Human Becoming

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  why I’ve dropped everything to pursue a ‘career’ in climate justice 26.08.2025 24min

  Send us Fan Mail title is self explanatory ✨
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  the spark doesn’t mean “they’re the one” 11.07.2025 23min

  Send us Fan Mail an episode on romantic recovery and how we learn to see the spark / the bubbly feelings we feel when we meet someone we project “the one”ness onto as what it is: karma.
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  checking in: where I’ve been, where I’m at, where I’m going 02.06.2025 30min

  Send us Fan Mail the title says it all.
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  hb microthought about autism and adhd 22.11.2024 18min

  Send us Fan Mail Hello! Welcome back to another microthought. This episode is about my recent audhd diagnosis, how that changed from my diagnosis of bipolar 5 years ago, my thoughts on late diagnosis and the appearance of autism + adhd in people socialised as women, and a couple more fun thoughts just for you. Enjoy ✨
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  hb microthought contemplations amidst climate catastrophe 18.11.2024 12min

  Send us Fan Mail I’m starting a new segment of human becoming called hb micro thoughts. This will be for thoughts, stories and experiences that are small and sharp and want to be shared within 15 minutes or so. This micro thought is about the climate crisis, global warming, and the collective grief that you may be feeling as you look out at the world in crisis.
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  human becoming returns (?) 20.03.2024 37min

  Send us Fan Mail Human becoming returns (maybe?). This episode is a little hi! hello! how are you! before I return from my podcasting hiatus to get back to one of my favourite mediums. I talk about God and our large self, who human becoming is and who I am now (hint hint: who knows!), how I’ve been using Instagram as my metaphorical yoga mat, capitalism, and some of my intentions for this new era of the podcast.
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  how to use Human Becoming (an orienting guide) 01.02.2024 30min

  Send us Fan Mail Hello, dear human, and welcome to the Human Becoming podcast. It is so, so lovely to have you here. Human Becoming has been alive for 3 WHOLE YEARS. In that time, I’ve explored themes of shame, desire, sexuality, the shadow, magick, ancestral healing, somatics, money, and so much more. Wherever you are in your journey, Human Becoming has something special for you - and in this episode, I run through all the seasons and what they cover so that you can figure out where ...
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  why I want you to join the money magick coven 11.11.2023 32min

  Send us Fan Mail I love the money magick coven. And sometimes I struggle to capture just how brilliant, transformative and magickal this work has been for me and my clients. So I’ve made a podcast episode that is all about WHY I love the money magick coven, and why I want YOU to join me in it.
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  the somatics of break ups 26.10.2023 39min

  Send us Fan Mail We are wired for connection. We are attachment-oriented beings. What happens when our attachment relationships are disrupted or severed? This episode is all about the somatics of attachment: how our earliest attachment strategies develop, and how to support ourselves when they get activated. Break ups can be REALLY challenging for our bodies and nervous systems. My hope is that this episode supports you in meeting yourself with tenderness, compassion and care as you navig...
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  Whorishness is next to Godliness 03.10.2023 53min

  Send us Fan Mail Whorishness is one of my highest spiritual ideals (hail Babalon!) Today’s episode is all about my journey into whorishness, slutiness, sacred sexuality and God. If you’re a deeply spiritual being and a deeply sexual being (hint hint: we all are!)… If you’re curious about being a slut for God and the mysteries… If you’re wanting to ride the wild beast that is our reality with total approval and acceptance… And feel DEEPLY turned on as you do… this episode for you.
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  navigating desire and capacity in intimate partnerships 20.09.2023 35min

  Send us Fan Mail What’s the difference between desire and capacity when you’re dating someone new? (Or, when you’re just being a human in relationship with other humans!) In this episode we speak about the principles of capacity (what we are able to do) and desire (what we want to do), and how learning to understand the difference between the two can help us to navigate our relationships with more love, tenderness and compassion.
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  a conspiring of magickal minds with Camille Bacon 06.09.2023 1h 1min

  Send us Fan Mail In this episode, I have the delight of speaking to my dear friend, brilliant artist and fellow magician Camille Bacon. Camille describes herself as a heap of blood and bones and a hefty dose of star sprinkle, the glitter on the oceans surface and the primordial rhythm of the deep. I describe her as a generator of worlds and culture, a leader of the new Aeon, a beloved devotee of the Gods and the mystery, and a prolific creator of the unnameable and unknowa...
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  why I am choosing celibacy 30.08.2023 55min

  Send us Fan Mail This episode is about my recent decision to explore celibacy, how I’ve been feeling poly burned-out, where I choose partners that probably should just be my coaching clients, and what I’ve been learning about myself as a relational being through my recent romantic escapades (and non-escapades!).
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  on celibacy, desiring my one true love and my happily ever after 30.08.2023 34min

  Send us Fan Mail In this episode, recorded at 1am, I speak about desire, my newfound commitment to celibacy, and how I am now devoted to remaining heart-open to finding my one true love and experiencing my happily ever after (yes, I believe in fairytale endings! and that’s what I want!)
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  on good men with Tebogo Mabye 27.08.2023 59min

  Send us Fan Mail I’ve made it a practice to notice the presence of good men in my life - one of whom is my dear friend, Tebza. In this podcast episode, we speak about men and masculinity in South Africa, what it was like for Tebza to grow up in Hillbrow and the lessons he learned about being a man inside and outside of his house, and how he is charting an alternative masculinity for himself that allows for more play, pleasure and flexibility, while keeping steadfast in his deep desire to sta...
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  Jesus, take the wheel 26.07.2023 39min

  Send us Fan Mail In this episode I am joined by my dear friend, fellow mystic, and co-camp counsellor of Jesus Camp, Dani Bobby! We talk about the the great gnostic truth hidden within everyday sayings like "Jesus, take the wheel", how we can begin to understand the symbolic significance of the masculine and the feminine in the bible, why it's so important to bring the body into this consciousness raising work, and why the symbol of Jesus seems to pop up for so many magicians and witch...
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  how do we forgive our abusers? 21.07.2023 42min

  Send us Fan Mail how do we forgive our abusers? many of us have felt shamed, or moralised, into forgiveness. unfortunately, this idea that we “should” forgive others prevents us from knowing the deeply orgasmic, bubbling sensation of forgiveness arising in our being - not because we have told it that it “should”, but because forgiveness will naturally bubble up when we come into understanding our true Self. in this episode, I don’t shy away from speaking about: • rape and sexual assault • ...
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  Jesus, bell hooks and Aleister Crowley walk into a bar 18.07.2023 43min

  Send us Fan Mail Jesus, bell hooks and Aleister Crowley walk into a bar. Jesus says: “love each other as I have loved you” Aleister Crowley says: “love is the law” And bell hooks says: “it’s all about love, baby!” All of these fabulous, descended masters carried a central transmission about the transformative, revolutionary and awakening power of Love. In this episode, I talk about why - if I could have dinner with three people - I would choose Jesus, the son of man, Aleister Crowley, ...
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  resourcing in trust in times of apocalypse 12.07.2023 37min

  Send us Fan Mail We are in the apocalypse. It is not a far off destination, something that we have the luxury to put off thinking about/feeling into/engaging with. AND What if apocalypse is not what we think it is - what if apocalypse is generative (or could be) - what if apocalypse is the necessary dark night of the soul that humanity must go through in service to the evolution of our consciousness? In this episode, I speak about trust - and what it means to lean on trust, and faith, and...
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  confessions of a love bomber 04.07.2023 51min

  Send us Fan Mail I am a love bomber. A narcissist. A gaslighter. A ghoster. A breadcrumber. In this episode, we discuss these overused terms and how they can be used to invoke the drama triangle (a model created by Stephen Karpman that needs a victim, perpetrator, and bystander in order to create exquisite drama), and how that can lead to a static, boring terrain that is no fun to date in. This episode is part cultural critique, part love philosophy, part intro to the drama triangle and sha...