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  BDSM, Kink & Open Relationships- The Rules Nobody Teaches You 16.09.2026 2ч 15мин

  Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLL!!!!!!!This week on Hard or Soft, we’re joined by Dre for a deep dive into BDSM, kink culture, play parties, relationships and the history behind a community that a lot of people participate in — but may not fully understand. And somehow we start with Dre explaining why he’s out here using BOXING GLOVES to massage booty. 😂 From there, Dre takes us into the world of rope and body suspension, explaining the different levels of suspension, why properly distributing someone’s weight matters, and what draws people to the experience in the first place. Then we get into the HISTORY. Dre breaks down the roots of leather culture, BDSM and kink, including the influence of LGBTQ+ communities on the culture that exists today. We discuss why some longtime members of those communities are critical of a newer generation entering kink spaces, hosting events and adopting practices without learning the history, traditions and responsibilities that came before them. Then we bring everything back to relationships. Tahoe and Dre explain why they’ve chosen not to sexually engage with attendees while they’re hosting play parties. We talk about the best way to tell your partner you’re interested in someone else at a party, what happens when your kinks DON’T match your partner’s, and how to respectfully approach a couple when you’re interested in connecting with one of them. And then comes the conversation a lot of men aren’t prepared to have: How do men navigate their partners having other male partners? We get into jealousy, communication, boundaries, multiple relationship dynamics outside of a primary partnership, and whether wanting freedom for yourself means being prepared to give your partner that same freedom. This isn’t just a conversation about what people do in kink spaces — it’s about understanding the culture, communication, consent and history behind them. Welcome back to Hard or Soft.Socials:Dre@BeatsByDre on FetlifeGo to @HausofBliss on Instagram for event detailsCourtney@Courtney_Shav on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:Soaking WetGo to SoakingWet.com and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% offGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow  
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  What Makes Someone REALLY Good In Bed? Confidence, Anxiety & Communication Feat @SkipFromBK 09.09.2026 1ч 45мин

  Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CALLLLLL!!!!!!!!This week on Hard or Soft, Courtney gets an unexpected business opportunity when a fan propositions her for feet pictures — and somehow that’s only the BEGINNING of where this episode goes. We get into why American women seem to love British men, which leads Tahoe, Yesssterday and Skip to announce their upcoming trip to London to find out whether English women have that same energy for American men. Then we’re talking about what actually makes someone GOOD in the bedroom. How soon should you start discussing sex with someone you’re dating? Why do nerds have a reputation for being surprisingly great lovers? And could something as simple as being able to admit when you’re wrong actually make you better in bed? We also have a real conversation about male performance anxiety and how anxiety can affect the way men physically show up in sexual and play-party environments. Skip opens up about how becoming part of the Hard or Soft / Nut Navy community has helped increase his confidence, and the crew discusses why some women can be so judgmental about men using sexual performance enhancements. Plus, we’re breaking down bedroom communication, sex positions that look like WAY more work than fun, Tahoe somehow ends up with Skip as his “astral penis,” and Skip tells us exactly what he likes — and doesn’t like — in the bedroom. Courtney returns with Kink of the Week, Yesssterday has a brand-new listener confession, and Tahoe makes an important announcement regarding Loon’s departure from Hard or Soft. Funny, informative, vulnerable and completely inappropriate in all the ways you’ve come to expect from Hard or Soft. Welcome back to the Nut Navy.Socials:Skip@SkipFromBK on all socialsTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:LoadBoostVisit Loadboost.com and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% offGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow  
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  Our Traumas Can Determine Our Kinks Feat Daddy Doyenne 02.09.2026 1ч 34мин

  Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLL!!!!!!!!This week Tahoe and Yesssterday sit with lifestyle domme and kink educator Daddy Doyenne to talk why they dont date straight men, the uncomfortablity Tahoe feels as a straight man being tip toeing around LGBTQIA and Cis womens traumas, should straight ppl and LGBQTIA segregate to maintain the peace, the origin of Daddys "demon" persona, what Daddys experience growing up was like and whather her family was supportive of it, establishing boundaries and knowing when to let ppl go, how speaking about these topics lets people know its ok to live in their truths and much more!! ENJOY!Socials:Daddy [email protected] on Instagram@Daddy_Doyenne on TwitterDaddyDoyenne.comTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:GetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow  
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  Great Sex vs Sexual Chemistry: What's The Difference? I Cheating, Pleasure & Bedroom Confessions Feat Kelly Moonstone 27.08.2026 1ч 41мин

  Nut Navy ROLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!This week on Hard or Soft, music artist and producer Kelly Moonstone joins the crew for a completely shameless conversation about pleasure, cheating, sexual chemistry and what men and women REALLY expect from each other in the bedroom. Why do some people feel guilty after pleasuring themselves? And we tackle an even crazier question: Can cheating ever actually SAVE a relationship? Is infidelity always the beginning of the end, or can what happens afterward expose problems a couple needed to confront? Then it’s confession time: What’s something you did because you were horny that you had absolutely NO business doing? 😂 We also break down the difference between great sex and genuine sexual chemistry—because they’re definitely not always the same thing. Then the men turn the conversation toward women: What are five things women can do to be better in the bedroom? And why do some women expect men to bring their A-game sexually without putting that same level of effort into pleasing their partner? Kelly Moonstone joins us for all of it as we talk pleasure, attraction, effort, chemistry, cheating and the things people don’t always admit about their sex lives. Welcome to Hard or Soft—where nothing about sex and relationships is off limits.ENJOY!!Tickets for our Halloween party are NOW ON SALE!!! Email us at [email protected] to request the ticket link IF you have already been vetted or go to TheHardorSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting formSocials:Kelly@KellyMoonStone on InstagramCourtney@Courtney_Shav on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:Drive BoostVisit VB.Health and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% offGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow  
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  Does Size Really Matter? Sex Symbols, Bedroom Confidence & Wild Confessions 20.08.2026 1ч 39мин

  Nut Navy ROLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!This week on Hard or Soft, the crew gets into a wild conversation about attraction, sex appeal and what really makes someone unforgettable in the bedroom. Are Black men too critical of Black women? How many people have probably pleasured themselves while thinking about you—or looking at your pictures? And the question nobody knew we needed answered: Is Tahoe actually a sex symbol? 👀 Tahoe also reveals his latest sex-toy purchases before the crew breaks down how men with smaller packages can still show up with confidence in the bedroom. Plus, Tahoe tells the story of how his girl actually studied the videos he sent her, took notes and came back ready to experiment. 😂 Then we get into backhanded sexual compliments, Courtney’s Kink of the Week, and Yesssterday introduces a brand-new Confessions segment that immediately goes completely off the rails. Sex, relationships, attraction, bedroom confidence, kinks and absolutely zero shame—welcome back to Hard or Soft.SocialsCourtney@Courtney_Shav on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:Drive BoostVisit VB.Health and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% offGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow Enjoy!
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  I Have A Freaky Side That I Cant Tell My Wife About 13.08.2026 1ч 52мин

  Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAAALLLLLL!!!!!!!!This week we welcome musician Denhim to the couch as we talk Courtney listening to True Crime pods and of course Tahoe finds a way to relate it to secks, not being able to tell your partner about your kinks, Tahoe being the face of men getting their groceries eaten and being hit on by his ghey fans, whether its going too far for him and why ghey men try straight men, Denhims music career and how he likes living in NY, the toxic inspiration behind some of the songs on his album and catching his partner having secks with his bestie, the difference between dating down south and dating in NY, the  physical touch love language and how it relates to men vs how it relates to women, ppl expecting secks after the first date and actually demanding secks, not intiating enough witrh your partner, being irresponsible with your dick and SO much more!! ENJOY!!!!Subscribe to our Patreon to join our Patreon, watch our Patreon only shows and see the show visuals!!Socials:Denhim@ItsDenhim on InstagramCourtney@Courtney_Shav on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:Soaking WetVisit SoakingWet.com and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% offGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
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  Why Am I Always Being Judged For Being Secksual?? 06.08.2026 1ч 54мин

  Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLL!!!!!This week Courtney rejoins the cast as we talk people lying on their secks game, advocating for micro peens, Tahoe gifts Yesssterday with his first male secks toy, when should women pull out their secks toy on a guy, the proper way to use anull beads, Tahoes wife surprises him with a game, Courtneys new and improved secks life, how to properly hit the different climax spots in the vulva, how many holes does the vulva have, why Courtney came back to the show, the difficulties that come while living in your secksual truth, being in a marraige where only one person initiates, the best position to eat cat in, and what is the best time to have secks outside on your patio?? ENJOY!!!Listen To the full episode ad free on Patreon now!!Socials:Courtney@Courtney_Shav on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:LoadBoostVisit LoadBoost.com and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% offGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
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  Are White Men Easier For Black Women To Date? 30.07.2026 1ч 50мин

  Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLL!!!!!!!This week we welcome Zeema of the Honestly Tho podcast to talk her getting favors and offerings from white men, dating white men and why she thinks it is easier to date them than black men, being turned off by a man after pegging him and why she feels that being pegged isnt for "straight' men, the difference in beauty standards for white women vs black women, warming the booty hole up for penetration, recycling nudes and the best camera tricks to take nude videos with, Tahoes love for toys and what he gets out of it, 5 ways to be a dicksman, and more!!! ENJOY!Listen To the full episode ad free on Patreon now!!Socials:Zima @TopTier_Zee on InstagramHonestly Tho Podcast@_HonestlyThoPodcast on InstagramCourtney@Courtney_Shav on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:GetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
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  343. Damn My P*ssy Grew Alot!! Feat Goddess Jessi 22.07.2026 2ч 4мин

  Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLL!!!!This week we sit with The Sweet Love Sanctuary's own Goddess Jessi to talk balancing your energy, where Goddess Jessi originally met Tahoe and Loon, the definition of the word "Goddess", defining the Sweet Love Sanctuary, living a polyamorous lifestyle and Goddess Jessi's liberation, the reaction that Goddess Jessi receives when she lets potential partners know that she is married but open, Tahoe and his trash d*ck days, the guys experiences with women that maybe weren't too favorable, having a good d*ck radar and so much more! ENJOY!!Socials:GoddessJessi@SweetLoveSanctuary on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:Drive BoostVisit VB.Health and use code HardOrSoft for 10% offGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
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  342. You Can Fk Her But NO CUDDLING! Feat @NYCThickums 16.07.2026 2ч 7мин

  Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!This week we welcome @NYCThickums to talk women loving boyfriend d*ck, trying to be with someone with a smaller member and the adjustments she tried to make to make it work, testing the bewtyhole to see if men were with bewty play, the connection between mens ego and secks, what pp get from swapping partners or letting them have secks with other ppl, being open to sharing your partner and the scale of boundaries that people place on such activities, the conversations that need to be had before opening your relationship, the effect of religion on your secksual inhibitions, and so much more!! ENJOY!!Socials:@NYCThickums on Instagram@ThisBronxGirlWrites for her blogTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:Soaking WetVisit SoakingWet.com and use code HardOrSoft for 10% offGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
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  341. Is A Little Delulu Necessary? Feat @TheRealMarkel 08.07.2026 2ч 2мин

  Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!This week we welcome Markel Logan Coleman (@TheRealMarkel) to talk not telling the truth in the bedroom, how the miltary shaped some of Markels personality traits, having an affair on his then boyfriend with his now husband, understanding why some ppl cheat, allowing your partner to step out for freaky tithings, and Markel takes over the show to ask Loon and Yesssterday some questions. ENJOY!Socials:Markel@TheRealMarkel on instagramLoon@KingLoonthe1st on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:LoadBoostVisit LoadBoost.com and use code HardOrSoft for 10% offGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
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  340. Being Gay is Actually Mad Lit Feat Mr Dominus 01.07.2026 2ч 13мин

  Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLL!!! Strap yourselves in TIGHT because this episode is a DOOZY!! Mr Dominus steps in and takes Tahoe and Loon for the ride of their lives as we talk poly and hierarchical relationships and whether gay men suffer from the same ego/control and jealousy that staright men go through in their relationships. Trying to explain to your partner that you needing other ppl has nothing to do with them, Dominus being a platinum gay member and what it takes to maintain that member status, different hookup sites in the Gay community and how free gay men are in their secksual exploits, Dominus love language, where his arousal to men comes from and when he realized he was gay. The convo gets intense as he talks his west indian family and their response to his sexual orientation and lifestyle, wearing flags to show what types of kinks you're into, his love for  and SOOOO much more. This is a Platinum level episode!!! ENJOY!!!Socials:Dominus@MrDominus_DC on InstagramListen to the @FreakNSeePodcastLoon@KingLoonthe1st on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:GetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
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  339. Why Cant More Women Be Like Daphne Joy Feat Marley Moore 24.06.2026 1ч 51мин

  Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!This week we welcome an old friend of the show, content creator and corn star Marley Moore, to talk Tahoes lil man not being present, Daphne Joys effect on men since shes been doing interviews, why women dont like Daphne Joy, Marleys early retirement and getting back into the corn game, how corn has changed, Being a sensual Domme and what that entails, Domme'ing Yt guys vs Domme'ing Black guys (specifically Yesssterday), the domme who went to jail for a kink gon wrong, what a JOI is and how Marley gives them, women sneaking out cums and men being able to tell or not being able to tell when a woman climaxes and so much more... ENJOY!!!SocialsMarley@MarleyDaBooty on Twitter@MarleyXMoore on InstagramLoon@KingLoonthe1st on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:LoadBoostVisit LoadBoost.com and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off or click hereGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
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  338. Are We Identifying Ourselves or Are We Being Branded? Feat Lamark and Chelsea 17.06.2026 2ч 3мин

  Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!This week we welcome Lamark and Chelsea of Lamark After Dark as we ask whats TOO horny, who is hornier straight ppl or the lgbt community, sharing locations with your partner, straight guys that like ssa play and the women who wont date them, water sports and the people who like it, why women hate guys that ask them to get it hard for them, why straight men are so caught up on being super masculine, the effect women have on straight mens seckuality, the war between straights and gays and why it is, gay guys mistaken freindship from straight men for them possibly being interested in more, Tahoe plans a trip for his lady and the kinky things they got into. Great Episode yall!!! ENJOY!!!'Tickets almost sold out for Freaknik In Brooklyn!! email us at [email protected] for the ticket link or go to TheHardorSoftShow.com to fill out the vetting form Socials:Lamark@Lamark_Fresh on InstagramChelsea@OMGItsNettai on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:Drive BoostVisit VB.Health and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off or click hereGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWHead To TheHardOrSoftShow.com and visit our shop to purchase the Sidekick and other Bedroom Kandi toysPatreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
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  337. Is There A Part Of The Spectrum Called Being Dicktistic?? 10.06.2026 1ч 39мин

  Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!This week the guys talk women who actually love sucking, Madame Se calls in to discuss the guys perspective about Daphne Joy, why some men dont want to "slut their wives out", Tahoe being open to his partner being with other people, men liking women that have a scent to their private parts vs guys that dont, and Young MA says she "targets" straight women and enjoys dating them more than bi or lesbian women. About to go get on a plane.. ENJOY!!!!Tickets almost sold out for Freaknik In Brooklyn!! email us at [email protected] for the ticket link or go to TheHardorSoftShow.com to fill out the vetting form Socials:Loon@KingLoonthe1st on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:Drive BoostVisit VB.Health and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off or click hereGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
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  336. Secks Explained with Krystal Tantric Yogi 03.06.2026 2ч 9мин

  Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLL!!!!!!!!This week we welcome tantic yogi instructor @KrystalTantricYogi to talk experiencing secks through your real feelings instead of just trying to get to a goal, discovering a new relationship with secks and her body after getting into tantra and yogi, men not being ready to experiencing true feelings because of a fear of vulnerability, entering into the psychic world and the females cosmic cavern, men valuing their penis and understanding how important penetration is to women, sharing your energy with someone who does not deserve it, TRIGGER WARNING ...we speak about Daphne Joys response to her seckstape being released against her will.. (sensitive topic)..annnnd Tahoe introduces a new segment. ENJOY!!!!Tickets to the FreakNik In Brooklyn party are on sale NOW!! email us at [email protected] if you have been vetted to get the ticket link or go to our website at TheHardorSoftShow.com to fill out the vetting formSocials:Krystal@KrystalTantricYogi On InstagramJoin Krystals patreon at Patreon.com/SexExplainedLoon@KingLoonthe1st on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:LoadBoostVisit LoadBoost.com and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off or click hereGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
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  335. I'ma Need You To Come Catch this Gooch 28.05.2026 1ч 51мин

  Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!This week the guys talk aggressive women talking their pants off, switching personalities in the bedroom, do men reveal how freaky they are first or do we wait to see where women are at with it, how men get women to eat the bussy, who was more into discovering booty play men or women, the best position to try anal for the first time, do we share the corn we like with our partners, feeling unsafe sharing your freaky side with your partner, wacking off in the shower, women taking the lead in the bedroom, our fav tracks off the drake albums to have secks to and more..ENJOY!!Tickets to the FreakNik In Brooklyn party are on sale NOW!! email us at [email protected] if you have been vetted to get the ticket link or go to our website at TheHardorSoftShow.com to fill out the vetting formSocials:Loon@KingLoonthe1st on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:Soaking WetVisit soakingwet.com and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off or click hereGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
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  334. Courtneys Farewell 20.05.2026 1ч 31мин

  Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!After almost two years on the show Courtney bows out and wishes the guys farewell as she decides to move on from being a host of the show. We discuss the reasons she decided to leave and recap our time together on the show. We also talk flirting just to flirt, screaming someones name while you masturbate, spiritual handjobs??, and Tahoe asks what happened to the superhead movement. Then the crew surprise Courtney with a farewell gift.... ENJOY!!Interested in coming to our July 18th play party? Email us at [email protected] if you have been vetted already or go to our website TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out our vetting formSocials:Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterCourtney@Courtney_Shav on InstagramLoon@Kingloonthe1st on InstagramVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:LoadBoostVisit LoadBoost.com and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off GetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
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  333b. I'm A Professional Side Dude (Part Two) 16.05.2026 1ч 31мин

  Its a Saturday ROLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!The episode continues with Marcus and Imani. Full Description might get uploaded later.Sponsored by Load BoostVisit LoadBoost.com and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off. 
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  333a. I'm A Professional Side Dude Feat Marcus and Imani (Part One) 14.05.2026 1ч 19мин

  Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!This week we welcome Marcus, a self proclaimed Side Dude and Imani, a working actress and producer to talk not wanting to have secks with your partner all the time, not being able to perform when you want to, Marcus side dude adventures and relationships, needing to feel exclusive in the way your married bae cheats with you, getting a women that cheats not being the flex that men think, Imani attending one of Tahoe's first play parties, and how we would respond when a person youre dating revealing one of their kinks to you. Tune into part two this Saturday or visit our patreon to hear the full episode ad free right now!Interested in coming to our July 18th play party? Email us at [email protected] if you have been vetted already or go to our website TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out our vetting formSocials:Marcus@IMoveDifferent and @MarcusHereToHelp on InstagramImani@ImaniBlair on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:LoadBoostVisit LoadBoost.com and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off or click hereGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow