it's not just you

Episodi

• 'i want more money' 03.07.2026 39min

  today we're talking money, money, money. we've never actually spoken about this topic on the pod before! what do we do when finances our consuming our minds!? how we can be satisfied with what we have and not always be striving for more? we're no experts so have grace as we share some thoughts!
• help! he's living in my head rent free 26.06.2026 22min

  if you’re struggling to work out whether the guy you like is actually giving you vibes back (whilst he’s living in your head rent-free) then this is the episode for you. we know this feeling all too well. but today, we’re also here to bring a little reality check: it's hard but maybe he’s just not that into you.
• my insecurity is killing my friendships 19.06.2026 36min

  todays episode is a vulnerable one as we chat about how our insecurity could be sabotaging and costing us our friendships without even knowing it. we discuss the hidden ways that comparison, insecure thinking and self doubt can create tension and distance with the ones we love most 💔 just to say people, you're not alone if you've sometimes felt like the difficulty in your personal life can seep out and start effecting others - it's not just you 🥺
• why does being a good friend feel like a full time job 12.06.2026 28min

  we all say we want community. we want deep friendships and people who show up for us. but what happens when those same friendships start asking more of us than feels comfortable? in this episode we’re talking about the inconvenience of community. why do our friends' needs sometimes feel overwhelming? how do we balance boundaries with generosity? Join us for a big old chinwag!
• i'm too busy for a relationship 05.06.2026 23min

  can someone please explain how we're supposed to work a 9-5, exercise, see friends & fam, sleep well AND find quality time to spend with our boyfs??? today we're talking about our relationships and the battle for quality time. what does it look like to prioritise your partner when there's so many things competing for your time? join us for a rambly life update on where we're at right now!
• should i argue with my bf in front of my friends? 29.05.2026 26min

  it's not just you who feels like interacting with your partner in front of other people isn't talked about enough! are we gonna be affectionate? are we gonna argue when we're with our mates? what are we gonna do if one of us says something the other completely disagrees with!? 👀 it can sometimes feel like pretty murky waters to navigate so today we're talking all things communication!
• the full wedding debrief (rach is now a wifey) !!! 22.05.2026 39min

  guys rach is now officially a wifey!!! 💍✨ so of course we’ve gotta debrief the wedding day with you!! in this episode we answer all your wedding-related- from how it felt walking down the aisle, to how it feels to be a wife, to what rach would do differently about the day, to trying to save money, to soph’s maid of honour speech, the list goes on! a special episode which we’re excited to share with you 🤍
• thoughts every single girl in her late 20's has had 15.05.2026 35min

  “i’m not attractive enough”, “maybe my standards are too high”, “what if i’ve missed my chance to meet someone?”. if you’re a single girl in your late 20s, chances are you’ve had at least one of these thoughts before – because we definitely have too. in this episode, we’re having an honest conversation about the pressures, comparisons, fears, and expectations that can come with being single in this season of life. today we're simply here to say: it's not just you ❤️
• i'm attracted to him but he's not my type 08.05.2026 28min

  girlssss, grab a cuppa and a sweet treat, this weeks pod episode is a juicy one. today we’re asking the question...should you date someone who’s not your type? can chemistry grow? is having a “type on paper” actually holding us back from potential romantic prospects? join us for honest chats and personal stories as we dive into this weeks topic 🫶
• why does maintaining my adult friendships feel so hard? 01.05.2026 27min

  in this episode we reminisce on the 'good old days' and reflect about how friendships (and specifically friendship groups) change so much as life moves forward and the responsibilities of adult life take over. how do you 'do life' with your friends when you're in a 9-5 or when different groups from different parts of your life are demanding different things from you? 😅
• how to have the best hen do 24.04.2026 42min

  it's time for a big fat hen do debrief!!! in this episode we're telling you everything that happened at rach's hen. how did soph pull the weekend together?! what did we get up to? what are our biggest hen do top tips?! listen along for all the girly vibes as we prepare to get our rach married!
• will i ever get married? 17.04.2026 29min

  if you're in your 20s and surrounded by friends in long-term relationships or getting married, this episode is for you. we’re talking about the rollercoaster of emotions this comes with: joy, comparison, pressure. what do you do when you feel out of sync with the people around you? if you’ve ever wondered whether you’re “behind”, this is your reminder: you’re not alone, and you’re not late!
• i don't know how to comfort my friends 10.04.2026 37min

  comforting a friend isn’t always easy, rightttt! so in this weeks episode, we dive into what it really means to show up for the people we care about.we talk about being the kind of friend who stays through the highs and the lows – being the one who listens without trying to fix everything, who sits in the uncomfortable hard moments, and who doesn’t walk away when the same struggles come up again and again. we all want friends like this in our life but what does it take to be one of these kind of friends to the people in our life? 🫂
• getting into a relationship after being single for so long 03.04.2026 32min

  getting into your first relationship after being single for so long can feel exciting.. & also a little overwhelming at times! in this episode we talk about going from being single to in a relationship and everything that comes with that change. how do you let someone love you when you're used to being independent?! what happens if you miss being single?! we're here to bring some light!
• i wish i could tell my younger self this 27.03.2026 39min

  today we’re getting nostalgic thinking back to our younger years and the things we wish we had known sooner! we’re chatting about everything - from the deep, to the light hearted life lessons we wish we had a big sis to guide us through. what would you back and tell your younger self!?
• i'm in my twenties and i'm worried my friendships aren't going to last 20.03.2026 38min

  it's not just you that wants to have friendships that go the distance. but lets be real guys, sometimes friendships can be haaaaard work 😅 but they are so so worth it, right 🥹 so how do we have friendships that withstand the test of time? the ups and downs, the awkward miscommunications and expectations unfulfilled – we're chatting about it allllll in todays episode.
• i've been rejected and i feel awful about it 13.03.2026 24min

  rejection hurts. whether it’s the guy you like, the dream job you hoped for, or friends leaving you out, hearing 'I don’t want you' can sting. in this episode, we talk about how to face rejection without spiralling. how do we process it in a healthy way and move forward with confidence? rejection isn’t always the end, sometimes it’s the redirection that leads you somewhere better!
• life's too short to not take risks 06.03.2026 32min

  at the start of 2026 we took a HUGE risk and quit our 9-5 jobs to pursue this podcast, eeeeek! it's been a wild journey so far & today we're asking YOU: what are the little thoughts, passions or ‘what ifs’ lingering in the back of your head? maybe you want to learn to dance, to run a race, to start a business, to move city. how would it feel to reach the age 80 and think ‘why didn’t i do something about that dream?!’. listen along for some encouragement to be bold today 🤍
• how do i learn to like my unedited appearance? 27.02.2026 30min

  is natural beauty even natural anymore? in this episode, we’re talking about the way subtle 'micro' treatments, invisible filler, and “undetectable” tweaks have created a beauty standard that just feels unattainable. if you’ve ever looked in the mirror and wondered why you don’t look as 'naturally beautiful as the girls on your feed, this is for you! we need to stop comparing the way we look to other people's 'best versions' of themselves.
• am i where i should be at 27? 20.02.2026 33min

  we have a birthday to celebrate. yes our very own soph has turned 27!!! in this week’s episode, we have an honest, unfiltered chat about how soph is really feeling as she approaches her late 20's. the excitement, the pressure, the comparison, the quiet “am i behind?” thoughts that seem to get louder. we're addressing it allllll. so, to all the 1999 babies turning 27 this year, or anyone questioning life in their 20's – this one's for you. you're not behind, you're right where you need to be.