Beyond Mommy Dearest Podcast

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  Toxic Parents, Religious Trauma & No Contact: Breaking Narcissistic Family Cycles with Therapist Sandra Fraser Maurer 18.09.2026 1ч 10мин

  Reach out! You don't have to explain how crazy she was. We believe you!!! What happens when healing allows you to recognize that the relationships you once considered normal were actually harmful? In this candid and wide-ranging conversation, Noelani sits down with licensed professional clinical counselor Sandra Fraser Maurer to explore childhood trauma, narcissistic family systems, parent-child estrangement, religious trauma, perimenopause, intergenerational trauma, and the grief of going n...
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  It’s Them, Not You: Toxic Parents, Childhood Trauma, No Contact & Breaking the Cycle 11.09.2026 59мин

  Reach out! You don't have to explain how crazy she was. We believe you!!! Content Warning: This episode includes discussion of childhood abuse, domestic violence, addiction, suicide, family trauma, and estrangement. Please take care of yourself while listening. If you are in the U.S. and experiencing a mental health crisis or need immediate emotional support, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. If you are outside the U.S., please contact your country’s local crisis l...
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  Childhood Trauma & the Nervous System: Why Anxiety May Be a Trauma Response | Traumality 04.09.2026 1ч 3мин

  Reach out! You don't have to explain how crazy she was. We believe you!!! What if anxiety, hypervigilance, shutdown, and other mental health struggles aren't simply about what is “wrong” with us, but about what happened to us? In this episode of Beyond Mommy Dearest, Noelani speaks with filmmaker Ton Mazzone, creator of the documentary Traumality, about the connection between childhood trauma, the nervous system, mental health, relationships, and healing. Ton shares how his own struggles w...
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  Healing After Narcissistic Abuse: EMDR, Complex Trauma and Reclaiming Your Life 28.08.2026 1ч 5мин

  Reach out! You don't have to explain how crazy she was. We believe you!!! Why do so many narcissistic abuse survivors remain trapped in self-doubt, shame and hypervigilance, even when they appear highly successful? In this episode of Beyond Mommy Dearest, Noelani speaks with Barbara, a New Jersey therapist specializing in narcissistic abuse recovery and complex trauma. Barbara shares how her own experience with therapists who did not understand narcissistic abuse inspired her to pursue spe...
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  Narcissism Is Everywhere: Childhood Trauma, Toxic Leadership, Power & AI 23.08.2026 1ч 5мин

  Reach out! You don't have to explain how crazy she was. We believe you!!! Narcissism Is Everywhere: Childhood Trauma, Toxic Leadership, Power & AI Trigger warning: This episode includes discussion of childhood trauma, narcissistic and emotional abuse, substance use, overdose, politics, and other potentially difficult subjects. What happens when a conversation about narcissistic parents becomes a conversation about narcissism everywhere? In this special live episode of Beyond Mommy Deares...
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  You Left Your Narcissistic Mother. Now What? Healing, No Contact & Breaking the Cycle 21.08.2026 1ч 28мин

  Reach out! You don't have to explain how crazy she was. We believe you!!! What does it actually take to break the cycle after growing up with a narcissistic mother? In this episode of Beyond Mommy Dearest, I sit down with Leighna, The Cycle Breaking Coach, for an unfiltered conversation about growing up as the black sheep, recognizing abuse, going no contact, and discovering that leaving the relationship is sometimes only the beginning of healing. Leighna shares how becoming a mother changed...
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  Surviving a Narcissistic Mother: Childhood Trauma, Sexual Abuse & Breaking the Cycle 14.08.2026 1ч 4мин

  Reach out! You don't have to explain how crazy she was. We believe you!!! Trigger warning: Today’s episode includes conversations about childhood sexual abuse, physical and emotional abuse, narcissistic abuse, and family trauma. What happens when the person who was supposed to protect you becomes the source of your trauma? In this deeply personal episode of Beyond Mommy Dearest, Noelani sits down with Alex, founder of Fuck the Abuser, to talk about surviving childhood abuse, narcissi...
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  The Hidden Damage of Narcissistic Mothers | How to Heal and Reclaim Yourself 07.08.2026 1ч 7мин

  Reach out! You don't have to explain how crazy she was. We believe you!!! The Hidden Damage of Narcissistic Mothers | How to Heal and Reclaim Yourself What happens when the person who was supposed to love and protect you instead competes with you, manipulates you, and leaves you questioning your worth? In this deeply moving conversation, I sit down with Lydia, artist, TEDx speaker, founder of Girls on Country, and coach for daughters of narcissistic mothers. Together we explore the unique w...
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  The False Prophet: How Cult Leaders and Narcissists Use the Same Psychological Abuse Tactics 31.07.2026 59мин

  Reach out! You don't have to explain how crazy she was. We believe you!!! What happens when a narcissist gains absolute power? In this powerful episode, I sit down with Dr. Christine Marie, featured in Netflix's Trust Me: The False Prophet, to discuss her undercover work helping expose Samuel Bateman and rescue women and children from coercive control. While this story centers on a cult, the psychological tactics will sound incredibly familiar to anyone raised by a narcissistic parent or...
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  Caring for aging Narcissistic Parents: How to Protect your peace after No Contact Part 2 ⭐ 24.07.2026 1ч 1мин

  Reach out! You don't have to explain how crazy she was. We believe you!!! Caring for aging Narcissistic Parents: How to Protect your peace after No Contact Part 2 ⭐ When children grow up in abusive, chaotic, or violent homes, siblings often become each other's lifeline. The bond formed through surviving trauma together can create an unspoken promise: I'll protect you, no matter what. In this powerful conversation, we explore how those childhood survival strategies continue into adulthood, e...
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  The Hidden Cost of Narcissistic Mothers on Sons: Family Court, Parental Alienation & Healing ⭐ 17.07.2026 1ч

  Reach out! You don't have to explain how crazy she was. We believe you!!! What happens when the person who should have protected you becomes the source of your deepest wounds? In this episode of Beyond Mommy Dearest, John shares his journey of growing up with a narcissistic mother, the lasting impact of childhood emotional abuse, and how those experiences followed him into fatherhood, family court, and parental alienation. Most importantly, he shares how choosing love, boundaries, and healin...
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  Caring for Aging Narcissistic Parents: How to Protect Your Peace After No Contact | Part 1 ⭐ 10.07.2026 1ч 17мин

  Reach out! You don't have to explain how crazy she was. We believe you!!! What happens when an abusive parent grows old? For many survivors of narcissistic abuse, this is one of the most complicated questions they'll ever face. Society tells us to honor our parents, but very few people talk about what happens when those parents were the source of lifelong trauma. In Part 1 of this conversation, Katherine shares the story that led to one of the hardest decisions of her life. She opens up abou...
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  Burning It All Down: Escaping a Narcissistic Mother, Healing CPTSD, and Finding Safety 03.07.2026 1ч 6мин

  Reach out! You don't have to explain how crazy she was. We believe you!!! Burning It All Down: Escaping a Narcissistic Mother, Healing CPTSD, and Finding Safety What happens when the person who was supposed to protect you is the person who taught you that love, safety, and survival all come with conditions? In this powerful episode of Beyond Mommy Dearest, Noelani Pearl Hernandez sits down with actor, filmmaker, writer, and survivor advocate JinJara Mitchell to explore the lifelong imp...
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  Healing After Narcissistic Abuse: Rebuild Self-Trust, Heal Your Nervous System & Reclaim Yourself | Coach Denalee 26.06.2026 50мин

  Reach out! You don't have to explain how crazy she was. We believe you!!! Healing After Narcissistic Abuse: Rebuild Self-Trust, Heal Your Nervous System & Reclaim Yourself | Coach Denalee Healing from narcissistic abuse is about more than surviving—it's about rebuilding trust in yourself, calming your nervous system, and reclaiming the life that was always yours. In this episode of Beyond Mommy Dearest, Coach Denalee shares practical insights on healing holistically, setting healthy boun...
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  High-Conflict Divorce, Narcissism & Family Court: Fighting for Your Children 19.06.2026 1ч 6мин

  Reach out! You don't have to explain how crazy she was. We believe you!!! High-Conflict Divorce, Narcissism & Family Court: Fighting for Your Children Disclaimer This episode reflects personal experiences, opinions, and perspectives shared during the conversation. It is intended for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as legal advice, psychological diagnosis, medical advice, or professional guidance. Every family court case and family situation is unique. List...
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  How Narcissistic Abuse Rewires Your Nervous System: Self-Trust, Boundaries & Healing 12.06.2026 59мин

  Reach out! You don't have to explain how crazy she was. We believe you!!! In this powerful episode of Beyond Mommy Dearest, Noelani sits down with narcissistic abuse recovery coach Sami for an honest conversation about healing, self-trust, nervous system regulation, and breaking free from toxic relationship patterns. Sami shares her personal journey through multiple narcissistic relationships and explains how those experiences led her to become an advocate and coach for survivors. Together, ...
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  Safety, Self-Abandonment, and Healing After Narcissistic Parents with Christian Van Linda 05.06.2026 1ч 22мин

  Reach out! You don't have to explain how crazy she was. We believe you!!! In this powerful episode, Noelani sits down with trauma recovery advocate Chris to explore what it means to heal from narcissistic parenting and reclaim a sense of self. Chris shares his personal journey from addiction recovery to becoming one of the most recognized voices discussing narcissistic parents, childhood trauma, emotional neglect, and complex PTSD online. Together they discuss: • Why narcissistic parents tea...
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  When Love Hurts: Inside I Love You, My Narcissist 30.05.2026 1ч

  Reach out! You don't have to explain how crazy she was. We believe you!!! When Love Hurts: Inside I Love You, My Narcissist In this episode of Beyond Mommy Dearest, host Noelani Pearl Hernandez sits down with Ali and Stefanie Schmahl, the producers behind the powerful upcoming film I Love You, My Narcissist. Together, they explore the emotional complexity of loving someone whose behavior is manipulative, controlling, and deeply harmful. Allie and Stephanie share what inspired them to create...
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  Silence Was Survival Healing Became Her Voice - Barbara, Author of Spells for Surviving a Haunted Childhood 29.05.2026 1ч 4мин

  Reach out! You don't have to explain how crazy she was. We believe you!!! Silence Was Survival. Healing Became Her Voice. | Barbara, Author of Spells for Surviving a Haunted Childhood What happens when the secrets you've carried your entire life finally find their way onto the page? In this deeply moving episode of Beyond Mommy Dearest, Noelani sits down with Barbara, author of the powerful trilogy Spells for Surviving a Haunted Childhood. Through a unique blend of memoir, poetry, magical re...
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  This Is Not In Your Head: The Neuroscience of Narcissistic Abuse 22.05.2026 1ч 10мин

  Reach out! You don't have to explain how crazy she was. We believe you!!! This Is Not In Your Head: The Neuroscience of Narcissistic Abuse In this deeply validating and eye-opening episode, Noelani Pearl Hernandez sits down with Meghan Woods, Licensed MFT, Certified Clinical Trauma Professional II, and Certified Narcissistic Abuse Treatment Clinician, for a powerful conversation about the long-term impact of narcissistic abuse on the brain, nervous system, body, and identity. Together, they ...