Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

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  Seattle Makes Polyamory a Protected Class: ENM Under the Law 20.09.2026 55мин

  Seattle just made history — and Adam & Pris are unpacking it. This past week, the Seattle City Council voted unanimously to extend anti-discrimination protections to people in polyamorous relationships, adding polyamory, pansexuality, and asexuality to the city's legal definition of sexual orientation. So on this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris dig into what this means for the whole ethical non-monogamy (ENM) umbrella — polyamory, swinging, kink, and everything in between. In this episode: The Seattle City Council's new law protecting polyamorous people from discrimination Is swinging covered under "consensual non-monogamy" too? Adam and Pris debate it Orientation vs. choice: are you born non-monogamous, or is it a decision? Real data — a 2025 survey found 61% of non-monogamous people report facing prejudice or discrimination Why so many in the swinger lifestyle and polyamorous communities stay closeted at work A candid, no-filter conversation between Adam and Pris about their own relationship dynamic Whether you're poly, swinging, or somewhere in the beautiful gray area of ethical non-monogamy, this one's for you. Catch us live every Thursday at 7PM Central for our FREE livestream, plus new episodes, blogs, and events at beyond-monogamy.com. You can also catch us on FullSwapRadio every Thursday at 2PM and 7PM Central. Upcoming events: Swinger 101 Workshop — Austin, TX at Forbidden Fruit, November 15th Krazy Winter Nights — Kansas City, February 19th–21st. Use code BEYOMONO at krazykasbh.com This episode is brought to you by: The Pleasure Chest — sex toys, lingerie, and kink gear with an education-first approach. Locations in NY, Chicago, and LA, or shop online at thepleasurechest.com. 3Fun — meet like-minded people in the lifestyle. Use code TK11932. SDC — Austin-area swingers and ENM couples, use discount code 38236. Got a question or confession? Send it through our 100% anonymous confessional at beyond-monogamy.com. Like, subscribe, and leave us a review — it helps more than you know!
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  QUICKIE: Swingers Stuck in a Vanilla Setting 16.09.2026 30мин

  Ever had to "behave" in a room full of vanilla people? In this QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam & Pris get real about the very specific chaos of being deep in the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy... and then suddenly finding yourselves surrounded by vanilla friends who have no idea what you get up to. They break down the wandering-hand incidents, the flirting instincts they had to swallow, the "swingers in the wild" story that started a real friendship, and why judgment from vanilla folks is usually a mirror, not a mic drop. Plus: objectification in the ENM community, who's really "calling the shots" in a swinger relationship, and why porn's objectification argument doesn't hold up the way people think. Behaving (or not) in vanilla settings as an experienced swinger couple The wandering-hand story that got Adam benched to "hands in lap" Spotting real-life swingers in a vanilla bar Objectification of women in the non-monogamy community — and the 50/50 problem Who calls the shots more: men or women in open relationships? Catch us live: Head to beyond-monogamy.com for every episode, our blog, and our FREE livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central. You can also catch us on FullSwapRadio. Don't forget to check the Events tab at beyond-monogamy.com for every upcoming chance to meet Adam & Pris in person. This episode is brought to you by Sliquid — made in the US with clean ingredients, in water-based, silicone, and organic formulas. The water-based line is toy-safe and built to last through however long the night goes. Get 15% off here: https://sliquid.com/beyondmonogamy?ref=145 Enjoyed the show? Like, subscribe, share it with someone in your community, and leave us a 5-star review — it genuinely helps more people find us.
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  ENM Mailbag: Lifestyle Burnout, Jealousy & Pool Party Game 13.09.2026 49мин

  It's a mailbag episode! Adam & Pris skip the guest and dig straight into the inbox for two listener questions that could not be more different — one heavy, one fun, and both real talk about ethical non-monogamy (ENM) and the swinger lifestyle. A 20+ year married couple, 3-5 years into the lifestyle, hits a wall: he's thriving in non-monogamy, she's over it. Adam & Pris break down jealousy, trust, communication, and how to figure out what's actually fair for both partners. A newbie couple at their third lifestyle pool party watches his wife get swarmed while he freezes up. The question: what are the signals men miss, and how should a guy actually approach a woman (or couple) at a swinger party without being "that guy"? Real talk on setting boundaries, reading the room, non-monogamy jealousy, and open relationship communication tools you can use tonight. Got your own question or confession? Drop it anonymously in the confessional at beyond-monogamy.com — no names, no pressure. While you're there, catch the free livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central, check the blog, and browse past guests. You can also catch us on FullSwapRadio every Thursday at 2PM and 7PM Central. Upcoming events: Catch us at Club Eden on September 19th with our friend Pineapple Jen. And mark your calendars for Krazy Winter Nights in Kansas City, Missouri, February 19-21 — register at krazykasbh.com and use code BEYOMONO for a discount. This episode's sponsor: SwingTap — a one-time-fee lifestyle profile platform (no subscription). Build your profile with photos and preferences, then share it instantly via a custom link, QR code, or a wearable (rings, bracelets, even NFC cards) that looks like everyday jewelry until you want it to be more. Check it out at SwingTap.fun, or use our link SwingTap.fun/share/BeyoMono to support the show.
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  To Wax or Not to Wax: Bush, Bald & Body Talk in ENM 09.09.2026 26мин

  Do you like it bald, or with a little fuzz? On this Wednesday quickie, Adam and Pris dive into one of the most-avoided topics in the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy world: pubic hair. From sugar waxing versus hard waxing, to Adam's confession about an old insecurity sparked by a "hairy or bare" poll in a lifestyle group, this episode is a funny, honest look at grooming, body image, and self-acceptance in ENM. Sugar wax vs. hard wax, and why Pris is ready to quit cold turkey The trimmer that's actually worth the Amazon order Adam's "hairy or bare" story and why body-hair shaming needs to grow up Manscaping for hairy guys: the "penis-shaped underwear" problem FUPA talk: body insecurities, self-love, and loving your partner's curves This one's a feel-good pubic ode of love: preferences are fine, but body-shaming isn't. Love your body, love yourself, and be comfortable with who you are. Catch us live: Head to beyond-monogamy.com for every past episode, companion blogs, merch, and our anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional line. Join us for our FREE livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central, and catch us on FullSwapRadio too. This episode is brought to you by 3Fun — the app for couples and singles who want to connect with like-minded people. It's easy, low-pressure, and way less awkward than figuring it out on your own. Download 3Fun here. Keywords: swinger lifestyle, ethical non-monogamy, ENM podcast, open relationship, pubic hair grooming, body positivity in non-monogamy, swinger podcast.
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  Kink Night at Club Eden: Our First BDSM Club Experience 02.09.2026 42мин

  Kink Night at Club Eden just broke our brains — in the best way. On this Wednesday quickie, Adam & Pris recap their first-ever Kink Night at their home swinger club, where a dominatrix friend and her sub gave them a front-row education in flogging, electric wands, sounding rods, and the real meaning of consent and power exchange in the BDSM world. This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about where kink and the ethical non-monogamy / swinger lifestyle overlap — and where they don't. In this episode: Why Kink Night at Club Eden in San Antonio is nothing like the Saturday swinger crowd Meeting "Mistress Vampirella" and her sub, dressed head-to-toe in gear Adam & Pris had never seen up close Adam's Indiana-Jones-style flogging lesson (and why he couldn't bring himself to do it) The electric wand, nipple clamps, cock cages, and an intro to sounding rods (yes, really) Why humiliation play is about consent and power exchange, not cruelty Headspace, aftercare, and the biggest myths about the kink community Adam considering a future as a dom (maybe even a "dom porn star") A shout-out to their upcoming Shibari adventure: ShibART-i in Houston on November 14th Ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, and kink all live in the same neighborhood of judgment-free exploration — this episode is proof. Catch us live: Every Thursday at 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central on FullSwapRadio, plus our FREE weekly livestream at beyond-monogamy.com. Upcoming event: Join us at ShibART-i in the Houston area on November 14th — a Shibari art event we can't wait to experience (and yes, we're having the organizer on the show soon — stay tuned). This episode is brought to you by ProDX Health. At-home STI and hormone testing — no waiting rooms, no awkward conversations, just answers. Use code BEYOMONO at prodxhealth.com for 15% off year-round (even more during special events). Subscribe, share, and leave us a five-star review — and don't forget to catch us on YouTube too. Got a story, question, or confession? Drop it in our 100% anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional at beyond-monogamy.com — we just might read it on the show.
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  The Kinky Bros: Two Brothers Bond Over Rubber, Leather & Kink 30.08.2026 56мин

  Two brothers. Two very different kinks. One podcast that almost didn't happen. This week Adam & Pris sit down with Gryff and Jason, the real-life siblings behind the Kinky Bros Podcast — one gay, one straight, both deep in the kink world for years without ever telling each other, until a shared Netflix binge of "How to Build a Sex Room" blew the whole thing open. In this episode, we get into: How two brothers accidentally discovered they were both kinky — and how it changed their relationship Rubber and latex fetish life: stealth wear, breathability (or lack of it), and Texas summers Jason's jockstrap-and-thong origin story (thanks to a mystery pack he almost didn't order) Raising sex-positive kids in a non-monogamous, blended household Houston's surprisingly thriving queer kink community, vac cubes, and CBT 101 Compersion, jealousy, and hot wife dynamics — and why swingers aren't always as open-minded as they think Pegging, prostate pleasure, and why the swinging world still side-eyes it This is a raw, funny, genuinely educational conversation about ethical non-monogamy, kink, and the family bonds that can come from finally being honest about what turns you on. Find the Kinky Bros: search "Kinky Bros Podcast" on Apple, Spotify, iHeart, and Amazon Music, follow @kinkybrospodcast on Instagram & BlueSky, @kinkybrospod on X, or visit thekinkybros.com. Upcoming event: Shibari E, a live rope art show & demo night from Bound HTX, hits Houston on Saturday, November 14th. Details to come at beyond-monogamy.com. This episode is brought to you by SDC.com — the largest online community for open-minded adults. Make a free profile and start exploring. Use code 38236 at sdc.com. Catch us every Thursday at 7PM Central for our FREE livestream at beyond-monogamy.com, and streaming live on FullSwapRadio every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM Central on fullswapradio.com.
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  Do Swingers Get Nervous? Confidence & Anxiety in the Lifestyle 26.08.2026 33мин

  Do swingers still get nervous? After 15 years in the swinger lifestyle, Adam & Pris get real about nervousness, anxiety, and confidence in ethical non-monogamy. Spoiler: one of them still gets butterflies before every playdate, and the other struts through the club in lingerie like she owns the place. Guess who's who. In this quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy, your favorite ENM podcast couple digs into why nerves hit so differently for men and women in open relationships — and how to actually get past them. Why Pris stopped getting nervous (and the exact moment her confidence switch flipped) Why Adam STILL gets nervous after 15 years — even with planned playdates The mind-body connection nobody warns guys about, and why "just get hard" never works People-pleasing, rejection, and learning not to care who likes you Confident vs. egotistical — where's the line? Adam's field-tested advice for nervous guys in the lifestyle: say it once, then be a friend Spicy pic etiquette in the swinger community: who gets one, who gets blocked, and why you should always ask first Body confidence, exhibitionism, and the world's least suave way to put your underwear back on Whether you're new to swinging, curious about open relationships, or a lifestyle veteran who still feels the jitters, this episode is proof that nervousness is normal — and confidence can be built. Watch us LIVE: Free livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — plus every episode and the blog. On the radio: Catch us on FullSwapRadio every Thursday at 2PM and 7PM. Upcoming events: Lots coming — check the Events tab at beyond-monogamy.com and watch the socials. This episode is sponsored by SDC — the largest online community for open-minded adults. Make a profile, explore, and find your people. Sign up at SDC.com with code 38236.
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  Random Talks: Bedroom Dealbreakers & Swinger Club Etiquette 23.08.2026 1ч 7мин

  No script. No plan. Just Adam & Pris, a list of questions on a smartphone, and zero filter. This week on Beyond Monogamy, the swinger lifestyle podcast that says what everyone else is thinking, we free-flow through the questions couples in ethical non-monogamy actually ask each other — and the answers get real, fast. In this episode of your favorite ENM and open relationship podcast: Bedroom dealbreakers — what we absolutely do NOT want partners doing during play (porn-style pounding, neck sucking, and teeth all make the list) Instant turn-offs — including the "no glove, no love" conversation too many new swingers skip Oral honesty hour — why "low and slow" wins and why you should ALWAYS speak up Swinger club etiquette — couch swaps, when it's okay to touch, and why just asking never kills the mood Playing separately — the two-hour gap, the "deer in headlights" look, and what's too intimate with someone else Could a girlfriend ever happen? — WLW relationships, sexual roommates (hard no), and keeping connections organic How to actually link up with Adam & Pris — plus who should proposition who in couple-on-couple play Whether you're new to the swinger lifestyle or a full-swap veteran, this candid Q&A between real-life partners covers the consent, communication, and comedy that make non-monogamy work. Watch us LIVE: Free livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — plus all episodes, the blog, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. On the radio: Catch us on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM Central. Come hang out with us: Krazy Winter Nights in Kansas City, MO — February 2027! We're doing a LIVE show at the weekend takeover. Tickets at krazykasbh.com — use discount code BEYOMONO for a discount. This episode is sponsored by SDC — the largest online community for open-minded adults. Your people, all in one place. Sign up at SDC.com with code 38236. Like the show? Love us? Hit follow, drop a five-star review, and share it with a lifestyle friend.
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  Why Are People So Shitty? Swinger Drama, Bullies & Trolls 19.08.2026 35мин

  Why are people so shitty? It's the question nobody can answer, but this week Adam & Pris sure try. In this candid episode of Beyond Monogamy, your favorite swinger podcast couple airs a little dirty laundry (no names, promise) about drama, bullies, and trolls in the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy community — and how to protect yourself without losing your fun. In this episode: The 80–90% of the lifestyle community that's wonderful — and the tiny percentage that isn't A group owner gone rogue: platform bullying, minions, and a two-year obsession with fake profiles Why outing people in the swinger community is the one unforgivable sin Discretion vs. connection: why you can't be 100% anonymous and still succeed in the lifestyle How to vet new people (yes, including the video-with-your-name-and-date trick) Trolls, anonymous comments, and why Adam officially does not give a f*** One bad apple doesn't spoil this bunch — it's a whole fruit salad Watch us LIVE: Every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — chat with us free, drop a question in the 100% anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional, and check the events tab. Also on FullSwapRadio: Catch us at fullswapradio.com every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM Central, alongside a whole cavalcade of adult podcasters. Come party with us: Krazy Winter Nights — February 2027 in Kansas City, Missouri! Register at krazykasbh.com with discount code BEYOMONO for a discount. Exact dates on the events tab at beyond-monogamy.com. This episode is sponsored by FirmTech: makers of the Tech Ring — a wearable ring for firmness and blood flow that connects to an app with real, clinically researched data. And don't miss the Ring Mate attachment for your partner's pleasure (everybody wins). Get 15% off at firmtech.co with code BEYOMONO. If you like the show, say so — like, subscribe, leave a five-star review, and share this episode with someone who needs it. It costs nothing and helps the swinger lifestyle and ENM community find us.
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  Catfished! Spotting Fakes in the Swinger Lifestyle (Revisited) 16.08.2026 1ч

  That gorgeous couple sliding into your DMs? Yeah... about that. In this revisited episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam & Pris dive into catfishing in the swinger lifestyle — the fake profiles, filtered photos, and flat-out fictional people lurking in ethical non-monogamy spaces. With 15 years in the lifestyle, they've seen (and nearly fallen for) it all. In this episode: Adam's AOL chat room days — and the too-perfect mystery woman who vanished Filters, angles, and 20-year-old photos: where does flattering end and lying begin? Why catfishing hits harder in the swinger lifestyle than in vanilla dating The "personality catfish" nobody talks about — fake nice, fake in love, fake experienced Scammers, bots, and the infamous $45 nail-money hustle Red flags in open relationships and swinger apps: no photos, model-only photos, stories that don't add up, dodging verification, pushing for nudes How to protect yourself: live video verification, Pris's date-on-paper photo trick, cross-referencing profiles, and trusting your gut Why trust, consent, and honesty are non-negotiable in ethical non-monogamy Got a catfish story of your own? Share it at beyond-monogamy.com — Adam & Pris may read it on a future quickie episode! Watch us LIVE: Catch the FREE livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — plus episodes, blog, reviews, and all our socials. On the radio: Catch Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris on FullSwapRadio, Thursdays at 1PM and 6PM. This episode is sponsored by ProDX Health — discreet at-home testing for STIs, hormones, and more. No waiting rooms, no awkward conversations. Use code BEYOMONO at prodxhealth.com for 15% off year-round — even more during special events. Keywords: swinger lifestyle, ethical non-monogamy, ENM, open relationship, swinger podcast, non-monogamy podcast, catfishing, online dating red flags, swinger apps.
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  Swinger Dynamics 101: Full Swap, Soft Swap & Knowing Your No 12.08.2026 36мин

  What's your dynamic? It's the one question every couple new to the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) needs to know how to answer — and Adam & Pris break it down in this Wednesday Quickie. They dig into full swap vs. soft swap, same room vs. same roof vs. separate play, and why knowing (and stating) your dynamic up front saves everyone's time. Plus: mismatched libidos, menopause and the lifestyle, learning to say no, and why non-monogamy really is a team sport. In this episode: What "dynamic" actually means in the swinger lifestyle Full swap vs. soft swap, and why the label matters Same room, same roof, or separate play — how couples decide Handling mismatched pace and comfort levels as a couple Talking openly about menopause, hormones, and desire in ENM relationships Why Pris handles "the no" and how they split roles as a team The one question to ask any couple at a swinger event or meet & greet Whether you're brand new to open relationships or you've been in the lifestyle for years, this one will help you put words to what you actually want. Keep the conversation going: Everything Beyond Monogamy — episodes, blog, merch, and our Confessional — lives at beyond-monogamy.com Join us LIVE and free every Thursday at 7:00 PM Central right on the website — just hit the live button up top Catch us streaming on FullSwapRadio every Thursday at 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central Mark your calendar for Krazy Winter Nights, coming this February — details on our events tab Check the events tab at beyond-monogamy.com for takeovers and meetups we're hitting up this month If you loved this episode, subscribe, share it with your favorite couple, and leave us a review — it seriously helps this swinger podcast grow.
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  Our First Swinger Experiences: Everything We Did Wrong 09.08.2026 1ч 4мин

  What were your first swinger experiences really like? A listener couple just entering the swinger lifestyle dropped that question in our anonymous confessional, and Adam & Pris answer it with zero filter. From a drunk Halloween party that went completely sideways to a first full swap that turned into a lifelong friendship, this is the ethical non-monogamy origin story we've never told on the show — mistakes, jealousy, death glares, and all. In this episode: The Halloween party "non-experience" that almost ended everything — and the boxes every new ENM couple must check first (sober, communicating, on the same page) Pris's first single-guy experience, nerves on all sides, and why the equipment failing is almost never about you Adam's unauthorized round two — and the look Pris gave him that he calls "visual cyanide" The full swap couple who became forever favorites The strangest swap of all time: a historic mansion, uncontrollable laughter, and a velociraptor impression we cannot unsee Jealousy, disconnecting, and the communication lessons that saved their marriage Got a confession? Leave it anonymously at beyond-monogamy.com — where you'll also find every past episode, clips, the blog, and the merch store. Catch our FREE livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central, right on the website. We're also part of the lineup at FullSwapRadio — Thursdays at 2PM and 7PM Central. See us LIVE in February at Krazy Winter Nights, hosted by Krazy Kasbah and Full Swap Radio. Use code BEYOMONO at krazykasbh.com for a discount — come say hi! This episode is sponsored by 3Fun — the app for couples and singles who want to connect with like-minded people. Easy, low pressure, and way less awkward than figuring it out on your own. Download it here: https://www.go3fun.co/ad/TK11932
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  Swinger Birthday Weekend at the Club: Adam's Wild Quickie Recap 05.08.2026 39мин

  Birthdays hit different in the swinger lifestyle. On this quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam & Pris recap Adam's entire birthday weekend — from free sopapillas and a taco-house serenade to a full-blown celebration at their home club that proves ethical non-monogamy knows how to throw a party. In this episode of your favorite swinger podcast: Birthday breakfast at Eddie's Taco House, where Adam campaigned like a politician for free sopapillas An intimate dinner with three other couples — and Adam's very honest confession about where his mind goes at the table Their friend Ray and her famous bag of toys: why so many women say no, and why Pris says yes Kink vs. fetish — Pris finally settles which one exhibitionism is (for her, anyway) THC lemonade math gone wrong: Pris gets sent to the moon Midnight lap dances, a double birthday treat, and the moment Pris created a scene straight off a vintage VHS cover The Odyssey, new-job news, and why the sexiest plans sometimes lose to cold sheets and leftover pizza Whether you're new to the swinger lifestyle, curious about open relationships, or a longtime ENM couple, this non-monogamy podcast episode is a fun, candid look at how one real couple celebrates — together and with friends. Watch us LIVE: Every Thursday at 7PM Central, totally free, at beyond-monogamy.com — chat with us in real time. Replays live on our Patreon, along with ways to support the show. Also on FullSwapRadio: Catch us Thursdays at 2PM and 7PM Central at fullswapradio.com alongside a whole lineup of adult podcasters. Upcoming event: We're doing a LIVE show in February from Krazy Winter Nights, hosted by Krazy Kasbh and Full Swap Radio! Use code BEYOMONO at krazykasbh.com for a discount — yes, it's spelled that way. We'd love to meet you there. Sponsor — ProDX Health: At-home testing for STIs, hormones, and more. No waiting rooms, no awkward conversations. Use code beyomono at prodxhealth.com for 15% off year-round — even more during special events. Got a confession, question, or story? Drop it (anonymously if you like) at beyond-monogamy.com — you might hear it on a future episode.
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  Swinger vs Polyamory vs FWB: What's the Real Difference? 02.08.2026 59мин

  Swinger? Poly? Friends with benefits? If you've ever mixed them up, you're in good company — Adam's own barber had no clue. This week on Beyond Monogamy, real-life couple Adam & Pris break down the real differences between swinging, polyamory, and friends with benefits in the ethical non-monogamy (ENM) world — from a couple who has lived all three and collected a few red flags along the way. In this episode: Why so many swingers think they want polyamory… when what they really want is friends with benefits Adam & Pris's five years of poly: unicorn hunting, red flags, and the girlfriend who texted way too much Pris's journey from not knowing her worth to discovering her inner dom The Great Date Debate: why "date" is now a forbidden word in their house (say hello to the "meetup") Jealousy in open relationships, hierarchy, and the rules they hold sacred — no vacations with others, no showering with others (unless it's content) Could they ever date another couple? The empty-nester master plan Whether you're lifestyle-curious, a seasoned swinger, or somewhere on the open relationship spectrum, this candid, funny conversation will help you figure out which flavor of non-monogamy actually fits — before you learn it the hard way like we did. Join us LIVE: Free livestream every Thursday, 7–8 PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — full episodes, the blog, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. You can also catch us on FullSwapRadio at fullswapradio.com every Thursday at 2 PM and 7 PM Central. Come meet us: Krazy Winter Nights in Kansas City, February 19–21, 2027 — use code BEYOMONO for your discount. https://www.krazykasbh.com Our sponsors: SDC.com — the largest online community for open-minded adults. Sign up with code 38236. ProDx Health — keeping us healthy and in the know. Use code BEYOMONO for 15% off.
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  Inside Club Eden: What Makes a Great Swinger Club? 29.07.2026 39мин

  What actually makes a swinger club great? On this Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris throw open the doors of their home club — Club Eden San Antonio — for a candid, laugh-out-loud review of everything a lifestyle club should be. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just ethical non-monogamy curious, consider this your field guide to on-premise club life. In this episode: The #1 thing to look for in any swinger club (hint: it's not the dance floor) Why vigilant staff make or break a lifestyle club — and the single-men policy that keeps the playroom comfortable The ladies' restroom that's basically a rite of passage, stocked with wipes, mouthwash, and photo-op lighting The infamous toilet paper story from their very first club visit — Pris's nightmare scenario, fully realized BYOB culture, Jell-O shot generosity, relaxed dress codes, and dancing naked from the front door The BDSM room, the spanking bench Adam insists is a "horse," and the porn room that delivered seven orgasms Why you should ALWAYS tip the hardworking playroom "chambermaids" Loaded fries, pizza, and a friendly warning about eating before you play If you've ever wondered what an open relationship night out looks like — or how to judge a swinger club before you commit — this ENM podcast quickie has you covered. Join us LIVE: Free livestream every Thursday, 7–8 PM Central, at beyond-monogamy.com — full episodes, the blog, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. You can also catch us on FullSwapRadio at fullswapradio.com, Thursdays at 2 PM and 7 PM Central. Come see us: Krazy Winter Nights — Kansas City, February 19–21, 2027. Use code BEYOMONO for a discount! krazykasbh.com  Thanks to our sponsor: Pro DX Health — use code BEYOMONO for 15% off.
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  Predators in the Swinger Lifestyle: Red Flags Every Couple Must Know 26.07.2026 1ч 4мин

  This one's serious, y'all — but it's a conversation the swinger lifestyle needs. Adam & Pris pull back the curtain on one of the darkest corners of ethical non-monogamy: sexual predators in the lifestyle. It's not the highlight reel, but after seeing too much of it lately, they're saying the quiet part out loud. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, the swinger podcast for lifestyle-curious couples and ENM veterans alike: What actually makes a predator — the difference between an awkward newbie's mistake and a genuine pattern of circumventing consent The red flags: pushing past a "no," repeat asking to wear someone down, escalating touch without checking in, using alcohol to lower guards, and pressuring one half of a couple when the other said no The saga of the drunk single guy (and his big box of White Claws) who creeped out the whole club — and how a great club staff handled it The gut-punch of realizing people you called friends were grooming newbies and targeting the newly single Adam & Pris debate: do you blast a known predator to the community, or is that not your job? (Spoiler: Adam is not swinger Batman) Why CNC dynamics mean things aren't always what they look like — and the look that tells you something is genuinely wrong How to protect yourself: speaking up, partner check-ins, reading the room, and why verification (SDC, 3Fun, video-verified groups) matters in open relationships Hang out with us LIVE: Free livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — plus every past episode, the blog, the merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. Full livestream replays are a Patreon-only perk. Also streaming Thursdays at 2PM & 7PM Central on Full Swap Radio — fullswapradio.com. Come party with us: Crazy Casba's Crazy Winter Nights 2027 is happening in February and we're doing LIVE shows! Lock in your spot at crazycasba.com with code BEYOMONO for a discount. And next Saturday we're celebrating Adam's birthday at Club Eden in San Antonio — sign up on their site, come find our couches, and say hello. We love meeting listeners! Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris — real talk on the swinger lifestyle, ethical non-monogamy, and open relationships.
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  What Makes Someone Slutty? A Swinger Couple Reclaims the S-Word 22.07.2026 46мин

  Slut. It used to be the worst thing you could call someone. On this Wednesday Quickie, swinger lifestyle veterans Adam & Pris grab the S-word by the collar and ask: what actually makes someone slutty — and why are we still letting a word from the 1400s do our thinking for us? In this candid ethical non-monogamy (ENM) conversation, the real-life couple behind Beyond Monogamy digs into slut-shaming, double standards, and why the swinger community doesn't just tolerate sluttiness — it celebrates it. In this episode: Pris gets called a slut in sixth grade — and again as a freshman, for not giving it up The actual Merriam-Webster definition of "slut" and its 1400s origin story Alcohol vs. weed: which one actually lowers your inhibitions? Adam's hotwife kink and consensual "cheating" fetish — and what happens when the fantasy talk ends Pris discovers her "hot husband" dominant side ("You can borrow him. He's coming back.") Is being touchy-feely slutty? Is teasing? The couple debates what counts as slutty behavior The double standard: what do you call a man who acts the same way? "Just a man, baby." Slut-shaming inside the lifestyle — yes, it happens, and it's ridiculous Watch us LIVE: Every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — full episodes, the blog, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. Drop your lifestyle, ENM, or kink confessions and we might read them on air! Also streaming on FullSwapRadio: Catch us at fullswapradio.com Thursdays at 2PM and 7PM Central. Come see us: We'll be at Krazy Winter Nights in Kansas City, February 19–21, 2027! www.krazykasbh.com | Use code BEYOMONO for your discount. Our sponsors: SDC — the largest online community for open-minded adults. Make a profile and explore: no weirdness, no judgment, just like-minded humans. Sign up at sdc.com with code 38236. Pro DX Health — we test, and they've got the hookup. Code BEYOMONO gets you 15% off. Keywords: swinger podcast, ethical non-monogamy, ENM, open relationship, hotwife, slut-shaming, swinger lifestyle, non-monogamy podcast
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  Kink 101: Fetish vs. Kink, Power Exchange & Hot Wifing with The Kink Consultant 19.07.2026 59мин

  Kink 101: Fetish vs. Kink, Power Exchange & Hot Wifing with The Kink Consultant We're stepping outside our usual non-monogamy lane and into the wide, wild world of kink with special guest Amanda Dames, aka The Kink Consultant. Amanda is a certified somatic sex & relationship coach and sexologist (and former NYC dominatrix!) who breaks down the real difference between a "kink" and a "fetish," why labels actually help you find yourself, and how power exchange, hot wifing, pre-claiming, and reclaiming sex all fit on the same spectrum. We also get into the light-bulb communication hack that took Adam's breath away, healthy boundaries around aftercare, and why justice might be Pris's real kink. In This Episode: Kink vs. fetish: what's actually the difference Amanda's journey from curious kid to NYC pro-domme to kink coach Foot fetishes, power exchange, and why "normal" kink is a spectrum The $20 light bulb trick for signaling dominant energy Hot wifing vs. hot husbanding, pre-claiming and reclaiming sex Compartmentalizing fantasy without cheating Aftercare, boundaries, and honest communication in ENM relationships Find Amanda Dames: Website: amandadames.com (grab her free guide, "Speaking Your Desires With Confidence") Podcast: The Kink Consultant Podcast Instagram: @the_kinkconsultant Facebook: The Kink Consultant TikTok: @the_kinkconsultant YouTube: @thekinkconsultant Email: [email protected] Meet Amanda in Jamaica: swingcation.com - use code TKC50 Sponsors: ProDX Health - At-home STI & hormone testing, no waiting rooms, no awkward conversations. Use code BEYOMONO at prodxhealth.com for 15% off year-round. SDC - Use code 38236 for the ultimate lifestyle community. 3Fun - Use code TK11932 for the app made for couples and singles exploring together. FirmTech - Use code BEYOMONO for performance gear built for the lifestyle. More From Beyond Monogamy: Website: beyond-monogamy.com - full episode library, listener confessionals, and our brand-new live show launching soon Streaming Radio: Catch us live every Thursday at 2:00 PM & 7:00 PM Central on Full Swap Radio Beyond Monogamy Live at Club Eden San Antonio - join us in person! Krazy Winter Nights KC (Feb 19-21, 2027) - use code BEYOMONO at krazykasbh.com Enjoyed the show? Follow, rate, and leave us a review - it genuinely helps! Share this episode with a kink-curious friend.
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  In-the-Moment Jealousy in ENM: A Listener's Voicemail Confession 15.07.2026 32мин

  In-the-Moment Jealousy in ENM: A Listener's Voicemail Confession Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris — This week's Quickie tackles one of the most relatable topics in ethical non-monogamy: that flash of jealousy that hits in the moment, even when everything else feels solid. An anonymous listener sent in a voicemail describing a familiar scene: a good time at a pool party or meet-and-greet, a partner doing something he thought he was okay with... and then that sudden hand squeeze or whispered "please don't." Adam and Pris read the voicemail live and dig into it — no filter, no judgment. In this episode: Why in-the-moment jealousy is normal (even for people who don't consider themselves jealous) The "code" system Adam & Pris use to signal discomfort without killing the vibe How alcohol lowers inhibitions AND lowers your ability to process what you're feeling Why you shouldn't feel guilty for pulling back, even when your partner "attends to you well" The one time Adam & Pris broke up over a jealousy fight — and what fixed it 🎙️ Sponsors SDC (Swingers Date Club) — use code 38236 for a discount on your membership. 3Fun — the app for open-minded couples and singles, use code TK11932. FirmTech — use code BEYOMONO at checkout. ProDx Health — use code BEYOMONO for savings on your order. Snoozy Gummies — because after all that processing and hashing it out, you deserve some good sleep. Get 15% off with our link: snwbl.io/snoozy/ADAM89158 📅 Upcoming Events Catch us at Krazy Winter Nights KC, February 19–21, 2027 — grab tickets at krazykasbh.com and use code BEYOMONO for a discount. 📻 More Ways to Listen Catch us live on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central at fullswapradio.com. And coming soon: our own live show, Thursdays 7–8 PM Central right on our website! 🔗 Stay Connected Visit beyond-monogamy.com for the full episode library, our listener confessional line, upcoming events, and everything Beyond Monogamy. Got a question, confession, or "does anyone else do this" moment? Leave us a voicemail — you might end up on a future Quickie!
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  The Orgasm Gap in the Lifestyle: Why She Comes at Home But Not at the Club 12.07.2026 55мин

  She's been with over a dozen people in the lifestyle — and has never once had an orgasm with any of them. Meanwhile, her husband comes every time. More than once. At the club. This week, Adam & Pris dive headfirst into one of the most common — and least talked-about — issues in the lifestyle: the orgasm gap. Is it a vetting problem? A communication problem? A men-are-oblivious problem? (Spoiler: yes, yes, and yes.) In This Episode: Why the orgasm gap is real — and gets worse in the lifestyle Why she comes easily at home but not at the club How to vet for pleasure-focused partners The power of over-communication before you ever get to the back room Toys, body language, cheat codes, and how to advocate for your own pleasure Is everyone just out for themselves? Adam & Pris give the honest answer Find everything Beyond Monogamy at beyond-monogamy.com — including our 100% anonymous confessional. Drop your story and it might become our next episode. Catch us on fullswapradio.com every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM Central. 📅 Krazy Winter Nights – Kansas City | Feb 19–21, 2027 | krazykasbh.com | Code: BEYOMONO Our Sponsors: SDC – The world's largest lifestyle community. Code: 38236 3Fun – The #1 app for couples and singles in the lifestyle. Code: TK11932 FirmTech – Performance rings designed for men who want to bring their best. Code: BEYOMONO ProDx Health – At-home STI testing, discreet and fast. Code: BEYOMONO