Conversations from the Heart

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  #163 - How to Set Boundaries at Work Without Burning Bridges 14.09.2026 27мин

  Setting boundaries at work can feel risky, especially when you respect the people you work with and don’t want to damage the relationship. In this episode, Connie is navigating a challenging dynamic with a well-meaning but disorganized supervisor. As expectations shift and ideas keep expanding, she finds herself overwhelmed, over-responsible, and unsure how to speak up without causing harm. Together, we explore how to set clear, grounded boundaries while staying collaborative and relational. ...
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  #162 - When You Can't Control the Outcome 07.09.2026 33мин

  What do we do when we’ve done everything “right” and our efforts don't bring our desired results? This week I speak with Tom, who just received news that his cancer has progressed, despite his many efforts to reverse it. What unfolds is an honest, grounded, and compassionate exploration of what it means to face the limits of control. Together, we explore the emotional complexity of serious illness: anger, grief, fear, hope, and the tension between spiritual beliefs about healing and the reali...
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  #161 - How to Love Your Children Through Uncertainty 31.08.2026 21мин

  When life takes an unexpected turn, how do we stay connected to the people we love without overwhelming them? Today's episode asks exactly that. Liza, mother of 3 navigating a serious health diagnosis, wrestles with how to talk to her adult children about what’s happening and she finds herself holding a complex tension: How do I let them in, without making them responsible for me? We explore what it means to share difficult truths with care, to honor each person’s emotional capacity, an...
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  #160 - Care Without Collapse 24.08.2026 44мин

  What happens when we feel pressure to care, but we really don't? In this episode, we explore the tension between wanting to be emotionally available, while also wanting to protect boundaries regarding our energy and sense of self. We unpack how our reactions are often intelligent forms of protection shaped by past experiences. And instead of trying to perform the “right” kind of support, we explore what it means to be real, honest, and connected, without collapsing into someone else’s emotion...
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  #159 - When Connection Strategies Backfire 17.08.2026 35мин

  In this episode, we dive into those moments when we’re upset and reach for connection, but instead of closeness, we get distance, defensiveness, or overwhelm. And somehow, trying harder only makes it worse. We explore what’s really happening in those moments, and why our attempts at connection don’t always land the way we hope. This isn’t about doing it “right.” It’s about understanding the deeper patterns at play, and how to stay grounded when connection doesn’t happen the way we hoped. We’l...
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  #158 - The Trap of Being a "Good" Partner 10.08.2026 32мин

  What if trying to be a “good partner” is actually hurting your relationship? In this episode, we explore a powerful and often invisible dynamic: how self-sacrifice, overgiving, and emotional suppression can quietly erode connection. When one partner takes on the role of “giver,” it can create a cycle of resentment, emotional overwhelm, and disconnection, despite the best intentions. In this episode's coaching conversation, we unpack: Why overgiving creates pressure, not connectionThe hidden c...
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  #157 - Can I Trust Myself When I Feel This Much? 03.08.2026 22мин

  There are moments in life when our inner world gets so loud that we stop trusting ourselves. We feel everything (love, grief, longing, confusion) and instead of clarity, we find ourselves pulled in different directions. It's difficult to tell if our feelings are guiding us or misleading us. In this episode, I talk with Kate, who is navigating the end of a relational “pause” with someone she still deeply cares about. As the moment of decision approaches, she finds herself overwhelmed by confli...
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  #156 - How to Stay Open When You Feel Judged or "Fixed" 27.07.2026 29мин

  Have you ever opened up to someone, only to feel corrected, advised, or subtly judged? In this episode, we explore why “help” can sometimes feel like disapproval, and what’s actually happening in our nervous system when we begin to shut down. Speaking with Nate, we unpack the gap between intention and impact, the protective patterns that get activated when we feel unseen, and how to begin finding our voice again in those moments. This episode is for anyone who has: Felt overwhelmed by unsolic...
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  #155 - Does Your Child Think You're the Problem? 20.07.2026 41мин

  What happens when the behavior that triggers you most is something you recognize in yourself? In this conversation, we explore what it means to be on the receiving end of harsh criticism, and the shock of realizing we’ve done the same thing to others. This episode unpacks grandiosity as a protective strategy, how shame and powerlessness drive disconnection, and what it looks like to respond with clarity, boundaries, and care, especially as a parent. We'll Discuss: •Why grandiosity and critici...
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  #154 - The Cost of Being “Good”: Breaking Patterns of Self-Abandonment 13.07.2026 43мин

  What happens when speaking up for yourself doesn’t just feel uncomfortable, but unsafe? In this episode, we explore the hidden cost of being “good”, when agreeability, accommodation, and self-sacrifice become survival strategies that disconnect us from our own voice. We unpack: •Why asking for what you want can trigger shame, fear, or collapse •How early relational dynamics shape patterns of self-abandonment •The difference between healthy negotiation and domination dynamics •How to recognize...
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  #153 - When You’re Not Getting What You Need in a Relationship 06.07.2026 54мин

  What do you do when someone you love can’t meet you in the way you need? In this episode, we explore the emotional and relational complexity of unmet needs, whether with a parent, a child, or someone close to us. Through two powerful real-life conversations, we unpack the difference between grief and control, the limits of communication, and the shift from trying to change others to relating to what’s actually here. In this episode, we explore: •Why unmet needs often lead to urgency, over-eff...
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  #152 - When to Step In (and When to Let Go): When Someone You Love is in a Harmful Relationship 29.06.2026 33мин

  When someone we love is in a relationship that’s causing harm, knowing what to do can feel incredibly confusing. Do we step in, or step back? In this follow-up conversation from last week, we speak again with Liza, who is now supporting her son through a relationship that is leaving him anxious, overwhelmed, and disconnected from himself. Together, they explore how to recognize when a relationship has crossed from challenging into harmful, and what it means to respond with both care and clari...
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  #151 - How to Step Out of Family Triangulation 22.06.2026 32мин

  What do you do when the people you love pull you in opposite directions? In this episode of Conversations from the Heart, I speak with Liza, a mother who finds herself caught in a painful family dilemma. Her youngest son is in his first serious relationship, and his older siblings believe the relationship is unhealthy. They’ve drawn a hard line: if the girlfriend is present, they won’t be. Suddenly Liza is standing in the middle, loving all of her children and feeling the pressure to choose s...
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  #150 - How to Stay Grounded When Others Disagree With You 15.06.2026 26мин

  What happens after you speak your truth… and someone disagrees? In this episode, we explore how to stay grounded in yourself when your perspective isn’t affirmed, mirrored, or supported by others. Through a live coaching conversation, we unpack: •Why disagreement can shake our confidence, even when we felt clear before •The difference between seeking support and outsourcing our self-trust •How to choose whose opinions actually matter •A powerful shift in how to ask for feedback that supports ...
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  #149 - Are You Regulating or Silencing Yourself? 08.06.2026 36мин

  In this episode, we explore a subtle but powerful question: Are you regulating your emotions or silencing your needs? When we’ve done a lot of personal growth, it’s easy to become highly skilled at managing anxiety, staying calm, and not “burdening” others. But in relationships, especially early dating, this can sometimes come at a cost. In This Week's Call We unpack: •How to handle anxiety and uncertainty when defining a relationship •The difference between self-regulation and self-silencing...
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  #148 - From Triggered to Sovereign: Learning to Stay With Yourself in a Harsh World 01.06.2026 31мин

  Why can one small moment completely derail our emotional state? In this episode of Conversations from the Heart, a caller navigates intense emotional reactions to everyday interactions by exploring how a single tone of voice can trigger deep nervous system activation. Together, we unpack the difference between being “triggered” and experiencing activation, and what it really takes to stay grounded, self-led, and emotionally regulated in a world that isn’t always gentle. This episode offers a ...
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  #147 - The "Hidden Trap" in Being Supportive 25.05.2026 42мин

  There's a difference between sympathy and compassion, and that distinction matters more than we might think. Many of us were taught that caring means feeling with others, taking on their pain, or trying to fix what’s hard. But over time, that way of relating can leave us overwhelmed, entangled, or quietly exhausted. In this conversation with Wendy, we begin with a simple question about sympathy and compassion, and uncover something much deeper. We explore the parts of us that long to be held ...
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  #146 - How to Stay Kind Without Draining Yourself 18.05.2026 30мин

  Figuring out how to stay kind, present, and connected, without over-extending ourselves or taking responsibility for other people’s emotional worlds can be a tall order. In this week's episode, we unpack what it looks like to respond to negativity, emotional overwhelm, and difficult dynamics in ways that are both compassionate and self-honoring. Conversations with Daisy and Ellie help us explore the difference between empathy and self-abandonment, how to set boundaries without controlling oth...
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  #145 - Trying to Be A Better Parent...But Still Sounding Critical? 11.05.2026 38мин

  In this episode, I speak with a mother who wants to be a more loving, present, and supportive parent… but keeps noticing that what she intends as help is often experienced by her family as criticism. Together, we explore what happens when awareness arrives after the moment, and you can finally see the impact of how you’ve been showing up, but don’t yet know how to consistently do it differently. We talk about the heartbreak of hearing your child say, All I remember is you yelling. The tension...
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  #144 - Why We Become Guarded, and How We Might Soften 04.05.2026 31мин

  How do you respond when someone you love says they feel guarded around you? Carol’s question about how to start a difficult conversation quickly reveals something deeper: a long history of sibling dynamics, childhood wounds, and the painful feeling of being the less-loved child. Together, we unpack what guardedness really is, why it forms, and how resentment, longing, and the need to feel loved can all live just beneath the surface. This conversation is an invitation to move beyond trying to ...