Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting

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  3162: 6 Reasons You Should NEVER Compare Your Relationships by Rachael Pace with Psych Alive on Marriage Tips 03.10.2026 9p

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  3161: [Part 2] Game Plan for Peaceful Parenting Your Teen by Dr. Laura Markham of Peaceful Parent Happy Kids on Positive Parenting 02.10.2026 8p

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  3160: [Part 1] Game Plan for Peaceful Parenting Your Teen by Dr. Laura Markham of Peaceful Parent Happy Kids on Raising Teens 01.10.2026 8p

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  3159: Why You Should Date Your Friends by Shawna Scafe of Simple On Purpose on Friendship Building 30.09.2026 9p

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  3158: A Couple's Guide to Complaining by Jon Beaty With Gottman Institute on Conflict Repair 29.09.2026 9p

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  3157: The Art and Science of Making Great First Impressions by Tyler Tervooren of Riskology on Dating Confidence 28.09.2026 12p

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  3156: You Care About So Much - But Do You Really by Ingrid Y. Helander on Emotional Freedom 27.09.2026 12p

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  3155: Parents Influence On Eating Behavior AND How to Create a Good Exercise Program by Chalene Johnson on Positive Parenting 27.09.2026 12p

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  3154: Why Chasing Attraction is a Losing Strategy in Love by Evan Marc Katz on Relationship Compatibility 26.09.2026 8p

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  3153: 3 Secrets of Joyful Motherhood by Lynnette Sheppard with Declutter Your Life on Maternal Wellness 25.09.2026 9p

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  3152: Go Ahead, Make Mistakes: Fostering Resilience in Our Children by Adina Soclof of Parenting Simply on Raising Resilient Kids 24.09.2026 9p

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  3151: The 5 Things We're All Fighting For in Marriage by Dr. Kelly Flanagan on Marriage Tips 23.09.2026 9p

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  3150: [Part 2] 10 Things to Know About Being in a Relationship With an HSP by Lisa Petsinis of Highly Sensitive Refuge on Lasting Love 22.09.2026 9p

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  3149: [Part 1] 10 Things to Know About Being in a Relationship With an HSP by Lisa Petsinis of Highly Sensitive Refuge on Relationship Compatibility 21.09.2026 9p

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  3148: Why Self-Awareness is Sexy by Mark Manson on Authentic Living 20.09.2026 10p

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  3147: Deal With Anxiety By Making a "Dread" List by Tonya Lester on Asking For Help 20.09.2026 10p

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  3146: The 7 Deadly Sins In A Relationship by Eddie Corbano of Loves A Game on Lasting Love 19.09.2026 10p

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  3145: Is Your Young Adult Suffering From Anxiety or Failure to Launch? by Dr. Jack Stoltzfus of Parents Letting Go on Parenting Young Adults 18.09.2026 11p

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  3144: The Blessings of A Messy Room by Allison Carmen on Positive Parenting 17.09.2026 8p

  Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 3144: Allison Carmen shares what happened when she took a friend's advice and spent a week enforcing chores with a stern voice, and why the extra yelling left her more exhausted than the mess ever did. She describes the quiet morning that shifted her perspective, when crumbs on the kitchen floor became a reminder of the two children who made them. It is a small, workable piece of parenting advice for holding a standard without losing your joy over it. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.allisoncarmen.com/the-blessings-of-a-messy-room/ Quotes to ponder: "I was constantly asking the children to clean up after themselves; but unfortunately their talents seem to lie in making a mess." "I now see each crumb and each unmade bed as a reminder of how lucky I am to have them in my life." "One day they will move away and my house will be very clean, but I will miss them dearly." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and parenting, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  3143: Team Up with the Person Against the Problem by Keith Wilson on Rebuilding Trust 16.09.2026 8p

  Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 3143: Keith Wilson explains what to do when a partner admits out loud that they are struggling with the very thing that has already hurt the relationship. He describes that admission as a sign of progress rather than a fresh betrayal, and makes the case for treating the Problem as a separate opponent the two of you face together. It is a practical reframe for couples trying to rebuild trust without turning every slip into another fight. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://keithwilsoncounseling.com/2017/11/03/team-up-with-the-person-against-the-problem/ Quotes to ponder: "If you get the opportunity to work with your loved one to vanquish the Problem, don't mistake this opportunity for the Problem, itself." "Before you lose your lunch, be glad he's telling you this. He's telling on his Problem. He's trying to enlist you in a fight against it." "At the core of every Problem is a piece that ain't ever going away, nor should it." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and parenting, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices