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  Ep 379: “How Do I Walk Through This Well?” Finding Emotional Clarity When Life Gets Complicated 14.09.2026 20мин

  What if you’re doing your best to follow God, but you honestly don’t know what to do? Life doesn't always come with a clear five-step answer. Sometimes we're caught between our emotions, what we believe God is asking us to do, what other people are telling us, and the patterns we've relied on for years—and we're left wondering, How do I actually walk through this well? In this episode, we talk about what it looks like to slow down when life feels complicated, untangle the differen...
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  Ep 378: What Actually Helps When You're Carrying a Lot Emotionally 07.09.2026 36мин

  What do you actually need when you’re carrying a lot emotionally and you don’t even know where to start? In this episode, we’re slowing down and looking at five different emotional needs that can show up when life feels heavy—from feeling completely overwhelmed and unable to think clearly, to needing rest, deeper connection with God, community, or help navigating a specific situation. Instead of assuming you need to try harder or learn “one more thing”, let’s talk about how to identify ...
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  Ep 377: “Which Voice Should I Listen To?” Making Sense of Your Competing Thoughts + Emotions 31.08.2026 29мин

  Some days it feels like there’s a ton of different voices in your head—each one saying something different. Which do we listen to? One says, "Do this," while another says, "No, stay here," and then guilt, fear, or another emotion gets added to the mix. In this episode, we’re talking about where those competing thoughts and emotions can come from and how to make sense of them without automatically believing, obeying, or shutting them down. We’ll look at the different parts of our inner e...
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  Ep 376: Best Of - Freeing Yourself From The Need to Hold It All Together 24.08.2026 29мин

  What if the pressure to hold everything together is one of the very things keeping you overwhelmed? In this Best Of episode, I’m revisiting a conversation about the exhausting pressure to get everything right, keep everyone happy, and make sure life turns out the way we think it should. We’ll talk about the hidden beliefs behind our need for control, why our value isn’t determined by how well we perform, and how to find peace even when you don’t know what the outcome will be. Most impor...
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  Ep 375: Emotional Avoidance: Learning to Lean into Hurt Instead of Running from It with Willow Weston 17.08.2026 42мин

  We’ve all done it--minimizing or numbing our emotions after a painful experience. Today’s guest Willow Weston invites us to consider asking this question instead: What if the pain I’m trying to avoid is actually pointing me toward the healing God wants to bring? Willow and I share honestly talk about how unprocessed pain can come out sideways through anxiety, anger, relationship struggles, avoidance, and other patterns, and what it looks like to finally name what you're carrying and in...
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  Ep 374: 5 Types of Emotional Overwhelm: Which Are You Experiencing? 10.08.2026 20мин

  Not all emotional overwhelm feels the same. Sometimes overwhelm leaves you restless and unable to slow down. Other times it feels heavy, tender, scattered, or like you've simply reached the end of your rope. In this episode, I introduce the five different types of emotional overwhelm I've seen in my own life and in coaching women. You'll learn how recognizing your unique overwhelm pattern can help you understand what's happening underneath the surface, respond with greater compassion in...
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  Ep 373: What Is Emotional Regulation (And Why It's More Than "Calming Yourself Down") 03.08.2026 24мин

  What if emotional regulation isn't about calming yourself down—but becoming available to hear God more clearly? So many of us have been taught to suppress our emotions, push through them, or simply "get over it." But that's not how God designed us to heal. In this episode, I explain what emotional regulation really is, why it's the missing step before emotional processing, and how learning to prepare your body, mind, and soul can help you respond with greater wisdom instead of reacting ...
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  Ep 372: Why Managing Overwhelm Is Where Emotional Healing Begins 27.07.2026 21мин

  Have you ever felt so overwhelmed that you couldn't even name what you were feeling? When we’re emotionally overwhelmed, everything feels tangled together, making it impossible to think clearly or hear God's voice. In this episode, I share why overwhelm isn't just another emotion to manage; it's often the doorway to emotional healing. We talk about why your body responds the way it does, why trying harder isn't the answer, and practical biblical and brain-based tools that help yo...
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  Ep 371: I've Changed... Now Who Am I? Navigating the Emotions of Midlife 20.07.2026 34мин

  Have you ever looked at your life and thought, I've changed...but now who am I? Midlife brings so many transitions—our bodies change, our relationships evolve, our roles shift, and the things that once defined us begin to look different. In this episode, I share some of the emotions so many women experience during this season, including grief, relief, fear, and uncertainty. We talk about why midlife isn't about trying to become the person you used to be, but discovering who God is invit...
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  Ep 370: Learning to Tend Your Soul: Befriending the Hidden Parts of Your Heart with Dr. Alison Cook 13.07.2026 46мин

  What if the parts of yourself you've spent years trying to ignore are actually invitations to healing? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Alison Cook to explore how understanding the different "parts" of your heart can help you experience deeper healing, greater emotional freedom, and a more secure relationship with God. We talk about why certain situations trigger old emotions, how to respond to yourself with curiosity instead of shame, and why tending your soul is less about fixing ...
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  Ep 369: Self-Brain Surgery: Rewiring Your Brain After Trauma with Christian Neurosurgeon Dr. Lee Warren 06.07.2026 47мин

  What if you have more influence over your thoughts, emotions, and healing than you realize? In this episode, I sit down with neurosurgeon, author, and podcast host Dr. Lee Warren to discuss the powerful connection between neuroscience, faith, and emotional healing. We talk about how our thoughts literally change the structure of our brains, why trauma does not have to define our future, and how God has given us both the responsibility and the ability to participate in our healing. Wheth...
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  Ep 368: What Am I Really Longing for When I Feel Lonely and Disconnected? 29.06.2026 29мин

  Why do we still feel lonely when we're surrounded by people who love us? In this episode, we continue the conversation about loneliness by looking beyond the feeling itself and exploring the deeper longings underneath it. We discuss why loneliness is often less about a lack of people and more about a lack of meaningful connection, how our needs for connection change throughout different seasons of life, and why midlife often brings these longings to the surface. You'll learn how to iden...
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  Ep 367: Why Do I Feel Lonely in Midlife When I'm Surrounded by People I Love? 22.06.2026 30мин

  Have you ever looked around at your family, friends, and the people you love most and wondered, Why do I still feel lonely? If you're in midlife, you may be surprised by how often this feeling shows up—even when nothing seems wrong. In this episode, I share some of my own experiences with loneliness during this season of life, including the transition of my daughter leaving for the Navy, changing family dynamics, evolving friendships, and the quiet emotional shifts that often happen in ...
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  Ep 366: Help for Calming Emotions After Marriage Fights with Dave and Ann Wilson 15.06.2026 53мин

  What do you do with all the emotions that linger after a fight with your spouse? Even when the argument is over, the hurt, disappointment, frustration, and unmet expectations can continue to swirl around in your mind and heart. In this episode, I sit down with Dave and Ann Wilson from FamilyLife Today to talk about what happens after marriage conflict and how to process those emotions in a healthy, Christ-centered way. We discuss recurring arguments, unmet expectations, disappointment i...
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  Ep 365: God Reveals So He Can Heal (Is It Time to Step Into Healing?) 08.06.2026 22мин

  What do you do when God starts revealing unhealthy patterns in your life—and suddenly you can’t unsee them? In this episode, I close out the people-pleasing series by talking about what happens after awareness comes. We discuss the discomfort that can come when God begins uncovering deeper emotional patterns, why healing often feels disruptive before it feels freeing, and how to take your next step without fear or shame. If you’ve been feeling stirred up, emotionally exposed, or unsure ...
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  Ep 364: People Pleasing Isn’t Always Obvious: The Hidden Signs to Look For 01.06.2026 40мин

  What if people-pleasing isn’t just about saying yes too often or avoiding conflict? What if it’s showing up in ways you haven’t even recognized yet? In this episode, I walk through 17 surprising signs of people-pleasing and the deeper emotional patterns that often drive them. We talk about thought patterns, communication habits, emotional triggers, behavioral tendencies, and identity-level beliefs that can quietly keep you stuck in exhaustion, resentment, and fear. If you’ve ever wonder...
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  363: ‘Sorry to Bother You’ + Other Overexplaining + Overapologizing Phrases That Reveal People Pleasing 25.05.2026 35мин

  Do you replay conversations in your head, explain yourself too much, or apologize for things that don’t really need an apology? These patterns can feel like personality traits, but often they’re signs of something deeper happening underneath. In this episode, I discuss why overthinking, overexplaining, overapologizing, and peacekeeping behaviors are often connected to people-pleasing, emotional safety, and fear of disapproval. We talk about the subtle phrases many women use every day, w...
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  362: Learning to Set Boundaries + Find My Voice in Parenting, Marriage and Beyond (My People Pleasing Journey) 18.05.2026 37мин

  What does healing from people-pleasing look like in real life, not just at the beginning, but years later? In this episode, I share my personal story of people-pleasing, where these patterns began for me, how God brought healing, and what it looks like now to live on the “maintenance side” of emotional healing. We talk about fear of abandonment, over-functioning in relationships, parenting adult children, nervous system vigilance, and the ongoing process of learning how to stay grounded...
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  361: People Pleasing--Break the Cycle with Brain, Body + Biblical Tools for Less Exhaustion + Healthier Relationships 11.05.2026 33мин

  What if people-pleasing isn’t something you fix by trying harder—but a pattern your brain and body learned to use for safety? In this episode, I unpack why people-pleasing can feel so difficult to change, even when you know it’s exhausting you, and how healing requires more than just willpower or better boundaries. We talk about the brain-based patterns underneath people-pleasing, why your nervous system resists change, and how Scripture, brain science, and practical tools can work toge...
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  360: People Pleasing- When You’re the “Good Girl” Who Keeps the Peace in Your Family 04.05.2026 25мин

  What if the reason it feels so hard to stop people-pleasing isn’t about willpower, but about the role you learned to play a long time ago? In this episode, I walk through the “good girl” pattern so many of us developed in our families and why it can feel almost impossible to change, even when it’s exhausting you. We talk about the deeper emotional responsibility behind keeping the peace, how these patterns were formed as a way to feel safe, and what it looks like to begin stepping out o...