The Scaries with Matty Rossi

Answering the Questions I've Been Avoiding (Part 2) 31.05.2026 35min

The questions keep getting worse, so naturally we’re doing a Part 2. This week I’m answering more of your questions, including whether I’d ever start an OnlyFans, addressing the rumors about my shlong, and the biggest differences between dating men and dating women.I also rank some of NYC’s most overrated and underrated spots and share a few opinions that will probably get me into trouble. No guest. No filter. Just me continuing to answer the questions I probably should’ve ignored.

Comparing Wieners with TJ Dinch 24.05.2026 59min

This week Matt is joined by TJ Dinch from Southern Hospitality for a chaotic episode covering everything from reality TV drama to… wieners. TJ spills all the tea on the latest season, what’s ahead for the finale, and what it’s actually like filming reality television. The two also tease Matt’s appearance this season and debate who the better kisser is: Justin or Michols.Plus: hookup horror stories, stopping sex to protect a Duolingo streak (before discovering TJ has no idea what Duolingo even is), and the Charleston gay dating scene. The episode ends with a brutal round of “Wiener or Loser,” where TJ rates his cast mates live on the spot.

Gay Trauma & DMs from Troye Sivan 17.05.2026 46min

This week starts with Matt getting a DM from Troye Sivan… and somehow spirals into a full breakdown on the long-term effects of growing up queer.From people pleasing and chasing unavailable people to body dysmorphia, validation seeking, perfectionism, and “Perfect Boy Syndrome” — the pressure many queer men feel to be attractive, successful, likable, emotionally easy, and constantly impressive just to feel worthy.Matt opens up about the survival tactics many queer men develop growing up, how lying for self-protection can make authenticity feel unfamiliar, and what it actually looks like to unlearn behaviors that once kept you safe.

I Got SCAMMED at Coachella… Then Ran the Boston Marathon 10.05.2026 59min

This week on The Scaries: a long overdue life update episode. Matt recaps his first ever Coachella experience, including the ticket scam situation that spiraled into one of the most viral videos he’s ever posted — plus all the behind-the-scenes chaos that came with it.Then it’s straight from the desert to Boston Marathon weekend, reflecting on one year since coming out to his parents, what personal growth actually looks like, and why the real definition of a PR has nothing to do with finish times.The episode closes with one of the happiest moments yet: officiating his best friend’s wedding and bringing a plus one to a wedding for the very first time.

Our WORST Hook Up Stories EVER ft. Joey Camasta 03.05.2026 56min

This week on The Scaries, Matt is joined by comedian, podcaster, and social media personality Joey Camasta (aka best friend of Nicole ‘Snooki’ Polizzi) for one of the most unhinged episodes to date.They dive into their absolute WORST hookup stories — from chaotic run-ins with Häagen-Dazs delivery drivers to Matt’s infamous “bathroom wall incident” after a questionable dinner decision. It’s messy, it’s graphic (in the storytelling sense), and it’s exactly what you’d expect from two people who have zero business oversharing this much.They also get into the realities of dog parenting (and why it weirdly feels like having a terminally ill child… in theory), Amish culture and Rumspringa fantasies, and a bunch of other completely unfiltered tangents. Safe to say… this is one of the wildest episodes in The Scaries history.

Robbed at Gunpoint, Housewives, & Horses on Ozempic ft. Eric Goldie 26.04.2026 1h 6min

The Scaries is joined by Eric Goldie, social media personality and real estate agent. We get into all things Real Housewives, the Bachelorette cancellation, and the art of putting expensive purchases on your husband’s credit card. He also shares the story of getting robbed at gunpoint and enlightens us on horses on Ozempic.

Answering the Questions I’ve Been Avoiding 19.04.2026 54min

First solo episode of Season 2 and we’re getting into it. I finally answer the questions I’ve been actively dodging — from my full dating history since coming out to my type, celebrity crushes, and the realities of life in NYC vs. Boston.We also get into some unhinged moments including how I got banned from a Four Seasons and a few stories that probably didn’t need more detail… but you’re getting it anyway.Plus we talk about the weird duality of being in your 30s — going out one night and the next day your friends are having babies — along with conversations around body count, catching print, and everything in between. Nothing is off limits. Though some of it should be.

The Resident Twink Returns (ft. Billy Duke) 12.04.2026 1h

Billy Duke is back for his FOURTH appearance — our most recurring guest, resident twink, and still somehow the second most requested to return guest.We get updates on his love life, life as a twink in WeHo, and dive into the chaos of the NYC gay dating scene.As expected, it spirals into red flags, questionable advice, and pure chaos.

AirDropped your WHAT!? (ft. Murray Hill Boy) 05.04.2026 58min

Max Cohen (aka Murray Hill Boy) joins me for one of the most chaotic episodes of the season.We get into what it was like growing up on Long Island in a Jewish household, including the time he and his brother absolutely destroyed the family computer (yes… exactly how you’re thinking). We talk about coming out at a young age in the most nonchalant way possible, being a full-on theater kid, and how a boring legal career shaped who he is now as a creator in NYC.We also spiral into why people tend to date versions of their parents (whether they realize it or not), the realities of gay dating culture, and some truly unhinged modern behavior—including airdropping unsolicited pics to the homies.We wrap with a game of Legit or Full of Sht*, where Max reacts to your submitted Scaries… and let’s just say hooking up with your HR director is, unfortunately, very real.

Am I dating Jake Eldridge? 29.03.2026 1h 11min

Season 2 is here and we’re starting with a bang. Jake Eldridge joins me for a long overdue conversation where we finally address the dating rumors, break down our types, biggest icks, and the realities of dating in 2026. We get into NYC nightlife, how we first met, and some of the funniest (and most unhinged) advice we’ve given each other along the way.Jake also opens up about his journey—from being a D1 football player at Rutgers to coming out publicly and building a new life as a model and internet personality in New York City. And of course, we tackle the hard-hitting question: would you rather have a micro-penis or a receding hairline?

Life Updates, Holiday Chaos & What’s Next 21.12.2025 1h 4min

In this Holiday Spectacular, Matt catches listeners up on life since the Halloween Special—settling into NYC, solo traveling to London, and navigating dating in a new city.He reads listener-submitted Holiday Scaries, covering everything from hooking up with your crush at the holiday party and surviving Christmas shopping to handling political differences with family once the wine starts flowing.Matt also talks about the importance of gay representation in TV, how one very hot show unexpectedly got him into hockey, and how coming out helped him stop people-pleasing and care less about internet opinions and hate comments.The episode wraps with updates on The 29 Project and a preview of what’s coming in Season 2 of The Scaries Podcast.

Tricks, Treats, & Twinks 02.11.2025 1h 38min

Matt and his resident twink/BFF Billy Duke are back from the dead for a special out-of-season Scaries episode filled with horror stories, costume changes, and way too many tequila shots. From listener-submitted scaries to Matt’s own coming-out horror stories, nothing is off-limits. It’s spooky, it’s messy, and it’s the unhinged Halloween special you didn’t know you needed — complete with ghosts, gays, and good tequila.

Moving, Breakups & Being on Your Own 14.09.2025 49min

In the Season One finale, Matt unpacks what it really means to start over—moving to a new city, navigating breakups and open relationships, and finding comfort in your own company. From adjusting to life post-move in NYC to embracing independence, he shares the lessons and mindset shifts that have shaped this chapter. Plus, a look ahead at what’s coming for Season Two of The Scaries Podcast.

Dating Heart Attacks & Family Group Chat Disasters ft. The Batchelder Bros 07.09.2025 58min

The Batchelder Brothers (Chad and Sammy) join Matt on the couch for an unhinged mix of dating disasters, family confessions, and career chaos. Together they tackle Scaries like: a date having a heart attack, accidentally sending a nude to the family group chat, an ex getting a face tattoo after a breakup, and the ultimate debate—eating ass on the first date. Plus, they open up about how growing up with sisters shaped them, share job interview advice, and even weigh in on what happens when your boss ends up pregnant.

Interviewing Singles at a Dating Event 01.09.2025 58min

Who said dating has to be scary? This episode comes straight from the Banners Bachelor singles event, where the drinks were flowing, the crowd was buzzing, and love (or at least situationships) was in the air. Guests from the audience share their Sunday Scaries—ranging from awkward hookups to growing up in a cult—and help prove that no topic is off limits. It’s your all-access pass to the chaos, laughs, and romance of Boston’s most unforgettable singles night.

How to Quit Your Job and Build a Career You Love 24.08.2025 55min

In this episode, Matt shares the story of how he went from being the son of first-generation Italian immigrants—both entrepreneurs themselves—to carving his own path from a top university into a corporate career at PepsiCo. Along the way, he learned the ins and outs of brand management and intrapreneurship inside Fortune 500 companies, but something was missing.Matt opens up about how starting a side hustle alongside his 9-to-5 turned into the spark that changed everything, eventually giving him the confidence to quit his job and pursue social media and podcasting full time. He also reflects on how his coming-out journey intersected with finding passion and purpose, and why building a career around what you love, what you’re good at, and what financially sustains you is the ultimate form of freedom.Whether you’re feeling stuck in your job, dreaming about your own side hustle, or searching for work that truly fulfills you, this episode is packed with inspiration and practical takeaways to help you take the leap.

Sweaty Scaries, Situationships & Soaked Sheets 17.08.2025 44min

This week’s episode is extra sweaty—recorded live at Ritual Social Wellness Club. Four guests pulled straight from the crowd join in to share their Sunday Scaries and help answer them. From two-year-long situationships to boyfriends with tragic guitar obsessions to men peeing the bed after a hookup, nothing is off-limits. Plus, a look at Ritual as a sweaty, healthier alternative to meeting people at the club. Hydrate for this one—you’ll need it.

Reflection, Growth thru Grindr, and New Beginnings 10.08.2025 57min

In this milestone 20th episode, Matt reflects on the past six months of The Scaries podcast and shares how social media played a pivotal role in his coming out journey. He recounts the first person he ever came out to, the moment he downloaded Grindr for the first time, and how that led to an avalanche of positive life changes. Plus, he talks about his upcoming move to New York City—why he's making the leap and what this next chapter means. Tune in for real talk, personal reflections, and a look at the exciting changes ahead.

Coming Out, Growing Up Mormon, & Dance Icks ft. Ezra Sosa 03.08.2025 54min

This week, Matt is joined by Dancing with the Stars pro and TikTok sensation Ezra Sosa for a conversation that twirls between heartfelt and hilarious. Ezra opens up about coming out to a deeply religious family, growing up Mormon, and finding freedom through dance. They dive into ballroom drama, showmances, the icks only dancers understand, and the power of embracing your truth. Plus, Matt finally learns how to salsa (kind of).

Answering Your Dating Questions with Juliana Pasquarosa 27.07.2025 31min

Matt hosts the first-ever Scaries live show at The Tall Ship in Boston with The Handle Bar—and the chaos did not disappoint. With help from Juliana Pasquarosa, winner of ABC's The Bachelor, he dives into your wildest dating and situationship questions in real time. From hot takes to honest advice, no question was off limits. Plus, some hilarious crowd stories and spontaneous submissions.