Sextras

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  From Purity Culture To Polyamory As Patriarchy Resistance (With Courtney Boyer) 27.07.2026 43min

  In this episode, Honey is joined by sex coach and author, Courtney Boyer, to talk about all things purity culture and polyamory.Courtney was raised in purity culture, so we talk about what she learnt about sex and relationships amidst a religious background.She explains how getting into a marriage confirmed everything she thought she knew about sex and relationships, and her journey to realising she was polyamorous, and beyond.We discuss what she has learnt about herself since revealing she's polyamorous, and why women are increasingly having these realisations later in life.You can find Courtney on Instagram, TikTok, and her website. Her books Opened and Not Tonight, Honey are available on Amazon and from local bookstores. As always, you can find Sextras on Substack, Instagram, TikTok, and our website. Email Honey at sextraspodcast@gmail.com, leave us an anonymous message on the website, or DM me with any questions or dilemmas you have.Edited and produced by Honey Jane Wyatt Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  Dealing With Jealousy Is A Skill, Here's How To Become Better At It (With Ally Iseman) 13.07.2026 1h 3min

  We're back to our regularly scheduled(ish) programming! This week on the pod, Honey is joined by relationship coach and founder of Passport 2 Pleasure Ally Iseman to talk all things jealousy in relationships.As author of the upcoming book, For The Love Of Jealousy, Ally has dedicated her work to researching and learning everything there is to know about jealousy. We start the episode unpacking what jealousy is, including the difference between envy and jealousy and if jealousy can be healthy. We discuss how to recognise signs that you're jealous, and what you can do to deal with jealousy when it comes up in relationships (because, spoiler alert, it will!). We also talk about the misconceptions of jealousy and issues with how we talk about it as a society.You can find Ally on Instagram and her website. As always, you can find more of Sextras on Substack, Instagram, TikTok, and our website. Email us at sextraspodcast@gmail.com, leave us an anonymous message on our website, or DM us with any questions or dilemmas you have, or tell us what you want to hear before the end of the season. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  Answering Your LGBTQ+ Dilemmas: From Femme Lesbian Style To Top Performativity 22.06.2026 46min

  For our third episode of Pride month, Honey is joined by relationships editor Daniella Parete to answer your queer dating and sex dilemmas and questions. We advise on everything from being pigeonholed as a top to how to dress as a femme lesbian. Please keep sending us your dilemmas! You can do so on Substack, Instagram, TikTok, and our website. Email us at sextraspodcast@gmail.com, leave us an anonymous message on our website, or DM us.We'll be back next week with our final episode of Pride month, see you then!Produced, hosted, and edited by Honey Jane Wyatt. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  How To Reconnect With Your Sexuality, And Your Anger (With Zoe K) 15.06.2026 38min

  In this episode of Sextras, Honey speaks to Zoe K, a sophrologist and somatic coach ‘for the girls, gays, and theys’. For as long as heterosexuality has been ‘the norm’, queer people have been forced into disconnect with their bodies, which naturally has a knock on effect on confidence. Zoe tells us how sophrology – a blend of meditation, mindfulness, and breathwork – can help us feel in harmony with our bodies during sex again. She shares her experience being neurodivergent and a sex worker, and how those factors can also contribute to disconnect, as well as how breathwork can help get out of your mind during sex.To end the episode, Honey and Zoe discuss how sexuality and being present in your body is a radical act in a world where productivity is championed.Thanks so much for listening. You can find Zoe on Instagram, TikTok, and her website, where there are plenty of links to learn more about sophrology. As always, you can find Sextras on on Substack, Instagram, TikTok, and our website. We want to hear your queer sex and dating stories, dilemmas, and questions. Email us at sextraspodcast@gmail.com, leave us an anonymous message on our website, or DM us on Instagram to get in touch.Produced and hosted by Honey Jane Wyatt. Edited by Leanne Marie Hall. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  Queer Community, Dark Rooms, And Sexual Wellness (With HOWL's Samuel Douek) 08.06.2026 49min

  Happy Pride month! In case it wasn't clear already, we're huge fans of the LGBTQ+ community here at Sextras, so we'll be publishing an episode a week for the rest of the month. This week, Honey talks to Samuel Douek, founder of HOWL, a sexual wellness brand and queer, sex-positive rave. Samuel tells us all about his journey into starting the brand, including why he was drawn to running queer nightlife. We talk about the challenges of running a dark room and marketing a queer-friendly CBD lube in a world where sexual wellness is increasingly censored. Samuel even shares some upcoming launches and changes to HOWL raves to look out for.You can find Honey's favourite lube here, info about upcoming parties here, and follow Samuel and HOWL on Instagram to keep up with what they have coming up.As always, you can find Sextras on Substack, Instagram, TikTok, and our website. We want to hear your queer sex and dating stories, dilemmas, and questions. Email us at sextraspodcast@gmail.com, leave us an anonymous message on our website, or DM us on Instagram to get in touch. Don't forget to leave a review wherever you're listening to support us! It's Pride month, don't let us down (or else...). Produced by Honey Jane Wyatt. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  Does Orgasm Have To Be The Goal? (With Smile Makers Collection's Samantha Marshall) 18.05.2026 1h 3min

  Happy Masturbation May! To mark one of the best months of the year (IMO) we're talking all about orgasms, and whether they need to be the goal during sex or masturbation.To start the episode, Honey talks to our deputy editor, Lucy, about faking orgasms. We discuss how the female orgasm varies from the male orgasm, and why the orgasm rates are different for women in straight relationships versus queer relationships.Honey then talks to Samantha Marshall, head of brand at Smile Makers Collection. Sam explains why the orgasm gap exists, and how that varies between sex and masturbation.We then delve into why women should take their pleasure seriously – both solo and with partners – and how we can approach masturbation more mindfully.You can find Lucy on Instagram and Substack. Smile Makers Collection has 11 incredible vibrators, and a pelvic floor device, and you can find them on Instagram, too.As always, you can find Sextras on Substack, Instagram, TikTok, and our website. Leave us a review (so I can keep getting amazing guests!) or get in touch with us at sextraspodcast@gmail.com with questions, dilemmas, or what you want to hear next.Hosted and produced by Honey Jane Wyatt. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  What It’s Like To Be A Single On Temptation Island S2 With Kai Stone (Duh) 04.05.2026 33min

  If we're at all similar, you'll have been just as obsessed as I was with Temptation Island Season 2. It was the kind of show I had a million questions about: why would anyone go on it in the first place? What is it like to be on the show? Did the cast have any regrets? And, no shade, but the reunion didn't answer most of them. Thankfully, on this week's episode of the podcast I got to sit down with Kai Stone, one of the singles on Temptation Island Season 2 (of 'duh' fame) to talk all about why he went on the show, whether he enjoyed it, and the truth about dating on camera for a reality TV show.You can find Kai on Instagram or TikTok @kaistone808. As always, you can find Sextras on Substack, Instagram, TikTok, and our website. Leave us a review (so I can keep getting amazing guests!) or get in touch with us at sextraspodcast@gmail.com with questions, dilemmas, or what you want to hear next.Hosted and produced by Honey Jane Wyatt. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  Lesbian Labels, Sex Toys, And Beginner Tips (With Katie From Labeless) 20.04.2026 43min

  Happy Lesbian Visibility Week 2026! On this week's episode, I'm joined by Katie, founder of Labeless, a queer sex toy company. Katie tells me all about her latest release (hint: it's a sapphic sex toy) and we jump into why labels are sometimes problematic when it comes to lesbian sex.I ask Katie what kinds of sex toys can be used during lesbian sex, and how beginners or couples can start to integrate sex toys more in the bedroom. Thank you so much to Katie for joining! Labeless is on Instagram or you can shop the full collection here. You can find more of Sextras on our Substack, Instagram, TikTok, and website. Leave us a review or get in touch with us at sextraspodcast@gmail.com with questions, dilemmas, or what you want to hear next.We'll see you in a couple of weeks! If you like reality TV, you'll want to stick around for this one.Hosted and produced by Honey Jane Wyatt Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  Working For A Female-Led Porn Company (With Ersties' Cat) 06.04.2026 1h

  Internet feminism has latched onto a long-contested debate: can you work in porn and be a feminist? In this episode, Honey is joined by Cat, the head of creative, community at education at female-led porn company Ersties, to mull it over.They talk about what it's really like working for a female-led porn company, how it made Cat realise she wanted to date women, what the state of the porn industry is like today, and whether you can really be a feminist and work in porn. You can find Cat on Instagram and Ersties on their free SFW website or paid platform, and on Instagram and TikTok.You can find more of Sextras on our Substack, Instagram, TikTok, and website. Leave us a review or get in touch with us at sextraspodcast@gmail.com with questions, dilemmas, or what you want to hear next.We'll see you in a couple of weeks with our next episode ahead of Lesbian Visibility Day. See you then!Produced and hosted by Honey Jane Wyatt. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  How To Have More Sex (When No One Is) 24.03.2026 44min

  This episode we’re joined by sex and relationships educator, coach, and sexologist, Amari Leigh to talk about how you can have better luck in sex and dating. Everyone’s in a situationship nowadays, and no one’s fucking! (We don’t have to tell you, we’re sure). If you need a little extra helping hand, Amari joins to give us her dating and sex tips.Thanks for listening! You can find Amari on her admin website or her sex coaching website. As always, you can find us on Instagram, TikTok, Substack (where you can find an extended version of this episode) and our website. Get in touch with us there or email us at sextraspodcast@gmail.com with your questions, confessions, or what you want to see next.See you in a couple of weeks with the next episode. Byeeeee.Hosted and produced by Honey Jane Wyatt Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  We Need To Stop Performing Love And Desire 10.03.2026 1h 21min

  Want to win a free sex toy? All you have to do is follow us on Instagram and leave a review of the podcast wherever you're listening or become a paid subscriber to our Substack. For just £6 a month you'll get access to: extended podcast episodes, bonus episodes, exclusive features and essays, biweekly newsletters, and a community chat. Send us a screenshot of your submission to sextraspodcast@gmail.com or our Instagram DMs. Submissions close 31 March. Must be based in EU or UK to enter. A carefully curated post-break-up Instagram profile. A £3.5k wedding videographer. Shit-talking your ex on TikTok. We're obsessed with appearances and (guess what?!) it's impacting our relationships.In the first episode of the series, Honey was joined by relationships editor Daniella Parete Clarke to talk about how we're all policing each others' behaviour. This week Dani comes on the pod again to talk about the flip-side of that: how we're all performing for an imaginary audience.We start the episode by looking at Guy Debord's theory of the spectacle, and how it's showing up in politics, the workplace, our obsession with looksmaxxing, and our sex and relationships lives. We unpack why we can't stop putting on a show on dates, and why it's dangerous to force vulnerability and pleasure instead of just feel it.Thank you for listening! You can find us on Instagram, TikTok, and Substack (where we have tons of articles about sex and relationships and exclusive content), or contact us via our website to get involved in the conversation or tell us what you want us to talk about next.Got a sex/relationship/friendship-related confession or dilemma? Submit it anonymously here and we'll make a whole episode or write an article just for you.In this episode we reference:Guy Debord's The Society of the SpectacleThe inevitable rise of gooning, Cosmopolitan UKThe Good Squad, Harper'sThe relentless rise of impossible male beauty standards, The GuardianThe Unreal Spectacle of Trump's Authoritarianism, NYTI did no work for a year and no one noticed, Leyla Kazim, SubstackThe secret power of oversharing: How saying too much became the key to getting ahead, The IndependentTimothée and Kylie really need you to know they're still together, DazedHinge's D.A.T.E reportTill DVD release do us part: how far will Margot Robbie and Jacob Elordi take their Wuthering Heights showmance?, The GuardianI do? The rise and rise of the absurdly long engagement, The IndependentIs It Just Us? Or Are Engagement Rings Getting Bigger? Cosmopolitan USSince When Did Break-Ups Get So Public?, VogueHosted by Honey Jane Wyatt and co-hosted by Danielle Parete ClarkeMusic by Sacha Puttnam Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  Does Social Media Have A Sex Problem? 24.02.2026 1h 22min

  Not to sound conspiratorial or whatever, but Big Tech doesn't want us to talk about sex on social media. But it's not just sex, and specifically pleasure, that's not allowed. Women's health content, LGBTQ+ issues, and sexual wellbeing is also not allowed – especially not when it's posted by marginalised community.So let's get into it: in this episode we paint a picture of the breadth of digital suppression, and why exactly we all need to be talking about it more. We speak to co-founder of campaign group CensHERship, Clio Wood, about what's happening to women's health content creators, as well as Kalila Bolton, co-founder of sexual wellness and education platform SheSpot, and Amari, a sex coach and virtual assistant, about their experience with having their accounts shadowbanned or paid ads removed.We look at why this censorship is happening and its impact, and ask porn historian Noelle Perdue whether legislating against sexual content online is the most effective approach.Thanks for tuning in, if you enjoy the episode please leave us a review wherever you're listening! Subscribe to our Substack to make sure you never miss an episode or an article, get involved in the conversation, and let us know what you want to hear next. You can find us on Instagram, TikTok, and our website, or get in touch with us via email sextraspodcast@gmail.com with what you want to hear next.You can find more on our guests below:CensHERship on their website, LinkedIn, or InstagramSheSpot on their website or InstagramAmari on Instagram or her websiteNoelle Perdue on her Substack.In this episode, we frequently reference:CensHERship's 2025 White Paper'Algospeak and performing for the alforithmic imaginary' in DazedNoelle's Substack post: 'Are you 18 or over? Are you my mother? Are you my sexy surveillance state?'Contact us with questions about other sources used! Hosted by Honey Jane WyattMusic by Sacha Puttnam Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  WTF Is Kink, Anyway? With Gigi Engle 10.02.2026 44min

  If there's one aspect of sex that's severely misunderstood, it's kink. From 50 Shades of Grey misrepresenting it as being non-consensual and all about pain, to the stigma of openly associating with any kind of desire that's not ✨mainstream✨ it can be a little intimidating to consciously decide to engage in kink for the first time. And not least because there's so much information out there that, as a beginner, it can be easy to feel overwhelmed and wonder if your desires even count as kink at all.Well, never fear, because in this episode we're joined by the wonderful Gigi Engle to discuss everything you need to know about kink as a beginner. We start the episode answering some listener questions (to access more subscribe to our Substack @sextras) before jumping into why we need to talk about kink (hint: because more people engage in it than you realise, and it can be dangerous if you get it wrong!).Gigi tells me about her own journey into kink and explains what a kink actually is, and what it's not (ie. it's not just BDSM and foot fetishes). We look at how power dynamics come into it, and why they're not as scary as they might sound, how to know what kinks you're into, and what the most common kinks, or kink-related fantasies, are.To help you stay emotionally and physically safe when practicing kink, Gigi advises us on how to bring up your kink to a partner, and what steps you can take together before even thinking about exploring it in the bedroom – or wherever else you might want to.Thanks so much for listening! You can find Gigi on her Instagram, website, or Substack, and buy her book from the Common Press or your favourite indie bookshop near you (or Am*zon if you must!). We've changed our name on Instagram to @s3xtrasworld (more on this next episode), but as always you can find us there, on our website, TikTok, or subscribe to our Substack (pretty please!). Don't forget to review us wherever you're listening and we'll miss you until next time 💋. Hosted by Honey Jane WyattMusic by Sacha Puttnam Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  Sexual Confidence and How to Talk About What Turns You On (With Dr Tara) 27.01.2026 44min

  It's no secret talking about sex can be awkward – that is, if you get round to doing it at all. But what with a lack of sex education, the fact that pleasure for women and LGBTQ+ people is basically completely ignored, and not to mention the rise of conservatism, it can be almost impossible to know what to say and how to describe your pleasure. That's where sexual confidence is crucial. This week, we're joined by Dr Tara Suwinyattichaiporn, the dating expert on Channel 4's Celebs Go Dating, host of the Luvbites podcast, and professor of sexual and relational communication to to help us build the vocabulary for talking about sex, desire, and pleasure — but without the cringe, don't worry.We start with a conversation about how sexual confidence shows up outside the bedroom, how it's different from sexual self-esteem, and what you can actually do to feel more confident expressing your desires (hint: practice helps). Dr Tara then talks us through her sexual profile quiz. A part of her recent book How Do You Like It? A Guide for Getting What You Want (In Bed) the quiz offers 16 sexuality 'types' – or rather, practical terms you can use to communicate with your partner. Whether you're new to having sex, exploring your pleasure, or just talking about it with your partner, we're here to offer some hope! With a little time, effort, and introspection, learning how to describe what turns you on is possible, and it can take you from having someone touch nowhere near your clit (not speaking from experience or anything...) to multiple, mind-blowing orgasms. We hope you enjoy the episode. If you want to hear more from Dr Tara, you can follow her on Instagram or TikTok. She has a ton of resources available on her website, and her book is available to buy at major retailers like Amazon, Barnes and Noble (US) and Waterstones (UK). Go check it out!To share your own experiences with talking about sex, you can get in touch with us on Instagram or TikTok, our website, email us at sextraspodcast@gmail.com. Two podcast episodes a month not enough for you? Fairsies, but don't worry – you can subscribe to our Substack for bonus episodes, exclusive articles about sex and relationships, and a subscriber-only chat to get all the tea on our sex and dating lives. ⏩ Had enough of me yapping? Skip to 14m50 to hear my interview with Tara. 📖 For some extra reading, you can find the Cosmopolitan article I mention here (you'll need an Apple News subscription, FYI). Read Sextras Magazine's profile of Dr Tara here.Hosted by Honey Jane WyattMusic by Sacha Puttnam Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  Surveillance Culture Is Impacting Your Dating Life 13.01.2026 1h 20min

  You can run (in circles) but you can’t hide from the panopticon, so of course we had to make our first episode of season four all about how surveillance culture plays out in relationships and sex.If you’ve not heard of the extremely esoteric (joking!) philosopher Foucault, don’t worry – we start the episode explaining exactly what panopticon theory is and why you should care, before diving into how we’re policing each other in every aspect of our relationships.You’ll be thankful to hear it’s not all theory, because we look at examples of panopticism in pop culture, like boyfriends being embarrassing and the Coldplay kiss cam (RIP that CEO) and discuss how this behaviour is slipping into our real lives. From telling our friends their boyfriends suck in group chats, to waiting for them to slip up on social media or IRL so we can cut them off, we’re all becoming cops in our relationships. While some kind of accountability is always needed, especially when it comes to casual dating, we talk about why this rise in surveillance is making us change our own behaviour and how it’s only making things worse for minorities in particular (classic!). We hope you enjoy the episode. We’ll be back with two free episodes each month, but if you want to hear more you can subscribe to us over on Substack @sextras for exclusive advice episodes and access to exclusive features and personal essays all about sex and dating. You can also find us on Instagram and TikTok @sextrasworld, or get in touch with your own experiences or what you want to hear at sextraspodcast@gmail.com. We’ll see you in a couple of weeks with the first guest episode of the season and we can’t wait… dare we say we’ve missed you?!Hosted by Honey Jane Wyatt and guest hosted by Daniella Parete Clarke.Music by Sacha Puttnam. Skip to:2m10: Intro8m22: The panopticon of dating24m37: Gen Z is afraid of being cringe30:20: Helicopter parenting and friend-policing45m: West Elm Caleb and the Coldplay Kiss59m24: How surveillance culture impacts queer relationships1h10m: West End Girl, and how the panopticon upholds systems of power1m19: What to look out for this season (and subscribe to the Substack pretty please!)  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  How Our Attitudes to Sex and Relationships Have Changed 25.03.2025 49min

  It’s been (nearly) five years since we started the podcast and, while we’ve been on a shamefully long hiatus, we thought it would be just about time we reflected on what exactly we’ve learned about sex and relationships.We discuss how our perception of sex, relationships, and friendship have evolved from the start of our 20s to our mid-20s (ew), from going after lots of sex at university for validation and attention, to discovering how sex fits into our lives as adults in evolving relationships.Honey tells us what she has learned through each relationship and breakup since starting the podcast, and her journey from being in a sex-heavy relationship, to celibacy, and eventually re-learning her pleasure. Maria explains how her six-year relationship has changed over the time, and reveals how being in a long-term relationship has impacted her sex life, and her own personal relationship with pleasure.We also briefly discuss how we approach friendships differently now, compared to when we were at uni, and what life should look like in your 20s versus our real life experiences. Finally, we comment on Gen Z attitudes to sex, and how much our sexuality is impacted by broader societal attitudes to sex in culture. Attitudes to sex have changed a lot since we started the podcast, and we're excited (and equally terrified...) by how it's going to evolve for us and, more importantly, for all of you!Thanks, as always, for listening <3. For more content on sex and relationships in your 20s, follow us on TikTok or Instagram @sextrasworld or find our digital magazine and more episodes of the podcast on our website.You can contact us to let us know what you want to hear next on our social media, or at sextraspodcast@gmail.com. We hope you enjoyed and we'll be back soon (?) with another episode.Edited by Maria Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  Relationship Reveal, Adjusting to Living With a Partner & (Finally) Getting Big Girl Jobs 04.06.2024 50min

  Sextras is back! Once again it's been a while but we promise it's for good reason and we get into why in this little catch up episode.We start with the headlines, namely revealing a new relationship, the challenges of living with a partner, moving out of a family home, and the fact that neither of us are unemployed any longer.Honey discusses moving out of her family home for the first time at 24, the shame of still living at home in your 20s and how relationships with your family change once you've moved out.She reveals she has a girlfriend (full 180, all or nothing baby!) and discusses what it's been like having a healthy, committed relationship for the first time as an adult. She also gives some insight into what it's like telling someone you're dating that you have a sex and relationships podcast (lol).Meanwhile, Maria has been living with her boyfriend (now of five years) for over a year so she delves into what sharing a space with a partner has been like, and how it's changed over time. She reflects on whether she's gotten any better at setting boundaries with her boyfriend, especially when it comes to dividing household chores, and putting up with a man's standards of cleanliness.Lastly, they both discuss how they dealt with being unemployed for so long in their 20s; the desperation, shame, and low self esteem (holy trinity) that come with that and our thoughts on finally being employed.Thanks for listening! For more content on sex and relationships in your 20s, follow us on TikTok or Instagram @sextrasworld or find our digital magazine and more episodes of the podcast on our website.You can contact us to let us know what you want to hear next on our social media, or at sextraspodcast@gmail.com. We hope you enjoyed and we'll be back next month with another episode!Edited by Maria Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  Towards A Positive Masculinity (with Ben Hurst) 21.11.2023 53min

  Our masculinity miniseries has been a little negative up until now (we’re aware of it at least!). But this week that all changes because we’re joined by Ben Hurst – activist, educator, and Head of Facilitation and Training at Beyond Equality – to discuss how we can rethink masculinity.As someone who regularly works with young boys in schools, we talk to Ben about what representation boys see of masculinity. In his Ted Talk, notes that boys will be what we teach them to be, so we talk about what characteristics boys currently associate with masculinity and being a man. Because toxic representations of masculinity result in violence, predominantly against women and girls, Ben explains how we can talk to men and boys to help them unlearn the more toxic traits of masculinity and reframe masculine traits to help themselves and those around them.Finally, we end the episode by talking about what boys think is expected of them when it comes to sex, and how sex education and male role models can do better.We hope you enjoy the episode, we’ve wanted to have Ben on since we started Sextras and we’re so happy to have finally spoken to him and learnt from his wisdom. For more of Ben, find out more about Beyond Equality or watch his Ted Talks here:Boys won't be boys, boy will be what we teach them to beWe need to talk to boys about online misogynyAs always, you can find us on Instagram, TikTok and Facebook @sextrasworld, on our website http://sextrasworld.com (http://sextrasworld.com) or email us sextraspodcast@gmail.com (mailto:sextraspodcast@gmail.com). We are now a magazine – for more content about masculinity check out our articles on our website, and you can pitch us your ideas at sextrasmag@gmail.com (mailto:sextrasmag@gmail.com).We’ll be back next week with the final episode of the miniseries — see you then!Produced by Mable ProductionsOriginal music by Sacha Puttnam Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  Unboxing Lovehoney's Advent Calendar & Learning How to Use Sex Toys 17.11.2023 44min

  Christmas could not have come sooner with this episode as Lovehoney has sent us their 24-Day Advent Calendar to try and we’re opening it with their resident sexual wellness advisor, Sarah Tomchesson! We start the episode telling Sarah what we’re experimenting with in our sex lives, before diving into the calendar to find different sex toys, from vibrators, to butt plugs, cock rings and restraints. Sarah talks us through how to use different sex toys in versatile ways, whether you’re a beginner or a seasoned user. We learn a lot about how adaptable different sex toys can be, as well as new ways to incorporate them into our sex lives – by ourselves, and with a partner !Thank you so much to Lovehoney for sending us your 24 day advent calendar. It’s now on sale with 60% off for Black Friday, so definitely go check it out if you’re looking for something exciting to spice up the end of your year! You can find it us on Instagram, TikTok and Facebook @sextrasworld, and find our episodes, plus read lots of exciting articles about sex and relationships, over on our website http://sextrasworld.com. We’ll be back on Tuesday with another episode of our Masculinity miniseries, see you then! Produced by Mable ProductionsOriginal music by Sacha Puttnam Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  A Look Into Male Friendships 13.11.2023 49min

  In the second episode of our Masculinity miniseries, we unpack everything to do with male friendships. While it comes as no surprise to some of us, the fact that men don’t have supportive friendships has been in the news a lot of late, with claims that there’s a male friendship recession and that men are lonelier than ever.After years of wondering what men talk to their friends about, we thought we’d find out for ourselves. In the process, we’ve probably lost all of our (admittedly, very few) male friends by asking them endless questions about their friendships.We start by talking about men’s friendships with other men, and let us say, it really is looking quite dire. We discuss how they make plans, what they do together, what they talk about and, specifically, how they talk about sex and relationships.Our survey on masculinity asked whether masculinity is something we’re attracted to in friends, so we also hear from non-male people how masculinity plays into their friendships, and whether they want to be friends with men. There seems to be a lot of suspicion from all sides towards men and women being friends, so we also ask whether men and women can truly be friends, whether conversations with male friends and female friends are the same and how women often take on a lot of emotional labour from men if they can’t process their feelings. We also ponder the ethics of having male friends when you’re in a (straight) relationship, and how our endless societal programming towards seeking male validation can be wrongly interpreted by our male friends. We hope you enjoy this episode, it’s worth noting we are aware some of these conversations are very binary and heteronormative, and also generalise. This episode is based on our own research and interpretation of that, and we definitely don’t think our findings are true across the board. If you have different experiences with friendship you feel aren’t covered, please feel free to share with us over email sextraspodcast@gmail.com (mailto:sextraspodcast@gmail.com) or you can find us on our website sextrasworld.com (http://sextrasworld.com) or social media @sextrasworld. We’d love to hear your perspective! We’ll be back next week with the wonderful activist Ben Hurst to talk about moving towards a positive masculinity, but in the meantime you can find more content about masculinity over on Sextras Magazine. Produced by Mable Productions Original music by Sacha Puttnam Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.