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what if i never find someone again? there is always someone better 01.06.2026 22min

One of the biggest fears after a breakup is the thought: “What if I never find someone again?” In this solo episode, I talk about why that fear feels so real, how heartbreak convinces us that we lost our only chance at love, and why that's rarely true. We dive into the psychology behind attachment, scarcity mindset, and why we tend to put people on a pedestal after they're gone. I also share how to stop romanticizing the past, rebuild your confidence, and trust that the right person won't require you to beg for love, attention, or effort. If you're struggling to let go of someone and wondering if you'll ever find a connection like that again, this episode is the reminder that your story doesn't end with one person.

dating, but from a guys perspective (w/ brayden black) 25.05.2026 50min

In this episode, Brayden joins me to talk about dating from a guy’s perspective and answer the questions girls are always wondering about. We get into modern dating, mixed signals, communication, relationships, confidence, attachment, and what guys actually think when it comes to love and commitment. We also talk about red flags, dating standards, emotional vulnerability, and the biggest misunderstandings between guys and girls. This episode feels like one big honest conversation that gives insight into dating from both sides.

the secret to confidence & authenticity (w/ lucy jacobsen) 18.05.2026 35min

In this episode, we talk all about confidence, authenticity, and what it really means to be yourself in a world that constantly pressures people to fit in. We dive into the psychology behind self-worth, validation, comparison, and why so many people struggle to feel comfortable as their real selves. We also talk about overcoming insecurity, building confidence from within, setting boundaries, and learning to stop shrinking yourself for other people. If you’ve ever felt like you’re performing instead of genuinely living as yourself, this episode is for you.

8 things you need to do before getting into a relationship 11.05.2026 20min

In this solo episode, I talk about 8 things I believe everyone should focus on before getting into a relationship. We always hear people say “love yourself first,” but no one really talks about what that actually looks like. This episode is all about becoming more secure within yourself, building a life you genuinely enjoy on your own, and learning how to stop relying on relationships for validation, happiness, or identity. If you’ve ever struggled with loneliness, attachment, overthinking, or losing yourself in relationships, this episode will really resonate with you.

living with OCD & how to manage it (w/ jacie smoot) 04.05.2026 41min

In this episode, I sit down with Jacie to have a real and honest conversation about living with OCD. We talk about what OCD actually looks like beyond the stereotypes, how it affects everyday life, and the challenges that come with managing intrusive thoughts and compulsions. We also touch on religious OCD, or scrupulosity, and how it can impact your thoughts and beliefs. Most importantly, we share ways to cope, manage symptoms, and navigate OCD in a way that feels healthier and more grounded.

how to actually start loving yourself 27.04.2026 30min

Everyone always tells you to love yourself, but no one ever really explains how to actually do it. In this solo episode, I get honest about what self-love actually looks like beyond the surface. From unlearning negative self-talk to setting boundaries and choosing yourself even when it feels uncomfortable, this is a real episode about the steps it takes to start building a genuine relationship with yourself.

how to deal with depression. you're never alone. (w/ my dad) 20.04.2026 33min

In this episode I sit down with my dad for an honest and heartfelt conversation about depression, what it looks like, how it feels, and how we have both learned to manage it in our own ways. We talk about the importance of opening up, breaking the stigma around mental health, and finding support even in the hardest moments. Through personal stories and real life insight, this episode is a reminder that no matter how heavy things may feel, you are never alone and there is always hope, help, and healing ahead.

how to actually detach and move on (w/ baylee grover) 13.04.2026 40min

This episode dives into how to actually detach from someone who’s no longer meant for you and start rebuilding your self-worth. We talk about why letting go feels so hard, what you’re really holding onto, and how to break the emotional attachment for good. It’s all about shifting your mindset, choosing yourself, and learning how to give yourself the love you’ve been seeking from someone else. If you’re ready to stop overthinking, stop going back, and finally feel at peace, this episode will help you step into a more confident, independent version of yourself.

you are so much more than your body (w/ breia barnes) 06.04.2026 43min

In this episode, I sit down with Breia for a real, honest conversation about healing from eating disorders, body image, and the role therapy plays in taking care of your mental health. We share personal experiences, talk through the challenges of recovery, and reflect on what it means to rebuild a healthier relationship with ourselves. This episode is a reminder that healing isn’t linear, but it is possible, and that unlearning toxic standards, practicing self-compassion, and prioritizing your mental health can truly change everything. If you’ve ever struggled with body image or felt alone in your journey, this conversation is for you.

YOU are the person you've been waiting for w/ Zach Stauffer 30.03.2026 56min

In this episode, we talk about how working on yourself isn’t selfish; it’s essential. We break down how your mental health impacts your relationships, why it’s not an excuse, and how to finally put you first. Learn how to stop settling, raise your standards, and start showing up for yourself. Enjoy!

you're not missing them, you're missing these 5 things 23.03.2026 23min

In this episode, I dive into the psychology of breakups, why your brain holds on, and how to finally start detaching. If you’re tired of missing someone who’s no longer in your life, this episode will help you understand why and show you how to let go.

love starts with you: self love, dating, & breakup survival w/ Taylor Church 16.03.2026 1h 1min

In this episode, I’m joined by relationship coach Taylor Church to talk about building self-love before entering a relationship. We dive into what it means to truly know yourself, why so many people feel “behind” when it comes to dating, and how to shift that mindset. Taylor also shares advice on how to recognize healthy relationships and what to actually look for in a partner. This conversation is full of honest insights, encouragement, and reminders that everyone’s timeline in love looks different.

you're already enough [pt 2] (w/ baylee grover) 09.03.2026 36min

⁠In this episode, we’re keeping it real about depression and mental health. What it’s like, how to cope, and a few ways to make things a bit easier. We’ll also talk about suicide prevention and how to look out for yourself and the people you care about. This episode is just a reminder that even when it feels heavy, it can get better, and you’re never alone. Love you guys! Enjoy! ⁠⁠Don't forget to check out urheartthreads.com for some cute hoodies. Use code "ELLIE15" for 15% off ⁠

you're already enough [pt 1] (w/ baylee grover) 02.03.2026 50min

In this episode, I’m joined by Baylee Grover for a deeply honest conversation about depression, suicide, eating disorders, and so much more. She shares personal experiences, hard moments, and the realities that are often left unspoken. This episode is raw, emotional, and real, but also filled with warmth and connection. If you’ve ever felt alone in your struggles, this conversation is here to remind you that you’re not.

the importance of alone time (w/ Sofie Ollivier) 23.02.2026 29min

In this episode, we dive into the importance of learning to love your own company and building self-love before jumping into relationships. If you’re ready to grow and show up for yourself first, this one’s for you.

you will be okay again. 16.02.2026 38min

In this week's episode, I open up about getting through one of the hardest seasons of my life. A time when I genuinely believed things would never feel okay again. I share a bit of my personal experience, what it felt like to be stuck in that place, and what slowly helped me move through it. This isn’t a “toxic positivity” talk or a promise that everything magically fixes itself it’s an honest reminder that healing isn’t linear, that pain doesn’t mean permanence, and that even when you can’t see it yet, you will feel like yourself again. If you’re in a tough place right now, this episode is for you. Love you guys!

stop chasing, start receiving 09.02.2026 54min

This episode is about what shifts when you stop chasing and start receiving. Inspired by the book How to Get Your Man to Buy You Flowers, we talk about energy, self-worth, and why living like you’re already chosen changes everything. From setting standards without explaining yourself to detaching without becoming cold, this episode breaks down how attraction grows when you build a life you love and let the right people rise to meet you. Check out this book on Amazon with this link here https://a.co/d/0dLZtxvo

red & green flags in dating (w/ mads goulding) 02.02.2026 50min

Don't mind the horrible audio in this episode. My mics were unplugged, so we recorded the whole thing without mics!!! So annoying, but in this episode, we dive into the biggest red flags and green flags in dating. From unhealthy patterns to the signs of emotional maturity and real effort, we’re talking about what to watch out for and what to look for if you want a healthy relationship. Dating doesn’t have to be confusing; let’s make it clearer. Enjoy!

how to unlock your feminine energy 26.01.2026 25min

In this solo episode, I’m breaking down masculine and feminine energy and how they show up in dating. I talk about why so many women feel stuck in their masculine energy, how that impacts attraction, and what it actually looks like to tap back into your feminine without losing your independence. If you’ve been feeling burnt out, guarded, or tired of chasing in dating, this episode is for you. Enjoy!

how to stop caring what other people think (w/ jentry tilby) 19.01.2026 44min

In this episode, we talk about how to stop caring what other people think of you and start living for yourself. From letting go of approval to building real confidence, we share mindset shifts and honest advice to help you stop overthinking, trust yourself, and show up as who you really are. Enjoy!