Hot Mess Habits

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  this is why you're not consistent | get your life together week one 11.08.2026 35p

  WELCOME to the three episode series all about getting your life together before the fall! Make sure you sign up to join us for the FREE get your life together challenge here: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/hfarwj9p5ntoday we unpack WHY you struggle so much to be consistent, and more importantly, how we can *realistically* push through to come out on the other sidetoday we unpack WHY you struggle so much to be consistent, and more importantly, how we can *realistically* push through to come out on the other sideother videos to WATCH NEXT: how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770swellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48swhy you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmyMONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxoBRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372💫 DISCOUNTS:ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaBUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmptaylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNELhi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSwebsite → https://victoriaharderxo.com/substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoinstagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxotiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxomusic license: MB01ZDXJ35YULC9
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  JULY FAVORITES | the odyssey, hyperfixation snacks, the thing i've used since high school + MORE 07.08.2026 29p

  PLS tell me you like this format of episode!!This is week 5 (?) of being consistent posting the podcast + also switching up some of my episode types: I am trying to be more unfiltered and CONSISTENT! lmk how you like!today we chat all about everything I was obsessing about in Julymake sure you sign up for the "get your life together challenge" happening this month: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/hfarwj9p5nother realistic episodes to WATCH NEXT: how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770swellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48swhy you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmyMONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxoBRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372💫 DISCOUNTS:ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaBUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmptaylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNELhi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSwebsite → https://victoriaharderxo.com/substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoinstagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxotiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxomusic license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT
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  7 HEALTHY PHONE HABITS TO BREAK YOUR ADDICTION 01.08.2026 24p

  this is the year we end our phone addiction!!!GET YOUR BRICK NOW (not sponsored, just listen to the episode to hear why I love it): https://getbrick.app/VICTORIA84372 GET THE FULL DIGITAL DETOX GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/how-to-get-unaddicted-to-your-phoneif you’re tired of feeling anxious, overstimulated, distracted and constantly pulled toward your phone, this episode is for you. we are covering:- realistic and attainable ways to actually break our phone addiction- why it is so important WHEN we scroll- the best iphone feature for phone addiction- why i love the brick so much (and my fave new feature!)- the thing that can be missing from the screen time conversationTIMESTAMPS:0:53 guilt isn't a strong enough motivator, but it is telling you something11:06 why it is so important WHEN you scroll12:40 the BEST new brick feature14:24 not giving into excuses 16:17 fave iphone feature: greyscale17:40 practice leaving phone in other room18:46 self awareness of when your phone becomes a coping mechanism 21:19 no phone policy at the table22:33 guide to detoxingother realistic productivity episodes to WATCH NEXT: how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770swellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48swhy you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmyMONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxoBRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372💫 DISCOUNTS:ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaBUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmptaylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNELhi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSwebsite → https://victoriaharderxo.com/substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoinstagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxotiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxomusic license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOTsub count: 7180
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  your guide to a MIDYEAR RESET (refreshing goals, redefining productivity, type b pep-talk!!) 23.07.2026 27p

  we still have SO MUCH TIME! if you haven't looked at your goals, habits + routines in a while, this is your motivation!today we cover:- why we need to take the time to check in (especially if you have adhd)- why we need to shift our view of productivity- HOW to actually accomplish our goals- redefining our schedule + taking actionthis episode is for:🤎 for the type b moms💻 for the work-from-home girlies🧠 for the adhd brains✨ for the recovering perfectionist / eldest daughter TIMESTAMPS:1:46: life updates: odyssey + family vacay8:40: why does a mid-year reset even matter13:10: does every goal needs to be productive?? 15:05: check in with your goals17:19: my examples of goals I had to shift22:50: start with HIGH IMPACT low effort26:44: hosting free challenge!! outroother realistic productivity episodes to WATCH NEXT: how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770swellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48swhy you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmyMONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxoBRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372💫 DISCOUNTS:ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaBUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmptaylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNELhi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSwebsite → https://victoriaharderxo.com/substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoinstagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxotiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo
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  THINGS I FIND INCREDIBLY CHIC AS A TYPE B MOM 18.07.2026 38p

  my ultimate list of things I find incredibly chic as a type b mom!! lmk if you can relate or have any to add! TIMESTAMPS:0:00 PODCAST UPDATES15:30 having a cute diaper bag17:20 grocery pick up19:20 pouches to organize 22:35 having a key attachment on bag23:22 having nice claw clip24:16 hot beverage early morning25:33 baby wearing26:04 no shame over restarting and picking back up27:30 having pedicure 30:20 drink hot tea31:27 vibey evening routine34:27 car stocked with must haves 36:00 being a chugger not sipper🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNELhi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood + building a life we are proud of!!💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSThe blog →https://victoriaharderxo.com/Substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoInstagram→ https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/Podcast Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxosubstack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo?SHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxoAmazon Canada storefront: https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoriacreativemusic license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOTsub count: 7160
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  HOW TO HAVE A BUTTER MOM SUMMER 09.07.2026 25p

  OKAY if you are ready for a butter mom summer, this episode is for you 🧈 we're breaking down how to be present, intentional, and have the most wholesome + whimsical summer with your kids (and yourself) — how to get off your phone, document more, and actually make a plan so you're not looking back in september wondering where the summer went. grab a coffee and let's get into it 🌸🌸 MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO🧈 butter mom summer guide (paid playbook): https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide⁠📵 the brick (my phone detox device) — https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNELhi i'm victoria, host of hot mess habits 🍓 this is a space for type b moms who want realistic habits + routines without the pressure of doing it perfectly. we talk motherhood, food + fun drinks, dream lifestyle, productivity + just generally trying to get our lives together!! new episodes weekly 🩰💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSinstagram: @hotmesshabits + @victoriaharderxotiktok: @victoriaharderxosubstack: victoriaharderxo.substack.compodcast: hot mess habits on apple + spotifyblog: victoriaharderxo.comshop: victoriaharderxo.com/shopshopmy: shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxoamazon (ca): amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoriacreativemusic license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT
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  21 days without social media (breaking my scrolling addiction) 24.06.2026 21p

  this video is NOT sponsored but I do love & highly recommend brick: https://www.getbrick.com/VICTORIA84372if you are feeling like you cannot stop scrolling, are getting iriratated with your kids, are constantly anxious, it might be time to do a social media resettoday I chat all about my 21 day challenge and the impact it had on me!🌸 RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BE LESS ADDICTEDget a brick → https://www.getbrick.com/VICTORIA84372more ideas on breaking your addiction → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPk6EHc0jzE&t=194s🤎 ABOUT THE PODCASThi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood + building a life we are proud of!!💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSThe blog →https://victoriaharderxo.com/Substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoInstagram→ https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/Podcast Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxosubstack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo?SHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxoAmazon Canada storefront: https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoriacreativemusic license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT
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  de-influencing you as a wellness girly 16.06.2026 15p

  in this video i'm de-influencing you from feeling the need to spend money in order to take care of yourself!! it costs $0 to work on your habits + routines🌸 MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEOmorning menu → https://bodegoods.co/products/morning-menu-routine-template-for-canva-2🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNELhi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood + building a life we are proud of!!💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSThe blog →https://victoriaharderxo.com/Substack →https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoInstagram→ https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/Podcast Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxosubstack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo?SHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxoAmazon Canada storefront: https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoriacreativemusic license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT
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  realistic spring reset: goals, home, food, movement + hobbies 24.04.2026 25p

  realistic spring reset: goals, home, food, movement + hobbiesin this episode i'm walking you through my realistic spring reset across every area of life — we're talking goals, home refresh, food and drinks, movement, and hobbies. no overwhelm, no pressure, just simple intentional things that actually fit into real life🌸 MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEOseasonal goal setting template → https://bodegoods.co/products/fall-go...chatbooks photo books → https://rstr.co/chatbookers/12968quince linen bedding → https://goto.quince.com/vD40yN🤎 ABOUT THE PODCASThi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood, food and drinks, and all the little things that make ordinary days feel good. 🌸💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSwebsite → victoriaharderxo.comsubstack → substack.com/@victoriaharderxoinstagram → instagram.com/victoriaharderxopodcast → instagram.com/hotmesshabitstiktok → tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo
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  6 micro habits that are DESTROYING your goals (and you don't even know it) 14.04.2026 17p

  okay so this one is a little spicy because i'm talking about the habits we don't even realize we're doingin this episode i'm sharing 6 micro habits that are quietly ruining your productivity — especially if you have ADHD or tend to run on type B vibes.we're talking time blindness, doomscrolling, the 100-item to-do list trap, and the self-help content habit that was secretly making me more anxious than motivated.PLS let me know if you can relate!!!MENTIONED:→ Daily planning notepad (use code PODCAST for $10 off): https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-listTIMESTAMPS:1:26 micro habit #1: not making a plan + hoping it works out3:32 micro habit #2: leaning into your struggles instead of figuring them out6:11 micro habit #3: scrolling before bed (and in the morning)8:31 micro habit #4: leaving at the time you're supposed to BE somewhere11:03 micro habit #5: the 100 item to-do list12:22 micro habit #6: too much self help content💖 ABOUT THE SHOWI'm Victoria — a WFH mom, content creator & routine-obsessed type B girly living in British Columbia, Canada. Here on Hot Mess Habits, we chat realistic habits, routines, content creation & cozy, everyday lifestyle. We love low-pressure productivity, mom life and building a meaningful life.💖 LET'S BE FRIENDS:The blog: https://victoriaharderxo.com/Substack: https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxoTODAY'S BLOGPOST: https://victoriaharderxo.com/2026/04/15/micro-habits-ruining-productivity/
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  why you never finish your to do list (adhd + type b edition) 31.03.2026 18p

  if you’re constantly ending your day feeling overwhelmed, behind, or like you didn’t actually get anything done… this is for you.In this video, I’m sharing why you never finish your to-do list (especially as an adhd / type b girly), how to actually plan your day in a way that works for your brain, and the simple system that’s been helping me stay on track lately.This is a realistic, behind-the-scenes chat about productivity, time blindness, overwhelm, and creating routines that feel doable in real life (especially for my adhd multi-passionate girlies)MENTIONED:→ My daily planning notepad: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list→ Digital version (print at home): https://bodegoods.co/products/productivity-notepad-digital-download→ How to plan your day (blog post): https://victoriaharderxo.com/2026/03/30/how-to-plan-your-day-with-adhd-realistic-type-b-approved/→ Why you never finish your to-do list: https://victoriaharderxo.com/2026/03/30/why-you-never-finish-your-to-do-list/TIME STAMPS:0:00 always feeling overwhelmed2:20 problem one: brain dump vs to do list2:59 mistake two: time blindness4:30 “but this will add more time”6:46 step one: brain dump!!! 8:13 step two: make a plan (what time works)10:13 actually planning14:20 mindset shifts💖 ABOUT THE CHANNELI’m Victoria — a WFH mom, content creator & routine-obsessed type B girly living in British Columbia, Canada.on this channel (and my podcast, Hot Mess Habits), we chat realistic habits, routines, content creation & cozy, everyday lifestyle. We love low-pressure productivity, mom life and building a meaningful lifeSubscriber count: 6984music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOTLET’S HANG OUT:The blog: https://victoriaharderxo.com/Substack: https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoInstagram: / victoriaharderxoPodcast Instagram: / hotmesshabitsTikTok: / victoriaharderxoSHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxoAmazon Canada storefront: https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoria
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  how i started and launched a podcast in 30 days (that now has over 1M!!! listens) 24.03.2026 17p

  if you’ve been wondering how to start a podcast as a beginner, this is exactly how I launched mine in 30 days!!I’m sharing what actually helped me stop overthinking and finally start — without a perfect plan, fancy setup or feeling fully ready.This is a behind-the-scenes, honest chat about starting a podcast from scratch, especially if you struggle with perfectionism or feeling overwhelmed (hellooo fellow adhd multi passionate girlies)MENTIONED:→ My full podcast setup + equipment: https://victoriaharderxo.com/2026/03/24/everything-you-need-to-launch-an-aesthetic-podcast/→ This episodes blog post so you can read through: https://victoriaharderxo.com/2026/03/24/how-to-start-a-podcast-in-30-days/💖 ABOUT THE PODCASTI’m Victoria — a WFH mom, content creator & routine-obsessed type B girly living in British Columbia, Canada.Hot Mess Habits is all about realistic habits, routines, content creation & cozy, everyday lifestyle. We love low-pressure productivity, mom life and building a meaningful lifemusic license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOTLET’S HANG OUT:My Blog: https://victoriaharderxo.com/Substack: https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo?Instagram: https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxoPodcast Instagram: https://instagram.com/hotmesshabitsTikTok: https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxoSHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxoAmazon Canada storefront: https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoria
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  winter self-care + wellness for the type B girl 22.02.2026 33p

  this is your gentle winter reset!! we’re talking cozy home vibes, drink rituals, adhd-friendly movement, winter mom life, and the small things that actually help when the dark months feel heavy.WELCOMING ALL THE:🤎 type b girlies who thrive in summer but struggle in winter🧠 adhd dreamers who lose motivation when it gets dark at 4pm☕ moms feeling stir-crazy, overstimulated & stuck inside🕯️ cozy girls trying to romanticize winter instead of resent itwhether you’re feeling seasonally low, low-energy, stuck in doom scrolling, or just craving sunshine — this episode is about creating soft, realistic winter habits that make the season feel a little more doable!timestamps:0:00 missing the sun + winter reality check3:26 romanticizing winter (vibes + ambience)6:45 habit stacking your cozy routines (essential oils)12:02 drink rituals as self care15:40 self care station: drinks18:05 winter movement ideas21:08 winter mom life23:39 my winter must-haves + favourite products!!💌 FULL BLOG POST: https://victoriaharderxo.com/2026/02/22/winter-self-care-for-the-type-b-girl/—WINTER FAVES LINEUP:Salty Face self tanner (my glow all winter): go.shopmy.us/p-37227899UltraHuman Ring (sleep + steps tracker): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo Sage Wellness oils (liquid sunshine blend): https://shopmy.us/shop/collections/4069611Revive Oils (non-MLM essential oil dupe brand): https://www.revive-eo.com/?rfsn=8945782.676df4Blume Super Belly – strawberry hibiscus: https://amzn.to/4rWiUIySunrise alarm clock: https://amzn.to/4aZtOrf—OTHER WINTER RESET CONTENT:• how to not be seasonally depressed → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CTJSTPMV5jE&t=767s• digital life reset → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VZDxWyTjAmg&t=327s• we are getting un-addicted to our phones → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPk6EHc0jzE&t=191s🎧 about the podcast:Hot Mess Habits is the podcast for the high-achieving, want-to-be-organized girly who struggles with consistency and traditional productivity advice. we chat habits, routines, cozy resets, and current obsessions for the everyday Type B girl. new episodes every week.music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOTLINKSInstagram: https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxoPodcast Instagram: https://instagram.com/hotmesshabitsTikTok: https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxoSHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxoAmazon CANADA storefront (best gift guides!!): https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoria—💖 about meI’m Victoria — a work-from-home mom, content creator, and routine-obsessed Type B girly living in British Columbia, Canada. Here you’ll find realistic habits, WFH vlogs, cozy lifestyle content, ADHD-friendly routines + mom-life resets.
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  how to not be seasonally depressed (a realistic winter self care pep talk) 11.02.2026 26p

  your gentle winter pep talk. we’re talking bare minimum days, cozy habits, ADHD-friendly routines, and how to protect your mental health during the long, heavy winter months!!WELCOMING ALL THE:🤎 type b girlies🧠 adhd dreamers who lose motivation in winter☕ moms who feel extra overstimulated this season🕯️ cozy souls trying to romanticize winter instead of resent itwhether you’re feeling seasonally depressed, stuck in doom scrolling, low on energy, or just not like yourself lately, this episode will help you reset in a way that feels kind and realistictimestamps:0:00 winter feels heavy (and that’s okay)5:53 the art of a bare minimum day10:08 what my “hard day” list looks like14:33 screen time + evening habits in winter21:08 romanticizing winter instead of resisting it23:28 sick season helpers24:12 connection, community & getting through the season💌 LINKS + FULL BLOG POSThttps://victoriaharderxo.com/how-to-deal-with-seasonal-depression-winterOTHER COZY RESET CONTENT:• realistic goal setting for women → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mCwO46w20u8&t=1016s• screen time addiction reset → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPk6EHc0jzE&t=191s🎧 about the podcast:Hot Mess Habits is the podcast for the high-achieving, want-to-be-organized girly who struggles with consistency and traditional productivity advice. we chat habits, routines, cozy resets, and current obsessions for the everyday Type B girl. new episodes every weekcurrent subscriber count: 6875music license: MB01P3LS645GYU1LINKSInstagram: https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxoPodcast Instagram: https://instagram.com/hotmesshabitsTikTok: https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxoSHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxoAmazon CANADA storefront (best gift guides!!): https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvic...💖 about meI’m Victoria — a work-from-home mom, content creator, and routine-obsessed Type B girly living in British Columbia, Canada. Here you’ll find realistic habits, WFH vlogs, cozy lifestyle content, ADHD-friendly routines + mom-life resets.
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  how I’m preparing to thrive in postpartum | wellness habits, meal prep & realistic mom self care 28.01.2026 25p

  let’s chat postpartum 🤍this is all about what postpartum was actually like for me the first time, the mistakes I made, and everything I’m doing differently this time to prepare in a more supportive, realistic way. from meal prep and recovery to self-care, support systems, and slowing down — this is postpartum prep for the wellness-loving, Type B, real-life mom.WELCOMING ALL THE:🤎 mamas preparing for postpartum🧠 adhd / Type B girlies who need realistic systems🍼 first-time moms who don’t know what to expect☕ moms who want to feel supportedwhether you're pregnant, newly postpartum, or reflecting on your own experience, I hope this feels like a cozy, honest chat that helps you feel a little less alone and a little more prepared 🤍timestamps:0:00 why I’m focusing more on postpartum than birth this time3:42 what my first postpartum was really like7:55 going back to work too soon (and how it affected me)11:20 the biggest mindset shift I have now14:05 my postpartum meal prep plan18:30 prebooking pelvic floor physio + recovery support20:40 lounge sets, self-care, and feeling like myself at home24:15 creating nursing + care stations around the house27:10 asking for help & setting expectations with support people30:05 the text scripts + postpartum binder idea32:12 final thoughts for anyone entering this season💌 LINKS + FULL BLOG POSTPOSTPARTUM RESOURCES MENTIONED:• postpartum essentials blog post• postpartum amazon essentials 🎧 about the podcast:Hot Mess Habits is the podcast for the high-achieving, want-to-be-organized girly who struggles with consistency and traditional productivity advice. we chat habits, routines, and current obsessions for the everyday, Type B girl. new episodes every weekmusic license: MB01P3LS645GYU1LINKSInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxoSHOPMY (gift guides, wfh must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxoAmazon CANADA storefront (best gift guides!!): https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoria💖 about meI’m Victoria — a work-from-home mom, content creator, and routine-obsessed Type B girly living in British Columbia, Canada. Here you’ll find realistic habits, WFH vlogs, cozy lifestyle content + mom-life routines.
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  2026 is just getting started: realistic goal setting for women who want more meaning 22.01.2026 28p

  let's chat realistic goal setting for women who want more meaning in 2026this episode is all about gentle goal setting, vision-led planning, and actually creating systems that support your real life. especially if you’re Type B, ADHD, in a new season!WELCOMING ALL THE:🤎 type b girlies🧠 adhd dreamers☕ moms who want realistic goals📅 goal-setters who want more meaning, less pressurewhether you’re planning your entire 2026, setting a few fresh goals, or just craving more direction + clarity, this episode will help you reset in a way that feels goodtimestamps:0:00 why it's not too late / letting go of the January 1st pressure2:56 life update6:44 the dreaming phase: what would your dream life actually look like?12:13 finding your year anchors + non-negotiables13:07 defining your vision + your why14:51 refining your goals so they actually align with your values17:34 creating systems22:30 final mindset shifts to make this sustainable💌 LINKS + FULL BLOG POST:https://victoriaharderxo.com/2026/01/21/realistic-goal-setting-for-women-2026/🎧 about the podcast:Hot Mess Habits is the podcast for the high-achieving, want-to-be-organized girly who struggles with consistency and traditional productivity advice. we chat habits, routines, and current obsessions for the everyday, Type B girl. new episodes every weekmusic license: MB01P3LS645GYU1LINKSInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxoSHOPMY (gift guides, wfh must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxoAmazon CANADA storefront (best gift guides!!): https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoria💖 about meI’m Victoria — a work-from-home mom, content creator, and routine-obsessed Type B girly living in British Columbia, Canada. Here you’ll find realistic habits, WFH vlogs, cozy lifestyle content + mom-life routines.
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  how to do a full digital reset for 2026 (get your life together + stop doomscrolling!!) 14.01.2026 40p

  let's chat how to reset your digital life for 2026 in a realistic, cozy, sustainable way!this episode is all about clearing digital clutter in a way that feels doable — organizing your phone, laptop, inbox, camera roll + more — especially if you're ADHD, Type B, a creative, a mom, or all of the above.WELCOMING ALL THE:📱 digital chaos girlies🧠 adhd brains📓 2026 reset + rebrand lovers☕ busy moms craving less mental clutterwhether you're a content creator, working from home, or just craving less noise + more peace — this digital reset will help you start 2026 feeling more focused, calm & clear.timestamps:0:00 intro: your digital life matters too!!1:45 my digital backstory (aka how I won my first laptop at age 10)5:20 we can't ignore the darker side of the online space8:46 quick wins10:40 home screen detox14:35 phone contacts16:10 camera roll18:50 unsubscribe from emails20:03 social media audit24:06 update all passwords25:14 refresh calendar26:57 in depth camera roll28:08 in depth app look28:54 computer desktop31:03 digital notes32:14 declutter subscriptions34:02 business owners this is for you36:52 systems for 202638:35 personal digital habits💌 LINKS MENTIONED + FULL BLOG POST:https://victoriaharderxo.com/2026/01/14/digital-reset-2026/GETTING UN-ADDICTED TO YOUR PHONE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPk6EHc0jzE&t=229s🎧 about the podcast:Hot Mess Habits is the podcast for the high-achieving, want-to-be-organized girly who struggles with consistency and traditional productivity advice. we chat habits, routines, and current obsessions for the everyday, Type B girl.new episodes every weekmusic license: MB01P3LS645GYU1LET'S HANG OUT:InstagramPodcast InstagramTikTokSHOP W ME:SHOPMY (gift guides, wfh must-haves, mom life faves):Amazon CANADA storefront (best gift guides!!)💖 About MeI’m Victoria — a work-from-home mom, content creator, and routine-obsessed Type B girly living in British Columbia, Canada. Here you’ll find realistic habits, WFH vlogs, cozy lifestyle content + mom-life routines.
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  let’s reset our entire life for 2026 (a realistic guide to actually achieving your goals) 19.12.2025 30p

  let's chat how to reset your entire life for 2026 in a realistic, sustainable way that actually helps you achieve your goals, without extreme routines, toxic productivity or buying a new planner and hoping it fixes everything (guilty hehe)This episode is all about honest reflection, intentional vision setting & setting your focus for habits that work long term, especially if you’re Type B, ADHD, a mom or just overall burnt out by traditional productivity advice.WELCOMING ALL THE:🤎 type b girls🧠 ADHD brains📓 2026 reset + rebrand lovers☕ busy moms who want realistic routinesWhether you’re doing a full 2026 life reset, setting goals for the new year or just looking for a calmer way to plan, this episode will help you slow down and move forward into the new year with intention!timestamps:0:00 resetting for 2026 (realistic + intentional)6:02 the 3 reflection questions you need before goal setting13:28 building a vision for 2026 (not just goals)16:58 using notion for long-term planning + vision22:12 creating routine menus that actually stick25:00 simplifying food + meal planning for real life seasons30:14 final encouragement for a sustainable reset💌 LINKS + FULL BLOG POST:https://victoriaharderxo.com🎧 about the podcast:Hot Mess Habits is the podcast for the high-achieving, want-to-be-organized girly who struggles with consistency and traditional productivity advice. we chat habits, routines, and current obsessions for the everyday, Type B girl.new episodes every weekmusic license: MB01P3LS645GYU1LET'S HANG OUT:My InstagramPodcast InstagramTikTok: SHOP W ME:SHOPMY (gift guides, wfh must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxoAmazon CANADA storefront (best gift guides!!): https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoria💖 About MeI’m Victoria — a work-from-home mom, content creator, and routine-obsessed Type B girly living in British Columbia, Canada. Here you’ll find realistic habits, WFH vlogs, cozy lifestyle content + mom-life routines.
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  20+ wellness habits & products that made my life easier (type b + adhd approved) 10.12.2025 28p

  Today I’m sharing 20+ wellness habits & products that genuinely made my life easier this year — realistic, affordable, Type B–friendly, ADHD-approved things that supported my routines through one of the most chaotic seasons of my life.Wellness doesn’t need to be expensive, aesthetic, or curated to “count.” Some of these are $0 habits, some are small upgrades & some are tools that simply made my everyday feel calmer and easier!WELCOMING ALL THE:🤎 type b girls🧠 ADHD brains☕ busy moms who want simple habits that actually workWhether you try one or all, these are the things that helped me build gentle routines, feel more put together in a year that was very choatictimestamps:0:00 wellness doesn’t have to be expensive2:45 a chaotic year and what actually supported me5:15 tech that made my routines easier14:40 self-care swaps that changed my daily life22:10 creative habits that supported my mental health28:45 daily life upgrades and quick wins💌 LINKS + PRODUCTS MENTIONED: https://victoriaharderxo.com/2025/12/10/realistic-wellness-habits-and-products/OTHER REALISTIC RESET CONTENT:• digital detox habits for overstimulated girlies → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPk6EHc0jzE• how to plan your week *realistic edition* → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=767s🎧 about the podcast:Hot Mess Habits is the podcast for the high-achieving, want-to-be-organized girly who struggles with consistency and traditional productivity advice. we chat habits, routines, and current obsessions for the everyday, Type B girl.new episodes every weekcurrent subscriber count: 5,200music license: MB01P3LS645GYU1LET'S HANG OUT:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxoSHOP W ME:SHOPMY (gift guides, wfh must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxoAmazon CANADA storefront (best gift guides!!): https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoria💖 About MeI’m Victoria — a work-from-home mom, content creator, and routine-obsessed Type B girly living in British Columbia, Canada. Here you’ll find realistic habits, WFH vlogs, cozy lifestyle content + mom-life routines.
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  how to end your year well | 5 habits to prep you for 2026 02.12.2025 29p

  f you’re feeling tired, unmotivated, or tempted to say “i’ll start again in january,” this episode is your gentle reminder that it’s not too late to finish the year with intention!!!i’m sharing 5 cozy *realistic* habits to help you end the year well. this is for the girlies who want to feel grounded, not burnt out as 2026 begins!🤎 this episode is for you if:— you feel like december always disappears in chaos— you’re craving a reset but don’t have the energy to “overhaul”— you want to start 2026 with more clarity and calm— you tend to fall off your habits at the end of the year— you need permission to rest with intention, not guilttimestamps:0:00 why we give up in december11:00 choosing intentional rest vs burnout15:50 decluttering your space17:10 cozy winter evening routines20:50 checking your holiday budget23:56 starting 2026 with intention + reflection🎧 read the blog post to go with this episode: https://victoriaharderxo.com/2025/12/02/end-the-year-well-habits/OTHER REALISTIC RESET CONTENT:• digital detox habits for overstimulated girlies → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPk6EHc0jzE• how to plan your week *realistic edition* → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=767s🎧 about the podcast:Hot Mess Habits is the podcast for the high-achieving, want-to-be-organized girly who struggles with consistency and traditional productivity advice. we chat habits, routines, and current obsessions for the everyday, Type B girl.new episodes every weekmusic license: MB01P3LS645GYU1LET'S HANG OUT:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxoSHOP W ME:SHOPMY (gift guides, wfh must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxoAmazon CANADA storefront (best gift guides!!): https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoria