years, the challenges become more complex. This is the age where external influences become stronger, where peer pressure intensifies, and where children are exposed to things parents may not even be aware of. In schools today, whether in Pakistan or elsewhere, children have access to cigarettes, vapes, harmful behaviors, and ideas that contradict the values parents are trying to instill. The question becomes: How do parents navigate this stage without losing their relationship with their child?The conversation tackles an uncomfortable scenario: What do you do when you discover your child has done something wrong? Should parents respond with anger, guilt, or fear? Or is there a better approach that maintains the relationship while still guiding the child back to what is right? The discussion explores different perspectives, including the idea that some parents believe allowing their children to experiment under supervision is better than having them hide their mistakes. But is that the right approach, or does it normalize behavior that should never be accepted?One of the most important points raised is the role of guilt and conscience. If a child grows up in an environment where wrong actions are treated as normal, they lose the internal compass that helps them distinguish right from wrong. On the other hand, if parents create such fear that children cannot come to them when they make mistakes, the relationship is broken, and the child will turn elsewhere for guidance.The episode also addresses the reality that not all environments are suitable for raising children. Some schools, some neighborhoods, and some societies make it nearly impossible to protect children from harmful influences. In such cases, parents must make difficult decisions about where they live, where their children study, and what sacrifices they are willing to make to give their children a better chance.In this episode, we discuss:The stages of parenting and what matters at each phaseWhy children learn by watching their parentsThe impact of fighting in front of childrenHow parental conflict shapes a child's emotional developmentThe relationship between husband and wife and its effect on childrenNavigating the teenage years with wisdom and balanceThe dangers children face in schools todayPeer pressure, cigarettes, vapes, and harmful influencesHow to respond when your child makes a mistakeShould parents use fear, guilt, or understanding?The role of conscience and guilt in shaping behaviorWhy normalizing wrong behavior leads to long term damageThe importance of maintaining a strong relationship with your childChoosing the right environment and school for your childrenWhen parents need to make sacrifices to protect their childrenAt the heart of this conversation is a simple but necessary truth: You cannot control every influence your child encounters, but you can build a relationship strong enough that they come to you when they struggle instead of hiding from you.Because raising children is not just about preventing them from making mistakes. It is about equipping them with the character, values, and relationship that will guide them when you are not there.Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose:Website: https://thepathwechoose.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/Subscribe to The Path We Choose for real conversations on faith, family, identity, purpose, and the path we choose.
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  What Muslim Parents Must Understand First | Khalid Mehmood Abbasi Ep. 38 17.09.2026 1h 23min

  In this episode of The Path We Choose, Umer Farooque sits down with Khalid Mehmood Abbasi for a conversation about Muslim parenting, marriage, family, discipline, and what it actually takes to raise good children.Parents often focus on finding the best school, the best tutor, or someone to teach their children the Quran. But Khalid Mehmood Abbasi raises a more important question: How much work are we doing on ourselves as parents?The conversation explores why the home is a child’s first environment and why children learn far more from what they see their parents do than from what they are repeatedly told. Before trying to teach values, discipline, modesty, faith, and character, parents have to understand the example they are setting themselves.Khalid also explains why the relationship between husband and wife plays such an important role in a child’s development. A peaceful and secure home gives a child something that schools, tutors, and material opportunities cannot replace. The discussion looks at the responsibilities of both parents, the father’s role within the family, and why children should not grow up surrounded by conflict between the two people they look up to most.They also discuss how parenting should change as children grow. From allowing young children to learn naturally, to setting boundaries, dealing with teenagers, correcting mistakes without creating rebellion, and eventually developing a relationship where children can speak openly with their parents.The conversation ultimately challenges the idea that good parenting is simply about controlling children or giving them every opportunity. Raising better children begins with becoming better parents.In this episode, we discuss:What makes a good Muslim parentWhy parenting starts with the parentsWhy children learn by watching usThe importance of the home environmentEducation vs. character developmentWhy young children need freedom to learnDiscipline without creating rebellionHow parents should handle teenagersThe relationship between husband and wifeA father’s responsibility in the familyWhy parents should lead by exampleFighting in front of childrenBuilding trust with your childrenMarriage, family, and Islamic responsibilityAt the heart of this conversation is a simple question:Before asking what kind of child we are raising, should we first ask what kind of parent we are becoming?Children are always learning from us, even when we are not trying to teach them.Follow Khalid Mehmood Abbasi:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/khalidmehmoodabbasiofficial/Follow Umer Farooquee & The Path We Choose:Website: https://thepathwechoose.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/Subscribe to The Path We Choose for real conversations on faith, family, identity, purpose, and the path we choose.
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  Why Pakistani Nationalism Is Destroying Our Islam | Ep. 37 12.09.2026 12min

  What does it really mean to celebrate freedom?In this episode of The Path We Choose, Umer Farooquee sits down for a deeply reflective conversation about identity, nationalism, faith, and the uncomfortable truths about how we live as Muslims today.The conversation begins with a challenging question: When we have clear data and facts in front of us, why do we struggle to accept them? From there, the discussion moves into difficult territory about modesty, responsibility, and victim blaming. The conversation makes it clear that there is never any justification for harassment or assault, regardless of what someone is wearing. Blaming the victim is wrong, and the real issue lies in a society that fails to hold perpetrators accountable through proper punishment and justice.They explore how our identities are shaped not by faith, but by ethnicity, political parties, and nationalism. During election season, we proudly declare ourselves as Punjabi, Muhajir, or supporters of political parties, but we rarely lead with the fact that we are Muslims. Our divisions run deeper than our unity, and our character often reflects our cultural conditioning rather than the teachings of Islam.They also discuss the dangers of nationalism and superiority. The first sin ever committed was the sin of superiority when Iblis refused to bow to Adam. Today, we repeat that same sin when we look down on others because of nationality, ethnicity, or social class. Whether it's refusing to eat from the same plate as someone we consider beneath us or treating domestic workers as inferior, these attitudes contradict the core teachings of Islam.The episode closes with a reflection on Pakistan's Independence Day and how we choose to celebrate it. While freedom is a blessing from Allah, our celebrations often involve reckless behavior, accidents, and actions that dishonor the very gift we were given. When the Prophet ﷺ was granted victory in Mecca, he entered with humility and gratitude, not with noise and chaos. The question is raised: Are we truly honoring our blessings, or are we taking them for granted?In this episode, we discuss:Accepting uncomfortable truths and dataVictim blaming and the responsibility of societyWhy modesty is important but never justifies harmThe need for accountability and justiceHow nationalism divides us as MuslimsIdentity, ethnicity, and political loyaltyWhy Islam is more than ritualsCharacter as the foundation of faithThe sin of superiority and looking down on othersCultural practices that contradict Islamic valuesWhat it means to truly celebrate freedomGratitude, humility, and how the Prophet ﷺ honored victoryWhy we need to reflect on how we live as Muslims todayAt the heart of this conversation is a simple but necessary question: Are we living as Muslims, or are we simply performing Islam while our hearts, behavior, and priorities remain unchanged?Because Islam was never meant to be a cultural identity or a set of rituals. It was meant to transform who we are.Follow Umer Farooquee & The Path We Choose:Website: https://thepathwechoose.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/Episode 37 Link: https://youtu.be/QwQ0YBnMX80Subscribe to The Path We Choose for real conversations on faith, identity, purpose, and the path we choose.
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  How We Turned Islam Into Empty Rituals | Tayyab Abid | Ep. 37 09.09.2026 1h 34min

  What does it actually mean to live as a Muslim?In this episode of ‘The Path We Choose’ Umer Farooque sits down with Tayyab Abid for a deep conversation about Islam, purpose, submission, character, identity, and what it truly means to live your faith beyond rituals.The conversation challenges one of the biggest misconceptions about Islam: that being a good Muslim is simply about praying five times a day, fasting in Ramadan, and fulfilling a set of religious rituals. Tayyab explains why submission to Allah is much broader than rituals and why Islam is meant to shape every part of our lives.They explore the difference between simply performing religious obligations and actually allowing Islam to transform your character, decisions, relationships, health, mindset, and everyday life. Tayyab also talks about the importance of physical fitness within Islam, not simply for appearance, but because taking care of your body can help you serve your family, worship better, and become an example for others.The conversation goes further into character and identity why looking religious on the outside means little if our behavior and character don't reflect our faith, and why Muslims need to distinguish between their cultural identity and their identity as believers.In this episode, we discuss:The true purpose of a MuslimWhat submission to Allah really meansWhy Islam is more than ritualsPrayer, fasting and the broader meaning of worshipWhy character is central to faithIslam as a complete way of lifeThe importance of physical fitness in IslamFaith, identity and cultureWhy Muslims shouldn't confuse culture with religionApplying Quranic guidance to modern lifeCriticism vs. genuine self-correctionThe responsibility of individuals to improve societyWhat Muslims can learn from Islamic historyHow faith should influence our everyday decisionsAt the heart of this conversation is a simple but powerful question:Are we merely performing Islam, or are we actually living it?Because Islam was never meant to be confined to rituals. It is meant to shape who we are, how we behave, how we treat people, and how we live our entire lives.Follow Tayyab Abid:Website: https://ihsaas.pk/about-us/board-of-trustees/tayyab-abid/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tayyab.abid/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tayyababid/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tayyab-abid-50681123/Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose:Website: https://thepathwechoose.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/Subscribe to The Path We Choose for real conversations on faith, identity, purpose, and the path we choose.
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  Is Islam Just About Worship? | Shujauddin Sheikh | Ep. 36 09.09.2026 1h 4min

  In this episode of The Path We Choose, Umer Farooque sits down with Shujauddin Sheikh for a deep and thought-provoking conversation about the purpose of life, the Quran, Islam, and the way we understand success and responsibility as Muslims.Shujauddin Sheikh explores one of the most fundamental questions we can ask ourselves: Why are we here? The conversation goes beyond the usual discussion of worship and rituals and looks at Islam as a complete way of life, offering guidance not only for our relationship with Allah but also for how we live, think, and contribute to society.The discussion also examines our relationship with the Quran and why many Muslims spend years pursuing worldly education while giving comparatively little time to understanding the book that is meant to guide their lives. Shujauddin Sheikh explains why simply reading or reciting the Quran is not the same as understanding its message and living according to its guidance.The discussion expands into the role of Islam in society, questions of justice and collective responsibility, and the challenges facing Muslim communities today. Shujauddin Sheikh shares his perspective on Pakistan and why understanding Islam beyond individual acts of worship matters when thinking about the wider society.In this episode, we discuss:The purpose of human lifeWhy were we created?Understanding Islam beyond ritualsThe Quran as a source of guidanceWhy we struggle to understand the QuranWorldly education vs. Quranic understandingWhat true success actually meansMaterialism and our prioritiesWorship and our relationship with AllahIslam as a complete way of lifeJustice and collective responsibilityThe challenges facing Muslim societiesPakistan and its directionThe importance of applying Quranic guidance in our livesAt the heart of this conversation is a simple but profound question: Are we actually living according to the purpose for which we were created?Sometimes the most important questions are the ones we become too busy to ask.Follow Shujauddin Sheikh:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shuja_uddin_sheikh/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tanzeemorg/Website: https://www.tanzeem.org/ Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose:Website: https://thepathwechoose.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/Subscribe to The Path We Choose for real conversations on faith, identity, purpose, and the path we choose.
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  The Truth About Modern Masculinity | Mazen Hamdanieh | Ep. 35 09.09.2026 1h 26min

  What happens when you stop living the life everyone expects from you?In this episode of The Path We Choose, Umer Farooque sits down with Mazen, entrepreneur, founder of Alpha, and advocate for men's self-improvement, for a deeply personal conversation about identity, masculinity, relationships, purpose, and the courage to become who you actually want to be.Mazen opens up about his own journey through an identity crisis, a painful breakup, years of working a traditional 9–5, and eventually taking the risk of leaving corporate life to build something he genuinely believed in. He shares why he invested his life savings into Alpha, a men's wellness and self-improvement centre, despite the criticism and doubt he received from people around him.The conversation goes deeper into why so many men struggle to express themselves, why self-discovery can feel incredibly lonely, and how breaking unhealthy patterns can require letting go of old friendships, relationships, and even versions of yourself. Mazen also reflects on his childhood, generational trauma, and his determination to make sure the next generation doesn't inherit the same struggles.In this episode, we discuss:The identity crisis that changed Mazen lifeWhy he left the traditional 9–5 pathPutting his life savings into AlphaThe painful journey of self-discoveryBreaking generational patterns and traumaWhy men need strong friendshipsVulnerability and accountability between menThe problem with social-media masculinityFinding purpose through intention and self-improvementHow faith and spirituality shaped his journeyAt the heart of this conversation is a powerful question: Are you living as the person you truly are, or as the person everyone else expects you to be?Sometimes finding yourself requires losing the version of yourself that everyone else was comfortable with.Follow Mazen:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mazzz.hd/Website:https://www.alfaclub.ca/Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose:Website: https://thepathwechoose.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/Subscribe to The Path We Choose for real conversations on faith, identity, purpose, and the path we choose.
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  Why Modern Muslims Feel Lost | Abu Ibrahim | Ep. 34 17.08.2026 1h 50min

  What does it actually mean to live your life for Islam?In this episode of The Path We Choose, Umer Farooque sits down with Abu Ibrahim for a challenging conversation about purpose, faith, sacrifice, and what it means to take Islam seriously beyond personal rituals.Abu Ibrahim shares his own journey from studying pure mathematics and pursuing academic success to realizing that achievement alone could never answer the deeper question of why he was created and what his abilities were meant for. He explains how his understanding of ibadah changed from seeing worship as primarily individual rituals to understanding Islam as a comprehensive way of life.The conversation then goes much deeper into secularization, Islamic civilization, political identity, the role of Muslims in society, and why Abu Ibrahim believes many Muslims have separated their faith from the wider systems that shape their lives. He also discusses why speaking the truth can bring backlash, why Muslims sometimes censor themselves, and how to balance courage with wisdom.They also explore a very different understanding of self-improvement and masculinity. Abu Ibrahim challenges the influence of figures such as Andrew Tate, Jordan Peterson, and secular self-improvement culture, arguing that Muslims should begin with Allah rather than making the self the centre of their transformation.In this episode, we discuss:Finding purpose beyond career and achievementWhy Islam is more than personal ritualThe meaning of ibadah and living for AllahSecularization and the Muslim worldviewThe Quran as guidance for our lives todayIslam, self-improvement, and the danger of putting the self firstWhat modern masculinity gets wrongIndividualism, family, and responsibility toward the UmmahThe role of Muslims in reviving their communitiesWhat it really means to sacrifice for AllahOne of the central questions of this conversation is simple but uncomfortable: Are we actually living according to the purpose we claim to believe in?For Abu Ibrahim, Islam isn't something to fit into the remaining space of your life. It is the foundation around which your life is meant to be built.Follow Abu Ibrahim:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abuibrahim_mm/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@AbuIbrahim-MM Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose:Website: https://thepathwechoose.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/Subscribe to The Path We Choose for real conversations on faith, identity, purpose, and the path we choose.
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  Your Comfort Is Holding You Back | Dr. Sabreena Ghaffar-Siddiqui | Ep. 33 17.08.2026 1h 11min

  In this episode of The Path We Choose, Umer Farooque sits down with Dr. Sabreena Ghaffar Siddiqui for a thought-provoking conversation about truth, ideology, and what it really takes to challenge the narratives we've been taught.Using the idea of "the red pill" from The Matrix as a starting point, Dr. Sabreena explores why some people are willing to question the status quo while others choose the comfort of familiar beliefs. Together, they examine how ideology shapes our understanding of justice, why speaking up often comes at a personal cost, and how genuine growth begins by stepping into uncomfortable conversations.Drawing on her own experiences engaging with diverse communities and difficult perspectives, Dr. Sabreena explains why understanding opposing worldviews is essential not to accept them, but to challenge them with greater clarity, empathy, and conviction.In this episode, we discuss:What it means to take the red pillWhy comfortable narratives are hard to leaveThe personal cost of speaking upUnderstanding ideology before challenging itPalestine, Zionism, and difficult conversationsWhy truth requires courage and convictionThis episode is an invitation to think more deeply about the stories we inherit, the beliefs we defend, and the responsibility we carry when confronted with injustice. Sometimes the hardest path isn't discovering the truth it's choosing to live by it.Follow Dr. Sabreena Ghaffar Siddiqui:Website: https://drsabreena.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsabreena_gs/LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/sabreenags Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Dr.SabreenaFollow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose:Website: https://thepathwechoose.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/Subscribe to The Path We Choose for real conversations on faith, identity, purpose, and the path we choose.
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  Heartbreak Led Me Back To Allah | Hassan | Ep. 32 04.08.2026 1h 39min

  In this episode of The Path We Choose, Umer Farooque sits down with Hassan for an honest conversation about heartbreak, faith, and the life-changing decision to pursue Allah with conviction.Hassan shares how one of the lowest moments of his life became the turning point that brought him back to Islam. What began as heartbreak became a journey of purpose, discipline, and spiritual transformation. Together, they explore the difference between inheriting faith and consciously choosing it, and why true conviction often emerges through life's greatest tests.Throughout the conversation, they discuss what it means to build a relationship with Allah beyond cultural identity, how hardship can become a source of guidance, and why lasting fulfillment comes from aligning your life with your deepest beliefs rather than temporary success.In this episode, we discuss:Finding Allah through hardship and heartbreakInherited faith vs. personal convictionChoosing deen over dunyaWhy adversity strengthens beliefBuilding discipline and purpose through IslamLiving a life rooted in faithWhether you're navigating hardship, searching for purpose, or looking to strengthen your relationship with Allah, this conversation offers a powerful reminder that our greatest trials can become the beginning of our greatest transformation.Follow Hassan:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/helpfulhassan7/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUBUEuvhOGrqQIpqWID84_gFollow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose:Website: https://thepathwechoose.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/Subscribe to The Path We Choose for real conversations on faith, identity, purpose, and the path we choose.
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  The Beliefs That Quietly Control Us | Dr. Sabreena Ghaffar-Siddiqui | Ep. 31 27.07.2026 1h 2min

  In this episode of The Path We Choose, Umer Farooque sits down with Dr. Sabrina to unpack one of the most misunderstood concepts of our time: identity.From religion and nationality to culture and social status, we explore how identity is formed, why people become attached to certain labels, and what happens when those labels begin to define our worldview. Dr. Sabrina breaks down complex sociological ideas into simple, practical insights, explaining the difference between inherited identities, chosen identities, and the beliefs that shape who we become.The conversation also examines how discussions around Zionism, Palestine, nationalism, and faith influence the way people see themselves and others. Rather than adding to the noise, this episode aims to provide clarity, context, and a framework for thinking critically about identity in today's world.In this episode, we discuss:What identity actually meansNational identity vs. religious identityThe sociology behind belongingHow beliefs shape our worldviewZionism, Palestine, and public discourseWhy understanding identity matters todayIf you've ever questioned what truly defines you or how society influences the way you see yourself this conversation offers a thoughtful perspective on one of the most important questions we can ask: Who are we, really?Follow Dr. Sabreena:Website: https://drsabreena.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsabreena_gs/LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/sabreenags Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Dr.SabreenaFollow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose:Website: https://thepathwechoose.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/Subscribe to The Path We Choose for real conversations on faith, identity, purpose, and the path we choose.
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  Are We Just Roleplaying Being Muslim? | Akber Ali | Ep. 30 20.07.2026 1h 17min

  What does it actually mean to have a grounded identity? In this episode of The Path We Choose, host Umer Farooque sits down with Akber a young imam, hafiz, and digital creator to explore the thin line between cultural performance and authentic religious embodiment.Akber shares his fascinating "three paths": growing up in Canada, surviving high school meme culture, navigating the corporate communication sector, and eventually making the tough decision to walk away from a lucrative client-based social media career due to ethical and religious conflicts.We dive deep into why true Muslim identity goes far deeper than just changing your social media bio or attending halal food festivals. Akber opens up about how he re-dedicated himself to sacred knowledge, became an imam at just 21, and why he believes faith is ultimately designed to push us outside of our comfort zones so we can truly grow.In this episode, we discuss:The Illusion of Cultural Identity: Why social media posturing (like Arabic text in bios) doesn't equal real spiritual grounding.Akber’s Three Paths: The intersection of his spiritual journey, a corporate career in communication, and his life as a social media creator.Walking Away from the Mainstream Creator Economy: The ethical challenges of modern marketing and choosing to build a personal, values-aligned platform.The Uncomfortable Nature of Growth: Why being too comfortable in your lifestyle might be a sign that it’s time to stretch your faith.Becoming an Imam at 21: How a supportive friendship and an unexpected mosque visit changed the trajectory of Akber's life.True impact isn't found in mainstream validation or a massive audience, but in aligning your professional skills with your core spiritual values. If you are struggling to bridge the gap between your daily work and your deeper beliefs, this conversation serves as a powerful guide.Follow Akber:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/akber.io/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@akberioFollow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose:Website: https://thepathwechoose.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/Subscribe to The Path We Choose for real conversations on faith, identity, purpose, and the path we choose.
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  The Hidden Cost of Chasing Dunya | Khalid Mehmood Abbasi | Ep. 29 13.07.2026 1h 32min

  In this thought-provoking episode of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque sits down with Khalid Sahib to explore how a true human purpose often diverges from societal expectations and traditional life cycles. Khalid Sahib dives deep into why most people follow corporate, marital, and modern trends blindly while failing to nurture the unique spiritual potential installed within their conscience.The conversation uncovers how human nature, the Quran, and the struggles of the prophets reveal patterns for living a targeted life over a routine lifestyle. Khalid Sahib explains why reproducing inherited social norms isn’t enough, how to break free from surface-level thinking through trials, and why establishing a deep connection with the Quran and Sunnah is crucial for practical guidance.In This Episode, You’ll Learn: • Why the masses follow social trends and rarely think out of the box • How mental shocks and life experiences mature a person's intellect toward perfection • The role of the Sunnah in defining structural clarity and ease in religious practices • Why reading the Quran with contextual comprehension is crucial for true guidance • How to build a balanced life purpose while fulfilling familial and financial obligations • Lessons from the life of Prophet Ibrahim (AS) regarding personal struggle and Jihad of thoughtWhether you’re a student, a young professional seeking clarity, or someone navigating the noise of sectarian divisions, this episode challenges you to critical thinking, align your lifestyle with authentic faith, and create an impact that transcends worldly milestones.Follow Khalid Mehmood:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/khalidmehmoodabbasiofficial/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@KhalidMehmoodAbbasiOfficialFollow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose:Website: https://thepathwechoose.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/Subscribe to The Path We Choose for real conversations on faith, identity, purpose, and the path we choose.
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  Is the Quran Not Enough? | Sheraz Butt | Ep. 28 06.07.2026 1h 29min

  Is the Quran enough on its own, or can it never be separated from the Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ?In this episode of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque sits down with Sheraz Butt for a deep conversation on faith, the Quran, Sunnah, social media da’wah, and the way Islam is understood today.Sheraz explains why he believes there is a growing mindset trying to separate the Quran from the Sunnah, and why that creates confusion for Muslims trying to understand their deen. He speaks about the danger of taking Islam out of context, choosing only the parts of religion that feel convenient, and treating deen like something we can customize.This conversation also goes into Sheraz’s personal journey with the Quran, why learning Arabic changed the way he understood Allah’s words, how social media can be used to multiply good deeds, and why every person with a platform has to be careful with what they say.The episode also touches on ego, fame, Shaitan’s attacks, staying humble, standing up for truth, and the constant battle of trying to live sincerely for Allah while being seen by people.In this episode, you’ll learn:• Why Quran and Sunnah cannot be separated• The danger of taking Islam out of context• Why Islam is not something we pick and choose from• How learning Quranic Arabic changes your understanding• Why social media da’wah is a responsibility• How fame and recognition can become a test• Why sincerity matters more than public image• How Shaitan attacks through ego, distraction, and desire• Why holding onto faith today takes real strengthWhether you are trying to understand the Quran better, struggling with modern debates around Sunnah and Hadith, or simply trying to become more sincere in your relationship with Allah, this episode will make you think deeply about what it really means to follow Islam.Follow Sheraz Butt:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/isherazbutt/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@UC5_cEmM-fhSBVUcOq6_vumQ Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose:Website: https://thepathwechoose.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/Subscribe to The Path We Choose for real conversations on faith, identity, purpose, and the path we choose.
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  The 1% Who Change Generations | Sahil Adeem | Ep. 27 29.06.2026 1h 28min

  In this thought-provoking episode of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque sits down with Sahil Adeem to explore how Allah’s chosen path for us often diverges from the world’s expectations. Sahil dives deep into why most people simply follow the crowd while the rare thinkers—less than 1%—shape generations through independent thought, faith, and purpose.The conversation uncovers how human history, the Quran, and the examples of prophets reveal patterns for living a purposeful life. Sahil explains why reproducing inherited ideas isn’t enough, how to break free from surface-level thinking, and why understanding the “why” and “what” of your actions is crucial for meaningful impact.In This Episode, You’ll Learn:• Why the masses follow and rarely innovate• How independent thinkers change the course of history• The role of faith in guiding your life purpose• Why replication of thought fails in modern times• How to structure your personal purpose aligned with divine guidance• Lessons from prophets and the Quran for actionable insight todayWhether you’re a student, young professional, or someone searching for clarity in purpose and action, this episode challenges you to think independently, align your actions with faith, and create impact that transcends generations.Follow Sahil Adeem:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SahilAdeemPodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/sahiladeem_official/Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose (TPWC):Website: https://thepathwechoose.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/Subscribe to The Path We Choose for real, thoughtful conversations on faith, purpose, and independent thinking that challenge the status quo.
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  Why Faith Alone Can Change Everything | Episode 26 | Shahrez Hayder & Mohammed Al-Ubaidy 25.06.2026 1h 32min

  This episode is proudly presented by Ketkoot Iraqi Chargrilled Chicken! The go-to spot for bold Iraqi grilled chicken, whole chicken feasts, and delicious community meals in Mississauga and beyond.https://linktr.ee/ketkootApply for Shahrez's Inner Circle Mentorship Program:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/12Ruwll04qJ-y5y7YfWpnCToaDSo39jWRWVjzXgIsUBM/viewform?edit_requested=trueWhat if absolute certainty in your faith could transform the way you make decisions, act, and live? In this episode of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque sits down with Shahrez Hayder and Mohammed Al-Ubaidy to explore the powerful concept of Yaqeen — unwavering certainty in Allah — and how it shapes mindset, actions, and resilience.Together, Shahrez and Mohammed discuss practical ways to cultivate spiritual certainty, align your actions with faith, and navigate life with clarity, even during doubt or uncertainty. They also cover how trust, intention, and actionable faith can guide personal growth, decision-making, and everyday challenges.In This Episode, You’ll Learn:• What Yaqeen truly means in Islam and daily life• How certainty impacts your choices and results• Practical methods to strengthen your faith and trust• How to respond to doubt, fear, and uncertainty• Aligning your heart and actions with your beliefs• How consistent effort and faith work together to transform your lifeWhether you’re seeking spiritual growth, guidance in decision-making, or practical faith-based wisdom, this episode provides actionable insights to live with confidence, clarity, and purpose.Follow Shahrez Hayder:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6lQ9HiGlPickzSPsOZQ2BwInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/shahrez.muslim/Follow Mohammed Al-Ubaidy:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reachmohammed/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moe.ady.3/Website: https://themirror-book.com/Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose (TPWC):Website: https://thepathwechoose.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/Subscribe to The Path We Choose for thoughtful conversations on faith, certainty, personal growth, and the steps that guide meaningful living.
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  The Immigrant Hustle That Built a Global Brand | Matt Preschern | Ep. 25 20.06.2026 1h 20min

  This episode is proudly presented by Ketkoot Iraqi Chargrilled Chicken! The go-to spot for bold Iraqi grilled chicken, whole chicken feasts, and delicious community meals in Mississauga and beyond.https://linktr.ee/ketkootHow do you go from starting with nothing in a new country to leading global teams at some of the world’s largest companies? In this episode of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque sits down with Matt Preschern to explore his inspiring journey as an immigrant building his career from scratch to becoming a global CMO.Matt shares how grit, discipline, and relentless learning helped him overcome challenges, break barriers, and rise to leadership in multinational organizations. This conversation goes beyond career advice — it’s about mindset, resilience, personal growth, and turning struggles into stepping stones for success.In This Episode, You’ll Learn:• How Matt built a global career from scratch• Lessons from his immigrant experience and hustle• How discipline and consistency outshine luck• How to overcome cultural and professional challenges• The mindset shifts that created opportunities• Leadership lessons from top global organizations• Turning failures into lessons for growthTimestamps:(00:00:00) Introduction: The Immigrant Who Saw America's Promise at 16 (00:04:34) From Minimum Wage to UPS: The Research Assistant Who Became a VP (00:09:31) The Athlete's Edge: Why Sports Taught Him Everything About Business (00:13:33) The In-Flight Incident: When Everything Changed at 30,000 Feet (00:18:28) The Choice: Letting Crisis Define You or Transform You (00:23:44) Three Years Sober and 50 Pounds Lighter: The Health Awakening (00:24:03) Returning to Faith: The Church He Left 40 Years Ago (00:32:31) Midpoint Break: The Mission of Authentic Storytelling (00:33:19) The Power of Positive Energy: Why Luck is Something You Create (00:42:44) Toxic Relationships and Self-Respect: The Boundaries That Changed Everything (00:40:24) The Relationship with No: Why Rejection is an Invitation (00:46:37) Pressure is a Privilege: Diamonds Are Made Under Heat (00:49:38) The Journey of Recovery: Action Beats Inaction Every Time (00:54:24) Confronting the Dark Moments: Taking Accountability for Your Life (00:56:34) Blood Pressure, Micro Strokes, and the Day He Quit Drinking (01:08:43) Quiet Strength and the Ego Trap: Why the Best Leaders Don't Need to Prove Anything (01:15:19) The 24-Hour Rule: Responding Instead of Reacting (01:17:39) Final Wisdom: You Are the CEO of Your Own LifeWhether you’re an aspiring entrepreneur, professional, or anyone navigating a career pivot, this episode offers actionable insights and inspiration to take bold steps toward your goals.Follow Matt Preschern:Website: https://storytimewithunclematt.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/matt-preschernFollow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose (TPWC):Website: https://thepathwechoose.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/Subscribe to The Path We Choose for real, human conversations on ambition, mindset, leadership, and the immigrant journey to success.
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  The Truth About Mistakes, Accountability, and Allah | Shaykh Rasoul & Shahrez Hayder | Ep. 24 15.06.2026 1h 26min

  This episode is proudly presented by Ketkoot Iraqi Chargrilled Chicken! The go-to spot for bold Iraqi grilled chicken, whole chicken feasts, and delicious community meals in Mississauga and beyond.https://linktr.ee/ketkootApply for Shahrez's Inner Circle Mentorship Program:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/12Ruwll04qJ-y5y7YfWpnCToaDSo39jWRWVjzXgIsUBM/viewform?edit_requested=trueHow do we navigate life knowing we’ll never be perfect, yet still strive to improve? In this episode of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque sits down with Shaykh Rasoul to explore the Islamic perspective of faith, intention, and personal growth — the idea of “not sinless, but sin less.”Shaykh Rasoul breaks down how true surrender to Allah, understanding His attributes, and practicing Tawakkul can transform your life. From navigating daily challenges to making decisions guided by Shariah, Istikhara, and personal consultation, this conversation highlights the balance between action and trust in Allah. He also addresses sensitive topics like interpreting Hadith, accountability in relationships, and building harmony in family life while staying true to Islamic principles.In This Episode, You’ll Learn:• Why perfection isn’t the goal — strive to sin less instead• How intention shapes every action and decision• Understanding Allah’s 99 Names to strengthen your faith• The 5-step process to decision-making in Islam• How to practice Tawakkul while taking action• Interpreting Hadith correctly and avoiding misconceptions• Building compassion, fairness, and balance in personal and family lifeTimestamps:(00:00:00) Introduction: The Purpose is Not to Be Sinless, But to Sin Less (00:01:27) The Right to Be Happy: Celebrating Eid While Brothers and Sisters Suffer (00:05:18) Why Does Evil Exist? Understanding Allah's Attributes and Free Will (00:07:55) Compassion vs Despair: Intention is Everything (00:10:40) The Spiritual Bank: How Good Deeds Compound Like Condensation (00:12:20) The Five Steps of Decision Making in Islam (00:14:37) Qadar and Free Will: Two Realms Operating Simultaneously (00:17:17) The 99 Names of Allah: Knowing Who You Surrender To (00:21:40) Anxiety and Certainty: The Nervous System vs Faith (00:32:02) The Hadith Controversy: Why Rejecting Sunnah Destroys Islam (00:37:53) Hadith and Patriarchy: Context, Accountability, and Misuse (00:46:26) Midpoint Break: The Mission of Authentic Storytelling (00:47:14) Marriage and Leadership: The Pilot and Co-Pilot Model (00:49:04) Who to Marry: Taking the One With Deen (01:00:30) Hadith Kutsi and the Power of 'I Am How My Servant Thinks of Me' (01:18:23) The Colonization of Islamic Scholarship (01:23:26) We Don't Need Millionaires, We Need Billionaires (01:24:52) The Teacher and the Student: Surrender to Learn (01:25:47) Closing: Making the Deen Accessible and LightheartedWhether you’re seeking spiritual growth, guidance in daily life, or clarity in decision-making, this episode provides actionable insights to align your actions with faith and deepen your understanding of Islam.Follow Shaykh Rasoul:Website: https://shaykhrasoul.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shaykhrasoul/?hl=enFollow Shahrez:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@shahrez.muslimInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/shahrez.muslim/Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose (TPWC):Website: https://thepathwechoose.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/Subscribe to The Path We Choose for deep, thoughtful conversations on faith, personal growth, and practical guidance for living in alignment with Allah’s wisdom.
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  What They Don’t Teach You About Success in School | Hussein Farhat & Shahrez Hayder | Ep. 23 09.06.2026 2h 3min

  Why do we spend years in school learning facts, but never learn the skills that actually lead to success? In this episode of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque sits down with Hussein Farhat and Shahrez Hayder to explore the real lessons school never taught — about mindset, discipline, personal growth, and navigating life beyond grades.They discuss why traditional education misses the skills that matter most: building confidence, taking risks, managing failure, understanding human behavior, and developing the habits that lead to real-life achievement. Through stories and actionable advice, this episode uncovers the gap between formal learning and practical success.In This Episode, You’ll Learn:• The skills school never teaches that actually matter• How to develop habits for long-term growth• Why mindset matters more than grades• How to navigate real-world challenges with confidence• The importance of self-discipline and focus• Lessons from failure that school never covers• How to create opportunities rather than waiting for themTimestamps:(00:00:00) Introduction: Two Paths to Success Through Faith (00:08:06) The First Sale: When Effort Finally Meets Results (00:10:29) The Athlete's Advantage: Why Sports Build Successful People (00:23:33) Identity is Everything: Becoming Who You Want to Be (00:16:47) Mastering Lust: The Discipline That Changes Everything (00:30:26) The Fake Natty Controversy: Handling Hate and Proving Doubters Wrong (01:15:17) Competition as Collaboration: Iron Sharpens Iron (01:00:49) Midpoint Break: The Mission of Authentic Storytelling (01:25:45) The Day-to-Day: Structure vs Surrender to Allah (01:44:18) From Homeless to Millionaire in 14 Months: The Power of Tawakkul (01:36:34) Success Redefined: Fulfillment Over Happiness (01:47:01) The Inner Child: Your Gift to the World (01:58:21) People Who Pay, Pay Attention: The Investment Mindset (02:01:55) Final Words: Take Action From Where You Want to BeWhether you’re a student, recent graduate, or lifelong learner, this episode offers practical guidance and insight to help you take control of your success.Follow Hussein Farhat:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hussein.fht/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCO1XWL44wzgDWixNaSoLVtQWebsite: https://husseinfarhat.com/Follow Shahrez Hayder:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shahrezhayder/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shahrezhayderFollow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose (TPWC):Website: https://thepathwechoose.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/Subscribe to The Path We Choose for real, practical conversations about success, mindset, and the lessons life teaches that school never will.
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  How to Manifest Anything Through Faith | Muhammad Al-Ubaidy & Shahrez Hayder | Pt. 1 02.06.2026 1h 31min

  This episode is proudly presented by Ketkoot Iraqi Chargrilled Chicken! The go-to spot for bold Iraqi grilled chicken, whole chicken feasts, and delicious community meals in Mississauga and beyond.https://linktr.ee/ketkootWhy does working yourself to exhaustion sometimes keep you stuck in the exact same place? Why does chasing success feel like pushing opposing magnets together?In this episode of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque sits down with high-performance strategists Muhammad Al-Ubaidy and Shahrez Hayder to explore the connection between faith, neuroscience, and subconscious programming. They break down how mental conditioning shapes reality, stress, and opportunities — and how aligning your heart, mind, and actions can transform your life.Muhammad and Shahrez challenge the modern hustle culture, redefining manifestation through a spiritual lens. They share how generational trauma, lifestyle habits, and toxic environments cloud the mind, and provide practical strategies to reverse this. From the 4 stages of consciousness to biological indicators of chronic anxiety, they explain how true surrender (Tawakul) can unlock a state of peak performance where opportunities flow naturally.If you follow podcasts like The Diary of a CEO, On Purpose with Jay Shetty, or The Tim Ferriss Show, or authors like Dr. Joe Dispenza and James Clear, this episode will deepen your understanding of faith, human potential, and success.In This Episode, You’ll Learn:• The Islamic perspective on turning a God-given idea into reality• The Law of Parallels: why chasing Rizq (sustenance) doesn’t work• How to clear childhood programming between ages 0–7 to reclaim your natural state• Why chronic anxiety signals misalignment with your Lord• The Headlight Principle for handling high-pressure situations• How modern lifestyle habits limit visualization and manifestation• How Nikola Tesla’s philosophy aligns with mindful presence (Murakaba)Timestamps:(00:00:00) Introduction: The Moment Where Reality Changes (00:03:11) The Heart of Manifestation: Connecting to Allah Through His Names (00:13:31) The Magnet Metaphor: Understanding Parallel Realities and Alignment (00:23:40) Breaking the Idols: Consciousness, Beliefs, and the Subconscious Mind (00:41:33) Midpoint Break: The Mission of Authentic Storytelling (00:42:21) The Four Stages of Learning: From Incompetence to Mastery (00:57:05) The Trifecta: Taqwa, Tawakkul, and Murakaba (01:04:10) Living in the Present: Anxiety, Surrender, and Finding Peace (01:02:25) Babies and Presence: Learning Islam from Pure Consciousness (01:21:04) Visualization and Creativity: Your Divine Right to Co-CreateWhether you’re pivoting a business, managing stress, or rebuilding daily discipline, this episode gives a practical, soul-centered roadmap beyond typical self-help advice.Follow Muhammad Al-Ubaidy:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reachmohammed/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moe.ady.3/Website: https://themirror-book.com/Follow Shahrez Hayder:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shahrezhayder/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shahrezhayderFollow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose (TPWC):Website: https://thepathwechoose.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/Subscribe to The Path We Choose for real, thoughtful conversations on faith, manifestation, personal growth, and the path we choose.