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  TFTC - Do You Know Your Partner Pt1 16.09.2026 1sa 47dk

  Would you choose your partner again if you met them exactly as they are today? In this episode of Thoughts From The Chair, Chris challenges couples to look beyond history, comfort, kids, finances, and the fact that you once fell in love. We dig into what actually makes a long-term relationship worth choosing, respect, attraction, admiration, trust, compatibility, character, personal growth, intimacy, and whether both people are still becoming someone their partner genuinely wants to build a life with.We also get into one of the biggest problems in long-term relationships, assuming you still know your partner because you know their habits. You’ll learn why couples need regular relationship check-ins, how resentment can leave you interacting with an outdated version of your spouse, why curiosity matters, and how to uncover what your partner is worried about, struggling with, becoming, and afraid to tell you. If your marriage feels disconnected, stagnant, more like roommates than lovers, or you simply want a stronger relationship, this episode gives you questions and conversations that can help you reconnect and build a new relationship with the person you already chose.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.
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  These Friendship Red Flags Will Change Who You Trust S4 Ep40 14.09.2026 1sa 8dk

  If you've ever wondered whether you're outgrowing your friends, questioned if you're being manipulated in a relationship, or struggled with setting healthy boundaries, this episode is for you. We react to real relationship emails covering toxic friendships, emotional manipulation, divorce, dating someone facing serious health issues, and the difficult process of choosing yourself without guilt. We also share a powerful testimonial from one of our women's retreats about healing trauma, rebuilding confidence, and finding community. In this episode, we break down red flags in friendships, signs of emotional manipulation, people pleasing, healthy relationship standards, codependency, boundary setting, divorce, dating advice, trauma recovery, and personal growth. Whether you're trying to improve your relationships, recover from toxic people, or become more emotionally resilient, you'll leave with practical insights and a new perspective on protecting your peace and raising your standards.Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.
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  Anxious vs Avoidant, The Relationship Trap Nobody Talks About S4 Ep39 11.09.2026 1sa 19dk

  This episode dives into one of the most common relationship dynamics, the anxious and avoidant attachment cycle. Chris and Peaches respond to a listener's email about feeling emotionally disconnected despite deeply loving their partner, exploring anxious attachment, avoidant behaviors, emotional regulation, nervous system responses, the mental load in relationships, communication breakdowns, and how unresolved childhood trauma can shape adult relationships. They discuss why love alone isn't enough, how partners accidentally trigger each other's deepest wounds, and what it actually takes to build emotional safety, trust, and long term security.If you've ever wondered why one partner pursues while the other withdraws, why conflict feels impossible to resolve, or how to stop repeating the same relationship patterns, this episode offers practical insights you can apply immediately. Chris and Peaches also tackle dividing the mental load, attachment theory, co-regulation, accountability, social media boundaries, emotional security, and weekly relationship check-ins that help couples reconnect instead of growing apart. Whether you're dating, married, or working through past trauma, this conversation will help you better understand yourself, your partner, and what healthy love actually requires.Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.
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  She Ignored Every Red Flag... Here's What It Cost Her S4 Ep38 07.09.2026 1sa 41dk

  Can someone truly change, or are you ignoring the warning signs because you're in love with their potential? In this episode of the 2 Be Better Podcast, Chris and Peaches respond to a heartbreaking relationship email from a woman caught in a cycle of manipulation, infidelity, broken trust, and repeated second chances. They unpack the difference between healthy boundaries and control, why people stay in toxic relationships long after the red flags appear, and how unresolved childhood wounds can leave us accepting far less than we deserve.This conversation dives deep into accountability, self worth, traditional relationships, betrayal, codependency, and the dangerous hope that keeps people trapped in unhealthy dynamics. You'll also hear an honest discussion about dating standards, commitment, manipulation, emotional abuse, co-parenting, staying for the children, and why actions will always reveal more than words. Chris and Peaches challenge the belief that love alone can fix a relationship and explain why boundaries without consequences are not boundaries at all. If you've ever struggled to leave a toxic partner, questioned your relationship, or wondered whether you're seeing reality or just someone's potential, this episode offers practical insights that could change the way you approach love, trust, and your future.Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.
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  She Trusted His Promise... Then He Changed Everything S4 Ep37 04.09.2026 1sa 44dk

  When someone tells you they're ready for a future together, should you believe their words or watch their actions? In this episode of the 2 Be Better Podcast, Chris and Peaches break down a relationship email from a woman whose boyfriend repeatedly promised they would move in together, only to back out after she made life-changing financial decisions based on his word. They discuss broken trust, relationship timelines, financial responsibility, difficult conversations, integrity, and why ignoring red flags often leads to resentment. If you've ever wondered whether you're wasting time in a relationship or staying because of potential instead of reality, this conversation is for you. This episode explores dating with intention, why actions matter more than promises, how financial decisions can expose relationship compatibility, and the importance of taking responsibility for your own future instead of building it on someone else's commitments. Chris also shares his perspective on personal accountability, building a successful life, creating financial stability, and recognizing when someone's behavior reveals that they are not ready for the future they claim to want. If you're looking for honest relationship advice, dating advice, marriage conversations, communication tips, and practical personal growth, this episode delivers a direct conversation that challenges both partners to become better.Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.
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  My Boyfriend Hoards Money Should I Leave S4 Ep36 02.09.2026 1sa 32dk

  this episode centers on two relationship emails, one about a woman wondering if she's missed her chance at love after years of bullying and self-doubt, and another about financial incompatibility, boundaries, and whether a relationship can survive when two people have completely different visions for the future. Throughout the conversation, Chris and Peaches explore self-worth, dating after trauma, people-pleasing, accountability, childhood conditioning, financial values, communication, and why compatibility matters more than chemistry. If you've ever wondered why dating feels so difficult, struggled with low self-esteem after rejection, questioned whether you're settling in a relationship, or felt stuck between love and incompatibility, this episode is for you. Expect honest opinions, practical relationship advice, real-world communication strategies, and conversations about boundaries, emotional healing, dating standards, financial compatibility, and building healthier relationships. Whether you're single, dating, or in a long-term partnership, you'll walk away with a better understanding of what creates lasting connection, and what quietly destroys itBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.
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  Emotional Abuse Changes Your Brain S4 ep35 28.08.2026 57dk

  If you've ever questioned your reality after a toxic relationship, struggled with emotional abuse, or found yourself repeating unhealthy relationship patterns, this episode is for you. Chris and Peaches respond to a powerful listener email from a 21 year old woman trying to rebuild her life after years of emotional manipulation, gaslighting, blame shifting, and trauma bonding. Together they unpack how childhood wounds shape our adult relationships, why we give away our personal power, how emotional abuse rewires the nervous system, and what it actually takes to break free from cycles of chaos. This conversation explores attachment styles, boundaries, self worth, emotional regulation, and the difficult process of learning to trust yourself again after surviving unhealthy relationships.Throughout this episode, you'll learn how to recognize emotional manipulation, stop confusing chaos with love, rebuild confidence after abuse, and create relationships built on respect instead of fear. Chris and Peaches also discuss parenting, childhood trauma, nervous system healing, personal accountability, and why healing begins by reclaiming ownership of your own life. Whether you're recovering from narcissistic abuse, struggling with anxious attachment, overcoming people pleasing, or simply trying to build healthier relationships, this episode offers practical insight, honest conversation, and encouragement to help you stop surviving and start living.Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.
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  TFTC Curiousity 26.08.2026 1sa 19dk

  What if the biggest threat to your marriage isn't infidelity, incompatibility, or a lack of love, but the slow loss of curiosity, trust, and attraction? In this episode of Thoughts From the Chair, Chris breaks down what happens when couples stop discovering each other and start operating from assumptions, outdated stories, resentment, and familiarity. You'll hear why you may know everything about your spouse's routine while knowing very little about who they're becoming, how confirmation bias can trap your partner inside an old version of themselves, and why continuing to court, communicate with, and stay curious about your spouse matters in a healthy long-term relationship.The conversation also dives into privacy vs. secrecy in marriage, phone passwords, location sharing, emotional affairs, boundaries, rebuilding trust after betrayal, and when transparency crosses the line into surveillance. Chris then tackles one of the harder conversations in marriage, whether attraction can survive familiarity, and the responsibility both partners have to remain physically, emotionally, and relationally attractive. If you're struggling with marriage communication, resentment, trust issues, intimacy, emotional connection, a sexless marriage, or feeling more like roommates than lovers, this episode will challenge you to stop asking whether your partner has changed and start asking whether you've continued paying attention.Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.
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  The Hard Truth About Feeling Unwanted in Marriage S4 Ep34 24.08.2026 1sa 9dk

  If you've ever felt like you're giving everything to a relationship while getting almost nothing in return, this episode is for you. We break down real relationship emails involving emotional neglect, motorcycle clubs, pornography, PTSD, communication breakdowns, and the painful experience of feeling like you're no longer your partner's priority. We discuss boundaries, respect, emotional safety, healthy marriage dynamics, and the difficult question of when love is no longer enough to save a relationship.We also dive into intentional parenting, how quality time strengthens family bonds, why self worth determines what we tolerate, and the hidden damage caused by emotional disconnection. Whether you're struggling with trust, feeling unseen in your marriage, dealing with porn addiction in a relationship, or trying to decide if your relationship can be repaired, this episode offers honest conversation, practical insight, and hard truths designed to help you build stronger, healthier relationships.Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.
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  What happens before Divorce 21.08.2026 56dk

  Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.
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  TFTC - The People Using You Won't Like This Conversation 19.08.2026 1sa 5dk

  In this episode of Thoughts From the Chair, Chris dives into a difficult question about modern relationships, friendships, and loyalty: Have we started treating people like they're disposable? We live in a culture obsessed with upgrading, replacing, and moving on to the next best thing, and that mentality has found its way into our marriages, friendships, dating lives, and communities. This conversation explores why relationships fall apart, how unspoken expectations and resentment destroy connection, why uncomfortable conversations matter, and the difference between genuinely loving someone and simply loving what they provide for you. Real relationships require honesty, accountability, forgiveness, boundaries, communication, sacrifice, and the willingness to repair what's been damaged instead of immediately looking for a replacement.The conversation gets even deeper when a community member asks what happens when you're always the giver surrounded by takers. Chris breaks down people pleasing, one sided friendships, toxic relationship dynamics, boundaries, self abandonment, loyalty, sacrifice, dating, marriage, and knowing when helping someone has crossed the line into enabling them. You'll hear why takers often see boundaries as betrayal, why being needed isn't the same as being loved, how poor communication creates resentment, and why healthy relationships require reciprocity instead of one person constantly carrying the weight. If you've ever wondered whether someone actually loves you or simply loves what you do for them, whether you should keep fighting for a relationship, or how to set boundaries without becoming cold and disconnected, this conversation is for youDisclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.
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  Stage 4 Cancer, Divorce, Loss, Now What S4 Ep33 17.08.2026 56dk

  This episode of the 2 Be Better Podcast tackles one of the hardest questions anyone can face, how do you keep moving forward when life won't stop hitting you? Chris and Peaches discuss the difference between trauma and hardship, surviving season after season of crisis, supporting a partner through serious illness, maintaining emotional connection when your own needs aren't being met, and why your mindset determines whether life's challenges become your identity or your catalyst for growth. They also share practical advice on communication, emotional resilience, love languages during illness, and how to avoid falling into a victim mindset while still honoring genuine pain. The conversation also goes behind the scenes of their growing business, homeschooling plans, building a botanical extraction laboratory, reducing technology and news consumption, preparing for the future, and why they are shifting the direction of their content toward meaningful personal growth instead of relationship drama. If you're interested in relationships, mental health, resilience, emotional maturity, self improvement, accountability, communication, trauma recovery, or creating a more intentional life, this episode offers honest conversations and practical perspectives you can apply immediately.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.
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  Questions with Chris - Submission, Jealousy, Boundaries, Your Emails Answered 15.08.2026 1sa 36dk

  In this episode of the 2 Be Better Podcast, Chris answers real relationship questions submitted by listeners and tackles the conversations most people are afraid to have. From marriage, submission, leadership, boundaries, trust, jealousy, financial struggles, social media addiction, and protecting intimacy, to maintaining connection when work keeps couples apart, these emails expose the everyday problems that can quietly destroy relationships when people refuse to communicate. Chris breaks down the difference between submission and control, requests and demands, insecurity and legitimate boundaries, while challenging both men and women to take accountability for the role they play in their relationships.This isn't traditional relationship advice. These are raw, unfiltered answers about marriage, masculine leadership, feminine submission, communication, personal accountability, dating, trust, intimacy, money, and becoming a better partner. You'll hear why your partner can't read your mind, how unspoken expectations create resentment, why boundaries require communication, how social media can distort your perception of relationships, and why being present with your partner matters more than trying to recover time you've already lost. If you're trying to build a stronger marriage, improve communication, understand relationship dynamics, or stop repeating the same destructive patterns, this episode will give you plenty to think about.Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.
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  Our second zoom call 14.08.2026 1sa 11dk

  Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.
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  Going no contact 14.08.2026 54dk

  Thinking about going no contact with a parent, sibling, friend, or partner? Before making one of the biggest decisions of your life, watch this conversation. We break down the difference between healthy boundaries and permanent separation, explain why no contact should be a last resort, and share a practical 12 step framework to help you decide whether you're protecting your peace or simply avoiding discomfort. We cover toxic family relationships, emotional abuse, manipulation, narcissistic behaviors, accountability, boundary setting, grief, and how to recognize the patterns that truly justify walking away.Whether you're dealing with toxic parents, a controlling family member, an emotionally abusive relationship, or wondering if it's finally time to cut someone out of your life, this episode is designed to help you make that decision with clarity instead of emotion. You'll learn how to separate conflict from abuse, communicate boundaries effectively, recognize when someone is capable of change, and understand the emotional consequences that come with going no contact. If you've ever questioned whether staying is hurting you more than leaving, this conversation will give you the tools to make that decision with confidence.|Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.
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  How resentment destroys marriages S4. Ep32 10.08.2026 2sa 36dk

  In this episode of the 2 Be Better Podcast, we tackle one of the biggest relationship struggles couples face, emotional disconnection. Using a real listener email, we explore why loving each other isn't always enough to feel close, how resentment quietly builds, why communication breaks down, and what happens when two good people slowly become roommates instead of partners. We dive into emotional loneliness, marriage after kids, stay at home parenting, masculine and feminine roles, intimacy, security, boundaries, self worth, and the hidden ways unresolved wounds shape our relationships.If you've ever wondered why your partner doesn't seem to "get" you anymore, why intimacy fades, or how to reconnect without blame, this conversation is for you. We share practical relationship advice on rebuilding emotional connection, communicating needs without resentment, understanding different emotional perspectives, and creating a marriage where both people feel seen, valued, and supported. Whether you're married, dating, or trying to save your relationship, you'll leave with actionable insights that can help you build a stronger, healthier partnership.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.
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  Its over. Now what? 07.08.2026 59dk

  This episode is for anyone navigating the pain of a breakup, divorce, or the end of a long-term relationship and wondering, "What now?" We break down how to know when you're actually ready to date again, why healing is more important than waiting a certain amount of time, and the biggest mistakes people make after a relationship ends. We discuss loneliness versus companionship, trauma bonds, rebound relationships, emotional healing, codependency, self-worth, boundaries, journaling, therapy, and why so many people repeat the same relationship patterns without realizing it. If you're trying to move on after a breakup, recover from divorce, or build healthier relationships in the future, this conversation will help you understand what real healing looks like. You'll also learn the signs that you, or someone you're dating, may not be emotionally ready for another relationship, how to rebuild your identity after years of being with one person, and why self-awareness is the foundation of lasting love. We share practical advice on creating boundaries, recognizing red flags, avoiding rebound relationships, healing attachment wounds, and becoming the kind of person who attracts healthy relationships instead of repeating old cycles. Whether you're recovering from an abusive relationship, ending a marriage, or simply trying to move forward without carrying your past into your future, this episode offers honest conversations and actionable tools to help you heal before you love again.Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.
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  Stop Looking to Your Partner to Fix Your Emotions S4 Ep31 03.08.2026 1sa 19dk

  If you've ever struggled with relationship conflict, betrayal, trust issues, emotional regulation, or wondered whether it's time to let go of a relationship, this episode is packed with practical insights you can apply immediately. Chris and Peaches dive into real listener questions covering everything from respecting no contact after a breakup, overcoming defensive communication, managing chronic illness in a relationship, nervous system regulation, setting healthy boundaries, emotional maturity, and navigating possessive or controlling behavior. Rather than offering surface level advice, they explore the deeper psychology behind why we react the way we do and how unresolved childhood programming continues to shape our adult relationships.You'll also hear an honest discussion about technology addiction, rebuilding community, developing healthier communication habits, learning to self regulate instead of relying on others, and creating stronger, more resilient marriages and partnerships. Whether you're trying to heal your relationship, improve your communication, recover from emotional pain, or become a healthier partner, this episode provides actionable advice designed to help you build trust, increase emotional intelligence, and create lasting connection.Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.
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  BPD and Abuse 31.07.2026 46dk

  If you've ever wondered whether Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) causes abuse, or whether someone is using their diagnosis to avoid accountability, this conversation tackles one of the most misunderstood topics in mental health and relationships. We break down the difference between emotional dysregulation and abusive behavior, explain why a diagnosis is never an excuse for manipulation, and discuss how untreated trauma can create destructive relationship patterns. You'll also learn about splitting, emotional reasoning, fear of abandonment, codependency, walking on eggshells, gaslighting, boundaries, attachment styles, DBT, accountability, and what genuine recovery actually looks like.Throughout this discussion, we share personal experiences with BPD, healing, therapy, and the work it takes to build emotionally healthy relationships. Whether you're living with Borderline Personality Disorder, dating someone with BPD, recovering from an abusive relationship, or simply trying to better understand trauma and emotional regulation, this episode offers practical insights without shame or stigma. Our goal isn't to label people as good or bad. It's to separate explanation from excuse, compassion from enabling, and help people recognize that healing begins when we take responsibility for what our pain produces.Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.
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  Single Mom, Broken Engagement, Brutal Reality Check S4 Ep30 27.07.2026 1sa 37dk

  This episode of the 2 Be Better Podcast tackles one of the hardest relationship questions people face, how do you move on after a devastating breakup when children, finances, and future plans are involved? Chris and Peaches break down a listener's heartbreaking story of a failed engagement, dating someone who didn't want children, financial stress, emotional immaturity, and the painful reality of ignoring red flags. Along the way, they discuss compatibility, step parenting, communication, emotional regulation, self worth, childhood trauma, and why love alone is never enough to build a healthy relationship.If you've recently gone through a breakup, are struggling with dating as a single parent, wondering whether you should get back together with an ex, or trying to recognize unhealthy relationship patterns before it's too late, this conversation offers practical advice without sugarcoating the truth. You'll learn why boundaries matter, how unresolved trauma affects your dating choices, what healthy partnerships actually look like, and how taking ownership of your life can help you stop repeating the same relationship mistakes. Whether you're healing after heartbreak or trying to build a stronger relationship, this episode will challenge the way you think about love, commitment, and personal growth.Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.