High Level Wife Podcast with Chelsey Holm

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  For the wife who is unintentionally fighting AGAINST the wrong enemy 19.08.2026 18min

  Send us Fan Mail You can deeply love God, genuinely love your husband, want the absolute best for him—and still unknowingly fight against him. In this episode, we expose how control can disguise itself as “helping him grow,” why you were never called to be your husband’s Holy Spirit, and the difference between trying to change him and truly warring for him. It’s time to put down the fleshly weapons of correction, criticism, and control and trust God to do what only He can do. Support the s...
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  Learn to War FOR Your Husband, NOT Against Him! 18.08.2026 8min

  Send us Fan Mail I’m bringing you a framework of 9 actions to war on behalf of your husband. Take up these divine weapons of warfare that DESTROY strongholds over your husband so he is fully free, on fire and filled with love! This is how High Level Wives fight tenderly, tenaciously and ultimately how we take back territory the enemy has stolen! Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the en...
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  Stop Asking, “What Am I Getting?” 17.08.2026 14min

  Send us Fan Mail Culture teaches us to evaluate marriage like consumers: Am I happy? Are my needs being met? What am I getting from this? Jesus gives us an entirely different model. In this episode, we’re confronting the marriage scorecard, the stalemate of waiting for our spouse to go first, and what happens when our obedience flows from what we’ve already received from Christ. Stop keeping score and start asking: What can God give through me? Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach ...
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  The Enemy Wants Your Marriage Looking Inward 16.08.2026 14min

  Send us Fan Mail What if the enemy doesn’t have to destroy your marriage if he can simply keep it distracted? When husband and wife become consumed with offenses, scorekeeping, unmet expectations, and fighting each other, two people designed for Kingdom impact lose their shared direction. Let’s expose the strategy of division and remember: your spouse is not your enemy. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BA...
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  Marriage Was Designed to Multiply 15.08.2026 14min

  Send us Fan Mail God’s first words to male and female included a command to be fruitful and multiply. What if that principle reaches far beyond simply building a family? In this episode, we’re looking at marriage as a multiplier for discipleship, hospitality, generosity, testimony, service, and Kingdom impact—and asking one powerful question: Who could experience God’s goodness because your marriage said yes? Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to ...
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  Your Marriage Was Never About You 14.08.2026 15min

  Send us Fan Mail Culture has made marriage about happiness, fulfillment, and getting our needs met—but God’s vision is so much bigger. In this episode, we’re going back to Genesis to uncover why God created marriage, how covenant points beyond husband and wife, and what changes when we stop asking what God can do for our marriage and start asking what He wants to do through it. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAK...
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  THROWBACK: Creating Lasting Change 07.08.2026 17min

  Send us Fan Mail Here’s an episode from the past that still rings true today for creating ANY change that lasts. It’s what we do CONSISTENTLY over time that creates the results you see today. So what you do today creates the results you see years from now. What are you creating? What needs to change? Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design ...
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  Have We Lost Our Awe? Ready for the Smoke! 06.08.2026 12min

  Send us Fan Mail Have we become so familiar with the Gospel that we’ve stopped marveling at it? In this episode, Chelsey shares a moment from church that sparked a deeper question: Why are we often quicker to celebrate human achievement than the miracle of salvation? Together, we’ll explore what Scripture reveals about encountering the holiness of God and why true worship isn’t about personality or preference- it’s about a heart that is still moved by His presence. If you’ve ever felt like yo...
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  Feelings Make Great Messengers, Terrible Leaders 05.08.2026 3min

  Send us Fan Mail God gave you emotions, but He never intended them to lead your life. Learn how to acknowledge your feelings without allowing them to determine your direction. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience. First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regu...
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  Right Order Changes Everything 04.08.2026 3min

  Send us Fan Mail Many marriage struggles aren’t really marriage problems- they’re worship problems. Discover why putting Christ first changes everything else. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience. First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, an...
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  You Can’t Heal What You Won’t Name 03.08.2026 3min

  Send us Fan Mail Healing begins with honesty. In this Espresso Shot, learn why bringing hidden wounds into the light is the first step toward the transformation God desires. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience. First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regula...
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  Conviction Sounds Different Than Condemnation 02.08.2026 3min

  Send us Fan Mail Do you know the difference between the voice of the Holy Spirit and the voice of shame? Discover how conviction leads to freedom while condemnation keeps you stuck. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience. First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action t...
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  Frustrations Reveal Expectations 01.08.2026 3min

  Send us Fan Mail What if your frustration is actually revealing something deeper? In this episode, we’ll uncover how unmet expectations often point to areas where God is inviting us to surrender. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience. First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: ...
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  Assumptions Are Relationship Killers 31.07.2026 3min

  Send us Fan Mail Most conflict doesn’t begin with facts- it begins with assumptions. Learn how choosing curiosity over conclusions can transform your marriage and strengthen your relationships. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience. First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: da...
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  Stop Chasing Fruit- Start Checking the Root 30.07.2026 4min

  Send us Fan Mail Are you trying to fix behaviors while missing the heart? In this quick Espresso Shot (5 min or less!), discover why lasting transformation starts at the root, not the fruit, and how God changes us from the inside out. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience. First step? ...
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  A High Level Wife is TENDER: What That Means 29.07.2026 22min

  Send us Fan Mail What does it really mean to be a tender wife? Our culture often equates tenderness with weakness, passivity, or being easily hurt. But the Bible paints a completely different picture. A tender heart is one that remains soft before God, compassionate toward others, and responsive to the Holy Spirit—even in a hard world. In this episode, we’ll explore the biblical meaning of tenderness through Scripture, from King Josiah’s tender heart to God’s tender mercies and the tender bra...
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  How to Build Your Household God’s Way 28.07.2026 20min

  Send us Fan Mail Right Order. Repentance. Mission. Core values. Daily, weekly, and monthly disciplines, rhythms, and habits. This is how a high level family does it God’s way and flourishes forward together! Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience. First step? Grab the 30 Day...
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  How I Use God’s Written Word to Form & Guide My Bold Prayers 27.07.2026 12min

  Send us Fan Mail Don’t know how to pray or what to pray? This episode dives into exactly how I use God’s own written word to form and guide my prayers back to Him. It’s so simple but so powerful! Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience. First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room R...
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  BTS: Real Life Audacious Faith and Radical Obedience in Motion! 26.07.2026 18min

  Send us Fan Mail God corrected us and redirected us onto a path that has and is requiring bold, audacious faith and radical obedience to Him. Come listen as I throw the curtains wide open to our household and see God work! Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience. First step...
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  Less of Me. More of Christ. 25.07.2026 13min

  Send us Fan Mail What if the goal of your marriage isn't simply a better relationship—but becoming more like Jesus? In this final episode, we bring the entire series together by looking at the heart of biblical marriage: daily surrender. Through John 3:30, Galatians 2:20, and the Gospel, you'll discover that flourishing isn't found in demanding more from your spouse but in giving more of yourself to Christ. As we decrease and He increases, our marriages become living testimonies of God's love...