That's Orgasmic with Sexologist Emily Duncan

178 Why touch can disappear in relationships 10.06.2026 15min

This episode explores demand and non-demand intimacy. Emily explains what is happening when not only sex has decreased, but physical touch and intimacy have decreased too. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code: thatsorgasmic10   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

177 How to initiate sex 03.06.2026 17min

Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Ebook Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Workbook Get your copy of The Art of Initiation bundle Ebook + Workbook Emotional Bank Account Podcast episode FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

176 Is your relationship is running on empty? 27.05.2026 14min

This episode explores the emotional bank account. A concept often discussed in therapy to determine the health of your relationship and how you can improve it. Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Ebook FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

175 Why you are experiencing erectile difficulties 20.05.2026 16min

Overcome your erectile difficulties with my online self-paced course  Overcoming Erectile Difficulties Program: How to obtain and maintain an erection Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Ebook (How to initiate sex) FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre Discount code for course: THATSORGASMIC If you want to track your erectile health use the link below to access the FirmTech Ring. A penile device that tracks your erections and can also be used as a cockring. https://myfirmtech.com/emilyduncan Use the code: ThatsOrgasmic for 15% off.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

174 Five things I repeat as a Sex Therapist that you probably need to hear too 13.05.2026 16min

This episode explores 5 things Emily always says as a sex therapist to her clients during their therapy sessions. Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Ebook FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

173 Exploring Kink and BDSM with Coby Baker 29.10.2025 42min

This episode features Coby Baker, a sexologist and devoted artist. Emily and Coby discussed: What is Kink and BDSM Development of kinks Common practices Difference between a kink and a fetish How to explore kink and BDSM safely Communication How to talk to your partner about a kink you want to explore Aftercare FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre, follow the link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Sexual Wellness Centre. Coby’s website Coby’s InstagramSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

172 How to overcome purity culture and sexual shame with Lauren Elise Rogers 31.07.2025 54min

This episode features Lauren Elise Rogers who is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach, celebrated for her warm and approachable style. Her holistic and embodied approach to education and coaching is deeply rooted in her own pain-to-purpose journey. Lauren brings an empathetic and non-judgmental approach, offering practical tools that empower her clients to take ownership of their pleasure and grow in confidence and connection. She is known for creating shame-free spaces, where she invites individuals and couples to navigate complex topics like long-term partnerships, consensual non-monogamy, life transitions, purity culture and LGBTQIA+ issues. We discuss: What is purity culture How to overcome purity culture frameworks and sexual shame Why talking about sex is important What if your partner also contributed to your experience of purity culture FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Website: www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@sexedforyou Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

171 Why people cheat and how to repair your relationship after an affair with Tarah and Ej Kerwin 28.05.2025 54min

This episode features Tarah and EJ Kerwin who are dedicated to transforming couples’ lives through meaningful connection and support. They’re a married couple who co-founded the Relationship Renovation Counseling Centre. Their goal is to provide real tools for couples to thrive, no matter where they are.   We discuss: What is cheating Why do people cheat? Is an affair the symptom of a troubled relationship or an individual problem? Can a relationship survive an affair? How couples can rebuild trust through couples therapy Misconceptions about affairs  YOUTUBE VIDEO FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   Tarah and EJ's WebsiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

170 The bedroom gap, Labiaplasty and Menopause with Dr Maria Sophocles 16.04.2025 52min

This podcast episode features Dr. Maria Sophocles, who has been a practicing gynecologist for 29 years and is an internationally respected expert in menopause and female sexual function. She is the founder of Women's Healthcare of Princeton, a progressive gynecology practice serving over 30,000 women in the U.S. Emily and Maria discuss: Menopause and why everyone needs to learn about it How Menopause can affect sex The bedroom gap Labiaplasty Expanding your experience of sex     FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/  Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   Website: https://mariasophoclesmd.com/patient-care/ Instagram: @mariasophoclesmd  TED Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=alYBnyxMuPk Erika Lust / TED Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z9LaQtfpP_8See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

169 ADHD and relationships with Niamh Mannion 03.04.2025 41min

This episode features Niamh Mannion the founder of My Friend In Sex Ed.  Emily and Niamh discuss: ADHD How ADHD can have positive impacts on relationships Other ways ADHD could impact relationships Rejection sensitivity Oversharing How a neurotypical or non-ADHDer can support an ADHD partner FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   Niamh's website Niamh's InstagramSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

168 How dating rules are changing and is your ‘type’ right for you? with Nicole Colantoni 27.03.2025 41min

How dating rules are changing and is your ‘type’ right for you? with Nicole Colantoni   This episode features Nicole Colantoni who is a dating coach, ehrmony Australia’s dating expert and podcast host of Love uncensored: the modern guide to dating and relationships.     Emily and Nicole discussed: Dating rules How dating rules differ between generations Dating advice Is your type really right for you?   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Nicole’s website Nicole’s InstagramSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

167 Discover your erotic blueprint for better sex with Laurie Love 19.03.2025 43min

This episode features Laurie Love who is a Certified Erotic Blueprint™ and Intimacy Coach. She empowers individuals and couples to navigate the intricacies of intimacy through the 5 Erotic Blueprint™ types framework which helps us understand how we are wired for pleasure. Emily and Laurie discuss: Laurie's journey to become an intimacy coach What is the erotic blueprint? How do we discover what our erotic blueprint is? Why is this helpful and how can we use it? What to do if your partner has a different erotic blueprint FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Laurie's websiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

166 How to talk about sex and your desires with your partner with Laura Lee 12.03.2025 36min

This episode features Laura Lee who is a psychologist & sexologist with over 17 years of experience in clinical practice and coaching. She is the Director of Blue Space Psychology where she provides individual psychological and sexual therapy. In addition to clinical practice, Laura provides supervision, professional consultation and workshops to healthcare providers. She also offers online courses, education and coaching, and is a sought after speaker and trainer. Laura‘s work has been published in the Journal of Positive Sexuality, where she explored how communication impacts sexual desire & satisfaction. Her extensive experience, academic research and practical insights, coupled with her warm and authentic communication style, sees that she is a highly respected voice in the fields of psychology and sexuality.   Emily and Laura discussed: What is sexual communication and how is it different to other ways we communicate in relationships? How does the relationship between communication, desire and satisfaction interact with each other? How to create safety when discussing sex What if your partner isn’t open to the idea of talking about sex? How to stay regulated during hard conversations  Creating interpersonal safety   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   Laura's Website: https://www.lauralee.com.au/about-1 Blue Space Psychology: https://www.bluespacepsychology.com.au/about Laura's InstagramSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

165 How society fails to support our cycles with Laura Federico and Morgan Miller 05.03.2025 45min

This episode features Laura Federico and Morgan Miller, the authors of The Cycle Book. Laura is a psychotherapist and certified sex and relationship therapist in private practice. Morgan is a certified professional midwife, lactation consultant, activist, and birth center founder in private practice.   Emily, Laura and Morgan discuss: What can you track in your menstrual cycle? What are the menstrual phases and what can they feel like? The importance of tracking your cycle Why you shouldn’t digitally track your health How to track your cycle How society isn’t set up to support our cycles How Donald Trump’s presidency is affecting Women and AFAB health rights FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Laura and Morgan’s website: https://www.itslauraandmorgan.com/ Buy the book in Australia HERE See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

164 Rebuilding desire and connection in your relationship with Tarah and Ej Terwin 26.02.2025 58min

This episode features Tarah and EJ Kerwin who are dedicated to transforming couples’ lives through meaningful connection and support. They’re a married couple who co-founded the Relationship Renovation Counseling Centre. Their goal is to provide real tools for couples to thrive, no matter where they are.   We discuss: Mismatched desire How to rebuild desire in your relationship Navigating conflict in relationships Not trusting your partner to hold information/explore difficult issues with you   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology  Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) The Relationship Renovation Website Tarah and Ej’s InstagramSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

163 The worlds largest penis with Matt Barr 19.02.2025 32min

In this episode, Emily is joined with Matt Barr who has gained notoriety as the man with the world's biggest penis (according to multiple independent medical studies, measuring him at over 36cm/14.5), a title he humorously embraces while shedding light on the complexities of his life. His journey into the public eye began with a Channel 4 documentary entitled My Massive C**k. In his upcoming memoir, A Long Story: Life With The World’s Large, Matt delves into the physical and mental health aspects associated with his condition. He aims to raise awareness about his challenges, including finding suitable clothing and managing health issues related to blood flow. Matt has shared his experiences, from bizarre direct messages to unexpected date invitations. He humorously recalls requests ranging from cleaning houses naked to more unusual propositions, such as a fan wanting to draw him in cartoon form for a fetish known as macrophilia. Matt enjoys working with brands like Fleshy because they share his goal of promoting a positive discourse around male sexuality. Matt's website: https://biggestpenisbook.com/ Fleshy sex toys: getfleshy.com FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

162 Twenty five things I have learnt about sex as a Sexologist 12.02.2025 32min

Welcome to season 6 of That's Orgasmic! This episode is being released on Emily's 25th birthday, so what better way to celebrate than discussing 25 things Emily has learnt about sex as a sexologist.   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

161 How to have hard conversations, boundaries and anxiety with Dr. Nicole Cain - Part 2 09.10.2024 27min

In this episode, Emily is joined by Dr. Nicole Cain who is a clinical psychologist, holistic anxiety expert, and author of Panic Proof Emily and Nicole discuss: How to have a scary conversation with someone Boundaries How a lack of boundaries can impact anxiety relationship check-ins Flop and fracture response what to do if your partner is dissociating What to do if your partner is overstimulated FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) LIFELINE: https://www.lifeline.org.au/ Dr Nicole Cain's links IG: drnicolecain FB: Dr. Nicole Cain Youtube: DrNicoleCainNMDA Website: https://drnicolecain.com/ Buy Panic Proof: https://www.amazon.com.au/Panic-Proof-Holistic-Solution-Anxiety-ebook/dp/B0D262P23GSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

160 Four steps to overcoming anxiety in your relationship with Dr. Nicole Cain - Part 1 09.10.2024 29min

In this episode, Emily is joined by Dr. Nicole Cain who is a clinical psychologist, holistic anxiety expert, and author of Panic Proof Emily and Nicole discuss: What is anxiety? Why do we experience anxiety? Difference between being diagnosed with anxiety and experiencing anxiety How does anxiety impact romantic relationships? Inner child work Communication between the brain and your body during an emotional response How to regulate during a fight with four steps The vagus nerve FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) LIFELINE: https://www.lifeline.org.au/ Dr Nicole Cain's links IG: drnicolecain FB: Dr. Nicole Cain Youtube: DrNicoleCainNMDA Website: https://drnicolecain.com/ Buy Panic Proof: https://www.amazon.com.au/Panic-Proof-Holistic-Solution-Anxiety-ebook/dp/B0D262P23GSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

159 Why you may be experiencing a lack of pleasure during sex, exploring the connection to fascia with Anna Rahe 02.10.2024 54min

In this episode, Emily is joined by Anna Rahe. Anna is the founder of GST Body and a somatic expert with over 25 years of professional experience. Emily and Anna discuss: What is fascia/connective tissue system Why fascia is important and how it impacts our sex lives Sexual pain and fascia Why you may be experience a lack of pleasure during sex How to support the pelvic floor muscles Sexual trauma and pelvic pain Reflective systems in the body (throat to pelvic floor) FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) LIFELINE: https://www.lifeline.org.au/ Anna’s Links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gstbody/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annaraheofgst/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GSTBody Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCixVSo4ZACweqBpZZ_AZJ0A Website: https://gstbody.com/pages/our-storySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.