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  Delayed Ejaculation in Ethical Non-Monogamy: Causes, Impact & Solutions 28.01.2026 30мин

  Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] Premature ejaculation gets the commercials and the jokes. Delayed ejaculation? Crickets. Yet this condition affects millions of men and their partners—and it matters more than you think. In this episode, we're breaking the stigma around delayed ejaculation. We explore the medical causes (medications, injuries, conditions), the psychological factors (anxiety, performance pressure, relationship dynamics), the real...
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  Finding Your Voice: How to Set Boundaries in an Open Relationship 19.11.2025 46мин

  Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] When you finally find your voice in the lifestyle, everything changes. In this episode, Ed and Phoebe explore one of the most transformational shifts couples make in ethical non-monogamy: moving from "going along to keep the peace" to confidently advocating for what you actually want. If you've ever said yes when you really meant no, or felt like you were in the backseat of your own experience, this conversation...
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  Dirty Vanillas Are Ruining Swinging (Or Are They?) 05.11.2025 37мин

  Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] There's a real debate happening in the lifestyle community: Are "dirty vanillas" (people showing up to swinger events but not actually swinging) ruining the experience? Or is the real problem something we've completely misunderstood? In this episode, Ed and Phoebe dig into the data, share surprising stories, and challenge everything you thought you knew about who belongs in these spaces. By the end, you might se...
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  You're Asking The WRONG Question About Sex Frequency (Here's What Actually Matters) 16.10.2025 1ч 6мин

  Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] How often are you really supposed to be having sex? Spoiler alert: You've been asking the wrong question. Society pushes a "magic number" for sexual frequency that's causing more harm than good. The truth? There is no normal. We're diving deep into why the three-times-a-week standard is BS, how desire actually works in long-term relationships, and the one thing that matters more than counting sessions—quality an...
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  Why Can't You Stop Thinking About Last Weekend? 02.10.2025 1ч 5мин

  Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] Why does a piece of chocolate trigger the same brain chemical as meeting someone new at a swinger party? This episode reveals the surprising neuroscience behind New Relationship Energy, dopamine addiction, and why the swinging lifestyle can feel impossible to walk away from. Ed and Phoebe break down the science of pleasure—from that 55% dopamine spike you get from chocolate to the 1000% surge from harder substan...
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  Does My Hobby Offend Your Lifestyle? 18.09.2025 28мин

  Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] Is swinging just a lighthearted hobby… or a defining lifestyle choice? In this episode of our swinger lifestyle podcast, we dive into the hobby vs lifestyle debate that’s sparking conversations across the swinger community and beyond. We explore why some couples embrace swinging as a fun, occasional activity — a playful part of ethical non‑monogamy — while others see it as a core relationship identity tied to t...
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  The Controversy of Reclaiming: Hot Ritual or Problematic Possession in Swinging 21.08.2025 37мин

  Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] Is "reclaiming" in the swinging lifestyle sexy ritual or possessive play? Ed and Phoebe unpack this controversial term, sharing their real experiences and perspectives from within the community. In this episode, we cover: The origins and controversy around the term "reclaiming"How language like "reclaiming" vs "reconnecting" shapes our swinging experiencesThe historical and possessive undertones in lifestyle ter...
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  STI Myths Busted The Naked Truth About STI Testing & Safer Sex 07.08.2025 43мин

  Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] Get real answers to burning questions about STI safety in the swinging lifestyle. Ed and Phoebe break down common myths, honest risks, and practical tips for safer sex at parties, events, and orgies. Why standard STI tests and "full panels" don't cover everythingThe dangers of a false sense of security with recent test resultsReal talk about latency periods, symptom-free infections, and what that means for you...
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  Breaking Stereotypes: Age, Body Type, and Preferences in the Swinger Community 23.07.2025 59мин

  Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] Curious about what diversity really means in the swinger lifestyle? In this episode, Ed and Phoebe break down the surprising variety you’ll find—and why it’s not what you might expect. The wide range of body types, ages, and preferences within swinger communitiesDifferent styles of parties, play, and consent practices (including substance use and communication)How self-confidence, body image, and social dynamics...
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  Top Signs You Might Be With the Wrong Couple! 09.07.2025 41мин

  Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] Ever wondered what red flags you should watch for in the swinging lifestyle? In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive deep into real-life stories of dates gone wrong, rude behavior, mismatched expectations, and questionable consent. From couples who show a totally different side on a second date, to partners who don’t seem on the same page, we share the signs that made us question, “Is this real...
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  5 Tips That Made Swinging Work For Us 25.06.2025 27мин

  Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] 00:00 - Start 01:01 - Tip 1: Pace It Out 03:31 - Tip 2: Fears and Expectations 06:17 - Tip 3: Get Uncomfortable 09:05 - Tip 4: Grow and Change 12:40 - Tip 5: Trust 21:34 - Lets talk about cheating... 22:47 - Wrap Up! Support the show Want More? 👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube Show Full video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/Swinge...
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  Does your swinger card expire? 17.04.2025 53мин

  Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] Feeling like the lifestyle doesn’t light you up anymore? You’re not alone—and this episode is for you. In this powerful conversation, Ed and Phoebe from Swinger University sit down with Kel to talk about what it really means when your desires evolve and swinging starts to feel... different. 🌶️Get extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http:...
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  How a Random Podcast Changed Our Marriage Forever! - Our First Swinger Experience 02.04.2025 36мин

  Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] Have you ever had a night that changed everything? 🤯 We did. One minute we were a normal couple, listening to a podcast... the next, we were plunging headfirst into a secret swinger party we found on Craigslist! 😳 Join us as we reveal the shocking, raw, and completely unexpected story of how we became swingers. We were nervous, excited, and totally out of our depth at this "Share Your Wife" party with total str...
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  Unlocking the Swinger Lifestyle: No Experience Required! 19.03.2025 41мин

  Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] Are you curious about the swinger lifestyle but don't know where to start? This video is for you! We'll take you on a journey to unlock the secrets of this exciting and often misunderstood world, no experience required. From understanding what happens at parties to navigating the rules and etiquette, we'll cover it all. Whether you're a seasoned explorer or just curious about what goes on behind closed doors, th...
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  Is Swinging at Risk? The Political Fight for Non-Monogamy Rights 05.03.2025 1ч 9мин

  Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] With the current political climate taking aim at diversity, equity, and inclusion... Is the swinger lifestyle in the crosshairs? Are decisions being made that will affect our community? In this episode of Swinger University, we sit down with Brett Chamberlain, Executive Director at OPEN—a nonprofit dedicated to advocating for polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and legal rights for non-monogamous individuals and fa...
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  ED, Performance Anxiety & Swinging – The Secrets No One Talks About 19.02.2025 49мин

  Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] You're in the moment—the music is sexy, the lighting is perfect, and your partner is ready. But suddenly… nothing happens. Your mind races, and the pressure builds. Sound familiar? You’re not alone! In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive deep into performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction (ED) in the swinging lifestyle. We discuss the psychological and physiological causes of ED, the pressu...
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  America’s Sex Ed Problem: Alex Liu Tells All in "A Sexplanation" 05.02.2025 1ч 12мин

  Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] In this episode of Swinger University, we sit down with Alex Liu, the writer, director, and star of "A Sexplanation", a groundbreaking documentary that dives into sexual stigma, shame, and the lack of comprehensive sex education. Alex shares his journey from molecular biology to filmmaking, tackling taboos around sex, drugs, and identity. We explore how better conversations about consent, sexuality, and pleasure...
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  Alcohol and Cancer Risk: What Every Swinger Should Know 22.01.2025 37мин

  Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] In this eye-opening episode of Swinger University, Phoebe and Ed dive into the surprising connection between alcohol, swinging, and health risks. Explore how the social and uninhibited nature of alcohol impacts swingers, from parties to resorts and cruises, and why it’s everywhere in the lifestyle. Learn about alcohol's lesser-known classification as a carcinogen, its effects on health (like cancer risks and hor...
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  We Threw Out All Our Rules - But How Did You Feel? 15.01.2025 49мин

  Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] In this episode of Swinger University, we take a deep dive into our first full-swap experience and address insightful listener questions about the psychological and emotional dynamics that come with breaking traditional boundaries. From the thrill of connection to the surprising emotions that emerged, we explore how our feelings evolved and the lessons we learned along the way. Whether you're curious about the l...
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  Navigate New Relationship Energy NRE - Without Breaking your Marriage! 08.01.2025 42мин

  Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] Navigate New Relationship Energy (NRE) – Without Breaking Your Marriage! | Swinger University Can New Relationship Energy (NRE) bring excitement and passion to your life, or is it a risky road for your marriage? In this episode, Ed and Phoebe explore the highs and lows of NRE, offering science-backed insights and practical advice to help you enjoy the thrill of new connections without compromising your relations...