Fridays with Tab and Chance

Epizódok

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  We Have Strong Feelings about the Raising Kanan Season Finale 17.08.2026 46p

  ⚠️ Spoiler alert — we mean it. This week me and Chance did something we've never done before: a full TV show recap. And it got heated. We broke down the Raising Kanan season finale, debated who was really responsible for the family falling apart (Kanan or Rock?), mourned Uncle Marvin like he was real family, and Chance made his position very clear — he has never liked Kanan, not even once. If you're a Power fan, this one's for you. New episode every Friday.
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  Red Flag or Green Flag? We're Judging Your Dating Decisions | Fridays with Tab and Chance 07.08.2026 48p

  We played a game this week and it did NOT disappoint. Me and Chance went through a full red flag, green flag relationship quiz — and let's just say we don't always agree. Work wives, exes' stuff still at the house, going through phones, splitting the bill on the first date, sex on the first night… we covered it all. Chance added a whole yellow flag category. I stood my ground. Blackie may or may not be a red flag depending on who you ask. New episode every Friday.
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  We're Tired — An Honest Conversation About Black Life and Nolan Wells 01.08.2026 49p

  This one is heavy — and it's supposed to be. Me and Chance sat down to talk about the weight of being Black in America. The weight of raising Black children. The weight of still showing up with joy and grace in a world that doesn't always value our lives. This conversation was sparked by the Nolan Wales case and everything it stirred up in us as parents, as a couple, and as Black people. Chance shares things he was reluctant to say on camera. I share things I carry since I was 10 years old. We said what needed to be said. New episode every Friday.
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  Vacation vs. Field Trip — Are Do We Have different expectations? 25.07.2026 58p

  Me and Chance got into something that sounds simple but went deep fast — what's the difference between a vacation and a field trip, and are couples even going on the same kind of trip when they travel together? Chance broke down why family trips, itineraries, and historical sites all register as "field trips" in his brain, and why that goes all the way back to childhood. This one is going to make a lot of couples look at each other differently. And yes, Africa came up. New episode every Friday.
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  Natural Born Leaders: Knowing When to Lead and When to Follow 17.07.2026 1ó 2p

  This episode started as one thing and turned into something so much deeper. Me and Chance got into what it really means to be a leader — not the performance of it, but the real thing. Chance talks about leading from childhood, protecting his friends before he even had words for it, and why his mama refusing to make him say "yes ma'am" to someone who hadn't earned it changed everything. We also talk about code switching, knowing when to follow your partner, and why some of us are born leaders while others learn to be one. This one hit different. New episode every Friday.
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  Who Are You When You're Not Needed? 10.07.2026 1ó 2p

  This one got deep fast. Me and Chance are talking about who you are when all the titles are stripped away — no mother, no father, no provider, no caretaker. Just you. We both realized we've been needed by somebody since we were kids, and we unpack what that does to a person. Plus Chance gives his very thorough, very Chance breakdown of the difference between a need and a want — and let's just say his look alone will make you reconsider asking him for $20,000. Let's get into it!
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  Should Married Couples Sleep in Separate Bedrooms? 03.07.2026 41p

  Me and Chance are getting into something I never really understood until now — couples sleeping in separate bedrooms. My grandparents did it, a lot of your grandparents did it, and apparently it goes all the way back to kings and queens. We talk about why people do it, what it means for intimacy and connection, and whether it's actually a red flag or just smart living. Chance made it very clear where he stands. I may have considered the role play option. New episode every Friday.
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  New Rules after 23 years: Relationship Report Cards & Holiday Planning 26.06.2026 54p

  Me and Chance are out here trying to create new relationship traditions — and accidentally exposing ourselves in the process. We heard about a couple who does a yearly relationship review on their anniversary and we loved it, so we're starting our own. Then we got into alternating holiday planning because I've been planning everything out of habit and it's time for that to change. Sounds simple, right? It wasn't. Chance figured out pretty quickly that if he's not required to plan travel, he might be doing a cookout in the backyard. Y'all pray for us to figure this out! Let's get into it!
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  Father's Day vs Mother's Day: Why Father's Day Doesn't Get the Same Love 19.06.2026 41p

  Me and Chance got into something I didn't expect — why Father's Day never seems to get the same energy as Mother's Day, and whether we're the ones contributing to that. Turns out Chance has been quietly downplaying his own celebration for years, and we dug into why: how he was raised, what he saw modeled growing up, and what it means for how he shows up for our son now. We also found out when Father's Day actually became an official holiday — and y'all, it's not what you'd expect. New episode every Friday.
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  Disabilities, Vows & Loving Through the Hard Stuff | Fridays with Tab & Chance 12.06.2026 38p

  This one got real. Me and Chance are talking about something nobody wants to bring up before getting married — what happens when disability enters your relationship. My mama had ALS, and watching how her husband handled it left a mark on me I still carry. We get into what our vows actually mean, why anger shows up when the person you love is suffering, and what it really looks like to love somebody through their worst seasons. Lets get into it!
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  What does support and belief in your partner look like in a relationship? Fridays w/ Tab & Chance 06.06.2026 52p

  "Does Your Partner Believe in You?" | Fridays with Tab & Chance Me and Chance are getting into the difference between believing in someone and actually supporting them — and why those are NOT the same thing. Plus, I hit an NBA three-pointer to prove a point, I retired my husband from LAPD before he could do it himself, and we debate who'd survive longer on a deserted island. (Hint: Donna makes an excellent fishing rod.) New episode every Friday.
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  An emotional conversation about our son growing up and facing the world 30.05.2026 47p

  Next year, my youngest walks into high school — and I'm not ready. This week, Chance and I open up about raising our son, the lessons basketball taught him, and the fears only a mama truly understands. Grab some tissues, this one hit close to home.
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  Freedom Is Beautiful: Breaking Down Double Standards in Love & Attraction 22.05.2026 1ó

  This week, Chance and I got into it — and I mean really got into it. We’re talking double standards when it comes to beauty, attraction, and how men and women are held to completely different standards in the world. From gray hair to stretch marks, pregnancy glow-ups to the list women keep for the man they want — we went there. Chance had me thinking, laughing, and yes, a little fired up. But at the end of the day, I truly believe beauty is freedom. When you let go of what society says you’re supposed to look like and lean into who you really are — that’s where the magic is. Tune in and let us know where you stand.
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  23rd Anniversary Edition and Mental Health Awareness 16.05.2026 35p

  On todays episode we share our 23rd anniversary trip with you. We recommend that you watch this episode on YouTube.
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  Independence in your relationship - The problems with codependency 08.05.2026 45p

  On today's episode we talk about the issues we faced being codependent early on in our relationship and what we think you should do as you start new relationships. Let's get into it!
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  Protecting your peace, changing for the better, and setting new boundaries 01.05.2026 37p

  On todays episode we talk about screening calls. Do you always pick up the phone? Has your call list grown as you have grown? Are you setting boundaries and protecting your peace? Lets get into it!
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  We were not supposed to talk about this... but is this a problem every couple has? 24.04.2026 36p

  In this episode we got off topic! We were supposed to talk about screening calls and boundaries, but recent events made us switch it up. We think this may be an issue every couple struggles with. Please let us know what you think by the end. The debate is still going! Lets get into it!
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  We are celebrating 2 special anniversaries this year 17.04.2026 47p

  Its our anniversary! We are so excited to celebrate it this year. On this episode we take a trip down memory lane: talk about ow we met, Our wedding 23 years, and some of our favorite moments in the last 28 years of being together. Let's get into it!
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  We are back! Its a new season of Fridays with Tab and Chance 10.04.2026 39p

  We are back! On todays episode we talk about the last rollercoaster of a year that we've had. We've been challenged and blessed in way we never imagined. Lets get into it!
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  Holiday Special - Best of 2024` 20.12.2024 37p

  On today's episode take a listen to some of our most impactful moments from the year. Lets get into it!