We Were Fighting Before This

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  Hookup mistakes you should never make | EP 65 | We Were Fighting Before This 01.10.2026 1ó 33p

   Toast is back in town and we have a lot to catch up on...  Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  1:01 Toast is back in town  4:36 Is life different without Toast?  9:15 Yvonne’s apartment is cozy  10:10 Is Yvonne family?  11:47 Yvonne questions Toast…  13:03 Toast doesn’t want Chelsea to help him  15:05 Chelsea’s HOT questions for Toast  17:36 Is Yvonne an ally to men? 22:02 How many times have we hooked up  24:44 Yvonne lists five men she respects  25:30 Has Yvonne ever helped out Toast  29:25 Setting boundaries with fans  32:05 How can Yvonne celebrate Toast more  33:21 AAPI months thoughts 36:00 Toast can’t make it to Yvonne’s BDAY  38:20 Why do asians go to raves?  43:12 Toast and Scarra have the same bday  45:32 Introvert vs Extrovert personalities  46:45 Eating alone at a restaurant  49:50 Chelsea’s alone alot  51:16 Toast likes to sleep on the floor ALONE  54:50 Sleeping in separate rooms  56:34 Who has the higher social battery?  1:01:00 Toast hasn't made a new friend 1:03:21 Chelsea has a friend for Toast 1:05:51 Yvonne’s first date ettiequte  1:08:34 Google-ing Yvonne on the first date  1:10:41 How much $ would it take to be a stay at home mom/dad 1:17:55 Leaving mean comments online  1:20:13 Who’s ragebaiting who??  1:22:30 Playing your attractive cards  1:23:27 Flexing your car  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  How Yvonne went on an accidental date | EP 64 | We Were Fighting Before This  24.09.2026 1ó 3p

  Yvonne's accidental date might have been a blessing in disguise... This week, Toast forces the pod to play pickleball, stay tuned... Thanks to our Sponsors: Sign up for your free trial at ⁠https://www.shopify.com/beforethis Timestamps:  00:00 intro  1:13 The podcast lives on  3:01 Toast thinks Yvonne is going through it 4:28 Does Toast have friends for Yvonne?  5:50 Guys going for the same girl… 8:03 Yvonne and Leslie hypotheticals  11:00 Can a woman or man be bumped up to a 10 12:01 Rewatching older clips  13:20 Chelsea reviews if she is biased  16:35 Fighting women on a public platform  19:22 Fighting men on a public platform  21:42 Yvonne’s rude date  25:02 Creators feeling privileged  27:11 Being direct  30:28 Chelsea’s animation friend 31:33 Who’s the funniest OTV member  37:40 What Toast is consuming these days 38:52 Peak OTV days  40:20 Creative rut  44:45 Predicting life  45:55 Toast wants to play pickleball  48:44 Toast comments on Yvonnes weight  53:10 Yvonne’s been working out!  55:04 Chelsea invites Scarra to play pickleball… 57:20 Tune in when we all play pickleball…  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Toast is being squished into a little ball again | EP 63 | We Were Fighting Before This 17.09.2026 1ó 1p

  The trio is back together and Toast and Yvonne need to address the past couple of episodes... Timestamps: 00:17 Intro 1:04 Singapore trip + tournament drama7:06 Is AI more accepted in Asia?8:32 Toast’s mom watches the podcast9:24 Is Toast being “squished into a ball”?10:38 Does Toast need more backup?12:56 Toast admits to rage baiting15:04 How Toast & Yvonne handle tension18:23 Chelsea is scared of the YouTube comments20:05 Nate is secretly rage baiting??21:11 Content creators vs pro gamers24:22 Toast's Collab with Yunjin28:50 OTV x SB19 Fear Pong34:25 Team Toast vs Team Yvonne in Singapore36:28 Pickleball + badminton in Singapore37:37 Traveling with Toast’s mom38:58 What relationships have taught us50:21 Dating app openers 51:48 Our upcoming blind dating episode…53:44 Has the podcast affected our relationships?57:02 Outro  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Chelsea’s master plan for Scarra’s dating life | EP 62 | We Were Fighting Before This 10.09.2026 1ó 36p

   Scarra and Chelsea are back together for round 2! This time Chelsea needs answers.  Sign up for your $1 per month trial at https://www.shopify.com/beforethis Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:45 Scarra’s here!! Again… 2:18 Are Chelsea and Scarra friends now? 3:10 Getting Scarra to play tennis  5:32 Chelsea on the courts…  7:30 How Scarra REALLY felt playing tennis again 16:04 Being a tennis influencer… 18:17 Updates on Scarra’s dating life  20:12 When did Scarra know he was straight 21:45 Female allies  25:55 Is Chelsea an ally to Scarra?  29:43 Chelsea proposes a NEW friend!  32:27 Are streamers socially awkward?  34:15 Scarra loves pickleball  37:28 Finding Scarra’s perfect woman 49:00 Scarra doesn’t think Yvonne is a pro gamer  53:12 Intelligent dream woman?  54:25 Paying your therapist to laugh  55:10 Having a close family  1:01:25 Complimenting a guy  1:05:48 Chelsea is here to help Scarra  1:10:27 Toast and Scarra’s relationship  1:14:31 Why Chelsea became friends with Scarra  1:21:20 Fakefans is back!  1:24:20 The don and the diva…  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  How Leslie and Nate reconnected after 30 years | EP 61 | We Were Fighting Before This 03.09.2026 1ó 20p

  The Fu siblings are here! Leslie and Nate share how they reunited as siblings and past memories they had apart from each other.  Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  1:20 the Fu Siblings!  1:55 Who is Nate Fu 4:54 Toast is being squished… 8:10  Does Toast needs backup?  10:10 The reality of Yvonne and Toast  11:22 Leslie’s OG streaming days  14:35 Nate’s streaming POV  16:25 Being a female streamer  20:40 OTV parties  24:34  Leslie on Ryan Higa’s Influence  26:15 Nate Films with Ryan Higa in Hawaii  29:54 The Canceled HyperX Commercial  32:08 Leslie and Nate Discover Similarities  37:49 Leslie and Nate’s 30-Year Estrangement 40:13 Lost Hamster Story  41:46 How Leslie and Nate Reconnect  48:54 Leslie on Being Vulnerable Online  52:04 Yvonne's 4D Movie Date  1:03:56 Nate’s First Time Going Live  1:08:50 Nate Makes Aluminum Trophies  1:12:53 Icing Toast in Calgary Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  OTV's most expensive purchase ever 💸 | EP 60 | We Were Fighting Before This 27.08.2026 1ó 17p

  Streamers are low maintenance, and we're here to prove it to you. Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  1:20 Big 60th episode 2:42 Toast doesn’t want to be on a team with Yvonne  8:01 Toast is a yapper  10:43 Chelsea ranked in Brawl Stars  12:27 Faker of Brawl Stars  12:48 Craziest purchases by streamers  17:03 Streamers are low maintenance  20:08 Toast loves to sleep on the floor  23:40 Yvonne is in with the kids  24:58 Toast has a gripe with OTV  26:03 Scarra like it COLD  30:10 OTV master bedroom… 32:12 Toast’s bedroom makeover  33:07 Chelsea’s interaction with Jeremy  35:31 Yvonne is getting back into League  36:52 Can you lose and still be happy?  41:34 Toast’s role as a uncle 45:01 Having kids as content creators  48:10 Giving kids balance 49:58 Nepo babies  52:12 Child cheat code  57:01 Yvonne’s school bullies  59:55 Going to Chinese school  1:07:52 Asian culture being more celebrated  1:10:55 Netflix Avatar the Airbender was a flop?  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  This OTV video wasn't supposed to come out | EP 59 | We Were Fighting Before This 20.08.2026 58p

  Yvonne runs into a dilemma in the early dating stage and Chelsea makes an apology.. Timestamps: 00:00:00 Intro 00:00:26 Chelsea's Brawl Stars Update 00:01:27 Gaming and ranked anxiety 00:03:51 Drake vs 20 00:05:30 Scrapped Yvonne vs 10 video 00:12:04 Love is Blind: Yvonne edition 00:13:55 Age appropriate.. 00:15:33 Chelsea is setting up the dating game 00:16:53 Dating exclusivity 00:17:15 When to disclose you're seeing other people 00:24:17 You should tell em 00:34:30 Best places to cry 00:35:43 Dont be afraid to hurt their feelings 00:37:32 They might be watching.. 00:41:50 Yvonne’s standards 00:42:08 Yvonne's dating standards and the Android debate 00:43:52 Chelsea apologizes to Android users 00:46:14 Scarra and Chelsea go to Tennis 00:48:32 Yvonne's board game night 00:50:38 Toast's reflections on his family Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Is this cheating or just being too nice? | EP 58 | We Were Fighting Before This 13.08.2026 58p

  Give a man a break sometimes or maybe not... 👀  Timestamps:  00:00 - Intro01:00 - The competitive card game grind02:51 - Yvonne's sushi date10:04 - Dating seriously for marriage12:42 - Trying to set up Yvonne13:45 - Stop trying to train your boyfriend14:46 - The perilla leaf debate19:52 - Giving your company prize to another girl25:33 - Would you take a free trip to Hawaii?26:18 - Driving your coworker home29:20 - Building furniture for a random girl35:29 - Buying personalized souvenirs for coworkers40:38 - What would your death row meal be?46:08 - Would you want to know when you’re going to die?47:19 - Using fame to skip the line51:33 - Why celebrities get special treatment52:26 - The fake acting career prank54:16 - Outro Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Testing our dating standards | EP 57 | We Were Fighting Before This 06.08.2026 56p

  Yvonne and Toast are back and this week they're finding out how high and low some of their dating standards are 👀 Turns out you don’t need a real job. Build your own business with a free trial at shopify.com/beforethis Timestamps:  00:00 Intro00:23 Recap of previous episode (Scarra & Chelsea)03:23 Yvonne's Collective Con experience07:37 Scarra’s raffle and booth10:28 Selling cards and cash management12:13 Fan interactions and giving back14:41 Yvonne's dating update16:32 "He's a 10 But..."40:48 Getting scammed on MapleStory and Neopets42:28 The tea scam43:49 Street scams, CDs, and mascots44:33 Valorant tournament recap47:22 League of Legends Classic tournament51:57 Discussing League ranks52:37 Wrap-up and tea for next week Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Chelsea helps find Scarra love | EP 56 | We Were Fighting Before This 30.07.2026 1ó 28p

  Yvonne and Toast are away this week but Chelsea continues to fight to find Scarra love!  00:00 Intro  1:28 Are Scarra and Chelsea friends?  2:30 Scarra’s podcast  4:30 Did Chelsea sabotage Scarra?  6:31 Scarra’s belief and plan for dating 10:48 Chelsea wants to set Scarra up  14:45 Hypothetical first date  20:35 The “perfect” date  23:17 Dating a fan?  26:51 Deal breakers for Scarra 28:15 She’s a 10 BUT…. 45:14 Is living in LA actually worth it?  46:20 Introvert vs extrovert  50:42 Life is short  52:50 Scarra wants a crazy ex  53:10 We want love for Yvonne 55:21 Meeting a girl at the club?  56:30 Do we believe in love at first sight? 57:56 Learning how to set boundaries 1:04:20 How do you stay hopeful? 1:07:00 Dealing with hate online 1:11:10 The truth about creator burnout 1:17:23 Toast’s content strategy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Would we survive Streamer University? | EP 55 | We Were Fighting Before This 23.07.2026 58p

  Should we join Stream U next year? 👀 Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:45 Toast plays pickleball  7:20 Yvonne’s Pokémon passion  10:05 Toast is triggered by someone…  11:20 Womens intuition  12:55 Toast didn’t want to be on the same team as this person 14:45 Valorant tournament thoughts   19:10 Yvonne is killing at Valorant  20:38 Yvonne kills s0m 23:31 Toast isn’t doing as hot  25:30 Streamer university thoughts  33:04 Toast become a professor at Streamer U 35:01 Would we apply to Streamer U 41:03 Is Toast chopped?  42:20 What makes someone “chopped”  49:51 Hi from Faker Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Our friends were betting we'd date... | EP 54 | We Were Fighting Before This 16.07.2026 55p

  We've heard crazy rumors and even crazier ones from our own friends... Start your free trial at https://SHOPIFY.COM/beforethis Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:23 Yvonne rates her own trip 2:45 Thoughts on the Calgary trip 3:03 Yvonne forced Toast to go raving 6:28 Toast takes over Yvonne’s hometown 8:44 Meeting Yvonne’s mom 9:53 Yvonne’s friends defend her from Toast 12:40 The craziest things they saw in Calgary 15:17 Who has more pull? 18:36 Toast gets iced for the first time 20:58 Meeting Yvonne’s childhood friends 23:04 Peak Asian Canadian childhood 28:05 The craziest rumors about Toast and Yvonne 28:49 Lily thought Toast would date Yvonne 30:22 How rich is Toast actually? 31:14 The truth about the podcast’s money 32:30 Did Yvonne and Brodin date? 32:52 Would Yvonne date someone in the friend group?  33:33 Chelsea went to an all girls college 34:44 Love and Deepspace 42:28 What race would you choose to be? 50:31 Would they ever move back home? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Do women ACTUALLY understand men? | EP 53 | We Were Fighting Before This 09.07.2026 1ó 1p

  This week we're asking if men actually know what women want? Do women know what women want?  Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:40 Toast is into Love Island  3:25 Testing men  5:18 Big SO fight  7:30 Complimenting another’s partner 12:24 Badminton Open  14:15 Yvonne has PULL 19:12 LIVE PODCAST SHOW!  21:32 Toast is Ryan Higa... 22:54 Toast doesn’t want Yvonne on his team 26:38 PRO VS JOE  31:20 Toast breaks it down for Chelsea 34:25 Marvel Rivals drama  36:00 Tournament dynamics 39:18 Recovering from losing  45:35 Is “NORMIE” derogatory  47:06 When did we realize we were straight  50:02 Would you love me if I was a worm  52:45 Experience with he opposite gender  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Yvonne's dad reaches out | EP 52 | We Were Fighting Before This 02.07.2026 58p

  Yvonne finds messages from her dad 🥺 Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:30 Pickleball movie… 3:10 Yvonne Dad reaches out 9:02 Yvonne’s thoughts on her dad :(  17:50 Reconnecting and getting clarity  26:11 Abg and abb event  30:34 Toast’s is insecure about his hair 33:55 Yvonne’s hairdresser  36:30 Meccha Chameleon 40:31 Toast doesn’t want to give up 45:00 How long Mecca Chameleon will last  47:23 Taking bets  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  The time OTV and 100 Thieves wanted the same creator | EP 51 | We Were Fighting Before This 25.06.2026 1ó

  TGC Cafes, Disney Adults, and finding Scarra true love?  Timestamps: 00:00 Fighting Before This.... 2:15 Toast vs Yvonne's 50/50 Debate5:18 Chelsea Gets Dragged Into It8:12 Who Actually Owns the Podcast?11:50 Brodin Interrupts Another Argument12:42 The Creator OTV Couldn't Get16:25 OTV vs 100 Thieves19:08 The Robert Downey Jr. Incident21:35 Being Known as "OTV" Instead of Yourself24:55 Yvonne's Imposter Syndrome28:45 Yvonne Finds Her Footing31:30 The New OTV Camping Video34:20 Toast's Worst Camping Experience36:55 Doomscrolling Has Gone Too Far39:30 Toast's ChatGPT Sessions42:10 Yvonne's Dream TCG Cafe45:25 Adult Hobbies After 3048:30 Would Yvonne Go Camping With Her Future Boyfriend?50:15 Red Flag or Green Flag?55:10 Chelsea Tries Setting Up Scarra Again55:36 Will We Get A Scarra Date Update?56:17 Outro Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  The worst brand we’ve ever worked with | EP 50 | We Were Fighting Before This 18.06.2026 1ó 5p

  To celebrate 50 episodes of WWFBT, we're eating the spiciest chip in the world while answering the spicy questionable questions Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:22 Yvonne’s million dollar idea 2:21 is “nerd” derogatory?  4:18 Chelsea plays League…  5:37 Present for Toast!  7:16 Knicks in 5! 12:43 Spending for sports teams  14:30 Sports betting and morals…  16:22 Toast at the Richmond night market  18:56 Toast really wants to be mayor  23:10 Online vs Offline filming  29:05 SPICY CHIP CHALLENGE QUESTION GAME  51:31 the FAKER QUESTION…  54:55 Chelsea crashes out again  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Responding to our haters... | EP 49 | We Were Fighting Before This 11.06.2026 1ó 5p

  We're mad and we all have something to say!  Timestamps:00:00:00 Intro00:00:30 The Pickleball Problem00:04:15 Why Pickleball Took Over00:05:18 Is Pickleball Actually Hard?00:06:43 When the New Thing Replaces the Old Thing00:09:30 Chelsea Tries Pickleball00:12:04 Men vs. Women: Who Has It Worse?00:13:00 Is It Easier to Be a Woman Content Creator?00:14:40 The DEI Conversation00:16:15 The Reality of Being a Woman00:17:35 How Do You Support Your Partner on Their Period?00:19:15 Why Couples Rage Bait Each Other00:21:30 Do Women Start Arguments on Purpose?00:24:13 How Much Fighting Is Normal?00:26:00 Is Checking Your Partner's Instagram Toxic?00:28:08 50 Episodes Later...00:29:16 Why Everyone Thinks We're Fence Sitters00:32:48 People Pleaser or Just Nice?00:37:32 Toast Explains His Face Reveal00:40:16 The Insecurity Toast Can't Shake00:43:18 Learning Confidence the Hard Way00:44:59 We Need to Leave Our Comfort Zone00:46:15 Toast's 100-Day Streaming Challenge00:47:38 Why Being Real Beats Being Negative00:49:15 Why Outdoor Boys Wins Every Time00:52:42 We Wouldn't Last a Week in Alaska Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  we made our producer CRASH OUT 👀 | EP 48 | We Were Fighting Before This 04.06.2026 1ó 25p

  Toast gets 2v1'd again? Chelsea's back and she breaks down.  timestamps:  00:00 Chelsea's Return & The "2v1" Dynamic 03:05 Reflecting on the past episodes  04:28 Chelsea breaks down  11:43 Asian Canadian Identity 12:55 Thoughts on FOB’s  16:40 Toast and Yvonne road trip  22:06 Empathy & Podcast Dynamics 34:08 The Reality TV "Male vs. Female Gaze" 38:16 The "Club Comment" Incident 40:48 Flight Reimbursement 45:21 Road trip to vancouver 46:27 Vegas trip 51:23 OTV "PR Training" Tier List 54:49 Gambling Sponsorship Ethics 1:05:00 Online Thirst Traps 1:09:20 Ethics of Leaking Information 1:12:03 Yvonne's Gaming Performance 1:18:23 Forced Compliments & Outro Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Being annoying is an art, and we've mastered it | EP 47 | We Were Fighting Before This 28.05.2026 1ó 27p

  Are war movies sexy? And how did Toast trick Yvonne to be her sidekick...?  Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:51 Nate’s last thoughts on Yvonne  3:03 Toast questions Yvonne  4:41 Yvonne’s behavior gets her into trouble  7:02 Bid for attention?  9:05 War movies  12:50 Doing it during war movies…  13:35 Toast blames Yvonne on deflecting  17:38 “I’m Ugly”  22:24 Yvonne believed she was ugly  28:01 Toast’s POV on being unattractive  29:55 When Toast locks in  36:02 Dream physique  38:38 Pivoting lifestyles  42:44 Is Yvonne a supporting character?  44:42 Thoughts on OTV  50:25 Being consistent  54:04 How willing are you to clip farm  56:24 How do you have a friendship with an EX  1:00:42 Who’s the better league player  1:10:00 Still fighting over league….  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  The Perfect Relationship Doesn't Exist | EP 46 | We Were Fighting Before This 21.05.2026 59p

  Dating is HARD. It's even harder when you're oldge Start your business today with the industry’s best business partner, Shopify. Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at https://SHOPIFY.COM/beforethis Timestamps: 00:00:00 Intro 00:00:34 Toast is late..? 00:02:03 Coconut 00:02:27 We read the incel comments 00:05:14 Reading comments as a streamer 00:08:39 Toast looked for these comments 00:09:59 Unbiased Nate pt 2 00:10:48 Clocking each other’s tea 00:12:26 Nate does the intro jingle 00:13:35 Yvonne’s dating update 00:15:29 Would Yvonne date any of her peers? 00:17:33 Should Yvonne lower her standards? 00:18:49 When ur partner isn’t that self-aware 00:22:00 The 90/10 rule 00:23:04 What have we learned from each other? 00:24:42 What we thought when starting this pod 00:27:24 Toast strat of finding topics 00:28:24 Perfect relationships don’t exist 00:32:05 Yvonne’s vibecheck 00:34:02 Nate’s dating life 00:35:57 Dating when you’re getting older 00:39:09 James Charles tea 00:41:22 Fans asking for money 00:42:35 Celebrities not getting cancelled 00:44:06 Kick streamers going to jail 00:46:47 Prank era of YouTube 00:47:44 How to get attention on social media 00:49:47 Streamer fatigue 00:53:05 Unlimited guests on the pod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices