Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

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  Let Him Lead. A Call to Godly Wives. 17.09.2026 39мин

  Send us Fan Mail “Let him lead” can sound like a fight waiting to happen, especially if you’ve seen leadership used as control or heard submission preached like silence. We take a different route. From the jump, we talk about real marriage pain, the slow buildup of offense, and why we refuse to settle for a bad relationship. After 27 years together, we’ve learned that the marriage doesn’t change because one person “wins” a debate. It changes when we get healthier, more honest, and more aligne...
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  How to Stop Bumping Heads With Others 10.09.2026 37мин

  Send us Fan Mail The conflict is not always about the conflict. Sometimes it is pride trying to stay in control, old wounds looking for a target, or a tone that makes people stop hearing your idea and start bracing for impact. If you keep “bumping heads” with your spouse, coworkers, family, or leaders, we are getting honest about the patterns that create repeated relational tension and the habits that can finally break it. We start with the hardest question to ask: what part do I play? From ...
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  How Resentment Slowly Destroys a Marriage 03.09.2026 22мин

  Send us Fan Mail Resentment doesn’t usually sound like yelling. It sounds like “I’m fine,” feels like distance on the couch, and shows up as keeping score in your head. Ken and Tabatha Claytor get real about how resentment slowly destroys a marriage, not through one huge betrayal, but through small disappointments that never get processed and eventually turn into emotional coldness. We talk through personal stories from our own 27-year marriage, including seasons where resentment hid b...
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  Understanding the Fear of the Lord 27.08.2026 38мин

  Send us Fan Mail Casual faith sounds harmless until it starts reshaping your conscience. We sit down and talk honestly about the fear of the Lord and why it is not panic, paranoia, or an angry-God mindset. For us, it’s reverence, awe, and a real awareness of God’s holiness that shows up most in private, when nobody is watching and no one is clapping for you. We get practical about what that reverence produces: integrity, quick obedience, humility, and strong guardrails that keep your marriag...
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  Why Are So Many Good Marriages Quietly Falling Apart? 20.08.2026 28мин

  Send us Fan Mail A marriage can be stable on paper and still feel strangely far apart at home. We’re talking about the slow drift: the subtle, gradual disconnect that happens when life gets loud, schedules take over, and the relationship starts running on autopilot. If you’ve ever thought, “Nothing is technically wrong, but something feels off,” this conversation is your wake-up call and your roadmap back. We get personal about what drift looked like in our own marriage after 27 years,...
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  The Most Common Lies Satan Uses — And How to Break Free 13.08.2026 34мин

  Send us Fan Mail The most dangerous prisons don’t have bars, they have beliefs. Ken and Tabatha Claytor go straight at the core of spiritual warfare: the lies that shape how we see ourselves, how we see God, and what we think is possible. We talk about deliverance in a way that’s both biblical and practical, not just a moment in a corner somewhere, but the everyday freedom that happens when you replace deception with truth. We unpack why you can accept Christ and still feel bound, and why de...
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  Your Sons & Daughters Will Prophesy 06.08.2026 37мин

  Send us Fan Mail Your words are doing more than describing your life. They’re shaping it. Ken and Tabatha Claytor dig into the Scripture “your sons and your daughters shall prophesy” and make a bold case that prophecy isn’t reserved for a select few with a title. It’s a Spirit-empowered way for everyday believers to speak God’s truth with faith, authority, and love, whether you’re navigating marriage stress, parenting worries, a hard workplace, or a health report you didn’t want. We un...
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  How To Love Your Spouse When You Do Not Like Them 30.07.2026 34мин

  Send us Fan Mail What do you do when you still love your spouse, but you honestly do not like them right now? We go straight into the real-life stuff couples actually fight about: lights left on, shoes where they “shouldn’t” be, house rules, and that moment when a simple reminder suddenly sounds like disrespect. We laugh, but we also get serious about how tiny irritations can grow into contempt when we turn a habit into a verdict on someone’s character. From there, we unpack a marriage...
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  Five Practical Ways To Care For Your Husband With Faith And Respect 23.07.2026 48мин

  Send us Fan Mail What if the next breakthrough in your marriage is something simple you can do this week at home, not a huge speech or a dramatic reset? We sit down for a Valentine’s week conversation that gets practical fast, sharing five real-world ways a wife can care for her husband in a way that changes the atmosphere of the whole house. We start with honor, because respect is not fluff, it is fuel. From how you greet each other to the tiny “family culture” moments like dinner routines ...
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  The Number One Thing Wives Need 16.07.2026 47мин

  Send us Fan Mail What if the biggest breakthrough in your marriage is waiting on the other side of real leadership at home? Ken and Tabatha Claytor sit down for a direct, honest conversation aimed at husbands, future husbands, and anyone who wants a healthier Christian marriage. We talk to the man who’s doing his best and also to the man who’s stuck, tired, isolated, or never had a model for what faithful, strong, tender love even looks like. We unpack why men need other men, why isolation q...
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  God’s Design For Sex 09.07.2026 47мин

  Send us Fan Mail Most couples don’t break because they stop loving each other. They break because they stop feeling connected, and one of the fastest places that disconnection shows up is sexual intimacy. We go straight at the uncomfortable question many married Christians whisper but rarely say out loud: why does sex in marriage so often drift into frustration, avoidance, pressure, or a roommate vibe? We unpack God’s design for sex with clarity and zero shame: yes, it’s for procreation, but...
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  How to Fight for Your Marriage Together 02.07.2026 40мин

  Send us Fan Mail What if the tension in your home isn’t proof you married the wrong person, but proof you’re fighting the wrong enemy? We get real about spiritual warfare in marriage, and we start with a mindset shift that can change everything: it’s not husband versus wife, it’s two people standing together against division, bitterness, and deception. We open up about our own early years, including the ugly patterns that too many couples normalize: resentment, the silent treatment, manipula...
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  How To Save A Marriage With Better Thoughts 25.06.2026 29мин

  Send us Fan Mail A marriage can look fine on the outside while quietly getting torn down from the inside by one habit: a critical inner dialogue. We get honest about what happens when you replay a moment, assume the worst, and start building a case against the person you love. If you’ve ever thought “What did they mean by that?” and felt the rabbit hole open up, this conversation gives you a better way forward. We talk about what it means to defend your spouse to yourself and why that ...
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  Why Keeping A List Of Wrongs Kills Intimacy And How To Let It Go 18.06.2026 27мин

  Send us Fan Mail Keeping a mental list of your spouse’s mistakes feels like self-protection, but it quietly turns your home into a courtroom. When every argument pulls out old receipts, intimacy dies, progress feels impossible, and “I forgive you” starts sounding like a trap. We get honest about what list keeping really is: mentally recording mistakes, replaying past failures, storing hurt for future fights, and measuring your spouse by who they used to be instead of who they are becoming.&nb...
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  Seven Biblical Steps To Turn A Bad Marriage Around 11.06.2026 38мин

  Send us Fan Mail A bad marriage can feel like you’re trapped in the same house with a stranger, stuck between “I don’t want to leave” and “I can’t do this anymore.” We go straight at that tension with humility and authority, because we’ve lived it. After 26 years of marriage and a rough start that nearly ended in divorce, we’ve learned that a struggling marriage is often less about “the wrong person” and more about missing tools, missing clarity, and missing spiritual covering. We talk throu...
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  How To Heal Emotional Wounds Before They Harden 04.06.2026 28мин

  Send us Fan Mail Hurt has a way of sneaking into every relationship, and if we don’t deal with it, it doesn’t just fade. It hardens. Ken and Tabitha Claytor get honest about how emotional wounds, unmet expectations, betrayal, and disappointment can quietly turn into bitterness that reshapes your personality, drains your joy, and poisons your marriage, friendships, and faith. We talk through what hurt really is, why “church hurt” is often just people hurt, and how maturity means learning to s...
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  Spiritual Warfare 101 | How The Enemy Targets Believers And How To Fight Back 28.05.2026 41мин

  Send us Fan Mail Some battles don’t start in your schedule, your bank account, or your relationships. They start as a thought you never challenge, a fear you keep feeding, or an offense you refuse to release. We talk about spiritual warfare with a steady head and a strong spine: not blaming the devil for every problem, but also not pretending the enemy isn’t real or organized. We walk through what spiritual warfare actually looks like for believers, why the mind is such a target, and how dec...
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  Breaking Ungodly Soul Ties | How to Break Soul Ties & Be FREE! 21.05.2026 38мин

  Send us Fan Mail We name the difference between healthy and unhealthy soul ties, then get honest about why certain relationships keep pulling us back even when they hurt. We walk through spiritual and practical steps to break ungodly connections and close with a renouncing prayer for healing and freedom. • defining soul ties as emotional, mental, and will-level bonding • healthy soul ties in marriage, family, mentorship, and godly friendship • unhealthy soul ties formed thr...
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  David's Heart | Developing a Heart That God Promotes 14.05.2026 39мин

  Send us Fan Mail We talk about why God promotes trustworthy people over simply gifted people, using David’s life to show what a heart after God actually looks like under pressure. We unpack honor, repentance, private integrity, and worship as the habits that keep your heart clean when influence grows. • David’s origin story as the overlooked shepherd anointed for leadership • why time with God shapes a worshipful heart • repentance as the key difference between David and Sau...
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  How To Heal A Broken Marriage 07.05.2026 42мин

  Send us Fan Mail A marriage can look “fine” on paper and still feel dead in the day to day. If you’re living in the same house but the air feels cold, the talks are short, trust is thin, and intimacy feels complicated, we want to give you real hope and real tools. We tell the truth about our own early years, including the season when Ken privately planned a divorce, the confusion and immaturity that made small issues feel unfixable, and how depression and anxiety impacted Tabitha’s ability t...