Parenting With Understanding™ Podcast

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  ⭐️Episode 7: Is It Too Late to Repair Your Relationship With Your Child? 30.09.2026 37p
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  ⭐️Episode 4: She Became a Calm Parent... Even Though Her Husband Never Changed 30.09.2026 54p

  Start your FREE 30-Day Trial of the Secure Parent Collective:👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com Can you become the Secure Parent your child needs... even if you had a difficult childhood, react every day, or don't have a supportive spouse? In this powerful episode of the Parenting With Understanding Podcast, Marcela Collier sits down with Immaculada, a member of the Secure Parent Collective, who shares her journey from daily reactivity, anxiety, and overwhelm to becoming a calmer, more confident, and emotionally secure parent. In this episode, you'll discover: ✨ What finally helped her break the yelling cycle✨ Why information alone wasn't enough to create lasting change✨ How her relationship with her children completely transformed✨ Why she says, "It was night and day." If you've ever wondered... "Can I really change?" This conversation will give you hope. 💙 Ready to become the Secure Parent your child needs? New episodes every Monday. Subscribe so you never miss an episode.
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  ⭐️ Episode 1: Why Do I Keep Yelling at My Child? The Truth Most Parenting Advice Misses 30.09.2026 26p

  💙 Become the Secure Parent your child needs. Start your FREE 30-Day Trial of the Secure Parent Collective:👉 https://secureparentcollective.com/ Why do loving parents keep yelling, even when they know better? In this episode of the Parenting With Understanding Podcast, Marcela Collier explains why reactivity isn't caused by your child's behavior—it's shaped by the interpretation your brain makes in the moment. You'll learn: ✨ Why information alone doesn't create lasting change ✨ How curiosity changes the way you parent ✨ The 3 skills every Secure Parent develops:• Emotional Regulation• Mindsight• Positive Discipline If you're ready to stop reacting and start responding with confidence, this episode is for you. 🎙️ New episodes every Monday. Subscribe so you never miss one.
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  ⭐️ Episode 2 : How to Stop Reacting to Your Child (Without Becoming Permissive) 30.09.2026 22p

  Do you ever feel like you have only two choices? 👉 Yell to get your child to listen.👉 Or stay calm... and let them get away with everything. What if there's a third option? Start your FREE 30-Day Trial of the Secure Parent Collective:👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com In this episode of the Parenting With Understanding Podcast, Marcela Collier explains why secure parenting isn't permissive parenting—and how you can hold healthy boundaries without yelling, threatening, or giving in. In this episode you'll learn: ✨ Why permissive parenting is actually another form of reactive parenting.✨ The difference between control, giving in, and secure leadership.✨ How to guide your child with both connection and accountability.✨ A practical example of setting boundaries without reactivity. 💙 Ready to practice these skills with coaching and support? 🎙️ New episodes every Monday. Subscribe so you never miss one.
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  ⭐️Episode 5: Why Calm Parenting Feels So Hard as an Autistic Mom (And What Actually Helps) 30.09.2026 1ó 6p

  💙 Ready to become the Secure Parent your child needs? Start your FREE 30-Day Trial of the Secure Parent Collective:👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com Do you ever feel like your child needs connection... but your body needs space? If you're an autistic, ADHD, or neurodivergent parent, you've probably experienced the guilt of feeling overwhelmed by the very people you love the most. In this special episode of the Parenting With Understanding Podcast, Marcela Collier is joined by Taylor Heaton (Mom on the Spectrum) for an honest conversation about raising neurodivergent children while caring for your own nervous system. In this episode, you'll learn: ✨ How to support your child without ignoring your own needs✨ Why communicating your needs is part of being a Secure Parent✨ Practical ways to navigate sensory overwhelm, transitions, and meltdowns✨ Why taking care of yourself isn't selfish—it's essential If you've ever wondered, "Can I be a calm, secure parent when I'm struggling too?" this episode is for you. 🎙️ New episodes every Monday. Subscribe so you never miss an episode.
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  ⭐️Episode 3: Why Your Child Isn't the Real Trigger (And What Actually Is) 30.09.2026 24p

  Start your FREE 30-Day Trial of the Secure Parent Collective:👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com Do you ever feel like your child just knows how to push your buttons? What if they're not actually creating your triggers... they're revealing them? In this episode of the Parenting With Understanding Podcast, Marcela Collier explains why reactivity doesn't begin with your child's behavior—it begins with the meaning your nervous system attaches to it. You'll discover: ✨ Why your child isn't the real trigger✨ How childhood wounds shape your reactions as a parent✨ The difference between reacting to behavior and understanding it✨ How Secure Parents move from blame to awareness If you're ready to stop reacting and start parenting from emotional safety, this episode is for you. 💙 Ready to practice these skills with coaching and support? 🎙️ New episodes every Monday. Subscribe so you never miss an episode.
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  ⭐️Episode 6: What's the Difference Between Reactive Parents and Secure Parents? 30.09.2026 22p

  Start your FREE 30-Day Trial of the Secure Parent Collective:👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com Do you think Secure Parents are always calm, patient, and never make mistakes? Not even close. In this episode of the Parenting With Understanding Podcast, Marcela Collier breaks one of the biggest myths in parenting and explains what actually separates Reactive Parents from Secure Parents. You'll discover: ✨ Why Secure Parents don't have to be perfect✨ The real power of repair after mistakes✨ The three core skills every Secure Parent practices✨ Why transformation comes through practice—not just information If you've ever wondered, "Can I really become a Secure Parent?" this episode is for you. 💙 Ready to practice these skills every week? Start your FREE 30-Day Trial of the Secure Parent Collective:👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com 🎙️ New episodes every Monday. Subscribe so you never miss an episode.
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  ⭐️Episode 10: How to Raise Emotionally Secure Children. (Without Being a Perfect Parent) 30.09.2026 37p

  Start your FREE 30-Day Trial of the Secure Parent Collective:👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com You've read the parenting books.You've listened to the podcasts.You've saved the Instagram posts. So why is it still so hard to stay calm in the moment? In this episode of the Parenting With Understanding Podcast, Marcela Collier sits down with HIC Parenting Coach Holly Storm to reveal why knowing what to do isn't the same as becoming the parent you want to be. Together, they explore the three core skills every Secure Parent develops: 🧠 Head – Mindsight: Understanding yourself and your child's needs. ❤️ Heart – Emotional Regulation: Learning to work with your nervous system instead of against it. 🙌 Hands – Positive Discipline: Guiding behavior through connection, not control. If you've ever felt like... "I know what to do... I just can't do it when it matters most." This episode is for you. 💙 Ready to stop collecting parenting tips and start practicing Secure Parenting? Start your FREE 30-Day Trial of the Secure Parent Collective: 👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com 🎙️ New episodes every Monday. Subscribe so you never miss an episode.
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  ⭐️Episode 9: The 7 Signs You're Becoming a Secure Parent 30.09.2026 48p
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  ⭐️Episode 8: How a Single Mom Stopped Yelling at Her Son (And Rebuilt Their Relationship) 30.09.2026 52p
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  How to Feel Calmer When Your Child Doesn't Do it Right 31.03.2026 25p

  In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier explains how the childhood wound of injustice can shape parenting patterns and trigger reactivity. She describes how growing up in rigid, high-pressure environments can lead parents to become overly rule-oriented, inflexible, and reactive when their children struggle to meet expectations. Marcela shares how this wound affects both parents and children, and offers practical shifts to move from pressure to support, from rigidity to flexibility, and from reactive parenting to secure parenting. This episode is part of the six-part series on understanding your inner child to transform your parenting. If you’re ready to stop reacting in anger, understand why your child’s behavior triggers you so deeply, and become a more secure parent… this episode is for you. Your child is not the problem. The wound is the pattern. And once you understand it, you can change it. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class. @highimpactclub @hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent. They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.
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  Transforming Shame into Conscious Parenting 17.03.2026 37p

  In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier explores the childhood wound of humiliation and how shame-based experiences from childhood can quietly shape the way parents react to their children today. She explains how this wound is created, how it shows up in parenting through embarrassment, harsh correction, and defensiveness, and how parents can begin changing the narrative with more awareness, regulation, and safety.
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  It's Not Your Child, It's Your Abandonment Trauma 04.03.2026 37p

  In this episode, Marcela Collier explores the childhood wound of humiliation and how it silently shapes your parenting reactions. She explains how shame, embarrassment, and defensiveness often stem from old wounds — and how awareness and new skills can help you stop passing it on to your children. DM “peace 25” on Instagram to access the free class and learn how to become a secure parent.
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  Calm Down Your Child’s Triggers With the P.E.A.C.E. Process 03.02.2026 36p

  In this episode, Marcela Collier introduces the B-E-A-C-E process, a practical framework to help parents calm triggers and manage their children’s emotional responses in a respectful way. Whether you're dealing with reactions during tantrums or stressors caused by trauma, these tools are essential for fostering emotional regulation and security. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.
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  How to Calm Down BIG Emotions in Your Child. 20.01.2026 25p

  In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses how to calm children's big emotions without resorting to yelling or punishment. She introduces the concept of behavior levels, explaining how understanding these can help prevent meltdowns. Marcela emphasizes the importance of recognizing early signs of anxiety and defensiveness in children and offers practical strategies for parents to address these behaviors effectively. The episode is part of a five-part series aimed at helping parents raise emotionally secure children. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.
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  How This Father Ended the Cycle of Reactivity. Marco's Story 06.01.2026 38p

  In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier interviews Marco Hansell, a client who transformed his parenting approach from reactive to secure. They discuss the challenges Marco faced, including feeling disconnected from his son and struggling with co-parenting dynamics. Through HIC Parenting, Marco learned emotional regulation, mind sight, and positive discipline, which helped him create a more peaceful family environment. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and seeking support to improve parenting skills. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.
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  How to Repair With Your Child After Yelling 23.12.2025 24p

  In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the importance of repairing relationships with children after moments of reactivity, such as yelling. She emphasizes that meaningful repair can prevent damage to the parent-child relationship and enhance children's self-esteem. Marcela shares insights on how to repair from a place of self-compassion rather than shame, offering practical steps and scripts for parents to reconnect with their children. She also highlights the role of storytelling and role play in helping young children understand and process these moments. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.
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  Tools For Instant Calm Every Parent Needs to Know. 16.12.2025 27p

  Marcela Collier shares tools for instant calm in parenting, focusing on understanding reactivity as an inner world issue. She introduces the Anchor method, emphasizing body awareness, naming emotions, and connecting to sensory tools. The episode highlights the importance of nervous system regulation and offers practical steps for parents to regain calm and presence. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.  
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  Why You Yell Even if You Don't Want to. 09.12.2025 23p

  In this episode, Marcela Collier, head coach of HIC Parenting Education Agency and host of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, explores the root causes of parental yelling and reactivity. She discusses the "fire alarm" and "pressure cooker" reactive cycles, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's relationship with anger. Marcela introduces a four-step system to break free from reactivity and highlights the significance of a secure relationship with anger, where parents acknowledge, listen to, and constructively mobilize their anger. The episode encourages reflection on personal anger patterns and offers resources for further learning. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.
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  The Path of Becoming a Secure Calm Parent With Your Kids. 02.12.2025 19p

  In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the challenges and paths to becoming a secure, emotionally regulated parent. She emphasizes that every stage of parenting is difficult and requires choosing the hard path of developing emotional regulation, mindset, and positive discipline skills. Marcela shares a story of a single mom who transformed her parenting approach by mastering these skills, leading to a more peaceful family environment. The episode encourages parents to break away from reactive patterns and offers a free class to help them develop necessary skills. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.