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  Buried Memory: The Session That Changed Everything 16.09.2026 1ч 7мин

  You know the version of yourself you built to get through. The one who keeps the peace, reads the room, holds it together so no one else has to worry. Maybe you have wondered who you would be if you ever set that version down. This week I sat with Tarah and EJ Kerwin, two therapists who spend their days helping couples find their way back to each other. They came in curious about a therapy they wanted to understand before recommending it, and instead they found themselves in the middle of their own life shift. For Tarah, a supervised ketamine session opened a door to something her body had been carrying since she was a little girl, something she might have lived her whole life never knowing. For EJ, it became a slow lesson in letting go of the control he had always mistaken for love. What stays with me is how gentle they are with all of it now. There is no neat bow here, no tidy lesson about pain making you stronger. There is a woman learning that she was allowed to feel safe in her own body. There is a man learning that joy is something you have to actually go looking for. And there are two people who found out that you cannot force safety onto a person, you can only make enough room for it to arrive. What You'll Hear Why keeping the peace can quietly cost you your own voice What it feels like when your usual ways of coping stop working The difference between controlling a relationship and creating safety in one How buried memory can reshape the way you see your whole life A kitchen conversation that started with letting go and ended in more love Why real change is never too late, at fifty, at eighty two, at any age Guest Bio Tarah and EJ Kerwin are the founders of Relationship Renovation and creators of the Relationship Renovation Model™, as well as hosts of the Relationship Renovation Podcast. They blend raw honesty, humor, and decades of combined experience to help couples deepen intimacy and build emotional safety. Known for their vulnerability and real-life storytelling, they share practical, research-backed tools rooted in attachment science and nervous system regulation. EJ is also the founder of Men Who Do the Work, a group helping thousands of men create emotional safety and show up more intentionally in their relationships. Together, their work includes the nationally recognized Relationship Renovation Counseling Center in Tucson, Arizona, a globally ranked top 1% podcast, the Relationship Renovation @ Home manual (available on Amazon), a global online community, and private coaching for couples and individuals. They are passionate about helping partners break old patterns, rebuild trust, and create lasting, intentional connection. Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | TikTok Relationship Coaching | Relationship Renovation at Home Manual | Patreon Community Listen and follow: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/follow Subscribe to the newsletter: https://thelifeshiftpodcast.beehiiv.com/ childhood trauma healing, recovered memories, ketamine assisted therapy, emotional safety in marriage, releasing control in relationships, couples healing together, learning to feel joy, self compassion after trauma, feeling safe in your own body, we are not uniquely broken You Might Also Like: Anger: The Drink I Never Stopped Drinking The Cost of Quiet: Learning to Speak Up After Years of Silence Starting Over: You Can Lose Everything and Still Be Okay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Showing Up: The Day I Stopped Trying to Fix It 13.09.2026 57мин

  Have you ever loved someone and felt the fear of losing them arrive in the very same breath? Most of us learn early to look away from that fear. Brad learned to look right at it. Brad grew up the grandson of Auschwitz survivors, carrying a fear of death that felt older than he was. As a boy, he needed proof that the people he loved were still breathing. Then, at eighteen, he told a childhood friend he loved her, and two weeks later she was diagnosed with a rare cancer. Everyone expected the frightened boy to retreat. Instead, he brought his guitar to her hospital room, and something shifted. The music eased her pain. It eased his. And it showed him that the thing he feared most could also be the place where he was most needed. This is a conversation about what it means to stay. To sit beside someone without the right words. To let grief become something you tend, instead of something that tends you. Brad turned his fear into a life of helping other people channel their pain into beauty. By the end, you might find yourself thinking about the moments you almost walked away from, and the ones you are so glad you didn't. What You'll Hear Why the fear we inherit can feel like our own, long before we understand where it came from The two weeks that changed everything, and the choice to show up anyway What music can do in a room where words fall short The quiet difference between fixing someone's pain and being present for it How grief can be channeled toward destruction or toward beauty, and why the direction matters Turning loss into a life's work, one song and one person at a time Guest Bio Brad Wolfe is a singer-songwriter, community activist, and founder of Reimagine, a national movement helping people transform loss into meaning and action. His music and mission are deeply intertwined, both shaped by a lifelong exploration of mortality, love, and healing through creativity. Wolfe's forthcoming three-part EP collection, Loss, Life & Love Mixtapes, has been more than a decade in the making, with the first chapter, Loss, arriving this summer. His musical journey began after his childhood friend Sara was diagnosed with a rare pediatric cancer. Wolfe spent two years writing and playing songs for her in the hospital, an experience that inspired both the Sunbeam Foundation, which has raised over $1 million for cancer research, and his musical project, Brad Wolfe & The Moon. Through Reimagine, Wolfe has since helped create over 4,500 events for more than 250,000 people, using music, storytelling, and art to explore grief, healing, and human connection. www.bradwolfe.com | letsreimagine.org Listen and follow: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/follow Subscribe to the newsletter: https://thelifeshiftpodcast.beehiiv.com/ fear of death, intergenerational grief, showing up for someone who is sick, the power of music in grief, losing a first love, turning pain into meaning, presence over fixing, anticipatory grief, finding purpose after loss, learning to stay You Might Also Like: Grief and Fatherhood: The Song That Changed Everything Grief: Making Something Beautiful From What Broke 147 Days: Raising and Losing My Sister Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Identity: The Injury That Cracked Tyler Bramlett Wide Open 09.09.2026 1ч 8мин

  Tyler spent years building what the world told him success looked like. The abs, the car, the company. And the world cheered him on. He drove his dream car home one day, pulled into the driveway, turned off the engine, and felt completely empty inside. He didn't know yet that emptiness was trying to tell him something. Then he went to gymnastics class in his late twenties, and a coach told him to punch harder. His body said no. He said, you shut up. And his knee went completely sideways. ACL, MCL, LCL, quad, meniscus, all in one shot. He hobbled to the side and started doing ring work anyway, because that is what kind of man Tyler was before all of this began. What followed was four surgeries, nearly a year of his life spent in bed recovering, and a slow, painful unraveling of the identity he had built from the inside out. This is a conversation about what happens when you can no longer prove yourself. About the inner critic that drove him and the inner cheerleader he had to build to replace it. About the company he shut down because it was making money the wrong way. About what he calls a choiceless choice. And about the life that came after. What You'll Hear: Why Tyler bought everything society said would make him happy, and why none of it worked The moment on the gymnastics floor when his ego and his body had it out, and the body won What four surgeries and years of recovery forced him to face about himself How a meditation retreat moment changed the way he speaks to himself for good Why he shut down a successful company because it was built on shame-based marketing What he means by the inner cheerleader, and how you actually build one Guest Bio: TYLER BRAMLETT is a movement coach, father, and co-founder of WeShape whose path was reshaped by a cycling accident that shattered his femur and permanently damaged his knee. Unable to return to traditional, appearance-driven fitness routines, he began a 15-year healing journey that included multiple surgeries and deep study in functional anatomy, biomechanics, and rehabilitation. Through working with top physical therapists and coaches, he discovered that real transformation comes from moving smarter, not pushing harder. This lead him to reject shame-based fitness culture and create an approach centered on alignment, mindful movement, and what he calls “movement freedom,” the ability to live without feeling trapped in a body that hurts. Find Tyler and WeShape across social media: @WeShape Listen and follow: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/follow Subscribe to the newsletter: https://thelifeshiftpodcast.beehiiv.com/ -- You Might Also Like: How Kevin Palmieri Rebuilt His Life After Chasing the Wrong Dream Alan Lazaros on Rebuilding His Life After a Near-Fatal Car Crash When Her Body Spoke, She Finally Heard -- shame-based fitness, identity and injury, ego and healing, inner critic, movement freedom, fitness industry toxic culture, choiceless choice, self-compassion and fitness, recovering from knee surgery, performing success Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  What He Heard: Six Words That Moved Him Across the World 06.09.2026 1ч 8мин

  There are moments in life when someone says something so simple, so obvious, that you almost miss it. And then it stays. It rewrites everything. Joomin Hwang had been dancing since middle school, performing since college, and quietly watching Broadway clips on YouTube long before anyone told him it was possible. What he needed wasn't a strategy. It was permission. His professor gave him that. She said, you don't have to make it. Go and experience it. And something shifted. Not a plan, not a guarantee. Just a door left open. Joomin packed his bags at thirty, moved to Wisconsin without knowing a word of English, and spent the next decade doing exactly what he'd been told was unrealistic. This conversation goes well beyond Broadway. It goes into what it felt like to grow up without a stable home, to find power for the first time through movement, to cry for three months when a teacher said you weren't good enough, and to write a journal in the middle of a divorce just to help yourself breathe again. Joomin's story is about what it looks like when you stop treating your dream as a destination and start treating it as a way of moving through the world. What You'll Hear: Why Joomin felt powerful for the first time when he saw a breakdance move at twelve years old The two teachers who told him he wasn't talented, and what he did next The six words from a professor that sent him across the ocean at thirty What it felt like to be the first native Korean to perform at the Tony Awards How a divorce in 2024 led him to build a journaling method that changed the way he faces problems What he means when he says you should dream your dream as a verb, not a noun Guest Bio: Joomin Hwang began his journey as a breakdancer in South Korea. While touring and performing a dance show at London’s Peacock Theatre in 2007, his life was changed after seeing a performance of Billy Elliot. Shortly after, at the age of 29 and despite not speaking English, he moved to the US to study Vocal Performance at the University of Wisconsin. He made history in 2018, just 5 years later, with his Broadway debut in The Prom by becoming the first native Korean to perform at the TONY Awards. He later joined the original cast of & Juliet, making another breakthrough as an actor from South Korea to play a non-Asian principal role in Broadway’s history. Joomin brings a dynamic and multidisciplinary energy to the stage and screen. His diverse credits include performances in the off-Broadway production of KPOP at A.R.T., In the Heights at Axelrod Performing Arts Center, and screen appearances in Iron Fist, Isn’t It Romantic, Pose, and the film adaptation of In the Heights. Now based in New York City, Joomin continues to expand his artistic reach across theatre, film, and television—committed to representing international artists with authenticity, resilience, and heart. Living in New York and doing what he loves to do is an unbelievably sweet dream for Joomin. In addition to his performance career, Joomin is a certified vocal coach dedicated to helping others find freedom and confidence in their voice. He combines personal experience with technical expertise to guide dancers, actors, and singers through real transformation—just as he did himself. Joomin just released his first book, The Rule of Five Journal, which grew out of his own experience navigating major life changes and building a daily system to help individuals build clarity, balance, and forward momentum. www.joominhwang.com Book: www.amazon.com/dp/B0GR6H3W1N Listen and follow: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/follow Subscribe to the newsletter: https://thelifeshiftpodcast.beehiiv.com/ -- following your passion, permission to fail, starting over at 30, Broadway performer story, immigrant identity, self-doubt and perseverance, dreaming without a destination, finding power through movement, journaling through divorce, living life as a verb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Midlife: The Night He Asked If He Would Fold 02.09.2026 1ч 3мин

  Maybe you’ve had a moment where you looked around at your life and didn’t recognize it. Not because it was bad, exactly. But because everything you’d been holding together had finally stopped holding. That moment has a weight to it that’s hard to describe. And if you’ve been there, this episode is going to feel familiar. Matt Ross spent decades building things. He grew School of Rock from a struggling startup into a global brand. He led teams, created value, stayed in motion. He was the guy with the plan. And then at fifty, everything came apart at the same time. His son had a psychiatric breakdown. His brothers were lost to addiction. Both sets of parents were dying. He’d just lost the company he’d built. And one night he sat alone in his basement and asked himself if he was going to fold. He didn’t fold. But the road back wasn’t fast or clean or dramatic. It was therapy, Al-Anon, medication, a very slow kind of self-honesty, and eventually, a question that changed everything: what if you treated yourself like a business? This conversation is about what it actually looks like to rebuild from the inside out, one careful step at a time. What You’ll Hear: The moment Matt sat in his basement and asked himself if he would fold What it felt like to carry the weight of a disabled son, addicted brothers, and dying parents all at once Why treating yourself like a business became the framework that helped him rebuild The slow, unglamorous work of therapy, Al-Anon, and learning to ask for help How founding One River School gave him the first real sense of purpose he’d ever felt What he means by functional, emotional, and creative growth, and why creative growth might be the missing piece for a lot of us Guest Bio: Matt Ross is an entrepreneur, author, and media executive with nearly 30 years of experience building businesses that inspire passion and creativity. From rocking New York’s airwaves to scaling global education brands, now he is the author of GROW OR FOLD: Transform Yourself in Midlife and Beyond, a profound story of awakening your enthusiasm for growth. Since 2012, Matt has been the Founder and CEO of One River School, a company whose mission is to “Transform Art Education®.” Today, One River operates fifteen schools in six states with plans for substantial growth over the next five years. Learn more at mattross.com You Might Also Like: How Carol Look Found Joy When Her Loved Ones Struggled with Addiction Identity: More Than the Thing You're Known For Listen and follow: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/follow Subscribe to the newsletter: https://thelifeshiftpodcast.beehiiv.com/ -- Keywords: midlife crisis, rock bottom, rebuilding after loss, mental health and success, caregiving and burnout, parenting a disabled child, purpose after 50, self-awareness, treating yourself like a business, growth mindset, addiction in the family, creative education Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Blissful Ignorance: The Character Who Saved His Life 30.08.2026 1ч 9мин

  Some people live their early lives in what Dave Raymond calls blissful ignorance, and he'll be the first to tell you that isn't a bad thing. Growing up as the son of a legendary college football coach, stumbling into becoming the original Philly Fanatic, Dave spent decades inside a life that felt close to charmed. He didn't overthink it. He just showed up, leaned in, and let the joy carry him. Then, in the span of a few weeks, everything changed. His mother received a terminal diagnosis. His seven-year marriage ended. He had a newborn son at home. And for the first time in his life, Dave found himself somewhere he had never been, completely without footing. What he didn't expect was that the character he had spent sixteen years performing would become the thing that slowly pulled him back. Tick by tick. Appearance by appearance. Until he could see something on the other side. Now at 70, Dave is a speaker, author, and happiness advocate who has spent decades studying what it actually takes to build a good life. This conversation travels through bliss and loss, through grief and resilience, and into the quieter question of what we're really being shaped for, even in the seasons that feel like they might break us. What You'll Hear: How growing up in a football coaching family formed Dave's identity, and what he couldn't yet see about himself The role his deaf mother played in shaping the performer he would become How three separate losses arrived in the same few weeks and what that collision felt like from the inside The way the Philly Fanatic became an unexpected lifeline during the darkest stretch of Dave's life What positive psychology taught him about joy, suffering, and not wasting either one How meeting his wife Sandy shifted his understanding of what a partnership was supposed to feel like The moment he finally gave himself permission to call himself a performer, and what that unlocked Guest Bio: Dave Raymond is the original Philly Fanatic, the beloved mascot he performed for sixteen years with the Philadelphia Phillies. A speaker, author, and happiness advocate, Dave has spent decades studying the science of positive psychology and translating it into practical tools for building a meaningful life. He now speaks to organizations and individuals about long-term sustainable happiness, resilience, and finding purpose. You can connect with him and explore his work at DaveRaymondSpeaks.com. -- 🎧 Listen and follow: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/follow 📬 Subscribe to the newsletter: https://thelifeshiftpodcast.beehiiv.com/     You Might Also Like: Rock Bottom: Where the Most Fulfilling Life Began Identity: More Than the Thing You're Known For -- finding purpose after loss, happiness after grief, resilience, positive psychology, life shift, blissful ignorance, performance and identity, meaning after crisis, the Philly Fanatic, long-term happiness, don't waste your suffering, finding your calling Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Cancer: The Diagnosis That Stopped the Reinventing 26.08.2026 55мин

  Have you ever been so good at becoming what people needed that you forgot who you actually were underneath it all? Taira Soo did that for almost fifty years. Different rooms, different versions, a new self for every chapter. It felt like a superpower. It was also a way to keep from being seen. Then a friend reached across a lunch table, touched a lump, and said the word that changed everything. What followed wasn't just treatment. It was a strange, forced stillness, the first she'd had in years, and in that quiet, everything she'd been outrunning finally caught up. The pain, the questions, the girl she'd left behind in every reinvention. And then her memory started coming back in fragments, and she began writing them down, and she could not stop. This is a story about the life shift that happens when you can no longer perform your way through. About realizing you were never a series of separate lives, but one continuous thread. About putting the luggage down and finding out the little girl, the dancer, the founder, they were all still there, waiting. Taira didn't set out to write a book. It found her. And on the other side of it, she stopped proving and started living. What You'll Hear: The lunch where a friend said "it's cancer" between bites, and why she didn't fall apart Why a lifetime of adapting felt like strength until it left her a stranger to herself The night after her first infusion, when the stillness surfaced everything she'd buried How her memory returned in fragments and turned into 412 pages she never planned to write What it means to set down an old identity, and grieve the friends who quietly disappear The quieter, more internal life she lives now, with nothing left to prove Guest Bio: Taira Soo is the author of Just a Little Buzzed, a memoir about identity, adaptation, and learning to know yourself after a lifetime of becoming what was needed. She spent years in dance, acting, and fashion before a cancer diagnosis interrupted everything she had built. Her work explores what happens after the performance stops. Website: www.splitandtype.com Instagram: @tairasoo -- Listen and follow: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/follow Subscribe to the newsletter: https://thelifeshiftpodcast.beehiiv.com -- cancer diagnosis story, reinventing yourself, losing your identity, finding yourself after 40, chemo brain and memory, healing through writing, breast cancer journey, learning to slow down, who am I really, letting people love you You Might Also Like: Illness: When the Hard Thing Sets You Free Reclamation: Coming Back To The Girl Who Got Shut Down Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Devotion: Writing Someone Else's Story to Find Your Own 23.08.2026 59мин

  There are moments that don't make sense until much later. And then there are moments that make total sense the instant they happen, even if you can't explain them to anyone else. Kate Clinch sat in a small chapel in Sydney, a self-described non-believer, and felt something she had never felt before. Not a feeling she worked toward. Not a belief she talked herself into. Just a deep, quiet, unquestioned knowing. She was in the presence of a saint. She walked out with armfuls of biographies and a story she didn't yet know was also hers. What followed was a decade of discovery. A historical novel about Eileen O'Connor, a disabled Australian woman who built a nursing organization from her sick bed and is currently being investigated for sainthood. A cancer diagnosis, stomach surgery, chemotherapy, and learning to eat and drink again. A slow, surprising realization that she couldn't tell Eileen's story without her own coming along for the ride. Kate came to this conversation as someone who spent years hiding behind her subject. She's leaving it as someone who finally understands why she was the one who had to write the book. What You'll Hear How a stranger's offhand suggestion led Kate to a chapel that changed her life The near-death experience that quietly rearranged her sense of what mattered What a stomach cancer diagnosis took away, and what it somehow gave back Why she started making rosaries before she knew she'd need them The moment she realized she couldn't tell Eileen's story without telling her own What a century-old smile taught her about what actually changes the world Guest Bio Kate Clinch was a solo General Practitioner until a near death experience prompted a change in priorities, and she became a full-time mother homeschooling her children, with a developing interest in mysticism and the meaning of life. As her children became more independent, she started to write novels exploring those themes. Her first, unpublished novel longlisted for the 2020 Richell Prize for Emerging Writers in Australia. Her debut novel, Every Inch a Saint: a Novel about Eileen O'Connor, Australia's Second Saint-in-Waiting, was published in April 2026. It celebrates the inspirational life of a woman who defied the odds of illness and disability and the opposition of the church hierarchy to establish a home nursing organisation to care for the sick in Sydney's slums in 1913. Find her at kateclinch.com. -- Listen and follow: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/follow Subscribe to the newsletter: https://thelifeshiftpodcast.beehiiv.com/ -- spiritual awakening, cancer survival story, historical fiction, faith without religion, near-death experience, writing as healing, calling and purpose, grief and motherhood, life after loss, following your instincts You Might Also Like: When Illness Becomes a Gateway to Spiritual Awakening Surrender: The Wave That Changed Everything Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  147 Days: Raising and Losing My Sister 19.08.2026 1ч 7мин

  If you have ever loved someone so much that you quietly rearranged your whole life around them, this conversation will feel familiar. At twenty-two, Andrea Wilson Woods got the phone call that split her life into a before and an after. Her mother no longer wanted to be a mother, and her eight-year-old sister, Adrienne, needed someone. Andrea said yes without knowing what she was saying yes to. She worked multiple jobs so she could be there for school pickups, dinners, and school events. She built a life around one person. And then, three weeks shy of finishing her first year of high school, Adrienne was diagnosed with stage four cancer. What followed was 147 days, and a grief that Andrea would spend years learning how to actually feel. This is a story about caregiving, about the friends who show up and the ones who quietly disappear, about laughing in hospital rooms because laughter is its own kind of survival. It is about the mistake of pretending you are okay, and the slow work of finding yourself again when the person who was your center is gone. What You'll Hear: What it means to become a parent to your sibling before you are ready Why some people vanish when things get hard, and how to ask for the help you actually need The humor that lived inside the hardest days The cost of pushing grief down, and why grieving out loud matters Advocating for someone you love, all the way to the end What it looks like to find a new North Star, more than once Guest Bio Andrea Wilson Woods is a keynote speaker, a writer who loves to tell stories, and a patient advocate who founded the nonprofit Blue Faery: The Adrienne Wilson Liver Cancer Association. For over ten years, Andrea worked in the education field as a teacher and professor for public and private schools as well as universities. Andrea obtained her master's degree in professional writing from the University of Southern California; her nonfiction writing has won national awards. Her best-selling and award-winning book, Better Off Bald: A Life in 147 Days, is a medical memoir about raising and losing her sister to liver cancer. https://www.amazon.com/stores/Andrea-Wilson-Woods/author/B07X51HH8W https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreawilsonwoods/ https://www.facebook.com/bluefaerylivercancer/ https://www.instagram.com/bluefaeryliver/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/blue-faery https://www.youtube.com/c/BlueFaery/ -- Listen and follow: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/follow Subscribe to the newsletter: https://thelifeshiftpodcast.beehiiv.com/ -- sibling loss, becoming a parent young, caregiving and grief, losing a sister, delayed grief, finding purpose after loss, childhood parentification, hospice and dying at home, friendships that fade after loss, finding a new north star You Might Also Like: The Complexity of Grief After Losing a Brother in Childhood Part of Me Died That Day: Learning to Live After the Worst Day of Your Life Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Rock Bottom: Where the Most Fulfilling Life Began 16.08.2026 52мин

  There is a version of you that other people count on. The one who shows up, who fixes things, who holds the whole thing together. So what happens when that version can no longer do the thing that made it yours? Robert spent thirty-two years as a surgeon. Then an accident took his hand, and the surgeries that followed took something he never expected to lose. First his career, slowly. Then, quietly, his footing. What he thought was control turned out to be an addiction, and the person who saw it clearly was the one who loved him most. This is a story about the identity we build to survive, and what is left of us when it falls away. It is also, gently, a story about what grows back. Robert does not wrap his hardest years in a neat bow. He sits with the darkness, the withdrawal, the fog that made getting out of a chair feel impossible. And then he tells us what he found on the other side, and why he believes his worst chapter was the one that wrote his best. What You'll Hear Why success can become a place to hide from the fears we never dealt with The moment a wife's ultimatum became an act of love What eight days of rehab and seven weeks of withdrawal actually feel like The brain fog that no achievement could push through How a packet of five herbs reopened a door he thought was closed Choosing not to return to the career that once defined him Guest Bio Robert R Beltran MD, Pharm D, FACS. Doctorate degrees in medicine and pharmacy from the University of California at San Francisco Medical Center. Fellow of the American College of Surgeons. Double board certified by the American Board of Otolaryngology, Head and Neck Surgery and the American Board of Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery. Surgical practice for 31½ years, performing 14,000 surgeries. Founder, CEO and Chief Formulator for Recomnd Nutrition. www.recomnd.com -- Listen and follow: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/follow Subscribe to the newsletter: https://thelifeshiftpodcast.beehiiv.com/ -- losing your identity after a career ends, opioid addiction recovery, surviving withdrawal at home, prescription painkiller addiction, finding purpose after addiction, rebuilding after rock bottom, starting over later in life, when your work is your identity, hope after addiction, healing after loss of self You Might Also Like: Anger: The Drink I Never Stopped Drinking Identity: More Than the Thing You're Known For Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Starting Over: You Can Lose Everything and Still Be Okay 12.08.2026 1ч

  Have you ever built a life so carefully that you forgot to ask whether it was actually yours? Lora did everything right. The good girl, the good student, the good wife, the good mom. And then, right on the edge of an empty nest and a little freedom, she found out her husband had been living a second life for fifteen years. This is a conversation about what happens after the floor gives way. Lora talks about collapsing, literally, and then getting back up. About the slow realization that the people who hurt her did not get to decide who she became. And about the harder mirror underneath the betrayal, the one that showed her all the ways she had been abandoning herself long before anyone else did. It is tender and honest and, in the end, hopeful. Not because everything wrapped up neatly, but because Lora found out something worth knowing. You can lose the whole thing and still be okay. What You'll Hear: How perfectionism can quietly become your entire identity The visceral moment everything Lora believed came apart Why she stopped waiting for the pain to disappear and started rebuilding The turning point: they don't get to ruin my life What the betrayal revealed about the ways she was betraying herself Choosing boundaries, honesty, and a smaller, deeper circle Guest Bio: LORA CHEADLE, JD CHt is an author, TEDx speaker, and leadership wellness coach who specializes in burnout and betrayal recovery. She is the author of It’s Not Burnout; It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive, the award-winning book FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self, and hosts the top-rated podcast, FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal. Website: https://loracheadle.com/ Social Media Links: YouTube: www.youtube.com/@LoraCheadleLifeChoreographer Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loracheadle/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lora.cheadle --- Listen and follow: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/follow Subscribe to the newsletter: https://thelifeshiftpodcast.beehiiv.com/ You Might Also Like: Self-Worth: The Life She Fought For Comfort: When Cozy Becomes a Cage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Anger: The Drink I Never Stopped Drinking 09.08.2026 54мин

  Have you ever quit the thing everyone could see, only to find the thing nobody could see was still running the show? Zach Brittle is a couples therapist who spent decades certain that alcohol was the danger. He grew up afraid of becoming someone he wasn't, carrying stories about drinking that were planted in him long before he ever had a drop. When he finally put the bottle down in November of 2020, he expected relief. What he found instead was anger, the kind that had been hiding in plain sight his whole life, quietly running every relationship he had. This episode follows Zach through that harder, truer work. Not the quitting, but everything that came after it. The slow rebuilding of trust with his daughters, the patience required while his wife found her own sobriety two years behind him, and the strange, steady gratitude that replaced the pride he used to need. It's a conversation about what we each call our drug of choice, and what it actually costs to finally put it down. What You'll Hear: Why Zach's fear of alcohol started long before he ever took a drink The moment his daughter confronted him, and why he calls it brave What changed the night he poured out his last drink on November 13th Why he says quitting drinking was the easy part of his recovery How the chaos in his family shifted onto someone else once he got sober The theory he now uses with couples about everyone's hidden drug of choice Guest Bio: Zach Brittle is a licensed mental health counselor, Certified Gottman Therapist, Certified Relational Life Therapist, speaker, and host of Marriage Therapy Radio, a relationship podcast with more than 4 million downloads. He has spent years helping couples navigate conflict, connection, repair, and intimacy with more honesty and skill. In addition to his clinical work, Zach speaks openly about his own recovery journey and the deeper work of learning to stay present in the face of anger, uncertainty, and relational pain. His story brings together themes of sobriety, emotional responsibility, marriage, and personal transformation in a way that is both honest and deeply human. Follow Zach on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, YouTube, and LinkedIn all under the same handle @marriagetherapyradio --- Listen and follow: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/follow Subscribe to the newsletter: https://thelifeshiftpodcast.beehiiv.com/ --- sobriety, recovery from alcohol, anger and addiction, parenting through change, couples therapy, asking for help, family healing, gratitude in recovery, fatherhood and forgiveness, honesty after addiction You Might Also Like: Rock Bottom: Where the Most Fulfilling Life Began Fatherhood: The Fifteen Minutes That Changed Everything Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Surrender: The Wave That Changed Everything 05.08.2026 53мин

  Have you ever kept moving because stopping felt more dangerous than going? Pat knew that feeling better than most. He filled his life with travel and sport and constant motion, not because he loved being busy, but because stillness was where his hardest thoughts lived. Then on an ordinary foggy morning, a wave put him face-first into a sandbar at Ocean Beach in San Francisco. He broke his neck. He stopped breathing in the water. And somewhere between almost dying and being pulled back to shore by his friend John, something in him reorganized completely. This episode follows Pat from a childhood that taught him to hide what he felt, through years of outrunning himself across more than fifty countries, into a hospital bed where he had to relearn how to move his own foot, and finally into the life he lives now. One built, day by day, on a phrase he still says to himself. Even when it's bad, it's good. What You'll Hear: How a childhood built on toughness taught Pat to hide what he was really feeling The accident at Ocean Beach, and the minutes he spent saying goodbye to the people he loved What it was like to be rescued, revived, and told his neck was broken How he found gratitude inside a body that had to relearn how to walk Why he now works with young people who carry the same silence he used to carry What it means to finally live in the present instead of always running from it Guest Bio: Patrick Yalon is a San Francisco-based deputy probation officer, high school basketball coach, endurance athlete, writer, and the author of the upcoming memoir Still Here. In 2024, he nearly died in a catastrophic surfing accident at Ocean Beach, where he broke his neck, drowned, was revived on the beach, and underwent emergency spinal surgery. What followed was a long and uncertain recovery that forced him to rebuild not only his body, but his identity and sense of purpose. Since then, Patrick has used endurance, reflection, and writing as part of that rebuilding process, including taking on the Moab 240 ultramarathon. He writes and speaks about trauma, resilience, meaning, and what it means to live fully after nearly losing everything. iRunFar article: https://www.irunfar.com/still-here-running-the-moab-240-mile-after-a-near-death-surfing-accident --- Listen and follow: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/follow Subscribe to the newsletter: https://thelifeshiftpodcast.beehiiv.com/ --- near death experience, surviving trauma, spinal cord injury recovery, learning to be present, outrunning your feelings, gratitude after tragedy, second chance at life, healing from silence, masculinity and emotion, finding purpose after trauma You Might Also Like: Illness: When the Hard Thing Sets You Free Fatherhood: The Fifteen Minutes That Changed Everything Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Reclamation: Coming Back To The Girl Who Got Shut Down 02.08.2026 53мин

  Have you ever lived a life that worked, on paper, and still felt like you were only halfway in the room? That is where Lena Fein spent most of her life. Not broken. Not miserable. Just partially there, ever since a moment at seven years old when the safest place she had, her own diary, got read out loud and used against her. Lena did everything right after that. School, a career in engineering, a family, a persona that held. And underneath it, a part of her stayed folded up and quiet for over forty years, until her mother was dying of cancer and Lena looked into her eyes one last time and saw something she had been waiting her whole life to see. That moment did not fix anything overnight. But it cracked something open, and Lena spent the years after slowly, gently claiming back the pieces of herself she had given up on. Her voice. Her rhythm. Her breath. Her story, eventually written down and shared with the world in her memoir, Shattering the Mirror. This episode is for anyone who has ever wondered if the parts of themselves they buried a long time ago are still in there somewhere, waiting. They usually are. What You'll Hear The diary moment that taught a seven-year-old to hide her heart A childhood accident that left Lena unable to fully breathe for decades What she saw in her mother's eyes in the final days of her life How she slowly reclaimed dancing, singing, and writing as an adult Why she finally found the courage to publish her memoir What it means to find compassion for a parent who never had the tools Guest Bio Lena Fein lives in San Francisco, the city of her birth. After receiving a master’s degree in engineering from UC Berkeley, she enjoyed a successful career in high tech and founded a non-profit that funded health and education projects in at-risk communities around the globe. Now retired, Lena enjoys the arts in all their forms, including painting, singing, dancing, and writing. Currently, Lena is often seen taking long walks by the bay and hugging her grandchildren. Her memoir, "Shattering the Mirror," is about her quest to confront her life and see through the distortions of her traumatic childhood. Now in her late sixties, Lena lives with more freedom, clarity, and love than she ever imagined. The book is really about the truth that healing is possible at any age — and that wholeness is priceless. Lena's book and links: shatteringthemirror.com Listen and follow: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/s5e270 Follow the show: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/follow Subscribe to the newsletter: https://thelifeshiftpodcast.beehiiv.com/ --- mother wound, childhood shame, deathbed forgiveness, reclaiming your voice, emotional numbness, generational trauma, finding wholeness, late life awakening, memoir writing, healing after loss You Might Also Like: Choosing the Harder Door: From Childhood Shame to Federal Prison Self-Worth: The Life She Fought For Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Choosing the Harder Door: From Childhood Shame to Federal Prison 29.07.2026 59мин

  Some secrets get handed to us before we are old enough to know what to do with them. Ranae was a preteen in a small Minnesota town when she was sexually abused by boys she had known her whole life. The instruction that followed- stay quiet, or people will think you are bad- became the quiet architecture of everything she built afterward. For decades that belief ran the show. It showed up as people pleasing, as quitting good jobs before anyone could find out she was not good enough, as a kind of disappearing she did inside her own mind without ever naming it. Eventually it led her into a scheme that spiraled into wire and mail fraud, and one morning, into a bathroom mirror where she gave herself exactly two ways out. She chose to turn herself in. She served fifty-one months in federal prison, and she will tell you plainly that walking through those doors is the day her healing actually began. This conversation is about shame, about the stories we are told to keep, and about what becomes possible once we finally put one down. What You'll Hear: How a childhood secret in a town of 572 people shaped three decades of choices The moment Ranae faced two options in front of a mirror, and chose the harder one Why she says her healing began the day she walked into federal prison The prison psychologist who refused to let her settle for halfway What it felt like to walk out the doors and feel free for the first time How Connecting to Cope, named after her dog, became her life's second purpose Guest Bio: Ranae Van Roekel is a mother, grandmother, wife, dog lover—and someone whose life was forever changed by the consequences of her choices. After committing a crime that harmed people both close to her and unknown to her, Ranae served 36 months in federal prison. What she once thought could never be part of her story—being labeled a felon—became a defining chapter in her journey. Through incarceration, Ranae came to understand how deeply unresolved trauma had shaped her actions and decisions. This realization became the catalyst for years of healing and recovery. She has since dedicated herself to self-care, education, and advocacy, using her lived experience to help others—regardless of their histories or hardships—discover coping skills and pathways toward healing. Today, Ranae is a passionate advocate for justice reform, working to create a system that acknowledges the humanity of every individual and addresses the root causes of crime, including trauma, stress, and mental health struggles. Through her platform, Connecting to Cope, she shares her story, insights, and strategies with others navigating personal or professional challenges. Her mission is clear: to empower people to face their pain, embrace healing, and move toward thriving lives. Social Channels https://www.facebook.com/connectingtocope/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/connecting-to-cope/ https://www.instagram.com/connectingtocope/ https://connectingtocope.com/ --- Listen and follow: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/follow Subscribe to the newsletter: https://thelifeshiftpodcast.beehiiv.com/ --- childhood sexual abuse, shame and secrecy, people pleasing, federal prison, healing in prison, trauma and choices, white collar crime, family forgiveness, finding worth, prison reform advocacy You Might Also Like: Reclamation: Coming Back To The Girl Who Got Shut Down Self-Worth: The Life She Fought For Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Comfort: When Cozy Becomes a Cage 26.07.2026 53мин

  Have you ever noticed your life getting smaller without ever deciding to shrink it? Not all at once. Just one canceled plan, one closed door, one quiet no to something that used to feel possible, until one day you look up and wonder where all the room went. That's where Scott Stirrett found himself partway through COVID. He'd already done the hard things once. Left a steady job at twenty-two to start a charity from nothing. Came out, eventually, after years of being afraid of what people might think. But comfort, real comfort, has a way of quietly wearing off if you let it. A decade of stability dulled the muscle he used to take risks with, and it took a pandemic and a therapist's gentle observation to show him how far it had drifted. This is a conversation about what it actually takes to rebuild a relationship with the unknown. Not white knuckling through it. Practicing it, on purpose, the same way you'd train a muscle you forgot you had. And about what becomes possible once you stop needing to know how things will turn out before you're willing to try. What You'll Hear: How a decade of stability quietly wore down Scott's comfort with risk The moment in COVID that made him name his own perfectionism out loud Why he believes self compassion, not ambition, is the real engine behind growth What it took to leave the charity he built and led for twelve years How coming out later in life changed his relationship with fear itself The difference between a good decision and a good outcome, and why that distinction matters Guest Bio: Scott Stirrett is a Canadian entrepreneur, author, and social impact leader whose mission is to help people reach their full potential. He is the Founder of Venture for Canada (VFC), a national charity that has supported over 10,000 young professionals since its launch in 2013. Under Scott’s leadership, VFC has raised over $80 million and built partnerships with organizations including Employment and Social Development Canada, RBC Foundation, TD Bank, Scotiabank, and leading Canadian foundations. The organization focuses on equipping early-career Canadians with the entrepreneurial skills and mindset needed to thrive in an uncertain economy. Scott is the author of The Uncertainty Advantage, a practical guide for young professionals navigating today’s unpredictable world of work. Endorsed by Andrew Yang, Stephen Poloz, Amanda Lang, Eric Ries, Sukhinder Singh Cassidy, and Michele Romanow, the book draws on lessons from scaling VFC, emphasizing adaptability, entrepreneurial thinking, and lifelong learning. Before founding VFC, Scott worked at Goldman Sachs in New York City. He is a graduate of Georgetown University’s Walsh School of Foreign Service. He has been recognized as a Telus LGBTQ Innovator of the Year, an Action Canada Fellow, a Globe and Mail Changemaker, and an Ashoka Fellow, among other honours. His commentary has been featured in The Washington Post, Forbes, Fast Company, The Globe and Mail, CBC News Network, and BNN Bloomberg. He currently serves as Co-Chair of the Board at the Canadian Centre for Housing Rights and sits on the Board of the Speech and Debate Canada Foundation. Links: Personal website: https://www.scottstirrett.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/scottstirrett/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scottstirrett/ Substack: https://substack.com/@scottstirrett Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Uncertainty-Advantage-Launching-Career-Change-ebook/dp/B0DGCD6ZCV/ —- Listen and follow: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/follow Subscribe to the newsletter: https://thelifeshiftpodcast.beehiiv.com/ --- comfort with uncertainty, fear of the unknown, perfectionism recovery, coming out later in life, leaving what you built, self compassion practice, risk taking and growth, shrinking under pressure, rebuilding confidence, chosen family and friendship You Might Also Like: Starting Over: You Can Lose Everything and Still Be Okay Fatherhood: The Fifteen Minutes That Changed Everything Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Fatherhood: The Fifteen Minutes That Changed Everything 22.07.2026 56мин

  Have you ever looked fine on paper and still felt like something was missing. Good job, good marriage, kids who love you, and underneath all of it, a quiet hum of not quite. Drew Norton knew that hum well. He was drifting through his late twenties, chasing money because he thought money was the thing that would finally make him feel like enough. Then one afternoon he came home to find his six month old son not breathing. What followed was an hour and a half that felt like a lifetime, a misdiagnosis that haunted his family for weeks, and a slow, unglamorous rebuilding of a man who realized the work he thought he was doing for a paycheck was actually the work that taught him how to show up for the people he loved. Drew talks about what it cost him to keep performing wellness instead of practicing it, what his wife's healing taught him about his own, and why he now spends his days helping other men find the brotherhood he didn't have when he needed it most. What You'll Hear: The fifteen minutes between a phone call and a front door that changed everything Why looking fine from the outside almost cost Drew his presence on the inside How a misdiagnosis turned weeks of fear into a strange kind of mercy The realization that sales training and listening to his wife were the same skill Why men are lonelier than ever, and what brotherhood actually requires The four pillars Drew now builds his life and his work around Guest Bio: Drew Norton is "The Everyday Sales Leader," a podcast host, and Co-founder of The Abundant Man. After a family emergency reshaped his perspective, Drew lost 100 lbs and led a sales team to over $20 million in revenue. Today, he helps leaders and teams unlock their potential through his core teachings: Leadership is a Choice and Sales is Life. He believes that to Belong is the first step to Believe and Become , and he challenges high-performers to realize that Wanting More is the only path that enables you to Serve More. Drew is a private pilot, a husband of 13 years, and a father of four. https://my.theabundantmanproject.com/ ---- Listen and follow: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/follow Subscribe to the newsletter: https://thelifeshiftpodcast.beehiiv.com/ --- drifting, complacency, fatherhood fear, marriage after trauma, faith and doubt, men and vulnerability, brotherhood, finding purpose, presence over perfection, rebuilding after fear You Might Also Like: Anger: The Drink I Never Stopped Drinking Surrender: The Wave That Changed Everything Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Illness: When the Hard Thing Sets You Free 19.07.2026 1ч

  Have you ever had a feeling in your gut that just knew, that told you to keep going even when nothing around you confirmed it? Carly had one of those since she was a kid. And then, somewhere around thirty, it went quiet. If you have ever lost the thing that used to steer you, you already know how unmooring that silence can be. Carly's path winds through a childhood spent on stages, a move to New York at twenty-two, a pandemic that emptied out her industry overnight, and a second cancer diagnosis that arrived right when she had already started to lose her footing. She talks about sitting on a couch and telling the people who loved her most that she needed to go dark for a while, and how that one honest moment became part of how she found her way back. The shift here is not loud. It is the slow trade of proving herself to other people for simply loving the work because she loves it. By the end, Carly is lighter. Not because everything got easier, but because she stopped carrying things that were never hers to carry in the first place. What You'll Hear: How a lifelong gut feeling disappeared around Carly's thirtieth birthday, and what that silence revealed The pandemic years that emptied out her life in New York and quietly reshaped her identity A second cancer diagnosis at thirty one, and the couch conversation where she asked for permission to fall apart Why she chose to go dark instead of staying positive, and what that taught her about real support Starting a TikTok account from a hospital room and finding a community no support group could give her How a feature film role and a move to Philadelphia became proof that the hardest chapter also cleared a path forward Guest Bio: Carly Otte is a New York City & Philadelphia-based actor, improviser, and storyteller originally from Pittsburgh. Her on-screen credits include The Fault in Our Stars, recurring appearances on Impractical Jokers, and most recently the feature mockumentary The Conspiracists (now streaming on Amazon Prime). In addition to her performance work, she teaches improv at the Philly Improv Theater and works in communications and storytelling. Carly is also a two-time cancer survivor who shares patient advocacy content on TikTok, using her platform to document her journey and support others. Follow Carly on Instagram: instagram.com/CarlyOtte Follow Carly's cancer journey on TikTok: tiktok.com/@CarlyOtte Watch The Conspiracists on Amazon Prime --- Listen and follow: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/follow Subscribe to the newsletter: https://thelifeshiftpodcast.beehiiv.com/ --- cancer survivor, redefining success, identity shift, acting career, second diagnosis, grief and healing, creative joy, finding community, starting over, self worth You Might Also Like: Rock Bottom: Where the Most Fulfilling Life Began Surrender: The Wave That Changed Everything Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Identity: More Than the Thing You're Known For 15.07.2026 1ч 1мин

  Have you ever performed feeling completely fine while everyone around you assumed you were falling apart. Kate Kayaian knows that feeling from the inside. She spent four decades as a professional cellist, the kind of career most people only dream about, and on the night that career quietly ended, a room full of people watched her voice shake and assumed grief. What she was actually feeling was relief. We talk about how she chose the cello at four and a half because of a boy she had a crush on, and how that one small decision became her entire identity for the next forty years. We talk about what it felt like to be cheered for and still feel like, in her words, a trained monkey. We talk about giving herself permission to stop with no crisis forcing her hand, just a quiet knowing. And we talk about sitting at her mother's deathbed and asking forgiveness for a decision her mother never needed her to ask forgiveness for. The shift here isn't really about quitting an instrument. It's about the moment you realize the thing everyone has always known you as isn't the whole truth of who you are, and what it costs, and frees, to go find out who's underneath. What You'll Hear Why a four year old's crush on a boy shaped four decades of Kate's life The night an audience mistook her relief for heartbreak What it felt like to be called a trained monkey, and still love the music Giving herself permission to stop, with no crisis forcing her hand Rebuilding an identity from scratch in her late forties The conversation with her dying mother that gave her real permission Guest Bio Kate Kayaian is an author, speaker, and career strategist for high achievers who want to build lives of impact, purpose, and sustainable success. A former professional cellist, Kate performed as a soloist, chamber musician, and recitalist in venues ranging from Boston’s Jordan Hall to leading European concert halls. She trained at the New England Conservatory of Music and held a fellowship with the New World Symphony Orchestra under Michael Tilson Thomas. Today, Kate’s work centers on helping accomplished professionals—creatives, executives, educators, and entrepreneurs—define success on their own terms and create careers that feel as good as they look. Through her 1:1 coaching and her signature group program, the Creatives Leadership Academy, she guides clients to develop clarity, confidence, and the practical strategies needed to lead at the highest level without sacrificing their well-being. She is the author of Beyond Potential, a practical guide for high performers navigating the next chapter of their professional lives, and the host of Tales from The Lane, a podcast exploring the hidden challenges and unexpected joys of success. As a sought-after speaker, Kate delivers keynotes and workshops on leadership presence, mindset transformation, and redefining what’s possible for high achievers across industries. Alongside her private practice, Kate serves as President and Artistic Director of the Bermuda Philharmonic Orchestra, where she continues to champion creativity, collaboration, and innovation in the arts. She lives on the island of Bermuda, where she spends her days coaching clients around the world, writing, speaking, and tending to her garden. Instagram: @kkayaian LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kate-kayaian-852147181/ Website: www.katekayaian.com ---- Listen and follow: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/follow Subscribe to the newsletter: https://thelifeshiftpodcast.beehiiv.com/ --- identity after a career, professional musician burnout, who am I without my job, redefining potential, second career after forty, grief and relief, permission to stop, starting over later in life, letting go of an identity, midlife reinvention You Might Also Like: Rock Bottom: Where the Most Fulfilling Life Began Illness: When the Hard Thing Sets You Free Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Self-Worth: The Life She Fought For 12.07.2026 1ч 12мин

  Some decisions cannot be made with a chart. Joy Kong knows this because she tried. Three days and three nights of careful, logical reasoning, and still she could not talk herself out of what her gut already knew: she needed to leave China and find her own life, even if she could not explain why. What followed was years of fighting. A visa rejection that most people would have taken as a sign to stop. An isolating marriage in a country where she knew almost no one and had no safety net. And a quiet moment on the floor of her apartment, squatting and sobbing, where something in her finally admitted how much pain she had been carrying. Joy did not just survive those years. She built something from them. A medical career. A stem cell academy. A company. A memoir. And a way of seeing the world that holds both the difficulty and the beauty at the same time. What You'll Hear: The three-day decision that changed the entire direction of Joy's life What it felt like to be rejected by the American embassy after 18 months of preparation How she cold-called hotel rooms in Beijing to find her way out The slow, quiet erosion of an isolating marriage, and the moment she knew she had to leave The unexpected mentor who went to bat for her when no one else would How escaping circumstances is only the first kind of freedom, and why the deeper kind takes much longer Guest Bio: Dr. Joy Kong is a UCLA trained, Stem Cell Doctor of the Decade 2021 and triple board certified anti aging physician. She is the President of the American Academy of Integrative Cell Therapy and a leading voice in regenerative medicine and longevity science. Beyond her medical work, Dr. Kong’s personal journey includes immigrating from China, escaping an abusive marriage, and rebuilding her life from scratch after arriving in the US with almost nothing. She brings a grounded perspective on resilience, integrity, and the body mind connection, while helping audiences understand stem cell therapy with clarity and realism. Website: https://joykongmd.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr_joy_kong/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joy-kong-md-4b8627123/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@joykongmd ---- Listen and follow: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/follow Subscribe to the newsletter: https://thelifeshiftpodcast.beehiiv.com/ --- starting over, leaving home, abusive marriage, finding identity, immigrant resilience, escaping control, rebuilding a life, inner strength, freedom, soul survival You Might Also Like: Starting Over: You Can Lose Everything and Still Be Okay Reclamation: Coming Back To The Girl Who Got Shut Down Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices