Saved & Single

Breaking Soul Ties, Healing After Divorce & Finding Godly Love: Sealeta’s Story, Part 2 | Ep. 21 01.07.2026 1ч 5мин

In Part 2 of Sealeta’s story on the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine continues the conversation about soul ties, healing after divorce, church hurt, therapy, celibacy, and learning how to stop settling for relationships that are not aligned with God.If you’ve ever felt stuck in a situationship, struggled to break an emotional or physical attachment, ignored conviction, or wondered why it is so hard to let go of someone you know is not good for you, this episode will speak to you.Sealeta shares how she became entangled in a soul tie after divorce, how father wounds and loneliness affected her choices, and what it took for her to finally get free.She also talks about practical steps like prayer, fasting, therapy, deleting and blocking, Christian community, learning to enjoy her own company, and asking better questions while dating.This episode is for Christian singles who are divorced, widowed, never married, or dating after heartbreak while still believing God for healing, wholeness, marriage, and a relationship that honors Him.You’ll be encouraged to break unhealthy patterns, stop settling for attention, trust God’s timing, and believe that healthy love is still possible after trauma, divorce, disappointment, and church hurt.🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the Saved & Single Podcast?Apply here: https://www.savedandsinglepod.com📩 Contact / guest inquiries:dates@savedandsinglepod.com📱 Follow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/savedandsinglepod

"I Married Him 3 Times"... Trauma, Divorce, Soul Ties & Church Hurt: Sealeta's Story | Ep. 20 24.06.2026 56мин

In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Sealeta Brinkley for a powerful conversation about childhood trauma, divorce, remarriage, soul ties, church hurt, abuse, and learning how unhealed pain can repeat in relationships.If you’ve ever ignored red flags, gone back to someone who hurt you, confused familiarity with love, or wondered why you keep attracting the same patterns, this episode will speak to you.Sealeta shares how father wounds, childhood trauma, and a lack of healthy relationship examples shaped the way she viewed men, marriage, faith, and her own worth.Her story includes multiple marriages, betrayal, spiritual confusion, church hurt, and the painful journey of realizing that loving God does not mean you do not still need healing.This episode is for Christian singles who are divorced, widowed, never married, or dating after heartbreak while still believing God for love, marriage, healing, and a relationship that honors Him.You’ll be encouraged to examine your patterns, stop mistaking chaos for love, trust God’s healing process, and believe that wholeness is still possible after divorce, abuse, and disappointment.🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the Saved & Single Podcast?Apply here: https://www.savedandsinglepod.com📩 Contact / guest inquiries:dates@savedandsinglepod.com📱 Follow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/savedandsinglepod

Why Didn’t They Choose Me? Christian Dating Rejection After 40 | Ep. 19 17.06.2026 53мин

In this solo episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine has an honest conversation about Christian dating rejection, disappointment, heartbreak, and learning how to keep your eyes on God when dating does not go the way you hoped.If you’ve ever met someone you thought was “the one,” prayed about them, imagined a future, and then felt crushed when they did not choose you, this episode will speak to you.Jasmine shares personal stories about rejection, hope deferred, heartbreak, comparison, and the emotional toll of dating after 40 as a Christian single.This episode is for Christian singles who are divorced, widowed, never married, or dating after disappointment while still believing God for love, marriage, healing, and a relationship that honors Him.You’ll be encouraged to process rejection without shame, stop romanticizing people who were not meant for you, trust God through closed doors, and keep pursuing purpose while waiting.🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the Saved & Single Podcast?Apply here: https://www.savedandsinglepod.com📩 Contact / guest inquiries:dates@savedandsinglepod.com📱 Follow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/savedandsinglepod

Why We Ignore Red Flags When We’re Lonely | Ep. 18 14.06.2026 40мин

In this solo episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine has an honest conversation about why Christian singles sometimes ignore red flags when they are lonely, tired of starting over, or deeply desiring marriage.Jasmine shares a personal dating story and unpacks how loneliness, attachment, fear, physical chemistry, and the desire to be chosen can cause us to overlook spiritual incompatibility, emotional unavailability, inconsistency, and other warning signs.This episode is for Christian singles over 40 who are dating after divorce, widowhood, heartbreak, or a long dry season and want to make wise, God-honoring relationship decisions.If you’ve ever stayed too long, ignored your discernment, or tried to convince yourself someone was “good enough,” this conversation is for you.🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the Saved & Single Podcast?Apply here: https://www.savedandsinglepod.com📱 Follow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/savedandsinglepod

Is Waiting Until Marriage Still Realistic? | Christian Singles & Sex | Ep. 17 27.05.2026 53мин

In this solo episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine has an honest conversation about Christian dating, celibacy, temptation, intimacy, soul ties, and why waiting until marriage can feel so difficult in modern dating culture.Is waiting until marriage still realistic for Christian singles over 40? What happens when physical intimacy creates emotional attachment before real security exists? And how do you maintain boundaries while dating someone you’re genuinely attracted to?Jasmine discusses:• Christian dating and sex• Celibacy and temptation• Emotional attachment and soul ties• Dating after divorce or widowhood• Boundaries in Christian relationships• Loneliness, intimacy, and uncertainty in dating• How to talk about physical boundaries early• Honoring God while navigating real attractionThis episode is raw, practical, compassionate, and created for Christian singles trying to honor God while navigating dating in the real world.This episode is raw, practical, compassionate, and created for Christian singles trying to honor God while navigating dating in the real world.🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the Saved & Single Podcast?Apply here: https://www.savedandsinglepod.com📱 Follow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/savedandsinglepod

“I Want Marriage”… Why Christian Singles Still Can’t Find Love: Jason’s Story | Ep. 16 20.05.2026 1ч 4мин

Why does dating feel so difficult for Christian singles over 40 — even for people who genuinely want marriage?In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Jason Perry for an honest conversation about Christian dating, divorce, emotional maturity, loneliness, church culture, online dating, long-distance relationships, and why so many good men and women are still single.Jason opens up about what he’s truly looking for in a wife, the disconnect between expectations and reality in modern dating, and what many churches misunderstand about serving single adults.This episode discusses:• Christian dating over 40• Dating after divorce• Why good people still struggle to find love• Church culture and singles ministries• Emotional availability and compatibility• Long-distance relationships• Red flags and dating expectations• Marriage-minded dating• Faith, loneliness, and hopeIf you’re divorced, widowed, never married, or trying to navigate Christian dating in today’s world, this conversation will hit home.🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the podcast?https://www.savedandsinglepod.com📩 Interested in connecting with Jason?📱 Follow Saved & Single:https://instagram.com/savedandsinglepod

“He Was My Assignment… Not My Forever” | Widowhood & Finding Love Again: Trina's Story | Ep. 15 14.05.2026 1ч 16мин

What happens when the person you thought was your forever becomes part of your testimony instead?In this emotional episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Trina Knight to discuss divorce, remarriage, caregiving, widowhood, grief, faith, surrendering to God, and unexpectedly finding love again after loss.This conversation covers Christian widowhood, healing after heartbreak, blended families, trusting God through tragedy, dating after loss, and navigating relationships over 40 with faith.If you are divorced, widowed, healing, or wondering whether God still has love for you, this episode will encourage you.🎙️ Interested in sharing your story on the Saved & Single Podcast?Apply here: BE A GUEST ON THE SHOW

“He Was Fine… Then Gone” | Losing My Husband & Rebuilding My Life: Bridget's Story | Ep. 14 07.05.2026 1ч 3мин

What happens when the love of your life is suddenly gone?In this deeply emotional episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Bridget to talk about the heartbreaking loss of her husband to suicide, the grief that followed, and what it looks like to rebuild your life after unimaginable pain.Bridget shares their love story, the moment everything changed, the questions she wrestled with, and how her faith, identity, and view of love were transformed through loss.This conversation is raw, honest, faith-filled, and filled with hope for anyone navigating grief, widowhood, heartbreak, or learning how to keep living after loss.Topics include:Losing a spouse to suicideWidowhood & griefFaith after tragedyRebuilding life after lossHealing emotionally & spirituallyLove, dating & marriage after griefMental health & unanswered questionsIf this episode touched you, share it with someone who may need it.

Dating After Divorce: Relationship Expert Debra Fileta | Ep. 13 29.04.2026 1ч 5мин

If you’re a Christian single over 40 who has been divorced and wondering if you’re truly ready to date again… this episode is for you.In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, I sit down with licensed counselor and relationship expert Debra Fileta to talk about healing after divorce, why so many people repeat unhealthy relationship patterns, and how to know if you’re actually ready to start dating again.We break down the truth about shame in the church, how trauma impacts who you’re attracted to, and why you may be choosing what’s familiar instead of what’s healthy. Debra also explains why dating should be a season of investigation, not intimacy, and what it really looks like to prepare for a healthy, God-centered relationship.We also talk about navigating dating with children, when to introduce your kids to someone new, red flags to watch for, and how to approach dating with wisdom instead of fear.If you’ve ever asked yourself:Am I really healed… or just ready for companionship?Why do I keep ending up in the same kind of relationship?How do I date again without repeating my past?This conversation will challenge you, equip you, and help you move forward with clarity.

You’re Not Meeting New Men… It’s the SAME Man | Identity Coach Anabell Ingleton | Ep. 12 22.04.2026 1ч 9мин

If you’ve ever felt like you keep meeting the same man just in a different body, this episode will open your eyes.In Episode 12 of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Identity Coach Anabell Ingleton to break down why your dating patterns aren’t random. From subconscious beliefs to past experiences, they unpack how your internal world influences who you attract and why many Christian singles over 40 feel stuck in the same cycle.This conversation dives into identity, emotional healing, and the “mirror effect” in dating. You’ll learn why focusing on what you don’t want keeps showing up, how past relationships can quietly influence your choices, and what it actually takes to start attracting something different.If you’re navigating dating after divorce, long-term singleness, or repeated relationship patterns, this episode will give you clarity, language, and a new way to approach love.Download the Mirror Effect GuideDownload the "Wife Ready" ExerciseFollow Anabell on Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/anabell.ingleton

I Stayed 14 Years… The Night Everything Changed: Precy's Story | Ep. 11 16.04.2026 59мин

If you’ve ever felt stuck in a relationship, afraid to leave, or unsure how you would rebuild your life… this episode is for you.In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Precy Lawson, who shares her powerful story of marriage, abuse, forgiveness, and ultimately making the decision to leave and start over after 40.After 14 years in a relationship that turned increasingly unstable and unsafe, everything came to a head one night that changed her life forever. What followed was a journey of faith, courage, and rebuilding from the ground up.This conversation dives into:• Why women stay longer than they should• The emotional and mental weight of leaving• Forgiveness and faith in the middle of pain• Rebuilding your life after 40• Trusting God when everything feels uncertainIf you’ve ever asked:“Why am I still here?”“Can I really start over?”“Will I be okay on my own?”This episode will speak to you.Subscribe to Saved & Single for real conversations about faith, healing, dating, and life after 40.

I Thought God Sent Him… But I Was Wrong: Natalan's Story | Ep. 10 09.04.2026 58мин

Have you ever thought someone was sent by God… but deep down something felt off?In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, we have a real and honest conversation about ignoring red flags, trying to “save” a man, and dating or marrying someone who doesn’t share your faith. You’ll hear a powerful story of marrying someone you didn’t truly love, entering relationships outside of God’s will, and the lessons learned through pain, growth, and faith.We talk about being unequally yoked, father wounds, and why many women feel called to fix men instead of choosing alignment.If you’re single, divorced, or navigating dating over 40 as a Christian, this episode will give you wisdom, clarity, and encouragement.

I Said I Was Done… Then I Met My Husband Hours Later | Married After 45: Ty Haggan | Ep. 09 01.04.2026 1ч 6мин

In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Ty Haggan, who spent decades single, believing God for marriage while watching everyone around her move on with life.After years of waiting, healing, and wrestling with disappointment, she reached a breaking point and wrote in her journal: “I am done.”Just hours later, she met the man who would become her husband.Ty shares her journey through long-term singleness, navigating faith, dealing with loneliness, healing from past relationships, and learning how to truly trust God with her desire for marriage.This conversation is for Christian singles over 40 who are wondering if it will ever happen for them or questioning whether God still has marriage in their future.If you’ve ever felt like you’ve done everything “right” and are still waiting, this episode will encourage you to keep believing while also doing the inner work required to receive what you’ve been praying for.

What Marriage Is REALLY Like (And What You Need to Fix Before You Get There): Angela Palin | Ep. 08 25.03.2026 1ч 1мин

We hear “marriage is hard”… but what does that actually mean?In this episode of Saved & Single, Jasmine sits down with Angela, who has been married for 28 years, to break down what marriage really looks like behind the scenes, beyond the wedding, beyond the romance.They talk about communication, compromise, respect, and the real work it takes to build a lasting relationship.If you’re single, divorced, or widowed and desire marriage, this episode will challenge you to look at what you need to develop now before the relationship ever begins.This conversation will help you prepare for a healthy, God-centered relationship instead of just hoping for one.

What Christian Singles Should Actually Be Doing (While Trusting God) | Ep. 07 19.03.2026 43мин

In Episode 7 of Saved & Single, Jasmine breaks down what Christian singles should actually be doing while trusting God for a spouse. Following her conversation with Christian matchmaker Jackie Dorman, she shares personal insights on long-term singleness, hope deferred, emotional healing, and why many believers feel stuck in the waiting season.This episode explores the balance between faith and action, and what it really looks like to partner with God instead of passively waiting. Jasmine discusses non-negotiables vs. preferences, the importance of community, doing the inner work, and how to prepare for a healthy, God-centered relationship.If you’re a Christian single over 40 navigating dating, healing, and the desire for marriage, this episode will give you clarity, encouragement, and practical next steps._______Saved & Single is a podcast for Christian singles over 40 who are divorced, widowed, or never married and want honest conversations about faith, relationships, healing, and purpose.If you're navigating dating, singleness, or rebuilding life after divorce, this podcast is for you.Follow the show and share this episode with someone pursuing marriage God’s way.Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/savedandsinglepod

Stop Waiting on God to Send Your Spouse | Christian Matchmaker Jackie Dorman on Dating Over 40 | Ep. 06 11.03.2026 56мин

In Episode 6 of Saved & Single, Jasmine sits down with Christian matchmaker Jackie Dorman of Last Year Single to talk about one of the most common messages Christian singles hear:"Just wait on God."But what happens when waiting turns into years of singleness?Jackie shares why many Christian men and women stay stuck in long-term singleness, how the church sometimes creates shame around dating, and why faith and action must work together when pursuing marriage.In this conversation, we discuss:• Why so many Christians stay single longer than they expected• What it really means to trust God while dating• The importance of community and intentional relationships• How to identify non-negotiables in dating• Where Christian singles can actually meet potential partners• Why waiting passively may not be the answerThis episode is packed with practical wisdom for Christian singles who want to pursue marriage without compromising their faith.📖 Jackie’s Book💍 Last Year Single Program📸 InstagramFollow Jackie on IGSaved & Single is a podcast for Christian singles over 40 who are divorced, widowed, or never married and want honest conversations about faith, relationships, healing, and purpose.If you're navigating dating, singleness, or rebuilding life after divorce, this podcast is for you.Follow the show and share this episode with someone pursuing marriage God’s way.Follow us on Instagram:@savedandsinglepod

Where Are the Christian Men? | A Godly Man’s Take on Dating, Divorce, Leadership & Abstinence: BZ "The Voice" | Ep. 05 04.03.2026 1ч 5мин

In Episode 5 of Saved & Single, Jasmine sits down with BZ “The Voice” Cullins, our first male guest, to talk about Christian dating from a man’s perspective after divorce. BZ shares his testimony, lessons from marriage, and how his faith shapes the way he approaches relationships today. We discuss what “God first” really looks like, why many men don’t approach women anymore, how a Christian man develops spiritual leadership, and why abstinence matters in dating. If you’re navigating singleness, dating, and faith after 40, this conversation offers honest insight into what Christian men are thinking and what it takes to build a relationship that honors God.Saved & Single is the podcast for Christian men and women 40+ navigating dating, divorce, celibacy, and relationships while putting Jesus first.

I Got Saved… and Had to Stop Having Sex (After 18 Years): Yarelli’s Story | Ep. 04 25.02.2026 54мин

What happens when you give your life to Jesus… but you’ve been living like you’re married for 18 years? In this episode of Saved & Single, Jasmine sits down with her best friend, Yarelli, to talk about celibacy, abstinence, and learning to honor God in real life, especially when you live with your partner. Yarelli shares how her daughter’s cancer journey led her to Christ, how Scripture convicted her, and the uncomfortable conversation that changed everything: “We can’t keep doing this.” This is a raw conversation for Christian singles over 40 navigating dating, desire, boundaries, and obedience. If you’ve ever wondered how to “do it God’s way” without shame, this episode is for you.

Moving Forward When the Marriage Ends: Pastor Sandy’s Story | Ep. 03 18.02.2026 56мин

Divorce changes more than your relationship status; it can shake your confidence, your faith, and your sense of identity.In this episode of Saved & Single, Jasmine sits down with her mother, Pastor Sandy Mays, for a raw and deeply honest conversation about marrying out of fear, ignoring red flags, standing in faith for years, and eventually choosing to move forward when the marriage didn’t heal. Pastor Sandy shares how prayer, Scripture, and time with God didn’t just sustain her; they rebuilt her from the inside out.This episode is for anyone who didn’t expect to be single again and is learning how to grieve the loss of a marriage while trusting God with what comes next. If you’re navigating divorce, heartbreak, or the quiet fear that your best days are behind you, this conversation will remind you that healing is possible and your life is not over.Click here to download Pastor Sandy's prayers for emotional healing after divorce .

Marriage, Divorce & Infidelity in the Church: Dr. Tammie's Story | Ep. 02 11.02.2026 1ч 7мин

In this powerful episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Tammie Carter Jenson to talk honestly about marriage, divorce, infidelity, and healing, even inside the church.Dr. Tammie shares her real-life journey through two painful marriages, public divorce, betrayal, and the emotional toll of trying to do things “the right way” while quietly suffering. We discuss the stigma surrounding divorce in Christian spaces, why infidelity is more common than people admit, and how discernment matters just as much as faith.This episode is for men and women over 40 who are divorced, widowed, or single and trying to trust God again after heartbreak. It’s a conversation about surrender, healing, and what it looks like to rebuild your life and your faith without shame.If you’ve ever wondered whether God can redeem your story, this episode will meet you right where you are.