Marriage Unhindered

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  Caring for Parents Under One Roof 02.10.2026 50p

  Doug shares how to handle the challenges when and elderly parent moves in with you.   Listener questions and comments: Matt - I have been married for 20 years. I have a continued pattern of not telling the truth. My wife has had enough. What should I do? (6:22) Addison - We moved in with my father-in-law. He's 86 now. It has been hard, but really beautiful since our son is 8 years old. My biggest advice is to have those memories, and try and have your own time. Sit around the table and have dinner together. (11:51) Rose - Mom moved in with me. I feel called by God to take care of my mom.  I fell back on that when stressed. My mom is 98 and I am grateful. (21:47) Mary - It was my mother who lived with my whole family and it was a great experience. (26:20) Gina - My mom is in a private home, I only had her for a month. She had bathroom issues, and drove husband crazy. She loves the private home. (29:37) Liz - My mom lived with us and had dementia. My husband and kids helped take care of her.   Don't lose that connection with your wife. We are struggling to be back with each other. (34:29) Gloria - Since my mom’s cancer was terminal, we made the decision that I would travel 500 miles to stay with mom and my husband stayed at home. Our son stayed with my husband and our daughter stayed with me. (37:08) Sylvia - When my mom came three months ago, she underwent trauma emotionally, and now is in comfort care. (41:06)   Resources   Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/   Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/   Emotionally Focused Therapy https://iceeft.com/   Catholic Therapists https://catholictherapists.com/   Catholic Psychotherapy https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/
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  Toxic Empathy 01.10.2026 50p

  Monica Hinderer joins Doug to discuss toxic empathy. They also discuss questions on marital infidelity, and healing past wounds.   Listener questions and comments: Juan - I have been married for 15 years and my wife thinks I'm cheating. (4:04) Joe - Does marriage counseling help heal past wounds such as infidelity? (18:37) Don - I've experienced toxic empathy and also the other marital issues fueled by toxic empathy. (41:13) Gloria - My husband was unfaithful, but doesn't want to go to counseling. Should I still go to counseling myself? (47:51)   Resources: Monica Hinderer https://www.monicahinderer.com/   Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/   Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/   Emotionally Focused Therapy https://iceeft.com/   Catholic Therapists https://catholictherapists.com/   Catholic Psychotherapy https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/
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  Rules for Manliness 30.09.2026 50p

  Bear Woznick joins Doug to discuss his two books; 12 Rules for Manliness, and Men of Grit and Grace.   Listener questions and comments: John - I have family history of the cowboy code! (36:28)   Resources: School of Manliness https://www.bearschoolofmanliness.com/
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  Overcoming Grief 29.09.2026 50p

  Sam Hodges joins Doug to discuss grief. They explore practical ways to support someone who is grieving, how people process grief differently, and what grief can look like in marriage and everyday life. They also take listener calls from people sharing their own experiences with grief.   Listener questions and comments: Sophie - My husband is mad at God and got away from his faith. Should I stay with this person? We are both Catholic and didn’t get married in the Church. (22:08) Mare - The best thing I ever did was get involved in a Catholic group for grief. My grief was due to my father not really being my biological father. (31:07) Stephen - I lost my son in 2023 and I feel God and the Church has brought me through this. (37:16) Brian - My daughter was killed several years ago and I am dealing with the pain. I ended up having an affair and almost lost my marriage. (41:36) Judy - I attended grief share and I am now helping run it at my church It helps so many people! (45:56)   Resources: GriefShare https://www.griefshare.org/
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  Number One Rule for Dating 28.09.2026 50p

  Doug shares the number one rule in dating and discusses questions that must be answered to really get to know someone well.   Listener questions and comments: Leslie - My husband died on April 2nd and we didn’t end on a good note and I don’t have closure. (12:17) Ray - I have noticed that girls will talk very loosely and tell stories about their sex lives. What should we do to address it or ignore. (18:03) Patricia - I am dealing with strife between multiple generations in my family. (22:52)   Resources: Catholic Christianity https://ignatius.com/catholic-christianity-cachp/   Highlights of the Catholic Faith https://www.amazon.com/dp/1948139847?lv=shuf&channelId=500&plpRedirect=mhFallback   Why We're Catholic: Our Reasons for Faith, Hope, and Love https://www.amazon.com/dp/1683570243?lv=shuf&channelId=500&plpRedirect=mhFallback   Catholicism: A Journey to the Heart of the Faith https://www.amazon.com/dp/0307720519?lv=shuf&channelId=500&plpRedirect=mhFallback
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  Conversion, Jealousy, and Purity in Dating 25.09.2026 50p

  Doug talks with his daughter Emily about seeing the beatification of Bishop Sheen in person. Doug also covers a few listener emails before getting into dating advice, including conversion to Catholicism within a marriage, jealousy in relationships, and navigating purity while dating. Listener Questions and Comments: Matt - Should I pursue conversion to Catholicism at the expense of my marriage? He has been married for seven years but is being drawn to Catholicism, and his wife is not very happy about it. (11:51) Mark - Words of encouragement for Matt. As a CCD teacher married to a Jewish woman, Mark shares how his wife eventually converted after 30 years and how they have had a beautiful marriage. (29:01) Ray: How should you approach jealousy? He suggests having Doug and Timmerie together on a show to offer both the male and female perspectives on dating and marriage. (31:07) Samantha - How do you maintain purity while dating when you and your partner are not on the same page? She asks when it is time to walk away while also wanting to get engaged and married sooner rather than later because living purity is becoming difficult. (34:48)   Resources:   Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/   Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle   Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/
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  Postpartum Depression and Psychosis 25.09.2026 50p

  Monica and Doug discuss postpartum depression and psychosis, what can be done to treat them, and how to equip children who hear about these difficult cases. Listener questions and comments: Celeste: I experienced psychosis two years ago and struggled with a split personality. (11:20) Rose: I experienced postpartum depression and want to share my happy ending. (29:35) Cynthia: I never planned to have children and did not have a maternal instinct. My husband wanted seven children, and after having children, natural births, and breastfeeding for two years each, I became very maternal and developed a strong bond with my children. I never experienced postpartum depression. (41:06)
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  When Addiction Hurts Your Marriage 24.09.2026 50p

  Are you married to someone struggling with an addiction that is damaging your marriage? Doug welcomes Scott Weeman, founder of Catholics in Recovery, to explore the roots of addiction and how people can begin the path toward healing and freedom. Listener questions and comments: Charlie – I have been in Al-Anon and found a “Letter to an Alcoholic” especially helpful. I want to share how it helped me. (18:26) Joe – I spent 12 hours on YouTube yesterday and realized I am addicted. How can I break this habit? (26:39) Dawn – I am in a 12-step program and want to share how it has helped me recognize the ways my own behavior has affected my family. (39:09) Resources:  Al-Anon https://al-anon.org/ AA https://www.aa.org/ Catholics in recovery https://catholicinrecovery.com/
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  From Complaints to Connection in Marriage 22.09.2026 50p

  Doug discusses several marriage topics including: complaining, where to find a good husband, and female breadwinners. He also shares several quotes to strengthen marriage.   Listener questions and comments: Robert - My wife and I have been married for 20 years and I have a problem where I lie about small things. (11:18) Jade - I found out my boyfriend is cheating. He says he wants to marry me. Should we continue? (23:28) Mark - Comment: Jade seems like the forgiving type but she can’t trust him until he gives her time to show it. (40:33) Josh - The Bible says that men are to be the providers for the home so when people go against what God already set up it, doesn’t go well. (42:38)   Resources: Emotionally Focused Therapy https://iceeft.com/
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  Sleep Problems and Marital Stress 21.09.2026 50p

  Dr. Bobby Jakucs joins Doug to discuss insomnia and nightmares and their impact on marriage.   Listener questions and comments:   Monique - I have long days starting at 2 AM and ending at 9 PM so I have a lack of sleep. Is there anything I can do because I am burned out. (11:50) Dave - I am semi-retired. I feel like I am over sleeping. What should I do? (22:05) Joanne - I have a nightmare where someone is chasing me and I scream in my dream but I wake up my husband. (25:16) James - My son is going through mental issues and is taking melatonin but it’s giving him bad side effects and it’s not his favorite. What other options are there? (32:02) Frank - I fall asleep quick but I wake up every hour or so. (40:01) Rich - When I can’t sleep, I start praying the Chaplet of Divine Mercy. I fall asleep before it’s over. (42:23) Laura - Seroquel is known to cause nightmares. (44:03) Mary - I only sleep 5 hours a night and I am 73 years old. I used to work nights and I wonder if that’s ok? (46:22)     Resources:   Take Courage Resilience Center https://www.takecouragerc.com/   Catholic Therapists https://catholictherapists.com/   Catholic Psychotherapy https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/
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  The Possibility of Forgiveness 18.09.2026 50p

  Doug unpacks a case study of an impossible marriage redeemed. In his story, the wife is shocked to learn that her husband was having an affair with a “friend”. Doug also responds to an email from a man whose wife refuses forgiveness and respect. PLUS: The Friday Rant!   Listener questions and comments: Jane - One good way to go about asking a man out is through mutual friends and having a mutual gathering. (33:32)   Resources: Impossible Marriages Redeemed https://www.leilamiller.net/impossiblemarriagesredeemedpdf   https://www.amazon.com/dp/B086FS9XCW?lv=shuf&language=he&channelId=500&plpRedirect=mhFallback   Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/   Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/   Catholic Therapists https://catholictherapists.com/   Catholic Psychotherapy https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/
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  Healing from Pornography and Infidelity 17.09.2026 50p

  How can pornography destroy a marriage? Should a couple get married in the Church after an 11-year civil marriage? What should you do if your wife is withholding forgiveness? Doug goes to the mailbag answering these questions and more.   Listener questions and comments:   John - I have been married for several years and my wife was unfaithful. We separated physically but then got back together. Now there is a separation on my part mentally that I can’t get over. (15:37) Mary Ann - When there is someone dressed immodestly my husband doesn’t distance himself and I wish he would. (22:26) Melissa - My daughter is a hoarder and her husband yelled at her and pushed around because of it. (28:47)   Resources:   Loving Him Through Sexual Addiction https://relevantradio.com/2026/09/loving-him-through-sexual-addiction/   Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/   Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/   Catholic Therapists https://catholictherapists.com/   Catholic Psychotherapy https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/   God’s Plan for Your Marriage https://godsplanforyourmarriagebook.com/   10 Lessons to transform your Marriage https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01K3L7FLC?lv=shuf&channelId=500&plpRedirect=mhFallback   Hold Me Tight https://www.amazon.com/dp/031611300X?lv=shuf&channelId=500&plpRedirect=mhFallback
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  A Christian Approach to Mental Health 16.09.2026 50p

  Special guest Bishop Michael Burbidge joins Doug to discuss his pastoral letter, The Divine Physician and a Christian Approach to Mental Health and Wellbeing.   Listener questions and comments: Deedee - I have been in a state of spiritual complacency. Is this a spiritual or mental issue? (37:08)   Resources: The Divine Physician and a Christian Approach to Mental Health and Wellbeing https://www.arlingtondiocese.org/2026/01/20/the-divine-physician-and-a-christian-approach-to-mental-health-and-wellbeing/   El Médico Divino y un enfoque cristiano de la salud mental y el bienestar. https://www.arlingtondiocese.org/es/2026/01/20/the-divine-physician-and-a-christian-approach-to-mental-health-and-wellbeing/   Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/   Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/   Catholic Therapists https://catholictherapists.com/   Catholic Psychotherapy https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/   When you need to see a therapist When you are stuck Your emotions become difficult to manage Your normal life functioning is off The relationships are suffering Your normal coping methods are not working
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  Loving Him Through Sexual Addiction 15.09.2026 50p

  Dann and Roxane Aungst join Doug. Roxane discusses her reality during the 25 years of Dann’s sexual addiction.   Listener questions and comments: Maria - How do you look at your wife now? How did you overcome these emotions after such a long addiction? (22:43) Susan - Listening to this is very difficult. My daughter's husband was introduced to porn at 10 years old and it destroyed their marriage. She left him and is living with another man. Do you have any advice? (25:32) Yolanda - What you are saying is beautiful but my husband is very proud. It's still hurting us. (40:18)   Resources:   Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/   Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/   Road to Purity https://roadtopurity.com/
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  Gaining Wisdom in Marriage 14.09.2026 50p

  Doug shares three tips from St. Bernard on gaining wisdom and explores how to apply them to our marriages today.   Listener questions and comments: Brian - Somebody came into my life briefly and because of my life issues they left. How do I move on or get them back? (21:52) Jessica - I don’t like the way my daughter dresses or the music she likes. How do I address this tension? (25:49) Noah - I am currently living in Utah and there aren’t many Catholics. What should I do? (33:40) Allen - The Philippines are about to legalize divorce. Muslims are protesting but the Catholics seem to be silent. What are your thoughts? (37:49) Lindsey - My mom is not Catholic and my family members are convinced she will go straight to heaven. Is this true? (40:38)   Resources: Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/   Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/   St. Bernard of Clairvaux on gaining wisdom Give thanks and praise Go to confession Be prudent in desire and speech
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  Resources for Faithful Marriages 11.09.2026 49p

  Dr. Julia Dezelski joins Doug to discuss USCCB resources available for married and dating couples.    Listener questions and comments: Chris - When I got married, there was very little marriage preparation. This needs to be a bigger emphasis. (22:41) Walt - It seems like in modern culture it seems like children are an add-on and not the focus. Is this being addressed? (31:14) Margy - There is very little available for people getting remarried in the Church and for those who have annulments. (38:25)   Resources: Catechumenal pathways for married life – Free PDF https://www.laityfamilylife.va/content/dam/laityfamilylife/amoris-laetitia/OrientamentiCatecumenatomatrimoniale/Catechumenal%20Pathways_ENG.pdf   Catechumenal pathways for married life - Book https://www.orderosv.com/product/catechumenal-pathways-for-married-life?ga_ref_list_id=75ga_ref_list_name=Related%20Products   Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/   For Your Marriage https://www.foryourmarriage.org/   https://www.portumatrimonio.org/   Second marriages https://www.foryourmarriage.org/second-marriages/
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  Prioritizing Family Over Career 10.09.2026 49p

  Doug discusses an email from a woman concerned that her husband works excessively and is pressuring her to take on full-time work as well. She worries that this dynamic is harming their marriage and family life. Doug emphasizes the importance of being present for one’s spouse and children and making family a top priority.   Listener questions and comments: Josephina - My husband and I are one of the couples who work a lot. I am comparing myself to the lady from the email, but at the same time I am also a workaholic sometimes. (19:28) Matt - I work 12-15 hours a day, and I am in a courtship right now. I find that if you really love them, that sacrifice shouldn’t take that much to make it happen. I want to also say that waiting till marriage is so worth it. (23:28) Richard - My son wants to get married, and the issue we come across is that his girlfriend is Catholic, but she is not practicing. (27:49) Fernando - At what point is doing everything for her happiness not ok if I start suffering? (38:09) Rex - I worked in oil, and I was a workaholic. You are touching on a lot of issues I went through. If I could go back, I would spend more time with the family. (44:11)
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  United Against the Enemy’s Attacks 09.09.2026 50p

  Doug discusses why you won’t find Eden here on earth and also tackles emails from couples who are struggling in their marriages.   Listener questions and comments: Richard - We have been married for 16 years but every time we go to put the sheets on the bed we end in a fight. (21:19) Alex - We have been separated for a year now and my husband suffers with addiction and infidelity. I just filled divorce today. (26:00) Mary - Comment for Alex: I have a book recommendation for her. 'Marriage 911'. (43:33) Maria - I am Catholic but I deal with spiritual warfare. My daughter got married to someone with demonic tattoos all over his body and they practice witchcraft. (44:56)   Resources:   Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/   Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/   Marriage 911 https://www.foryourmarriage.org/blogs/marriage-911-how-god-saved-our-marriage-and-can-save-yours-too/   Questions to ask your spouse when facing divorce What’s one thing I am doing that I should stop doing? What’s one thing that I am doing that I should do more? What’s one thing I’m not doing that I should start doing?
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  Praying For Your Marriage 08.09.2026 50p

  Dr. Chris Ebberwein joins Doug to discuss his book, The Cana Rosary: A Couple's Prayer.     Resources:   The Cana Rosary: A Couple's Prayer https://www.amazon.com/Cana-Rosary-Couples-Prayer/dp/1502392232   Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/   Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/
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  Making Jesus Christ the Center of your Marriage 07.09.2026 50p

  Fr. Peter Armenio joins Doug to discuss marriage and spousal love from his book Highlights of the Catholic Faith.   Listener questions and comments: Josephina - I went to confession, and I was able to apologize to my husband. It opened up the world of forgiveness. (19:55) Deedee - I have been married twice, and both men are deceased. What is the Catholic position on getting married a third time? (37:07) Walter - The world we live in is so materialistic and disposable. It’s also happened in marriages. People use their spouse and then throw them away. (38:34) Angel - I was on a few weeks ago talking about my fiancé. He is a general overseas, and he has issues that are getting worse. What do I do? (44:12)   Resources: Highlights of the Catholic Faith https://scepterpublishers.org/products/highlights-of-the-catholic-faith?srsltid=AfmBOop9iajSrMyZXnB-F1IOgNAr4ds-bYR_aYazTW52vhQd5KlqrQkp