Butch Queen After Dark

Butch Queen After Dark

David Brandyn
Land USA
Språk EN
Avsnitt 35
Senaste 25.07.2026

Butch Queen After Dark is a sex-positive podcast hosted by David Brandyn, featuring bold, unfiltered conversations with queer people of color about sex, dating, pleasure, identity, and real life. From hookup culture and kink to sex education and intimacy, this is after-hours talk with humor, heart, and no judgment.

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  • Autism, Unmasking, and Primal Sex with Savant thee Prodigy! 25.07.2026 49min
    What happens when you finally feel safe enough to drop the mask—even in the bedroom?In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn sits down with late-diagnosed autistic creator and neurodiversity advocate Savant the Prodigy for an open, funny, sexy, and deeply vulnerable conversation about autism, intimacy, sensory needs, consent, relationships, and learning how to experience pleasure fully unmasked.Savant shares how his autism diagnosis transformed his understanding of sex, communication, rejection sensitivity, jealousy, spontaneous intimacy, and the accommodations that help him feel comfortable and connected. We also get into bathhouse adventures, primal sex, navigating nonverbal moments, spiritual energy, cruising, body confidence, finding safety with a partner—and the very specific fantasy he plans to try next.This conversation is a reminder that great sex is not about following a script. It is about communication, curiosity, accommodations, consent, and feeling safe enough to show up as your complete self.Follow David: instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark: instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Savant : instagram.com/savanttheeprodigy
  • Sniffing Pits, Used Underwear, and Bears with Coco Montrese! 22.07.2026 57min
    Drag Race legend, Miss Gay America 2010 and certified lip sync assassin Coco Montrese joins David Brandyn for one of the wildest and most honest conversations yet on Butch Queen After Dark.Coco opens up about the person behind the makeup, including the difference between Coco and Martin, navigating masculinity outside of drag and refusing to let audiences limit her to a single character.Fresh from São Paulo Pride and DragCon Brazil, Coco takes us inside a massive all-night sex party filled with thousands of men, swings and endless possibilities. She also reveals her love of bear parties, older men, armpits, scents and collecting used underwear from dancers.Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Coco Montrese instagram.com/theonlycocomontrese
  • Fem Tops, Gooning, and Toys with Mxter Xero! 18.07.2026 54min
    In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Mxter Xero for a conversation about kink, pleasure, power, and what it means to play with intention.Mxter Xero opens up about their sexual awakening during the pandemic, exploring toys, body capacity, and becoming what they call “the Divine Baddie.” Together, they get into puppy play, handlers, free use, exhibitionism, worship, hypnosis, and the difference between simply being dominant and being someone’s Dominant.Follow David instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Mxter Xero instagram.com/mxter_xero
  • Bottoming and Bulking with Alex, Q, and Darrien! 15.07.2026 40min
    In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David is joined by three personal trainers — Alex, Darrien, and Q — for a hilarious, honest, and very unfiltered conversation about fitness, sex, body confidence, and what really happens when gym culture meets queer hookup culture.The group gets into gym sex, client boundaries, bottom nutrition, fiber, bulking while bottoming, pre-workout before sex, and what tops should eat if they need endurance. It’s sex education, fitness advice, and Black queer comedy all in one sweaty conversation.Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Alex instagram.com/newdayfitnessbyalexFollow Q instagram.com/quise_tymeFollow Darrien instagram.com/drivenbydarrien
  • Boys, Sirs, Daddies, and Dynamics with Sir Chris and Boy Vixxen! 11.07.2026 51min
    This week on Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Sir Chris and Boy Vixxen to talk about leather, power exchange, sir/boy dynamics, and Black queer kink.They get into the difference between a relationship and a dynamic, what it means to negotiate power, how trust is built in kink, and why Black men deserve to see themselves in leather spaces. The conversation also explores ballroom culture, impact play, bondage, sensory deprivation, orgasm control, shame, confidence, and asking for what you want.It’s funny, freaky, educational, and affirming — because kink belongs to us too.Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Sir Chris instagram.com/BXM2099Follow Boy Vixxen instagram.com/lbv_html
  • The Vers Agenda, Double Penetration, and Hangry Bottoms with Boe Jack Ryan! 08.07.2026 39min
    In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with New York City–based adult entertainer Boe Jack Ryan about his journey to becoming vers, kink, porn, body confidence, and the politics of being a Black gay adult creator.Boe Jack shares the story of his first double penetration scene, what it taught him about pleasure and pressure, and why knowing your body — and your dick’s strengths — matters.From content trips and collab strategy to avoiding the “hangry bottom,” this episode is equal parts freaky, funny, and insightful.Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Boe Jack Ryan instagram.com/itsboejack
  • A Kinky Little Fem Queen with Milan Garcon! 04.07.2026 48min
    In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Milan Garçon: femme queen, host, storyteller, performer, and certified scene-stealer. Milan brings beauty, humor, honesty, and a whole lot of sexual freedom to a conversation about pleasure, ballroom, butch queens, kink, confidence, and the power of living without shame.David and Milan also get into the complicated, exciting, and sometimes confusing attraction between femme queens and butch queens, how sexuality keeps expanding even when we think we have ourselves figured out, and why queer people do not have to chase heteronormative dreams of family, love, marriage, and success. Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Milan instagram.com/milangarcon
  • Crotchet, Colorism, and Creatine Muscle Hole with Caleb Channing! 01.07.2026 46min
    In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Caleb Channing: bodybuilder, crochet artist, and the man behind the viral dancing video that had the internet in a chokehold.What started as a 10-second clip of Caleb dancing, twerking, and enjoying himself at Pride quickly turned into think pieces, body critiques, race debates, desirability politics, and people projecting their own insecurities onto one man simply having fun.David and Caleb unpack the viral moment, the difference between jealousy and envy, why people struggle to witness joy they don’t feel entitled to, and how Blackness, colorism, masculinity, body image, and desirability all got dragged into a conversation that should have simply been about someone dancing at the club.Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Caleb instagram.com/caleb_channing
  • Feederism, Gaining, and Demisexuality with Muscle Ram! 27.06.2026 32min
    In this episode, David sits down with Muscle Ram to talk about gaining, go-go dancing, fat body politics, inflation, and finding confidence in a body that doesn’t always fit the “expected” fantasy.The conversation becomes a reminder that at some point, you have to decide your body is yours, it is enough, and it deserves to be celebrated exactly where it is. Ram also opens up about realizing he was demisexual after reconnecting sexually with an ex and noticing that without love or emotional connection, his body didn’t respond the same way. Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Muscle Ram instagram.com/muscleramm
  • Good boys, Toys, and Objectification with Sir Malice Chrisitan! 20.06.2026 43min
    In this episode, David sits down with Sir Malice Christian, a Marine Corps veteran turned BDSM Leather Dom, to unpack the world of domination, discipline, kink, objectification, bondage, and sexual exploration. Malice shares how his military background shaped his approach to discipline, why “Sir” felt like the right title, and how kink can be both erotic and deeply spiritual.The conversation gets into water sports, fisting, impact play, flogging, consent, safe words, consensual non-consent, aftercare, and how objectification works when it is consensual, intentional, and rooted in fantasy. They also talk about Black men exploring kink beyond shame, knowing queer sexual history, and why sexual health requires honest conversations with doctors who understand your lifestyle.Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Sir Malice Christian instagram.com/fvcknsirmal
  • Speaking "Freak" with Distinction with Galen J. Williams 13.06.2026 47min
    Galen opens up about his journey through ballroom walking Body and Sex Siren, why he's still exploring his relationship with being vers, and how generational ideas about masculinity may shape the way many Black queer men experience sex. The conversation also dives into his buzzing acting career, sexual liberation, kink curiosity, and why being your full authentic self is worth more than fitting into Hollywood's expectations.And of course, the episode ends with a chaotic game where Galen translates filthy hookup phrases into elegant Shakespearean English!Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Galen J Williams instagram.com/theegalenjwilliams
  • A "Kinky Little Butch Queen" with Daddi Decent! 06.06.2026 35min
    This week on Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with adult content creator, actor, model, husband, and co-host of The Culture Club Podcast, Daddi Decent!Daddi opens up about being introverted in public but freaky in private, what sex feels like after marriage, why sexual position does not define your relationship role, and how queer couples don’t have to follow heteronormative rules.They get into fisting, rough play, bondage, water sports, flogging, consent, trust, boundaries, sex work burnout, and why some things are better kept for your personal life instead of the camera.
  • Nipple Play and Hooking up in the Bathroom with Reign! 29.04.2026 34min
    In this episode, Reign—sex siren, former Navy veteran, and porn star—opens up about his journey from military life to the adult entertainment industry. He shares how the ballroom scene shaped his confidence, how he explored his sexuality and kinks over time, and what it really looks like to navigate sex work, identity, and desire as a butch queen. Follow Davidinstagram.com/davidbrandynFollow BQADinstagram.com/butchqueenFollow Reigninstagram.com/the_bhadinfluencer
  • Butt Plugs on the Subway with Nico Aesthetics! 25.04.2026 41min
    In this episode, Nico Aesthetics pulls back the curtain on life as a content creator navigating sex, relationships, and the internet. From sexual awakenings to navigating rejection, from BDSM exploration to ethical non-monogamy, and retiring from corn, this episode gets into the real.We talk about what it actually means to build a career in digital sex work, how friendships and “work husbands” operate in the industry, and why having a voice on social issues matters just as much as the content itself.Follow Davidinstagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Darkinstagram.com/butchqueenFollow Nicoinstagram.com/nicosaesthetics
  • Punjabi, Thai, and a Powerful Bottom with Asaad Gulati! 22.04.2026 38min
    On this episode, Asaad Gulati pulls back the curtain on what it really means to build a career in gay adult content while navigating identity, culture, and visibility. We dive into the lack—and slow rise—of brown representation in gay porn, and how he’s intentionally carving out space where it didn’t exist before.Follow David Brandyninstagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Darkinstagram.com/butchqueenFollow Asaadinstagram.com/majestic.asaad
  • Submission and the Muscle Hole Fantasy with Dyl! 18.04.2026 38min
    This week, David brings on Dyl - Instagram's newest Himbo with a twist. What starts as a classic “fine man from Instagram” interview quickly turns into a deep conversation about confidence, submission, intimacy, and breaking assumptions.Dyl may look like a walking fantasy, but looks can be deceiving.... We explore how he’s intentional, connection-driven, and just beginning to explore his kinkier side.Follow David Brandyninstagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Darkinstagram.com/butchqueenFollow Dylwww.instagram.com/dyl_.fl
  • The Military Princess gets Ate at Publix with Siren Santiago! 15.04.2026 37min
    Siren Santiago shares his journey from a conservative upbringing in Puerto Rico to becoming a prominent figure in the adult film industry. He discusses his early sexual awakenings, experiences in the military, and the transition to adult content creation during the pandemic. Siren opens up about his kinks, fantasies, and the importance of connection in sexual experiences, emphasizing that sex should be about intimacy rather than just the end goal of orgasm. Follow Siren Santiago instagram.com/sirensantiagoxFollow David Brandyninstagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Darkinstagram.com/butchqueen
  • Big Booty, Dark Rooms, and Feet with DJ Kidd! 11.04.2026 35min
    In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David interviews his friend, DJ Kidd as he shares his journey into the underground party scene, his approach to creating inclusive spaces, and his insights on sexuality, anonymity, and community building within LGBTQ+ communities of color. Discover the stories behind his events, his thoughts on sex positivity, and his personal experiences with fetishes and connection.Follow David Brandyninstagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Darkinstagram.com/butchqueenFollow DJ Kiddinstagram.com/bigworldlittlekidd
  • Trade 101 and Dating as Fem Queen with Trap Cynderella! 08.04.2026 40min
    In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, Trap Cinderella shares her journey as a rising influencer and femme queen, discussing her sexual awakening, the impact of ballroom culture, and the importance of self-respect in relationships. She emphasizes the fluidity of sexuality, the challenges faced by trans women, and her passion for music and creative expression. Follow David Brandyninstagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Darkinstagram.com/butchqueenFollow Trap Cynderellainstagram.com/trapcynderella
  • Dicked Down on the Dancefloor with Jai the Gentleman! 04.04.2026 44min
    Today on Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Jai the Gentleman for a wildly honest, deeply reflective, and unapologetically freaky conversation about sex, kink, and liberation.From risky car hookups to full-blown dancefloor sex, Jai opens up about his evolving sexual journey—and how pleasure goes far beyond just climax.Together, they unpack what it really means to explore your desires, challenge sexual norms, and embrace vulnerability in and out of the bedroom.Follow David Brandyninstagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Darkinstagram.com/butchqueenFollow Jai the Gentlemaninstagram.com/jaithegentlemanFollow Dear Black Gay Meninstagram.com/dearblackgaymen

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