The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers: Dating, Relationship, Masculinity & Intimacy Guidance For Men

David Chambers - Men's Dating & Relationship Coach

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The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers offers dating, relationship, masculinity, and intimacy guidance for men. It addresses why men who have done self-work still feel stuck in relationships, exploring hidden patterns, communication issues, and emotional disconnection. Through solo episodes and expert conversations, it provides practical advice for creating deeper emotional and sexual connection. New episodes are released every Wednesday and Sunday.

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A Generation Of Boys Grew Up Without Role Models — This Is What It Made Them 16.09.2026 1sa 14dk

I sat across from a man who was nearly stabbed three times and it changed nothing — because the thing killing him was never outside him. David Patrick Farrell spent his twenties in addiction, debt collecting and armed robbery, chasing a masculinity he'd learned from criminals instead of a father. Then, at 5am on the 18th of March 2019, everything broke open. We talk about the moment that actually changed him, why he refuses the phrase "toxic masculinity", what real brotherhood does that a gang never could, and how men learn to feel emotion without letting it run them. David Patrick Farrell is a global leader in men's work and transformational facilitation. With a background in Counselling & Psychotherapy, Psychosomatic Therapy, and Shadow Work, his approach bridges clinical depth, embodied practice, and grounded spiritual insight. Over the past decade, David has guided men's circles, rites-of-passage journeys, and immersive retreats across multiple continents, working with thousands of men from all walks of life. His work creates spaces where truth can be spoken, emotional intelligence restored, and real personal responsibility reclaimed. Known for his clarity, presence, and uncompromising integrity, David is recognised for his ability to hold deep emotional processes, catalyse profound inner breakthroughs, and lead groups through lasting, embodied change—not just insight. Rooted in devotion, purpose, and faith, his work calls men to rise to a higher standard of leadership, courage, and authenticity - within themselves, their families, and the wider world. His authority is earned through lived experience, deep inner work, and a lifelong commitment to walking his own path first. Key Topics: ⭐ Brotherhood, Community & Men's Work ⭐ Intergenerational Trauma & Breaking Patterns ⭐ Masculinity, Identity & Male Role Models ⭐ Emotional Expression, Vulnerability & Healing ⭐ Accountability, Integrity & Personal Growth ⭐ Addiction Recovery & Life Transformation ⭐ Relationships, Communication & Conflict Repair ⭐ Purpose, Self-Leadership & Lasting Change Connect With David - The Authentic Man: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ For Coaching: [email protected] Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe Connect With David Patrick Farrell: David Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidpatrickfarrell/ David Website: https://www.davidpatrickfarrell.com/ ___________ RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
Avoidant Men Series: 3 Reasons You Have A Sexless Relationship 13.09.2026 20dk

1️⃣ Work with me by emailing me "99" 👉🏽 [email protected] 2️⃣ The Flatmate Fix - 16th Sept 7.30pm UK time 👉🏾 https://linktwin.co/ysqjwt If your marriage feels sexless or stuck in a dead bedroom, you're not broken and she's not cold — you've become flatmates not lovers. For avoidant men, sex doesn't die in the bedroom, it dies long before, when emotional safety collapses. In this episode of The Authentic Man Podcast, David Chambers breaks down 3 invisible reasons intimacy shuts down — shutdown, pursuit-withdrawal, and performance pressure — and why fixing technique never works. Understand where you disappeared and how to bring desire back. Plus the one shift that restores safety so she reaches for you again. ____________ RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
Why Your Partner Doesn't Trust You (Even Though You've Never Lied)" 09.09.2026 1sa 6dk

You've never lied to her. You've never cheated. So why does she still not feel safe with you? I sat down with former rabbi turned intimacy coach Ted Riter, and his answer hit hard: honesty is only level one of trust. Most men stop there. We unpack the 4 levels of trust — Words, Body, Heart, Soul — and why your emotional shutdown reads as dishonesty, even when you're telling the truth. Plus: how to fight with kindness, why 'curated vulnerability' kills intimacy, and the perimenopause conversation every man needs to hear. If you want to be truly trustable, start here. Ted Riter is a relationship and intimacy teacher, coach, and guide helping men, women, and couples build trust, repair conflict, and create deeper connection … with themselves, with others, and with the Divine. Especially for high-functioning people who look "fine" on paper … and quietly feel lonely, disconnected, or stuck at home. Key Topics: ⭐ Trust & Emotional Safety ⭐ Masculinity & Men's Growth ⭐ Vulnerability & Emotional Expression ⭐ Intimacy, Connection & Relationships ⭐ Conflict, Communication & Trust Building ⭐ Desire, Sexuality & Lasting Attraction ⭐ Long-Term Love & Relationship Dynamics ⭐ Menopause, Partnership & Life Transitions Connect With David - The Authentic Man: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ For Coaching: [email protected] Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe Connect With Dr Ted Riter: Ted Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tedritertalks/ Ted Website: https://www.tedriter.com/ ______________ RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
Avoidant Men Series: I Can't Express What I Feel — And It's Killing My Relationship 06.09.2026 25dk

1️⃣ Work with me by emailing me "99" 👉🏽 [email protected] 2️⃣ How I went from avoidant to secure: From Avoidant Attachment to Intimacy: A Guide for Men 3️⃣ Why you keep pulling away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page If you can't express what you feel without guilt, shutting down, or going numb — this is why. So many avoidant men want to say what they actually want, but in the moment the words disappear. You people-please, keep the peace, then secretly resent her for not knowing what you never said. In this episode I break down why communication in relationships feels so unsafe when you learned to hide need — and the 5 shifts to speak up, set boundaries, and be assertive without the guilt or the blow-up. Chapters: 00:00 Why you go blank when she asks how you feel 02:28 What this episode will cover (Ep 4 - Avoidant Man Series) 05:50 The 3 hidden beliefs that keep you silent 07:50 Why speaking up felt dangerous as a boy 09:50 Why the world taught you your feelings don't matter 11:20 What silence is really costing you, her & the relationship 14:20 How to shift the belief and build capacity to stay 16:30 What happens when you actually get vulnerable 17:50 5 steps to say what you actually want (without guilt) 22:50 Bonus: How to repair after you shut down 24:00 Where to go from here This is episode 4 of the Avoidant Man series. — Want to do this work live with other men? RELATE is linked below. _____________ RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
Most Men Blame Their Testosterone — The Real Problem Is Shame, Not Hormones w/ Dr Ben Davis 02.09.2026 1sa 3dk

Is low testosterone really killing your sex drive — or is something deeper going on? In this episode, I sit down with Ben Davis to unpack the testosterone industry, what the numbers actually mean, and why so many men are chasing a hormonal fix for a psychological problem. We cover: • When low testosterone actually needs medical treatment (and what levels to look for) • Why "more is better" thinking backfires • The sponge analogy that explains why extra testosterone does nothing • How sexual shame hijacks your sex drive — and what to do about it • Natural ways to support healthy testosterone without TRT If you've ever worried your testosterone is too low or felt like something is "off" with your sex drive, this conversation is for you. 🎙️ The Authentic Man Podcast #testosteronetherapy #lowtestosterone #sexualshame #menmentalhealth #testosteronemyths Dr Ben Davis is a private men's health GP in central London, with over 15 years of clinical experience and dual training in both men's health and psychosexual therapy. His approach is focused on helping men understand not just what is happening, but why — and supporting them in finding their way back to feeling like themselves again. Many of the men Dr Davis sees are busy, high-functioning, and accustomed to performing well in other areas of their lives. When something changes — whether it's energy, libido, erections, mood or confidence — it can feel confusing, frustrating, and difficult to talk about. Sometimes there is a clear symptom. Often, there isn't. Instead, there may simply be a persistent sense that something isn't quite right. Dr Davis believes that feeling is worth taking seriously — and that it is usually worth understanding properly. His role is to help men make sense of what is happening, clearly and thoughtfully, without oversimplifying the situation or jumping to quick fixes. Key Topics: ⭐ Testosterone, Hormones & Men's Health ⭐ Modern Masculinity & Male Identity ⭐ Sexual Desire, Libido & Attraction ⭐ Erectile Dysfunction & Sexual Performance ⭐ Sexual Shame & Male Vulnerability ⭐ Trauma, Anxiety & Emotional Health ⭐ Relationships, Intimacy & Connection ⭐ Communication & Sexual Expression ⭐ Healthy Masculinity & Self-Acceptance ⭐ Healing, Growth & Sexual Wellbeing Connect With David - The Authentic Man: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ For Coaching: [email protected] Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe Connect With Dr Ben Davis: Ben Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbenuk/ Ben Website: https://drben.uk/ RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
Avoidant Men Series: Why Do I Shut Down Emotionally 30.08.2026 18dk

She asks how you feel about something that matters — and your mind goes blank. Completely empty. You've got a hundred things you want to say, and you tell yourself it's fine, you don't need to say any of it. So you give her nothing. In this episode I break down what's actually happening in your nervous system when you shut down. It isn't weakness, and it isn't a lack of feeling — it's a protection strategy you built long before this relationship. You'll learn the belief that keeps you numb, why your silence reads as abandonment to her, and the five steps I used to come back out — catch it, ground it, name it, say it, and build the capacity. This is episode 3 of the Avoidant Men series. chapters: 00:00 Why You Go Quiet When It Matters Most 00:54 The Deer In The Headlights Moment 01:29 I Lost My Voice — How I Destroyed 3 Relationships 02:49 The Belief That Keeps You Numb: "Your Feelings Are Too Much" 05:11 Where It Comes From — Emotional Neglect 07:37 The Damage: To You, To Her, To The Relationship 09:00 The New Belief: Your Feelings Do Matter 10:00 I Used To Lie To Avoid Her Tears 12:22 1. Catch It — Notice The Shutdown 12:50 2. Ground & Breathe — Regulate Your System 13:25 3. Name It — "I Feel Numb / Tight Chest" 14:10 4. Say What's Happening — Speak The Struggle 15:15 5. Build Capacity Daily — Like Learning A Language 16:00 6 & 7. Safe Spaces & Why Mistakes Are The Practice 17:06 Where To Go From Here RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
36% Of Young Men Think No One Will Ever Love Them — Psychologist Explains Why 26.08.2026 1sa 19dk

36% of young men believe no one will ever love them. Dating app usage is falling. Synthetic relationships with AI are on the rise. This isn't just a cultural shift — it's a full-scale dating recession, and most men don't know why it's happening to them. In this episode of The Authentic Man Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Madeleine Mason-Rountree — chartered counselling psychologist and relationship expert — to unpack the real psychology behind why modern men are struggling to connect, date, and find lasting love. We cover: The data behind the dating recession and why it's worse than headlines suggest Why anxiety is the single biggest barrier men face in dating The rise of "synthetic relationships" and what AI companionship is doing to real connection The "centre of health" framework — how self-perception shapes who you attract Why vulnerability is your greatest dating asset, not a weakness Practical tools from relational life therapy to help you show up authentically If dating feels harder, more confusing, or just exhausting — this conversation is for you. Dr Madeleine Roantree is a Chartered Counselling Psychologist registered with both the BPS and HCPC, with over 20 years' experience in mental health. Her clinical background includes extensive experience within the NHS, where she has supported individuals experiencing complex and enduring psychological difficulties. This work has provided her with a depth of experience in understanding not only psychological distress, but also what is required to facilitate meaningful and sustained change. Her training spans multiple evidence-based modalities, including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Dynamic Interpersonal Therapy (DIT), Relational Life Therapy (RLT), Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT), Trauma-Focused Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (TF-ACT), and ILF Neurofeedback. She integrates these approaches within a cohesive framework, tailoring her work to the unique needs of each individual or couple she supports. Key Topics: ⭐ The Dating Recession & Modern Dating Challenges ⭐ Dating App Fatigue & Changing Relationship Trends ⭐ Anxiety, Rejection & Fear of Dating ⭐ Self-Worth, Confidence & Desirability ⭐ Victim Mindset vs Personal Accountability ⭐ Emotional Resilience & Managing Rejection ⭐ Vulnerability as the Foundation of Connection ⭐ Communication Skills & Building Attraction ⭐ Attachment, Intimacy & Healthy Relationships ⭐ Intentional Dating & Long-Term Relationship Success Connect With David - The Authentic Man: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ For Coaching: [email protected] Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe Connect With Madeleine Roantree: Madeleine Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.madeleineroantree/ Madeleine Website: https://madeleinemasonroantree.com/ ___________________ RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
Avoidant Men Series: One Foot In, One Foot Out 23.08.2026 15dk

You're one foot in, one foot out. And you've told yourself you're just being careful. Maybe you've been with her a year — maybe two — and you still don't know if you're staying. You're analysing her. Judging her. Waiting for a feeling that never comes. And every day you ask the same question: should I stay, or should I go? In this episode I break down why you can't find certainty the way you're looking for it — and why the question itself is quietly killing the thing you're trying to save. This isn't about forcing a decision. It's about understanding what's actually happening when you feel stuck at the door. Chapters: 00:00 One Foot In, One Foot Out 00:40 Should I Stay or Should I Go? 01:40 The Wrong Question 03:01 Why You Need Certainty Before You Commit 04:10 Fixed Mindset vs. Co-Creating 05:00 The Spectator Effect 06:00 What You're Actually Afraid Of 07:50 Lean In — Get on the Pitch 10:20 Step 1: Notice the Not-Sureness Loop 10:50 Step 2: Say It Out Loud 11:40 Step 3: Stop Waiting to Feel Ready 12:30 Step 4: Set a Deadline to Be All In 13:30 Step 5: Get Clear on What You Want 14:30 Step 6: Become Skilled at Intimacy 15:00 The Work Starts Here You'll learn why certainty only comes after commitment — not before it — and how to stop turning every relationship into a trial you're secretly hoping to lose. This is episode 2 of the Avoidant Man series. RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
What Women Actually Want From Sex — A Sex Therapist Explains 19.08.2026 58dk

Dr. Nazanin Moali (she/her) is an internationally recognized psychologist, a certified sex therapist, and the host and producer of the Sexology Podcast. She launched her first show in English in 2016, later adding a Farsi series. With over six million downloads across 108 countries, her weekly podcast consistently ranks in the top 20 for sexuality on iTunes. In addition to her podcasting success, Dr. Moali runs a thriving private practice in Los Angeles, where she helps men with sexual health issues and performance anxiety. Key Topics: ⭐ What Women Want From Sex ⭐ Communication & Sexual Intimacy ⭐ Desire Discrepancies in Relationships ⭐ Emotional Connection & Attraction ⭐ Sexual Shame & Self-Worth ⭐ Performance Anxiety & Men's Sexuality ⭐ Female Pleasure & The Orgasm Gap ⭐ Novelty, Desire & Long-Term Passion ⭐ Vulnerability & Healthy Relationships ⭐ Building Better Sex Through Communication Connect With David - The Authentic Man: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ For Coaching: [email protected] Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe Connect With Nazanin Moali: Nazanin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
Avoidant Men Series: Can Avoidant Men Actually Change? 16.08.2026 15dk

Can an avoidant man actually change — or are you wired this way for good? If you've been told you're "emotionally unavailable," or you keep pushing away the person who gets closest, this is where it starts. In this episode I break down what it actually takes to rewire avoidant attachment — not as a personality you're stuck with, but as programming you can change. We go through the six things I work on with the men I coach — including the emotional capacity you were never taught, why you pull away exactly when it gets real, and how to stop reacting from panic. I also tell you about Ruben — a man who spent 15 years avoiding commitment. What happened when he did the work surprised even me. This is episode 1 of the Avoidant Men series. 0:00 Introduction 2:41 The Real Problem: Programming, Not Broken 4:38 Ruben's Story 6:28 Step 1: Take Responsibility 7:30 Step 2: Build Emotional Capacity 9:08 Step 3: Lean In, Not Out 10:20 Step 4: Challenge Your "Fairy Tales" 11:50 Step 5: Overshoot Communication 13:35 Step 6: Regulate Your Nervous System 15:00 The Next Step — If you're ready to go deeper than a video, my RELATE community is where men do this work together — link below. — If you're ready to go deeper than a video, my RELATE community is where men do this work together — link below. _ RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
Why The Most Self-Aware Men Are Often The Most Stuck 12.08.2026 1sa 15dk

1️⃣ Work with me in EMAIL me "99" 👉🏽 [email protected] 2️⃣ How I went from avoidant to secure: https://youtu.be/3bMs_v7FvGc 3️⃣ Why you keep pulling away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page I sat across from a man who told me the most dangerous trap for a successful man isn't failure — it's being smart enough to think his way out of everything. That's exactly why the most self-aware men often feel the most stuck. We break down why stuckness is usually a healthy reaction to an environment that doesn't serve you, why thinking your way out never works, and why the path through requires embodiment, radical responsibility, and a community that won't let you hide. If you're tired of scrolling, isolating, and pretending you're fine — this one's for you. Chris Geisler is a Podcaster, Men's Coach and founder of Men Of Earth, guiding men through transformational experiences that awaken self leadership, emotional depth and embodied purpose. For 10+ years he has held spaces through events, retreats and online communities that support Men to understand why they feel the way they do and create lasting change through awareness, nervous system regulation and relational depth. His work is devoted to helping men live with honesty, responsibility and connection, within themselves their relationships and the world around them. Key Topics: ⭐ Why Men Feel Stuck in Life ⭐ Overthinking vs Taking Action ⭐ Emotional Awareness & Embodiment ⭐ Men's Mental Health & Emotional Expression ⭐ Childhood Conditioning & Attachment Wounds ⭐ Triggers, Shadow Work & Self-Awareness ⭐ Responsibility, Ownership & Self-Leadership ⭐ Relationships as a Mirror for Growth ⭐ Purpose, Identity & Modern Masculinity ⭐ Community, Connection & Asking for Support Connect With David - The Authentic Man: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ For Coaching: [email protected] Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe Connect With Chris Geisler: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.chris.geisler Website: www.thechrisgeisler.com Mens Work: www.menofearth.co.uk Podcast: https://www.thechrisgeisler.com/podcast RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
Why Men Become Their Emotionally Absent Fathers (And How Not To) 09.08.2026 9dk

Most men swear they won't become their fathers. Yet without realising it, they're running the exact same patterns—coldness, emotional numbness, withdrawal, rigidity—in their relationships. And it's destroying them. The worst part? Your girlfriend or wife is telling you exactly what's happening. She feels the distance. The emotional absence. The black-and-white thinking. But you either don't hear it, or you hear it as criticism and shut down further. This isn't about being exactly like your dad. It's about the emotional template he passed down—the belief that emotions are dangerous, that vulnerability is weakness, that showing up with softness means losing control. In this episode, I'm breaking down: Why you unconsciously inherited this pattern (and it goes back generations) How it shows up in your relationships—the exact ways it's sabotaging you Three concrete practices to start breaking the cycle this week This is what I wish someone had told me before I nearly lost everything. Watch this and ask yourself the question that changed everything for me: What if it's not them—what if it's me? RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
Modern Dating Is Brutal For Men — Tillie Dating coach to men Explains Why 05.08.2026 1sa 3dk

Tillie is a dating coach and content creator who helps men better understand women, build confidence, and create meaningful relationships. Drawing from her own experience growing up as an undiagnosed autistic child, she developed a deep interest in human behavior, communication, and attraction through years of observation and study. Today, she coaches men on social skills, dating, emotional connection, and authentic confidence, while sharing practical relationship advice through short-form educational content. Key Topics: ⭐ Modern Dating in 2026 ⭐ Understanding Female Attraction ⭐ Confidence & Self-Limiting Beliefs ⭐ Emotional Safety in Relationships ⭐ Social Skills & Meaningful Connection ⭐ Flirting as a Learnable Skill ⭐ Rejection, Resilience & Self-Worth ⭐ Presence & Authentic Attraction ⭐ Men's Emotional Growth & Vulnerability ⭐ Dating Apps & Profile Optimization Connect With David - The Authentic Man: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ For Coaching: [email protected] Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe Connect With Tillie Chantal: Tillie Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/welcometomybedtalk/ Tillie Website: https://welcometomybedtalk.com/ RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
Your Inner Voice Is Destroying Your Relationships — Quiet Your Inner Critic 02.08.2026 25dk

Your inner critic isn't protecting you — it's destroying your relationships. That voice telling you you're not good enough, not interesting enough, not enough full stop? It was built by your past, not your reality. In this guide, I break down where the inner critic comes from (hint: insecure attachment and critical caregivers), why ignoring it makes it louder, and the counterintuitive approach to transforming it — using chair work, reparenting, and IFS-style parts work — so you can stop sabotaging your relationships and finally feel like enough. RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
Every Anxious-Avoidant Couple Needs To Hear This Before They Give Up 29.07.2026 1sa 6dk

1️⃣ Work with me in DM me "99" 👉🏽 https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ How I stopped being a commitment-phobe: https://youtu.be/3bMs_v7FvGc 3️⃣ Why you keep pulling away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page Is your anxious-avoidant relationship doomed? Instagram attachment culture says yes — but top couples therapist Julie Menanno says the opposite. In this episode of The Authentic Man Podcast, we break down the three negative cycles every anxious-avoidant couple falls into, why protest-retreat dynamics keep you stuck, and how attachment theory actually gives you a roadmap to heal. If you're in a relationship with an avoidant partner — or you're the avoidant one — this conversation on emotional regulation, conflict resolution, and breaking the anxious-avoidant trap is the one you need before you give up. Julie Menanno, MA, LMFT, LCPC, is a licensed marriage and family therapist, licensed clinical professional counselor, and relationship coach specializing in attachment and couples dynamics. Her approach is rooted in the Emotionally Focused Therapy model, and her ability to translate complex clinical concepts into accessible, practical tools has earned her a loyal audience of more than 1.3 million people across social platforms. Key Topics: ⭐ Anxious-Avoidant Relationship Dynamics ⭐ Attachment Theory & Emotional Needs ⭐ Emotional Safety & Secure Connection ⭐ Conflict Cycles & Relationship Repair ⭐ Emotional Regulation & Self-Awareness ⭐ Vulnerability & Emotional Intimacy ⭐ Personal Responsibility in Relationships ⭐ Breaking Toxic Relationship Patterns ⭐ Fear of Abandonment & Rejection ⭐ Building Healthy, Secure Relationships Connect With David - The Authentic Man: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ For Coaching: [email protected] Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe Connect With Julie Menanno: Julie Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesecurerelationship/ Julie Website: https://www.thesecurerelationship.com RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
Healing After a Breakup When You Never Saw It Coming — A Guide for Men 26.07.2026 27dk

1️⃣ Work with me in DM me "99" 👉🏽 https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ How I went from avoidant to secure: https://youtu.be/3bMs_v7FvGc 3️⃣ Why you keep pulling away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page When a breakup comes out of nowhere, it doesn't just end a relationship — it shatters your sense of reality. In this episode, I break down the psychological stages every man moves through after a blindside breakup: from the initial shock through withdrawal, self-blame, grief, and the rage that keeps so many men stuck for years. If you're replaying every conversation, desperate for closure, or numbing yourself to avoid the pain — this is for you. You didn't lose her. Your unresolved wounds pushed her away. Here's what to do with that. RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
Why Men Stop Initiating Sex In Long-Term Relationships 22.07.2026 1sa 13dk

High-achieving men often bring their boardroom skills into the bedroom — and it's destroying their relationships. In this episode, David Chambers sits down with Sean Forde Kelly to unpack why successful men struggle with intimacy, how male shame shuts down desire, and what it actually takes to build sexual confidence. Discover why society reduces male pleasure to something basic, how emotional suppression creates disconnection, and the practical steps to become more present, curious, and authentic in your intimate relationships. If you're a man in your 30s or 40s feeling stuck in repeating patterns, this conversation will change how you think about sex, intimacy, and what women actually need from you. Seán Forde Kelly grew up on a council estate in Manchester. He went on to earn a Masters in Financial Economics, built his first business in 2015, and spent years in the corporate world. Then he started asking different questions and found the work that actually mattered. He now works privately with Founders and CEOs on leadership, impact and relationships — from boardroom to bedroom. Seán is also the Founder of Come What May, a non-profit Sexual Wellness community that has hosted 200+ free events globally since 2022, facilitating thousands of conversations people never thought they could have. Father. Certified Sex & Relationships Educator. Men's Sacred Sexuality Coach. Author of the forthcoming 'A Common Man's Guide to Pleasure'. Key Topics: ⭐ Men's Sexuality & Intimacy ⭐ Relationship Communication ⭐ Shame, Vulnerability & Emotional Safety ⭐ Emotional Intelligence & Self-Awareness ⭐ Healthy Masculinity & Male Identity ⭐ Long-Term Relationships & Desire Differences ⭐ Emotional & Physical Intimacy ⭐ Personal Growth Through Relationships ⭐ Conscious Conflict Resolution & Resentment Repair ⭐ Men's Mental Health & Sexual Wellbeing Connect With David - The Authentic Man: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ For Coaching: [email protected] Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe Connect With Seán Forde Kelly: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewhatmay.life/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/seanfordekelly/ Substack: https://substack.com/@seanfordekelly RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
How To Be An Authentic Man — In A World Telling You To Be Someone Else 19.07.2026 28dk

1️⃣ Work with me in DM me "99" 👉🏽 https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ How I went from avoidant to secure: From Avoidant Attachment to Intimacy: A Guide for Men 3️⃣ Why you keep pulling away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page Most men think authenticity means saying whatever comes to mind or rejecting the "man box." That's surface-level. True authenticity is about connecting to something deeper — your core impulses and purpose beneath the fear and societal narratives you've absorbed since childhood. In this episode, I break down what authentic masculinity actually requires: real emotional capacity, practices that quiet the mind, the courage to examine your root beliefs, and a community that challenges you to grow. Stop performing. Stop hiding. Start becoming the man you actually are. RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
Why You Can't Be Yourself Around Women You Find Attractive 15.07.2026 54dk

1️⃣ Work with me in DM me "99" 👉🏽 https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ How I went from avoidant to secure: https://youtu.be/3bMs_v7FvGc 3️⃣ Why you keep pulling away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page Most men were never taught how to flirt — they were taught to perform, to say the right line, or to wait until they feel "confident enough." In this episode, I sit down with flirt coach Benjamin Camras to break down 5 flirting principles most men have never been taught. We explore why modern men have forgotten how to connect authentically, why being yourself around attractive women feels impossible, and how to flirt without lines, games, or performing. If you've ever felt you need to become someone else to attract women, this conversation will reframe everything. Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy - with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the Flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage. Ultimately, this practice of connection helps flirters and daters alike create stronger relationships, transcend limiting beliefs, and develop an unwavering love for the self. His work has been featured in Fortune, NBC News, The Huffington Post, Men's Health, and Yoga Journal. You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, watch on YouTube, and stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts. Key Topics: ⭐ Authentic Flirting⭐ Confidence vs Validation⭐ Emotional Attunement⭐ Overcoming Social Anxiety⭐ Connection Over Attraction⭐ Men's Mental Health & Loneliness⭐ Self-Worth & Rejection⭐ Presence & Mindfulness⭐ Vulnerability & Emotional Intimacy⭐ Personal Growth Through Relationships Connect With David - The Authentic Man: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ For Coaching: [email protected] Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe Connect With Benjamin Camras : Benjamin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/benjamincamras Benjamin Website: https://stan.store/benjamincamras Benjamin TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@benjamincamras RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
How I Fixed 20 Years Of Avoidant Attachment — And Self-Development Wasn't The Answer 12.07.2026 21dk

1️⃣ Work with me in DM me "99" 👉🏽 https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ How I went from avoidant to secure: https://youtu.be/3bMs_v7FvGc 3️⃣ Why you keep pulling away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page I was a dismissive avoidant for 20 years. I blamed the women. I blamed dating culture. I blamed feminism. Then I had to face the truth — the problem was me. In this episode, I share the full unfiltered story: what kept me running from commitment for two decades, the rock-bottom moment that broke me open, and the five steps that actually changed everything. Self-development, plant medicine, Tantra, retreats — I tried it all. None of it stuck. Because the wound was created in relationship… and it could only be healed in relationship. If you're tired of repeating the same patterns, pushing partners away, and never feeling truly connected — this one's for you. What I cover: 0:00 — The lie I told myself for 20 years 3:45 — Why "high standards" was just fear in disguise 8:20 — My rock-bottom moment in Bolivia 14:10 — Why self-development alone failed me 19:30 — The 5 steps that actually shifted my attachment 28:15 — What relational work looks like in practice 34:00 — How I built a 7-year relationship and family RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity